We Survived The First Night With The Dog...Barely!!

[@casualdrifter5226]

The igloo and the transport crate are too small for her. Don’t separate her from the pack and she’ll stop destroying stuff.

[@toris24]

It’s way too small for her! I’m surprised they didn’t ask the employees at petsmart for the appropriate size or couldn’t tell for themselves how it’s too small for her

[@mefcmsn]

Agree ! She needs a bigger crate , consistency and she should not be put in there for punishment at all ( not that they did that , but some people do ) She also shouldn’t be left outside for extended periods . Dogs need at least 3 weeks to adjust . They are social and want to be where people are . It takes patience and consistency.

[@barbstevens6020]

Also the igloo will be too hot in the summer.

[@brandygaskey2098]

She is bored. I wouldn’t make her stay outside so much unattended. She wants to be with her people.

[@karensmale9853]

She’s digging and being destructive because she’s bored and doesn’t like being left alone

[@JessicaNiles]

100% They have set her up for failure and are then surprised and angry that the pup is only doing what it can do being left alone like that... Shame on THEM. This has nothing to do with the dog who needs a serious intervention.

[@Carazona]

@@JessicaNiles Well, i do think you’re right but I think these are new and inexperienced dog owners so let’s cut them some slack. They seem open to learning. They’ve already said thanks for all the advice on past videos.

[@JessicaNiles]

​@@Carazona we'll see. For the dog's sake I hope they get some private instruction for her stat. Group obedience classes aren't going to solve her issues, I can guarantee that.

[@sheriturner6118]

@@JessicaNiles or maybe that is the reason the dog was in the pound to begin with.

[@JessicaNiles]

@@sheriturner6118 I'm not sure I get your point? If she was dropped at a shelter because she was being destructive outside then once again it's because of negligence and the lack of knowledge on the part of the owner(s). And now she's stuck in a vicious cycle due to no fault of her own.

[@shionajoseph3248]

Please don’t have that dog sleep outside & have her outside all day. She was chasing her tail because of anxiety. She chewed her lease at the table because of anxiety. She’s a puppy & she needs a lot of love. Boundaries are good but don’t forget she’s part of the family. It’s a learning curve for sure

[@dawnclark4635]

Also do not use cayenne as a detourant for digging.

[@mrs.p6128]

1. Bigger, metal crate. 2. You need to spend much more time draining her energy 3. She may have some separation anxiety. 4. She’s still teething so she’ll chew and she needs to. 5. Tell the boys to stop raising their arms as their way of trying to keep her away from them. 6. The energy of the boys is exciting her, raising her energy level. 7. She needs to be crated in your room at night, that is most comforting to her. Get into professional training ASAP.

[@suzannenelson919]

I agree 1-7! I also feel the kids are too young. They are sweet and don't know any better. The dog is a rescue and clearly has some anxiety.

[@beckywszalek726]

That's true about the raising of the arms. We had to tell our neighbour's kid to stop doing that to our puppy. It eggs them on and they think it's play time and want to start play biting the hands and then everywhere. He even bit our kids on the rear end. You'll know the bites are just for play if the tail is wagging but you still want to discourage it and teach her to play with humans in other ways. I've learned the hard way with our 60 pound sweetie pie dog.....but we learned!

[@lorelaigilrour]

This may be an unpopular comment, but I'd bring her back. She needs a family that is familiar with that breed of dog. I'm sure the rescue has a return policy of she isn't a right fit. I suggest a smaller easier breed, and NOT letting it sleep outside. Research the breed before adopting.

[@lisak.126]

I agree, I'm so sad for her. She should be with another family who will let her live indoors.

[@greatdanerescuemom1]

not unpopular at all. the dog needs to go back to have a chance with a real fmaily who understands this breed. she is super smart and they dont have any understanding in dog let alone her mind. super smart dogs need a lot of exercise mind games and a job. this is very sad for this baby. here is the shleter number please call them and make them aware of the situation. NOONE put cayenne near a dogs nose and dog people know how sensative the membranes are . and god forbid it gets in her eyes. total uneducated and the dog will suffer for it. 3 months minimum for a shelter dog to decompress and they are bitchin after 2 nights. this poor baby. here is the number 479 636 3703 WE ARE THEIR VOICE. they cant do it themselves

[@maxcarroll9487]

These people should not have a dog at all. 🤬

[@mykidzism]

She needs a larger crate and should be inside at night. IMO I’m in California and it doesn’t snow but I wouldn’t leave my dogs out at night

[@hollywarfield6380]

Ugh

[@veronicarivera1523]

Omg poor baby girl.. how can she keep her outside and then take her for a run 😢 keeping her outside during the night was terrible 😞

[@valerieeves4557]

If you had a husky or a malamute, outside would make sense but I don’t think her breed should be outside at night in the winter. I live in Canada and would never leave my dog outside all night.

[@maryvee61]

I have huskies and I don't leave them outside? Didn't the rescue make them sign a contract they have to live inside? Why get a dog if you are not going to let them live inside and just enjoy the home with you. I knew it, Duggars and animals don't mix.

[@maryvee61]

I knew this dog was going to end up outside that's the duggar way. Dont they sign a contract with the rescue that dogs must live indoors? I feel sorry for this poor pup.

[@JW424]

Agree with everyone...Kennel is too small and don’t leave her outside. 34 and 43 degrees is not good.

[@solanasimon9882]

Animal service will soon pay them a visit.

[@JW424]

@@solanasimon9882 Well that’s just stupid. Stop causing problems.

[@deedeebow4506]

You have her in a cargo crate & it's to small for her. You need a wire crate. Also, it will be harder to crate train with a teen dog rather than a puppy.

[@rachelrobins1161]

Jill, she needs a larger, wire crate. Please don’t leave her outside. She’s not ready for group obedience. I’d suggest getting a trainer to work with you as a family to get the basics down.

[@tay7756]

yes she definitely needs a one on one trainer, they are in over their heads my god she shouldn't be sleeping outside nor unattended outside!

[@dawnclark4635]

@@tay7756,they also should not be using cayenne to prevent digging. Also cherry pits contain cyanide so if the tree grows back do not leave her outside with access to posion.

[@rmaestas120]

You are leaving her unsupervised too long. She's just like a human child and just like you baby proof your house for your children you need to do that same for a dog. I recommend you place some fencing around your trees and AC unit until she gets older.

[@ninaderosa3521]

I’m so confused as to why you would keep the dog outside all night long alone when you guys got her to be a family pet. She was better off sleeping in the shelter where it was warm inside. Of course she’s going to be distructive she doesn’t want to be left alone she’s probably terrified

[@rp7302to]

That’s to be expected that she would not like the crate. New environment so it’s stressful for her. Give her time to adjust. I don’t recommend having her sleep outside because that igloo is not good enough for when the weather is too hot or cold .

[@kathleenoverton3263]

OMGosh! Please keep that dog inside! Also she doesn t want to be in the inside crate because it s too small!!!!! Get her a bigger crate. Keep her in your room where she feels like she s part of the family. She will get destructive if left alone too long. Dogs are pack animals. After the first couple of nights you can probably just leave her crate gate open. Train her to go in when you tell her to. Teach her to stay. If you can t train her yourself get her a trainer. Throw balls or sticks for her. Over and over and over again. Every single day. She looks like she needs a lot of exercise. Why would you tie her up inside!! I am 65 yes old. My whole adult life I ve had rescues. Most of the time 2 dogs at a time. Not one dog has been a young puppy, all have been very energetic and a couple have been a little troubled. All of them about the size of Fenna or larger. You have to train her to be a part of your pack. Inside with you. Your yard is not big enough for that dog to just be amused out there all alone. She s bored out of her mind and a little angry that she s been shunned and banished out there all alone while her family is inside. And a good harness is better than that collar. You can control them better. A good one and relatively inexpensive is Easy Walk no pull harness. There are so many things to work on with her. I think tons of exercise is your answer along with training and keeping her with you all.

[@carolinachapa4807]

Please don’t get a dog and just leave her outside!

[@tay7756]

that's 10 times worse then her heated kennel she was in at the humane society

[@bren8207]

Let her sleep on her doggy bed in your room. Dogs are pack animals and want to be with their humans!

[@tay7756]

omg so true I can't believe they took her from a heated kennel to the outside. whats donks

[@christilb]

I wrote the same thing. She doesn’t want to be all alone outside. I bet if they brought her and her dog bed into their bedroom she’d curl right up and go to sleep.

[@devonburcicki4903]

Right. She's going from the shelter, warm interior, and getting used to a new family and put her outside in winter for her first few nights!? No! Dogs are pack animals as this person above said. Your family is her pack now. Let her be with her pack.

[@debradowdell6293]

The dog house is too small. Please read the comments. She’s a family member. She belongs with you not ostracized outside. She’s also a puppy. It’s going to take her months to settle in. Put chicken wire along the bottom of the fence. Please do your research and learn how to treat her. Or return her to the shelter.

[@riannetaal384]

She is learning. Asking everybody’s advise right. She is open for feedback and everything. Off course she is making mistakes. Everybody would when they are new dog owner’s. I know I would. But I wouldn’t have the nerve to show it to everybody. She has! Respect on her. Because she knows people are hard on their comments.

[@iAmMadeOfSoup]

She should know what she’s doing is wrong

[@spants1058]

@@iAmMadeOfSoup she’s a new dog owner. At least she’s asking the trainer for advice and taking the dog to trainer. She is willing to work with the dog, which is more than most dog owners.

[@spants1058]

@@riannetaal384 i agree. Having a new dog is an adjustment for the dog as well as the family. She is open to working with the dog and taking advice from a trainer. People need to calm down.

[@spants1058]

Return her to the shelter? Wrong. Every dog - especially a rescue - are an adjustment and a roller coaster of emotions, including anger and frustration. This is natural. ANYONE who took this dog (a high energy breed) would face the same issues. It will probably take the dog (and family) months to adjust, but they just have to keep working with her and her trainer, which is exactly what they are doing.

[@jenpicou77]

Do not crate malinois dogs! They get stressed very easily...and do not like confined spaces....malinois dogs are a difficult breed especially for first time dog owners...you need a lot of diligence and patience with this breed.

[@desireeolazava3985]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@Tootsie-yj1rz]

Is she purebred beligan malinois? Or is she a mix? Is she mixed with German shepherd

[@lorelaigilrour]

Not a good breed for first time owners.

[@Ritabug34]

I agree 100% Malinios and German Shepard need skilled owners, they are high energy and need attention

[@tlh7717]

100% agree. They need constant mental stimulation, training and an energy outlet or they become destructive, aggressive and develop bad behavior and habits. So many uneducated owners get these dogs and have to rehome them bc they bit off more than they can chew. They definitely needed a less energy and lower maintenance dog with no dog experience. I feel so bad for the dog that they can't meet her needs. 😢

[@hannahrassel]

Our dog trainer is a K9 trainer and knows so much and the breed this dog is 100% is not meant for a first time dog owner. They are high maintenance driven dogs that need heavy structure and jobs. She is digging and ruining trees because she is SO bored and not stimulated like her breed needs. No dog should be outside over night. Sometimes it’s better to realize you’re not meant to train/raise a dog and give them to someone who can give them a good purpose/job!!

[@zombieloveproductions]

Agreed. I keep leaving comments about this, as gently as possible. I really mean no disrespect but I have 3 German Shepherds and am intimidated of owning a Mal, knowing their requirements. They are not family dogs. They are military and police working dogs for a reason. I really hope they do more research.

[@katrinasaulnier6079]

I have grown up with dogs and my dad recently got a mal ( his dream dog but wouldn’t own one until we were grown) I have a German Shepard and she has nothing on him he’s got such a high drive! Not for soft people and not for first time owners 🙃

[@denisep.148]

ALL 5 of our dogs were inside pets throughout our 48 years of marriage and here's our take on what we've learned. 1. Patience: she needs time to adjust and so do you all. Once she is comfortable knowing she won't be alone, she will calm down. She loves being with her people and is curious as to where everyone is. Tethering her to the table with her leash causes anxiety because she's still curious about her surroundings and where the rest of her 'pack' is. It's only been 3 days! 2. Crate: it's a large wire enclosure with a door and a solid floor; she should be able to stand up and turn around. Old towel inside is ok, (rub it on each of you to transfer your scent) but NOT her bed. No toys or bone either. You purchased an animal carrier (for transporting small pets), which isn't appropriate for a dog her size. 3. Sleeping outside: This will confuse her and elevate her anxiety because she won't understand why she's being isolated or 'punished' for unknown reason. Letting her sleep in a crate at night in the extra room is the best solution. You did a great job calming her that night when she was in there. However, she was cramped in the small carrier and uncomfortable. The wire sides of the larger crate allow her to see her surroundings and feel secure. 4. ROUTINE!!! I realize it's hard with two young, energetic boys, but getting EVERYONE into a routine will go a long way in creating a successful, calm home for Fenna. Everything is new to everyone and so, as you said, there have to be boundaries. Just like you told the boys about not touching her bone or her food, there are rules for good doggy / child interaction in the house. BUT consistency is key. Fenna appears to be quite intelligent so with repetition, she'll learn appropriate behaviors. Feed in the morning, water available all day, potty time and nap as needed, exercise in the yard as much as possible, then doggy dinner around 5-6 PM, family time (either inside or outside) and then a walk before bedtime -- the longer the better. She already has the idea of going to the door for potty, so just be alert to when she wants out. However, leaving her alone outside any longer than it takes for her to potty isn't the best option. She may want to run the yard or play fetch before returning inside (both excellent ways of releasing energy); she needs active outlet for her energy. 6. LOVE!!! shower her with praise when she's had successes. It all takes time; so let yourselves adjust day by day without self-criticism. Peace be to you and yours.

[@crazyanimallady1820]

I’m a dog trainer wired kennels are not good for dogs they are very easy to escape from me and my wife have four dogs and we find it it’s actually better to get them either a big cargo kennel with big sluts on the sides and back so they can see you know where you’re going what they’re doing or to get them a big wooden kennel which we have better luck with wooden kennels that have big slots and usually they sleep in the wooden kennels better we put dog beds inside the wooden kennels and bones but do not give them a real bone or a plastic bottle make sure to give them a rubber bone at night leaving them out during the daytime inside or outside is better but make sure that if you do leave them outside to check on them every five minutes and it to leave the back door open

[@shawnapickle4891]

That crate is too small for her. She should be able to stand up and move around in there.

[@loiserwin5991]

She is a member of your family. Making her sleep outside is wrong. She should be in the house at night with FAMILY. Why would you adopt her and make her stay outside. She is obviously family oriented. She is digging because she is either bored or lonely. Even at the humane society she had the company of other dogs....she does not want to be alone.

[@dawnclark4635]

She can't be trained if sh's constantly outside.

[@loiserwin5991]

@@dawnclark4635 Very true.

[@kate8873]

It’s not wrong for them to have the dog outside. It’s a dog not a baby. 😂

[@loiserwin5991]

@@kate8873 Totally disagree. When you adopt a pet it becomes a member of your family and should be treated as such. Adopting a pet is like having a child. You love it, protect it, feed it, make sure it is warm when its cold and protect it. If you cannot treat your pet like your child....you should not have one. Maybe rethinking parenthood be it 2 legs or four is highly recommended!!! Don't think I would want to be a member of your family...just sayin 😒😒😒😒

[@akay1976]

You're COMPLETELY wrong. Dogs, as long as the weather is not harsh, are supposed to sleep outside. It's actually considered animal abuse to make them sleep inside because it causes severe attachment problems and not enough playing ground. You clearly know nothing about animals and should actually read what actual animal rights advocates and scientists have to say on the matter. Dog should not be kept indoors except on special occasions and cold/dangerous weather.

[@ohbilleh]

This is sad to watch. I see a family with good intentions that wants a dog to love and play with, and I see a dog that wants a family - and doesn't want to be separated from them, doesn't want to be put outside with nothing to do except chew and dig. I hope you find a way to fit Fenna into your life that keeps in mind what she needs as well as what your family wants.

[@jenniferbellshride6776]

It is terrible to keep her unsupervised outside by herself. That is why she is digging. She also should be inside at night

[@CutiesbyKelly]

She’s a pack animal, she wants to be with her people. Dogs shouldn’t sleep outside at night especially when it’s cold. This totally breaks my heart that you left her outside. Be consistent with her! Dogs are so worth the work! The unconditional love they give us and we as humans are so blessed to have them! A few things... Her kennel and dog house are too small! She is young and learning as are you guys are. Be patient! If you wouldn’t do it to your child don’t do it to your dog! Be careful with those dog bones, they can choke on them. Always supervise her with her toys. Professional training will work but remember to be consistent and patient!!

[@carriesimon5231]

Why can't she just be in the house she needs to feel like she is part of the family she looks like she is already house trained but I would not keep her outside a pet is supposed to be part of the family.

[@spants1058]

She probably enjoys running off her energy in the backyard.

[@dawnclark4635]

@@spants1058,the digging and the destruction are clear indications she does not! You cannot leave her outside 24/7. Bring her in. She'll learn to behave inside a house if she's inside a house. My boy was scared to come in but now he doesn't like going out. Granted,it's 35 degrees and feels like 20 so I get it. This morning it was run off the zoomies,potty and run upstairs for a nap and his toys. I would never,ever leave my boy outside. (Oh,and he's a young lab so energy is there but he loves his toys and family time.)

[@mybby1966]

Please DO NOT keep that beautiful furbaby outside! She’s part of the family and it’s too cold outside! They get cold and hot just like us! And those crates are way to small for her. Take her with you to Petco and ask someone to help you with the right size if a crate is the way you want to go. My furbaby is family and has run of the house and never destroys anything. I don’t crate her ever and I certainly don’t leave her outside.

[@spants1058]

Is your dog a Malinois though?

[@MandieTerrier]

@@spants1058 no but I have experience with Malinois. They are a working breed. Law enforcement officers sometimes use Belgian Malinios. They need a job Lots of enrichment

[@claudiaguerra2683]

Wow, I can’t believe how many people are giving her hate. Have you guys thought that maybe this is new to both of them? Instead of judging and saying horrible things, maybe give them some advice and encouraging words. Kindness people!!!!

[@claudiaguerra2683]

And leaving your dog outside is not abuse. Leaving your dog outside during terrible weather conditions, starving your dog, or physically abusing your dog IS ABUSE.

[@Fishtank33]

I was up half the night worrying about Fenna and whether she was abandoned outside in the cold & dark in that tiny igloo. Please give us an update to let us know that isn't the case.

[@lindavanocker1841]

Uh, I want to tell you something you guys. You got a travel kennel there. You need to get her a wire crate and it has to be big enough for her to stand up in and turn around in.you have to give her time to get used to her new life. She has probably been through an awful life before you got her.please just give her time. She will be the best thing that ever happened to you and your family. This I promise you.watch some videos to help you.Dont make her stay outside. She is short haired.whats the sense on having a family dog if you are going to keep her outside. My heart is broken for her if you put her outside!! Just get her the big wire crate. It will make a big difference! God bless!! Try green apple spray. Available at pet stores.

[@veronicarivera1523]

She needs a bigger crate and don’t leave her outside for to long or close the door on her to keep her out she was probably cold and like humans after a little while she needs to be warm for me dogs are not just dogs they are my kids ...

[@mybby1966]

💯 agree! Those crates are too small and it’s too cold to keep her outside! Please don’t get a dog to keep her outside! They are furbabies! And get a harness so you don’t hurt her neck!

[@veronicarivera1523]

Omg I can’t believe someone can have no heart ❤️ for a puppy I wish they put a nice warm blanket to keep her warm poor baby this doesn’t need common sense seriously Where is her response to all of us ?

[@dawnclark4635]

@@veronicarivera1523,I'm guessing she's ignoring us because she doesn't want to read people telling her to bring the dog inside. I'm concerned about that but also the cayenne. That's not okay! Use positive reinforcement. I mean I live on a 3rd floor and Massachusetts is a might cold right now. I could go wait in the hall while my dog is outside but I actually stay with him! I wait near the gate or play with him and bring him back up so he can sleep or play. I don't understand the logic of getting a dog if you just intend to leave her outside.

[@lisabeaver2919]

I'm beginning to think getting a dog was a bad idea for them. She seems like such a good dog, but she doesn't deserve to sleep outside.

[@jeannecimmino9471]

She should not be outside overnight. It’s way too cold. Bring her in and make her part of the family. She should be less destructive when she is involved with you

[@duranduranfan5603]

Even if she is in her crate, please leave her in the house at night. She is just a puppy and she is adjusting. I know you will be great doggy parents and siblings for her! ❤️

[@MV-fh7ms]

She is still a puppy, probably still stressed from being in a shelter. Don't give up on her. Also, don't leave her outside to sleep. This is not good treatment of an animal. You guys happened to pick an extremely energetic and smart breed. Give her time. Lots of exercise will help. Maybe get the heavy duty chew toys like kongs where you can hide treats in them. Let her stay inside next to your bed or the boys. She needs to feel like she is part of the pack. Again, please don't give up on her. She loves you more than you know already.

[@aimeekelly1172]

She definitely needs a large wire crate so she move a little and turn around. You have a transport kennel. That’s not good for dogs to be confined to small spaces like that. Also do not leave her outside!

[@susanolson2104]

I agree! The crate should be wire and big enough for her to stand up and turn around at her full size (if she's a puppy)! The transport creates are too hot if they are in them overnight.

[@roseypeach8363]

She wants your companionship. The backyard is a lonely space.

[@ozpaws]

dogs are pack animals and not meant to be alone outside. it's fine for them to be in a crate at bedtime, but should be by your bed so you can lay your hand beside the crate and tell them it's ok. a dog left outside alone is like leaving a 2 year old alone outside unsupervised. and the breed she is, she needs a job - - something to do with her time. I would have not recommended this breed for a first time dog owner. Having a trainer is a fabulous idea. . . .keep it up.

[@crazyanimallady1820]

Actually believe it or not most trainers abuse the animals I know it sounds really stupid but me and my dad want to go watch someone a train a dog it was one of his assistance he’s a dog trainer and that dude was like hitting the dogs and smacking him and me and my dad were like OK that’s it that’s it that’s not OK you know that’s abuse all that and we went to watch some other people train dogs and they did the same thing so make sure you know who the person training your dog is

[@ozpaws]

@@crazyanimallady1820 you should say SOME trainers may do these things but not MOST. Many of us use totally kind training methods. If you have a trainer that is abusive, get rid of them and search a positive reinforcement trainer.

[@crazyanimallady1820]

@@ozpaws we do I hate when people do that to animals

[@naomithompson5023]

@@crazyanimallady1820 That's sad how people abuse their dogs.😢😢

[@naomithompson5023]

@@lynns3868 Absolutely!👍

[@IdahoCrimeGal]

That is a working breed, difficult for even experienced dog owners. She is destroying your yard because she is bored and feeling isolated. Dogs are pack animals, they should never be left outside.

[@pameladonnelson2093]

Put the dog bed in your room instead of the kennel. She would be more comfortable and feel safe

[@MrsEWhite87]

Leaving your dog outside is not good :( It's actually illegal where I live. She's a family pet - she needs to live protected in your home.

[@dawnclark4635]

I cannot imagine doing that! My boy is 4 yrs old,and a lab,and he is inside. He was scared to come in but now he loves his house. He knows the good things are upstairs. He knows his food is here,his family is here, and he gets all those things by coming into the house. I would never leave him outside. It took four hours to get him in the first night but he's worth trouble. If they made Fenna part of their family,by bringing her in,she'd stop destroying things.

[@angelinamccarville]

Wow where do you live that it’s illegal to leave a dog outside? Just curious, I have actually never heard of that.

[@annagiese7479]

She needs waaaaaay bigger crates and dog house! Hopefully you guys do that.

[@TexasbyStorm]

Please don't keep her outside alone. It's so cruel to isolate animals like that. They are pack animals and have a strong desire to be a part of the pack. You guys are her pack, you chose her to be a part of your pack. Heavy exercise during the day will help her settle better at night. Curled up on that chair outsidr she is cold! Her fur isn't long and full like huskys or labs, her short hair isn't much insulation for cold weather. Maybe get her a sweater. Look up KZbin videos on how to train her not to jump up on people. She's a smart dog, she will learn quickly. Why is she on a leash in the house? Is she peeing everywhere? Not sure why she isn't allowed to go through the house. Letting her investigate the entire house will likely help calm her down. Being leashed all the time would feel so constrictive and cause anxiety.

[@shawnapickle4891]

Please don’t keep her outside alone. Let her be a part of your family. If you won’t let her be in the house and be a part of your family, please take her back to the shelter.

[@trinawiggins9910]

Yes take her back, take her back, take her back! What are you guys doing? She deserves a better home. Another person commented, stick to raising kids. This is so sad. Hurts to watch. Unsubscribing!

[@TruckDriver2005]

@@trinawiggins9910 I agree with you, very well said.

[@iAmMadeOfSoup]

I should have known a Duggar wouldn’t be good with pets

[@iAmMadeOfSoup]

Duggars can hardly raise kids

[@spants1058]

Yes, take her back to the shelter where she’ll be euthanized 🙄 Great idea. Anyone taking this high energy breed home from a shelter would face the same issues - they are learning, and at least open to advice from their vet and taking her to training. I personally wouldn’t put all this on KZbin bc there are all sorts of crazy dog ladies on here, but let’s check back and see where the family is at in a few months. Adjusting to a new pet can be frustrating for both the humans and the animals. They are at least giving her a chance.

[@brendaenglish2477]

It’s only been a day. Be patient. It’s like bringing a new baby home. Please don’t make her sleep outside. That will only make her anxiety and fear worse.

[@dawnclark4635]

Basic rules. No outside unless you can watch her. More to the point go out and play with her! No negative training techniques, i.e. pepper spray or leashing to chairs. Once she starts obedience training put her in a sit/stay in the room near the kitchen but do not let her in there while you're eating. After praise her,give her love and treats. At night put her in one room,with limited access to things,and let her just relax. Play with regulate the energy and family time will teach her to behave.

[@janetduffy4729]

Please don’t make her sleep outside 😢. She needs to be with family .

[@dawnclark4635]

I suggest only having her outside to get out her energy and to potty. After that she should be inside with her family!

[@JoyNoelle.]

@@dawnclark4635 💯

[@ZHab336]

It’s their dog let them handle it like they like... is not wrong for a dog to be outside or sleep outside is normal. Stop criticizing them for having their dog outside... what’s next??! Elephants need to be in a zoo because being in the natural environment is wrong?!

[@MandieTerrier]

@@ZHab336 the comparison to elephants is whataboutism. Elephants are wild animals and need to be in the wild. Dogs are not.

[@MandieTerrier]

@@ZHab336 how will they know if they are not told? I don't know how to raise kids, but I have had dogs for 16 years

[@Carapsych]

I have had four rescue dogs as an adult and I can say that the dog you have now is not the dog you will have. She has been traumatized. She will be needy and insecure for about 12-18 months in my experience. Then she will be so much more comfortable and feel safe. However, crate training is probably impossible with a dog that feels so insecure. If you think of the dog like a foster child, you would probably hold it until it went to sleep, you wouldn’t lock it in a room. So I personally think you should just try to have the dog sleep next to your bed and not in a crate. If your yard is fenced in, get a dog door. It will change your life. The dog will be much more relaxed because it can go to the bathroom when it wants. Let the dog make decisions. If it wants to sleep indoors during the day and not play outside in the cold, let it make that choice. This is a time to build love and trust. It will be so worthwhile to put this effort in and the dog will bring so much joy to your family. It will also help you both become a little less rigid and more accepting of chaos. And the surprising fun you can have with a little dog chaos.

[@brittanyj6782]

please please please don't leave your precious dog outside alone at night!!!

[@tlh7717]

Personal opinion...please don't leave your dog outside and especially at night. Why does she have to sleep outside? Isn't she a family dog? She has anxiety, is scared, and longs for human companionship so she is barking, and being destructive. Especially her breed type, she is very smart and needs to be mentally stimulated and have an energy outlet. Dogs are companions and are happiest when with their people. They just want to feel safe, and be where ever we are. She won't trust and respect you if she is left outside alone all the time. Breaks my heart.

[@stitches318]

This is not a personal opinion. This is literally what every dog adoption agency recommends. No rescue is my area would ever adopt to anyone who said they planned to make the dog sleep outside

[@Ang77]

The number 1 reason domesticated was to be with us warm by the fire with food and for this gift they gave us safety and protection by alerting us to danger its a deal that was made thousands of years ago .. they are first time dog owners and they will learn but the first thing they need to understand is why dogs are what they are

[@MandieTerrier]

@@stitches318 whenever I have filled out an application to rescue. One of the questions is where will the dog sleep? My answer is, next to me.

[@testallthings2721]

Please do not have her as an outside dog. Many dogs like to spend some time outside and that is great, but don't have her sleep outside even when it is warm. Getting a trainer to work with you is so worthwhile. You would be amazed how fast they will learn by having a trainer work with you.

[@finleyflock]

You shouldn’t leave her outside so much. She needs to feel like a part of the pack. Why have a dog if you are just going to leave her in the back yard alone all the time?

[@debbieharkins9402]

I totally agree.The puppy should be inside with the family not outside during the day and not at night for sure .They need to create train her in the house. I wonder if they will end up keeping her.

[@wildflower008]

She said Fenna needed “alone time”.🤷🏻‍♀️

[@JessicaNiles]

Alone time!? That's not a thing (unless it's crate time but still with her people). This is a shelter dog who is displaying a ton of insecure and reactive behaviors already. It can take YEARS of positive reinforcement with even the best of trainers to overcome. Leaving her outside is a huge step in the wrong direction. (And I'm not referring to the cold although the temps you described are not great for her.) I'm afraid you guys don't know what you just got yourself into! Eek! You're going to have *major* problems that develop and FAST. Digging and ripping out trees will be the least of them. This has "adoption fail" written all over it. I've seen it over and over. I highly suggest "Dog Training by Kikopup". Emily can be found here on KZbin. It's a full-time job.🤞 p.s You can't tie her to the table and expect good behavior. You need to tie her to YOURSELF so you can watch her every move. Reward calm and settled behavior. p.p.s Digging is due to boredom and being left alone. You're getting the results you are setting yourself up for. p.p.p.s I foresee a nip at the kids coming up soon. No one is teaching them how to respect a dog, never mind one that comes pre-loaded with this many issues. I am surprised the shelter let her go to a home with little ones their age. Please watch them like a hawk when together!

[@suzannenelson919]

I agree Jessica. I had 3 rescues now down to 2. My 18 year old had to be put down a few weeks ago. The love of my life..... So every point you have made is 100% spot on. This gives me high anxiety. Please everyone, think before you get a pet. Especially a rescue or a shelter dog. I wish I lived close so I could lend them a hand.

[@stitches318]

Seriously. This is exactly the problem with shelter dogs. Bad owners get ahold of them and make their behavior issues even worse. Then they dump them back at the shelter, making it even harder for the next person who adopts them to build up trust with the dog

[@JessicaNiles]

​@@suzannenelson919 yes- it was hard to watch and I had to fast-forward through most of it. Ugh. Agreed, @stitches -That dog needs to be removed asap before it's damaged any further. It's exactly the type that will get put down due to the negligence of the owners. Just their comment that the dog is "testing her limits" shows how off the mark they are. It's not a human 3-year-old. It's only doing what it can do and to give it that sort of personification demonstrates how little they know about dogs and training them. This has disaster written all over it. Jill- even a brand new puppy without any issues would be tough. This dog is not the right one for your family. Save yourself a lot of grief and return her. She's better off at the shelter and that's saying something (because it was awful there). 😣

[@mege9824]

This video was sad to watch. I think they are just very inexperienced. No wonder the dog ripped up the tree. Maybe it's just the way they came across in the video but it seems like they are leaving her outside a majority of the time. She's bored and wants to bond with them. They want tips and tricks but I'm not sure they want to hear this. Last video so many commented about the crate being too small. And.... she's still in that crate.

[@PS5DOLPHINS]

I’m confused why you had her sleep outside when she had a fairly good night the night before in her crate? Dogs need routine. Just have her sleep in her crate every night in the same room and she will get used to the routine. You should take that crate back and get a bigger one. My dogs only go outside to go to the bathroom and run around for 5-10 minutes then they come back in. She’s digging and tearing up trees out of boredom and being outside to long unsupervised. She’s a sweet dog I’m sure you will get there! Hang in there puppies are a lot of work.

[@eeyore777]

Your dog is digging because she is bored, she needs and wants human interaction. She also needs and wants to be part of the family, inside. You need to bond. Our first few nights we slept next to our dogs who were scared. They don’t understand being in a shelter and now in a new home.

[@MamaNewton7]

It’s really not that serious guys! Dang ,let them take care of their dog the way they want too! Sheesh ..they are learning!

[@spants1058]

Right? They are new dog owners. At least they are open to working with her and a trainer.

[@MandieTerrier]

Didn't Jill ask for tips and tricks?

[@aidancash1]

The dog doesn’t deserve to be left outside. She was at a shelter and you want to make her live outside. She deserves to be inside with her family. No matter how cold or warm it is. I would get a wire crate. The one you have is too small. Going to take patience. Sign her up for training classes. You can also use a babygate and let her sleep in a bathroom. Also get a harness. She won’t be able to get out of her collar.

[@ssaldfb]

If I had to sleep in the yard after only 2 nights in the house I think I also might eat your trees ! . Poor dog hasn't a clue what's going on. Do the shelters not do home checks before you bring a dog home ?

[@barbstevens6020]

Most shelters do not, but a reputable rescue will do a home visit and require all family members present.

[@ssaldfb]

@@barbstevens6020 that's a shame. Here in the uk lots of checks are done first then you have a home visit too.

[@elizabethperkins7689]

Why get her just to make her stay outside? I don't get it, she seems to love being around people, give her a chance. You probably should have done more research before getting her

[@haileyardis3789]

I agree

[@riannetaal384]

She probably should. But she is asking advise right now. Good for her . Nobody s perfect right

[@amandajean9225]

Please dont keep her outside all day. Dogs are like your kids. They belong with you. I honestly will never understand anyone getting a dog to just leave in the yard. The cate you have her in at night is to small. You need a metal cage. You really should only cage her if your leaving the house. She needs to get used to your environment an time to destress. It will all take time. You need to remember it will take patients an training. Dont give up on her but please don't make her live outside. I'm a animal lover. I've grown up with dogs i have 2 dogs ive done rescue so if you have questions please don't hesitate to ask. 💜 also rawhide bones are not good for a dogs digestion.

[@barbarabavier675]

And you CAN'T go back and forth between sleeping inside and outside. It's just going to confuse her.

[@tay7756]

they truly have no business owning this beautiful girl!

[@dawnclark4635]

@@tay7756,they need to bring her in the house at night and no cayenne pepper. Using the chemical equvalent of pepper spray will not teach her not to dig. It's just going to burn the inside of her mouth,her face,her nose and her eyes. She also doesnt have any way to ease her pain if she's outside.

[@amberfoster8089]

@@tay7756 controlling people that expected her to just fit in, not bark and do what she's told. The poor little girl stuffed in that tiny crate 💔

[@tay7756]

@@amberfoster8089 I agree it is totally wrong!

[@mefcmsn]

Dogs should never be left outside all night

[@kerri9789]

Hi. So, just a few things, from the outside looking in and as an owner to a working dog as well. Fenna shouldn't be tied to the table. She bit through the leash to get to you. If you get a leash she can't bite through, SHe's going to get so stressed and anxious and everything on that table will be thrown and ripped up and the table flipped over. She was literally just stuck in a cage and alone for who knows how long. Why would you isolate her further? You literally have an already trained dog. I've seen her multiple times walk over to her bed and lay down in it. That's a hard thing to show some dogs to do. All you need to do for bed time, is bring her bed to the end of your bed and tell her to lay down. SHe already knows that's where she lays down. You guys are making it harder than it is because you're treating her like she is a robot. She has feelings and emotions and she wants to be included in your family. Get her toys that stimulate her like a Kong. I get West Paw toys for my dog, like the Qwizl. I put treats in there and he is kept stimulated and enjoys it and he goes off and enjoys himself for a little bit trying to get the treat and then he NAPS. You can't ignore your dog outside and expect her to behave how you want her to. It's pretty obvious she is afraid of being left outside. Stop doing that to her.

[@stitches318]

Please don't keep her outside. Dogs are pack animals and like to sleep with the pack. All mammals like to sleep near each other it makes them feel safe. Even humans are like this. If you keep her outside she will be more wild and less trustworthy with the kids. Treat her like a member of the family.

[@veronicarivera1523]

Wow I always treat my dog like my own child I would never but never leave her outside specially when is cold 40 degrees is cold she needs to stay warm and feel the love and feel safe I totally agree with you.

[@winedmarie]

You are making too many changes at once. And please don’t put her outside to sleep, that is not okay.

[@kelias1025]

Most people I know let their dogs sleep next to them at night.

[@MandieTerrier]

Mine do too. One sleeps in the bed and the other is independent and likes her little bed on the floor.

[@suziq88b26]

My son in law is a K9 handler and he works with Belgians, the crate that you have is too small. You have to get her the big open wire crate, Belgians are a very active dog and can not be confined like that. If she wants to come in let her she’s cold. Did you read up on the breed before you adopted her? If she can’t be in the house with the family you need to take her back. I can’t even watch this video all the way through.

[@debstrout1844]

I agree, she needs a bigger crate. Our dog loved hers once she got use to it. Give her time to get use to her new family and comfortable with new surroundings. Then introduce the dog house by letting her get use to it while your family is outside, have someone sneak out and put a treat in there before she gets outside and let her discover it. Little by little she will acclimate to her new home but it will take a while yet. She is a precious dog and so good with the boys!

[@princessbuma7661]

She wants to be with you guys. Not outside.

[@hollypietrobono1676]

That igloo is NOT enough protection for a pup in the 40’s... have a heart and allow her to stay in . Please. She must have shivered all alone out there. Be responsible pet owners please😢😢😢

[@dawnclark4635]

My dog would be outraged by this! Heck took him out this morning,it was 20 degrees,and he was not pleased. He ran his zoomies off,pottied and ran back to me and the gate. I asked him,"We're a smidge cold,huh,boy?" He went back upstairs and grabbed his toys. It was almost like,"Nuts to this. I'm done."

[@kristinc4306]

I just have to comment about the igloo, even Alaskan breed dogs who have igloos to sleep in have them loaded with hay/straw for insulation. Plus they have super think coats to help protect them from the cold. I’ve been always told new dogs brought into a new environment need a two to three week shut down to learn your routine and begin to trust. The Dillards are unfortunately making too many changes at once. Stick to the basics, bond with your dog, keep her indoors with you (especially at bedtime/overnight), don’t leave her unsupervised in the backyard when you leave the house, buy a harness and please do not let Israel walk her yet.

[@nacho-girl5120]

Just make her part of your family! Let her lay on her bed in the house during the day and watch your activity. DOGS ARE PACK ANIMALS

[@BoosMama1110]

Can she stand up and turn around in her crate? If she cannot, it's too small.

[@janicew6222]

Stick with one word commands like "OFF" when she jumps up, too many words are confusing to a dog. Simple, short commands are best, just be sure to be consistent in which words, and applying the words. Lots of praise, you have this and will have a great dog for the family. Not sure why you would keep her outside, crate her inside at night. Stay consist.

[@crazyanimallady1820]

Are dogs commands are Aussie for sit Couchez for lay down Foose for heel blowout for bark Ouse for drop it and then we started doing more stuff like Carrie freeze sit pretty all of the things like that and it’s actually not that confusing to a dog because dogs are highly intelligent and especially Belgian Malinoise and German shepherds

[@dawnclark4635]

@@crazyanimallady1820,stick with English til she learns. Start there. Also she needs to be brought in and do not use cayenne pepper to detour her from digging.

[@crazyanimallady1820]

@@dawnclark4635 we use different languages so is a two yo comes up to them and says “sit puppy” they don’t sit bc when they are little they only need the trainer to tell them what to do I train other dogs in English unless the client wants me to do what I do with my dogs

[@crazyanimallady1820]

@@dawnclark4635 and ik that it can hurt they’re smell

[@dawnclark4635]

@@crazyanimallady1820,Jill stated in the video she was using cayenne to detour Fenna from digging. Did you catch that? My last rescue learned commands in English,some French,Portuguese and even hand signals. My current is being trained with English and signals.

[@sheilapetrovic2435]

I'm actually having a hard time watching this. She's in a travel crate and should be metal. She's should never be left out at night or tied up in the house. Take her back if that's how you treat the family pet. You are causing her anxiety

[@donnabrown4349]

I was really surprised to see this. It is rather disturbing. Even if they don't want the dog in the bedroom they could at least have her in a proper cage/ in the living room or even a dog bed with removing things she might chew or tear up. This is really making me sad.

[@roswilkinson4335]

I too am finding it very upsetting. Why would anybody leave a dog outside at night and what seemed to be most of the day. It's poor paws must have been freezing standing in snow.

[@cindicathel4415]

I agree completely with your comments. It was really hard to watch. The longer the video went on I kept thinking they are at some point going to change their mind but nope. I agree if they are not going to make her an inside dog and part of the family then they need to take her back so she gets the family she deserves. If you have ever watched an episode of the Duggars. They always had dogs outside. So that's just how Jill thinks but it doesn't make it right.

[@lisagranchelli-danz5286]

We rescued a beagle three years ago. It took a few weeks for everyone to be comfortable, but it does happen. Be patient with her as she is probably feeling insecure after coming out of shelter. Our Maggie is quite a digger too and actually dug herself out of the yard about three times. My husband put in rebar stakes every foot or so up against the fence. It worked. Once she got used to us, she stopped trying to get out. She still digs, but now only to bury toys. You will all get used to each other.... just give it time. We are absolutely in love with our dog.. we can't imagine life without her.

[@NurseSue425]

That kennel you have is for transport. Crates are more open wire and bigger than dog. I know you’re new at this but if you want a dog that just stays outside. You should not have gotten a dog. Dogs need to be part of family. Leaving outside all day and nite is abusive. I know you will learn the ins and outs. Read a lot of articles on line and on Pinterest.

[@Yahsdaugther]

Please don't put her outside overnight!. up here in Pennsylvania we had to sign papers saying our dog would not be tied out or outside they are to be inside. Be patient she'll get used to her routine she'll get to know what she supposed to do. But y'all do need to get a bigger pen for her. She's really cute, congratulations on your baby 🐾🐕‍🦺🦴🐕🐾

[@JessicaNiles]

It's next to impossible to adopt a dog here in New England. Seriously, you can get licensed to be a foster parent to humans before a shelter will give up a dog to you. And yes- they would storm the castle to retrieve a dog that was being left outside or tied up!

[@spants1058]

@@JessicaNiles it’s not abuse to leave a dog outside as long as the temps aren’t extreme and the dog has proper shelter (they need to add straw inside the dog house and a rug on the doorway for insulation). Ever heard of a sled dog? Ever even been out of the Northeast? Also, trespassing onto someone’s property and stealing their dog will get you shot in many places. Sounds like a trashy thing someone from the Northeast would do 🤷‍♀️ No respect. At least they are planning on taking her to training and took her to the vet. I’m sure they will get the advice they need from an ACTUAL professional. Getting/training a new dog can be exhausting. At least they’re be honest and are open to advice from the vet.

[@JessicaNiles]

@@spants1058 I'm aware of outdoor dogs AND cultures outside of NE. Imagine that! I was speaking to the shelter workers who make visits and WILL remove a dog from a home if it's seen tied up outside or left to live outdoors for the majority of the time. Understand that the northeast is the area that takes in the rest of the country's unwanted animals because we actually spay and neuter them and find them appropriate families equipped to care for them (home checks are always a part of the process). You will not find strays on the streets around here. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@WickedlyMe328]

I feel if you don’t live in the country, you shouldn’t have your dog outside. But if you are going to, they need to supply better bedding for her. A towel isn’t enough

[@spants1058]

Most of the people commenting need to relax. Adjusting to a new dog/puppy is an emotional roller coaster, and it’s natural to feel stressed/angry/scared/anxious. At least the Dillards are honest about their feelings and the stresses of adjusting to a new dog/new dog adjusting to its new home. They are at least understanding that they need to work with her, and are taking her to training/taking advice from a trainer. They seem to have been unaware of crate training- I was as well when I got my dog. I had no idea you have to ease them into it. Malinois are an extremely high maintenance breed that need to be constantly stimulated. They do not make good pets. That being said, they are doing the right thing by taking her for multiple runs a day. They are still learning. It’s not like they are dumping her back at the pound. People need to relax.

[@jeanne4771]

She probably has separation anxiety, giving her all those orders she gets confused.. she needs to have the freedom to be with you. RELAX and let her spend all the time with you for awhile. Eventually she will know you are not going to throw her out. Patio blocks by the digging area works. One of my dogs chewed my windowsill, walls and furniture. It's been a couple of years and she is the best dog ever.

[@crazyanimallady1820]

I am a dog trainer and it is better to train your dogs when they are super young and not to just let them be out until they’re like two and then train them it’s better train them when they’re young and Malinoises are very intelligent they are just like German Shepherd’s they are smart dogs training them when they’re little is better

[@tay7756]

@@crazyanimallady1820 you sound like a donk I certainly wouldn't pay you anything to train my puppies

[@dawnclark4635]

@@crazyanimallady1820,training should never stop for dogs but unfortunately,they cannot teach her house manners if she is outside 24/7. Plus,any dog can be trained. My 14 yr old learned verbal commands,hand sigals and even some in other languages and any trainer worth anything will not suggest using negative training techniques.

[@crazyanimallady1820]

@@dawnclark4635 who said that I told her to do Negative “techniques”oh that’s right I didn’t training dogs when they are little is better bc they can learn it from a young age so as they get older they’re obedience gets better

[@dawnclark4635]

@@crazyanimallady1820,I take it you don't try and train older dogs just based upon some of your comments. Dogs are intensely smart and can learn at any age! My 14 yr old never stopped learning. She was smarter then most of the toddlers I know! My current is 4 and we're not using training as a way to increase his confidence. Training a dog should be a never ending way to spend time with the pup and be consistant. I'm a huge advocate for having fun with that time and enjoying it. They need to treat Fenna better!

[@Autumn1988]

She’s new, and a rescue. It will take a long time for her to settle and get to know y’all. Crate training is great but that crate is no where near big enough- she needs a metal wire one big enough to stand up and turn around in, that you can make into a cozy den for her with blankets over

[@rachaelkopp3792]

She honestly seemed just fine without the kennel. She seemed to be just loving life finally being FREE and not in a cage. I would've just left her sleep on her bed like she was when she just got it. Putting her in a smaller enclosed space probably scared the crap out of her. She will calm down, she's just gotta get used to her new routine. You guys got this!

[@babewhowalks]

She looked just fine in the dog bed, i dont know what possessed them to cage her

[@rebeccaotis8056]

@@babewhowalks Because she is a puppy, and an active breed puppy. A puppy like that can't really have free, unsupervised reign of the house.

[@rachaelkopp3792]

@@rebeccaotis8056 We had an English Sheep Hearder we got when it was like 4 months old, she never caused any issue. 5 yrs later she still got as much energy as she did back then. You just got to run them a lot, lots of play time, get them in a routine n establish who's boss.

[@babewhowalks]

@@rebeccaotis8056 jill is a stay at home parent and right there

[@rebeccaotis8056]

@@babewhowalks Yes, she is...but dishes and laundry still need to be done, meals need to be cooked and eaten, kids need to be bathed, homework needs to be helped with, errands still need to be run, and church needs to be attended. All it takes is a few minutes for these types of dogs to get themselves into a whole lot of trouble. Honestly, unless you have had such a dog you really should not say, "you shouldn't..." You don't and can't fully understand the energy of a high energy/high drive/high intelligence breed until you are experiencing it, and Malinois are on a whole other level. I haven't run across a good malinois trainer, breeder, or owner who does not manage their young dogs with ex-pens, crates, and/or baby gates.

[@deeanna8448]

My tip is that she needs A LOT more exercise and mental stimulation. She is bored out of her mind and experiencing anxiety. Leaving her in a plain backyard is like leaving a toddler in a playpen. She is a heavy duty working dog, not a backyard pet. I have a colleague with a Malinois. She does police type training and agility every day and competes in obedience trials. I don't mean to be harsh, but it isn't fair to her to expect her to be a well behaved pet while living in the backyard and just going for walks every day. I wish the shelter had done more pre-selection counseling to make sure you got a pet that matched your lifestyle. Please discussed options for obedience and agility work with your trainer. She'll also make a good running partner when she learns not to resist the leash.

[@hilarygrey1446]

She’s bored outside. You need to bring her in and keep her with the family and maybe even put her crate where she can see you at night. I always put a blanket over the crate so it makes it seem like it’s a cave or shelter. They like that feeling of security. And until she’s older and likes being outside alone, you are going to have to keep her with you all the time. She needs to be inside with the family. She’s a puppy (like a toddler) and she’s bored and feels alone outside. As she gets older she may want to be outside by herself from time to time, but not right now.

[@MouthyMiriam]

Please remember that if its too cold for you to sleep outside its too cold for her to sleep outside. Also an idea about sleeping ... put her dog bed in your room.. she would be happy to sleep like that... the crate isn’t necessarily always a good thing. You’re awesome Jill,... keep being you!

[@shelleydavies1639]

dogs need to be with their family...not left alone outside!!! this is not a horse or cow

[@rshak663]

I agree. They are clueless

[@Snoopyvalentine]

This is actual animal abuse and this video needs to down taken down.

[@marjoriedowney122]

Dogs are pack animals. Their human family is their pack. They become very stressed when separated from their pack and the result is destructive unwanted behavior. Fenna is not making bad choices- you are. Notice how when Fenna chewed through her leash in the kitchen she went right to to you? She was not being bad, just wanted to be with her human. If an indoor dog who is part of the family is not what you had in mind when you decided to get a dog, please return Fenna to the shelter and give her the opportunity to be adopted by someone who can offer her a better life.

[@nicolarandall176]

Seems so sad, they were so happy up get a new doggie friend. She laid quietly in her bed as soon as she got there, calm & sweet . She gets put in a crate to sleep and then training to relegate her to an outside doghouse in 24 hours. Unfollowing...just heartbreaking 😞.

[@MsSamanatha]

I AGREE Yall are choking that dog I know I've been around dogs all my life and that's not the way! IM OUTTA HERE

[@deborahbush6320]

How cold can you be why did they even get a dog

[@DonnaSmith-ff2wu]

Please do not plan on having her sleep outside. She clearly wants to be with you guys.

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[@quintonandre8870]

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[@bryantbrooks7934]

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[@quintonandre8870]

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[@nikkibayo]

And I’m not sure how comfortable you are with this, but I’d just let her sleep in her bed in the nap room. You could possibly put a baby gate at the door, to keep her in the room (if she doesn’t jump it), but I’d load her up with toys and what not, and keep her bed in there. Eventually, she’ll associate that room with “bed time”, and will be content in there. If she does wake up in the night, and has room to walk around and play, she may just lay back down until you all wake up.

[@stitches318]

They should just put a dog bed in their own room at night. Dogs like to be by their owners so it's likely she will sleep there through the night and not go wandering about. Dogs are very loyal. Too bad I can't say the same for humans

[@adventurekids9425]

We just adopted our first dog. Since the first night she has slept in bed with my teenage boys that share a room. She sleeps so peacefully with them because she feels secure and comforted. The only time we put her in her wire crate is when we leave home and we cannot bring her (usually an hour at most). We do not want her to get into something that could hurt her while we are not home so we put her in the wire crate. Other than that she is never in the crate. She lays in our beds with us and we rub her belly and cuddle with her. I think you should consider treating the dog more like a family member.

[@cillieme4381]

Why get a family pet if you don't want her "wandering " the house" or making her sleep outside. Dogs want to be with people they will bond. Digging indicates she is bored.

[@alliepowers1150]

It’s a new pet you wouldn’t trust a pet you just brought home through out your house and the dog is a puppy I’m sure she’ll get plenty of bonding time

[@aidancash1]

@@alliepowers1150 There are ways to achieve that then making them stay outside. Babygates can be a great alternative when you can’t directly supervise. They can stay in the house but have boundaries.

[@alliepowers1150]

@@aidancash1 inunderstand they shouldn’t stay outside 24/7 or even at night but a crate could be a alternative until you can trust them

[@aidancash1]

@@alliepowers1150 There are alternatives. Plus if your just shoving them outside they never learn house manners or boundaries. The best way to achieve that is using babygate or a wire crate when you can’t give them 100%. I have dogs. Me current one was behind a baby gate a lot. By six months she could totally be trusted in the house. Never has destroyed anything because we set boundaries in the house and never gave her the the opportunity to destroy things. All they see doing is shipping her outside to destroy things instead of teaching her boundaries.

[@alliepowers1150]

@@aidancash1 I never said leave them outside if you are outside for a couple hours and have a long leash

[@MyWadester]

Never leave your pet outside during the night! Coyotes are looking for food and pets! Plus give her some time to adjust. Why putting her in the crate? She can hold on for potty until the next morning. Put her bed in your room she will stop crying and will make her relax.

[@jacquelinelilly8064]

Biggest tip, A tired dog is a good dog! You have a high energy dog she needs tons of exercise and mental simulation.

[@teresabrewer2661]

Regarding jumping up: say "Off" and turn your back to her everytime. I just hope she's not going to stay outside all day and night, I don't see the point in having a dog and it not being FULLY part of your family, if you let her in she won't get bored and rip up your trees.

[@MishkaMeshel]

Why would you get a dog just to leave it outside all the time? Dogs are meant to be indoors and only go outside to play. This is breaking my heart. Your dog should not be sleeping outside especially in the cold and wet.

[@JessicaNiles]

Agreed. So hard to watch. I thought Jill and Derrick knew better than this?! Get a dog on a whim and then stick it outside when it's acting inconvenient??! UGH.

[@MishkaMeshel]

@@JessicaNiles I'm so confused about this. And how she tied the dog to the table so it wouldn't go all over the house. Why did they get a dog then? I don't want to be that person bashing people on the net but I get very upset when it comes to animals. I hope they smarten up and realize the dog should be inside with them.

[@JessicaNiles]

@@MishkaMeshel they should've gotten a cat. Or nothing. Even the most well-socialized, easy-going puppy requires the full attention of an adult at all times. It's a HUGE commitment.

[@MishkaMeshel]

@@JessicaNiles I just hope they see the comments and realize their errors. I know a lot of people are very passionate about animals and their well being. I'm sure most people are not trying to be mean, I know I am not. I want people to know better and do better when it comes to their pets. I had to learn a lot with mine. I'm still learning everyday and always trying to do better for them.

[@JessicaNiles]

@@MishkaMeshel for sure. I hope they read some books, watch some videos and realize the enormous commitment it takes to raise a well-mannered and socialized puppy.

[@rcivegotit]

Why can’t she stay in the house?

[@amypearsall]

Not sure why you have her outside so much? She probably wants to be in the house with you. I agree with another person who mentioned a baby gate for your kitchen. Please consider letting her be in the house more with you, and letting her sleep on her dog bed at night, not in the travel crate.

[@laurie3881]

Jill and Derek, Your heart is in the right place to care for Fenna, but you can't really expect her to stay in the back yard all by herself. She is bored, she will chew trees and dig holes and wreck stuff when she is alone. She wants to be with you and the boys. I promise you, she will get accustomed to your household routine very quickly. Make sure she has lots of her things to chew on, it will help keep her teeth clean and at the same time help her relieve some of the tension she is feeling. And it will keep her from chewing your furniture. Obedience classes will be awesome. I wish you every success!!!!

[@cynthiamorales-walling9652]

PLEASE KEEP HER INSIDE! She NEEDS human stimulation. She will start digging or chewing up things without it. You are starting out wrong. Also those IGLOO dog houses do not work. Make the effort please to make her part of the family. It will pay off. Don't just stick her outside because that is the last thing she needs or wants. Any owner who does that is not giving them a better life. Yes, it is hard the first few weeks but so is bringing a baby home. The pay off of keeping her inside is worth it. I have always been a fan of yours but I need to unfollow you. I can't bare watch another dog suffer. You need to spend time with her by having her inside. Why did you adopt her? She lives alone outside until YOU want to be entertained? She went from one shelter to another, your backyard. Sigh... my heart breaks for her.

[@hollyehr]

That's a really dramatic response... Clearly they love this dog and are taking care of her the best they can

[@jabecca9738]

Couldn't have said this better myself. Trying not to be judgmental, but I just don't understand why you'd get a dog nowadays & leave it outside. No wonder she's acting up, I would also she's scared & lonely. C'mon Jill & Derrick you have to know better. I really like the 2 of you & the growth you've shown over the years, but this just doesn't sit well. Not cool.

[@stitches318]

@@hollyehr It's not over dramatic. No animal shelter worth their salt will even adopt a dog to someone who plans on making it an 'outside' dog. I wonder if the shelter was just really negligent or they lied on the forms.

[@jabecca9738]

@@bkkorner I agree. It's probably a trigger for her. My dog has an insane amount of anxiety (shelter dog) & he was a ton of work in the beginning, but so worth it. They're new pet owners, I'm hoping they come around sooner than later & get rid of the small crate & let her sleep inside with them 🤞🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️🤞 sometimes you just don't know, but hopefully they're willing to learn from others.

[@hollyehr]

@@stitches318 Animals literally are naturally outside. If you have a tiny little dog maybe they need to be inside only but a high energy dog like that will be a lot happier outside. As long as they are fenced in a safe area and have access to the indoors when needed (like in bad weather), they're fine

[@samg776]

From the main page of the AKC: "The smart, confident, and versatile Belgian Malinois is a world-class worker who forges an unbreakable bond with his human partner. To deny a Mal activity and the pleasure of your company is to deprive him of his very reasons for being." This is a super hyper active dog and they are smart. You will only create more stress and disappointment for yourself trying to "deter" her actions only, she needs to be active and part of the family. Active does not mean a once or twice a day "family" walk. You will need to find something that will wear her out and challenges her mind. Also, since she has been spayed at an early age she will take quiet a bit of time to come out of the puppy stages of chewing. Check out www.doglistener.co.uk/articles for some great insight into dogs and they way they think and learn.

[@lindaharrison4039]

I think Cesar the dog whisperer, uses a treadmill to let the dog walk on it.

[@marysims188]

Please don’t keep her outside. Crate her inside when you leave she will learn that is her safe place. Get a crate that is all bars so she can see out. You even said the crate seems to be her favorite spot. She will probably continue to tear up your yard as she does not like being out there alone. Dogs are pack animals and they want to be with their pack your family. Once house and potty trained she will peacefully sleep in your kids room.

[@aok2080]

The dog looked comfortable and settled before being put into crate. She even knows to ask to go outside to go to the bathroom. Chill out on her, jeez.

[@cheapthriftymom7284]

I suggest a cage not a crate and that is twice her size..and she will see better and put a blanket that you use just for her ❤️ puppy’s are hard lol

[@tay7756]

yes especially while leaving unattended in the freezing cold outside, bored to death wanting to be with her new forever home. They are totally going about this all wrong

[@kristinahuson2121]

Some tips from a life long dog owner, and my cousin is a vet tech. 1. Get a harness for walks. Do you want someone pulling on your throat or your waist/arm to move you? 2. It is truly cruel to leave your animals outside unless they are built for that. Such as a husky. You have a short haired dog. See the difference? 3. Digging = bored, unhappy, upset, etc. stop leaving her outside. She’ll probably stop digging. 4. She’s a large dog. That crate and dog house is tiny.