Dishonest Relationships

[@jennifer695]

The craziest part about being cheated on is that you forever feel that you're never good enough for anyone after that and you'll always expect your partners to leave you.

[@trevorv3804]

Been cheated on in 3 of my last 4 relationships. The PISD is killing me. I feel like only 10-20% of people out there are truly monogamous and because of that, I can't see myself dating again. I've had enough pain from feeling worthless.

[@damnmuggle]

Yeah

[@juliem07291]

yes this is how i feel. i am still hurting.

[@thetongueofangels1882]

That hole in your chest.. grow a sunflower there.

[@Tazzizilla]

I always leave them before they leave me. My trust issues make me the abuser sometimes. :/

[@veryconcernedjesus2584]

When you text a paragraph and get one word response

[@btsinfiresmewiththeirjams6433]

Silver Ingot one word

[@roji3910]

Silver Ingot ok

[@dimibee6518]

Silver Ingot k

[@nv_park]

Silver Ingot i feel ya

[@bitchwhat6267]

BTS INFIRES ME WITH THEIR JAMS I found you ARMY

[@gabriellalouise3150]

I would much rather have someone tell me to my face they didn’t love me rather than cheat. My dad cheated on my mom after twenty five years of marriage and it hurt our entire family more then if he had just left years ago.

[@leamarye923]

Gabriella Louise same. but my mom on my dad with 20 years of marriage.

[@TheMaleeann]

Same

[@pretty948]

You would've felt different if he left you all alone before itself , he shouldn't have cheated tho very selfish .

[@inthezonenews]

I hate when people say "I love you so much" after they friggin cheated on you...NO YOU DON'T LOVE ME! YOU LOVE YOURSELF.

[@soph7957]

omg the worst is when they say "it made me realize i only want you" lmfao i swear i've heard that from every person who's ever cheated on someone

[@andrewkear4143]

@@soph7957 🤔😂

[@Moonwatery]

Cheaters don't love themselves thats why they self sabotage in an attempt to.get validation

[@lilverson1333]

You should love yourself wtf? Its You dont love me the ONLY thing you love is yourself

[@lilverson1333]

Talk yo ish say it louder for the people in the lobby

[@hipnhappenin]

The black guy is totally me. It’s hard when you know you’re better off getting out of a relationship but then the next option is just intense loneliness.

[@zodiacqueengames408]

AmarNathan you can't just assume she has plenty of family and friends...

[@tellurye]

There is nothing wrong with wanting companionship, but if you experience "intense loneliness" when you are single, then there is something else at work. You should WANT to be with someone. Not NEED to be with someone.

[@thatsEforEveryone]

Damn reading the sub comments and you guys don't have to make them feel bad about themselves 😅

[@kritisrivastava9393]

Did that guy gave her the last chance. I didn't understand where he was moving in with his suitcase .

[@Jennzelnick]

"what did you get from her that you didn't get from me?" dang idk why that hit me right in the heart...

[@kaitlin1609]

Jenn Allyssa same

[@djtjrahejk9102]

Jenn Allyssa

[@alishagarneaux2972]

Jenn Allyssa my heart hurt too Damn

[@lesmercredis]

"stay on the couch"... YOU cheated, and HE gets to stay on the couch?

[@jennamasa8190]

Autumm Dottir he wanted to leave she wanted him to stay and knew they couldn't sleep together so she offered him the couch because he wanted to walk out if she wanted to walk out it would of been the other away around

[@seminormalgirl9783]

I think what she ment by stay on the couch was to stay so they could talk instead of him leave. But I'm not quite sure.

[@marcusob2789]

Why didn't she sleep on the couch and he sleep in the nice bed

[@peepo9781]

Autumm Dottir ikr

[@ariannaappleby6732]

i was looking for this comment

[@Eli-sp8fl]

when ur loyal and cant relate

[@quandila]

ryyiio we are in the verge of extinction

[@hkayet4208]

ryyiio I relate to the other side of cheating being cheated on 😂

[@kumieb701]

ryyiio same

[@elizacharith4661]

ryyiio trueeeeee

[@TheLayZTaco]

ryyiio unfortunately I can relate because I have been the one cheated on, not the cheater

[@Butterflywings011]

Once you cheat, lie, or whatever... Even if the person takes you back, they will never look at you the same...

[@eliaselkhoury7233]

100000000%%%%%%%

[@kerrycavanaugh4268]

I been on both sides and your words are so true.

[@ATrueLoveOfficial]

A relationship won't last long if it's foundation is lying. Whatever your reasons are for not telling the truth, if you do it mostly in the entire relationship, eventually it will fall. It will not survive.

[@roberttraverso7352]

Being truthful is important but the lying about the cheating is nothing compared to the cheating itself

[@flyingrubert2605]

TRUEEEEEE!!!!

[@bizzabops]

If you're gonna be dishonest in a relationship, why be in a relationship?

[@annalopez2531]

PlatinumSheildGaming we accept the love we think we deserve

[@impefectk4977]

PlatinumSheildGaming so true dammit

[@impefectk4977]

if my bf ever cheat on me i would leave him i would tell him to forget about me to forget i was in his life and to forget i even exist...to forget all happy times we had,to stop texting me,to stop talking to me to stop looking at me to stop protecting me....and promise me he won't cry...then i would leave and never spoke to him again.🔪💔

[@ewqdsacxz765]

@Anna Lopez, that's not what they asked, though. They asked about the motivations of the deceiving person, not the deceived person.

[@annalopez2531]

ewqdsacxz765 not necessarily, you're being dishonest if you're ignoring the toxic state of the relationship. Like the girl who forgave her cheating boyfriend was being dishonest.

[@Daijeno]

If you can't be honest with someone, you're only fooling yourself.

[@vanditashukla868]

Xcramata true

[@EchaKiut]

Xcramata i cant

[@aaryamala8664]

Xcramata

[@11gurkha]

Agree,,, its impossible to be 100% honest. you will offend alot of people, you would end up with no friends. honesty must be selective, know when to use it for the desired effect.

[@ziggythevirgo5768]

my heart breaks for people who have gone through the dudes position

[@itreywalk]

she volunteered him for the couch lol.

[@miaa1762]

I yodeled when that happened

[@savannahv3874]

Siobahn T. Ayumu right like if YOU cheated you should be the one on the couch

[@Hanukiskaa]

I thought I'd misheard, haha.

[@moviesrapidshows90s73]

Uh yeah sorry...if your the one who cheated...it's couch city for you.

[@aidooedna]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Xxx66230]

A tip for people who have been cheated on. Don't look back. If they truly loved you, they would make the right choice. It's ok to be harsh sometimes, that's how we survive.

[@elgirl5336]

JinxDraws easier said than done I guess

[@JustCardsBySara]

JinxDraws what if ur on a break had a miscarriage dude u were with for two yrs sleeps with another them couple weeks later u find out ur having twins and ur alone

[@patriceharbin9246]

JinxDraws i

[@OsapodaParede]

here's a few tips for getting a date and found learn to be patient Keep yourself active (I read about these and more on Avyanna Attract Tactic website )

[@keithjones3324]

JinxDraws f

[@99txgh]

People ask why I bother watching these videos when I'm single and can't relate, but I'm just educating myself for the future

[@abbster5827]

It's 3am n I have an obsession with watching random videos that don't relate to my life

[@novasnotvibing]

Nerd

[@mimi-fm7hz]

these people arent bad actors

[@dejLoaf22]

amelia meech they're like the only ones lol

[@user-fy7mp6wd8m]

They're actually not that bad

[@Julia-ny2wt]

ikr! I keep thinking how cool it is that they can pull some of these senes of when acting isn't even their profession! and albertskanal, of course they aren't top class actors and they wouldn't do too well in a big screen film, but you have to admit they're not bad for amateurs

[@KM-eb5yo]

some of them are pretty bad lol. 4:35 was kinda forced

[@Kiraaoo]

TheFireCraze not at all

[@literaturelysophia45]

This is the quality we need from buzzfeed. Amazing

[@camillevandenboer4777]

Literaturely Sophia trueeeee

[@hellohello-kx9ry]

Literaturely Sophia I liked ur comment but I didn't want to give it a thumbs up because irs exactly 420

[@ellafaie]

Literaturely Sophia yesss ikr

[@airnandez7722]

Literaturely Sophia yess

[@literaturelysophia45]

Omg I just saw this AHAHAHA! Wish it had stayed at 420

[@Ameliacandycanegirl]

When you love them more than they love you

[@petersonmasoryde3163]

IM EVERYWHERE YES. this happened to me

[@_aiko020]

Sometimes it isn't always about that

[@sarabutler-smith5285]

The lesbian couple has the worst communication of any couple I've ever seen.

[@Naaf69]

the same communication with my roommate. One tries to hang out with the other, and the other wants to hangout with friends and loop.

[@nycitylifeandhistory]

there actors

[@TheIntiruna]

Well you haven't seen me and my ex. Damn my terrible with communication

[@datura3248]

I KNOW

[@gannamahmoud373]

I was thinking the EXACT same thing

[@kinda9467]

Do the side of the cheater ,show their train of thought when they were cheating .

[@kinda9467]

Annee oh k

[@kumieb701]

cutie pie there is no train of thought for a cheater. They are just assholes.

[@kinda9467]

Kumari Billings probably true

[@lakkadbagga]

I want to know. Are cheaters bad people?

[@101mahina]

Tushar Prashar Not all cheaters are bad people, they just make bad decisions.

[@MayaTheBeeeeee]

I love being single. I can go to bed and know nobody is screwing me over.

[@abenaa3350]

Khaleesi same boo same 😂

[@cocot1903]

Khaleesi 😂😂😂

[@jamilhossain468]

Khaleesi i need u my be sometimes

[@rrrrrrrr-kn5cb]

Khaleesi agreed!

[@Mrschristinehubert]

I was literally thinking this exact thing while watching the video!

[@earlybird015]

It's better to break up after someone cheats. It can never be the same. I went through that BS before

[@justslightly7794]

earlybird015 BS?

[@borke42]

How can you not know what BS stands for?

[@TrendChaser247]

It stands for "break-up stuff"

[@ashleighhiggins2877]

TrendChaser247 yep that's what's going on here. Exactly.

[@patrickmartinstumph8104]

earlybird015 Well if thats true why is Wenger still at Arsenal

[@tewchy]

If someone cheats on you then they didnt love you. They were only in love with the idea of loving someone

[@elizabethbanks4141]

like×100

[@isabeldavila3091]

never thought of it that way

[@nemomemo9253]

My brother they never were in love they were in Lust True love is built over time

[@jajauwjwiwuauahhwjwj7970]

Kotarou😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍🤩😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@null-wj1sd]

I was cheated on 2 months ago and hear me out this video is real, this kind of stuff happens and it can either break you or make you - I forgave my ex because I didn't have room for hate in my heart but I knew I deserved better and I moved on, stay strong loves.

[@jamilhossain468]

Maya Tan i need ur love honestly

[@ericaheap]

this is so inspiring thanks xx

[@ellierami1268]

girl same, my ex cheated on me and ended up being with the girl he cheated on me with. We were long distance and I trusted him to not do that but he did. I will on trusting my partner, I know if they decide to cheat, then it is on them, my future partners should not suffer from what he did because it would cause the same chaos as my ex did with me.

[@thetongueofangels1882]

May God continue to bless you

[@cassy4026]

I'm stuck in a sort of situation and I'm not sure if I may have made the right decision but I feel this🤔

[@milesarroyo8404]

I've been cheated on before my dog went over to my neighbors house to go play with their kids I've never felt so betrayed 😔

[@cajolekapoor]

Cristian G. Omg I'm so sorry :(

[@madisnhlland1110]

Poor thing i had the same thing happen to me 😂

[@enessajoy763]

Cristian G. you'll find a real one who'll appreciate u😔

[@esaaa9805]

Cristian G. 😂

[@Vincisomething]

I misread this as "my ex cheated on me and my dog went to their house." as in you and your ex were neighbors😂

[@shiaadams2837]

No excuse. When you love somebody you don't cheat. If something is wrong you work through it. If you really love somebody you couldn't even imagine hurting them like that.

[@camelio10]

Only a woman would think like that. For men, casual sex is meaningless, it's just pleasure like eating a snicker bar

[@everydayprogression7121]

camelio10 it is to women also. Only children and the immature think like that.

[@leamarye923]

Shia Adams exactly.

[@eliana947]

i can relate to this. i got cheated on recently and my boyfriend said the same thing. he did it because he "was scared" of where our relationship was going. We broke up, but to this day I don't understand. If you sense something is wrong with the relationship, why would your instinct be to cheat? Why wouldn't you speak with your partner about how you're feeling? why do something so destructive?

[@amishakhatri3963]

Eliana Cabrera 💔

[@Summerbaaby16]

because people are cowards

[@misschaney9245]

People do terrible things. I lost my faith in finding love. You're not alone. When all seems lost, true love may find us both. It happened with someone else now apart of my family. :)

[@quintus1553]

Eliana Cabrera of iisiospsip

[@kumieb701]

Dee J umm is that really a reason

[@ainsleygrace299]

I've cheated before, I went to a dog shelter and came home my dog was mad😭

[@snailcheeseyoutube]

Miss AinsKz that's not funny

[@faithkidwell9757]

Elsa Smith it was a joke stop being uptight please

[@Ghost_Butter]

Ainsley Grace >:0 Excuse you sir? XD

[@hannahbanana-sj2wj]

Elsa Smith its very funny actually.

[@lakhaulas]

No you don't. Your dog deserve better human! Have you apologizing to him/her?

[@louisd9423]

I wish I could find a true relationship, I will respect and cherish it forever.

[@Dancediva240]

Louis D me tooo. i pray for that and its the same promise i make to myself

[@louisd9423]

Jessie K oh that's sweet, May be we can get to know each other, email me at: [e-mail] or Whatsapp me on: [phone]

[@Zukos_honor]

@@louisd9423 Oh my god dude dont do that

[@scarlettjersey]

@@Zukos_honor yeah

[@scarlettjersey]

@@louisd9423 you should probably remove it

[@stanmonstax2756]

Be honest or go away.

[@hafizulfaizal638]

stan monsta x W

[@stanmonstax2756]

Woah this blew up

[@devashishpandey4810]

as simple as that,well said btw i feel sorry most for the man who took the girl for dinner and someone more good looking than him took his girl away in no time .......

[@khushi0743]

stan monsta x HONESTLY

[@Jacky-ni4df]

oh shoot kpoppin

[@anonomus8709]

A long time ago, I was the "other woman" without my knowledge. This guy I was seeing lied to us both. I was the one who had to break the news to her, and let me tell you... that was the hardest thing I've ever had to do. I had to break the heart of a woman I didn't even know existed. I'll never forget the sound of her crying over the phone when I told her. These things are NEVER easy, no matter what role you play in the scenario.

[@khinaraj]

Lisa Marie I want to see this side of the story. A lot of people get caught on the 'blamed' side of this cheating.

[@anonomus8709]

That would be an interesting angle to do a film about, definitely.

[@emilyrose3636]

Lisa Marie there is a movie actually like that, it's called 'The other woman'.

[@totallythandi2555]

It depends. If you knew about the wife/gf and continued for fun,money or sex and then it blows up idk if it was that hard for you

[@anonomus8709]

+Thandi Mphoka I could see that being the case with some, for sure. There's people out there who genuinely don't care who they hurt, sadly.

[@kyoten4101]

Me and my relationship with food. 'I don't love you, burger' 'Me neither' *proceeds to eat out the burger*

[@unknownchu]

Ani Lu 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@manaralobaidi3444]

Ani Lu u just put my life a few lines👏👏👏👏👏

[@lillithwisteria8074]

Ani Lu relatable

[@yaritzavlogz6528]

Ani Lu I'm sorry I've moved on to French fries FORGIVE ME🍟😭

[@SplashAttackTCG]

Me and my relationship with girlfriend. 'I love you, girlfriend' 'me too' *Proceeds to eat her out*

[@Violet-tf1rd]

The most painful thing is that the choice to either not hurt you or hurt you went through their mind and they decided to hurt you

[@logophile92]

That's why it's unforgivable.

[@WisePsychology]

The cheater isn't thinking straight. They are usually being lead emotions. They don't really consider the feelings if the other person, and almost every cheater thinks they won't get caught, so there's no need to worry.

[@JonDoe-uw3dj]

I've never been in a relationship, but if I ever get cheated on I'm never looking back

[@kiarawebby570]

Easier said than done

[@nightcore8451]

Thats how it should be

[@Rhonettala187]

I'm still trying to figure out how BuzzFeed can post something that hits so close to home and then post a video about a guy looking at his girlfriend's period blood just hours later.

[@KM-ld9ln]

Rhonette Smith individual creators

[@Rhonettala187]

Kaitlyn Mclaughlin But you'd think that the quality and personality would be at a similar level.

[@annienguyen1503]

Ironically, the guy you're talking about is one of the lead producers of this video.

[@FW7737]

buzzfeed is relentlessly trying to hit new lows

[@tealbubbles3840]

Rhonette Smith haha you're right 😂

[@wearenothingbutpawns]

no sympathy for stupidity and selfishness. if u truly loved them you wouldn't do something that you know would hurt them. you made that choice

[@africa2204]

formlessness yeahh

[@Zerefas0]

formlessness yeah

[@idkidk4831]

I disagree. We all mess up, we're human. I don't know why we act like sex is the worst thing you could do to a person. We're all sexual beings, yes it's nice to control those urges, but in the end it's all just because of urges.

[@codejunkes4607]

@Idk Actually here it is about trust which is more important than having sex, it is about breaking the trust.

[@snailcheeseyoutube]

idk idk you clearly don't understand the human mind or relationships

[@MadamFizzgig]

Do yourself a favor, don't stay in a relationship with someone who values you so little that they would cheat on you.

[@Lindathemightywitch]

Or physically or mentally hurts you.

[@باسمباسم-س1د2ث]

MadameFizzgig سكسي

[@rachelfreeman8237]

Cheating makes me sick. I actually become ill when I know/hear about someone cheating. An affair ripped apart my family. It's been two years and I still don't know that I can fully recover.

[@planetjen2054]

This whole video broke my heart the entire time

[@babusinghrawat5924]

planet jen

[@sheep2924]

God I hate people that are cheating

[@uninstalled4621]

Panic! on the toilet I love your name tho xD

[@sheep2924]

Haha thaaanks

[@louisaamabel708]

AND that display picture!!

[@kumieb701]

Panic! on the toilet same

[@haniisse141]

Louisa Amabel skam❤️😫

[@aussiesistersxo]

I can't even understanding cheating.. if you want to be with someone else why don't you just breakup with the person you are with? There is no way you can truely love them, it's just selfish.

[@londonashlee_]

Jemma Grace it's deeper than that

[@its_a_poncho]

It is hard. It gets tough because they will end up heartbroken that way too and still think about "what makes them better than me?".

[@snailcheeseyoutube]

Jemma Grace agreed, but don't forget there's different circumstances, being drunk isn't an excuse but it happens. Not being able to leave the relationship, you can't judge without knowing the full story.

[@dodiebird2902]

London Brooks please explain. if you’re thinking of cheating... isn’t your relationship already over? if you need someone else to fulfill something, maybe the other person isn’t getting what you want/need too and they just haven’t realized? i just wanna know.

[@londonashlee_]

Lilac Riddle more often than not people don’t even think about cheating like a mission sometimes it kind of just happens. People are especially appealing when you have someone that is doing poorly and you have a lack of support from them. I’m not saying cheating is right but there’s always a reason

[@chanelly]

my boyfriend texted me "I love you" when I clicked on this video. what a coincidence.

[@abusementpark926]

chanelly Let the over thinking take over 😂😅 ;-;

[@afnanalnajar9196]

THIS IS A SIGN

[@kaylen1011]

chanelly the overthinking kills lol.

[@chanelly]

OKAY UPDATE: HE WAS "EMOTIONAL" CHEATING ON ME BUT I FOUND OUT, TOLD THE GIRL HE WAS CHEATING ON ME WITH AND WE BOTH DUMPED HIM HAHA.

[@sofiacaju6692]

chanelly Are you okay like how you're feeling? I hope you got the best things in your life and be happy, because thats the only thing that matter.

[@carolynblair7599]

Maybe you should... I don't know, be an honest person and NOT CHEAT?

[@jamilhossain468]

Car Michelle i love u honestly,if u feel me

[@عليعلي-م1ظ2ث]

Car Michelle السلام

[@MrDwayneLITE]

when she said "stay on the couch" lol why not say it the other way "i'll stay on the couch"

[@leamarye923]

Dwayne Campbell yeah

[@styff6082]

But they said that they lived together

[@justinajade1512]

Does your dog consider it cheating if you come home smelling like another dog? 🤔

[@moongawddess8161]

Justina Jade I'm crying 😂😂😂

[@mercedezbooker6766]

One time I came home after holding a stray cat and my dog sniffed me, paused, and gave me a "Who were you with?😑" stare lol

[@livelaughlauren5835]

Justina Jade BOI YES THEY DO

[@jarviser7523]

LETS ALL GET A DOG

[@alexadnan2132]

yup

[@joshsabbagh9271]

I feel so single... but lowkey happy that I can't relate

[@closetshota_fujoshivanilla]

when u love someone, you don't cheat... you don't hurt the one you love... being drunk and one night or "because you were lonely" gives you a pass to cheat with somebody else.... period. btw, when you say you fell inlove with somebody else even though you're with someone does not justify that you cheated on him/her.... if you dont love your partner anymore, break up (hopefully in good terms) then find someone else :)

[@closetshota_fujoshivanilla]

communication is the key :)

[@closetshota_fujoshivanilla]

Michael Taylor nope, no excuse on cheating. they should talk about it before even going to an exclusive relationship.

[@lolgalit]

I know right? Besides - even if you will be able to forgive the relationship probably won't never be the same, since it will be hard to trust that person again, Always the ""What if...",

[@annieedison3289]

Being drunk isn't their fault though. People can't consent with a clear mind while they are drunk.

[@TheLayZTaco]

mckenna slattery but then why doesn't every drunk person just hoe around with whomever they want? A drunk person still has a mindset. A drunk person still intuitively knows their way home (had to walk home blacked out from bars many times). A drunk person that actually loves their partner will not act on lust for another man or woman and cheat. Because if they truly love someone, their intuitive and instinctive action is to think/be drawn to their loved one. Only people that have low morals or are weak and do not truly love their partner will cheat when they are drunk

[@RabidPrimeape]

"it only happened once."

[@voltainc]

Lol my ex said the same,tbh there is no point in trusting a cheater

[@okaygee4132]

As if that makes it better, right?

[@ellaistired3327]

asicsrulon WELL THATS ONE TIME TO MANY.

[@roberttraverso7352]

And will likely happen again. She's still getting texts from the other guy despite saying she stopped all communication with him.

[@ayitzmaisiex7196]

These people should quit buzz feed and be actors because they're AMAZING!!! ♥️♥️😉😉 P.s this is my opinion please no hate on what I've just commented thank you

[@mattfoley1718]

Maisie Sheridan 13:50 they’re good the rest aren’t really

[@lilhappypigeon4103]

Wow Buzzfeed, I'm really impressed! The short film is one of the best I've seen, you should do more of those, even if they tend to take a lot if time. Trust me, this is worth it.

[@HuginMunin]

The woman with the pink hair most likely wrote it, and she's written a few others like this, longer, serious, well written. One about abortion and one about the aftermath of being raped. Look up Ali Vingiano. The black dude Garrick Bernard has a series about a suicidal guy who also has OCD..it sounds weird but it's pretty well done.

[@Cleo593]

Hands down the best video they have uploaded so far .

[@amberroseswinson687]

Katya Finadeeva agree 110% it was very interesting

[@madisonprice5677]

Katya Finadeeva i really enjoyed their mini series on suicide too

[@livelikeyoulovelife1]

Katya Finadeeva ii

[@michaeltaylor9223]

When you don’t take back cheaters and can’t relate

[@na7374]

Michael Taylor yass girl, good for you for not taking bs from him! 🙏💁

[@na7374]

Khalid Monawar lol

[@Leahbabez14]

Khalid Monawar she's a girl and she's straight I'm guessing so she's saying it from her point of view, it doesn't mean it can't go both ways. stop being triggered over nothing.

[@velvetrevolver1081]

Khalid Monawar you mean homophobic..sexist would be making fun of her for being a women.

[@na7374]

im triggereddddddddd! reeeeeeee!

[@TimelessHope]

If you're thinking about cheating, then either you have no self-control or the relationship is already over.

[@alexiscarolinehernandez1521]

TimelessHope I kissed a co worker when I was with my ex.. I truly regretted it.. but I could never tell him.. we were in a really bad place.. I even thought at some point he hated me.. after I cheated I did my best to be the best person and girlfriend I could be to him. He found out anyway and broke up with me.. does that deem me a terrible person? I truly believe I would never let it happen again. I know it wasn’t ok and watching him move on has been the hardest thing for me but I learn to let go and that everything has Consequences

[@kme321]

I think this is one of the best Buzzfeed videos by far.

[@beccadee0935]

In a world full of polyamory, open relationship, sister wives and brother husbands I can't believe cheating is still a thing. I know you can't equate all of them but there's just so many options other than being a selfish liar.

[@ladyredl3210]

I'm poly but I still think you should communicate with partners instead of cheating. If something is wrong, cheating is never the answer, you hurt people that way.

[@caseywong9840]

when ur single and u can't relate.

[@asoiaf__]

Mattshea is BAE I'm 14 so yeah

[@caseywong9840]

Sheldon J. Plankton 14? lol, when I was 14, I watched Harry Potter everyday and I'd show off my new skateboard.

[@chloeselene3593]

Be glad

[@SabrinaDA79]

You're kinda lucky 😏

[@sano1793]

Mattshea is BAE lucky

[@MorganneWomack]

This was uncomfortable to watch, but I think that's the point. Y'all nailed this. Thank you for not glamorizing scenarios like these.

[@emmaholston6104]

Forget dating if this is how it turns out.

[@sumoazztapers8724]

Wow!! This is very powerful. I can't really say that I can relate to some of them. But I can definitely sense the feelings that a lot of them are going through. Very powerful and shows the true feelings of people

[@b.rchodhriechodhrie621]

kaml kisor ji bajn

[@kingsleyemegwa773]

Cameron Taplin f

[@fredcoker8733]

Cameron www.wpdusa.com/products/32147/229532-CV-Joint-Lock-Ring-Front-Genuine-33131214961.aspx?gclid=CjwKCAiAy4bTBRAvEiwAFtatHAMUrxCPIOWETFuu_33OJlaS1QfzxylipD96WqTLFk7_RRZorbObHRoCCwwQAvD_BwE

[@aryathiabhu3875]

B.R chodhrie chodhrie

[@novasnotvibing]

All the geniuses commenting on the obvious moral of these stories. Good job. Couldn't do it without ya. Keep it up.

[@ronniemicstandxo6189]

Who else is single and can't even talk about those things? 😂

[@esvi5600]

Gerard Sass Queen Way me

[@angelinahargate3571]

Gerard Sass Queen Way yup😂same

[@asoiaf__]

Gerard Sass Queen Way I'm 14 and too young to date lol

[@veryconcernedjesus2584]

Gerard Sass Queen Way I give one like :(

[@ronniemicstandxo6189]

Isabella Moncado |-/

[@asmaalhajji6719]

that black girl with small face is so adorable and pretty

[@lucyvis8531]

Sama Huji yeah

[@XO-uu8kc]

Sama Huji small face makes me think of a k-beauty reference

[@salma6011]

Her names Selorm and she's an editor as BuzzFeed. She's in quite a lot of videos.

[@teagiver4725]

Ik

[@kainovember]

Sama Huji YES

[@crazymessywife]

I just got dumped 3 days ago by my boyfriend that cheated on me with my "best friend" so this video came at a really good time to remind me that I'm not alone.

[@tonydavie1769]

Bethany Wright your message touched me, I hope you are happy. You deserve happiness.

[@carlywilliams1624]

"Just stay on the couch" GIRL WHAT, YOU'RE THE ONE WHO CHEATED

[@sofiadorrell99]

His dishonesty broke me. Recovering from this has been the hardest thing I've ever had to do in my life. You can trust someone 1000% and when they turn around and betray you, shatter your trust and self-worth, sometimes all you need to finally move on is to hear them own it, to admit it, finally. I'm still waiting for my moment.

[@sarahscott4021]

Sofia Dorrell me too girl

[@just_julia_things]

I'm so glad I'm single. I have enough drama in my life already.

[@emmylee8862]

Julia Sofia haha same

[@Jasisas]

Julia Sofia A relationship does not always equal drama

[@annak1542]

Jasmine V thank u

[@artsbybware4790]

Same

[@dudemanguy1882]

Julia Sofia I like drama c: Probably because I write stories xD

[@florencel7833]

these people should quit BuzzFeed and become professional actors

[@xriptidez7980]

Florence L they are ok

[@kaitlin1609]

Florence L I agree

[@ElpSmith]

Especially Ally (the one who played Claire) and the guy who played Jeff.

[@miraclewong3967]

Elp Smith well they ARE dating so the chemistry is already there

[@crystaljohnson3841]

Miracle Wong Are they really together?? They are such a cute couple!! My heart broke for them in this video but knowing they are a couple for real makes me super happy!! 💗💗

[@Chuy469]

I hate cheaters

[@arshad4594]

It had 666 likes I'll make that 667, thaank you

[@NakedTrashPanda]

bet u hadn't had girlfriend/boyfriend yet

[@mazamerid8207]

maybe they did and got cheated on?

[@juicebox-]

Jesus Rodriguez I hate cheaters too! Being cheated on is so heart breaking

[@WeAreWraithHD]

Jesus Rodriguez u still with melissa ?

[@hadleycollins475]

This needs to be a series

[@kellie1993]

When someone hurts you this way, it’s just because the universe is trying to force you onto a better path. Never return to a cheater. You got hurt for a reason.

[@maryamfarah7535]

I demand a part 2.

[@nehemiahcamara5529]

Maryam Farah agreed

[@mahmoodmahmood9776]

Maryam Farah WORLD is so scare nowadays

[@Axelvisc]

This is toxic love Edit: Oh my goshhhh!!! The likessss

[@Axelvisc]

Sucks to be you :P

[@arianaespinoza5465]

Lmao your edit 😂 that's cute

[@angelynnmarieify]

ok you're welcome for 1k, 999 gives me anxiety

[@Axelvisc]

I can relate, I kinda have OCD

[@Axelvisc]

I'm confusing when you try to chat with me, I don't have OCD, I'm just a perfectionist.... Some things just give me anxiety when its not in the right place on the right time lmao

[@100akerwoods]

If my husband ever cheated on me and I found out , I don't think I could ever get past it, our relationship would have to come to an end

[@kaitlin1609]

stayoutofroom6277 I think any relationship would any of mine at least

[@TheSeancassady]

It's more challenging when you are married and have kids

[@Kmnz525]

he probably is already

[@lynn3731]

Annony Mouse sure is,I'm going through it now...screwd

[@straieraswift5785]

Girl friend I think your man is cheating😱😱😱

[@martatorrentalegre]

All of these relationships are sooo toxic. It is a well-produced video with great execution, and the message that people aren't perfect. Loved it

[@dabdanambe9225]

When you're in a healthy relationship and don't have to worry about this

[@emeraldjimenez9774]

this happened to me now I feel even more depressed

[@christophercorado4890]

Emerald Jimenez it'll get better with time, just be with your family and friends. They helped me out

[@emeraldjimenez9774]

Christopher Corado thanks 😭

[@verom8657]

Emerald Jimenez Noooo. You're going to be okay, I promise. I know that they might have felt like they were the most amazing person and the one for you, but that will change. I promise you that you're going to meet someone else later in life. It may not happen soon, it may take years, but I can promise you that it will happen.

[@emeraldjimenez9774]

TXGA VM thanks I really needed to hear that

[@monineath6737]

I've been there. it does get better. just stay strong :)

[@savannahm.4787]

Watching this made me extremely grateful that me and my bf have trust & respect in our relationship 😅

[@Hotcinnamon1112]

Savannah S holy crap you're beautiful

[@savannahm.4787]

Jordynelly you are so sweet oh my gosh that made my night 😭💕 thank you

[@mr.getback184]

Savannah S or is it

[@hibae5126]

you'll never know when is it going to rain

[@jojozoz6194]

3Savannah S

[@besassyxo]

this was incredible...the scene transitions, the lighting, the storylines, the acting.....perfection. bravo, buzzfeeed. bravo.

[@papiiisher3471]

Have you ever broke up because someone cheated but regretted because you miss them and then they end up getting together with someone else and you feel jealous and angry

[@akashsuryawanshi6267]

ᅵPapiiisher3유미 I moved on and I have a life, unlike her. Jealousy ? Just don't give them attention

[@Emadavid]

So you mean to tell me this doesn't have a series? Nor a part 2? Wow. The disappointment.

[@amiirjimcale3575]

emadavidc xxxy

[@amiirjimcale3575]

,

[@marycupcakeunicorn7774]

I don't break up. Because I do not start up. #foreveralone

[@Happy81555]

Being single is better than being in a bad relationship.

[@searchingtrueloveneedtruly4611]

I don't think so

[@ec_xml4648]

I’m better off alone 💔

[@SplashAttackTCG]

This is so simple: Did you cheat? Yes. *Bye.* There is nothing and I MEAN *NOTHING* to talk about. If someone cheats on you, never bat another eyelash or waste a pinch of breath on them. *Have respect for yourself. Love yourself.*

[@artemishan1183]

Agreed!!

[@annak1542]

Splash Attack It's probably very difficult to do that but that's the right thing. I agree.

[@rosemenecharmelus133]

Splash Attack its really hard though...

[@icywater5733]

Splash Attack it's hard

[@SplashAttackTCG]

Hey everyone, fun fact: I have an Apple watch that notifies me whenever someone comments and given the thumbnail of this video, whenever I am notified, the thumbnail pops up on my watch. I was on the train and this happened and the lady next to me look at my watch and made a face. I guess it looked like I have porn on my watch. *A scene of "Blacked"*

[@clarabelle117]

this is crazy because I'm watching this the morning after finding the guy I was talking to at a party drunk on a bed with some other girl

[@cherry_swirl]

Clara Firtos I'm so sorry

[@lizziie4841]

U ok?

[@Chuy469]

You were just talking to him. Nothing else.

[@ironmanDX]

Lol... Not sure if serious.

[@clarabelle117]

oh no, I am serious. It's weird because, I legit walked in on them and I wasn't expecting it? It's also weird because it all happened so fast and I feel like it was a cringey movie seen. Him and I were just talking. But it got to the point where his mom would text me to invite me for dinner or family barbecues. If that sets a perspective on how close we were to becoming a thing. I knew he was holding back a lot, just never thought he would get drunk and hookup. Never thought I would catch a guy period. It's still crazy for me to grasp. What's crazy tho is that I ran out and he ran after me and he even said "Please stay and let's talk, I love you." He was saying anything at that point though to make me not upset. lol yeah, I ran away after that. Even his mom is really upset with him hahah, it's a "you did this to good girl and you fucked it up" situation. our mutual friends are upset with him too. I don't really know what to think? i'm still a bit weirded out or shocked that this even happened to me. never thought it would.

[@Tazzizilla]

Honestly when someone cheats on me and tries to explain why I want to laugh, leave and say I'm not your therapist and I cannot support you through this.

[@rowangoodmann3069]

Amen 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@elbork1]

the awkward moment when you watch this video while you're forever single.

[@gigi9062]

For all y'all cheating or thinking about cheating, it's not worth it, love, respect and care for what you've got in front of you NOW, if you don't feel like it, then leave. But you cannot go around breaking people's hearts like this. Karma will eventually catch up, and trust me, it won't be pretty.

[@noodledoodle4134]

yup yup yup

[@darktrainerz6707]

I'm not crying, you are

[@sappyk.d.c3188]

Dark Trainer Z I'm not crying. I'm not sensitive.

[@jasmineettershank5127]

Dark Trainer Z not its the onion chopping ninjas

[@athenamuriel6334]

Dark Trainer Z I'm cutting... a cucumber? I MEAN AN ONION!

[@madisonc2625]

This is the best buzzfeed production video I have seen... honestly

[@jamilhossain468]

Madison C i love u

[@djtjrahejk9102]

Madison C

[@TinaAthena120]

I relate hard when he’s in bed thinking of the happy memories and seeing his ex as his date not listening to what the girls saying & then going back

[@addymullenax7790]

That one guy I felt soo bad for😭

[@genesisc3744]

It's not just cheating that makes a relationship disloyal...there's many other things.

[@foxboy212]

Care to share?

[@lilPrincess-eb8ep]

Pls duu

[@iamabanana2408]

Lying, dishonesty many other things ..I agree with u

[@Shay45]

Passive Aggressiveness

[@Charlie-wm3io]

Genesis Compres Amen!! trust is broken. smh cheaters !

[@sophie228]

Why do they always take the same girl for all the broken relationship videos!? She's probably depressed by now

[@nera9178]

unicorn sparkle the videos might be produced by her, i think.

[@raynestaehler4503]

^claire

[@briettacoen]

Rayne Dillon ally

[@naomiazul.]

unicorn sparkle yeah. it's unfair

[@hannahrm1501]

maybe bc shes the only one willing to act

[@nicolecooke3221]

These kind of videos make me so disappointed in life😂

[@xx.kelseyxx5007]

Same 😂

[@saulolivas8426]

+Xx. kelsey xX xx xx

[@steadyboost7]

I need to know what happened to everyone, especially Jeff and Claire.

[@AlexGrtner]

Jeff needs a leading role in a TV show... Hit up netflix son

[@fedoratheexplorer2038]

this is quite depressing 2 watch in a good way...hope that makes sense

[@carter3774]

Lala Lola it kinda makes sense... never thought of that this way

[@marycupcakeunicorn7774]

Lala Lola It doesn't. ;)

[@reneelinde9521]

Pixie Dust Ii

[@cassiekeown4467]

I got a bunny

[@caseywong9840]

Cassie Keown k? no one cares.

[@ameliakreiensieck7983]

Cassie Keown Is it a cute bunny? :)

[@asoiaf__]

Cassie Keown and I got ice cream

[@v_khai]

Ignore Mattshea is BAE because we care! 🙌 Is it cute? :))

[@lizziie4841]

What's it's name?

[@Jenrasp]

No matter what you are feeling in the moment, there is NEVER any reason or excuse that's worthy enough to be a valid excuse to cheat, either physically or emotionally. If you're not happy leave! Stop the hurt circle guys 🤦‍♀️

[@snailcheeseyoutube]

Jenjen actually arranged marriage or not being able to get out of the relationship e.g. Abuse. THEY are VALID reasons to cheat, either emotionally or physically

[@viv9r727]

"I love you, she/he means nothing to me." Then why did you do it?

[@boybyeplease]

A lot of them took responsibility which is the mature thing to do.

[@chocolate4376]

Not cheating in the first place is the mature thing to do