I actually did an excersize about 2 days ago where I worked out that my major core value is to "help people" or what you term "service" , and I only realized it was when someone refused my help and I got upset about it. It got me thinking why is was such a big issue for me, then it made sense.
@ScienceOfPeople11 ай бұрын
Oh that is so interesting! That's a great thing to know about yourself, and why it's so important to be in touch with our core values ♥
@CallMeGailyn11 ай бұрын
Good idea to take such an internal inventory every once in a while. My core values moved around over the decades. At nearly 70, living my most exhuberant life yet, the list is like this: Achievement Autonomy Creativity Learning Wisdom Self- respect
@ScienceOfPeople11 ай бұрын
So true - they do change as we age so it's good to reflect on them now and again. Thank you for sharing yours! ❤
@UnconventionalReasoning11 ай бұрын
My core values: 03. Wisdom 30. Learning 51. Practicality 52. Optimization 05. Authority 53. Ignoring rules My business subtitle: "Trusting students' abilities, helping them learn more effectively and efficiently."
@ScienceOfPeople11 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing yours! Love this business subtitle too - well said!
@JessicaFayToday11 ай бұрын
Excellent video! "If you don't have it, it drives you crazy." You can't relax until you have it. "Think of what would happen If you didn't have it. Would you be able to relax?" Thank you for this test. I have never heard this aspect before.
@ScienceOfPeople11 ай бұрын
Of course! I'm so glad it hit home for you. ❤
@FallenVictor3 ай бұрын
Order , autonomy , beauty , creativity , faith .
@Devlou33311 ай бұрын
Listening from France 🇫🇷 I buy both of your books on audible. Never had problems with Social Skills but I don't have any Social Media. I just don't care about too much .. and The First Chapter Of Captivate was so refreshing for me .. Play To Your strengths .. Play To Your Position. Build relationships with people with same PURPOSE as you 💯 . YOUR WORK IS FANTASTIC!!
@ameliaromero346111 ай бұрын
Hello from Florida USA
@Devlou33311 ай бұрын
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@christellegaitanaros458211 ай бұрын
Il nous manque clairement ce type de contenu en France! 😉
@ScienceOfPeople11 ай бұрын
Thank you SO much! I'm honored to hear this. ❤
@sintyacozma23711 ай бұрын
I don’t know what we did to deserve this channel ♥️🤩
@ScienceOfPeople11 ай бұрын
You are so kind!! Thank you for being here. ♥
@redfireempress2 ай бұрын
I’m so mad I didn’t find your video earlier. It really helped me a lot. Top 5: Love, Honesty, Fairness, Authenticity, & Honesty.
@zatlya11 ай бұрын
1. Openess 2. Growth 3. Friendship 4. Respect 5. Humor It was way harder then I thought this was. I listed 15 values, bcase I feel that 5 it's just so little.
@ScienceOfPeople11 ай бұрын
I hear you, it can be so challenging to narrow it down to 5! Sometimes it's good to start with 15-20 like you did and then continue to reflect and narrow them down further. Thanks for sharing yours. =)
@christellegaitanaros458211 ай бұрын
I tried to stick to 5 and so it would be: achievement, empathy, friendships, learning and Honesty! Thanks Vanessa 👍
@ScienceOfPeople11 ай бұрын
Beautiful. Thank you for sharing yours!
@bingcherry627111 ай бұрын
I can not eliminate any from the list, cause then I wouldn’t sleep🤣: my Top 7/8: ~Wisdom, ~Justice, ~Boldness, ~Empathy & Kindness, ~Determination, ~Loyalty, ~Trustworthy. Wonder what’s the deeper meaning of it…!
@ScienceOfPeople11 ай бұрын
Love these! It's definitely hard to narrow down to just 5. Thank you for sharing yours =)
@bingcherry627111 ай бұрын
@@ScienceOfPeople can you tell from this more about my character as a person…? I’m doing a lot of “soul searching”
@Daniel_Montenegro11 ай бұрын
Achievement, Kindness, Learning, Humor, Respect.
@ScienceOfPeople11 ай бұрын
These are great! Thank you for sharing ❤️
@ramoncranert817711 ай бұрын
Achievement, Learning, Success, Self-respect, Spirituality: principally, these 5 core values because if attained, the other 45 might fall into place.
@ScienceOfPeople11 ай бұрын
Ahh I love it! Thank you for sharing yours!
@boojan85511 ай бұрын
Authenticity Clarity Curiosity/growth Honesty Respect Many of them are kind of overlapping, it’s hard to narrow it down for me. Thanks Vanessa for the exercise.
@ScienceOfPeople11 ай бұрын
Of course! I agree, definitely tricky to narrow them down sometimes. Thank you for sharing yours =)
@champagnpapi80010 ай бұрын
Mine is pretty simple: empathy, wisdom, fun, self-respect, honesty I don’t know if it feels completely right, yet it’s very close to me.
@ScienceOfPeople9 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing yours!
@pavanrajshet24389 ай бұрын
Spirituality, wisdom, empathy , kindness ❤
@ScienceOfPeople9 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing yours ❤
@nodozhit11 ай бұрын
Those were all great, for the most part, but I have my own style that works well for me. I aim for agency, assurance, accountability, acceptance, and autonomy. I even have my own acronymic aphorism for keeping my affirmations in perspective. I call it ALL ADD. I am here to- Add value. Lead by example. Learn from mistakes. Answer my call to action. Develop an excellent work ethic. Define what I do want. I chose ALL because because, at its core, it is inclusive; and ADD because it is positive.
@ScienceOfPeople11 ай бұрын
Oh very cool! Thank you for sharing this!
@MoneyGist11 ай бұрын
Top 6 (in pairs) for me would be Honesty & Trustworthiness, Autonomy & Security, Wisdom & Recognition 😊
@ScienceOfPeople11 ай бұрын
Love how you put these in pairs! Thanks for sharing =)
@MoneyGist11 ай бұрын
@@ScienceOfPeople Thanks for the video! 🙏🏽
@JVLIANREYES11 ай бұрын
Hello Vanessa, I hope the family is doing well, also the new baby with holiday is coming up ….first Christmas. I truly enjoyed this video post. Core values is so important. I choose self-respect, learning, love, empathy, curiosity It was challenging, but as you said, what are the core values. Kindness is a branch from love. From learning, we receive knowledge and growth from curiosity we receive creativity. With self-respect for ourselves as a core, we can have respect for others, along with honesty, service, responsibility, honesty. When we recognize core values as our identity, we lead better lives. Thank you. Looking forward to all your forthcoming valuable information.
@ScienceOfPeople11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your kind and thoughtful words! ❤ I'm really glad this one resonated with you. I agree, recognizing our core values can definitely help us lead more positive, purposeful lives.
@lucka10211 ай бұрын
Mine are peace, authenticity, creativity, curiosity and kindness. And if I may suggest adding playfulnes to the list.
@CamlsDead11 ай бұрын
Fun
@ScienceOfPeople11 ай бұрын
Beautiful! Playfulness is a great one.
@kayarax0985 күн бұрын
Thanks for making this.. It really helped me out!
@paulaa.683311 ай бұрын
Great video as always!! Top 5 for me: Achievement, Money, Autonomy, Creativity, Happiness.
@ScienceOfPeople11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! Beautiful. ♥ I appreciate your sharing your top 5!
@catgirl68036 ай бұрын
I just quit my job because they were very tied to the company core values but mine did not fit. They were great, but not for me. I am having difficulty determining achievement vs success. 1. Achievement/ Success 2. Adventure 3. Autonomy 4. Influence 5. Service
@hanigani666911 ай бұрын
Discipline Humility Strength Love Joy
@ScienceOfPeople11 ай бұрын
Love it - thank you for sharing yours ♥
@N5555b11 ай бұрын
I liked the theme of values I would appreciate it if you could expand on it in the following videos
@ScienceOfPeople11 ай бұрын
Thank you for this feedback! I'll keep this in mind =)
@imdxpertm11 ай бұрын
Thank you Vanessa for sharing valuable knowledge. We ( your fans) would love to know about your 5 core values😊
Yay I'm so glad you found this one interesting! Love the ones you narrowed down - and I appreciate you sharing them! ❤
@moveon183011 ай бұрын
Can we use that as a coaching session on their behavior🤔
@myrandacolina11 ай бұрын
What if I want to switch to my Ideal core values? is that possible?. I would love to hear what you think Vanessa!. Love you since always, Thank you!
@ScienceOfPeople11 ай бұрын
Great question! Yes, it’s possible to switch to your ideal core values. However, it may require deep self-reflection, personal growth, and daily practice to rewire old habits. Personal development and shifting your priorities in life can help you change your values to be more aligned with the best version of yourself. ❤
@On_The_Mark11 ай бұрын
This is interesting. Now that we've identifed our core values, what do you recommend that we do with them?
@ScienceOfPeople11 ай бұрын
Good question! Next step is to integrate them into your daily life to ensure that your actions and decisions are aligned with what truly matters to you. This can be done through goal setting, reflection, visual/written reminders, etc.
@N5555b11 ай бұрын
Hi, Can you give an example of a person whose value is empathy, authenticity? What is the difference between the fairness value and the justice value? Can curiosity be considered a sub-value within learning?
@ScienceOfPeople11 ай бұрын
Great questions! 1) One example of a person who values empathy and authenticity is Barack Obama. 2) While justice usually has been used with reference to a standard of rightness, fairness often has been used with regard to an ability to judge without reference to one's feelings or interests; fairness has also been used to refer to the ability to make judgments that are not overly general but that are concrete and specific to a particular case. 3) Yes, curiosity can be considered a sub-value within learning.
@N5555b11 ай бұрын
@@ScienceOfPeople thank you 🙏🏼
@The_Krazy_Made11 ай бұрын
how do I differentiate between Authority & autonomy?
@ScienceOfPeople11 ай бұрын
Good question! Authority is a sense of power over others, while autonomy is the inherent power of individuals or organizations to make decisions and do what they want.
@paolamartinezjarquin996711 ай бұрын
Wisdom Empathy Kindness Growth Stability
@ScienceOfPeople11 ай бұрын
Love these! Thank you for sharing. ❤️
@harini160311 ай бұрын
Wow!! Amazing 😍👍
@ScienceOfPeople11 ай бұрын
Thank you! ❤❤
@ketaksingh54653 ай бұрын
Pleasure Autonomity Stability Respect Security
@dhaliwal11-spn4 күн бұрын
thank u i find my core value who i m freedom equality authenticity open minded or learning
Listing to the list i could pic any...what does that mean?
@UnconventionalReasoning11 ай бұрын
You may be considering "want" rather than "need".
@kaperns7911 ай бұрын
I will watch the video again and ask my wifes opinion what she thinks my core values are. None of those i feel are a need or jumps out at me. Might be i misinterpret the words and meanings.
@UnconventionalReasoning11 ай бұрын
@@kaperns79 I decided a couple of other words fit me more than most of the ones on the list.
@ScienceOfPeople11 ай бұрын
That's a good idea! There are also more in the article (linked below the video), if you need some more options!
@ScienceOfPeople11 ай бұрын
It might mean they are all important to you, but that you need to do some reflecting to narrow down the MOST important ones to you. This can be tricky, but I know you can do it!