Did He Murder His Wife? | Steve Wilkos

[@SteveWilkosShow]

What do you think? Should he feel partly responsible?

[@aiyanajohnson1480]

The Steve Wilkos Show is amazing 😉

[@goddesshathor7313]

I love you Steveeeeeeeee

[@naughtyginger3530]

1st like yes..... he's scarry. But after meeting him, I think he's amazing. SUper sweet man who LOVES his wife, still after her passing.

[@angeleyes2941]

I think he knew she was battling depression and he did NOTHING about it so yes he's some what responsible for his wife's death.

[@OutLawWarriors4life]

No I dont think he is. I think he feels awful enough loosing her. No relationship is perfect but she choose to take her own life sadly.

[@trevador_2002]

“I lost my wife” Steve: You can move on Like wtf is that?! What if you lost your wife like that Steve, would you want a talk show person or someone tell you the same thing. C’mon man

[@mskate0nly]

Honestly, like the way he responded was so messed up “ I lost my wife” “GET OVER IT”

[@SVZA-]

Timestamp anyone

[@Locopueblo]

Right? In that case, they can move on. Wish someone would say that about his wife and see how he reacts.

[@PurpleRain500]

This is like number one on Steve’s stupidest moments in 13 years. The shit he said to this man trying to defend that woman and her family was just off the wall. Regardless of how you wanna spin it, when a grown ass woman picks up a gun and takes her OWN life, it’s her OWN fault. Point blank period. I don’t care where he left the gun, or if he gift-wrapped it and handed it to her. Doesn’t matter. And furthermore, how the hell do you tell someone to move on from the death of their spouse? Where do you even get off making a comment like that? How DARE he? If anything happened to Steve’s wife you’d have to throw him in the ground WITH her! The audacity of that comment. I’m a diehard fan of the show, I’ve been watching for the last nine years, but this was probably the biggest jackass Steve has made of himself that I’ve seen in the almost decade I’ve been watching. Shameful, it’s like the longer the show runs, the stupider he gets. And it pains me to say that. The family denied YOUR results Steve, and you blasted him off of your stage? No. Check yourself.

[@shannon1587]

I love Steve, but the way that he treated this guy was so messed up. Plus, he contradicted himself by pretty much telling this guy to get over it, then telling the family that the pain will never go away. I do feel awful for them, they lost a daughter / granddaughter, but this man lost a wife. She was family to him too, not just the two women. That just wasn’t right.

[@strawbolita]

Steve THE MAN IS GRIEVING JUST LIKE THEM !!! She was a grown adult who made that decision not him. It’s very sad

[@nawlinsbloggin2433]

BeddyByeBunny i agree

[@she_sings_delightful_things]

I'm guessing what he's feeling is mostly guilt for treating her like shit.

[@onikamaraj5335]

@@she_sings_delightful_things how do you know he treated her badly?

[@she_sings_delightful_things]

@@onikamaraj5335 They speak about it in the segment

[@NickRoyal-r5o]

@@she_sings_delightful_things but he didn't treat he bad?

[@marioimitchell]

I don't understand why Steve didn't have this guys back a little more. Yeah, he can leave the family alone but when the family is telling everyone you know that you killed your own wife, what are you supposed to do? From what I understand, he's the one that called the show trying to put an end to this. We didn't get a clear understanding of the relationship from this clip but my god. They treated this guy like garbage and he didn't even do it.

[@krystalb.1650]

Honestly I felt bad

[@robertauld1334]

Steve waa a ass on this the husband wasn't perfect but to implicate him just to have a villan on the show is just B.S.

[@Akichan07]

Agreed

[@LostSpaceGuy]

I felt bad for him😭

[@32MattyB]

He picks and chooses at times I swear. If Steve lost his wife he would be devastated. You would think he'd side with the husband a little more

[@yogabbagabba9145]

I love how he said; “we have been combatting those issues for more years than I can count” when referring to her mental health issues. That just shows how much he loved her. He took on her battles as his own.

[@VegasLady81]

I am mentally ill, and my bf always tries to console me when I feel depressed and hopeless. I DID try to kill myself 9 years ago, and I am the ONLY person responsible for trying to end my life, and this was way before I met my bf. But because my bf dated a mentally ill woman in the past, he understands to a point, because he has experience from his son's mom being mentally ill as well. We DO have arguments, but we do what we can to resolve them verbally only, we've never hit each other, and we argue until we are so mad, we give each other the silent treatment. He's a Taurus, I'm Aquarius. According to astrology, we are not a match, but what's funny is, we always get through our arguments, mostly started by me, obviously being retarded and not thinking before shit comes outta my mouth, but once we go back to our normal selves, lovey dovey, and sweet on each other, WE BOTH apologize, and we move forward. I DO take meds, and am in counseling. I recently lost my mom, who I was VERY close to, to cervical cancer in September of 2021, so it's still fresh to me. I've had many mental breakdowns since then, and tears are filling my eyes as I type this, because had my suicide attempt been successful, my mom would've had to live without TWO kids, not just one. My older brother died in 2009 from AIDS that he got from some idiot who didn't tell my brother he was infected. Yes, my brother was gay, but who cares? When he died, my mom's world came crashing down on her, and my younger brother is an asshole like my dad, and we don't speak, he didn't speak to my mom before she died, and so basically all my mom had after my brother died was me. Maybe there is a reason I didn't succeed at trying to end my life 9 years ago. Maybe it's because my mom needed me. So, I stayed. I promised her that no matter how tough life gets, that I won't do that again. Yes, suicide has crossed my mind a lot since my mom died, but I think it's part of my grieving process as a mentally ill person. I always remind myself when I get that thought that my mom would be very sad if I did that to myself. She said, "I want you to go to Heaven with us, Melisse. God doesn't want you to take your own life, and you're not supposed to, but if you do, I won't fully understand, but I would know it wasn't really you that killed yourself, and that it is your mental illness." Those words with tears in her eyes, kicked me right in my ass and made me vow to keep that promise to stay alive until God himself calls me home. Obviously, I'm still here. Life does suck, especially after losing my brother, then my mom, it's really painful and the day she left this world, is the day that I fell apart. I'm still trying to hold it together, and TRYING to hold it together when you're already fucked up in the head is the hardest battle EVER! Suicide is not a fucking joke, dude. No matter how much you love a suicidal person, ultimately, they're either gonna do or not do what that devil voice in their head is telling them to. It's not fun. With my suicide attempt, I was hanging by a thread, paramedics said that if my neighbor waited just 2 to 3 minutes more to call, that I'd be dead. I nearly flatlined in the back of the ambulance, spent 2 days on a heart monitor in the ICU unit of the ER, and the entire time was scary, I'll be honest. I never tried that again. Suicide and mental illness are nothing to fuck with. On top of my mom recently passing away, my landlord knows of this, and suddenly, like 6 months after she died, he and his daughter tell me I have to move. So, my mom said some things happen in threes. Well, what's #3 gonna be? Can't possibly be any worse than being asked to move out of the only place you can afford not even a year after you lose your mom. Like wtf... Life sucks, but I wake up every day, I take my damn stupid pills and I soldier on, the way my momma raised me to. I'm not doing this for ME. I'm doing this for HER. And God. Music is good therapy.

[@CH-bs3xr]

That's what partners should do..

[@jazisajoke8688]

I usually love the show but I’ve noticed more and more how hard he comes down on some of these men, even when they are found innocent. How can you see the pain in his eyes and still try to tell him he is partially responsible? Every couple fights. Every couple with a gun would share the code to the safe. He looks like a bad guy so he is? That’s extreme police profiling. This man deserves an apology. If HE killed himself after this show would you consider yourself partially responsible?

[@robogreek3157]

Your comment deserves more like for your final question. 💯

[@Indigochildwithin]

@jazisajoke8688• I totally agree,with all you say, This man is broken, I know his family are too.but they want someone to blame.

[@OutLawWarriors4life]

He is innocent. Every couple gets into arguments sometimes. You can see the sadness in his eyes from loosing her. I really hope they all get some help.

[@tiffanysnyder1553]

Steve said about him being partially responsible because he didn't safely have his firearm secured?? She was a damn adult! Not a little kid. Gtfoh

[@tiffanytoppin4061]

Right! Steve treated him like shit !

[@janetayala5267]

Exactly

[@evahanson7681]

Sometimes he's so very wrong and this was one of them.

[@CcBeautiful94]

Tiffany Snyder I was just thinking the same damn thing. They just want SOMEBODY to blame besides the woman who did this to herself!

[@professorpenne9962]

considering she as a spouse would have easily known where it is and how to access it in case of a break in, yeah. steve really dropped the ball here. disappointing clip to say in the least.

[@DreamTheDead]

I want to be honest. The fact that HE called to clear his name is something that I pay attention to. And the way that Steve went at him kinda pissed me off because he wouldn't let talk didn't help anything. And YES it is a good thing that he wants to clear his name to her family. Mabey he would want to still have a relationship with he fam and help them know they KNOW the truth.

[@selinaoakley3613]

Very good points & well observed.

[@krystalb.1650]

I agree that’s actually the perfect way to describe this scenario like this guy did say he couldn’t move on with the fact of his wife death I wouldn’t be able to move on from a death at all so I understand this guy

[@DreamTheDead]

@@krystalb.1650 yes as well as him saying that he couldn't move on because the woman he loved and still does died but Steve doesn't understand the point of view from that even saying he doesn't understand making the situation worse

[@b0n3s]

Seems like no matter what, Steve was trying to blame him for it. He passed the test, yet Steve still hinting at him mentally abusing her and she killed herself because of it. Had to find some way to try to connect him to her death. Just my opinion though. Have a good weekend ppl.

[@krystalb.1650]

Lil_baka_taco true

[@cameliarogers2765]

Steve owes this man an apology. Trying to make him feel guilty for something that wasn't his fault. I definitely don't agree with Steve or the family.

[@robertparker9096]

To the grandmother: HOW can you judge someone and say he's a bad person just by looking at him??

[@lollafala2949]

Right!!! I thought the same. She also called her granddaughters vanity a like negative characteristic,, because she likes to take care of herself? I didn't get that either.

[@DB-jw6el]

That was no atrocious of her to say

[@DB-jw6el]

Just imagine what she’d say about colored people

[@kikitcat5]

​@@lollafala2949it seems like Grandma is fixated on peoples' looks for some reason...

[@rhondaleeta8367]

She kept glaring at the poor guy. She's just a judgemental bitch!

[@103MZPRINCESS]

I don’t like how they’re acting towards him. His wife committed suicide and he’s being blamed for it. Have a little sympathy geeeez

[@storyteller6418]

Thankyou Paris...THANKYOU!!

[@estellapina1871]

Yes!!👍 ur right also steve said blame him for the gun, if she couldn't get his gun she would of found another way to kill her self!...

[@103MZPRINCESS]

Estella pina EXACTLY

[@MadeByGod1973]

@@estellapina1871 I firmly believe this. Being a combat vet, I understand suicide very well. I have lost quite a few battle buddies to this dreadly dilemna. They took their lives the way they wanted to. Mental illness on any family can be tough. They will always find a way if it is really what they want to do. I am sorry that he has lost what seemed to be such a precious love despite the downs. All relationships have them. He isn't responsible for her death.

[@RPaulo8k]

Steve was being one sided in this episode. If he felt that guy mentally abused her to suicide, that question should have been asked on the polygraph, but it would have made Steve look dumber than he already was in this episode when it turned out he didn't.

[@changuk_biased2010]

I love Steve but him drilling the guy was uncalled for. You don’t put a person’s suicide on another person, Steve. You just don’t.

[@Carapendy]

So, say Girl A keeps telling Girl B to kill herself, repeatedly and in worsening worsening ways... Girl B cant take it anymore and kills herself... You’re not allowed to say to Girl A “She killed herself because of you”? GTFOH, I’m telling Girl A she’s responsible.

[@changuk_biased2010]

@@Carapendy in that case sure, but most people who commit suicide don’t kill them selves over one person or reason. It’s a number of things and to just lay someone’s suicide on someone else is cruel. Imagine getting into an argument and you said something hurtful to another and that someone kill themself. Would that be 100% your fault? Sure, you may be partially responsible but not 100%. Plus your example isn’t applicable in this case so again, Steve shouldn’t have put her suicide on him. Steve’s right that the guy was responsible for not locking or hiding his gun properly but who knows why she really killed herself?

[@AshMae264]

@@Carapendy stfu I completely believe he would NEVER tell his wife to kill herself. She was suicidal long before they met. She chose to kill herself from her own suicidal thoughts. Don't act smart if you're dumber than a bag of nails

[@misinterperted]

@@Carapendy this is a whole different scenario

[@misinterperted]

@@Carapendy he didn’t encourage her to kill herself u fucking moron

[@dRippppa]

Yeah Steve yell at a dude who's defending himself from people calling the news telling them he's a murderer.

[@drew2fast489]

I don't know what Steve's problem is but he Fed this one up. He was totally out of line.

[@emilyzurita6158]

@@drew2fast489 right!

[@malakhassan171]

@@drew2fast489 truee

[@Kdsmoovedab]

He only takes up for women you ain’t peeped that yet?

[@AllisonLinner]

*I really hope Steve sees these comments and at the very least, reach out to the husband to TRY to make it right. Give true, real, apologies and pay for a therapist for him.*

[@robogreek3157]

Jesus... your 😍

[@christopherallen8930]

Thank you everyone. I really appreciate that these messages are still rolling in.

[@tinalouise7869]

I think often times when someone takes their own life its very hard for their loved ones to accept and they look for someone to blame because they don't want to think of their loved one being that selfish as to how others might feel when they are gone.

[@OnlyTheChronic]

I'm horrified at how Steve acted, he is a narcissistic jerk. I'm so sorry for your loss and Steve don't know what he's talking about, he's a washed up old bully to everyone except young pretty girls. I hope you have healed in this time since the show was taped.

[@christopherallen8930]

@@OnlyTheChronic I take life one day at a time, it's the best one can do. Thank you for your words. I appreciate them.

[@susanfifi285]

I felt very sad for you after watching this episode. Steve was wrong

[@Cheungkinmen]

Steve was an absolute a$$hole to you on stage, geez, he fell out of touch with reality. I am sorry for your loss, man, stay strong.

[@glowingdawn9179]

As if he doesn't have enough guilt about the last time seeing her was arguing, now Steve tries convincing him it was his fault. This one left a bad taste in my mouth.

[@amara7022]

Nathan Kelm yeah steve definitely crossed a line

[@illmindofbri6807]

Nathan Kelm right

[@belljimette]

Agreed

[@reinamacaren-a4132]

There's been a few episodes that left a bad taste in my mouth. Sometimes Steve can be a bully

[@G2HTown]

He might try to kill himself smh

[@jayharris3388]

I don't understand why are they still blaming him he did not kill her he did not have anything to do with her getting killed I mean damn I don't understand why they still upset with him🤔

[@selmoshh1252]

Some people search someone to be guiltily and carry the responsibility. So they don't have to 'blame themselfs' to for example not helping someone in this case their obvious mentaly unstable daughter. In this way they feel better.. It's just my opinion on that.

[@selmoshh1252]

But I get what you mean tho

[@babydoll1701]

Jay Harris because some people cannot accept the fact that their child took their own life. So because they can’t accept it they claim murder because they need someone to blame. A lot of time when people are depressed or suicidal you never know because they mask their pain in front of you.

[@johntaeowens1248]

This man didn't have anything to do with his wife's tragic death it was a suicide, not a homicide

[@mightylee_]

I think he’s innocent. His last words to her was something during an argument & he has to remember that for the rest of his life.

[@justincase3296]

Steve, I've been Faithful to my wife of 44 years, we met in in 73 married in 76, high school sweethearts. How can You say to this man to move on? No, when You grow up together as we have done at 16 & 17 years old. WHY would you say you have to move on? I know what you mean but, unless you go through that, it's so hard to "just move on".

[@Indigochildwithin]

@justincase3296• ahh how lovely to read your post do you have a brother?? A cousin,a friend,anyone,lol its the 44 years of faithful marriage.❤

[@DollParts04]

I just wanna give that man a hug he didn’t deserve this

[@KaitlynnIsDead]

I dont understand what he did to deserve a "get off my stage" ....

[@jessicamcgaughey8551]

Exactly. And Steve was mad that he was fighting with eh family who lost a daughter. I get that nothing will take the pain away of losing a daughter, but come on. He lost his wife, and they are calling him a murderer. What is he supposed to just sit quietly and let them smear his name without a fight? Steve gets mad when people don't fight to prove they are innocent, because it makes them look guilty. I wouldn't sit quietly if people thought I killed my husband, and I would hope my husband wouldn't sit quietly if people thought he killed me. That's the point of this show, to clear your name of false accusations. People own guns, that's America for you. And I agree you should make sure it's kept up from kids specifically, but why do you have to lock it away from your significant other? I don't think he deserved a "get off my stage". Steve didnt even seem glad or relieved that he passed for not killing her. Like what the hell, I don't know what was up with him this time.

[@ambrooks5]

Jessica McGaughey I was thinking the same thing. I feel sorry for the poor guy. I’m sure he feels responsible in some way for her death and that will haunt him forever. Steve was a prick this time.

[@PurpleRain500]

This is like number one on Steve’s stupidest moments in 13 years. The shit he said to this man trying to defend that woman and her family was just off the wall. Regardless of how you wanna spin it, when a grown ass woman picks up a gun and takes her OWN life, it’s her OWN fault. Point blank period. I don’t care where he left the gun, or if he gift-wrapped it and handed it to her. Doesn’t matter. And furthermore, how the hell do you tell someone to move on from the death of their spouse? Where do you even get off making a comment like that? How DARE he? If anything happened to Steve’s wife you’d have to throw him in the ground WITH her! The audacity of that comment. I’m a diehard fan of the show, I’ve been watching for the last nine years, but this was probably the biggest jackass Steve has made of himself that I’ve seen in the almost decade I’ve been watching. Shameful, it’s like the longer the show runs, the stupider he gets. And it pains me to say that. The family denied YOUR results Steve, and you blasted him off of your stage? No. Check yourself.

[@Nomz1808]

@@PurpleRain500 OMG YESSSS!!!! 100% agree, actually disgusted in the way he told this guy to just get over the loss of his wife like she was just a side chick or something!

[@PurpleRain500]

Pinomi Boss Absolutely disgusting. That was so wrong.

[@tieiatalks]

Hold on. This woman was married to this man and she was an adult. Wouldn’t she have access to the same gun safe that her husband had access to? Suicide is awful and I don’t wish that on any family, because our family has experienced that. However, I feel like Steve made this guy a scapegoat because there’s no evidence there that he abused her to the point of wanting to commit suicide-they sound like they were abusive to each other. The guy passed every single question on the lie detector test and Steve still came for him hard like that. That just seems like he’s looking for a scapegoat for this family. Suicide is absolutely awful. Why didn’t she go to her family if she was feeling this way and go live with her grandmother or her mother? We don’t know how she treated her husband because she’s not here to defend herself. But he passed every question lie detector test and I think Steve was a jerk on this one.

[@passionlewis4198]

Go to Facebook watch to watch this same clip and her sister made comments about it! Her sister said you can read more about on justice for kyra Lambson on Facebook.

[@professorpenne9962]

he literally passed for having no involvement whatsoever and steve basically brushed it aside. like the hell man...

[@professorpenne9962]

if he knew or felt a form of abuse on his end lead to her suicide, he would have failed for having no involvement

[@passionlewis4198]

@@professorpenne9962 he could have verbally been abusive to her over the years to make her feel that way. I just feel bad for their children that she left behind.

[@professorpenne9962]

@@passionlewis4198 well again to cycle to that point, if he had knowledge of abuse of any kind he did to her, he would have failed. it is a tragedy all around regardless though.

[@Ladyhinton]

Steve, you're some kind of ruthless to sit here and berate this grieving man the entire time & then to still somehow find a way to blame this man for that woman taking her own life. That's low. You dont know what she went through in her life to make that decision. He is grieving just as much as her family, if not more. & then you still kick this innocent man off the show, like he pulled the trigger. Wow.

[@buckethound2095]

Yup, disliking my first steve vid now

[@nicolefrazee9868]

I just thought the same thing. Poor man- lost his wife then was harassed by their family and then Steve treats him this way. Im disappointing in him!

[@ButtonsCasey]

He don’t even know how she killed herself. Ummm sorry but you know how your LOVED ones die. He left a gun unlocked around someone he knew was suicidal. Sorry but he didn’t care too much so he can play the grieving husband all day long, don’t mean he can’t get called out on his part in it.

[@buckethound2095]

@@ButtonsCasey tf? This is a grown ass woman we are talking about here, not a child with mental issues. Its not like he gave her the gun and told her to do it. Couldnt u see that he loved his wife? I swear people would rather point the finger instead of being accountable for their OWN actions.

[@buckethound2095]

@@ButtonsCasey you cant blame the husband. cuz if he hid the gun from her, the wife would just find another way to kill herself. At the end of the day, she pointed that gun at her head. He cleared his name and the mothers accusations were wrong

[@JANETHEJAWN]

Steve your response in this show was TERRIBLE. You don’t just tell a grieving husband to MOVE ON. That was gross! My heart broke for him

[@elmo_eman2867]

Man Steve was beating this guy up,interrupting him,comming at him like that like bruh,he just lost his best freind.The guy was being very reasonable and Steve was still trying to poke at him

[@rleejjones536]

For once in all his shows I just didn’t agree with how hard Steve went at this guy. Maybe it’s the cop in him. But if someone decides to take their life your not going to stop them. Even if the gun was locked up she would have picked a different method.

[@gailgalinis464]

I feel the same way.

[@Cat-jq2me]

Rleej Jones Makes me wonder if he was one of those cops who believe that "you're guilty until proven innocent", instead of "innocent until proven guilty". Lost a lot of respect for Steve after watching this today. He slandered this man's name !

[@plant-basedtina8310]

SAME first time in history I ever disagree with Steve and I love him but this was wrong 😓

[@danielolley5949]

NO ONE IS PERFECT; STEVE IS ONLY HUMAN LIKE US! 90% OF TIME STEVE IS A OK AND ON THE MONEY.

[@s.f2274]

@@danielolley5949this is the worst time for him to fuck up

[@WSBM]

The man sat there falsely accused and passed the test and Steve continued to throw him under the bus and DID NOTHING to CORRECT THESE WOMEN FOR THEIR FALSE ACCUSATIONS. RIDICULOUS!!!

[@evahanson7681]

Wow Steve. You're BEYOND wrong here. Suicide is NOT anyone else's fault. Also. A grown woman probably has access to her HUSBANDS gun. Wrong Steve. All wrong. Edit: you know what Steve. I'm done with you. I watched this again to see if I was over reacting. I wasn't. You're telling this man he emotionally abused his wife into SUICIDE. my ex husband used to threaten me with suicide everytime we fought. THAT IS EMOTIONAL ABUSE. Unsubscribed. I will never watch you again.

[@mikebohuslavseligman892]

Threatening suicide might be emotional abuse but going through with it is different. Still, still it's not his fault, she made that decision. I've known women that had the s*** beaten out of them but didn't commit suicide, the worst these had was some slapping that she started ONCE.

[@frankgranados1755]

Eva Hanson Yes it is, I almost killed my self because of someone else.

[@mikebohuslavseligman892]

@@frankgranados1755 But in the end you didn't, and it wouldn't be worth it. If you were young at the time, you'd be excused, too. No one's worth committing suicide for.

[@bobbieellcey]

Eva Hanson you are completely wrong

[@ashyhusky4130]

Steve has always been like that but in the past he was alot worse and he was told by network exec to tone it down a bit

[@princessthabahamianspartan4810]

I hope the husband doesn't commit suicide himself because I can see this is tearing him apart, imagine being blame for something this horrible with no apology after being innocent. Hope his heart can heal smh 😔

[@carripatterson3786]

ngl, i usually love Steve. But rn im speaking as a young woman who has been battling with depression her whole life. Steve is wrong as HELL for saying that it was the husbands fault for her killing herself. Yes he should've held the gun in a safer place, but she is a grown woman. She chose to take her life, and i grieve with the husband and her family because that is extremely hard to stomach. The poor girl was overwhelmed with depression and i know what thats like. ITS NOT HIS FAULT.

[@exeaux3033]

Do not blame suicide on someone. Wont be watching steve anymore. Shame on you steve wilkos.

[@gailgalinis464]

👏👏👏👏👏

[@oknow9461]

He have been getting worse ever episode ..... SMDH I don't like his show any more

[@swaggertt3106]

ex eaux on my mother I said the same thing I will not be watching Steve no more nfs they dead still blames the guy after he passed they gonna drive this man to kill him self I hope the husband reads the comment and knows he’s not wrong and people are on his side

[@professorpenne9962]

this clip was really low, almost as bad if not worse then the time steve told a guy he looked like the type that would be a pedophile when in turn, he was just a harmless older man. for someone that's ex military and ex law enforcement, he's really off the mark profiling people at times.

[@deedeemoore6096]

I totally agree wit you on this !! She made the decision to end her own life and for them to blame the husband for her death is some B.S if it wasn't the gun she would of used anything else to cause her own demise .

[@courtneylewis7899]

I always jump to watch every single episode of his, but after this, I don't know. He lost his wife who had had been with since high school. Yelling at him and beating him up after he endured 3 years of pain and lies from her side of the family doesn't sit right with me. You could clearly tell he was hurt, he passed all of his tests yet you still didn't cut him any slack. Absolutely heart wrenching, prayers out to him.

[@luffyduffy7817]

There’s so many times where Steve will treat a guest like shit because he thinks they’re guilty and then never apologizes and acts like he knew they were innocent or finds something else to hate them for and throw them off the stage. I remember there was one episode where he was basically bullying this woman who lost her child because he thought she was responsible then it came out she didn’t do anything and Steve didn’t even say sorry. Man up. In this case I have no idea why he was so mad at the guy

[@professorpenne9962]

yeah, because people just "get over" losing someone they have loved since childhood times. steve was an asshole here.

[@Serenitie3]

Oh ok. Since high school? I was wondering how in the world did perfect vegan non violent women choose military gun owning man who gets into bars fights

[@luffyduffy7817]

Serenitie3 wtf

[@annosullivan3783]

Shame on you Steve Wilko's the man did not murder his wife yet you put him down like a dog. Ann, from Dublin, Ireland.

[@selenabaldwin4594]

This man received disgusting treatment. Steve you and many others owe him an apology. &Pray he doesn’t chose to do the same thing his wife did, that man is standing on the edge and you know it.

[@christopherallen8930]

Thank you for your support. This was a hard chapter in my life but I am far from allowing a Jerry Springer guard dictate the rest of my life. I am moving forward at my own pace lol. Thank you for your kind words

[@FantabulousFail]

Steve should be ashamed of himself for grilling this grieving husband.

[@kayvertalics242]

Steve was out of line

[@thedancinglifestyle]

I agree

[@toxicgerl]

Out of line

[@destinykasapuna2804]

He judged to quick

[@PurpleRain500]

This is like number one on Steve’s stupidest moments in 13 years. The shit he said to this man trying to defend that woman and her family was just off the wall. Regardless of how you wanna spin it, when a grown ass woman picks up a gun and takes her OWN life, it’s her OWN fault. Point blank period. I don’t care where he left the gun, or if he gift-wrapped it and handed it to her. Doesn’t matter. And furthermore, how the hell do you tell someone to move on from the death of their spouse? Where do you even get off making a comment like that? How DARE he? If anything happened to Steve’s wife you’d have to throw him in the ground WITH her! The audacity of that comment. I’m a diehard fan of the show, I’ve been watching for the last nine years, but this was probably the biggest jackass Steve has made of himself that I’ve seen in the almost decade I’ve been watching. Shameful, it’s like the longer the show runs, the stupider he gets. And it pains me to say that. The family denied YOUR results Steve, and you blasted him off of your stage? No. Check yourself.

[@PurpleRain500]

The Book Of ƬЯXPXP Yep!

[@ProtoMario]

Not securing a fire arm? What? And he passes... if the family was concerned about abuse, easily could've tested for that too... This was a real big put on for sure, it's called scape goating, the family can not accept the death and need someone to blame.

[@robogreek3157]

You've got alot of subscribers. YOUR THE VOICE THAT CAN BE HEARD FOR PUTTING STEVE ON BLAST...and you say nothing?? TELL PEOPLE HOW FUCKED UP STEVE IS FOR THIS!

[@jonathancolon3329]

Maybe if I saw the full episode, I’d feel differently but atm it just really pisses me off that everyone keeps treating this guy like it’s 100% his fault. They’re disguising it as “partially responsible” but we all know what you mean. Steve keeps saying he needs to leave them alone and stop harassing them and all this other shit but from what we’re hearing they’re also going to the furthest extent to go tell anyone and everyone he killed his wife when we all know he didn’t. Was he an idiot for not securing his gun? Sure. But was he supposed to just know his wife was going to commit suicide and know to stop her? They were married, he wasn’t her caretaker. And maybe he drove her to do it, but there is no proof of that (from what I’ve seen) and it makes me angry that everyone is treating it like there was

[@drew2fast489]

I agree! Steve was being a complete dick!

[@kushme6931]

Couldn’t of said it better.

[@02loud]

I agree!!! You can tell when Steve doesn't like a guest on the show. When he was reading the results I knew it said the guy was innocent because Steve was sounding almost disappointed. When he started spouting all the 'partially reaponsible' bs I rolled my eyes. The guy is innocent! Steve is so transparent!

[@dylanturner289]

drew2 fast I mean Steve’s a dick to most his guest

[@jeremybriggs6951]

But them being married Should she have the right to use a Gun for self-defense whenever someone breaks into their place?

[@toy_jayda_shuzn3644]

Steve was definitely out of line for this! The nerve of him to say “move on with your life” would PMO…

[@christopherallen8930]

Thank you for your support. I appreciate it.

[@starrywillowtree]

This guy didn't deserve being treated badly.

[@User22528]

Steve was wrong for this, he was too harsh on the guy

[@rizi2637]

Why are they coming at this man like he's guilty? She was a grown woman and made that decision yet they're all being hard on this man as if he killed her. This is probably the first time I've felt off with the way steve was talking wtf

[@luffyduffy7817]

As someone who has suffered with suicidal feelings for most my life, at the end of the day it’s nobody’s decision to end their life but theirs. The way someone treats you can be a factor but its never the reason. I’m kind of horrified at Steve yelling at this man to move on when he lost his wife in one of the worst possible ways and saying that it’s his responsibility. This could’ve been a good chance to shine the light of the complexity of suicide but Steve seems to want to fight this man.

[@jxcquizzz]

The mom and Grandma didn't even say that they were sorry for accusing him of killing his own wife. Smh

[@johntaeowens1248]

Exactly they didn't apologize to this man

[@daawesomequeen9813]

These people should be put in jail for lying about this man killing his wife. They should rot in jail

[@juwanwilliams3400]

If everyone attacked me for doing something I didn’t do I’d defend myself too

[@gingerdare4747]

So would I . All the way !

[@rachaelleann9847]

I believe him! And I don't agree he deserved to be charged for anydamn thing. She chose to hurt herself. Sad yes but true. She done it not him so thankfully he wasn't wrongfully charged !

[@CaseyB8783]

Steve was not helping during this, hes an innocent man and Steve yelled at him and argued with him, wow.

[@1993rizwan]

Steve messed up u can hear the pain the mans voice he is a broken man because of this

[@malakhassan171]

1993rizwan Exactly

[@beckygarza9348]

On this episode, I DISAGREE with Steve. He threw the WRONG PERSON off the stage. The grandmother & mother ARE IN DENIAL of their daughter committing suicide. You DON'T KNOW YOUR KIDS/ADULT CHILDREN 100%

[@annagreystar]

Steve was trying so hard to make him the bad guy. saying how he's partly responsible? Cmon man

[@ClownGutzz]

This is the second show he’s posted in a row that kinda got me annoyed. I love watching his show but the way he’s treating his guests has been all wrong lately. :/ first he let the woman beating up her bf sit on stage. And now he’s torturing this poor innocent husband for something he didn’t even do. Steve be slackin man

[@oknow9461]

Steve is starting to act like he is GOD..... He need a reality check

[@Blue_SeaSmoke]

Tamirra Williams he needs a canceled show

[@oknow9461]

@@Blue_SeaSmoke YEP

[@aspiknf]

@@samwalsh1256 Lol u mad

[@aspiknf]

@Willie Gordon You're right in a way

[@Locopueblo]

He really does

[@MysticFairyyy]

He isn't responsible and to keep asking him if he feels responsible is insane. Obviously, he has some guilt considering it was his gun. It isn't HIS fault she chose to blow her head off. I'm sorry but that's a decision you make for yourself and yourself only. I don't agree with ya on this one Steve. I feel like you could have handled this a lot differently. And also, her family seems like their just trying to find anyone to blame. Sad situation all around.

[@angelabrown8820]

So it's just impossible for some people to let go ignore the ridiculous Amounts of crap that her family dishes out

[@jamaalpete9238]

Grandmom talking bout "leave my children alone" like they weren't accusing him of a murder he didn't commit. This guy Steve can really pick on when choosing who he feels is guilty or not too, and won't really come to that same defense when it turns out that the person is innocent. That man lost a wife and was being accused by her relatives of murdering her, yet when he decides to go back and forth with him about it he's wrong for trying to defend himself and his name, but his ex in-laws could freely try to destroy him through unproven accusations and it's fine for them to do so because they lost a child.

[@maryl.8035]

To the man on the stage: I hope you read these comments and see that we do not agree with the way you were treated on this stage. I'm so sorry you lost your wife. I hope, somehow, the pain that is evident in your eyes on this show can be healed. Hugs to you, and I wish you the best in life.

[@christopherallen8930]

Thank you for your support. I really appreciate it.

[@SeanTallGuyInRockingChairKelly]

I agree Steve was lil harsh and could of had his back more

[@saramarshall2957]

I'm sorry about this guy was abusive to his wife. When you say a line like we've only gotten into three physical fights over a lot of years, that says something to me. Like that's an accomplishment. I've never been in a physical fight with a man who loves me.

[@PurpleRain500]

@@saramarshall2957Ok, well you may live in a fairytale but that’s not everyone’s reality. And just because a man puts his hands on his wife, that doesn’t necessarily mean it’s an abusive situation, sometimes it’s self defense but there’s a double standard. When a woman defends herself against a man she’s called “Brave.” But when a man defends himself against his WIFE he’s all of a sudden a monster. It’s bullish!t and needs to be called out.

[@christopherallen8930]

@@saramarshall2957 never said it was me being physical with her. Yes we had fights, and yes Kyra could get physical but not once did we leave a mark on one another. It was more on the lines of she would lunge and slap me, or throw some dish at me. I dont need to play up our fights to suit Kyras estranged family, and I dont need to down play them for my own ego. Our relationship was what it was, the good and the bad. We love each other and that was the bottom line.

[@RebeccaGallin]

You know that was so wrong Steve. I don't believe there was sufficient evidence to show he emotionally abused her.

[@melissabell4898]

When I was 16 I had a boyfriend commit suicide. His whole family blamed me even though a few of them knew he had talked about doing it. I'll never forget going over to his Mom's house a few days later with my Parents, he left me a letter. We walked in on the whole family sitting around debating on whether I was allowed to the funeral. When families go thru this they want to blame someone so bad. I can see both sides.

[@naeproductionnss]

Did you ever go?

[@foreignbentley173]

My sister was suicidal as a kid mom got her help now she's fine. Most parents/fam wanna blame others when 1 as a parent it's your responsibility to see the signs (if any are there) and get them help 2 you know your family you know they are suicidal yet want too pass blame on others when noone can truly help them except themselves. It's sad af but I with families would start taking blame for their roles just as they blame others for their families faults.

[@johntaeowens1248]

I know how you feel

[@khyanni4937]

Steve said “so move on from it” after this man said he lost his wife.... wtf Steve let something happen to Rachelle, and someone tell you move on from it.... tuh

[@ronaldbouldin1639]

Right!!! I am disappointed in how Steve treated this poor grieving man. God help him.

[@thevalorousdong7675]

She was an adult, not a child- charged for not securing a firearm?

[@Akichan07]

Steve you dropped the ball on this one Everyone sucks here You jumped on this guy unnecessarily He's grieving too Theyre making Facebook pages about him Slandering him and he's not supposed to react?

[@memequeen313sgamingworld9]

He cleared his name so why y'all still being hard on this guy? That's the problem with society now

[@khaotics3663]

The way her family is talking, I don’t think that they even want to believe that she was depressed/ suicidal in the first place. That’s probably the reason why they want to pin the blame on him so much even after he passed the lie detector test.

[@nicholinaplange4750]

Strange Tiger and Steve just acted like a fool and backed them. If she’s been depressed for a long time since her teens like he said, shouldn’t we blame the other two on stage? I’m done watching this show. Because this is really terrible. He is innocent and being blamed for someone’s death; forgetting it could also depress him and force him toward suicide too?!!!

[@khaotics3663]

Nicholina Plange Exactly.

[@nicholinaplange4750]

Karina Peters so sorry to hear that.

[@VeteranE-4]

Grandma whispers manslaughter when Steve was saying he would’ve charged him with not securing his weapon, come on now. He passed his lie detector test and they still think he did it

[@kaseyrutledge5062]

I feel like Steve should publicly apologize for the way he treated him in this episode. This is very unkind and heartless. Steve is better than that!! What was wrong with him that day? Steve must have been going thru something within himself for him to act that way.

[@thembisibanyoni4435]

The way Steve judged this guy, he wished he failed the test. So Steve's wife don't know where he keep the key of a safe? don't make sense.

[@charlest5604]

I'm starting to notice a pattern with Steve. If a man is accused or does something wrong Steve goes hard as hell at them but if it's a woman (outside of child abuse) he goes soft as hell. Just be consistent.

[@johnnybryant1497]

Even in Child Abuse, He seems to take It Easy on the Woman. He offers Them Help, but never offers a Man Help. He is Two Faced.

[@pinkpugginz]

Uh no he doesnt. Hes cussed out many child abusers man or woman

[@pinkpugginz]

@@johnnybryant1497 hes offered men help plenty of times and cleared their names.

[@keithoberle6824]

Why didn't Steve ask the family if they had something to do with her suicide? Why weren't they tested? For all we know they may have abused her as a child. If the husband had something to do with her death even indirectly the results would have been at least inconclusive. Why didn't Steve confront the family for falsely accusing him online? Suicide is a tragedy and it is self-inflicted. Why shame the husband and insinuate his responsibility without questioning the family?

[@gracenanyaro4793]

If anything happens to this man (praying not)/Steve and this family are fully responsible.

[@audreyreid3969]

!!!!!

[@maryelaine-blinstrubchambe6083]

I didn't like Steve attacking this man. No understanding whatsoever. He was with her since they 16.

[@sachaginger5709]

you can see he's so hurt 😢 keep strong mate

[@dRippppa]

I don't feel like you should charge someone when the person who got ahold of it was his wife...a grown woman.

[@hellokitty-pd4lr]

Steve was wrong for this have some sympathy for everyone involved damn they all lost a loved one

[@codycarl3005]

Suicide creates potential suicide attempts for family and friends of the victim, I really hope this guy knows that what’s done is done and that he can’t change any of it. He should move on and not feel guilty because he didn’t deserve to be treated like that 😢 I wish someone speaks to him to just make sure he’s ok, hope he can get counselling or something 🤲🏽

[@spiritualeefeminine8075]

I am a huge Steve Wilkos fan however I do not like the way this one was handled, there was no sympathy for that man losing his wife. That was an awful situation all the way around

[@glenslymarieriverabarreto9549]

The fact he was being blamed for his wife committing suicide. Steve that was shameful

[@CcBeautiful94]

I’m a huge fan but I hate how Steve treated this man. No evidence of him actually abusing her. They just want SOMEBODY to blame besides the woman who did this to herself! This man lost his WIFE he’s hurting just like everyone else. I have so much sympathy for him too.

[@katelynbrown98]

Right. I'm sorry but grandma being scared of him looking at her is not sufficient evidence. I personally don't think he abused his wife neither emotionally nor physically. He should not at all be to blame for his wife's death and if a cop did arrest him the charges would probably be thrown out/dropped.

[@yatogod4292]

Y'know I get hyped when Steve starts bashing people, but it made me a little upset to see him attack this guy who obviously felt a lot of hurt.

[@aaronburratwood.6957]

Anyone can become suicidal.

[@ziigiiziig]

The grandmother said "manslaughter" as if he handed her the gun, made her put it to her head, and told her to pull the trigger. You can't blame an adult for taking their life on another adult as if they're a child.

[@mainstreamnemesis1086]

Not securing his firearm? Wtf! From his wife?!?! Not a child!! Wow!! This one pissed me off so bad

[@AtaliaCandia]

I did not like the way this man was treated. Steve clearly judged him by his appearance, as did his wife's family. The man proved himself totally innocent and Steve proceeds to pretty much say that just because he didn't shoot her doesn't mean it wasn't his fault. What kinda thing is that to say to a grieving widow?? Steve has no idea what that feels like yet he's harshly judging him for no good reason. I feel so bad for him. I hope he finds peace.

[@classymom9047]

I didnt like Steve's response here, if someone was tarnishing my name and calling me a murderer...I would be mad too, of course hes hurt.She was living with him when she died.It means that she still loved him or she would have been living with her parents.This was a sad one to watch.

[@classymom9047]

Steve sometimes is harder on the wrong person, there was a woman who was beating her man and Steve was easy on her...this is one sided

[@Wodysmokes]

Classy Mom just watched that yesterday he been on some biased bs lately and how he treated this guy was beyond unfair

[@CadeTheReaper]

@@Wodysmokes facts like I fr think he'll put a guy through hell but go easy on a girl because of the difference in gender

[@Wodysmokes]

Joshua Shorter the last two episodes showed that even if we are wrong about this dude the last one he was wrong for doing him like that

[@naenae5279]

Steve was wrong for saying the man partly responsible because she knew how to get to his gun. he was not at fault at all that was a grown ass woman not a child!! And he was wrong for telling him to get off the stage. He treated this man wrong period.

[@jimmywright6625]

When this young lady's mom said that her laugh would make you laugh you can't help but smile GOD BLESS THIS FAMILY 🙏 💖

[@bubbaluv5740]

This man has been cleared... but taking all precautions of a deadly weapon should always be in those with a right state of mind.

[@lynnlynn7228]

I got pissed watching this episode. How the hell do you tell someone to move on from losing their WIFE?! Steve was talking out of his ass on this one. I’m starting to notice that he does that quite often when he can’t find something wrong with a person. When they do everything that a normal person would do, he has to make it seem like they’re doing something wrong or weird. Ratings must be dropping.

[@ScreaminEagle35]

Something is off with this episode with how steve acted toward him it was like he was being attacked. I do think he should have kept the gun safe but i dont think her killig herself is his fault and i dont he abused her to that point

[@swaggertt3106]

Bro she’s a grown women who’s obviously gonna have the fucking same access to the gun as him u sound stupid on that part if it was a child then we can say he should feel guilty about it or be charged buts she’s a grown women fuck Steve

[@professorpenne9962]

^ it's pretty common for a husband and wife to both have access to a home defense weapon in case of an emergency like a break in. not his fault at all.

[@ScreaminEagle35]

@@swaggertt3106 Listen, we can have a conversation without you insulting me or cussing. Are u saying i sound stupid on the part of they both having access to the gun? there are households where ppl just have safe of weapons and they are the only ones who have access to them. if im not completely understanding what your saying help me out cause to me ur all over the place (no offense its just how i read things). What i was saying is if she was suicidal he should have kept it in a different place. I dont think its his fault cause at some point she was good so he mostly had some trust to keep it out (i dont remember the whole story im trying to remember what i can). again idk what part i sound stupid on but just i dont think its his fault

[@swaggertt3106]

Screamin Eagle my nigga I’m not reading all that I agree with u how Steve acted towards the guy but u can’t blame this man 1% for his wife killing herself cause she used his gun I have a gun and my mother has access to it god forbid someone breaks in my crib and I’m not there she’s gonna let that shit off so don’t u think if he had access to it she’s gonna have access to wherever it is and if there was no gun she’s gonna use a diffrent method to kill herself Steve is a dick head making this innocent man who lost his wife feel guilty its like he wants him to kill himself and then tells him get the hell off my stage and he lost his fucking wife on my mother’s heart and soul had that been me up there I swear I’d be in jail cause I would’ve ripped his face apart

[@swaggertt3106]

Screamin Eagle and like he said if u paid attention she never showed no signs of suicidal and even if there’s was no gun I’m pretty sure the bitch would’ve found another way don’t u think or are u gonna keep justifying the bitch and Steve

[@lyndseyholmes1043]

Poor man. Come on Steve, he lost his wife. He wants to prove he didn't kill her. Why are you giving him grief

[@user-gigi-gigi]

I disagree with Steve she was an adult. He lost his wife too. They all are grieving.

[@cashstachemustache2668]

So they accused him of murdering someone..... and Steve had the nerve to act like a Jack ass to this guy. Like how are you gonna tell him to leave your family alone when he didn't do anything. And the mom and sister were antagonizing him WTF

[@ravenstein-miller6538]

Such a shame he was blamed for something so heinous as killing his own wife. I understand that he was the only one there during that tragic day, but It’s not his fault. I really hope he gets better later in life. ☺️

[@beytonbeyton]

it breaks my heart to see how shitty they treated him:(

[@erinconnelly7153]

I don't like how Steve treated him like a criminal. It's a sad story, but he is also grieving. He was proven innocent of shooting her, and nobody will ever know what drove her to suicide, but I don't think it was right for him to be talked down to so much about how guilty he should be.

[@shaunanacole]

Steve was dead wrong for putting that on that man like that. That wasn't even necessary.

[@truthhurts3943]

For someone to be accused of murder is not something to ignore! I’m glad he was able to clear his name ... if grandma and mom want to blame anyone , maybe they should look in the mirror?! Having suicidal tendencies from 16 and to leave this world from suicide ...where were they??? And Steve , come on you should know better than to assume he drove her to suicide, it’s asinine ...especially after this man had just cleared his name!!!!!

[@dank_memes_101]

Disliked bc of the way Steve treated him while he's a grieving widower who's getting harassed by the family and even tho he cleared his name, he still gets kicked off the stage. Huge fan but you lost me on this one.

[@-carina-]

Why is he responsible because he didn't lock away his guns? As his wife she should know the combination to get in a gun safe if they had one anyway. What if she was home alone and someone broke into the house and she didn't know the combination to the safe? Then it would be "well why didn't she have access to the guns??" Absolutely stupid to say he is responsible for not locking away his guns from his wife.

[@kierstynmichelle1743]

EXACTLY!!

[@-carina-]

@@kierstynmichelle1743 Steve is a douchebag for this one. Now this man will go through his whole life thinking he is responsible for his wife's death when he isn't. When someone wants to kill themself they will find a way.

[@jaeveinberry3147]

Why is Steve being a jerk. Like idk what happened in that relationship. But she made her own decisions. He is a mourning husband. And the family is blaming him saying he killed her. It’s disgusting how he was being treated.

[@rosie__999]

How are there not more dislikes??? This poor man is grieving and being BLAMED FOR THE MURDER of his wife and even AFTER he was proven INNOCENT, Steve STILL found a way to turn it around and make him look bad. Are you kidding me!? For real???? You DO NOT blame someone for someone else’s suicide. EVER. I know that and I’m 14. I’m so disappointed.