"Didn't Want a Nice Man When I Was 24, Now He'd Be Crazy To Talk To Me..." Woman Is Finally Honest 🤔

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[@josephbwalker]

DO NOT. NEVER. EVER. Take them back. EVER. FTB.

[@steviemak10]

Or give them any attention whatsoever ‼️

[@jonathancue1584]

AMEN TO BOTH COMMENTS 2 KING'S 👑👑

[@dailyhunter3683]

Preach 🙏🙏🙏 louder🗣️ for the congregation at the back of the church ⛪.

[@thetruthtings]

Women that wait for good men after they had devils comes with secrets lies kids herpes HIV pookies and Ray Rays they will never let go. Good BM treat them like the wolves in sheep's clothing they are

[@bensisko-theemissary4940]

FACTS. NEVER!!! ✈️

[@blacknight88]

I'm shocked she took accountability.

[@davien001]

Nah, she just wants an honest smuck.

[@Mankind-ik4ie]

😂Facts

[@FaithandPurpose828]

She wanted pookie when she was 24.

[@parrishharris3008]

She's been with 75 dudes so of course she can take accountability now.

[@frassfrass5376]

Beyond shocked

[@roberttoocool3808]

Men if she leaves you DON'T EVER WELCOME HER BACK WITH OPEN ARMS. It will never be what it was.

[@erikturner5073]

He wouldn't want what was, hence is why he shouldn't take her back

[@millzhale4223]

Most will not listen. Too many of these guys think they can save her.

[@MARCELORLANDOKING-lx5ud]

​@millzhale4223 only simps and nice guys think they can

[@erikturner5073]

@@MARCELORLANDOKING-lx5ud the thing is, nice guys are waking up and women don't like it. That's why women are complaining about men not wanting to date anymore. More nice guys are no longer stepping up. They're used to the nice guys being the clean up men, step father's, or foodie calls, and those days are coming to an end. Now more and more, they are left with the Pookies and Ray-rays.

[@isorozco511]

i say take her back, but don't prioritize her at all and put other girls in front of her

[@kevingeorges1160]

What’s really sad about women is that they refuse to learn from others mistakes. They have their mothers, friends, cousins, and aunties who are single mothers and still choose to go down that path. They see it on social media, shows, movies AND STILL choose to go down that path. The disconnect is beyond comprehension.

[@briandam8126]

Because they all suffer from “it won’t happen to me” syndrome. Then they wake up one day, single, 3 kids from two different dads…. at age 36. The “good guy” ship has long sailed for that type of broad, and they realize they have another 40-50 years left on this earth to figure it out. Grim

[@evos469]

That's a trait of logic

[@WeStSiDeReD]

Exactly

[@timcool251]

Their Aunties, Mothers, Cousins, etc condone their behavior in hopes they have the same outcome. Misery lives company. Notice how those same Aunties, Mothers and cousins always have a problem with the Family Members that did the right thing, settled down, for married, endured, and ultimately had the better outcome.

[@stevenharris4406]

Agreed not until I really talked to the older women in my family did I see that the cognitive dissonance is so strong that in the face of glaring reality my Sisters would not only go left themselves but advise the same for their children.

[@dbuckner92]

I don't feel bad for them at all. Because they didn't feel bad when they use 💩 on the good guys.

[@thetruthtings]

Women that wait for good men after they had devils comes with secrets lies kids herpes HIV pookies and Ray Rays they will never let go. Good BM treat them like the wolves in sheep's clothing they are

[@professionalpookie]

You look special ed

[@Foreverdensword]

Pretty much

[@ghostmaker8957]

Fuck going soft let em learn

[@thetruthtings]

@@professionalpookie your m0m was and still is a H03

[@isoboy1000]

She is 100% when she said the dude will be dump to take her back, because she will lose his respect immediately. And right now she knows the dude is the price but if the dude comes back he will be making the biggest mistake of his life.

[@H2KSP]

That's why it's a no win situation for her and him. She made her own catch 22 situation.

[@lewis20002000]

I am not going to take her back, but I will funk her again and have fun with her, I not going to invest into her like before, we can have a situationship, but she is not moving in and/or I am not spending any more money on her than her ex did, and I am definitely NOT take care of pokie's kid(s).

[@CeeWorld69]

Dumb* , prize* . And yes I agree 🔥!

[@isoboy1000]

@@CeeWorld69 Thank You!

[@CeeWorld69]

@@isoboy1000 you’re welcome brother

[@CyberDT]

We talk about the women who didn’t choose the right men early in life. But, I think it’s an opportunity to talk about the women who chose correctly and then destroy their marriages and families with their mindset, behavior, and desire to always think they can do better. I’m sure this is the story of a lot of divorced women and single baby mamas.

[@larrycoleman9513]

Also facts.

[@joek4492]

Common Theme for Sure

[@chrismcduffiephoto]

Bingo

[@javodfrazer8347]

Definitely facts!

[@veedee4860]

I’ve never heard a man say this to another man or heard of the men’s equivalence of this gem of a quote “the first marriage is for money, the second marriage for live”.

[@thisguyrighthere4634]

But these type of women will still always have a simp to come rescue them in their later yrs

[@UtdG01]

exactly so it don't really matter...they never "really" face any serious consequence, they always get bailed out. Ultimately, the only real losers at the end of the day are the men imo

[@camden336]

Let them have em...

[@thetruthtings]

Women that wait for good men after they had devils comes with secrets lies kids herpes HIV pookies and Ray Rays they will never let go. Good BM treat them like the wolves in sheep's clothing they are

[@thetruthtings]

80% of BW want GOD to play and use for blessings and the devil to creep with. This is the best advice I can give and if GOD let every BW into heaven right now I'll bet most of them would try to sneak the devil outta hell back to heaven the same day. BW will always F up a good thing

[@daquanmcdonald7104]

A mf who got no bitches like that

[@carlosgreen3551]

This is a clear case of the "Epiphany" phase, where "Women" reflect on the bad choices they made in "Life" and now, she wants the "Good Guy" that she passed on in her "Prime" to get with a "Pookie"!

[@anthonyjohnson9183]

That only happens when they start buying their own drinks at the club.

[@SigmaGentPodcast]

I'm that dude. Not a nice guy, but a hard working, succesful, financially capable, responsible, respectful, fit, forward thinking man who is killing it. Women who gave their best years to loser dudes have no shot.

[@MARCELORLANDOKING-lx5ud]

💯

[@davidford3073]

True 😂

[@grg242]

Brother, I hope you can identify the tendencies of those type women. What I’ve found is dudes that are focus on their purpose tend not to deal with women at the same time. This can lead to a chameleon finding their way into your life and messing guys up.

[@Angelica._.officalll]

Same here. Flat broke in my 20s. I could not "date", but had a few long term relationship. After years and years of endless classes, I did finally graduate - and my world changed. As I slid into my 30s I also slid into that 6-figure salary as an IT specialist. I also slid into a BMW. And the feeling was amazing. All of a sudden I could afford to dine in fancy restaurants and not think about it. Life was night and day. I also found a wife, 6 yrs younger. No kids. LA Model type, so she is hot. In fact, starred in a few movies. I won't mention the name of the movies, but she's still hot at 49 today. We have been married for 17 yrs. 3 kids. Today we own two homes, and looking for a 3rd. Our income, combined with rental income is north of $200k. I say Praise the Lord for all these blessings. And good things DO come to those are patient and who do it right. So hang in there my dude. Do the right thing always, and His blessings will arrive - on time.

[@doms5755]

@@grg242only if they haven’t conquered lust for certain types of women. If they do, there’s no shot those women get with him.

[@unusualgenius]

As a man who’s in his mid 30s, I can look back and see the women I past up on and the ones the past me up and I can say, Thank you God for watching over me like this, its situations are only getting worst out here ladies

[@PentaRaus]

Same, sometimes it's a blessing you didn't get what you asked for.

[@rickyclover9393]

She was a dummy at 24. No. He found someone else when turned 34. He has moved on to a woman who apprieates a nice guy. You lost a good one.

[@beac8238]

She said she got married and had a baby. She recognized that he was a good man but she didn’t lose anything.

[@rickyclover9393]

@@beac8238 He dodged a bullet.

[@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13]

@@beac8238Right, she said it worked out for her but if it hadn’t….

[@Maja-hs5pd]

@@beac8238I’m glad she’s married and has a child. The way she’s speaking makes it sound like she looks back and says she dropped the ball/ settled for less

[@grovedwayne390]

​@Maja-hs5pd sounds like she still reflects and thinks he is the one that got away even though she is married now

[@rossbillups8924]

Hey guys, In your 20s, focus on personal growth-date, but practice self-control. Don't let women defeat your self-discipline. Direct your thoughts to your career or trade, and kickstart life adventures with travel. Develop your beliefs; it makes you a better leader. Dedicate your 20s to self-improvement, and watch the ladies flock to you and your self-driven vibe. This will make our youngins great fathers as well. Cheers to success,

[@arthurswanson3285]

All facts.

[@evaphillips2102]

Better yet, start this in your teens. You’ll be miles ahead of other men by your 20s

[@BIGHURTification]

As a 46 year old man I can honestly say every woman that I had a crush on or wanted when I was Young now wants me. I have a family, a beautiful 5 Bedroom 5200 sq ft home my wife chose a business and we live a great life. I can also honestly say they all have kids by pookie and some of them even took care of pookie and the kids for a long time. They need help and are choosing really hard sounding just like this girl. Lastly the Woman that I wanted the most still looks good, still is sweet as can be, but is the one of those ones who had 2 kids by pookie that is now homeless. And yes I bust on her face and a few others too. I will say busting on her face was better than the CAT!

[@beac8238]

So you’re cheating on your wife/kids and proud that you can do that with a “low value woman” who rejected you? Disgusting.

[@Mankind-ik4ie]

😂😂😂💯

[@Dr_Evil_Genius]

Absolute savagery. Funny how those tables turn...

[@jmine1991]

😂😂😂

[@dquest007]

Great job Fam

[@Humble01able]

These eventually turn into the bitter bett brigade. My blood sister was wild and free, we warned and her but, " she likes what she likes." None of the men she had kids by were like the men in her family. She brought shame to our family. We still help her out, because she is our sister, and our nieces and nephews didnt ask for this.

[@larrycoleman9513]

Dam i got stories like that too in my family.

[@collinsmith6611]

We all got the same bitches and shame in our families to deal with bruh... We all in this shit together fam.. I lost my nephew in October to a abusive mother that never cared about him, we raised him and supported his life until he died in a car accident going to work. R.i.P .

[@evos469]

But you condone her actions

[@shawnbrown4485]

In 2012 I was living at my aunt's house while I was in school for my CDL. I'm at the table and my aunt and all of her lady friends (except Deesha) sat around the table, mocked and laughed at me for being a nice guy. It was mind blowing. My aunt doesn't have a man and you can catch her on Facebook right now complaining about how men ain't shit. Deesha has a husband. The same man she was with at the time. Good dude. I used to go to their house and learn how to make beats with him. But yeah, women cause their own problems

[@sir1junior]

The thing I find crazy is that when they make the decision to leave a good guy they know he is a good guy before they decide to leave him.

[@MARCELORLANDOKING-lx5ud]

💯💯💯 preach

[@MomoAfterDark]

As a man barely entering my prime (33) I will never settle down with a woman unless she’s in her prime (19-25).

[@R_W_Goodson]

🎯

[@MonDieuMaCauseMonEpee]

Smart man. Stay in shape, Stay payed, Stay on your purpose. Nothing above God, both within yourself and the great beyond.

[@bensisko-theemissary4940]

As it SHOULD BE. If you can’t find that in the USA, GET YOUR PASSPORT ✈️

[@Dipset415]

After 23 idk bra💯😭🤷🏿‍♂️

[@MomoAfterDark]

@@bensisko-theemissary4940 already got it. Flight booked I’m taking my first solo international trip

[@R_W_Goodson]

“…you still gave the most precious part of you to people that didn’t care anything about you…” 😮

[@learhaynes1002]

Facts

[@DeeDaKaang1]

Modern women fantasize about being 304's in their 20's, having 3 babies in their 30's, and then somehow magically 🪄🎩 making their heaux passed dissapear to be able to trick some mythical 🦄 HVM into giving her a 💍

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

True

[@oaklandsoldier8520]

They looking for the Russell Wilson

[@yourstruly9978]

They call it Caria's prayer 🙏🏾😂

[@khiliffox1277]

😂 nah fr tho

[@terencew7716]

If she doesnt want me in her younger years then I dont want her in her older years

[@shawnbrown4485]

Im 35 no kids. A friend of mine tried to hook me up with a friend that his woman is ckose friends with. She's 31 and is bad as hell I must say. She has 2 kids. I shrugged at the idea but gave it a shot anyway. As I'm talking to her I notice the one and only time she has actually flirted with me was when she made a joke about me moving in her house with her and her kids. I sense desperation on the low. I could be wrong though but I'm not dealing with it

[@caucasianafrican1435]

Move in, pay bills, become surrogate father....

[@EM-bk5dq]

Remember the face she made when he was bussing her down, and when he slipped out and she put it back in…. That’s why you NEVER take her back. EVER

[@MARCELORLANDOKING-lx5ud]

💯

[@camden336]

Ive seen chicks who i use to date, i still look like im in my 20's (41yo now) and they cant look at me when i see them, they be looking used...

[@yourstruly9978]

You NEVER hear a woman talking about how she passed up thugs in her 20's. EVER.

[@Zeebo216]

There are PLENTY women who have…hence the reason they are single now🤷🏿‍♀️…most men aren’t suitable for marriage…EsPECIALLY black men🤷🏿‍♀️….

[@pitsomothibi6411]

😂😂😂

[@Angelica._.officalll]

@yourstruly9978 Dude, I respectfully request your permission to use this as a meme. It is spot on. But I have never thought of the concept until now.

[@yourstruly9978]

@@Angelica._.officalll Be my guest.

[@leeption1able]

I'm 45 married with kids. Life is together, and wife and kids are beautiful. The girl I thought I wanted ..... wasn't what I wanted. I knew her from middle/ high school, and we became really good friends from 88 to 96. She moved in the early 2000s, and we linked back up and hung out from time to time. I'm married, so it was nothing inappropriate, but I knew she liked me. Just listening to her and knowing when she got "started" and who she had been with, and how many, I was blown away! She seemed so nice and innocent the whole time. Bodies on bodies. 😢 She still looks good, super thick, and cute, but I dodged a bullet. I'm glad she didn't want me then because I'm sure we'd be divorced now. Anyway, she's still looking and "dating" in our 40s. What's crazy too is that most of the women who didn't look my way started looking my way in my 20s to now.

[@ericsnow2069]

As long as she isn't married you can take her behind CVS and give her some nutrients.

[@davidclass7150]

Did she tell about the studs affairs or flings yep she was doing that too bruh trust me they always go same sex too they are bound too lose because she made bad decisions in short term no long-term thinking 😊

[@leeption1able]

@@davidclass7150 wilding out bro

[@americusdeville865]

For the streets.

[@Angelica._.officalll]

@leeption1able Be careful dude. Temptation sneaks up on a man. You might be in a slow boil, unawares. I would not hang out with this woman at all.

[@CorneliusSmalleliterealtor]

I'm a nice guy who married a beautiful nice girl in her prime. I was coming off trying to casually date, meeting chicks with the same name and getting them confused. she was tired of waiting for a player to stop playing while zoning everyone else. I intentionally didn't holla in school because I knew I would have to marry her. when we connected everyone else disappeared. we had a few months of stragglers randomly calling, fake friends who eventually showed their hands or running into people we told we weren't ready. 24 years together it all worked out. I also believe most over 30 have already passed on the one they are looking for. and you shouldn't hustle backwards with someone who wants you now but dissed you before.

[@brianm6924]

Beautiful

[@Angelica._.officalll]

@CorneliusSmalleliterealtor Same here bro, the blessing of the Lord! I married the cute LA model type in Los Angeles. No kids, in here prime. I was shocked what the Lord did. Married 17 yrs now, 3 kids, two homes, and income north of $200k. Only The Lod Jesus Christ!

[@juswavvy9634]

Alot of women when in their 20s turn their nose up at the men who could have been a good husband it's when they get middle aged and see what they missed on and regrets

[@zeroblack406]

Answer: that sisterhood BS, women keep other women single.

[@ninadavis5517]

As an older woman, it amazes me how little young women value themselves and don't realize they use themselves up then down the road offer a good man the leftovers of herself. PSA: Women cannot do what men do and still have value.

[@SS-hz4jo]

Her truth has helped me put in perspective the women I have already moved on from.

[@WTUJay]

🎯there it is.

[@osheherring]

I always felt that the used car analogy never fit in this situation, I personally love used cars they're cheap and I don't have to make payments, while on the other hand a used woman cost more than a new one and you'll constantly be making payments on her cause she'll never be happy

[@shawnbrown4485]

It's the used cars that feel like they should be treated like a new one that's the problem. No reason for a 97 Altima to have the same asking price as a 2024 Mercedes

[@whateverhappened2]

Humans do not like accountability, women especially find it distasteful. What puzzles me is that in the past a women could hide her past and move to a new city and start her life over. Now, they want to put every repugnant thing they have done on the internet (where it lives forever, traumatizing her family and offspring) and feel no, demand a fresh start with no consequences.

[@j.andrew9039]

A lot of women are too influenced by the culture and what’s popular to see what’s good for them. At a young age if they see a guy that’s trying to get his life together and not hanging out in the streets they deem them boring. They try to go for the guys that is presented by the culture or what’s popular in the moment and they keep choosing the ones that follow the culture.

[@JamesASharp]

I actually appreciate her honesty. He was never her first choice. Like she said, he'd be DUMB to take her back!! This is why I LOVE Social Media. Women are literally telling on themselves & indirectly giving us the Game FOR FREE!! Thank God for the internet.

[@caucasianafrican1435]

Shhhhhh. 😂

[@MyNameIsCorey]

This happened to me back in the day. I was in a relationship we were together for nearly three years and on our way to being engaged she broke up with me told me, "it just wasn't our time" went out and did who knows what with who knows who a year later showed up at my door step wanting to get back together. I told her she made it clear that it wasn't our time and I've moved on... Since then she's became a three time baby mama even telling her kids I should've been their dad... Self awareness and accountability is an amazing step to take but it has to come to a point where preventive maintenance comes in and learning from other's mistakes there's certainly not a shortage of stories out here to learn from...

[@massimo7219]

She hasn’t changed. She is only saying what she said because she is aged out and can’t compete with younger, hotter women with less mileage and baggage. If she could still go out and thot it up, she would. Don’t be the clean up man for some 304 who has been filled out like an application.

[@Black_Soul_King]

Finally, somebody finally sees it. She hasn't learned anything. Look how she bragged about being a 304 when she was younger but now she is married so its nothing. These 304s just talking to get attention now because she didn't say anything new. She is giving this advice to who...women. These women are harlots and disciples of harlots. Yet, speaking out-of-order again..in public once again without their husbands like their great master teachers...smh. It's always the rebellious modern women always trying to teach another one...smh. Anton Daniels wife isn't all in the videos trying to teach. He is the representative of his family. Yet these so-called wives are always online in front of the world without their husbands always trying to teach...smh.

[@shawnbrown4485]

Filled out like an application 😂😂😂

[@pure_sweetnes8685]

Lol shes married. They just had a beautiful baby girl.

[@massimo7219]

@@pure_sweetnes8685 to whom, a simp ?

[@JamFanHot]

She and i were in the military. I fell for her beautiful voice. She put me in the friend zone, but we remained close for awhile. I understand NO. But she continued to deal with knuckleheads (also military). Many years later, we found each other via FB. She's been to jail (probably there again now) and been through prostitution and drugs while chasing Ray Ray. Broke my heart to see how far she's fallen. Her life needs rehab, but it's too late for me to help. Can't have her bringing chaos into my house.

[@dailyhunter3683]

That's why they are often in sexless marriages, because their body have been through a lot.

[@theflyent7106]

They all like that and it's sad... Reason why I'll be old witta bank roll

[@Mankind-ik4ie]

I agree with everything you've stated in this segment, brotha. A used care is a used car,and you should never be expected to invest too much money in it. A new car with no mileage is always better for your buck. 😂

[@miket2607]

I’m late to the game, but thank god I didn’t let my body go, career go, or slipped up to have kids. Tall, in shape and still have my hairline at 31 😂. These females done turned me into a villain. 2024 will be a year of a new beginning! Just watch, hopefully I’ll be able to tell the story to someone one day. One day. Yall take care.

[@tercial]

Long story short for me. I tryed getting out the friend zone shot my shot. She said she was in love whith her ex. She became baby momma #2 now years later she wants to give me a chance. 🤦🏿‍♂️

[@636racer]

i had a girl hit me up talking that we should start dating after choosing to be out them streets long story short she wanted me to take out on dates but not give up the cat i told her i dont spend money on women i not having sex with & that if she wants to date she go have to pay…long story short i stay home with my chick fellas, know your worth 💪🏾, if some chick from your past who been holding out all of a sudden wants to see you again, put sex on the table & watch her initial reaction…whether or not she drops them draws walk away, nicca you won

[@azraelfirstofhisname8695]

0:04 “I went back on the scene” 😅 That’s a nice way of saying I went back to the streets!!!!!

[@ctbt1832]

I agree 100%. A lot of these women just want to enjoy in the fun of everything and they become ran through and worn out and worn down. Stuff is loose and smelly at times. She left for a reason. I would not take her back and it seemed like she know it. A lot of men don’t want to be a stepfather.

[@MARCELORLANDOKING-lx5ud]

💯

[@reginaldbellamy4566]

Good wisdom Anton! Love and respect brother!!

[@phillipeuring8602]

Yooooo!! This is "preach it to the congregation" day today!! I commented on earlier vid on how their behavior is reflective of who & what truly are & that they only want different for different outcomes but not change. Then I saw on another platform the same thing & the resounding theme as this one is women's fear & hate of self-reflection & accountability. People will rather blame God, blame love b/c "self love" promotes selfishness & leads you away from "self-reflection" & responsible accountability. Scriptually & naturally, love is a selfless act & emotion & "self love" promotes the opposite. This message isn't for women but they're targeted b/c it egregiously practiced by them & they defend the indefensible in this day. Sadly, some men are riding with them b/c that mindset keeps them in a social quicksand & they momentarily lend them a hand to take advantage of a rescue they'll abandon to watch them sink further to keep & take that advantage more. Hopefully, 2024 will be the wakeup call & alarm they kept hitting the snooze button on in 2023.

[@D_day1969]

Speaking from experience, before I learned my lesson. A woman broke up with me she came back months later I took her back. She broke up with me again and came back 7 months later. This time I stood my ground, I got my mind and my body right and and got more options, and she saw that. I rejected her….hard and she lost it. It’s been 10 years now and she’s still trying to get me back. Never take them back, I don’t care how much they say they love you and how much they apologize, and how much you love them. Do Not Do It, she will never truly respect you ever.

[@traviesmitchell7693]

Now she she wants to bring up used box after being a 304 for years SMFH

[@Black_Soul_King]

She is still slow. Bragging that somebody married her. I bet she didn't tell him this story the way she is telling it now..just for attention and low-rate stardom.

[@joeysparks8189]

This dynamic has been replaying itself for generations now, with different men and women coming and going. Ain't no telling how far it goes back. I'm just glad it's being discussed more and more on different platforms because it's definitely been a thing for some time now ijs

[@mrbabyears]

Learned that the hard, hard way. Took them back too many times and paid the price of mental, emotional, financial trauma. Avoid these women at all cost. I'd even recommend good women don't take the bad choices back. The only thing this women is suitable for is a fun girl. Nothing more.

[@beyondlimitless5414]

I swear y'all don't deep dive enough yo my boy how you sound? The fact you said all of that and still want attach yourself to her snatch for a "fun time" shows how really tender D**ck you and most of these other dudes are. Most of these broads can't even get a WINK outta me let alone some D but yet YOU STILL try to find a reason to be close to them 😂😂😂😂smh

[@Successbond760]

Only thing to protect a man from these types is for the man to have high expectations at all times. Because there is no laws or a person that give a damn if you pick this type a second time.

[@honey77777]

When I was 21, I met a girl that was super toxic and verbally abusive. That showed me I would OLNY want to date the nice men or women. Being in a relationship with nice and sweet people, men especially was the best thing I’ve ever done in my 20’s. Im 28 now and I’m in a healthy relationship with my very sweet man 🥺 I love it here

[@shawnbrown4485]

Are you a bisexual man or woman?

[@ThaRiddler]

All of this just makes me sad. There is no fixing this.

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

It maybe

[@pablo_fre5hcobar]

Arranged marriages fixes this

[@Black_Soul_King]

@@pablo_fre5hcobar Culture change. Truth.

[@user-tz8oh2ly5d]

Thanks for this one, because as a 51 year old black male I totally understand this dynamic. Just sent this to my stepsons, because as an old head I need them to further understand how limited the act of planning long term is for women, especially pretty ones. Hopefully more and more men continue to share information with younger men about relationships, to further their knowledge EARLIER in life. That conversation men used to pick up in the barbershops and sports, is being lost.

[@JayLawson]

He would be an idiot to give her a second chance.

[@jadenalvarado4912]

It's a myth that girls don't regret rejecting nice guys

[@rombios3056]

If I can't enjoy her at her physical prim be (under 30) she won't enjoy me at my financial prime

[@WittersWorld]

It’s very important that as men we also don’t pass up on the girl that was interested in you before you achieved greatness. If she’s interested in you and building with you and she’s not a promiscuous woman and she beautiful you might want to give her a chance. And as it relates to the age thing I know girls that are in their 20s that are 304s and those that are virgins. And I also know women who are in their 30s and are virgins who are seriously waiting to get married and I know some that are 304s. I’m saying this to say younger is not always better and older is not always worse. There are different types of people in every age group just vet them properly. And cut the red pill bs because if you should really follow the red pill movement in the right way for what it really means you’ll have no wife or kids and stay single forever and if that’s your goal then that’s okay. But for those who want to start a family just vet the person properly as I said previously.

[@americusdeville865]

18--28 the woman has to be for marriage, due to bad eggs and fertility, geriatric pregnancy after 30, so age does matter. In the ancient world, a wife had to be a virgin. The harlot has played the role with many lovers. That's the advice men need.

[@WittersWorld]

@@americusdeville865 geriatric pregnancy is 35 and over not 30. And yea back in Scientology times a wife had to be a virgin. Nowadays it’s hard to find one but there’s still a lot of virgins and those with low body count that are between 28-35 and is marriageable. And again geriatric isn’t 30 it’s for those 35 and over. Do ur research. So therefore a woman can still get married and have kids in her early thirties. I do agree that the risk get higher in their mid thirties.

[@americusdeville865]

@@WittersWorld Brief search came up: At 20 weeks of pregnancy, a female fetus has 6-7 million of eggs. By the time the woman is 30 years, she will have lost nearly 90% of her eggs and at the age of 40 years, only around 3% of eggs are left. Most women are no longer able to become naturally pregnant in their mid-40s. So at 30, 90% eggs gone. A woman should be married before the age of 28.

[@raykane2063]

She is 40 years old with baby hair👶👶

[@bucksst8821]

This reminds me of that Mike Jones song "Back Then". Back then they didn't want me now they all on me-Mike Jones.

[@Coach_Conner74]

I have learned to not bother any woman that don’t want me at all. I agree never take them back at all. I have a few who think they will be able to come back, yet I have moved on and they have nothing to offer at all anyway.

[@Kdkyrie12]

Get ya passport fellas

[@RealJayNice]

I feel bad for dudes in the states. They settling down with low quality but will shame men who have healthy standards.

[@TheDarkNinja7]

The sad thing is if he took her back, she wouldn’t respect him for it.

[@kaiserhead]

“I don’t know anyone who aspires to buy a used car.” Well said.

[@JasonAdams-bl5te]

Went down that road before never again,these type of women can't be saved.

[@bensisko-theemissary4940]

PASSPORT ✈️

[@nangaeboko6710]

This is called “ The Reachback”…a popular term being used in these spaces.

[@ccatfx320]

I am Asian, and I found this to be true across all races these days since I pretty much dated all. All of them told me they wish their friends told them what they did wrong instead of turning them against me months later when they came crawling back, abused and used by the "bad boys". All my friends and family defended them and I look inward for the issues I had when they broke up with me. From my experiences most young women actually still want a family and children, but when problems arise in relationships, it doesn't matter if our family, friends or strangers are progressive or traditional, their first instinct is to ask us men what we did wrong, where we messed up, what can we do better. Meanwhile, everyone tells women, you deserve this, deserve that, and you don't have to change and everything will be fine, and encourage them to abandon the whole thing. This gets worse like you mentioned especially with the involvement of some chronically single party girl friends, moms and aunties and the bitter women who were really abused, their first advice to any issue is dump him, you deserve better. Men who wants a quick sexual relationships would also constantly try to sabotage it, yet many women just refuse to see it or would instead turn against their partners who the should trust for expressing discomfort for such friendships. The progressives want to empower women, and the conservatives want to protect women, both side's intentions are good, but this ends up causing men to be held accountable with twice the amount of responsibilities from both sides and gives women double the amount of excuses not to change for the better or keep working on the connection. The odds are really set up against men in today's relationships, but you can't really blame women either. There's just no way they can learn to be better until the consequences give them a wake up call, since they live in an environment where literally most people justify their bad behaviours, shame those who tell them what might be better, and keep telling them they are always right.

[@o-g-ob4399]

If you allowed Pookie to take your Prime don't ask a HV man for a dime!

[@thegreatnate91]

Thanks to the internet, it made me realize these chicks really be the problem fumbling good guys! These types of stories been going on forever!

[@out42c]

Me, I won't take any of them or have anything to do with them no matter what. Doesn't matter if they are beautiful and have a good personality either. It don't matter it's too risky. I've seen enough they've burned that bridge.

[@MISTERO70]

Me as well seen too much

[@razor4059]

Most women are slaves to their emotions and how the are feeling at that time. So if you are the “right guy” for her now but you can’t make her feel a certain way with gifts and going out and “experiences”, then you are out. Pookie, RayRay and Chad that are ballin now can certainly make her feel special right now…. Now that I got the money and experience I want nothing to do with the single moms or women my age. You had all the options yesterday, now I have all the options. I am not being a pookie, but I am not going to settle for a woman my age. If there is no respect or genuine desire to be next to me, you gone.

[@meuniversity8681]

Women move around in their mind, except when their emotions get jammed in deep enough hurt. Dont worry about them- when it comes to relationship advisement/imput.

[@denzelkazeze8548]

I think anyone can be nice and respectful but it’s who you are nice and respectful to is what matters. If you find a good woman then u know you will most likely complement one another with the same amount of respect. But when u deal with a woman with flappy bird eyelashes and who dresses half necked for the rest of the world to see. U should know she is something to play with and is nothing to stay with. So I think players and pimps should share advice on this to good men, and good men should share advice on how to deal with good women who actually deserve respect. Because it’s not just nice men who are lost with bad woman, it’s bad boys who do not know how to adjust to good women either. I’ve met plenty of bad boys who had a chance at a good woman and they all say dang I wish I ain’t cuss her out like I did the bad woman who deserved it. So the lesson with good woman is yes they step out of line as well but you don’t have to go in on them like they are ratchet I think putting them on ice which is simply ignoring them will make them come back around and apologize, this has happened with the good woman I’ve known throughout the years. They are able to reflect upon themselves unlike the bad woman, so no need to call them out of their names. Unlike bad woman who may need name calling because she portrays that image. With all this being said we wouldn’t have to worry about guys being bad or nice if we treated woman the same according to how they present themselves💯🙏🏽.

[@GodMade1012]

That’s very true what you said.

[@Donny_Shoes]

Road millage counts, unless your delusional, the wall is undefeated 😢😢

[@dapo09]

If shes single and not in a serious relationship leading to marriage or in a marriage over the age of 23, she CHOSE THE STREETS. LEAVE HER THERE. 18-23 only

[@Angi3maname]

LOL. Y’all grown men really want to mess with teenagers. Y’all are sick. Why do y’all keep mentioning 18? That is a girl who is either in high school or just graduated. Probably hasn’t even moved out of her parents house yet. Y’all want babies so you can taint her with all your baggage from your list of relationships and hook ups. Unless you’re in the age range you just mentioned, you’re strange for wanting to talk to basically a high schooler. 😅

[@jamesbush2720]

This one made me sunbsribe... The faxt that you were actually able to actually capture a 304 Accountability ACCEPTOR in the WILD is amazing.. The odds are ASTRONOMICAL sir!!! Great job..

[@kingcappa4331]

Honestly, a car is the best possible paradigm. So we definitely understand the example. I’ve grown to love your content by the way.

[@realtalk6720]

They can't most choose guys off ego instead of real love. He dont call me often, he rude to me, he's an asshole. Im going to make him like me, let me give him this box so he can give in. 😂😂😂. All ego base. Then cry wolf when dude show you from the jump. He's just too slow to see the value in you and keep it moving instead of trying to stroke a ego. 😂

[@anwarwilliams8370]

Big Bro! Great breakdown here. Your 💯% right. Also i see it that the worst of us have truely out breed the best of us. Guys with foresight have been designated as nice guys. And most of these "nice guys" got that dawg in em too, these guys tend to roll solo dolo too. Hard to bark when your opponent got numbers on you. These chicks prey on the weak minded men and have become apex predators only they soft and fragile like chameleons. But the chicks with kids is like a trojan horse. Those kids are not of your making, they will turn on the castle (You) and seek to destroy you based of lies mom may tell. Thanks for your time Anton ❤🇺🇸💪🏾

[@daughterofthemosthigh3417]

The more I stumble on these videos the more I’m soooo thankful my husband was raised in a godly home with direction and purpose. I’m so thankful he doesn’t have the mentality most of you men have bc we met when I was 32 years old and married at the age of 33. At the age of 32 I was ready to be a wife after being single for 7 years, I allowed God to build my identity in Him. I worked on my inner self and also accomplished my dreams. We met in God’s perfect timing and btw we are both 6 figure earners but he didn’t see me as “trash” just because I was 32 lol you guys are something else. 😅 I don’t know what I would do in this toxic dating environment.

[@YoungGrizzly]

Presentation Layer. Shout out to the OSI Layer model.

[@natefrancis1]

At least she kept it a band 😂

[@mickygarcia4251]

The risk/reward ratio is far too skewed. If you're a man out in the world trying to build a career, some assets and stability, then the last thing you need is baby-mama drama at home. So, while you're doing that, if the woman you're vetting for the position of mother/wife/partner already has children from another man, then why would you choose her when she couldn't work it out with her children's father? You need to fight the world, not your woman, and too many women are way too confrontational from their past bad choices.

[@antwanowens4013]

Yea anton de umar said it’s blk men fault for the bad decisions blk women make my ex reached out to me after 11 yrs she’s still physically fit childless but at the time I wanted to give n do my best by her now she’s pass the danger ZONE😊 and gave her best away and kelp it short and she got message im good😅 it was nice hearing from you but kinda busy have a nice day

[@ahkielbey2157]

If they got a hairstyle like that, run!!

[@KeefChief_]

And she at least in her late 20s tryna look like her middle school picture day 😂🤦🏾 she ain't learned anything

[@briandam8126]

@@KeefChief_”tryna to look like her middle school picture day.”🤣🤣🤣

[@xaviergarner6750]

Know your value Men , you are the Prize and Tables just sit there Until Needed , we're Good Cya 🎤 Be Great Men

[@randy3588]

I say the exact same thing about single mothers nobody inspires to end up with a single mother... there's not one person that was young in their early twenties in their late twenties that dreamed of ending up with a single mother. it's something that men "settle" for.... as in settled for less than what they would ever have hope to have gained in their life..

[@redviagra]

Dont ever fix or go back.

[@1969Makaveli]

One of the things that I have learned in my life is to never go backwards never. Always move forward in life. And it has helped me tremendously. A girl I was in love with that I felt was perfect for me. She had no kids, smart , naturally beautiful, no make up, had an hour glass figure, didn't smoke and didn't dress like a slut. I mean that was my ideal woman. She cheated on me with her co worker. That was 1992, fast forward to present day. She has 3 kids, one by a school teacher, a taxi cab driver, and a thug. She never married, and she ran into me and wanted to know if we could get back together. I said.....No. Ain't no way I'm going backwards in my life....hell no. Fellas never go backwards in your life always move forward.

[@peanuthead32]

as a software engineer, I understand what you mean when you say presentation layer lmaoo

[@horshawnherrin8076]

Don't take her back.

[@ericrobinson1789]

One of the few women that admit they didn't make a good decision early on. Hell, even a broke clock is right twice a day.

[@zedsdead9982]

Ah yes the story as old a time😂 it literally never ever changes

[@mr6foot687]

Yeah... leave them where they are. The thought of knowing I was kind of settling for someone not ready for the man I was coupled with the man I've grown even more spiritually, mentally and financially there's no reason to entertain the past.

[@greekshow6086]

So on point I knew that I was not wrong. Thank you brother thank you. I can be isolated.

[@frederickwells3116]

Absolutely facts she threw away her husband for the streets they told her once you leave you can’t go back that man isn’t the same nor is she the same maybe she’ll get lucky i hope so I don’t think she will never make a good man a good wife I always think that she would say that I settled for him good luck mommy!!!