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Life Tak

Life Tak

10 ай бұрын

Life takes an unexpected turn for Ritika and Adesh when the couple gets into a fight over a financial matter. An argument over money gets further intensified into a huge fight that leaves Ritika with no other option but to make a choice. A choice that leaves everyone shocked including husband Adesh. What did Ritika do? Watch the full video to find out.
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@Shwetank24
@Shwetank24 10 ай бұрын
Abuse is not only physical it's mental as well.
@pvskrao
@pvskrao 8 ай бұрын
abuse may be from either spouse
@DCM2463
@DCM2463 10 ай бұрын
The message is very clear. Neither of the spouse should tolerate abuse. You may have disagreements and arguments but pushing,shoving, physical, verbal, mental or emotional abuse is not ok. The wife in this case tried to work it out but he was not willing for therapy or marriage counseling. In order words women have been accepting this behaviour for far too long mainly because many are without education or without a job or no family support. But things are changing and I am glad more and more women are taking a stand.
@asmasyed3073
@asmasyed3073 10 ай бұрын
Amazing just love the concept it is wonderful to leave such kind of spouse.
@gunjangarg8530
@gunjangarg8530 10 ай бұрын
It’s high time to openly talk about this issue.
@sushmasareen4019
@sushmasareen4019 10 ай бұрын
Don't understand why people still consider divorce bad...the bottom line is live with dignity and let the other person also live the way he wants to...
@somnathbanerjee_2922
@somnathbanerjee_2922 6 ай бұрын
In my opinion, Leaving is very easy but according the defination of Love which I know, rather than leaving, one who can stay with such person even if he is not anymore in the correct path and again helping them to come back again in the right track or in simple words, correcting their mistakes rather than leaving them is what the actual meaning of "Love" is for me. Because Leaving is easy. Everyone remains with u when u r nice and benefit them but will immediately leave if they don't get good thing from u it's the hard truth even if ur own Partner. It feels a bit selfish for me. If we see from other angle then one who is so called "toxic" they themselves are also suffering from inside Because one who are happy and fit mentally won't behave in such way. So, helping them come out of that is what "True" love means for me. If there's no love between two but merely a "Relationship" or "Follwing a Rule of Society" or "Completing the formalities of life" then certainly they may leave but I think and see everything in a different way so for me atleast this is what I believe in.
@somnathbanerjee_2922
@somnathbanerjee_2922 2 ай бұрын
@reks1710 Oh! So, What is the use of having life partners if they can't handle their Partner's feelings or their bad/Weak side ?? Only to sit in the shoulder of Men and Eat or to Make Women do the duty of a maid, To take Dowry and Alimony. That's it ?? Why shouldn't we adopt a Dog rather ?? They are much more responsible than these stupid woke Partners. They know better, How to love. Better to live and die alone than having such useless partners. Such woke Partners are nothing more than a burden. Shameless.😡😡
@usha26
@usha26 10 ай бұрын
The same thing happened with me and i left my husband and came out. I hv applied for divorce,and u know what my case got dismissed only for the reason my suffering has no documentation. This is what happens in our country. Nice story and good u are spreading awareness. Thank you ❤
@anshikawasthi
@anshikawasthi 10 ай бұрын
So glad to hear this. It was really brave of you to leave the toxic marriage. Thank you for sharing this with us! ❤️🫶
@medhakulkarni2542
@medhakulkarni2542 10 ай бұрын
Totally agree with *HER*.This kind of behaviour should never be accepted !!.
@sl5191
@sl5191 10 ай бұрын
Happy that you took the step. I understand about the court scenario having dealt with it myself. It took me 8 long years. You will get through too. All the best.
@mogleesh-22
@mogleesh-22 10 ай бұрын
Divorce is necessity in toxic marriage. Help yourself guys. Earlier the better. 🙏
@nkav868
@nkav868 10 ай бұрын
Srishti is soo good cast for this role..... I really like all the short films in which she has done wonderful marvellous roles..... amazing talent, her body language and emotions are best suited as per the role.
@anshikawasthi
@anshikawasthi 10 ай бұрын
This made my day! Thank you so much. ❤️🫶🤗
@neelamrana5259
@neelamrana5259 10 ай бұрын
The last dialogue was so true Because women has no options so they adjust and adjust and society says she is managing but in real she is killing herself slowly slowly
@sarahliz2593
@sarahliz2593 10 ай бұрын
Yes and if children involved next generation of scarring.....
@CA.knowledge
@CA.knowledge 8 ай бұрын
Women has options.. If she is educated enough she can live independently
@aishwaryasingh-wp9dx
@aishwaryasingh-wp9dx 10 ай бұрын
Har aurat aise decisions nahi le sakti hai women ko emotionally, psychologically, financially independent hona hoga tabhi wah abusive relationship se out ho sakti hai..gents apna psychological treatment karane mei beizati samajhte hain ..nice message 👍👏👏
@prachigl5563
@prachigl5563 10 ай бұрын
Ritika and Adesh are reallly good actors . They depict the enotions so welll . Kudos to Team Life tak . ❤
@dmathew0077
@dmathew0077 10 ай бұрын
I dont think this was a good message ....she directly thought about divorce after just asking her husband once to go for a therapy. Its not good to tolerate abuse but she dint have proper conversations with him also after being pushed.She could have tried to ask what is bothering him why he changed nothing was shown here ......before taking a decision like that of seperation you should try to communicate with your partner even more becadse behind every anger and irrtation there could be a reason with love and care from the partner he or she can open up to eachother. Actors did a good job nicely protrayed the emotions.
@straw-berry_2day.
@straw-berry_2day. 9 ай бұрын
Again same comment...why is it her job to be his rehabilitation centre? He's old enough to know that abuse is wrong, and anger is no excuse. And he didn't even bother apologizing. She had every right to do what she did.
@mercymelba2237
@mercymelba2237 10 ай бұрын
Earlier marriages lasted long coz women would tolerate a lot. Now that they have their own jobs and are independent they seek mutual understanding and involvement of their spouse in household management. It all boils down to this; Everyone deserves love and respect regardless of their gender or job. Men should be taught to take responsibility too to keep a family together.
@rst700
@rst700 10 ай бұрын
But the Independent women end up getting screwed by many men..
@-zeusalmighty-2812
@-zeusalmighty-2812 10 ай бұрын
@@rst700keep getting screwed
@DrRohiniM
@DrRohiniM 9 ай бұрын
​@@rst700screwed??? As in
@Abubakr466rakha
@Abubakr466rakha 10 ай бұрын
Honestly speaking it's better to not be in a marriage or a relationship then to be in this we should start seeing more and more wanting to just live a single life.
@jiya14325
@jiya14325 10 ай бұрын
“Beauty cannot change the beast. Why do women believe their love can change a man? That staying means they didn't fail. Wish they could take their broken wings and fly.” ~ Made in Heaven season2
@mogleesh-22
@mogleesh-22 10 ай бұрын
Yeah ki|| the beast everytime you see. Don't compromise ever. 👍
@prakashnagraj2449
@prakashnagraj2449 2 ай бұрын
Women's are not saint too,. They also commit domestic violence
@ruchimahajan2601
@ruchimahajan2601 10 ай бұрын
Sometimes we know that we are with the wrong person but the love from our side and the habit of living with that person, doesn't let us take any decision. Every girl is not strong enough to take decision
@anshikawasthi
@anshikawasthi 10 ай бұрын
Happens! But it's important to be strong enough to make hard choices. In the end, it's just you and nobody else. 🤗
@BenDerma
@BenDerma 10 ай бұрын
Always choose yourself. Prioritise you ❤❤❤❤
@neha_jain1005
@neha_jain1005 10 ай бұрын
Is it better to alone if women is not independent, so i would like to say be independent not for survival, just independent and move on for yourself... ❤
@chinnaramechchinakathegalu4443
@chinnaramechchinakathegalu4443 10 ай бұрын
My husband used to abuse me physically by beating pushing ,,, beating my head and mental harassment was also der I almost thought I am going to die ..and one he beat me up n such a way I couldn't see with my right eye for 1 hour then I got divorce...now iam at peace my family members not suporting told me u could have tolerated ... because f u we lost respect n society everything but I am very happy for myself....Indian parents should evolve n supporting girls divorce ...
@mogleesh-22
@mogleesh-22 10 ай бұрын
You took wise decision. Divorce is better than being deadd. You should have asked for good Alimony as compensation what he did to you.
@anshikawasthi
@anshikawasthi 10 ай бұрын
Proud of you. It was really brave of you! I hope more women could do that❤️🫶
@rajk2677
@rajk2677 10 ай бұрын
Right decision. If he is not interested in reforming himself by therapy it will end in a bad result for both of them. Better to call it quits than to reach a dead end.
@vinitapandey3946
@vinitapandey3946 10 ай бұрын
The story is somehow same in almost all women's life . Only difference is how they take it. Whether able to stand for themselves or continue with it.
@Esther-ps3vx
@Esther-ps3vx 10 ай бұрын
Working woman will still take it and put their husbands on a pedestal because they are conditioned to be sati savitris.
@Yesyouzard
@Yesyouzard 10 ай бұрын
It's not about that push it's about he didn't realise what he did & he's saying thappa thori mara hai push bs kiya hai toh kya hua ..!
@nehachamoli9541
@nehachamoli9541 10 ай бұрын
Phli baat toh ritika should discuss financial matters with her husband also Women have the habit of showing off ki mera paisa hai. Hum husbands ko jatati hain ki hum kama rhe hain. Ek bandda kbhi nhi jatata ki mai kama rha hu. Kisi ne sahi kaha hai ki jab aadmi kamata hai toh apni wife ko world ki sari khushi dena chahta hai aur jab aurat kamati ho toh use lgta hai use aadmi ki jrurat nhi.
@meghanas8345
@meghanas8345 10 ай бұрын
Being a girl, I felt like this so many times! I felt like this manily because men doesnt show his love openly, so it's hard to feel loved. Women are used to feel pleased when they give gifts, but once you start earning you will buy everything that is needed, so technically giving gifts to wife by husband became a problem for husbands
@meghanas8345
@meghanas8345 10 ай бұрын
So I think, attitude towards wife by husband needs to be changed. Now earning wife don't need materials, but she needs love, time, sharing - give it.
@nehachamoli9541
@nehachamoli9541 10 ай бұрын
@@meghanas8345 same goes with husband also. They too at times feel ignored. Point is why to show things only one side of coin.
@vinitaharjani7841
@vinitaharjani7841 10 ай бұрын
I know a person who a pure gentleman,gets married from a so called good family,settles in US,parents go to stay but are not allowed to stay,the boy gives in thinking that with time things will improve and get better,the girl keeps flaunting that she will get a job after doing MS.Emotionally she pushes him to bear her lodging boarding expenses while she is studying,bechara he does that thinking that when time comes she will understand. But lo,woh toh double dhamaka, no job,no sharam completed her graduation,called her own parents,sister,hosted them, enjoyed her graduation,and now she still is jobless ohh sorry job hai naa,pati ke paise kharch karna control karna.
@saritachaurasia8638
@saritachaurasia8638 10 ай бұрын
Very easy to say than taking action especially when children involved 🥲🥲🥲
@sangeetasingh6645
@sangeetasingh6645 10 ай бұрын
Agar relationship Sahi Na Ho aur partner aapas mein dusre ki baat Na samjhe to Bator hai ek dusre se alag ho jaen
@ijoyfulljyoti
@ijoyfulljyoti 10 ай бұрын
Ladkiya ghar se chand pe pahuch gai ghar sambhalte hue... Lekin ladke aaj tak apni soch ko update hi nai ker pa rahe hai ki zamana badal gaya hai kuch b pehle jaisa nai hai toa ise accept karne mai itna ego kyu..... This is the story of half of india infact more than that.... We really need to break the chain N break our silence N break the bones of the one who supports voilence N says it's ok.. IT'S NOT OK AT ALL.... ❤
@alphagamer5142
@alphagamer5142 6 ай бұрын
Ladki ko bhi aukat mein rehne ki sakth jarurat se Dusre ko gyan pelne se Aur yeh duniya chand par bhi mard ne hi pahuchai hai Equality ke chakkar mein man vs woman kyu karna hai? Jab nature ne male ko jyada taqatwar jyada buddhiman banaya hai toh manne mein kya dikkat hai?
@ijoyfulljyoti
@ijoyfulljyoti 6 ай бұрын
@@alphagamer5142 dekhiye jab ladke Chand pe Gaye toa unki bahut izzat ki gai aur aaj b hai .. aur yea adjustment toa karna hi chaiye .. but violence kabi b physical se zada mentally hamper karta hai .... Chahe koi b ho .. yea adjustment ka part kabhi nai ho sakta ... Jab ladki k achievement pe hum aaj b bahut khush hote hai toa hamari b achievement pe khush ho na ho ok reaction toa Banta hai .. baki Jo hai wo toa hai hi ... 🙏🙏
@shikhagaurav9362
@shikhagaurav9362 6 ай бұрын
⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@alphagamer5142literally what type of mentality is this… ooh literally ye Duniya Chand par men ne pahuchaye hai Valentina Tereshkova Mar. 6, 1937 Soviet Union 2 Svetlana Savitskaya Aug. 8, 1948 Soviet Union 3 Sally Ride May 26, 1951 died Jul. 23, 2012 United States 4 Judith Resnik Apr. 5, 1949 died Jan. 28, 1986 but these are all women and according to your thinking Chand ko duniya me Siri mare ne hi pahuchaya hai it’s means u are not aware what’s going in world So as you have written na ki dusro ko gyan pelne se Pehele but actually ye baat apne upar lago Karo kudh ko patan hai nhi Kyla chal rha hai world me gyan dens Chala hai 😂 And literally men ko Jadha budiman banaya hai to fir sare aache jobs tum logo ke pass hi kyu nhi hote hai or common example agar nature ne man ko it a budhiman banaya hai to fir kyu karte no drink alcohol; smoking leave it naa tab kasha chale Kate hai tumhare so called nature ne budhiman banaya hai And Jhadav taqatwar literally 😂 So I think bhul gaye ho ki independence ki Ladai me women ka kitbag hath tha kit a yogdan tha army me women’s ka yokdan hai even Bahut se matches me women ne men ko Narayan hai and hmm ek ladke mard ke Bina bahut kuch kar Saket hai bahut kuch kyuki tab ye tab ye work ke sath pura ghar manage kar Saket hai , periods me bhi job par ja Sakte hai and Jo girls army me hote hain vo periods me bhi apne job karte hai to ek Manila bahut kuch kar Saket hai mard ke Bina but a man is nothing without a woman ye mat bhulna tumble janam done wali bhi ek mama or tumbhe Bhasm Karen wali bhi ek mama Yani Dharti mama hai or hmm aj bhe borders par hamesha se Devi ke hi mandir hai Kisi Bhagwan ka mandir Rekha nhi to Devi bhi ek stri to samaj Jha hmm ladkiyon me kitni Himmat hote hai
@rajanikumari8953
@rajanikumari8953 10 ай бұрын
Hamare samaj ki sabse jaruri topic😢🙌🙏
@10ksam
@10ksam 10 ай бұрын
Anger is not an issue but the reasons for which one gets angry can be an issue.
@all2well
@all2well 10 ай бұрын
anger issues are a thing. you can get angry with someone but there's a certain limit you do not cross. and if you do so, seen professional help bec it's not normal
@monicachakraborty7762
@monicachakraborty7762 7 ай бұрын
Anger management issue is the full name of the problem
@nandiniiiii928
@nandiniiiii928 10 ай бұрын
Superb. This is a good message 👏
@meerasanandi4855
@meerasanandi4855 10 ай бұрын
M really happy that we are women living the 21st century....hamare pichle generation ke women mein ithni himmat Kahan thee....at least we can teach our girls to be stronger and bold and not to ever tolerate any kind of abuse...nice video life tak
@varshachiplunkar8869
@varshachiplunkar8869 10 ай бұрын
Same problem but ghar apna ho to hi ese decision le sakte hai
@PP-cr6fy
@PP-cr6fy 10 ай бұрын
Sooo true if some stranger abuse us verbally,physically or emotionally ,we don’t talk to them,teach dem a lesson,do a. Complaint and what not,the same person in marriage set up will tolerate spouse and in laws all type of abuse daily.Because its a marriage n it is what has been for years What a sad reason to tolerate What a irony! If stranger’s abuse disturbs us The impact of our own people abuse is far more on us The same person may be getting so much respect at workplace but at home always ignored ,abused,devalued by in laws,just to save marriage it is been tolerated Because only way to get out of this is to break the relationship else no one understands which is difficult to do and believe in chances
@abhilashasinghbirha4080
@abhilashasinghbirha4080 10 ай бұрын
कम अवधि की फिल्म में अत्यंत सार्थक संदेश ! ❤❤❤❤
@pollytheparrot8929
@pollytheparrot8929 10 ай бұрын
Yea, i faced this same abuse from my father😢
@breakaleg6117
@breakaleg6117 10 ай бұрын
What about abusing wives? If they are thrown out like that. I am sure they would make a scene for this😂😂
@shivanibhatt1022
@shivanibhatt1022 10 ай бұрын
Yr sach m bilkul sahi kiya Kbhi kbhi logg humejn kbhi nhi smjh patte aur voh aisi batein bolte h maffi mangne ki bajaye ki dimaag hill jaye.
@Shyamali865
@Shyamali865 10 ай бұрын
No words....Hats of team Life Tak
@sukirtiverma3345
@sukirtiverma3345 10 ай бұрын
Amazing video 🤘 Message given was successfully delivered 👍. Abusive relationship mein rehney se better hai ki hum "move on " kr jaye . Kisi bhi cheez ki ek hadd hoti hai woh jo ek line draw hoti hai woh cross ni honi chahiye. Society 's solution is to do adjustments & that too only for women.
@Unknown-Personality0312
@Unknown-Personality0312 9 ай бұрын
Aap ki baat bilkul sahi hai
@sukirtiverma3345
@sukirtiverma3345 9 ай бұрын
@@Unknown-Personality0312 Thank you
@preetisoni6914
@preetisoni6914 10 ай бұрын
Kaas sab aurte milker is cheej ke liye awaj udti to sab theek hota nice story❤
@anweshabhattacharya4947
@anweshabhattacharya4947 10 ай бұрын
Awesome message❤
@kaberimukerjee7717
@kaberimukerjee7717 10 ай бұрын
Very nice evry girl should take write decision.
@jiabirje7696
@jiabirje7696 10 ай бұрын
I have tolerated once. Shouting yelling or abuse is not okay even for once. Just once is not okay
@sandraradhay2966
@sandraradhay2966 10 ай бұрын
Brilliant,brilliant, and brilliant content.
@louannseeram2547
@louannseeram2547 10 ай бұрын
Well done
@iambeingsarcastic7116
@iambeingsarcastic7116 10 ай бұрын
Yahi problem hain yeh sirf ladies ko dikhate hain victim lekin 70prrcent aajkal male victim ho rahe hain. Because of laws. Isliye nowadays males r running from marraiges
@nupurbansal_
@nupurbansal_ 10 ай бұрын
Best 😍
@samarora6404
@samarora6404 10 ай бұрын
This thing go both ways ...😊
@madhurihakke613
@madhurihakke613 10 ай бұрын
Aise sirf film mai hota hai. Kyu ki real life mai matlab hamare jaise ki life mai yesa kuchh nahi ho sakta. Pati ko lagta hai ki biwi matlab jab chaho tab kuchh bhi bolo, maro fir bhi o kahi nahi ja shakati. Kuchh strongly stand nahi le shakti. O kitna bhi chahe ki sab kuchh chhod du magar nahi kr shakti. Society hi aise hoti hai ki ladies ko hi blame krti hai😔😔
@shabnamtamanna8653
@shabnamtamanna8653 10 ай бұрын
Nice and different story👌
@Pkrider-
@Pkrider- 10 ай бұрын
Divorce ke bad kiya. Life time single or next marriage? Agr dusri sadi me same hoya to kiya krna atsa hoga divorce/no divorce? Please answer life talk thank you.
@meghanas8345
@meghanas8345 10 ай бұрын
If lover is abusive, girl will breakup. If she finds other boy understanding and good she will fall in love with him right? If that is ok, why making marriage as tabboo? Why girl should suffer and live in the same marriage?
@nellaiguy8582
@nellaiguy8582 10 ай бұрын
No matter how high a sparrow flies, a sparrow cannot become a hawk.
@ankitjain9999
@ankitjain9999 10 ай бұрын
First of all I think if we are talking about marriages whichever done after 2000 or later it not suppose to be like that any more mostly and second nowdays if we just say to our partner go and talk to my mom for a while or do something in a slightly higher tone which is other side also use on us many times but we didn’t stay anything but being a girl she can’t handle that tone and just filed DIVORCE as her family also support like Beta shaadi he toh ki hai koi baat nahi agar tujhse usse pani manga ya Saans puch liya kahi bhahr jaa rahi ho ya daily sex nahi kerta hai or size chota hai just filed divorce as simple as that as it’s our right have huge amount of alimony and give them more torture take everything we are with you my papa ki pari soo How will marriage work if without any interference by others as I am not saying abuse and violence is fine yes it is wrong but don’t ask or share your things to others for there opinion just use your brain as you are no longer that teenager person finally a grown up human anyways no use to say as no one will understand as all torture and pain only girls will get guys are just animals as per whole world 👍👍
@RaviChandran-mj1qk
@RaviChandran-mj1qk 10 ай бұрын
Good decision
@amitashah368
@amitashah368 9 ай бұрын
Nice message .
@samarth2937
@samarth2937 10 ай бұрын
yahaa ladki kahti hai, wo uska paisa hai wo jo chahe kar sakti hai...think about reverse scenario..most of the people earn for family..agar khud hi decision lene hai to shaadi naa karo
@straw-berry_2day.
@straw-berry_2day. 9 ай бұрын
Woh uska paisa hai aur woh kuch bhi Kar sakti hai, iska matlab yeh nahi hai ki woh kisi ko nahi degi, bas yeh hai ki woh kuch bhi kar sakti hai, aur use kisi ko rokne ka haq nahi hai. She can spend it wherever she wants, because she's mature enough to know how to spend wisely. He has no control over her money, just like she doesn't over his. They earn for family doesn't mean they can't treat themselves with their own hard earned money.
@anushap4626
@anushap4626 10 ай бұрын
Superb
@Unknown-Personality0312
@Unknown-Personality0312 9 ай бұрын
Message is absolutely appropriate and clear.❤😶
@anshikawasthi
@anshikawasthi 9 ай бұрын
Yes :)
@prakruthic1723
@prakruthic1723 8 ай бұрын
This shortfilm is a great messege to many women....
@vinitaharjani7841
@vinitaharjani7841 10 ай бұрын
Why do we always see the girl as victim,in reality we hv seen boys suffering. There are a couple of cases where the boys are taking all the shit quietly. Bearing the expenses,tolerating family abuse,the girl not wanting to stay with the parents as that disturbs the privacy.
@LegalBird369
@LegalBird369 10 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@anshikasaxena9717
@anshikasaxena9717 10 ай бұрын
Eye opening for me
@fantuabadir8151
@fantuabadir8151 6 ай бұрын
I love the fact that she took a stand against violence of any kind. I wish more women could do the same. Unfortunately the majority of women live in rural areas where every aspect of life is dominated by men, and women have no financial independence or societal support to take such stance. I pray that things change. Peace to all
@sairamsharma6185
@sairamsharma6185 10 ай бұрын
good 😊😊
@kumarvipinverma
@kumarvipinverma 10 ай бұрын
Chalo ye over ho gaya , next ki kya guarantee hai ki better hoga , jis society me hum rehte hai waha its difficult to cope with such situation .sp for female
@saumyatripathi8233
@saumyatripathi8233 10 ай бұрын
❤❤
@ranijangra8993
@ranijangra8993 10 ай бұрын
👍👍
@muskaanmishra2474
@muskaanmishra2474 10 ай бұрын
@vinitaharjani7841
@vinitaharjani7841 10 ай бұрын
Dikhana hai to sach dikhao Always women are not targets ......sadly boys are also going thru
@Shortstatus8971
@Shortstatus8971 10 ай бұрын
Life tk team ke pass ek hi building h usi ko har stort film me dikhate h😊😊😊
@sahilsharmanakaisa
@sahilsharmanakaisa 10 ай бұрын
Haan kyuki humara office hai woh 🥲
@Shortstatus8971
@Shortstatus8971 10 ай бұрын
@@sahilsharmanakaisa 👍
@krishnabhatt4663
@krishnabhatt4663 8 ай бұрын
Very important issue and tried to guide by video.I 👍
@kavitaanjaria1767
@kavitaanjaria1767 10 ай бұрын
It's okay ..but our of 100 such cases only 15% will take such steps else others might get habitual to tolerate such type of abuse .... Society usually will not support woman in such cases just like her own mother and best friend also.
@surbhi3685
@surbhi3685 10 ай бұрын
I know I m not marrying the right person, we fight a lot we are in long distance arrange marriage couple and about to get married soon we love each other so much. But he is like he don’t do what he expect from me, like he like to have girls as friends but hates if I have any boy as friend. And many more things we hate each other at the same time we love each other. We are unable to leave each other. There are many intuitive things happen between us. And 100% things are same. We are like carbon copy but at some points like he is a aimless boy and I am an ambitious girl. I don’t understand what to do. I have asked thousands of people still my heart doesn’t agree to leave him even after lots of fights. At the end we want each other. Help me plz . Should I marry him. I am leaving my government job to marry him and he doesn’t even respect that. And truly we are both mentally disturbed due to these fights. People say this is May be due to long distance. I don’t understand what to do yr
@mogleesh-22
@mogleesh-22 10 ай бұрын
If there is physical fight or mental torcher anyone then don't marry him. He is not worth your time.
@surbhi1385
@surbhi1385 10 ай бұрын
@@mogleesh-22 Thanks to reply. We are in distance so there is nothing like physical. But yeah when angry he hurts himself physically
@anshikawasthi
@anshikawasthi 10 ай бұрын
Not worth it. Don't put your ambition, and self worth at stake in order to please your partner or to keep them happy. Never ever do that. Think in the long run. What if things get worse in future? Who will support you then? No one. Keep yourself financially sound. No matter what. And if the compatibility doesn't fit, look for other options. There are literally so many guys here who will love you and accept you for who you are instead of having you make difficult choices and making your life difficult.
@surbhi1385
@surbhi1385 10 ай бұрын
@@anshikawasthi Thanks dear to reply.
@banitadas
@banitadas 10 ай бұрын
This is the same thing happening to me in my marriage 😢 I am in the same phase of dilemma of doing what😢
@nishabisht6021
@nishabisht6021 10 ай бұрын
Same here. Only because of my baby i am tolerating him.. My all family member are saying its normal u have to adjust adjust & adjust. God knows till when i will be able to adjust. Tired of everything. Holding back just bcz of my little baby😔
@DrRohiniM
@DrRohiniM 9 ай бұрын
​@@nishabisht6021so sorry to hear this.. is it possible for you to stay a little while with your parents? It's not good for your kid to grow up in a place where his/her mom isn't respected You have to think for your kid too. If you think you're helping your baby by staying, you're wrong. Your child should know their mom is a strong woman
@vinitaharjani7841
@vinitaharjani7841 10 ай бұрын
And the worst is still to come,make ur husband ur hostage under the name of love.......aage bahut kuch hai,...chodo Time aa gaya hai. Save ur boys.....
@vinitaharjani7841
@vinitaharjani7841 2 ай бұрын
We are already going thru a lot....in name of marriage.....boys are targets to fund....to accompany....to work...they are sophisticated....hostiles
@PoojaRaj-kd1wu
@PoojaRaj-kd1wu 10 ай бұрын
Think about boys also,this is not a metter of divorce. This matter can be sorted out.this time Life Tak disappointed.should not encourage divorce 😢
@anushap4626
@anushap4626 10 ай бұрын
Could be sorted out.But while asking sorry also he was not willing to accept his mistake.
@straw-berry_2day.
@straw-berry_2day. 9 ай бұрын
Yeah these kind of boys don't deserve thinking about. They should do the thinking about before they even think about raising their hands on their wife.
@poonamkashyap334
@poonamkashyap334 10 ай бұрын
Take stand for yourself
@ramshaarifiba
@ramshaarifiba 10 ай бұрын
It's not just about the abuse as it is the reaction It's the root cause that's causing the abuse, for eg, in this scenario the husband was insecure of spouse higher income. Even tolerating such egoistic & narrow minded ppl I guess is wrong N if someone thinks by talking etc one can change anyone's nature, it's simply deceiving & hiding from the reality just like pigeon closes its eyes when danger comes
@jyotichawla2101
@jyotichawla2101 10 ай бұрын
This story relates to mine a lot and now we are getting separated 😢
@anujoshi209
@anujoshi209 10 ай бұрын
I wish you happiness and peace in your future. You r taking the right decision, girl. As a mother of teen I am so glad that you are walking out of an abusive situation which wud hv only got worse. You hv 1 life and you hv every right to live your best one❤
@DrRohiniM
@DrRohiniM 9 ай бұрын
It's a very clear message Understand the early signs in an abusive marriage and leave before it's too late. And she did suggest him to take therapy too.. it wasn't sudden
@anshikawasthi
@anshikawasthi 9 ай бұрын
Yes!
@gurusukumaran1304
@gurusukumaran1304 5 ай бұрын
She is right if he considered the therapy and some consulting it is possible to be
@shivanitiwari297
@shivanitiwari297 10 ай бұрын
I am facing same issues in my marriage since 6 years and hadd tab ho hai when I was 2 months pregnant and he slapped me more than 20 times, I was very angry at that time and I abused him bahut galiya di maine usko, and he is defined that tumne gali di maine mara… He is now saying sorry give me a chance I already gave him 5 chances and finally I filed divorce now he is again saying give me one chance…please tell me now what should I do….
@nikhath140
@nikhath140 10 ай бұрын
That was a low of a man to hit his partner and violence in form should not be tolerated and he got no right to abusive , a person should better know to control their anger. Sorry he is not worth to be called as man but an animal because which idiot can abuse thier wife when they are pregnant when they are carrying thier own child instead they will be needed to take whole care of their wife's mental and physical health. If a person didn't changed till now(as you said you have given couple of chance) will their be any chance of change in themselves now ? Absolutely No!! Just ask yourself if you will feel SAFE, peace with him? *Runn* and live life with Respect, Dignity, make yourself worth. No one got right to raise hand/abusive even if it's just once. Even Stop thinking about society because they are not the one to come and bear any pain but it's you and your child. Think about yourself!!
@siddhisalunkhe1296
@siddhisalunkhe1296 6 ай бұрын
Don't give a chance , it's not worth it !
@Lovely.121
@Lovely.121 10 ай бұрын
Glt ke aage jukna ni chahiye bcz glt k aage hum haar gaye to fir vo glt bht aage chala jata h ki fir vo hota h jise kabhi imagine na kiya ho😢 aur choro aese samaj society ko jo hume glt k aage awaz uthane ni dete kisi ka kuch ni jata life barbad humari hoti h so adjust kabhi na karo glt h to glt ko shi karne ki koshish karo fir b ahi na ho to uss glt se itna dur ho jao ki uski parchai b na pahoch sake😢
@syedasfer3267
@syedasfer3267 10 ай бұрын
This was a very nice topic but i think if people let it go , there would be major divorcee population
@iambeingsarcastic7116
@iambeingsarcastic7116 10 ай бұрын
Single life rahe ladies simple. Kyonki har marriage mein tolerate karna padta hain. Yaa tau male taa female sehti hain
@madhumitanath6511
@madhumitanath6511 10 ай бұрын
Agreed
@tanyabisht2943
@tanyabisht2943 3 ай бұрын
I will not remain in abusive relationship
@divyamanek4794
@divyamanek4794 10 ай бұрын
Is life tak app going to upload videos two days a week???
@BABY96176
@BABY96176 6 ай бұрын
Her Husband apologized few times but she didn't forgive him. So she is also wrong here. I'm not taking side of him but If your partner is apologizing for his mistake its also your duty to listen him atleast once. Just because your partner is behaving different nowadays that's doesn't mean you leave them there may be many reasons that's troubling him/her.
@neha_jain1005
@neha_jain1005 10 ай бұрын
Who like to watch while eating😅😅😅
@kris05178
@kris05178 10 ай бұрын
Do some videos on reverse scenario.
@dishachaubey523
@dishachaubey523 10 ай бұрын
Not so easy to take divorce legally in court. For show its ok but getting divorce is real struggle.
@anshikawasthi
@anshikawasthi 10 ай бұрын
I agree there's struggle but there's nothing that is impossible. Choosing yourself/oneself always comes with the challenge.
@vinitaharjani7841
@vinitaharjani7841 10 ай бұрын
Seriously sometimes show the other part also
@ninnykumari8203
@ninnykumari8203 10 ай бұрын
What if we have an innocent kids with us and we no more like each other neither talk. But can't get separate because of baby .......😢
@DrRohiniM
@DrRohiniM 9 ай бұрын
It's worse for your child to grow with parents who don't love each other.. they will be scarred for life.. Atleast if a child grows up with a single parent they will know that it's ok to live separately provided we are happy and they will also learn to keep themselves first And know that their mother is a strong woman
@manishivats893
@manishivats893 10 ай бұрын
What when knowing everything the girl still stays on ?
@shabnamtamanna8653
@shabnamtamanna8653 10 ай бұрын
Jb ek purane actor aa gye h to plz plz plz un saro ko v bula lo bahut miss krti hu un sb ko ❤️
@Mehak_Saree_Mahal_01
@Mehak_Saree_Mahal_01 7 ай бұрын
Divorce is mandatory in this situation
@Spike_104
@Spike_104 3 ай бұрын
Yeah talk to everyone except your husband and don't even try to understand him for once and divorce is the way to go for any minor inconvenience in marriage
@pratibhachouhan4597
@pratibhachouhan4597 10 ай бұрын
Jb Jago tb swera hota he der se hi shi mgr life Bach jati he tocsic reshte me rhne ka koi mtlb nhi hota,kuyki saamne vala esa insaan kbhi nhi sudhrta he.
@AmishaKhadka930
@AmishaKhadka930 10 ай бұрын
It's not always girls who suffer. What about girl abusive words that they use for man? Today women don't want to give any effort for the marriage and want divorce to move on. In today's time both are educated and it is easier to convince each other. So please don't make small things an issue because it can be solved and every body deserves a 2nd / 3rd/4th chance in a relationship. Why don't we want ourselves to accept that men are also human beings. Ending relationships may look good in shorts or movies but in reality relations should always be a two people circle. Tye a nought and move on with each other's flaws.#because why not. NO BODY IS PERFECT
@DrRohiniM
@DrRohiniM 9 ай бұрын
2nd, 3rd and 4th chance can be given if he is trying to change... You can't change a person's attitude. You can only help a person with good attitude to improve And I agree men face abuse too, they should also walk out if that's the case It may be a small thing how they showed in the video. But it's a repetitive behaviour. If you tolerate once, they will think they're strong and repeat it
@Vashuxcovers
@Vashuxcovers 10 ай бұрын
2nd comment ❤❤
@Kunjata.22
@Kunjata.22 10 ай бұрын
if don't have children then its okay..
@sangeetasingh6645
@sangeetasingh6645 10 ай бұрын
But after children will also suffer the same situation
@poojarathi7266
@poojarathi7266 4 ай бұрын
What if issues start after children
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