Q & A: Education, Piña Coladas & More!

[@paigeprendergast9050]

I am so happy you guys are living your lives the way you want to despite family beliefs, you guys look so happy!!!!!

[@frithar]

I'm so impressed by how sensible you guys are...making decisions together and thinking things through. Well done, you guys.

[@kathyk4504]

You are 1000x more relatable now. No one is perfect, and one shouldn’t give others that impression.

[@ladyt4062]

I think those who felt they were perfect felt guilty themselves. God wants us to strive for perfection. We just have to be careful about what we do. We shouldn’t condemn others who are different.

[@janescottmcclurg]

I absolutely love when you two do Q & A ‘s. I’m so proud of you guys for living your life exactly how you want to. You guys seem so happy and stress free.

[@Banks040]

I am seriously so happy for you Derek and the boys I think you're an amazing role model and you're doing a great job by your family Jill.. I think you are very strong and courageous for stepping outside of what your family believes and standing up for yourself also I love how you have Sent Israel to public school, getting your nose pierced, having a drink, I even seen you wear spaghetti strap one time Go little momma go 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@laura55987]

The way Jill and Derrick look at each other is so loving

[@youllthinkofme2011]

First time I watched your channel, loved it. I feel like you two took the best of your very conservative upbringing and then added a little moderation and personal belief to it. Making decision about your child's education is probably one of the biggest responsibility as parent. There is not one right answer... And Derek is absolutely right, parents need to be involved!

[@laurietamblyn7332]

you two are amazing. I'm 61 years old and am glad to see that you are following what you believe in. You have come along way Jill . Congratulations

[@didochora5848]

im genuinely so proud of you Jill.

[@BlindFaith777]

Ditto

[@TrezzasVillage]

Ditto for you both Jill & Derek!

[@crystalgeorge5822]

So glad the both of you have decided to make your own way and not allowing your family come between you. I continue to pray for you and your family

[@justjack820]

I love how you do what is best for your family 💗 making your own decisions, and not just following what you grew up with. The office is great!

[@ladyt4062]

Drinking in moderation is key. I realized that I prefer drinking tea or lemonade when I eat out.

[@tbisurvivor1500]

I prefer Long Island Ice Tea or Spiked Lemonade when I go out lol. That's the only time I drink when I'm out since I rarely drink at home .

[@janicemackey5415]

Love the fact that you both are living your life your Way !! God bless your Family

[@lana7565]

Jill and Derrick, I have followed the show from the beginning years ago on TLC. Now that you're married with children, and things have changed, I'm happy y'all are doing what's best for your family regardless what anyone thinks. It should be that way. You both are great parents. You know what's good for your family. I look forward to following you guys. Keep up the good work!

[@NyoomMonster]

You guys are so cute. I love that Derick is showing you some of the things he experienced as a kid, like public school reading lists. And I think you guys have a pretty good approach to making decisions about school and alcohol. It sounds like you put a lot of thought into it and trust in God's influence over your life to help you make good judgements. It's pretty relaxed and straightforward, and I believe knowing the ins and outs of a subject is really important when you're assessing what to do about it.

[@reneaunangst7029]

I love that y’all are living your own lives. You can tell you are real and genuine. Love the videos. 😊

[@nancybryant6647]

Glad to see separating from your parents didn’t mean that you separated from Jesus.

[@kayhay6848]

What a breath of fresh air to see a couple enjoying life. A normal life.

[@GC-pq6vm]

You guys are so cute. Sorry you feel you have to defend sending your child to public school or having an occasional fruity alcoholic drink. Love you guys.

[@sperez202]

Healthy balance, that's the key. Anything in excess is not good.

[@BlindFaith777]

So much respect and love to you two and your sweet little family. Your excellent parenting skills shine through your videos. Regardless of whatever is going on in the world of scandal and drama, I support you two and enjoy seeing your videos. Sending healing prayers of peace for your family. Keep enduring to the end in the name of Jesus. 🥰🕊🙏🏼🌹

[@TheNavajoMama]

Oh my heart! I just loved this video!!! I've getting to know you two more as your marriage has grown! I so love and support you in your relationship with Jesus! God bless you both! God bless your boys!

[@FluentWithHayley]

These Q & As are my fave! I'd love to hear about your birth/labor experiences. I know one was filmed and shared somewhat, but I'd love to hear more about your expectations vs reality since Jill is a midwife and I'm not sure on Derrick's experience with birth. Love to hear more on that!

[@lisapoole5420]

You guys are just great!!! God wants people to be real above all else. You guys really have just a wonderful energy. I didnt watch the show a whole lot but I did watch for a while when you met Derrick for the first time overseas and watched until you married. I'm so happy for you.

[@kaylazook3302]

Love u guys....I grew up Amish so I can relate to you so much... My main problem is when us who are different get judged so keep up the job standing in your believes and keep on striving forward continue living for God...

[@VanisleNSX]

I can’t help but like anybody that enjoys watching The Office!

[@chinkids2762]

You guys are doing so great! I think growing up so sheltered and or in a family without a lot of healthy boundaries, I was raised that way also but in a different way, in a very neglectful and chaotic dysfunctional household not knowing what a healthy boundary was for a really long time. I was able to be manipulated pretty easily from people inside of my Nuclear family or in laws or friends with guilt and not being a "nice and good" person, if I went against or stood up to injustice inside of my own nuclear family, when I did stand up for my own self or my husband or kids people tried to use the manipulative attitudes accusing me of not being nice or Loving. I too have been in therapy for a few years now and it's helped me become healthier and just more confident in myself and learning how to strike a balance and live with a sense of Healthy boundaries and self care. I've never felt closer to my husband and kiddo's until I began receiving this kind of corrective counseling. Even with my faith I was a super t teetotaler and I felt I obeyed certain rules out of a sense of fear and guilt instead of doing what made sense and felt right for me, between myself and God we are figuring it out Lovingly and gently because I really feel that's How God rolls. Thank Goodness.

[@brittanythebeast3527]

Jill, you look so happy! It's amazing to see.

[@awesometaylor4685]

I love the oldies. Blessing and Blessing to you both. 🥰✝️

[@elizabeth_9746]

I can't wait for more of these types of videos, I love getting to know the REAL jill and derrick!

[@paulawright3704]

I love Matlock! Sometimes the hair, makeup, and clothing from that time period are a bit gaudy, but the story lines and characters are great! Pretty amazing that it's Andy Griffith, but he's not Andy Taylor ... he's Ben Matlock!

[@rachelhoage2535]

Coming from a super fundie lifestyle it’s really encouraging to see y’all become less strict and still hold to your beliefs. ❤️❤️ I feel like y’alls youtube channel is a safe space for me to watch videos on different personal beliefs but still being Christian.

[@crystalschaos9131]

There are plenty of KZbin channels that are Christians the fish fam, the labrant fam........

[@viccimauldin2235]

Good for you Derick. I worked for attorneys for over 20 years and the area of law in which you are looking at is very much needed. Looking forward to watching your youtube. Also, remember, you do not have to share everything with the public. Healthy boundaries are good.

[@victoriapascoe8359]

My husband and I have been praying on our oldest… ironically named Israel…. On what to do about schooling for next year

[@rebeccapearson6853]

Thanks for being so open and honest with these Q&As!

[@oldfitchick55]

Pluto TV is free and a lot of classic TV. You can download the app to your phone or smart TV.

[@nataliebrown1902]

If you have amazon Prime - The Golden Girls is a really fun throw back! Also, love Parks and Rec :)

[@sheteg1]

Jill’s vocabulary has become more diverse since this video. Her tone of voice has changed as well. Socializing with people outside the fundie bubble expands your knowledge. Echo chambers no matter the area be it religion, race or politics is very unhealthy.

[@kd3091]

Except for the constant use of the word “like” …. It’s distracting and makes her sound immature.

[@bacaworld7095]

I love pina coladas and I love when my kids go to school ...and I’m still madly in love with my king and savior Jesus Christ!! ( have to admit I increasingly don’t like public school but not sure I can homeschool again.) I am praying and training my kids at home and trying to teaching them to be in the world but not of the world. But still it’s getting crazy!

[@honeybunch5765]

And being caught in the rain?🎶🎵😉

[@beesilva9085]

Good fir you Jill! God lives in your heart ♥️ what you do w your personal life does not mean God isn’t there 🙏🏼

[@rachaelsimmons7881]

I am so happy for you guys! You seem so much happier.

[@KirbyK707]

Best advice I can give you. Live you life for yourselves and not for others. I love how you both are sensitive to others, Just shows you both have golden hearts. However God would want you both to live by YOUR beliefs and for you both to value that. Regardless what others may think. Everybody interprets the bibles teachings differently... thats what makes it dangerous. Just find the faith within yourselves. All God wants is Love.

[@Cyclersix]

What is the chief end of man? To glorify God and enjoy Him forever.

[@mexibabe1988]

How are doing it financially with your hausband in Uni? We both have too work besides college here in Germany to keep our daily life costs covered.

[@trenarichardson690]

Oh my gosh even now Matlock is my favorite I’ve seen every episode at least 10 times and I still watch it every afternoon

[@joannelarcher6246]

We have Catholic public schools here in Canada

[@Taytay833]

Catholic and Christianity I think is a bit different

[@madelinemadden9157]

@@Taytay833 no it’s not. The Catholic Church was the first Christian denomination. Other denominations broke off and separated from the Catholic Church. One is not better than the other, but they are absolutely Christians.

[@Taytay833]

@@madelinemadden9157 Ik but Catholics pray to Mary and saints not Jesus and god Christians pray to god and Catholics they think they have to confess all their sins to a pastor but god has forgiven them

[@sheteg1]

Catholics pray to Jesus as well.

[@Cubbies13579]

The Office is our fav, we've seen every episode multiple times 😄. Our new obsession is This is Us.

[@Soy_Jessica_]

Are you guys planning to have both of your kids go to regular school and also middle school and high school ?

[@allisonmaliszewski9667]

I absolutely love that you watch The Office! 😂

[@fanyaviluz3831]

Love all your videos. Jill would you dye your hair? What do your think about wearing makeup? Are y’all open minded on trying different foods?

[@lindabishop7824]

I am happy that the two of you are living your lives and enjoying your freedom. What I can't forget is what Derek said online that caused him to be fired from the show. Those remarks were hateful. Those were not the musings of a Godly person. If you don't agree with the lifestyle and choices of others that is fine . But what is not ok is to say hurtful, harmful and ugly statements about people, especially when you don't know what their struggle has been.

[@toniaditto2669]

Great vlog’s and blog’s! Proud of you both! True inspiration to me! The recipes are amazing as well!

[@bestofthebridges8628]

Love you Jill! I e grown up with you and your sisters. I know there was probably a lot of messed up moments, but I grew up without a family. Spending time with you and your family every week helped fill a void for me. God bless you and your family!

[@ar12281]

Keep up the good work. You guys have always been my favorite.

[@vanessaj2551]

Love your family. Congrats on your Law degree Derrick

[@janefee8773]

Omg, love The Office and P&R!!!! Good choice

[@tanyarose843]

Yessssss love the oldies

[@mobear800]

There is a great need for parents with children removed by child welfare to receive Quality lawyers. I work as a case manager in child welfare and God has burdened my heart about this. I see so many cases where biological families are suffering long term separation and trauma due to the lack of adequate counsel. So many of these families are low-income and cannot afford an attorney and therefore given court appointed attorneys that are doing pro-Bono rotations with the judicial circuit and and do Not invest in these families or cases. I have seen these families meet their attorney (appointed 2 months prior) for the first time 10 minutes prior to the hearing. There is a great need for public service law in many areas but in child welfare- these families need someone that can fight a system they do not understand. For example, in Ga when a child is removed from a home they must be given a hearing within 72hrs. I have seen these 72hr hearings not happen until 3-4 weeks later. These families, educationally limited, financially limited, and under represented have no idea that their rights are being infringed upon and no guidance in how to fight an often corrupt system.

[@tastyrecipesonabudget1689]

Hello. I had attempted to start an initiative to address this. If you wouldn’t mind connecting with an email ? This is something that’s been on my heart

[@mobear800]

@@tastyrecipesonabudget1689 [e-mail]

[@hannahharris9449]

I'm in the exact same boat!! My family is 100% against alcohol but when we got married I tried it for the first time and me and my husband have since made the same decision y'all have!!

[@ladyt4062]

Matlock is really good! Great choice!

[@tanikabell1070]

I love the office to I finished all the seasons

[@ddraper4819]

4:56 is when the question gets answered

[@chloecree5581]

Tysm!😁

[@ciaradiam0nd]

As much as I disagree with the majority of your stances and beliefs, I’m really glad to hear you’re sending your son to public school. Kids need the socialization with others.

[@amandaskagen2365]

That is great posting this! I have 5 homeschooled kiddos aged 10 down to 2. I’m starting midwifery school next year, I’m excited but nervous to balance it all as I’m extremely busy with life but hopefully it’ll work out. I want a small practice like 6 clients a year. I’ve been attending births since 2012 and love it! Also I would definitely check out the documentary Agenda and Agenda 2 : Masters of deceit. They are VERY informative. The biggest problem I have with public school is the left and their agenda they are pushing on our children. The documentary explains the Karl Marxism agenda and that’s basically whats being pushed in America, communist. They are reaching the schools, our young children, first and foremost. They are taking the task of our job in teaching our children “their moral values”. I’m not sure the area you’re are in but I know some places push their agenda so far they are teaching kids their beliefs which are so far from Christianity. Prayer is great but I couldn’t imagine sending my children to public school, ever in this day and age especially after watching those documentaries. :-( also check out the naked communist goals, there are 45 of them you can read through and how much they have infiltrated our nation!!(these goals are related to Karl Marx)

[@yorkshirelassdiaries4841]

How did I not know that you guys are on KZbin? Hi from a new subscriber. 🇬🇧

[@jkstephenson]

you guys should do reaction videos to watching the office or parks and rec!

[@mamaofchaosx5]

I am so glad you are doing you

[@jandjeaster]

How many times can she say “like”?!?!

[@rachelcarl9009]

I was like going to say the same thing ,

[@trenarichardson690]

Thank you for sharing I love your family

[@mariechadwick6388]

It's good that your being open to your fans and to yourself of course. Also Jill you say "like and yeah" slot. Lol

[@thundercat2404]

The Office is the best!!!

[@crystalschaos9131]

Jill I'm soglad to see that your stepping out your own

[@crystalschaos9131]

@Sally Lidge maybe you should dm her and ask

[@joannelarcher6246]

Does he go to a Christian school?

[@katek9864]

It’s a public school so no. Religion based schools are only private.

[@Taytay833]

It’s a public school

[@merricat3025]

Matlock was a good TV show

[@peggyknight5120]

Blessings to hear your children will be able to go to school and socialize!!!

[@sierrahjustus4467]

Need to watch young Sheldon

[@jenb8009]

Love you guys!

[@mzsarahd139]

Thanks for sharing

[@trenarichardson690]

Love your going to public school

[@marissah3125]

I love matlock!

[@sandrahardison4918]

Jill and Derrick thank you for sharing about your family. Jill great caregivers and nurse practitioners are greatly needed. Especially ones who are so caring. I hope you do return to childbirth at some point. 💜

[@ladyt4062]

Y’all are funny and cute!

[@loyzdee92]

i missed the dillards

[@zanahutchinson4636]

Me too!!

[@AmyK-jw5bu]

You guys should watch West Wing - best show ever!!!

[@WhiteTulip22]

You two are so sweet.

[@maureencimochowski824]

❤️

[@kaylahbarnes9731]

Watching all the way from Australia, ❤❤🌟

[@maddiee2534]

Queen!!!

[@isabelpeterson2721]

Jesus Christ is our lord and savior

[@lifeonwheels5756]

Jesus turned the bread into wine..he knows it’s hard out here and sometimes need to have fun lol.

[@honeybunch5765]

Water into wine

[@nicoleb8444]

@@honeybunch5765 🤣🤣 yes

[@onwednesdayswewearpink2761]

made me think abut that Miranda Lambert song :) 'Cause I heard Jesus, He drank wine I bet we'd get along just fine He could calm a storm and heal the blind And I bet He'd understand a heart like mine

[@sheteg1]

Anna Duggar’s stupid father said Jesus turned water into grape juice 😂😂

[@karentucker2161]

He did not turn bread into wine first of all and second of all, the wine than was nit like the wine is today...very much different. Do some research on it.

[@andreafelton689]

Um like

[@jmonopoly6822]

I love Jesus just as long as I can drink so I can be transparent. I never catch a buzz. I just do it because I can handle it. I only smoke one cigarette a week too. Either you are or you ain’t.

[@onwednesdayswewearpink2761]

either you are or arent what ?

[@vickiegray690]

I just watched this and it’s very informative. But I would encourage Jill to listen to herself. You say like on ever other phrase. Also!! Uh and yeah!! These are just crutches for your speech and are very annoying. I think you’ll be proud when you’re able to stop 🛑. People will be more apt to listen.

[@betsyinstitches]

I think it’s more just when she gets nervous about a answering specific question and trying to choose how she says things.

[@leislavalon3391]

Jill, please, listen to yourself and learn to speak without saying "like" every other word. Work on it. You can do it. I'm rooting for you! I counted 43 times you said "like". You also say "yeah" a lot. They are "filler" words while you're thinking what to say. Practice what you're going to say before you record these videos. Just a FYI. Good luck!

[@thestolhands2852]

This is good advice if she was making a speech or doing an infomercial. This is how she naturally speaks. It's her being herself. It would not feel authentic if they thought out every response ahead of time and said it as if it was memorized. She's fine.

[@crystalschaos9131]

Ong leavehere alone

[@crystalschaos9131]

Don't watch her!!! there are so many others channels.. .......

[@leislavalon3391]

@@crystalschaos9131 yet, here you are on HER channel. 🙄

[@marythomas4779]

I was watching another video one day and had a hard time paying attention to what she was saying because of how much she says “yeah” and “like.” I saw another comment once that someone mentioned she seems to say “like” more when she is nervous or on a tough topic. It is distracting.

[@luz4505]

Enough with the word “like” you need a new filler word.

[@kelliekinnett9763]

She says yeah alot too

[@KB-co5xg]

I'm not going to go on and on about whether drinking alcohol is right or wrong, but I just wanted to add a little food for thought. So you drink alcohol - that's your choice to make. And if you're able to have one drink and stop at that, then good on you. However, you have to be so careful when little eyes are watching you in your home. If they grow up thinking it's okay because their parents drank, then they will likely try it too. You may be able to stop at one drink, but can you guarantee your children will be able to as well? I've listened to several testimonies from alcoholics throughout the years, and a common statement that is made among them is "If only I'd never had that first drink". Addiction is a powerful force, and this one can be easily avoided, because it isn't necessary. Please stop justifying your actions, as they are lies you tell yourselves to make you feel better about doing it. I'd hate for you guys to be kicking yourselves down the road for this particular choice you're making now. Is having the occasional drink worth the risk? Just something every responsible parent should ask themselves. I pray you reconsider this action. I'm coming from a place of care and concern, not criticism. God bless you two and those sweet boys :)

[@youllthinkofme2011]

I strongly disagree with you! Having a glass of wine is a pleasurable, social activity. I grew up in French Canada and having a glass of wine at the dinner table on weekend is normal. Learning to drink responsibly is important. Many young people get in trouble because they can only drink when no adult are around. Your child needs to hear you say: "no thank you I've had enough" or I'm not drinking tonight , I'm driving. I have a 23 year old son now and he has showed great restraint in regards to when and how much he consumes. If he choose to take the car, he doesn't drink. If he want to have a few drink, he take a UBER. Having dessert everyday in excess can also lead to many illnesses. Are you going to keep all sweet away so your kid won't become diabetic or are you teaching them moderation and self control?

[@keepyoureyeswideopen]

this comment is so passive aggressive lol

[@oliviamartini9700]

Oh PLEASE. "I saw my mother have a pina colada when I was five and now I'm a raging alcoholic."

[@imcold2962]

God turned water into wine for a wedding that went on for several days. It was the very first miracle he performed. Was turning water into wine. It’s totally fine for having some drinks. And it’s not like a child will grow up and be like “ I saw my mom drink a glass of wine now I want to be a raging alcoholic.” They pointed out the fact they never get drunk but still enjoy a drink. They follow the Bible and their kids have amazing parents who will grow up just fine. You may parent your own children but don’t be passive aggressive to someone else’s children simply because you don’t agree with something. God bless you :)

[@randomvintagefilm273]

Depends on where you live. I would never send my kid to school here in California. He might come home wearing a dress or calling himself by some funky pronoun. If it weren't for homeschooling the entire next generation will be messed up!

[@HayleySulfridge]

Well, for your child’s sake then, I hope they are cis and straight, otherwise it’s sad to know their own parent will disapprove. That has caused so many suicides or just miserable people living lonely lives afraid to be themselves. School doesn’t cause that. And a boy wearing a dress isn’t homosexual or wrong. It’s learning what he likes/dislikes, if he even wants to try that at all. But again, that doesn’t come from school. The only thing from school you would seem to be against is them teaching your child it’s ok to be themselves. Jesus never taught to hide who you are. Jesus taught to love. Unconditionally. I hope you can find it in your heart to be kinder and less judgmental to things you simply don’t understand. Well wishes my friend.

[@lisacone9577]

I hope you will prayerfully reconsider watching filth like the office and parks and rec. Before I was a believer I watched these shows. They are full of coarse jesting. After coming to Christ I resolved to try and not laugh at or be amused by things the Christ died for. This isnt a personal conviction thing. It is an honoring Christ thing.

[@amandaskagen2365]

Everyone has their own convictions and we have to reminded of Romans 14:1-23. They might not find the office convicting, I watch some shows that another may find convicting that I don’t and vice versa.

[@lisacone9577]

Convictions are things that are lawful so not everyone is constrained by scripture to comply. However laughing at coarse jokes are not something that is lawful for Christ followers. We are not to use our liberty as a license to sin, it is shameful to use scripture to excuse things that are clearly called sin in scripture.

[@rachelhoage2535]

Lisa Cone ok Karen. 😂 the office is amazing and a great way to decompress. Imagine finding out that people have different standards for themselves.

[@chinkids2762]

Christ giggles at the Office :)

[@lisacone9577]

@@chinkids2762 Christ doesn't giggle at sin

[@lynnjackson8367]

going to school is so dangerous. disgusting

[@dawnchoike565]

Being judgemental is even more disgusting.

[@perlap.g9203]

Oh yeah, god forbids kids get quality education, proper social skills and a future 🙄

[@ladyt4062]

Going to school safely works!! To each his or her own.

[@Hannahleigh_]

Going to school is probably better for their mental health. Kids cant be trapped in a bubble

[@kishashowers2969]

Sorry I disagree with the alcohol thing one drink leads to more and more don’t use the well we aren’t getting drunk so it’s ok as a way to drink! It’s wrong period and y’all know it. If you get buzzed or “relaxed” with one drink you’re drunk! Shame on you that’s so misleading to lost people

[@saenza1113]

No it’s not wrong , on the contrary to you some people can actually CONTROL themselves and have a drink or two without getting intoxicated . Sorry you have a drinking problem and go full on alcoholic if you drink one 🙄. Practice self control Mrs Holier than thou 🗣

[@Volleyball_Chess_and_Geoguessr]

The bible would disagree with you. Verse about having wine for the stomach and a verse from Psalms about giving strong drink to someone with a heavy heart!

[@rachelhoage2535]

I disagree. I occasionally have alcohol with a meal once or twice a month. I have never wanted to get drunk off it. It’s just relaxes me and it’s a tasty drink.

[@angnonymousj7721]

I disagree. It depends on the person. I’ve never wanted to get rink but I do occasionally enjoy a glass of wine or a cocktail. I’m always in control and I’ve never given into peer pressure or anything like that.

[@marythomas4779]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@carolebee3962]

I feel you went from Daddy to Derrick. He takes over and answers for you. He’s the one that got you kicked off the show. Not your Dad. Now you flip flop and turn on your own Father for money. Shame.

[@montanabunny4594]

Judge NOT!

[@carolebee3962]

@@montanabunny4594 I’m not judging. Looks like she is judging her dad and letting another Man tell her what to do. Her husband got her kicked off the show. Not her Dad

[@perfect716]

It seems like they have a healthy back and forth. I didn’t get the sense that he was purposely speaking over her. She did most of the talking and he chimed in

[@carahallmancentralalabamaf2155]

Well if you follow old school Christian faith that's what shes supposed to do. Her husband is now over her. And to clarify I said old school just because that's whats in the Bible not what they teach in Christianity today

[@julesservantofjesus972]

@@perfect716 I agree with you! God bless you!