I WILL NEVER SPEAK ON THIS AGAIN - FOR THE MARRIAGE OBSESSED + PREMARITAL SEX etc

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[@alexandradongala8954]

Ladies...enjoy your life! All this marriage pressure. Know yourself! Travel! Explore different cultures! Enjoy yourself!

[@Moonbaby001]

Plus ALOT of the married ones are not happy or loyal. The obsession with marriage is just to tick off a box to please soceity(just like a “big career”). It doesn’t necessarily mean it will make u happy or content.

[@winnieboateng5334]

Thank you❤🔥🔥🙌I needed this. The marriage pressure is too much but I will turn it into a laugh 😄😄 not taking it seriously. Though you cant stress yourself if you haven't find the right man. Then you prioritise yourself.

[@neodidi]

Don't allow any one pressure.. But it's important to find a partner that loves and respects you.. Cause we are not made to be alone.. And loneliness comes with not getting a partner.. We say society shouldn't affect our decisions.. Meanwhile, literally, society is what controls our life.. From learning a language to be able to communicate, to dress style, to looking good so we can blend in a particular society we want.. To food we eat. The only thing I'd say is.. Don't allow pressure to come with any decision you have to make in life, then you most likely make a wrong decision. There are a lot of very very very happy marriages out there.. They don't share cause they want to maintain the happiness, cause they know people just like to know they aren't alone in bitterness, and if they find one not too happy, might go the extra to spoil it.. Believe me.. So yeah, ensure just like you've invested in yourself to look good, smell good, be educated, etc.. It's important we also invest in finding a partner... A good partner we can work with. Like I always say.. Remember, even with the family that brought you here, there are times you feel like running away, this is how it may feel sometimes with the stranger you're trying to build with. Also, remember that it will be nice sha if you consider the generation to come.. Give them male or female child that might be a president that will change the world, an engineer, a doctor etc, that who knows could discover something amazing.. Cheers 🥂😎

[@The.Review-Queen]

Thanks for this message

[@fredanwokobia2610]

This is so true, I was under so much pressure and got married by 32. Divorced by 37. Now I am 41 and the pressure is even worse, now they are asking me to have a baby, adopt etc...To think that these people don't even ask me how i am coping, how life is treating me, how i survived the divorce. It's draining and very common with us Igbos.

[@temitope_ilori]

So sorry you are going through this

[@aesinam]

Find your peace my dear and keep those people out of that peace. They will lead you to destruction if you don't find a way to keep them out of your head

[@chibuzorokpala6717]

E-hugs ❤❤

[@Kitmus73]

Our culture really sucks when it comes to this marriage wahala. My dear pls find how to silence all the noise. Enjoy your life, live your life, things will fall into space by the Grace of God.

[@NymaMargaret]

I’m so happy I didn’t rush into marriage in my 20s because I literally didn’t discover my true self. now I’m totally grateful for how patiently I have been with myself, I never for once cared about who has married and who’s having a baby, I enjoyed my journey, learned and grown as a person, discovered who I truly am and what I stand for, I have evolved and my choices of men have changed many times. Do not be deceived by the media noise of being old at 30, be patient with yourself and enjoy your growth. Now I am whole and married to a man who has also find his part, it doesn’t get better than what I have now.

[@cynthiankechi7120]

Aww😊...Things I love to read. God bless your marriage consistently mama. I am encouraged. Thanks 👍

[@judithaustine1903]

Congratulations 🎉

[@teemeey]

This!!!!!!! ☺️

[@obiamakawilliams4299]

Currently 27 going on 28, I'm in a relationship but I already know i can't marry this man cause his very annoying and somewhat irritating. Wondering why I am still with him? Well i am scared cause friends always say (there's nothing in the streets anymore). I am a lover girl who enjoys deep conversations /thoughtfulness , this man is not even trying and when i try to talk he doesn't even act interested. Dimms this video was for me cause I am dumping this bag of bullshit tonight. Thanks

[@Jenniferawurum]

Don’t let anyone get to your head, if you’re not feeling it anymore please end it. There is always someone better.

[@mariahkathy5182]

You still have time,move away

[@Colorsofhopeglobal]

I pray God gives you strength to carry on with your decision! Marriage is too long for someone who’s not completely interested in you.

[@assitakone8658]

I think you should move on as soon as possible. You are still very young, don’t let them discourage you finding a better man.. work on your self-development and ask your self “why I have attracted this type of man?” Because we attract who we are and what/who we need to learn in order to grow ether is painful or not.

[@ms_villain]

Good Men dey streets.. don't let your friends dump their insecurities on you abeg..take it from me..Be Selfish about your life.

[@annenwachukwu9837]

I wasn't into dating much. It got so bad that my family thought that I was gay!😂 I just knew that I wasn't ready and didn't want to rush into marriage. I took my time, and I met my SO when I turned 40. At that point, I assumed that I would be on my own, and I was okay with that. I lost a lot of so called friends throughout the years. Fell out with family members (To be honest, this was a blessing in disguise as I was able to cut out toxic people around me) because I was weird for not wanting to settle down. I'm almost 50, and I've been with my husband for 9 years, and I thank God that I took my time. I can honestly say that everything happened as it was meant to. My advice is that God's time is the best, and don't let anyone make you feel less than. Truth is a lot of them are not happy.

[@jackiereacts7201]

This is very rare for someone my age to say(I’m 31) but I’m so glad I’m not married yet! Yes, I want to be married. But I’m so thankful for all the things I have been able to accomplish before marriage. I have traveled, invested and started businesses, and lived alone. I feel like all these things would have been hard if I had a husband to constantly ask for permission to do things. Now that I’ve made all my investments( currently working on my last investment project), traveled, lived alone, developed my relationship with God, increased my self love, worked on past traumas so that I can be a good parent and partner, I’m now ready to settle down but I’m not desperate. I still really enjoy living alone.

[@s1nach]

Me too I started feeling ready when I became 30. And finally got married at 34. And I am so happy I took my time.

[@GRACEONWEH]

Awwww. This is a proof that I am so alright. Thanks dear

[@IamJayneAdams]

Best decision ever❤

[@cyrilchetachi]

Wow!

[@doreenangoua1385]

I love this for you👏🏾👏🏾

[@eunicechidinma3898]

Congratulations. I'm still on the right path though.

[@sallycaaceb6714]

Anytime my mom tells me someone is asking her when they are coming for my wedding to eat rice, I tell her to ask the person why are they not currently eating rice, they should not deprive themselves waiting for me o😌

[@Zen-cx5tc]

😂😂

[@blessingmomodu2585]

The scream I screamed😂😅

[@NaaAtsweiFilms]

😂😂

[@Perpetua_Adannia]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@oluwatimilehin_]

“Some men are praying for somebody like you!” This hit me ❤️

[@Bukola220]

Yes ooo you are the price that’s what I tell myself everyday

[@nnedyonyene556]

Feminism is having the right to choose what you want at any certain time. I totally agree! Some women think wanting to get married or wanting to be in a relationship is against the 'laws of feminism'. We have the right to choose whatever phase we want to be at any given moment

[@leamontoweh715]

I'm now in my early 30's most of my friends who married in their early 20's are now either divorced or not happy, saying they were pressured or forced into getting married. I'm more determined to take time and meeting great men in the process.

[@MeritDike]

Finally someone says how I feel in my mid 20s😩. People really think I’m not okay when I say I don’t think about marriage just yet. I feel like there’s still alot I need to do in my personal life before bringing a whole human being into it. It’s alot o😂

[@temitope_ilori]

You’re certainly not alone.

[@RACHAEL____]

Girlllll me too

[@victoriaamaraobi7621]

Same here girll .. finally someone gets it

[@cccwomensempowerment]

As a 43 y/o divorced woman I love my life. Dedicated myself to a tragic marriage for years right up until he got violent then I finally had enough. Had to completely rebuild my life, build my confidence and create firm boundaries. Now living my dream life ❤😊 Good luck ladies ❤

[@olayideeleso7840]

This thing! If the pressure is coming from family, just don't showup for certain gatherings just send love & light...if it's from friends just block them or keep boundaries. Most times people who pressure you are miserable 😂😂😂😂 from my experience.

[@UcheOgbiti]

Guyyyyy that part where you said “I don’t have to put something in the fridge and worry if someone will eat it” I screamed 😂😂😂😂

[@angelaakusu5740]

Seriously though! Some of your mates have died but no one remembers that. You've spoken with class and wisdom Dinma 💕

[@RoszyPeterz]

34:00 where Dimma was blushing over his text. Love it. 🤭

[@rubixcube8248]

I really love your honesty and you really inspire me. I am blind and I really enjoy listening to your videos lol I really cannot wait to see your beautiful face. Please nobody should ask me how I am typing since I said I am blind. Nigerians there is something called TalkBack and accessibility

[@chummyamandy2532]

Bless you❤

[@PatriciaAbijah]

❤

[@tmtv9672]

❤️

[@usangiso3142]

This is lovely rubixcube, if you don’t mind, I can help describe how lovely Dimma looked in this video. Dimma is really beautiful with sharp pointed facial features. In this video she wore a brown/blackish wig with a red dress. She also had a full face beat and use nude colored lipstick. Did I mention that her nails are painted bright red, and her smile is so full and captivating. She loves to gesticulate and touch her hair gently while talking, I think that’s one of her tell.

[@MindBursterz]

​@@usangiso3142awwwwn what you just did is so sweet, thank you.

[@Mentwoman]

33:58❤❤ Okayy!! This hand to hair movement has become a signature for our Lady😂 I love it!!!!

[@Kem_kem07]

Your answer on pre martial sex is so comforting to me because I feel somewhat pressured by my friends, but it’s not something I want to do. Peace is the best answer! Why should I do something I will definitely regret after. Thank you so much DimDim❤

[@Esther_Chioma12]

Yes dear me too

[@b_chrissy2404]

Keep it up! Don’t ever let anyone pressure you ❤

[@clarngundu6272]

My dearest TAKE ur time. Let NO ONE rush you into something that demands so much from your body, soul, and spirit. Pre marital sex is more than physical. ALWAYS, remember that. Much ❤️

[@OJoy1987]

Listen, when sex is off the table, your thought process is much clearer and less sentimental. You see clearer and will not tolerate nonsense because emotionally you are not fully attached, hence easier to walk away

[@dinmadivine7068]

Don’t let anyone pressure you. If you’re a Christian no need to pamper the issue.. it’s a clear no and no go area till marriage ❤

[@chijoyphillip2784]

Finally someone I can truly relate to. I truly started considering marriage when I was almost 29 years. And it was so weird seeing people at my age of 25 back then getting married. And I just couldn't care for myself getting married or settling down at that point. I would think like "why are these kids getting married?" I just wasn't mentally ready for that aspect of life, plus I wasn't mature at all for it. Thank you for making me feel like I wasn't the only one who thought like that

[@funmbiofficial8318]

"There is just so much more to life, my babies." That was so cute 🥰 Such a great video ❤️

[@KemApia]

The just sang “I'm in love, I'm obsessed. And I don't even feel guilty about it” when Dimma smiled and rolled her eyes when the text came in. I love it so much! 🤭🥰

[@OHSOTRENDY777]

Dimma has beauty, class & wisdom. You should please consider starting a ‘Life Advice’ series based off various topics or a particular one. I’ll for sure tune in.

[@yvonneanda6294]

Dimma is like my big internet sister, been watching you since 2012 😊

[@edna_Okrah]

People generally need to work on being open minded especially on the topic of marriage. Someone asked when i am going to get married and politely,i told them they will be invited when its time ,until then they should not ask me again . Their response was okay 😂. Speak English like Dimma is saying😂

[@karabo8847]

I moved out of home from Johannesburg to Cape Town for a permanent job and I wish I enjoyed being single and living alone more. Now that I'm in my early 30s I'm trying not to be anxious about meeting the one and rather enjoy making and maintaining friendships and balancing life before ultimately getting married and having a family Thank you for the honesty. You were are amazing at sharing yourself publicly, your personality and and demeanor is so enlightening & inspiring Still loving it on this channel❤❤❤

[@Bukola220]

I agree with you on the level of peace and ease when you are with someone. For me I don’t joke with my instincts. Once it picks that something is off with this guy, it’s definitely wrong and I run.

[@cj_reality_tv]

28:28 “I don't want a situation where I’ll keep something in the fridge and it'll go missing” had me ROTFL 🤣 SO RELATABLE! 😅

[@MoJo-ng5ot]

Calling emergency meeting is wild 😂😂 The pressure is getting worser 😂😂 we will all find love. ❤ Let’s love ourselves and work on ourselves, the love will come.

[@mrsranciz]

The “ATTENTION/AT EASE” example you gave is EXCELLENT 👌 I totally believe in this. PEACE PEACE PEACE!!! Ladies and Gentlemen, Boys and Gyals… PEACEEEE! Genuine Peace…not an assumption or you lying to yourself or forcing yourself to feel this Peace. It’s natural. It flows. You don’t work for it. #Ease is the word

[@guudee_brightstar5190]

Great chat thank you 😊

[@morolakeokunoye1120]

you speak so intelligently! our class act! 🙌🏾

[@NaomiMawuena]

Thank you for this ❤

[@chirooduyemi3637]

Am I the only one loving this Hair……love love love it 😍

[@soniaadetu4560]

Loved this so much!

[@DamolaKayode]

This was so insightful ✨

[@amarachithompson83]

Needed to watch this ❤️

[@thetallblackchic]

Love the new montage🥰🥰🥰

[@danisacademiccorner4493]

Loved this ❤

[@chiomainnocent578]

Wow.. This is so insightful

[@aydapeters4166]

🎉🎉 Content queen 🎉🎉

[@aniokoamara2801]

This is insightful

[@MrsBraimoh]

I can't wait, the intro is lit 😂

[@chisom_nw]

Dinma is the definition of REAL!!!

[@Nenyeekwe]

I love your conversations

[@estherudotong5754]

Loved this video❤️❤️

[@charmainemathye8662]

Appreciate you Dimma! ❤

[@chicchristy]

Well said Queen ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@eunicetheresource]

Damn, This was so good Dinma! 🥰🥰🥰

[@FopsyTheGreat]

Your answers are so on point and wildly hilarious🤣!

[@johndogbe1428]

Dimma...you have spoken WISDOM !!!

[@mma-nwanyi]

Oh oo i love this Dims Dims

[@mrsranciz]

Today na Today!! I love the intro already

[@nkengfobella2081]

I absolutely enjoyed this video Dimma

[@annmargaretnton6633]

I love this video. I kept on saying “Ehen! You’re Right!

[@Maaro_Muraro]

Wise words 👏🏽👏🏽

[@favourphil5972]

Love your sit down videos so much😍😍

[@TheRheevo]

Thank you for this video Dimdim! You’re so wise and listening to your perspectives on these issues is the most refreshing part of my day

[@akatendeka8930]

The wisdom in this video 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@-Lerato-Moleko-]

I needed so many reminders here✨💛

[@runwithsuzan]

Smiled all through the video

[@preciousmgbolu5335]

Thank you for this timeless piece

[@obindeborah1305]

This was such a good watchh😊

[@kateofmanycolours]

What a grace filled video 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@Iamzeenyy]

Love LOve love it!!! Premium content ❤️

[@anike-ezeuchechukwu2658]

I love the new intro ❤

[@_Adorks15_]

This is understated but Dimma you're so effortlessly beautiful. 😍

[@Nonceba]

❤ love it here!

[@TheNiloticEmpress]

For those of you Ladies waiting on God to bring your husband ,please please do not despair, start claiming and Thanking God for your husband,stay encouraged no matter what,Stay focused and get busy with your life, just don't be tempted to ask God why,when?or get angry with God ..stay focused and stop dating random passers-by men,stop sleeping with them,wait on God..Your man will suddenly appear and you won't struggle in love..he shall pursue and marry you without wasting time.I speak out of Experience, just got married after waiting for a very very long time.

[@Tricey.89]

I do that now all the while being content which still being single. I profess & proclaim that when my marriage happens, it’s both our 1st and only, and we get to experience parenthood for the 1st time together as well

[@judithaustine1903]

Amennnn 🙏 Congratulations 🎉

[@damilolaowasanoye5134]

Honestly, this video is the bomb!😂

[@TheFisayo]

I love the new intro !

[@Cdynmar]

I needed this more than anything because I am sick and tired of people asking me about marriage. Omoooo!

[@Folabeautyartistry]

I love you Dinma❤️Full of wisdom😍

[@bulbyfera]

When that text entered!🥰 your answer on marriage pressure, pre-marital sex and the alignment/commonality are stellar👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾You should make this a podcast if you are considering it.

[@MaryAgimm]

Not me going back to watch the part where the text came in,i love how he makes you so happy😍😍❤️

[@emilywangari4034]

This is gold. May the young generation watch this and learn from it. You carry alot of wisdom. Much love from Kenya

[@gbolajesuamusa]

Lol, my parents and using me to make peace when I interfere in their matter as a kid literally taught me how to mind my business when it comes to people’s relationship 😂. Honestly, it helps to mind your business when it comes to people’s relationship and when it’s necessary for you to interfere, just use sense when tackling other people’s situation in a way you don’t look like a hater like Dimma said ❤.

[@Tosyyn]

Love this video so much. I feel seen

[@victoriaehibe6307]

This video sweeeeet me.... thank you so much dinma❤

[@jessicaajuonuma7211]

I will have to save this video for later in my playlist. So that when the pressure get wesser, I can listen to Dimma advice me like an.elder sister and allow her soothing voice calm me down. Thank you Dim Dim

[@RosaliaShiweva]

Dimma ❤❤❤❤❤ thanks for this wisdom.

[@DrChioma]

Thank you for this video Dinma ❤

[@darleneeetv]

I love love love the new introoooo

[@shiyayetbakut1106]

I enjoyed this video thoroughly 😍

[@ugoo4364]

This is everything! Thank you DimDim ❤❤

[@AvuzwaKeei]

Watching this after her engagement post on Instagram🎉❤

[@ogooachu]

This video was everything and more Dimma ❤❤❤❤❤ I didn’t want it to end

[@ikejiakuchisom8596]

Heavy but very insightful. thank you very much🍀

[@chikaokereke]

Ha! You are a blessing to this generation! So much wisdom from one person! Thank you Dim Dim!❤

[@hildadirisu]

Thanks for this video Dimma❤

[@nkoyoemem9020]

This is why I love Dimma, she’s always so real. Always look forward to your contents, but you see your Q&As? There’s always something to learn. Thanks for always keeping it 💯

[@OneMellMell]

I love this talk!!!!! Well done Dimma!!! Love this

[@eunicechidinma3898]

"I got a text from; you guys know" this thing called love is sweet ooooooo. Thanks for this message. To be honest, I'm tired of people asking me when the wedding day will be. I'm not even in a rush but I know the right person will come.

[@yuniakibona7267]

So much wisdom....love seeing you happy & healthy🤗💕

[@empressteephakitchen]

Thank you so much Dimma. You are a gem ❤

[@chiomaachor9116]

Love you Dimdim ❤ How are you doing?

[@oribhabornora9236]

Thank you for answering my question so beautifully Dimma. Felt so personal

[@anitaeke5936]

Dimma God bless you, this video is so timely

[@heyyitsjoshie]

Ahhh this introoooo!! Come onnnnn!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥