Devastated by Loss and Heartbreak? This Video is For You

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Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Күн бұрын

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@thematthewhussey
@thematthewhussey 3 ай бұрын
Hey everyone! So beautiful to see how much this video has moved so many of you. Just a note that the link in the video to David’s new book is the wrong link. The right one to go to is amzn.to/3TrLuCF. It’s a powerful and practical guide to moving through grief and loss. My copy is already dog-eared and highlighted. Grab your copy today, I have no doubt it make will a huge impact on you too. ❤
@anitausov5183
@anitausov5183 3 ай бұрын
Hi Matthew, this is absolute gold. Was there more to this video that can be accessed?? Many thanks.
@MaryannNunes
@MaryannNunes 3 ай бұрын
@@thematthewhussey yes I figured that out this man that talks about grief is amazing I have been doing his book really good for me motivational and I love the way he laughs is the maze how he can laugh I'm offended the same thing he has and I still can't laugh very good and be happy but looking for him and learning from him it's amazing thank you
@Bladescool
@Bladescool 3 ай бұрын
The best therapist is a healed therapist. Healed people heal people.
@Davitron_87
@Davitron_87 2 ай бұрын
It's so refreshing to hear someone say that no one's grief is insignificant. I was recently dumped by someone i was with for 3 months. We were really close. I was left so heartbroken and confused when she decided she didn't want me anymore. But also thinking that because it was only a short time, it doesn't mean as much as someone else's pain. Thank your for this. It's allowed me to start accepting my grief as my own. No matter how insignificant it may seem.
@AnimaMundi-vz6hx
@AnimaMundi-vz6hx 2 ай бұрын
It's not about time, it's about the amount of feeling... Sending you warm hugs❤
@skyjordanindustries804
@skyjordanindustries804 Ай бұрын
@@AnimaMundi-vz6hxThank you. It makes me feel that my feelings were/are real, sincere and true despite it being only 11 months 🥺😥😢 that I’m only human and my feelings are valid; it’s hard to control emotions/feeling. But don’t give up, don’t lose hope, we will get through this and stay strong 💪 Prayers have really helped ease my heartaches and reduce the tears.
@kasgo
@kasgo 28 күн бұрын
I feel you, buddy. You do you. And let us all do us. She gave you a great gift. You can now look at your processes through a magnifying glass. Keeping my fingers crossed for you.
@kaoshi_kutie
@kaoshi_kutie 27 күн бұрын
I’m going through this now mine was only 3 months but we were close. We will get through it ❤🤗
@geeta7768
@geeta7768 25 күн бұрын
Sorry to hear that. My experience has been the same. I get the grief. Like a visceral pain.
@miz6229
@miz6229 3 ай бұрын
What we run from pursues us. What we face transforms us.
@josephinefaison5849
@josephinefaison5849 3 ай бұрын
Powerful.
@MaryannNunes
@MaryannNunes 3 ай бұрын
@@miz6229 peaceful
@LoveAndLightForEveryone
@LoveAndLightForEveryone 2 ай бұрын
Absolutely! That’s why it’s so important to face challenges head on in order to overcome and amend them!
@introvertmtunofficial
@introvertmtunofficial 2 ай бұрын
Mercy: You are a being, gentle and kind. You've carried burdens heavy in your mind. No more should you endure such pain. Don't be cruel with eyes that hold no rain. Don't let harshness be your guiding light. Don't trap yourself in a confined state of plight. Don't rub salt in wounds that haven't healed. Don't reopen scars that time concealed. When wounds are dry, don't tear them anew, Creating chasms deeper than the blue. Don't clip your wings with burdens untold. Don't drown yourself in stories yet untold. There's love you need, a love more profound. Embrace yourself, let kindness surround. Compassion's touch, a gentle embrace. Whisper comfort, find a peaceful space. Treat yourself sometimes, a gift so sweet, A fragrant biryani, a citrusy treat. Indulge in coolness, a scoop of delight, Ice cream's embrace on a sunny, bright light. Each day, walk hand-in-hand with the dawn, Let gentle sunlight grace your way on. Explore the world, witness wonders untold, Paint freely, let your colors unfold. Sing off-key, let your voice take flight, Dance with abandon, lose yourself in the night. Do for yourself what you yearn for from another, Let joy bloom, for love deserves no other. May those who cherish you find solace true, Seeing the happiness blooming anew! If you have 3 minutes, come to my channel and watch a beautiful video based on this poem.kzbin.info/www/bejne/o3eZn3evf79nppI&lc=Ugxp9OR6IITeZgIf02F4AaABAg
@tonyamoses9610
@tonyamoses9610 3 ай бұрын
I cannot stop the tears. I didn’t realize that I am grieving the loss of my husband, who is still alive. However, the sudden onset of devastating Parkinson’s, Alzheimer’s and Stage IV cancer has stolen the person I knew and have been married to for the past 38 years. I cannot wait to get the workbook so I can start working through the pain.
@camellia8625
@camellia8625 2 ай бұрын
I hope you and he have good support through this difficult transition
@bwinkle2915
@bwinkle2915 2 ай бұрын
My husband had a virus go to his brain 5 1/2 years ago causing encephalitis at 59. He lost so much of his memory and being with me for 45 years I was able to help. But, he appears to have lost a lot of trust even with me, he is defensive, he gets angry, lack of empathy, mood changes.. it’s almost like he’s living in his own world and surrounds himself with things for himself only pretty much. It was only that a specialist mentioned to me that she thought I might be grieving the husband I once had before his illness. The last six months he had treatment for prostate cancer. Poor bloke. I’ve been with him all the way, but I can’t say it’s been reciprocated. Very difficult to wrap your head around the fact that you’re still in a marriage where you were both so in love, but now to a different person who doesn’t remember how much they valued you. . It was like being hit by a ton of bricks when I realised.
@kasgo
@kasgo 11 күн бұрын
My very dear friend developed schizofrenia at the age of 35. I am grieving the loss of him as if he died. I cried for months as we were very close for 17 years and I really see my old friend gone. I feel you. I am with you. Keeping my fingers crossed.
@tonyamoses9610
@tonyamoses9610 11 күн бұрын
@ Sending hugs, much love and prayers your way.
@vickidavis6966
@vickidavis6966 16 күн бұрын
I am 4 months into the unexpected loss of my 21 yr old son. I am in agony. Thank you for this.
@SuperSHADOWVIRUS
@SuperSHADOWVIRUS 7 күн бұрын
I’m Sorry to hear that I hope you the best in life
@laughterinthedark
@laughterinthedark 3 ай бұрын
I'm going through a really difficult heartbreak. It's like a physical pain
@dyules7686
@dyules7686 3 ай бұрын
Hi, I’m sending you lots of strength, love, selfcompassion and I wish you lots of patience with yourself. You probably want this pain to end. Maybe you wonder when it is going to end. People might tell you “it will get better with time”. I understand that time still has to do its thing and that you are still here, in the now, in this pain. But even here, in the now, in this pain, you are not alone. We might not know each other, but I am cheering you on. One minute after the other. One hour. One day after the other. It WILL get better. Give yourself a hug. Give yourself time. As my mom once said to me when I was going through the worst heartbreak: “One day something will make you smile again. Cherish that moment. It will get better.” You got this. PS. Lots of videos of Matthew also help!!! But you probably already know that since you are here. ❤
@Bakemono10
@Bakemono10 3 ай бұрын
Use it for motivation, turn you into a better person.
@Morriseo94
@Morriseo94 3 ай бұрын
I'd recommend looking up Polyvagal Theory. It helped me a lot and can explain a lot of these feelings
@irisd.7516
@irisd.7516 3 ай бұрын
I’m truly so sorry! 😢 I can relate exactly at this mometnt, too! Going through terrible heartbreak. I know, it’s a pain like no other! It feels indeed just like an unstoppable physical pain, because the same pathways are activated. And it’s very hard to extinguish, it needs time and a lot of self-reflection! One day though, it will start to fade and at some point, become just a distant memory! And then you’ll be able to realize that you were so strong! I wish you a lot of courage! You got this, you’re going to make it! You’ll overcome these moments which only now seem eternal and impossible to change!
@MartinBrunoSar
@MartinBrunoSar 3 ай бұрын
I feel you, you are not alone! Give it time, grieve, accept, feel and have hope. Sending love and prayers ❤️🙏🏼
@lamisschiheb
@lamisschiheb 3 ай бұрын
"you were doing relationships correct, you were doing relationships exactly how you were taught" ❤
@josephinefaison5849
@josephinefaison5849 3 ай бұрын
That statement was scary and true for me.
@livb6945
@livb6945 3 ай бұрын
He didn't say one word I didn't already know. But the big thing for me is his presence. He radiates the truth and acceptance he is talking about.
@jacquelinekabugo-raderson1878
@jacquelinekabugo-raderson1878 3 ай бұрын
This video is for me. I haven't been the same since I lost my sister 💔 Love to you all.
@karenhanson359
@karenhanson359 3 ай бұрын
Please do the work and heal your grief. When my mom was 19 and her sister was 17 they lost my sister in a tragic car accident and had to take her off of life-support. to this day, my mom nor her two brothers can’t even mention her name without crying. It’s so sad to see her entire life impacted because she didn’t have the mental health resources she needed. And this goes without saying, but I’m so sorry for your loss 🥺❤️
@MaryannNunes
@MaryannNunes 3 ай бұрын
@@jacquelinekabugo-raderson1878 how do I deal with my grief from losing my husband after 4 years telling you that every day is really really hard I know he's in a good place because he in heaven he was in a lot of pain so it was understandable after so many years married for 20 years and now I feel alone after 4 years but I have to realize I have to go on there's no turning back the chairs that come and go everyday but it's okay I've been strong grief is the hardest thing to go through really like to write a book on how people feel what's their actions there's no time limit on the grief there's no alarm clock on it either God gave it to us for a purpose the people that passed away for a purpose because God had a plan for them all except that with all my heart ❤️
@jacquelinekabugo-raderson1878
@jacquelinekabugo-raderson1878 2 ай бұрын
@karenhanson359 thank you so much ❤️
@juliet-m31
@juliet-m31 3 ай бұрын
Just like a human works diligently on rehabbing a broken ankle...we need to work diligently on healing a broken heart. What would that look like?! Excercising ( when you don't feel like it) eating healthy when you want to drink tequila, crying when you feel it, cuz you're a human. Forgive people, go to church, discipline yourself, learn a new skill, sport or game. Socialize when you don't want to.. ( baby steps) you will not just get over heartbreak but you will thrive when you realize you're not thinking about it/that person anymore. 💪❤
@skyjordanindustries804
@skyjordanindustries804 Ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏼
@josephinefaison5849
@josephinefaison5849 3 ай бұрын
I feel the same; I realized that I am grieving the loss of people who are still alive. I also have to accept who I am in this moment so my life can flow as I would like it to. Look at it like this: what you are experiencing right now is somehow going to prepare you for something better; just have to do the work. Glory be to God for you and your family will pull through this.
@HopeFaithExpect77
@HopeFaithExpect77 3 ай бұрын
This is timely. Our 13yo family dog is being put down Friday. The saddness is flooding & overwhelming. Connected so much to my mom that passed 3 yrs ago and fiancee that left me 9mos ago. This will pass i know. But this moment. Right now. Crushing. 😢
@dorothyschuster367
@dorothyschuster367 3 ай бұрын
Losing my dogs has always been the greatest pain in my life. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with so much in addition to the loss of your pet.
@amazingjane2703
@amazingjane2703 2 ай бұрын
Your Mom is waiting with open arms for your dog.
@jeenjeanjeen
@jeenjeanjeen 2 ай бұрын
I'm sorry for your loss. Losing a beloved dog is the worst loss I've ever felt in my life, and my heart breaks for others who are going through it too. I hope that one day u can look back on your dog and celebrate his memory instead of being overwhelmed by pain. But for now, feel the pain and cry because that pain is a testament to how much love that was shared.
@sunshine885
@sunshine885 3 ай бұрын
I am so grateful I took David's grief course after losing my husband unexpectedly. It helped me so much. I can say that I've been able to move forward in my life and have found love again.
@josephinefaison5849
@josephinefaison5849 3 ай бұрын
So happy for you.
@MaryannNunes
@MaryannNunes 3 ай бұрын
@@sunshine885 congratulations congratulations on finding love that is special
@monika2470
@monika2470 2 ай бұрын
“No feeling is final” Thank you 🙏
@MaryannNunes
@MaryannNunes 3 ай бұрын
I lost my husband 4 years ago and it's still painful I cannot function my world without him it's hard and it's sad I'm watching this video it will do good for me
@FriendlyTalking2
@FriendlyTalking2 3 ай бұрын
It's a grief to be left , divorce and cheated on. Lost all my dreams and hopes in the future I thought I had. But now going through a divorce.
@progress_over_perfection
@progress_over_perfection 2 ай бұрын
@dyules7686
@dyules7686 3 ай бұрын
About the numbness, I really really relate on a high level. I lost my dad very unexpectedly. Since then, I still don’t really comprehend the loss. And social contact is difficult. I feel disconnected most of the times. And when I am around people, I often feel numb. Why? I tried to understand. Tried to find solutions. Tried to explain to friends and family, but never really found the words. So yes, I also thought there must be something wrong with me. Something that won’t be fixed soon. But thank you David and Matthew, because now I’m just going to feel it. And I’m going to do it perfectly. One day this feeling will change. But right now, I’m just going to be okay with being numb and feeling disconnected sometimes. It’s not easy, but wanting to change this feeling all the time isn’t either. Thanks lots. ❤
@lamisschiheb
@lamisschiheb 3 ай бұрын
Im so sorry you feel that way❤ sending all the love and support.. Your grief will lessen and your life will continue to expend and you will be able to feel like yourself again, maybe a bit changed by this grief, but life can be still good❤
@dyules7686
@dyules7686 3 ай бұрын
@@lamisschiheb Hi, thank you so much for your kindness and the lovely words, that means the world! Sending you lots of love, inner peace and joy. ❤️
@heyjudejwilson
@heyjudejwilson 3 ай бұрын
I have read a lot of David Kessler, especially after my own son died … thank you Matt for sharing this … grief is so individual, so brutal, so wishing some days it was not your child’s life tgat was stolen … but your own … What stood out for me … the facing grief, which I do … I cry and I acknowledge it … but I still keep running away … how do I slow down , breathe and try to move forward .., I’m so thankful for this video x
@DrMortezaChalak
@DrMortezaChalak 3 ай бұрын
Great to hear
@Yearningartisan
@Yearningartisan 3 ай бұрын
I feel pain in every single cell of my body. This heartbreak is the worst and the most painful thing that has ever happened to me.
@laughterinthedark
@laughterinthedark 3 ай бұрын
@@Yearningartisan I'm going through the same.
@jessicamccauleyjessmoveit720
@jessicamccauleyjessmoveit720 3 ай бұрын
Same. Let it come and let it go and allow yourself to feel all the different emotions that come
@MaryannNunes
@MaryannNunes 3 ай бұрын
@@Yearningartisan me too I hope everything is going good for you it is hard to lose a one that you love just anyone it's hard we can get through this we're survivors
@pekkalaitinen8769
@pekkalaitinen8769 2 ай бұрын
I'm going through it too. Second day since realizing it is 1000% over. My saving grace is I've gone through this before and survived to the other side. I know how much it will hurt for the next months, but we will get through it, even though it certainly doesn't feel like it's possible right now. Time is your friend. Time, physical exercise, talking with friends and/or family or professional help. You need to trust that the pain will stop.
@skyjordanindustries804
@skyjordanindustries804 Ай бұрын
@@pekkalaitinen8769I 100% agree. The more I take the time to care and focus on myself along with prayers 🙏🏼 everyday and night …my heartache are slowly being eased 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 I still have tears being shed but it’s slowly making me feel lighter and lighter inside. The waking up in the middle night still occurs but no longer with tear. Time and faith will slowly but surely lend its healing hand ❤️‍🩹🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@Asher22222
@Asher22222 3 ай бұрын
Watching this today and buying David’s workbook, was my birthday gift to myself today. Thank you David and Matt for all that you do. ❤
@clairegabaldon
@clairegabaldon 3 ай бұрын
I had the privilege of being at this session with David & Matthew at the live retreat and it was very powerful. David is incredibly compassionate, wise and has an endearing sense of humor 💗 I’m excited to receive his workbook in October!
@karenbelaski1294
@karenbelaski1294 3 ай бұрын
This was so intriguing and made me want to dig deeper into my grief. I'm grieving hard right now and the life and partner I thought I was going to have and it's so painful to accept. I'll be getting this workbook. Thank you, Matthew, for this segment ❤
@kendrar3072
@kendrar3072 3 ай бұрын
I found David when searching YT for some comfort after my dog passed 3 years ago. ❤ such a warm soul.
@orielwiggins2225
@orielwiggins2225 3 ай бұрын
David has long been one of my favorites since I found him a decade and a half ago. And this interview is precisely why. Thank you so much for sharing this with the public.
@JuliaEkwall
@JuliaEkwall 3 ай бұрын
Wow. That absolutely moved me to tears! I’m so grateful to be in such a happy and healthy relationship, but this episode reminded me to forgive and give grace to my younger self for mistakes I made in previous relationships. Ideally we’re constantly learning and growing in life! Thank you for sharing, Matthew!
@PixiSpark
@PixiSpark 3 ай бұрын
I know it sounds bad but i'm going through the kind of heart break and trauma caused by such a gentle person that sometimes i think if he had physically hurt me it would still hurt less than this.
@skromnyasha
@skromnyasha 3 ай бұрын
Oof, I get you completely. I wish my person was worse so that letting go of him would be easier and less painful. But he just broke up with me and that's it. Just a conscience choice of not wanting me and its fucking devastating to the hell and beyond. You can't blame him you can't do anything but just accept the reality that rips you to shreds
@PixiSpark
@PixiSpark 3 ай бұрын
@@skromnyasha I was the one who broke up because I couldn’t deal with the constant cheating manipulations that was behind the seemingly perfect man who was kind caring and gentle and yet I found myself crying at nights. I love him so much that I cannot move on but hurt so bad that I don’t even want to see him
@Live-Love-Laugh-Again
@Live-Love-Laugh-Again 3 ай бұрын
Oh my gosh, yes it would absolutely be better than just getting shut out.
@RoyalPineapple-dk2vg
@RoyalPineapple-dk2vg 3 ай бұрын
@@PixiSpark Love yourself more now, you already did the hard part of letting go a cheater/liar. You are the kinder, caring more gentle person and for that, you are the loyal one…the loser (Lose-the-guy and fast) had no integrity or actual loyalties, no caring. You deserve better. You are mourning the dreams of what could be, not the person you let go, find better dreams, you deserve the best! There is still more life to live and enjoy as a single or as a couple should you wish to try again.
@PixiSpark
@PixiSpark 2 ай бұрын
@@RoyalPineapple-dk2vg your words mean the world during this difficult time for me. Thank you. I am keeping my distance and seeking therapy to get back up again and improve myself in silence. 🤞 it's a battle every morning but I'm hanging in there
@babbaruff1045
@babbaruff1045 Ай бұрын
I ended a relationship with such a good person and honestly the guilt and sadness over his suffering is killing me. I just can't get past it and hate myself 😒
@GR-rk2fi
@GR-rk2fi 3 ай бұрын
Thank you, Matt, for bringing in this wonderful man. I am so moved, so touched and I checked out more of him and the heartbreak video you did with him and it was the most valuable inpact I have had in many months. And, thank you life, exactly when I needed it most as I grieve my mothers death, my last relationship and old trauma. You two together are most wonderful, too. You both restore my faith in men. I am beyond thankfulness and send you both so much love, love, love. Thank you.
@MartinBrunoSar
@MartinBrunoSar 3 ай бұрын
Reminder to breathe ❤️
@bettydavis2873
@bettydavis2873 Ай бұрын
Wow....he truly is amazing...I laughed and cried throughout. It is all helpful on the healing journey that I am going through....thank you David Kessler and Matthew Hussey. It was truly inspiring. xxx
@davidbrett1958
@davidbrett1958 2 ай бұрын
The woman I thought was my soul mate just turned cold on me how can somebody that loved me so much just turn so cold like I don't exist and leave me broken I can't even eat nor sleep the pain is so unbearable I the pain is incredibly debilitating
@shirlene2911
@shirlene2911 Ай бұрын
I’m with you
@lindacoyle1554
@lindacoyle1554 3 ай бұрын
One of the best books I have ever read was “Life Lessons” by David Kessler and Elisabeth Kubler-Ross! It’s a road map on living your life. I recommend this book to any and everyone. I have dog-eared and underlined so many passages in this book, it becomes a yearly read to put life on track.
@dee_zm
@dee_zm 3 ай бұрын
Just broke up with the man I super loved. Just knew he NEVER really loved me, nor did he care💔 He was still in love with his ex.
@Em82star
@Em82star 2 ай бұрын
I’m going through the exact same thing. It’s so painful, I’m physically and emotionally exhausted. Somehow we will make it through 🙏🏼
@dee_zm
@dee_zm 2 ай бұрын
@@Em82star same here. Virtual hug 🫂 ❤️ we deserve better!
@itsjustme9354
@itsjustme9354 2 ай бұрын
Ditto! 11 months on still grieving and won't leave my mind 11 months still on my mind a lot of the time everyday even though he left me 11 months ago and we never made contact again. Its weird the relationship was doomed from the get-go lasted 9 months but glad he broke it off we weren't meant for each other . The grief has to stop soon ​@@Em82star
@startingfromscratchwithmaria
@startingfromscratchwithmaria 2 ай бұрын
My ex just broke up with me for the 4th time in five years. He has been in love with ex the whole time too.
@dee_zm
@dee_zm 2 ай бұрын
@@Em82star it isn’t easy but this will make us stronger and wiser. We deserve better! Virtual hug 🫂 ❤️
@RachelAnn777
@RachelAnn777 3 ай бұрын
I was at this retreat…to be here and take it all in, David was a special highlight of this retreat and I am forever grateful ❤. Matthew I sincerely appreciate all you did to make this retreat magical and memorable. I was honored to meet you, your family and staff. I appreciate everything you do every day, God Bless!
@TheTravelVal
@TheTravelVal 3 ай бұрын
Pre-ordered! This session was extremely powerful and moving. Thank you for asking such amazing questions and sharing this ❤
@lisalove1491
@lisalove1491 3 ай бұрын
This is such divine timing. Bless you. The love of my life just broke up with me a week ago and I literally said - i am devastated. i am so grateful for these new videos you are posting. so so so grateful.
@HooieBones3
@HooieBones3 3 ай бұрын
What a wonderful guest! His presentation is outstanding. I love his sense of humor. I could listen to him all day. What’s more, he is relevant for every generation.
@jasminaloulova9202
@jasminaloulova9202 3 ай бұрын
Better than feeling, ACCEPT REALITY and make peace with it.
@SuzanneO707
@SuzanneO707 3 ай бұрын
Profound & life affirming , thankyou for posting.
@Kredka66
@Kredka66 3 ай бұрын
I just found out that my ex husband is getting married 😢 It hit me hard as we tried to get back together only a year ago and was dating. He decided that it was too early for him and now he is engaged. I am dying 😢😢😢
@cherylmarshall6874
@cherylmarshall6874 3 ай бұрын
Hugs 🫂
@davidbrett1958
@davidbrett1958 3 ай бұрын
Your not dying it's a feeling and feelings will change and you will be okay
@RoyalPineapple-dk2vg
@RoyalPineapple-dk2vg 3 ай бұрын
So sorry to hear of your pain but take great care of you first!! There is still more Life to Live and with Joy!! Think about anything else but the Ex. He's an 'Ex' for a very good reason and if you would one day still want someone else in your life, don't look back, look forwards instead. You can't do both is why...GREAT THINGS AHEAD. You are probably mourning the lost of your dreams and not the Ex, make new, better dreams. Make yourself responsible for your happiness, take charge, don't let someone else rain on your parade. Please keep going, have a better life that you can have with or without someone else. You deserve to BE HAPPY!! We all started out as singles once and some of us are still single, still happy...yes, I know it's painful but we all have to keep going!! You are Amazing too and have always been Amazing !! -- don't forget that! Best always to You!! Cut it off all contact if possible (no children in common) and do not think of the Ex, Heal and Live HaPpY! You have more Sweet Dreams to make and do!!!
@laughterinthedark
@laughterinthedark 3 ай бұрын
@@Kredka66 sending you lots of love and hopes of recovery
@skromnyasha
@skromnyasha 3 ай бұрын
Dodge a bullet believe me🙏 remember that he's an ex for a reason
@1962Janine
@1962Janine 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this video, it helps me so much with grieving the loss of my sister 2 weeks ago.❤ Janine from The Netherlands
@anweshabarua1000
@anweshabarua1000 3 ай бұрын
My 8.5 year relationship ended in January and I wish I could say I've healed. I have a lot of trauma related to his infidelity, betrayal, emotional abuse and then abandonment. I have trust issues and baggage that I want to solve before bringing those issues to the next relationship, whenever that happens.
@unlovabl
@unlovabl 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for posting I am going through it currently.
@Evangelia2024
@Evangelia2024 3 ай бұрын
Oh my God Matthew, bless you for sharing this!!!! 🙏
@introvertmtunofficial
@introvertmtunofficial 2 ай бұрын
Mercy: You are a being, gentle and kind. You've carried burdens heavy in your mind. No more should you endure such pain. Don't be cruel with eyes that hold no rain. Don't let harshness be your guiding light. Don't trap yourself in a confined state of plight. Don't rub salt in wounds that haven't healed. Don't reopen scars that time concealed. When wounds are dry, don't tear them anew, Creating chasms deeper than the blue. Don't clip your wings with burdens untold. Don't drown yourself in stories yet untold. There's love you need, a love more profound. Embrace yourself, let kindness surround. Compassion's touch, a gentle embrace. Whisper comfort, find a peaceful space. Treat yourself sometimes, a gift so sweet, A fragrant biryani, a citrusy treat. Indulge in coolness, a scoop of delight, Ice cream's embrace on a sunny, bright light. Each day, walk hand-in-hand with the dawn, Let gentle sunlight grace your way on. Explore the world, witness wonders untold, Paint freely, let your colors unfold. Sing off-key, let your voice take flight, Dance with abandon, lose yourself in the night. Do for yourself what you yearn for from another, Let joy bloom, for love deserves no other. May those who cherish you find solace true, Seeing the happiness blooming anew! If you have 3 minutes, come to my channel and watch a beautiful video based on this poem.kzbin.info/www/bejne/o3eZn3evf79nppI&lc=Ugxp9OR6IITeZgIf02F4AaABAg
@Mytown2024
@Mytown2024 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for bringing David Kessler, I love his work ❤️. I also had the privilege of watching that previous interview and it was incredible ❤ I love you both work ❤❤
@markpatrick5246
@markpatrick5246 Ай бұрын
i cared for both my parents for 10 yrs - my dad died in 2018 and i grieved and lived well and went quickly into caring for my mom - those were the most loving years of my life(she was my best friend) - she died in march 2023 and i fell into a deep deep grief with severe ptsd depression anxiety - ive had these conditions prior to moms death but manageable with running, prayer, therapy and love of my parents - now being alone in life and not having my parents love anymore, its caused terror and ptsd symptoms - 20 months of trying to heal with therapy and various psych treatments but nothing helping.....its brutal
@saltaba321
@saltaba321 3 ай бұрын
Hello Matthew, I really enjoyed the video, especially after the first one, where he talks about the unattended grief and how the audience could see you trying to hide emotions. I'm happily married for 7 years and with my partner for more than 11 years now and I still enjoy your content. Especially because you speak also about other things, such as "loss" of anything, not "just" love and I can relate to your chronic pain journey.
@Ingrafre
@Ingrafre 3 ай бұрын
More from David, please! It was brilliant!
@rutibso5225
@rutibso5225 3 ай бұрын
David is awesome.. thanks for the video Matthew
@shaziachoudhry909
@shaziachoudhry909 2 ай бұрын
Mastthew, it was scuha mind blowing but socling session. I hav just ordered two of his differnet books on grief adn healing, in addition ot the workbook you mentioned. I have always beleived in greiving, but David has the gifted art of making it sound and feel real, beautiful and your own to embrace with love and grace. Thansk really for yet another amasign guest speaker session @Matthew and for spilling golden beans of grief, @David Kessler.
@robbertwww
@robbertwww 2 ай бұрын
This is a masterpiece
@michellejankelow2155
@michellejankelow2155 2 ай бұрын
Matt and David. Thankyou , thankyou for your most profound and super video . Your words certainly resonate and a few days after burying my 34 year old son 😢 , your words brought comfort and made oh so much sense .... I feel suffocated by grief , but what to feel and elevate his magnificent soul ..🙏🙏🙏🔯 I would be super privileged to learn and follow your poignant and profound messages ... Thanks Michelle .
@Jadwiga-r1e
@Jadwiga-r1e 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for both videos❤️❤️❤️. I read David Kessler's book on Grief and Grieving written with Elizabeth Kubler-Ross and it helped me so much with understanding grief. Thank you for sharing these conversations with us❤️❤️❤️.
@EdelweisSusie
@EdelweisSusie 2 ай бұрын
The love of my love abandoned me (after a 5 year relationship) without notice or explanation - one day we were together, the next day he was gone, never to be heard from again. (He was in deep financial trouble and I'm guessing the bailiffs were coming to call and he didn't want to admit he'd lied to me all those years - so he ran). His actions destroyed my life. I have been in a 25-year depression ever since and have lost all my trust in men. I will be alone forever - all because of one man.
@Mia-gu4qh
@Mia-gu4qh 3 ай бұрын
Wow i loved this, his words are so insightful and wise! I’m definitely going to get his work book now. Thanks for sharing this resource!
@jenlt5125
@jenlt5125 3 ай бұрын
Thank you matthew your videos have inspired me to do better 🎉
@liliansyokau8583
@liliansyokau8583 2 ай бұрын
My boyfriend broke up with me after 3months of bliss😢, i loved him so much. Am taking each day as it come
@kendraflips2413
@kendraflips2413 2 ай бұрын
This video is profound and so very helpful. Thank you for sharing it
@davidnorman2134
@davidnorman2134 2 ай бұрын
I honestly dont ever want to love again in this life. Everyone i love, always leaves always its 100% for sure
@PureMagma
@PureMagma 3 ай бұрын
David Kessler clearly understands "The Work" by Byron Katie. I highly recommend her trainings to everyone who seeking healing. 🙏🏼😇
@karenroos8377
@karenroos8377 2 ай бұрын
Grief and heartbreak are the only things in my vocabulary right now. I can’t eat or sleep. Putting so much love and pouring gut wrenching amounts of just pure honest kindness and to be used and treated horribly is unimaginably painful. I was just left after I put my heart and soul into someone to even take all of our friends with. I just don’t know how I can do it.
@EC-mh5ss
@EC-mh5ss 2 ай бұрын
Going through the same thing right now. Super painful for sure, but we will get through this. You got this, and please don’t forget to take care of yourself.
@angelayen5227
@angelayen5227 3 ай бұрын
I lost my partner and going through a break up now. Getting this work book
@JaneGross-g6b
@JaneGross-g6b 2 ай бұрын
Excellent talk! Thank you!
@debbiebramwell
@debbiebramwell 3 ай бұрын
Jesus is the only one who can truly heal us. I can testify to this. 🥰🙏🏽
@eileenstuffs
@eileenstuffs 3 ай бұрын
Just preordered the book and signed up for the class. ❤
@serendipitousmoments
@serendipitousmoments 3 ай бұрын
Wow Brilliant!!!! So many great insights!!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤
@Jack-oz7wb
@Jack-oz7wb 3 ай бұрын
Loved this. Thank you!
@YoukoHamuchi
@YoukoHamuchi 3 ай бұрын
this format really suits me
@jonesdaevilone
@jonesdaevilone 3 ай бұрын
I lost my first partner to suicide. It's been 15 years and I just had breakup. Just another breakup in a long line of them and this one got me.. hit harder than losing Jenna and I don't know why
@kerstinazhao1431
@kerstinazhao1431 3 ай бұрын
:'( I need this.
@annaholden2406
@annaholden2406 3 ай бұрын
🌟 thank you so much 🙏
@1234Explorer
@1234Explorer 3 ай бұрын
Thank you both!
@Beth1300
@Beth1300 3 ай бұрын
That was incredible! David is amazing. Would you recommend we read his other book first - the five stages of grief - or just go straight to his newest book? I'm working with a lot of loss through bereavement as well as finding out the person I love had been cheating on me most of the time we were in a relationship. This video has come at a great time for me.
@bumblebee_ms
@bumblebee_ms 3 ай бұрын
This blew my mind!!!
@ingunnredheadroald6154
@ingunnredheadroald6154 3 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@MaryannNunes
@MaryannNunes 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for this video
@MaryannNunes
@MaryannNunes 3 ай бұрын
Awesome awesome awesome
@davidnorman2134
@davidnorman2134 2 ай бұрын
Why grieve when your for certain to lose more, over and over and over it never ends
@nr5919
@nr5919 2 ай бұрын
Very useful video
@scottallen3932
@scottallen3932 3 ай бұрын
Needed to see this thank u
@fpagidas
@fpagidas 3 ай бұрын
Excellent !!!!❤️❤️❤️
@srijanashrestha9457
@srijanashrestha9457 2 ай бұрын
That man who used me three years to overcome from rough days today cheated on me. Its too hard me to accept this coz for him i lost everything. I tried to communicate now and again but he is declining blaming me. How i stay silent when he has burnt down me. The pain is really unbearable. I dont how i heal or what i need to do
@itisalright2785
@itisalright2785 2 ай бұрын
Excellent.
@davidnorman2134
@davidnorman2134 2 ай бұрын
Heart break is all i know im not interested in healing im interested in loving and living to thine ownself be true
@user-vh3gn3xq7s
@user-vh3gn3xq7s 2 ай бұрын
Ugh I resist my grief so much. Its too much pain and my heart cant take anymore pain. Im really tired
@seancampbellmusic
@seancampbellmusic 7 күн бұрын
Where can I get the full discussion
@FrancaGarro
@FrancaGarro 3 ай бұрын
really liked this video
@anna-u8q1q
@anna-u8q1q 7 күн бұрын
I wish it will all be finished so i can move on😭
@ginger96963
@ginger96963 3 ай бұрын
I am living through the hardest time of my life. Recently, I started having panic/anxiety attacks and they feel similar to a heat attack. my chest is so tight and hurts, I ant breath and I cry but sob so hard that no tears come out. I came to KZbin and this video really helped me. I feel so broken and like im everything im doing is wrong and to hear that I am "doing it right" based on what I was taught was comforting. I want to unlearn.
@PCentofanti_TrueSourceHealing
@PCentofanti_TrueSourceHealing 3 ай бұрын
When is your next event in Ft. Lauderdale
@dianedorney5147
@dianedorney5147 3 ай бұрын
Fabulous....
@tinalephart2141
@tinalephart2141 3 ай бұрын
How can I download the transcript from this video?
@MahomiMutou
@MahomiMutou 3 ай бұрын
best!!!
@janereinhardt4715
@janereinhardt4715 2 ай бұрын
I actually didn't understand David. Too ethereal for me, i guess. Oh well. I am sure he is great & his message is understood by many others though!
@annalipska7666
@annalipska7666 Ай бұрын
He's sent a lot of messages, f.e. you shouldn't try to block your pain, it's better to accept it and to go deeper inside your pain and try to explore it. Through this pain you can better understand yourself, feel your limits and it brings also a kind of transformation. He also said, that there are lots of opportunities for healing, every situation, every person you meet can help you to heal. It's so true! And we also should learn to be kind to ourselves. And you should remember: it will get better!
@judithpool8177
@judithpool8177 3 ай бұрын
Unbeliwvable.v
@steve_haygood
@steve_haygood 3 ай бұрын
💔
@carollorin8680
@carollorin8680 3 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@suzannelangdon6290
@suzannelangdon6290 3 ай бұрын
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