Using Small Stamps in Your Scenes: Feeling Overwhelmed? You aren't alone

In today's video we are going to use smaller stamps to transform an older stamp set into a Christmas scene featuring products from Honey Bee Stamps
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[@susiesonnier9102]

Believe me Kelly....you have it together! Thank you for sharing, we ALL have those moments.

[@dawnjames151]

Ooohhh Kelly!!! I TOTALLY feel your "peopled OUT" pain! As you know I'm a hairstylist, and this season was 3 1/2 weeks from Thanksgiving to Christmas...!! That said, seeing 82 clients a week, with expectations of being PERFECTLY on time, wanting services they didn't schedule, and then wanting me to be "happy holidayish"!! So I made Scott hear you in this video, JUST so he gets another perspective! Thanks for voicing how hard it can be to be overly "peopley" this time of year!

[@countrymouse47]

Mental and physical exhaustion are the nemesis of women, no question about it. So many roles to fill, so many constant responsibilities.....and that doesn’t even count the demands of the holidays on top of everything else. There is a false expectation in our society that everything we do must be perfect, and we unconsciously buy into it. Be kind to yourself. Make a “just for me date” as soon as you can - go get a massage, a manicure.....take a bubble bath with lots of scented candles around the bathroom. One hour just for you can make all the difference in your week. There is nothing that can’t wait one hour, with a little creative planning. You’re amazing, Kelly. I have so much respect for you and all the responsibilities you carry every day. You’re doubly blessed with such a wonderful support network - schedule that bubble bath right now! Your sweetie can fill the gap in your brief absence and you will feel like a million bucks afterward. You are a “giver”, and givers often pour themselves out until they have nothing left for themselves. It’s ok to save something back for you. ;-)

[@Bethyj2u]

Watching you create is so soothing for me. 25 years ago, I had what is now called a panic attack while shopping with my mother. I am not good in crowds, but that day was just awful. Fast forward 20 years. I was able to recognize when I have had my limit with people, problems or demands/requests. This year has been awful for me. My panic attacks have been slipping in quite a bit. I am definitely at my people limit. I’m not doing anything for anyone else either. Time to take care of me. Love you and your stories.

[@cindyroman-daversa9194]

Honestly, I was listening to you more than I was paying attention to the card. What you said is SOOOOOOOOO IMPORTANT. And I’m done with saying we need to give ourselves permission. NO. We need to start respecting ourselves, our minds, our spirits, our time. We are equally important. So Ladies, start saying no. Create healthy boundaries. Self love. When you’re happy, everyone else is too. Merry Christmas Kelly, Peanut, Eric and all of your families! Merry Christmas to all of your friends, here, and everywhere. May 2020 bring joy to ALL♥️♥️♥️

[@barbborja1910]

Hugs to you! You are definitely not alone. I suffer from chronic pain from an injury 7 years ago, much of the time the pain is severe. When my wonderful hubby has caught me sobbing in the shower, I’ve told him that I’m ‘having a pity party for one’ and just need to get it out. lol. I have also told him several times that he “can’t be nice to me right now”, because his compassion just makes me cry harder and then I start talking in that high pitched tone that only dogs can understand. After 28 years, he still can’t help being compassionate and trying to “fix” what ever is upsetting me. Though I’m definitely not complaining!

[@mayloo2137]

You are a real credit to your community. I admire you for all the volunteer work you do. I'm almost 60, and I am more the beneficiary of volunteer work than the one doing the volunteering, so I appreciate your efforts to help your community.Edit We females are expected to do everything. Nothing more than that. I'm lucky to live in a large Canadian city where there are local organizations to help people in need.

[@Kbaker2964]

I am soooooo grateful for people like you who are willing to let others know its ok not to be ok sometimes. I completely understand the anxiety, people quota and the need to let it all out both personally and as a clinician. I wish more of us would let this be more normalized so people don't feel the need to hide the struggle

[@kathycreswell4322]

After experiencing several life threatening illnesses in the last few years, I have realized I don't have to be so strong all the time..people who love me don't mind sharing my load. It is difficult to not get overwhelmed by life and our expectations. Your honesty and willingness to share your life helps others so much..although your talent can be cause for envy.😂 After a particularly difficult time,, the Lord led me back to the story of David and Goliath. For me my health was my Goliath. God helped David slay his giant and He would help me slay mine. I hope you and your family have a very Merry Christmas...

[@cherylthompson9470]

Moving and the holidays are both a major depression trigger, so having both it is no surprise you are overwhelmed. Sounds like you are handling it well, and glad you have a great support system. Loved how you fixed your boo-boo, and thanks for being so real.

[@scrapgirl6]

Kelly, you are amazing! Be gentle with yourself. If you need to rest do it. I’ve been there many times and as I get older I know when I need to rest. My body, mind and soul tells me so. Hang in there. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@cheriemccarron6577]

I am a professional gift wrapper- I can tell you that I don’t have it all together. I have wrapped all of the gifts my customers have brought to me, but not one for my own family or friends, nor have I come close to completing my own shopping or decorating, but...hey, the tree is up. To top it off, my husband had a heart attack and almost died last month and our lives have done a complete 180. You’re not alone. Give it to God and know that you are enough. Amen.

[@urbangardenproject]

I've definitely been feeling the holiday blues. I found myself weeping several times this week about sentimental things. This is truly the season to be overwhelmed. Sending you internet hugs.

[@denabaker96]

I know this was three years ago however I am just so moved by your sharing of "overwhelmedness". This is so prevalent but not talked about enough and I thank you for sharing with us as it touches me and I know many more ❤❤❤

[@flourishxkate2786]

Dear God, I cried. Thank you for sharing your personal struggles when you can and for inspiring me even when you aren't trying to. You are an amazing woman with a message that shines through the darkness. Thank you. I don't have support but I try my best. Also, I like your card

[@kays-gee9018]

I don't mind the length of the video, I spend my lunch break with you 😃💜 thanks for sharing the struggle, I am right there with you, Sister

[@brendadonabedian6324]

You are not alone...we as women put very unrealistic expectations on ourselves and on each other. We are not super humans and can’t be all for everybody! Thanks for being so honest. Just breathe and sing “let it go, let it go” by Frozen. It gets me through a lot! Virtual hug to you and prayers for life to slow down so you can enjoy what really matters this season, Christ’s bday🙏❤️🌲

[@leenewton5872]

I do Beatles: let it be, let it be, whispered words of wisdom, let it be.....

[@stefperry4142]

I love your one layer cards, your eye for detail is so inspiring, as is your coloring! My whole life, when I've felt overwhelmed, I too had the big cry behind the bathroom door, mostly because I didn't want anyone to think I was feeling sorry for myself. Rather, I didn't know any other way to release that internal swirl of emotions. You've had soooooo much going on, no wonder you hit your limit and had to let all that go! Sending internet hugs your way Kelly! 💓

[@pattyeifert4355]

OMG girl!! Of course you are stressed out and overwhelmed! The holidays are stressful enough without throwing in buying a house and moving LOL!! I just turned 63 this past Saturday and I get worn out just listening to everything you are doing !! I have two daughters who have that same kind of crazy schedule and I worry about their well being all the time! Just promise that you will take some time for yourself once you power through the holidays!

[@jeannenemmyers6580]

Boy, do I get it. Retired, disabled nurse of over 40 years in healthcare. Now I can't do what I was always able to do. Talk about feeling inadequate! Moved away from realistic expectations, from Georgia, where family lives, to Hawaii. Now the only people that expect anything from me is my husband of 47 years. The stress is mostly gone. BTW, just found you, 1st video, but won't be the last. Love your talent, love your heart, and love that you are honest and help others to cope and be healthy. I've gone from suicidal to pretty content, just by moving and getting away from those unrealistic expectations of others. Yep, you got it together! God is your answer. Many blessings to you and your loved ones. Have a fabulous Christmas season and remember the real reason we celebrate. 🙏👼

[@lisabyers6417]

You are not alone. I am 61 and have shed thousands of tears because I think I can't handle it all. I have a Maine Coon kitty that is 16 that has been cried on so many times that I'm surprised he doesn't shed salt from my tears. My confidante is my youngest son who is 34, and the best listener. We have been close since the day he was born. Between him and my kitty, I stay sane. I feel for you Sweetie. You have so much on your plate, saying no is not a bad thing. Merry Christmas to you and your family. ❤️❤️❤️

[@Charliemmh921]

Great card Kelly. I came to the conclusion last week that what gets done is it. It’s not worth the struggle to get so overwhelmed. But that is my choice. I hope you are feeling better and enjoy the holidays with your family and friends. Best wishes for a wonderful Christmas and a prosperous new year.

[@pfengwa44]

Hi, Kelly. My name is Polly. Thank you so much for sharing your hardships and feelings with this community. That's really what we are, community. Whether online or in person, we care about you and each other. I am living with terminal cancer. I see myself decline more and more. I live with constant pain because my entire spine from the pelvis to head is involved. Often it feels like I am at my cancer hospital having Dr. appointments and chemo more than I am at home. I completely understand feeling overwhelmed. The feeling is never far away for me. I too have an amazing, supportive family and a housemate who takes care of the cats and housekeeping things. Sometimes I just want to not go to the hospital, not be around anyone, just be quiet and alone for a while. But when that happens, I realize just how much I depend on others. I have been a clinician my whole working life and I miss that more than you can imagine. Now I have to accept care from others which is so backward for me. Please understand, I am not complaining. I have had a wonderful life with a wonderful family. I'm just trying to say that I do understand feeling at your wit's end. One of the things I really enjoy about your videos is listening to your updates. I feel connected to you without having to be in the room with you. If that makes sense. You do an amazing number of things for your family and community. Your desire to help people is incredible. But helpers need self-care more than anyone, I think. Thank you again, for being real, genuine, down to earth, and involved. God bless you and all whom you love and who love you.

[@occonnaking9454]

Kelly you amaze me with all you do. You are so talented and giving. Don’t know how you work, volunteer, and make all these beautiful cards for our enjoyment. Be kind to yourself, ease off a bit and take care of yourself. We love your art and your story time. Merry Christmas.

[@sherrywoods4630]

Love the card. I made a similarly complex one layer card and had one stamping boo-boo. I channeled my inner Kelly and said, “I’m not starting over!” Maybe next year, when face painting time comes around - perhaps put out the word to the crafty community and someone will raise a hand to help? Finally, you are amazing, you will be OK and it’s OK to say “no”.

[@Wendyrocler]

I always look forward to your creative projects and down to earth, keeping it real, non sugar coated stories of your life. Like everyone else, I can relate to feeling completely overwhelmed during stressful holidays, when I was a young working mother. I remember telling a girlfriend once, “If I was a celebrity, I would be hospitalized to deal with my complete exhaustion and mental stress!” Now that my kids are grown and I am retired, I have more time to prepare for big events like Christmas but this year my hubby and I are dealing with the aftermath of a car accident and having to scrounge up the money for a new vehicle, added to the usual shopping, decorating and grocery shopping for our family dinner. The main blessing is that no one was injured in the accident. This makes things easier to face. I hope you get some down time soon and can enjoy your holiday with your super support system.

[@henriette9969]

Thank you so much Kelly for your real life stories, I think every woman, young, older, working, stay at home, can find themselves in your stories. That makes your stories so loved by us all. Your card is stunning, I love all the little things on it. Thank you for showing, have a wonderful Chirstmas and take some time for yourself, bigh hugs!

[@kellihull7600]

I love how open you are! Story time is like a phone call (back when we liked them) just to check in! I highly recommend a shower! Red eyes are disguised by shampoo in the eye 🙃 Blessings to you and yours and to all of our story time friends! ❤️

[@terriconrad4612]

First of all.... a purely magical card! Frame worthy for sure. Secondly, your honest is always refreshing. You just “put it out there”. And I know, without a doubt, you encourage so many women out there who are trying to “be all and do all”.... especially now. Breakdowns are ok. It’s ok to let it out. Moving is exhausting... but pair it with holidays....it’s downright top level stress. You just try to make sure you take your best care of you in the midst of it all. That’s not easy either. I know. But know that you are doing so great....and after all this craziness... you can step back....and say...” Well now! Well done! I did it”! Then go take a long winters nap! Blessings to you all! And a very very Merry Christmas! 🎄 💕🙋‍♀️💝

[@bonniebauer8704]

Kelly I love your cards !!! But I think sometimes I love your story times even more!!! It makes me feel so good to know that there are other women who struggle with trying to do it all perfect and just feeling like it's your failing at it all....thanks for keeping it real. Merry Christmas to you and all your family!!

[@DebadooCreates]

Believe me when I tell you I totally understand functioning on autopilot. I started to share my story but then erased it. Suffice it to say that with enough weight and no support, even the strongest branch can break. I really loved what you said about helping in any way you can if you know someone who's doing it completely alone. I'm so grateful that you had your family, and now you have a wonderful man and Eric to help carry the load. I haven't had time to watch your last 3 videos, but today when I got the notice of the engagement "yay" I had to watch it first of course and then come back and watch the other two. So very happy for all of you!! And I absolutely love that card

[@jacsan2756]

Thank you Kelly. Your honesty is greatly appreciated. Your timing couldn’t of been better.

[@kathryneddy5172]

Beautiful card! You got this, girl. It's totally okay to take a few for YOU--whether it's a short cry, a quiet moment, a laugh/cry session (that has happened to me. I don't know about you, but it's when I'm such an emotional wreck that I can't decide whether to laugh or cry so out comes both. Believe me when I say it's a beautiful thing--NOT!) Love your genuineness (is that even a word?)!!

[@marilynpatrick9906]

Kelly, beautiful card! I think you definitely got your groove back! Thank you for keeping it so real. Watching your videos is like spending time with a friend. Merry Christmas to you and your family! God bless!

[@wendyodell356]

Beautiful one layer. Your one layer scene cards are always so well put together and just immaculate. Okay, so I cried when you brought up crying being okay and telling us that about your people/stuff limit. And I am balancing Christmas and the 1st year of losing my Mom just 2 months ago. I think there will be a lot of tears this year. Thank you for always caring and sharing. You are a super star! If Mom of the year isn't taken, you should receive the honor this year 🥰 YOU INSPIRE ME 💖💖💖😘 God bless you and all of your family this holiday season ❤ XOXO

[@KellyTaylorCards]

I'm so sorry about your Momma. I can't imagine how difficult this season must be. Sending you hugs and prayers.

[@dotydiva]

Beautiful card. I love watching you do one layer. Awesome colors and scene. I am so sorry you're spent and I hope you get some time off and can sit back and relax and enjoy the new house and your family.. I pray for you and give you cyber hugs. Yes we all have our stress / anxiety. It's hard and even in my 70's I find it hard to control.

[@meganharp2422]

Amazing card! I’m so happy to hear you keeping it real! It’s easy to get caught up into everyone else’s perfection! I refuse! Thanks for sharing, everything!!!!

[@peggyfullbright5709]

OMG Kelly! I so appreciate you being a “real” woman ... and sharing your feelings ... my husband and I discussed this just a week ago! It’s something that he has noticed every year and this year, when creating our Christmas cards, asked “is there anything I can help you with?” I was crying listening to you and talk about your wonderful support group ... ‘cause we (as women) understand each other ... but when my hubby asked, I felt the weight fall off! Did he put the Stampin’ Up! Dimensionals where I would? No ... but he DID put them on! It’s OKAY to ask for help ... we don’t HAVE to be Superwoman. Thank you again for sharing story-time and your feelings! I hope you, Eric, and Peanut have a wonderful and memorable holiday season. HUGS!

[@Guevarak]

I love story time. You and Eric make such a great team. He sounds like a great guy and I’m glad he’s there for you. I’m so happy for your family. Sending hugs!

[@patcox8745]

Bless you, Kelly. As usual, you are helping so many people by sharing. You are so correct that we women put all theses expectations on ourselves. I, too am an extrovert who can only be with people for so long. I guess we expend our energy at maximum, for only short bursts , and then need to recharge. No one can understand that because we are “extroverts”. Your son is not going to remember if you didn’t get something done, but he will remember if mommy was not herself. I agree with “give it to God”. He will give you rest. You are great role model, dear. I pray that the rest of your holidays are lovely and peaceful. Take care, 💕✝️💕🙏🙏❤️

[@jessicasquirrel]

Beautiful card. I love turning non holiday stamp sets into holiday cards. I'm an introvert and I find being around people (too much) draining. I usually require a nap afterwards. I hope you get a good break soon and can recharge. Just keep reminding yourself that everything is temporary! You'll get through this. I'm glad you have a great support system.

[@wendy8184]

I’ve always been envious of your energy Kelly, but thanks for keeping it real. I can totally relate but for different reasons, I have fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue, if I do too much i end up unable to do anything. I believe Tears are very healing , and what can’t be said will be wept. God made us made this way. Sending you much love and prayers xx

[@katecurrie7499]

Oh Kelly, thank you for opening up about your overwhelmed feelings, and you are certainly not alone. Remember you've just moved home,up there with divorce and bereavement, so cut yourself some slack and be gentle with yourself. You're quite right, we do put high expectations on ourselves, but hopefully when you're my age....66, you'll realise that you can only do what you can do. Im amazed at all you do, between working, homelife and volunteering, juggling all those plates in the air is fantastic. I'm glad you have a good old cry, best remedy there is. Now your card is stunning, love watching you colour and you use brilliant techniques, wish I could colour even a fraction like you. Take care of yourself xx

[@marilyncruz7679]

Thank you Kelly. For being real, there is lots of emotions due to several reasons for many people. And you being able to express yourself with love and letting others know that it's ok, can really save someone. Hope your Christmas is wonderful and blessed.

[@teresadoyle1396]

This is a beautiful card Kelly, great colouring. I am not even done my shopping yet and my tree is only half trimmed. After hitting “my wall” 3 weeks ago I had to give it to God and roll with it because I was feeling so over whelmed that I couldn’t do ANYTHING! Now I am taking it one day at a time and what gets done, gets done and I am determined to relax and enjoy my loved ones. We (as women) put way too much pressure on ourselves. Today is our 2 grandsons Christmas concert and we are looking forward to being there and spending time with them. THAT is what Christmas is about, spending time with the ones we love! Relax and enjoy YOURS! Merry Christmas Kelly.🌲

[@TheGoddessIsa]

We ALL feel that way! I was up all night before Christmas Eve doing stuff so I 100% was overwhelmed!!! Thanks for sharing your story and your amazing card!

[@shirleysickinger200]

Catching up on some of your older videos, this is one of my favorites to date, not just because I love the card, but because of your story and tell us is ok to not be ok but have a cry give to God and don't unpack, move on, don't stay there. This NEO old lady likes you more and more the more I watch ya! Thank you!

[@KellyTaylorCards]

Thank you!

[@christinesheppard5759]

Kelly, I hope you can feel all the love coming from the thousands of us who think you’re amazing. You are like family to us. I know you cry and give it to God but you also give it to us so that we can love and support you back. I’m 66 and just learning to say ‘no’ and take some pressure off. We actually ordered Chinese for Thanksgiving dinner and my kids were so impressed, not only that I took pressure off myself but they got to spend more quality time with me because I wasn’t running around like a maniac. I never thought of it that way. One more thing I’ve learned and try very hard to stick to is that when I say ‘no’, I don’t have to give a reason. I always felt like I should make up a good excuse but not anymore. Your card is beautiful, lots of good ideas for using stamps in a different way. I learn from you every time. Love and hugs to you and your family and Merry Christmas xo

[@rebeccanieves-pagan86]

This card was magical. So very beautiful watching it come together. I am with you feeling super overwhelmed and not enough. Been feeling that way more often lately. God bless you for hanging in there and for moving forward. And for sharing with us. Have a blessed Christmas!

[@SunnysEyes]

I'm loner introvert married to a people person, so i also meet my people limit. Rather quickly. I just got back from a solo vacation at my parents cabin. My hubby misses me but when i come back refreshed and happy and people-friendly he's much happier too! I know not everyone can drop everything to get away for a few days. If you folks out there are overwhelmed, try taking at least a couple hours behind closed doors to recharge. Your people will probably thank you too!

[@KraftyKattCreates]

SunnysEyes my husband want to be with me. He says he misses me even when I see him everyday. It doesn’t make sense to me. But he grew up in a home with 5 kids. I grew up basically alone. I am use to being alone where as he is not. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@SunnysEyes]

@@KraftyKattCreates I hear you. I think it is really difficult for people who are social to understand a that some people need solitude occasionally to survive. A lot of people think that everyone should be social and that those of us that need alone time are anti-social. We are just less social. Coming from a family one or no siblings is vastly different than a large family. I think we also learn to entertain ourselves more easily and are used to much more quiet time. I hope you are able to get your quiet time so you can recharge. I've been married thirty years and we both still don't get how the other really feels but we have reached a compromise that suits us. Glad you replied! Have a lovely day! Sunny

[@KraftyKattCreates]

SunnysEyes oh yes it is very different. I am only in the last 10 years having to be “social” with large amounts of people. Last year we went to Disneyland with a total of 18 family members. It was horrible. I was drained and hurt emotionally after. I can “force” social on myself in some ways but I need “me” time too. He has gotten better and we have found compromises along the way. I have a large craftroom and I made him a tv corner so he can watch TV or play a Video game. Then he feels with me and I have time to unwind creatively. I also do girls scrapbook retreats with ladies who are similar to me. Most are older but we have a good time and give one another space too.

[@SunnysEyes]

@@KraftyKattCreates so glad you have found a good balance and people who can understand you!

[@debbie1841]

You are definitely NOT alone. Thank you for your openness. And thanks for the reminder to Give It To God, do you and pick up and move on. Happy holidays to you and your family.

[@alisonpendlebury-brown7885]

Wonderful card! It's so therapeutic watching you colour. What a lovely generous woman you are. I remember having a similar conversation with my female doctor a while back about the pressures and expectations women have both put on themselves and to an extent are put on us. Thanks for sharing and letting us know that there are others who feel the same way.

[@junebovenzi]

Thank you for very eloquently saying what many women can’t express regarding anxiety and feeling overwhelmed. Twenty-two years ago we moved from Texas to California in the middle of December. My kids were 8 and 3, overwhelmed doesn’t begin to describe how I felt. I completely understand how you are feeling right now. There are times I will tell my husband that I am “done peopling” and I just need to go in my craft room and be alone (with my dogs, of course).

[@MariaNyceDesigns]

Two words...THANK YOU!!! I speak for myself here, when I say, I’m the only elf & I have no shelf to rest upon emotionally, except for giving everything I’m concerned about or feeling burdened with to God, and yes, usually when I’m alone in the shower praying through the tears. So, once again, Kelly, THANK YOU, so grateful for these wonderful discussions. AMEN SISTER!!! Oh & you’re the queen of the one layer card!!! This is an AMAZING card!!!

[@denisec1861]

Kelly, You are wise beyond your years. Loved the card but loved your message more. Thanks for the card and the inspirational words!

[@78Kimberli]

Kelly, you are such an amazing artist and woman who I think we all look up to. Thank you for always keeping it real and continually inspiring me. Sending big hugs your way.

[@TheresaPetermann]

I still am amazed at how your cards come to life. So glad you have this creative outlet to balance out the "productive" side of your life. Merry, Merry Christmas to you, Eric and Nathan. thanks as always for sharing.

[@JMicheleS33]

Beautiful card Kelly, you have unbelievable artistic talents! And I totally get where you’re coming from, it’s called “unrealistic expectations guilt”, but please don’t beat yourself up over it, it’s not worth it, trust me. And trust me when I say this, you NEED to take a step back, everything’s going to be okay and it’ll all fall into place, life’s way too short to be unhappy and feeling so overwhelmed. How I wish I could turn back time and enjoy the season instead of thinking I was “superwoman” and could conquer the world, my children and I missed out on so many chances to create even more wonderful memories... I really was the loser and regret it, still to this day. Give yourself permission to “be human” and present in the moment, Nathan, Eric and your families need you, but they need you healthy and happy, not crying on the floor of the bathroom and hiding it (trust me, children can sense what’s going on, they’re smarter than we give them credit for)! You DESERVE to enjoy yourself, just like everyone else is. Btw I have a shirt that says “NOPE, I’ve met my people quota for the day (though day has a line through it and is replaced with week)! Sounds like you need one, too! You’ve got this, I believe in you! ❤️

[@michelegourd5742]

Love your card!! Life can be overwhelming at times. I do the same thing as I go to the bathroom and cry and then get myself together again. Hang in there! Always remember to give it to God!!

[@pamlitzinger1555]

Your card is gorgeous, I love the sweet layout. mainly because I love “ sweets” ! Thank you for story time I totally understand what you are experiencing I can so relate. I try so hard to please the family and my health age and ability get in the way and I don’t get help or support . You are an amazing lady with all you do for your family work and community! You are a true blessing and I’m thankful for being able to watch your talent and learn from you through story time. Thank you 🙏

[@patriciamiller1916]

Amazing work! Your life mirrors many women’s lives..difference is they take the cry to a negative place and you take it to a much higher place making it a positive element in a day, week, month. My age speaks for those that have yet to find that wonderful balance in family and the support system available if one would tap into it. Never be ashamed to talk these things out..God helps keep that balance...you are wonderful and thank you for the coloring insights and those extra important words of wisdom. Merry Christmas...we are a officer family also....so God Bless those that risk it all for us to be safe.

[@heatherhughes2955]

🤗 I’m not alone and have great support just like you!🙏🏼

[@marysharvey]

I am so glad I found your blog. I love your creativity, and I really love listening to you; you are a breath of fresh air. Thank you for your service to the community you serve.

[@paperandme1149]

Thank you for sharing your time making such beautiful cards and your raw honesty. You keep it very real!

[@alora1027]

Life can be pretty poopy sometimes and a good cry will help wash the smell out of your life. Been there and I'm glad that you know you can give to the Lord and let him carry it for you. Another great card and have a Merry Christmas!

[@KraftyKattCreates]

Your honesty and real life shares are one reason I 🥰 watching your channel. Not only are you a talented woman you are a great friend and person. I imagine us as friends even if you don’t know 99% of us that watch your videos. Thanksgiving is not really stressful for me but Christmas is. My in laws expect that every member gets a gift and it’s generally more than $25. I spent $150 on shipping alone. After 3 months of being completely unemployed with no savings to fall back on I for sure did not feel it was “fair” to expect this of us. But my husband refuses to stand up for this point of view. This year I had a full on tissy fit and hid in my closet crying for a good 20 mins because Thanksgiving plans were a mess. All the expectations and feelings mounting on this one day was too much. - again thank you for being honest and real! You are not alone either. I have RBF sometimes, but mostly it’s just my face shows my emotions. I’m more introverted but also have a quota of interaction I can handle for a period as well.

[@creatingincolors333]

This is a great step-by-step video. I love the scene you created on this card, and how you colored it. It does seem that being overwhelmed is much more prevalent these days, so supporting each other is important. I have to say, though, it’s the first time I’ve heard of someone else having a “people quota”. What you described is real.

[@NorseButterfly]

As a person with multiple chronic illnesses, I understand the importance of not wanting to feel like a burden. I also struggle with anxiety. I no longer grocery shop in store due to health related anxiety attacks, and the noise of alllll the people. It's great that you have a support system and an understanding man💜. My mom was very supportive once she finally understood my illness, then she had a bad fall this summer, shattering her wrist and hitting her head. Her wrist is healing thanks to a fantastic surgeon, but her brain isn't coming back. This was her 3rd bad concussion, and at the age of 74, I don't think the brain heals itself anymore. I told her occupational therapist that it's like living with someone who has dementia.

[@kareneaton433]

Thank you for sharing how so many of us feel over the holidays. One of the best Christmas memories I have is the year our tree literally only had bottom half up (because I decided to redo all the lights on a huge artificial tree). We left it like that after I had my ugly cry and had a great, less stressful Christmas.

[@alexandriadesrameaux7208]

I love the card. I love listening to story time. Thank you for this story time because I am feeling the same way with my divorce and all my health issues. Thank you sooo much.

[@beckyreeder993]

I totally understand overload and I cry in the shower. As always your card is fabulous and I hope you get some "me" time!

[@anne-mareesleigh8667]

Thank you for this video - the techniques of course are wonderful (I've learned so much from watching you colour) but also your comments about anxiety and pressure are spot on. We need to let ourselves cry, and ask for help, and also we need to be proud of our achievements and not down play them. We have to put so much work into 'doing it all' and then we're expected to say 'oh this? it's nothing, you would do so much better'? That's bonkers! At the beginning of this year I spent two weeks in a mental health facility because of ongoing issues with depression and anxiety. I've been dealing with them all my life, but those two weeks did so much good for me. It taught me just how important it is to take time for yourself and listen to what your body is telling you. Rest, relax, take it easy at times and realise that the world will not end (and your children's lives won't be destroyed) if things aren't perfect. But also, if you mess up, just dust yourself off and try again. Was it Edison who said that he hadn't failed 99 times, he'd just found 99 ways something didn't work? Anyway, best of luck with everything, and I'm so glad that you were able to talk about things with Eric, and it's lovely that he gives you the support you need. Oh, and head scratches for Molly knowing you needed puppy snuggles!

[@martharoberts2167]

Your card is unbelievably amazing! You are such an artist! Thank you for sharing your feelings. Just reading the comments you can be proud of yourself by how much your KZbin family appreciates you and how much respect we have for you. Merry Christmas!

[@tootalltree2002]

WOW. Lots of HUGS your way. We know you are an amazing person. So glad your moved ..... who cares how long it takes to unpack you will get it dine soon enough. Love your honesty and P. S. You need more sleep and then things would be more conquerable!

[@tracykiske7758]

gorgeous card as always. right there with you on the alone cries. have a great christmas and take a little self time. you deserve it.

[@ssmith955]

What usually works for me when I feel like I should be doing more, is to listen to other people who can’t believe all the things I pack into a day (and my sons are grown). So, it makes me feel like “Wonder Woman” OR guiltily I feel like they (ie other people) could be doing more. Thanks for sharing - your struggles are real. I also think that people that are Fire/EMS/Police tend to do the “Volunteer Thing” more than the general public. Have a Merry Christmas and recall the joy your son brings to the Holidays.....

[@leenewton5872]

Love your card. [Hang in there, Toots] Watching you color is awesome. [Moving is one of the most stressful things we do, right up there with other huge life changes like getting fired, death in the family, all the big things that throw us off and increase both stress and fragility} Keep crafting when you have a chance. It's a mini break, a minute for yourself OUT of yourself. [I keep telling myself that there are many going through more and that I'm very lucky for what I have -- to keep my mind off what I no longer have] Keep crafting, because you're so talented and you give so much to others. [And always remember, like a really awful bout of PMS, the path back is to remember, this too shall pass and you will feel better soon so you just keep on pushing through it and cut yourself some slack]. [And get some sleep!] xoxo

[@MegaDharrell]

Hugs, you are my best therapist. You are amazing! Merry Christmas to all of your family.

[@three2onemum]

Thank you for being so real, an encouragement at this time 😊❤️

[@lindacogle5976]

To everyone who experiences being overwhelmed during the Christmas season, I will say an extra set of prayers each day. It does seem that we women put higher expectations upon ourselves simply because we want everyone to be happy -- it's what we do, right or wrong. Crying is a wonderful outlet and I LOVE the shower/shampoo recommendation:-). I LOVE the story time you provide, Kelly, and please know you are special in every way! Your cards and techniques give me hope that I can someday master COPIC (or alcohol) coloring. You are my bright spot in these hectic days. The merriest of Christmases to you and your family. Enjoy your new home:-).

[@brendacasper9266]

Love the card and enjoyed every minute of your video. You are such a wonderful human being Kelly. I really enjoy your story times. I hope things start settling down for you soon. Take care!

[@samanthamann1523]

I loooooove your one layer cards! Love the bold colors and all those Christmas-y sweets!! Sooo fun!! I definitely get overwhelmed with so many people for for so long, and overwhelmed with all the life stuff, too. A good cry is needed - super hugs always!

[@marywebster1240]

I love the card! Your work is amazing and inspiring. Thank you for sharing yourself with us. For unknown reasons, this has been a hard Christmas for me. My mom has been gone for 33 years, but I am missing her so badly this year and your sharing made me feel better. Take care of yourself, you deserve it.

[@bethl999]

I know the feeling of being overwhelmed. I moved in Nov. and the next week had hernia surgery so now I can’t lift more than 10 lbs. for at least 4 more weeks. I have a great support system too but I live by myself and I never realized how much that weight restriction would limit me. It’s really hard not being able to unpack and get organized especially in my craft room! I love your card and thank you for leaving your mistakes in so we can learn how to fix ours!

[@candymills9446]

Delightful card - but a lot of work, Kelly! Unfortunate that your move was so close to Christmas. Don't worry about the unpacking it will happen when it happens. Love your honesty, it is nice to know other people feel the same....because we don't talk about it we don't realize that. Have a wonderful Christmas and hope you have time to rest. BIG HUGS

[@norinemueller4588]

Hugs you are not alone for sure and have so much on your plate. Love the card

[@lynneb9946]

Such a pretty card. Great talk. Thanks for sharing and keeping it real. Sometimes we thing we have given our problem to God but still try to handle it our self. But when we reach that point when we really give it to Him, we will know that He handled it for us. I had one of those moments about 25 years ago that I will never forget. Merry Christmas.

[@743linda]

Beautiful card! Hang in there and enjoy every minute of your holiday! We all take on too many things especially at the holidays. Stop and enjoy. Merry Christmas!

[@debiv7834]

Beautiful card! Wish I could hug you! The struggle is real. Totally different reasons but real. Some days I tread water others I feel like I am drowning.

[@TheLotte64]

Love my Kelly video's, so this one I missed.. and of course see now 🤩, what a stunning card 💕. Love it. You are the copic queen 👑. I follow you totally with the overwhelming to all the things we put until our self.. and I virly miss my mom ❤️, at that time of the year. I do take my cry time like you.. it's so hard to explain why the crying come from, because it's so many things, and not just one. I admire you painting the faces on all of the kids. I know it's something you want to do, and lovely to see the happy children 👏💜. This year was so different, than we ever could imagine right?

[@christyscherbarth1428]

There is not a woman who doesn't feel like they are not giving enough, whether a stay at home mom or a working mom. Each of us needs to allow ourselves to be who God created us to be not what society says we should be. I was a stay at home mom. I loved being a stay at home mom. I am married to a rancher/farmer and I did work and continue to work along side of my husband. Not every woman is able to work along side of their husband. I was blessed in that area. I am an introvert and I soon am ready to just be home and not have anyone around me. I go into my craft room and I make a card or something crafty or just watch a great ncaa volleyball game at this time of year on youtube or a card video. Thank you for your honesty and for the beautiful card. I am now learning how to color with alcohol markers.

[@carollavallie5036]

Christy Scherbarth .'”.…l

[@TPTCC27]

I sympathize with your quota. I’m very outgoing, but hit a point where I need to be alone. I had a week when I had all kinds of friend activities for the kids, which I was excited about...an opportunity for the kids to get together with friends and me to connect with other moms...but by the third day I was seriously cranky and realized I was completely out of words. I didn’t want to talk to or see anyone! LOL! So...you are not alone! Your feelings are completely common to most, if not all, women. Having that support system is key! Wishing you guys a very Merry Christmas!!

[@cassandras1688]

Lovely detailed card. Sorry you’re feeling overwhelmed but extremely happy to shared this experience which can help someone else AND that you have the support system to get you through! Have a wonderful Christmas.

[@kathyesquerra2085]

Thank You so much I appreciate when people can be open and honest about there struggles I have been struggling with depression for the last year and sometimes it’s just good to hear that somebody else is out there having the same kind of struggle view our card was beautiful by the way

[@judithf9297]

Dear Kelly, you have no idea how your art and your openness and honesty helps me emotionally, you are awesome. It makes me also remember the days when I had my love ones with me and we were so busy, and no matter how good things are,but things can also become overwhelming. You just have to take care of yourself, like someone else said,you need more sleep, that makes all the difference. And it’s so important that you have a good support system which many of us don’t,and it makes it so much harder. I hope your Christmas will be very happy, enjoy it with your family and also brings you more peace! See you soon🌺🌹💐

[@paulineking1968]

Love the card! I am and have been where you are at! I am dealing with getting older bad health to the point of not being able to do my usual Christmas things and feeling so alone. I am trying to hang in there. I pray a lot.

[@judithf9297]

I so much relate to you Pauline, getting old, health issues and being alone and lonely, that’s me too. And being alone for the Holidays its the worst. And then we think about the wonderful times when we were not alone and had our loved ones. I love listening to Kelly, and she can get overwhelmed as you see, because thats life, we are humans,and we can take only so much. And that’s with a support system, but without, it’s a lot harder.Hope better days are ahead of us still to come

[@paulineking1968]

Judith F it is so hard during the holidays but I always seem to make it through and I am always glad they are over. It is so nice to be apart of this online community and all the nice people I meet.

[@elizabethpetersen5568]

Pauline King God bless you. Sending crafty hugs

[@paulineking1968]

Elizabeth Petersen thank you so much.

[@ryantaylor7283]

I love your creative use of the stamps you have! This card appeals to me in so many ways. I love the sugar covered gum drops most of all. Tells you I have a serious sweet tooth, huh? On a more personal level I can say with honesty that I empathize with you. I was never a good mother, wife, teacher, etc... at the same time and sadly it was the wife part that suffered the most but the other areas suffered too in an attempt to be "good" at something. I am older, retired, in good health (post 2 different types of cancer), and in a really good place right now. Hang on tight and lean on the people you love. It will get better! You will be in my prayers. PS Thanks for sharing your talent and your life with us!

[@darlenebutler4023]

I love that you share your life with us..you sure aren’t the only one who gets peopled out. Thank god for card making

[@heatherharrison4855]

An amazing card. It's so brave of you to open up here but such a good thing to do. I really think it helps to talk and as you say your not alone. Have a wonderful Christmas. God Bless.💕

[@Panda8ngel]

*Hugs* Thank you for sharing, both, the story, your life, and the card. It's good to know that you are not alone in your struggles.

[@janetmuir6011]

Love your card and talk about how you cope with life .Thank you.