Diddy, Keke Palmer & the Selective Support of BIack Women

[@shazzari]

I remember last week when Keke’s unfortunate news broke, I saw someone comment “Keke really shouldn’t have worn that dress & all this wouldn’t be happening.” I was utterly disgusted.

[@zingan.o.1435]

They're sick....

[@MissDoffy]

Yes because A DRESS is a reason to be abused 🤢 it's so gross

[@bontleillustrations7100]

And the abuse was happening way before the dress

[@deedeedussard]

Its because them people are insecure abusers themselves.

[@gw7911]

She could’ve been wearing traditional Islamic garb and this still would’ve happened.

[@jasmineroussell4441]

People have no idea how embarrassing DV is. It’s hard to talk about. We’re not casually lying about abuse. It’s gross and extremely traumatizing.

[@oneiione]

Exactly n that’s the whole point too, exerting power over you so everyone can see how bad you got knocked down

[@melissariccardi7499]

I love you and stand with you I've been there with dv

[@Nohandle1125]

Exactly! Especially because we’ve all been that “I will never let a man put hands on me” woman and it’s a literal and metaphorical slap to the face to have to come forward with those experiences after being so loud and dismissive of other DV victims.

[@jonillet5507]

People REALLLLLY don't understand this

[@suede.the.curator]

When I was in university, I was hit by a car in the middle of a crosswalk at an intersection where the offending (white, male) driver clearly had a red light. I remember the heat coming from the grill of the car as my body lay wrapped around it. The driver carried my body to the middle of the intersection, stopped the car, then reversed back to his original spot behind the crosswalk. My friend, who is also black, that was spared being a few paces behind me yelled for help when the commotion began and called the police. When my body fell to the pavement, she picked me up and supported me as I limped to the sidewalk. We were in an affluent and moderately busy neighborhood in Boston. No one came to help us. As I looked around me (in tears) sitting on the sidewalk waiting for the police, I saw people actively looking or walking away from the accident. And when the light turned green, the driver rolled down the window, shouted a racial slur at us, and drove away. The first thing a police officer said after I gave my statement was: “are you sure you were paying attention to the road?” I remember looking at him genuinely dumbfounded by the audacity to ask such a question, telling my friend that there will be no justice for us, and calling an Uber to take me to the ER.

[@lusus999]

That is horrible! Glad to see you made it, are you alright physically, are you working through it emotionally?

[@seauxtired]

How absolutely disgusting. I'm so sorry and hope you're healing physically.

[@ninamatthews8747]

Wow, did they bother to look for the driver?

[@michellepittman7886]

This breaks my heart. I am so sorry you experienced this. It is truly disgusting how Black Woman are treated in the world compared to other races of women. Even in the most vulnerable moments, Black Women are given less care than an animal. 💔😢

[@longlivebeans]

When it comes to wealthy abusers, there’s nothing money can’t buy. Some of these men are capable of putting an entire police force in their pocket let alone a judge so I need everyone to stop acting like we’re dealing with regular people because we’re not. There’s machines behind them. Diddy isn’t your cousin or friend or coworker, he’s an enterprise. Imagine how terrifying it must be to up against someone like that.

[@AlphabetSoup123]

Lizzo's dancers should be added into this group. Sadly, the public wrote them off as money hungry and they're claims are very similar to Cassie's when it comes to kidnapping (they were locked in rooms), sexual harassment, abuse of power against them and their personhood, and being forced into sexual activities with their bosses against their will. Because they were bigger women, the consensus was "oh, they should be 'happy' to have their jobs" and not "these women are being abused."

[@MissDoffy]

People will always find a reason to justify black women being victims of DV 🤢🤢🤢. With of without proofs people will always find a way to blame the women for being abused. I believed Cassie the second I saw the news because everybody and their grandma KNOW that Diddy is a pos. Plenty of women had spoken against him but they were ridiculed and called broke, attention seeking and liars

[@r.a.l.p.h]

The fact that anyone would question for a second that Diddy didn’t abuse Cassie is just hysterical ☠️.

[@efghd2624]

Right!!! Hell, just look at how he treats his artists. That man has been grimy for years.

[@gregvs.theworld451]

@@efghd2624 Isn't it widely believed by pretty much everybody in the rap community that Diddy put the hit on Biggie? We gonna strongly suspect this man was directly responsible for another man's death but the idea he's an abuser is crazy? The math ain't mathin'.

[@TheSomethingnew1]

Thank you for this because between KeKe and Cassie, people are trying to pretend like they’ve never been stuck in a relationship and attached to a situation they couldn’t let go. Everybody has all the advice when it’s not them.

[@kia.203]

🙌🏽 whewww. You said a word. It was tons of " that couldn't be me, or I would never do that", when in reality, they would.

[@Maverickgouda]

I haven’t had the firsthand experience and I have a time wrapping my mind around people’s reactions every time this happens. In my head, the pattern of abuse is common knowledge in [insert year] AD, so I don’t get people not getting why victims don’t get out. It teaches me how far we’ve come

[@sixteen.candles.4644]

With Cassie she tried to let go and escape but Diddy sent his people to bring her back.

[@TreeHairedGingerAle]

​​​@@sixteen.candles.4644People will literally witness this in their own communities and not understand. One of my earliest memories is my mom trying to get away from the house with me in tow, only to be stopped by my abusive grapist dad's cousins and friends who were watching the house. Extended family knew. Open secret. Who did they demonize forever? Mom. Between weaponised incompetence, controlling accounts, and sabotaging employment and career opportunities a man and his parents will put a wife into a position where she can't support herself, and then the entire community will be all like, well why didn't she just leave?? As if 'staying and suffering or leaving and starving in the street' is any kind of choice. Institutions don't help, they only pretend to so that people will think it's not a problem. Shelters are suuuuuper under capacity, notorious for theft and abuse BY THE STAFF, and often filthy to the point of being dangerous to one's health. Cops and fascists harass, beat, and kill homeless people with impunity. Cops (again) and courts are more likely to harm and jail Black women when they call for help. Even doctors are more likely to try to pathologize (and gaslight!) the wife with depression, anxiety, hell, check her over for head trauma a million times, rather than believe that the man has some major fucking issues that causes him to abuse in the first place . *Everything* in our society is designed to empower abusers and their enablers at best; silence, exploit, and profit off of victims at worst. Meanwhile the toxin and image of the social validation that a man receives for being married is more important than the health, hopes, potential, goals, drives, and lives of abused women who are then demonized when said women are unhappy or angry about that.

[@fatmata.binta.b]

Natalie Lawyer Chick, a black criminal defense attorney, has two thorough live streams on the Cassie & diddy situation: one breaking down the context of the lawsuit and another breaking down the nature (& myths) around settling lawsuits. I highly recommend it!

[@bs4e]

I love her videos! She's so thorough but also easy to understand.

[@hoodhippie7117]

When I had a domestic violence situation in the last , even my OWN MOTHER asked me “well what made him do that?” GIRL WHAT HOW WOULD I KNOW TF ?

[@Fear_Collective]

You're iconic. Super engaging and thoughtful. IG comments are full of female-hating toxicity, even from other women. Public reaction towards Jada, Britney, Megan, hell even Ms. Markle has just been so eye opening that we still really pay women dust, especially women of color.

[@happygucci5094]

I’ll add another name… Kelis. Post Nas- child support amount- the community Dragged Kelis! Smfh

[@amandakellx]

Yessss Ive been educating myself on the history of this treatment against black women and I am consistently disgusted by how the black community reacts when a black man beats a black woman and how they serve as their savior by sheltering them and not holding them accountable for their actions. Cicely Tyson, Tina Turner, Dee Barnes, Megan thee Stallion, and many others.

[@Crystalbella1999]

I honestly still support Keke. You can tell she's new to long-term relationships. I don't care who's right or wrong, I only care about their son, Leo Palmer, being happy and healthy.

[@wordsbygemm]

I'm pretty sure she's spoken about having other long-term relationships before. They just weren't really public

[@suoutubez19]

There is no right or wrong when it comes to domestic violence and assault. Darius is an abuser. There is no “both sides” to that.

[@sixteen.candles.4644]

​@shizzlemywizzle1 people didn't say that with Jaime concerning Nikki abusing him tho. He had footage of her being abusive and people just wondered what he did. That's like wondering my what Keke did to deserve the abuse she endured.

[@SE-gs6gd]

@@wordsbygemmwhich should tell you something

[@wordsbygemm]

@@SE-gs6gd ??

[@ThyCatalystRaves]

Such a nuanced, empathetic and intelligent take on this! You are very kind to victims, thankyou for your words. Big, big truths here.

[@kevinwhitesides5983]

Megan thee liar

[@ThyCatalystRaves]

Lmao here's yer cookie of attention you wanted so bad! @@kevinwhitesides5983 🍪

[@Silly_u1908]

Thank you for this video. It really brought issues within black womanhood and how we advocate to the forefront. Who is the perfect victim and what is the correct crime that must be committed against them in order for them to receive our support have been the questions I have asked toxic twitter over and over. Keke, Megan, and Cassie are victims but somehow fall short of our support. Maybe because their violators were black men or as Herby explained they are not white women.

[@tinaodekunle8163]

The idea of the perfect victim and how it pertains to who is believed and supported is so so real

[@randolphfair7915]

Or Megan lied, omitted, and completely manipulated the situation. Kelsey wouldn't of had to plead the fifth involving anything, referencing her holding the gun towards Megan in court if she happened pulled the trigger.

[@semplybalanced3210]

It's bc black men are the abusers. It's really that simple.

[@king_katia]

I am honestly dumbfounded how you don't have millions of subscribers already - it's always a delight and a revelation to watch you. Thank you!

[@riversome9066]

There can be DV even in parental relationships that never gets talked about or believed. Hopefully there son never has to face that

[@naturally.hannxx]

I can’t wait for the video about real love and how it’s being distorted in the media! Love, particularly black love, is something that is constantly being associated with violence and harm which can have some really detrimental impacts on advocacy as you mentioned. Abusive love stories have become so normalized in the black community that when a black woman such as Keke Palmer or Cassie wants to speak up about it, it’s always met with pushback and criticism with no empathy for the victim whatsoever. It’s really scary when black women come out and express that they’re okay with toxic love and I really do think it comes from a lack of self worth. Black women are already so marginalized and oppressed that it’s hard for us to see ourselves as worthy and deserving of healthy love and relationships. And it really doesn’t help that alot of the media that we consume including music, tv, films etc are constantly normalizing the abuse and harm of black women. I think it was in one of your other videos where there was a clip of this influencer, I think her name is Ari? Where she was talking about how she loves a man that is violent because it shows that he really cares for her. You know the kind of love where he “pulls his gun out and threatens her if she tries to leave”…. It’s truly disturbing! I even think about some of Sza’s songs on SOS, don’t get me wrong I love Sza down and her music, but let’s be real she definitely glorifies toxic love in her music. “I love when you pull your gun at a red light, I like all that violence, give me dysfunction”… like what???? Huh???? And it’s so easy to just gloss right over these kinds of things because it’s so engraved in us, that we’re not even phased or disturbed when we hear it anymore. So of course that translates over into how we advocate for others, especially black women who don’t want to be in these abusive relationships anymore or want justice for the mistreatment they’re experiencing, and the community just turns the other cheek. I definitely just went on a tangent but this is a topic that has been on my mind for the longest 🫣 I’m not really sure where we go from here. There are so many things that black people need to unlearn when it comes to healthy dating, relationships, marriage, and parenting! Anyways, can’t wait to hear more of what you have to say about these topics cause it’s definitely a conversation that needs to be had. Also Justice for Sharon 🙌🏼 even though sis needs to rethink some of her views on bisexuality fr 🥴 we support you but not when you’re being openly homophobic and biphobic!

[@evdokiaCHARALAMBOUS]

Finally someone speaks about the 'damsel in distress' model. Such a good take

[@shycurves82]

Yeah the media in general but especially the black community. Cassie actually have more support than if it was a dark skin black woman. But I'm happy for Cassie how everything played out because she got het story out and was compensated without dragging it out in the courtroom with possibly re traumatizing yourself. Glad that others are now encouraged to tell their own story and Diddy will sooner than later find himself in a jail cell

[@UnahVerse]

Justice for Sharon. I'm a first time watcher and thank you! I know the right people aren't watching this, but thank you for defending and supporting black women/femmes

[@gtg488w]

I’m so glad you addressed the “it couldn’t have been me”s and the “I wouldn’t been shot his ass” type comments. Likeee are you sure about that? Ma’am, do you even own Ah gun, one piece? No hate to those people, we all judge one another wrongly I think they are just not thinking at all and don’t know anything about guns.

[@Amanda4.0]

It baffles me that black women STILL utter that kind of garbage (especially when are deleted every 4 hrs.).

[@chironsthea607]

Namaste, thank you for all the diligent work you do!

[@herbyxrevolus]

Aaww, thank you 🥹🤎

[@chironsthea607]

Justice for Sharron

[@livertiny]

5 years ain't shitt gurlfriend. I'm surprised she was able to process her s*** and get her s*** together enough to be able to file a damn lawsuit within 5 years. Like, im like, it ONLY took you five years?? It took me over 10 years to realize that the stuff one of my former bosses was doing to me not only wasn't okay but was also illegal

[@gregvs.theworld451]

Honestly, why do we even need to have a stake in feeling our feminine energy to support, believe, and love women? Shouldn't we respect and love women because they're people? Because if we were victims, we'd want love and respect and support? Because even if you or I cheated on a partner, which is shitty for sure, we'd probably agree we don't deserve getting fucking shot over it? I know I'm a little biased here as an enby who dresses in what society calls feminine clothing, so I do have that personal empathy from the feminine perspective, but why should a personal connection be required to just stand up for people? Also Justice for Sharon!

[@HP-mk2lw]

This was a great video handled very well. I am a DV survivor and it took me a long time (close to fifteen years) to even come to terms with it and even still there are things in still learning about it today. It’s hard. And no less my ex was white as well so that made it doubly worse because if felt like I wasn’t allowed to complain about it. I am fortunate to have a beautiful man in my life now but I still struggle with those scars. Justice for Sharon.

[@jamaicanpianistcomposer]

Justice for Sharon! Herby you are just such a delight to listen to, because your work responds to my mantra wholehearted that "nuance is EVERYTHING!" You are deserving of all of the things and thank you for truly being a critical voice of reason on the internet.

[@ShawnBloom]

Keke litteraly took legal action when she felt that things went too far for her to handle. He could've just went to the courts as well and he did not

[@MiahhOriginal]

i've been waiting on you to comment on these things i was like "herby gotta come off his break and talk about this" lol

[@Thedd426]

No fr this is an exception

[@sarahgates6947]

Justice for Sharon.Don't condone her words, but it was illegal for him to record her and she was fighting for her kid. Next time hopefully she will omit the homophobia and xenophobia.

[@rebekahramos4497]

So crazy how quick people are to dismiss these women online when it really be us and our own sisters, moms, aunts… same in the Latin cultures unfortu

[@MamaJayde]

5:42 this made me think of the whole situation with Tan DaGod & it’s just heartbreaking. I hadn’t heard of her until she was killed, and I can’t believe how many people are saying she deserved it. I hate how obsessed we are as a culture with punishment when anyone acts out. How are we so efficiently stifling our empathy?

[@nangi25]

Justice for Sharon! I loved this video and so grateful for your presence on these internet streets!

[@Crystalbella1999]

It's crazy how Keke's mom said homophobic things to insult Darius when her daughter is an out Bisexual.

[@herbyxrevolus]

Yea, the queerphobic comments were where she lost me. I won’t say she outted anyone bc ik she didn’t know she was being recorded, but resorting to biphobia was very uncool.

[@mykittystinksbad2]

Right? That's when she lost me. I get being upset but that nastiness doesn't come out unless that's how you feel. Herby you are better than me because i'm no longer riding with Keke's bigoted mom. I stand with Keke and her child.

[@jessicawilliams4547]

Actually she did that to protect her daughter. That is clear when Darius said “tell your daughter to put on some clothes”. It was a defense tactic. Please think things through before commenting.

[@missthang5654]

@@jessicawilliams4547it was a crowd of people there and the whole internet audience, it wasn’t just Usher there. I don’t think it was ever about Usher just the fact she was displaying her body the way he thought she was.

[@zingan.o.1435]

Yes it was wrong. She didnt have to say anything about Usher and his sezuality. She also didn't know she was being recorded. A mother at her boiling point with a man abusing her daughter. So she in a rage. But yes the comments were not cool.

[@chana1298]

pleasseeee do a video on this megan and pardi situation i would love to hear you talk about it. i am baffled that ppl are once again doing this to megan after COBRA of ALL songs

[@kevinwhitesides5983]

Megan thee liar

[@Amanda4.0]

Thank you!!! It's absolutely disgusting. Pardi is pissed b/c he got caught cheating and got dumped. Now, his true colors are beginning to show. I need for him to be exposed because I heard that he has history of abusing women.

[@fae3821]

The harassment she has faced is pure misogynoir & I don't get how people sit up online and waste time calling her a liar. DEEP rooted issues fr.

[@Amanda4.0]

@@fae3821 FACTS UPON FACTS! They're nothing but, a bunch of losers surfing online all day long calling Megan a "liar" - never having to confess what she supposedly "lied" about. All they do is regurgitate what the loser above their comment posted.🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@kevinwhitesides5983]

@@fae3821 This type of commentary is hilarious. So basically if you're a guy who calls her out on her bull crap your misogynistic. Lol, it's not our problem that she lied to the public and omitted multiple key details. In a very sad and pathetic attempt to mold public opinion and garner more fame. What we're seeing now it's just her actions backfiring in a very major way. Trust me when I tell you every single day more and more people fully read the transcripts and thoroughly review what happened in court. It's just a continuance to what she's currently experiencing and greater.

[@trebornosnittap]

This is what we wanna see! ❤

[@icarrus4u]

I love the way you speak! I’m just going to call you Professor Herby Revolus! 📚 Reminds me of being back in grad school. 😊 You’re really good at this. 🎉

[@LovelyOne0075]

It's sad a man gets and alot of woman don't. I just had to check a woman going in on Cassie who kept saying she did it for money...I asked her if she was mad Cassie got the money and not her? Yes, we all should take accountability but if you don't understand the nuances in when and how that applies, and understand when someone has truly been victimize then people shouldn't reserve their opinions, criticism and judgment.

[@Hisintrovertedwifey]

I feel like because Cassie is “ambiguous” she was believed right away. No one questioned her and those who did were dragged. I believe Cassie but when Kim Porter spoke up they called her a bitter baby mama why is that? She was a black woman and they tried to blame her for her suffering. Diddy is Trash but I think this is deeper than what we see. Cassie left Ryan Leslie for Diddy for a come up. Left her protection then got turned out sadly. But she was also an opportunist because Diddy was with Kim. I feel bad cause Cassie was young but I also ask if she was Black would she have been treated with such care. Sad all around and nobody won here. Most importantly Kim. Being Freaky or Bisexual is not a crime. The crime was she was beat why didn’t they focus on that in the brief.

[@PrincessAmmanii]

It’s insane to me how Keke’s case is active/current AND involving a child but there are so many thought pieces on her innocence or guilt…then we have Cassie with her experiences in the past and the support for her is so LOUD in comparison. I’m proud of both women for owning their truth and coming forward to hold these men accountable but I can’t help but notice the lack of support for one over the other and I peep the differences 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Hisintrovertedwifey]

@@PrincessAmmanii exactly

[@saboo1_2]

That's gross to say she left him for a come up. Disgusting. In the suit specifically she says she felt like she could not refuse his advances because of the power he had over her. Why would you even say that on a channel like this and this topic/how we're discussing it.

[@Hisintrovertedwifey]

@@saboo1_2 lol its factual.Ryan Leslie they were in a relationship he discovered Cassie and signed a management deal with diddy and tommy Mottola.The rest is history. Go read babe it’s not personal it’s business. Y’all need to learn to separate logic from emotions and call a spade a spade.

[@LowSlungBadBitch]

​​@@Hisintrovertedwifey yeah she signed a management deal. Diddy was planning to abuse her from the start. He got her to sign so that he could have control over her and then dated him bc she felt pressured to after he became her manager. How don't you get that. It's so common.

[@IAMCorbi]

Justice for Mama Sharon: I absolutely love how you articulated your thoughts on this matter and I share a lot of your concerns about not believing black Women. I also agree with the sentiment of being selfish, because goodness.. let’s all be a little selfish more lol. I love this.

[@melissariccardi7499]

Thank you for standing up for these and all women. We need more men standing behind us!

[@KendraVilus-lq4xg]

When I say you delivered this message ! You have delivered!!!!!!!! What a statement to make ❤️ absolutely amazing Herby

[@kid-ava]

6:40 thank you SO much for touching on the complex feelings one can hold for their abuser, even after recognizing how harmful their behavior is. some people see these situations in such black and white, when there's much nuance. and nuance that doesn't justify/excuse the harm victims experience

[@skottie222]

Cassie isn't a black woman, neither of her parents are black....she is a mixed woman. Keke and Megan are black women. I agree with everything else you said though

[@Amanda4.0]

I agree. However, I still support all 3 women.

[@segenyomua1904]

I love your videos and POV sm!! I’m so thankful for a person who is able to understand how serious this is! I believe women mostly but I try to move with discernment to guarantee I don’t contribute to ruining an innocent persons life. Some women will really lie, but most people aren’t. I know for myself, it was extremely embarrassing for a really long time to even be honest with people about what happened. You’re right about Women are having many different reasons as to why they don’t come forward to talk about abuse, and a lot of times it’s a shame and embarrassment that you were even a part of it. I know that’s how I felt, I just wanted to remove myself from the situation as much as possible. But thank you for your very open opinion, I absolutely agree with everything:) Justice for Charlotte

[@Cokokisses]

The first 2 minutes is a BAR! Thank you for loving us the way you do ❤

[@everythinglynn]

I just adore how you speak 😅 it’s so live, entertaining, quick, like memes on the run😂 even with a heavy topic like this..I love it. You’re vibes!🙌🏾

[@MsMizz1]

😂 Great description

[@damonrouge83196]

Justice for Sharon.& Custody for KeKe Unfortunately for the enemy, his kin folk and Usher's PI Mama said death to them all lol 😄Thank U Herby for always finding the funny while simultaneously sincerely championing for black women to be heard & Believed 1st! you never miss, so I'll always watch til the end🤌🏼have been since 10k😜❤️‍🔥

[@copiouscat]

Belll Squaaddd 💜 & Patreon fam

[@herbyxrevolus]

literally my fav person 🥹🫶🏿

[@copiouscat]

Yes babes!! & Justice for SHARONNNNN 🗣️🩵

[@theeobakeng]

Justice for Ms Sharon. Justice for all of us. We deserve a safe world.

[@EmmVee369]

Now people wanna say she shoulda known since the Usher concert, but at the time every "christian" content creator was talking about how his reaction was on point for a "godly man leading his household" and crazy b.s. like that...

[@zombiewithhat]

Justice for Sharon! Love this channel. I really struggle not to get furious during conversations with mutual friends or people at work when they blame or disbelieve women, and I feel like it hinders my ability to then verbally debate or defend women; anyone got advice on staying level-headed when confronted with those kinds of sexist attitudes?

[@katherinesinkler156]

Justice! Because I the video until the end. Also, one of the many reasons women/people whom experience domestic violence don’t always speak out immediately is because they are not ready to relive the experienced drama. Time heals all wounds - time is necessary ❤

[@Loaf0fBread]

Justice for Sharon!! Love your content Herby keep it up! 💕💖💗

[@Scriven42]

"Where have you been, Patrick Star..." Damn, both barrels no mercy!

[@zingan.o.1435]

KeKe mother was right. Keep your hands off my child! Or it's gonna be problems. Yes the Usher comments were not right. I understand Sharon was at her breaking point with that boy! Also....he illegally recorded Sharon and KeKe.

[@GoddessSoulSchool]

1:20 you didn’t have to go that hard 💀😭 made me damn near choke on my food

[@aw33]

Your vocabulary is immaculate! Love listening to you break shit down.

[@happygucci5094]

💗💗💗💗 Thank you Herby. Nailed it. Nailed it. Nailed it.🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 Love you gorgeous #JusticeforSharon!!! Bravo brava ATE it UP. Period.

[@staffj7528]

Cassie is not black. However, I get your point.

[@Mwangichronicles]

Justice for Sharon , Keke and Cassie

[@jerriandfriends]

Saw the title and IMMEDIATELY tapped in! Justice for mf’n Sharon 🏇🏾

[@ditzyspell_]

“tryna clap back with the clap” i am in SHAMBLES😭😭😭😭😭

[@jaygo4088]

Justice for Sharon. Also, I'm hooked on your videos. Can't stop watching.

[@monroeeartha]

JUSTICE FOR SHARON!!! ❤

[@PenelopeSnowe]

Justice for Sharon and for all black women period! 💖

[@briebanks8915]

Justice for Sharon ❤ and divine alignment because I’m working on a project while watching this and justice is the word I was writing down when you said that ✨ right place right time

[@lemonjuiceproduction2411]

Justice for Keke, Leo and Sharon✊🏾🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤

[@GDMiller419]

Justice 4 Sharon! We were waiting to see what Keke was gonna do, and sad to see it went there...

[@KISSES41D]

JUSTICE FOR SHARON!!!! great video! Thank you for covering this topic!!!

[@crystalcastillo7575]

The fact that people begin to victim blame a woman is exactly why I try avoid Instagram comments. People are so damn terrible

[@kid-ava]

so glad I've found your channel💓💗

[@bluespagirl1]

Magnificent work, Herbie!! JUSTICE FOR SHARON✨

[@No1SlapFIGHTFan]

Justice for Sharon! Love your channel. I always put you on in the background while Im playing sims.

[@Shesokarma]

I enjoy stopping by your page. Love your insights.

[@WELLNESSBALANCED]

Thank you ❤ I noticed the same thing. 🙏🏿❤️

[@rebekahramos4497]

That partttt! People forget about nuance way too easily and try to generalize situations to fit their own narrative

[@user9180]

Megan deserves so much better. Dealing with trauma from getting shot, the public’s unsympathetic response, losing her mom, dad, and grandma, getting cheated on, and dealing with toxic barbs. Shes so unbelievably strong and I wish only the best for her, bless her

[@Cedsbestwife]

Folks honestly did rally behind Carlee Russell, and I saw it with my own eyes bc I live in Hoover… so I have hope that people are valuing us more now. I guess we will see 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@james___worth]

10:18 - not me scratching my ticket as soon as you said that

[@james___worth]

and i did not win

[@lyricalreignmusic]

First time coming across your videos and you are amazing!! Great video!!! Thanks for supporting black women!! I subscribed immediately!! 👏🏿❤️ #justiceforsharon

[@Zzz-ff1np]

❤ to everything you said

[@lovice43]

Great video. Thanks 🙏🏾 💯🙌🏾

[@leanysealvarado7499]

Flying Fladoodle!!! 😂 I am stealing this 😂

[@angiepoo4839]

Justice for Sharon! Love your content as usual!

[@ssaki5005]

You are amazing and so beautiful this very important passionate and honestly caring message ♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@mafakuomhle9736]

Justice for Sharon I'd like to see you react to Troyce's opinions on this Keke thing

[@lowkeylibra]

Justice for Sharon lol loved your take on this

[@tj7_sa]

ilysm Herby🥰 • 🇿🇦

[@keirramichelle8644]

Sometimes you want a person so far removed from your life you don't speak up. You value your peace of mind more. But as time goes on another situation happens you regret not filing a police report so another person doesn't fall victim to your mistake.

[@lalat5899]

This title 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@mchelseanicholeu]

JUSTICE FOR SHARON lolol thank you for this video!!

[@ryxiene]

Damn dude, it’s hard listening to that phone call, but just so you know- justice for sharon. I don’t condone at all the homophobic and violent language, but I definitely understand the type of exasperation an obstinate abuser in denial can cause. As someone who never felt like they could speak up or speak out for the longest time, I completely get why these types of things take eons to come to light, if they ever do at all. It takes 2000% effort to continue on challenging accusations of lying after speaking out. I wish people could hear the injustice in the question “well, what did you do to make them treat you that way?” [ It’s also an inherently juvenile thing to ask. Not in a demeaning way. It’s the only framing we as children have to reason our caregivers’ actions involving us and the world around us. But as adults, with good guiding, we can grow to learn that many things happen to and around us through no fault of our own. Our actions are not the direct reason for a lot of the hurt that can befall on us. ] I wish people could realize, beyond that, where such questioning comes from and what it’s really conveying. No one makes up baseless pain and agony. It’s rooted in some truth, always. So why not try to understand the root of the matter? More often then not, the person speaking out has certainty been hurt in some manner by the person they’re “accusing.” I’d like us to create the space for people to come out with the truth of the wrong doing first. So we have to make room for believing what’s said first, so even if it’s discovered to be embellished or entirely parallel from the truth, we can still have that come to light and further work towards justice and care. All that to say, I don’t believe Keke would be embellishing or sidestepping any real issue here around Darius. Domestic abuse is entirely too common and, often, expressing pain from that betrayal doesn’t look like the victim directly speaking out against or accusing the abuser. It takes a lot of work and courage for the victim to be able to do that, if they ever want to at all. To have Keke say something and pursue actions directly against Darius means there’s been a lot going on for her to be able to do this we haven’t seen. And we shouldn’t have to see it to trust that it happened 🫠

[@1-of-1]

1. Soooo good to see your gorgeous face Herby hoping all is well. 2. I can't wait for your review of the Netflix movie 'Rustin'. 😊 I was so pleased with the movie would love to know your thoughts. 3. When we don't give grace as a society to change our mind. We rush to make sure people are telling the truth first rather than believing the victim first. If the victim is lying that will come out with time. We don't have to feel condemned to our first thoughts about a topic. But we should feel compelled to create a space for vulnerability and honesty. We can change our mind if the truth comes out that the victim was lying. Society should first create a supportive space for the victim. No matter when they decides to confess what they have been through. We will not be able to beat the ones that oppress us when we choose to oppress others. ❤ #justiceforsharon

[@Musa93]

I am in a constant state of practice and so is sheeeee 😂😂😂

[@OpposumParty87]

Justice for Sharon!!❤️

[@TrazzyStar]

You know a mother named Sharon will never stop going to bat for their children #justiceforsharon

[@monaeblackeaglequeen8974]

I agree on all this thank you+!

[@shopece8807]

Absolutely Justice For Sharon!

[@mitzenblack9123]

Justice for Sharon 🙏🏾