How to Date Us 101 with Soobeanie (박수빈)

[@ele-nah]

I feel like Ashley's whole high school era could make a good plot for a movie lol

[@ginaverso]

Ikr! She always has the best stories lmao

[@ELmayberry]

right 😲

[@salimahadilah]

couldn't agree more lol

[@indielush15]

That’s high school in nyc for you 😂

[@ecstaticnature480]

fr. she got the hottest tea to spill

[@bepu27]

Harry: *Listing his rules for his partner* Me: *AGRESSIVELY TAKING NOTES*

[@victoriacisneros17]

Crying cause that’s me

[@CS-jr4vi]

WRITE THAT DOWN WRITE THAT DOWN WRITE THAT DOWN

[@ingridalexsia]

sameee

[@awryti0796]

Hahahaaa 👍👏

[@vmateo2842]

YAS

[@meynq]

I live for Peniel and Harry's mental breakdown as the ladies enumerates their relationship rules 😭🤣

[@sinknarnia]

they are looking a little traumatized 😅

[@TheFunnymaker1]

@@ComedyGlor no the person is talking about the list they made about what they‘re looking for in a partner

[@esteespimi8891]

Love the fact that Ph-1 is so into hosting at this point that he can easily lipsync Peniel's intro, mistakes and all :D

[@thebradelonge5758]

I legit thought it was him hosting at the start 😂

[@angelleejieun1004]

The rules segment just really showed the difference between men and women. Can’t stop laughing how concise the men’s rules are, while the girls wrote complex sentences. Lmao

[@ivak8988]

the girls rules kinda childish LOL

[@dn12345]

It seemed like the guys viewed their partner in a more fundamental and feature aspect (possessive traits) but the girls looked for specific behaviour or habits (actionable traits). Really interesting dynamic.

[@tainanking]

Basically it’s just saying that girls want to control the guys. And then the guys rules are wanting the girls to be controlling lol. It’s like polar opposites

[@whenraindropsfall]

usually I’d think guys’ requirements are superficial ie fat ass etc and girls more realist but this completely surprised me lol

[@naanoou4836]

The way I related more about the boys rules and I'm a girl lol

[@ceciliasdf]

"This is why i think boys and girls can be FRIENDS" i lost it hahahaha

[@humblepebble]

2:10 Christine's reaction to Peniel telling Harry that she's a fan is so cute hahaha! It's like on her mind... "It's our secret!!!"

[@san_mathfractions321]

Is she really, though? He looks like he’s kidding.🥲

[@humblepebble]

@@san_mathfractions321 that too... Maybe she's not really a fan and she is reprimanding Peniel 🤣

[@san_mathfractions321]

@@humblepebble with that Peniel, you’re never gonna know when he’s kidding.

[@regheimbeck]

I’m low key tight how y’all skipped over ph-1’s college probation story 13:00. I really wanted to hear it 🥺😭 Great episode though 💕

[@norabarlai6288]

Yea. what's up with that?? I want the tea

[@navi3430]

Omg same! I wanted to hear it!

[@lialia-qf4qh]

Yeahh. They end up not talking about it

[@seriseri3024]

yeah lol thought I was the only one thinking abt that

[@Chep202]

Same... I was waiting 🤣

[@conniekoo]

“It’s hard to ignore a dog” And with that, I instantly connected with Peniel.

[@mmkkika]

i like how everyone was laughing at first about 4 of them having a child but a little bit later Ashley already talking how kid should tell “us”, thank you ph-1 for this community scenario😌

[@niavbad]

I lost it when Harry said “right, Ashley?” (14:55) HABAHAHHA i love them

[@cristinec.119]

OMYYYYY I AM LOOKING FOR THIS KIND OF COMMENT, I THOUGH I WAS THE ONLY ONE WHO NOTICED IT WAAAH!

[@brendaperea_]

My sister jokingly said “OMG they’re dating” when he said it Ashley 😂😂😂

[@ajihrakhayel]

I noticed this as well then I found your comment. Hahaha I feel like they’re dating. Are they tho?

[@mushroommalo]

hahaha the clowningg im dedd

[@breatheforgot7581]

I love this episode, it’s feels different from the rest cos they all look comfortable with each other. The part where they wrote the characteristics for their partners is my fave and got me really cackling at 1 am 😂

[@navi3430]

Same 🤣🤣

[@tainanking]

Well they were already all friends except ph-1 but ph-1 is good with everyone except Christine so like it just works

[@ELmayberry]

had me dying 🤣

[@daracristinafernandes9108]

I love it when Ashley's friends participate in episodes. I laughed a lot in this episode, especially at the time of the lists about partners (ph1 and Peniel's lists are exactly like my list) I feel like Soobenie and Ashley described a character from a book written by a woman hahaha I really liked

[@milly9086]

I couldn't get over how cute Holly is. The fact that she walked in well uncle Peniel was talking and went stright to aunty Ashley like 'pay action to me.' The fact she so cute and she has the best cue to walk in is priceless. Harry has the cutest dog in the world. Also dad (I'm not sure they the aunt or uncle.)

[@ronnilyncerujano8321]

i like it how Harry started from not wanting to have a child to being interested into having one(ep with Tablo), and now he is setting the rules for his future child.

[@siriih.974]

OH MY GOD THE LISTENERS WITHOUT THE KZbin VIDEO WOULD BE DYING AT @29:13 When Harry says "Well what if YOUR childs or OUR CHILD brings a boyfriend or girlfriend" SURR DON'T GIVE US A HEART ATTACK LIKE THAT!

[@somtounigwe8160]

I found it interesting how they were struggling to come up with rules for their kid cause this is something I've thought about: we might rag our parents for some rules they came up with, forgetting that they were probably our age when they had us, and still figuring out their lives like we are. Like how my mom was 23 when she had her first child, that's YOUNG. Obviously mistakes will be made, but it can be easy to forget that our parents were just tryna do their best. Looking forward to the next podcast! :)

[@oharayoung4992]

Lol my mom had me when she was 17 or 18 and my grandmother was 15 when she had her lol they were both young but both ended up being great parents…and back then once they found out the were pregnant they both had to get married in which they did…anyways im just bored telling my life story lol i hope you have yourself a great week 👍

[@somtounigwe8160]

@@oharayoung4992 You have a great week too!

[@AstarionWifey]

Uhhh my mom had me at 30

[@somtounigwe8160]

@@AstarionWifey Yeah I mean my mom had me at 33 lol, hence the emphasis on "probably"

[@zia8188]

Same, my mom had me when she was 23

[@vivianp5805]

harrys face when the girls are reading their list is so funny while peniels like yeah yup i already know 🤣

[@chocolatos1003]

I'm so happy seeing ashley get excited having her bestie as guest 🥰

[@navi3430]

The chemistry between Ashley and Soobeanie is beaming ✨

[@navi3430]

@三木Asenath It is so cute!

[@KP-pn6zd]

43:24 was so relevant to bring up. It’s so true that some in-laws are really forceful and cunniving to their son’s wife ( specifically in south asian culture I feel) . Honestly, this issue needs to be addressed in like a whole episode itself and how to combat this problem. Thank you for bringing it up!

[@inaaya_1111]

omg PREACHH because im south asian and this is EXACTLY how in-laws treat their sons wife :(( its a cultural thing im sure and its fucking aggravating

[@stphb2699]

It's for sur will be a big épisode. The difference in education or any subjects are very very differents between East and Weast. For exemple, me, i understand the respect you have to do in front of elders people in Korea, but sometines they abuse their ''power'' and can be bad, or the foreigners in Korea you can see the wall they have to destroys before been accepte in the korean family. For sur some cultural things shock me in education or some other things but it's the same in Europe or usa. But like, when i watching episode of TV reality in Korea, i be like the mom come to their appartement and change what she wants and the person who is foreigners is not okay, in result '' the mom in laws is angry and you have to make excuse '', i'm like ''you serious right now ?!'' 😂

[@bruh-nj5hm]

Rly? But my grandparents are just super chill and they stay out of their kids' business.

[@Dowoon_is_a_drum]

Listening to Soobeanie's stories about her curfew and her relationship with her mother, I found myself relating to them. My mom is also like that

[@flywithbees]

Do you know in what group she was in??

[@Dowoon_is_a_drum]

@@flywithbees in Blady, se was known as Tina.

[@flywithbees]

@@Dowoon_is_a_drum thank you

[@tainanking]

I mean just imagine a mom having only one daughter. Def gotta try and keep her as safe as possible. Especially considering it looks like her dad passed or something like that

[@merve.864]

I'm falling for Harry in every episode more and more, this man has a different charm

[@ellie1448]

"What neighborhood do you wanna live in?" Omygod my heart-

[@kristelclarisseanonuevo9686]

I love the rules of pH-1 and peniel since it's very general and realistic like a laid-back relationship, but ashley and soobeanie's rules are hilarous, it tells so much about girls. Love this episode! ♥

[@kodzukent]

36:52 - 37:28 damn peniel and ph-1 were sooooo silent they got nothing to say 😂 they be stressed while ashley was reading her rules 😂 actually the girls' rules are over the top 😂 but that what makes them lovable ♥️

[@genz_fides5842]

ASHLEY's whole life can easily be turned into an amazing netflix series ... seriously.. it's so relatable and interesting.

[@DeliaX]

40:07 "THIS IS WHY I BELIEVE GUYS AND GIRLS CAN BE FRIENDS" LMAOOOOOOOOO THAT SENT ME

[@jule12ify]

sounds like Harry and Ashely’s household will be like the best of both worlds lollll

[@minnyjyu]

3:37 remember when peniel called out Ashley for not knowing how to pronounce c’est la vie? 😂

[@lalisa_lia9040]

I chocked on my water when Ashley started gosh these guys should be comedians

[@jessicafailschem]

26:12 "We're all parents now. And we share the same child" That is some weird Harry situation right there...

[@acie9514]

Ashley looks so happy to have another girl in the podcast lol they're both such a vibe this episode :)

[@ericsponytail4473]

This episode was so good! Would love to see each host bring a friend for future episodes. Felt like I was watching a group of friends just hanging out. the ep flew by!

[@alyshaj3187]

42:10 Damn Harry asking Ashley to marry , but she straight up said NO lol. Anyways they hella cute together so imma lowkey support our brother Harry in this tho.

[@chocolatos1003]

Ash and Harry change their outfit while Peniel stick out with those lovely and boyfie material outfit that I love soooo muuuchh

[@ellie1448]

"Right ashley, okay?" Omygod

[@sickkswiftiee2409]

Exactly 😄💕

[@Okayme8080]

For real 🥰🥰🥰

[@gerlietorejo4680]

Hahahha i thought im only thinking like that 😅💗

[@ellie1448]

@@gerlietorejo4680 my heart can't take it

[@rrizv]

I felt that too oh gosh

[@cozykiinss]

Ph-1 with holly on his lap is the most sweetest thing 😭

[@navi3430]

Omg the way Soobeanie and Ashley automatically did their baby voices when they saw Holly is the cutest 😭 😭🥰

[@Dowoon_is_a_drum]

My list would be: 1) Be respectful to yourself and towards others 2) Be yourself don't try to be someone else. 3) I am clueless when it comes to feelings and stuffs like that most of the time, so please if something is bothering you let me know. 4) I need my personal space and may not hangout with you all time but that doesn't mean I'm not interested in our relationship. 5) I hope we have something in common if don't we can find something we can do together. I'm willing to explore new things if those don't affect my morals. 6) Always tell the truth.

[@nguyenvuquynhnhu2368]

Every Ashley's friend one by one come to the Dive Studio but Rosé, i'm dying to see her appear here T_T

[@sofiya320]

tell me im not the only who got butterflies when harry asked ashley(technically them but yea) 'what neighborhood do you wanna live in?' 😭✋

[@Gal_Tan]

Same girl! Same! 😅🤪

[@xeenrl]

which minute is that pls 🥺

[@sofiya320]

@@xeenrl at 27:20 ❤️

[@noemicasillas8488]

Yesss!!!!

[@xeenrl]

@@sofiya320 Thankyouu!!

[@rinnay.5515]

Since ph-1 confirmed that he reads comments, this is just a reminder for him to stop scrolling and sleep well 😆💃

[@hyegiechan2372]

3:22 Peniel: “Ignore her? It’s hard to ignore a dog” Omg someone please take Peniel to a shelter so he can get a dog🥺

[@kara_choreos_8128]

I have been waiting for Soobeanie to hop on Get Real and let me say it was worth the wait. I love this episode and loved how all four of them interacted. Please have more episodes like this. 😁😁

[@Dowoon_is_a_drum]

What an episode with two special guests Soobeanie and Holly 😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@ruthfour6839]

pH-1 being a host is a blessing and that's the tea!! 😎🙌🏽

[@geekdiggy]

49:55 every story ashley tells about the group makes me fall more and more in love with ladies' code. this is one of my favorite episodes!☺

[@LifeisMelody342]

I’d go with 49:11 though because it has more context on how soft cinnamon rolls they all are everyone can assume that Ashley was the hardcore leader but they all cry they all love each other and Ladies Code was basically the mold of how to be a strong girl group in regards to treating each other right even if things got dramatic.

[@nanan1295]

Ph-1 yelling out STOP ASKING US had me dying. 😂😂

[@tuesday6928]

harry and holly literally has the cutest bond

[@reemalreem6259]

Can we take a moment to appreciate how fine peniel is ? glasses looks good on him 🥰

[@DelaraPlayfield]

Yeahh he’s so kyyuuuttt

[@jenelynsamuel2227]

He's sooo handsome

[@hiyniil]

14:55 I feel like Harry and Ashley are dating and he's trynna point out sth making him uncomfortable but doesn't know how to talk to her directly :) But anyways, love their vibes and this ep is funny af.

[@medico1012]

U are not alone I actually want them togu

[@brendaperea_]

Ohh my sister jokingly said “omg they’re dating, I know it” when this happened 😂 low key ship them 👀

[@bethr4149]

i think its bcs in previous ep she kinda implied very lowkey that she acted certain ways with her exes (im sure shes not that way anymore) and harry’s just like…ok ashley? dont be this way okay? but very subtly. love their growing chemistry 🥰

[@bapfan12]

My list would have been 1. Repectful 2. God Loving 3. Trustworthy 4. Compassionate 5. Family oriented Like the guys said: "As long as the guy is a good human being" the relationship should work. I believe that as long as you are two independent and settled human beings and you work as a team and communicate the realtionship should work.

[@sherinflaurensia818]

Daddy when Holly appears: *smile; a proud daddy* And he's trying so calm in front of his daughter And that's so funny watching the guys' expression when Ashley starts reading her rules for her partner. OMG

[@Juli-ow5uc]

This episode was so fun. We definitely need another girl as a host 15:40 😂

[@Mel-oc7pi]

26:38 for me, i wouldn't give money when they do chores because it gives the child a mindset where they do work for money, like personal gain. not just for helping out the family and the home.

[@lizzy8559]

Yessss exactly. I don't see many with this perspective but it makes so much sense. You don't get paid for chores when you're older, you just have to do it out of duty and self respect.

[@maed3266]

So true I agree

[@artemis2luna]

Good point

[@sofiya320]

im not even half way the vid and i love it alr HAHAHA i love how in the first part when they were sharing experiences and peniel and ph1 were sharing men's perspective and ashley soobeanie's sharing the women's perspective and they'll have realizations afterwards is just so funny HAHAHAHA

[@chloesalomon2913]

I say all the time when it comes to dating. I don’t want to be your world, I just want to be part of it. Being ok with being by yourself is a big thing😌

[@kimtaetae9800]

Peniel and Ashley literally just exchange seats 🤣cute! .HAHAHAHHAHA

[@tins_melo]

Pls have part 2 with soobeanie again.. Plsss.... Felt like the talk was too short n I need moreeee 😂🤭🤭

[@purplequokka]

What is going through Harry's head seriously!? 😂 He could've said easily "what if we all had children" but he specifically goes *"so the 4 of us will have the same child, now what"* But I'm not complaining! I'm so here for it!! Gets me every damn time 🤣🤣🤣 26:10 28:12 29:13 29:45

[@navi3430]

That's what I thought too! They could all be parents, but he had to make it weird 🤣🤣🤣

[@purplequokka]

@@navi3430 Harry situation got way too weird lmao I LOVE HIM HE'S SO FUNNYYYY

[@josephpercy8772]

@@navi3430 No no, it's better this way.

[@marialifeisgidle9437]

I'm so proud of Ashley! she went through a lot but still strong..Love her so much such a strong independent woman❤❤❤

[@manu-ml3qe]

So many people felling that Harry and Ashley have something because of the "right Ashley, ok?" and I didn't even realized he said that lol Such a great episode as always get real team and soobinie!

[@daisy_iv]

Harry seems to love doing the role play and i love watching him do those

[@gracey8882]

Peniel looks so boyfriend material in this episode- 😳

[@lorenaalmeida9738]

I'm living for Peniel with glasses... yes, sir!

[@inani671]

Dating topics is never out of date!! 💖 please share more useful tips with us hehehe ☺️🙆🏻‍♀️

[@choley8953]

Watching Harry disassociate while the girls read their lists made my week

[@jdberja]

Absolutely loved this episode. I already knew it would be fun to watch/listen to from seeing Ashley, Christine, and Peniel together in their own KZbin channels. We need Christine back for more episodes so Ashley has someone on her side!!

[@barbaramikaellamoraes8555]

Funny how the partner rules for the guys are the bare minimum for any human being. I mean, if the other person don't respect other people and don't give you space they have problems, so for me those things should'nt be rules at the first place, you should'nt ask for someone to act ​decently. P.s. the synergy between you guys is on point, love the episode

[@hudehudeachichiwa712]

Holly is so adorable wth! the way she greeted all the four omo..so cute

[@dennissr1416]

Time for teasing Peniel!!! I think he is like this because he is the maknae line. And they teasing their hyungs in BTOB often but in a good way, like a family. 💙 I think the most difficult to say sorry is that I thought that I have sufficient reasons but then I understand that whatever reasons I had, I caused trouble o hurted someone. And I have to apologize and then explain my reasons.

[@trifinyallen7755]

Yeah, he is also the maknae in their friends group too

[@kerronwalker1589]

I've never seen ph1 this funny before, his low-key trying not to flirt it's so cute 😊

[@chocolatos1003]

I'm laughing everytime they said "OUR child" dangg it'll be great if they make something like reality show where they're all being parents in the same household with super rebellious child

[@tetefsilveira]

I really love that PH-1 goes all psycological while listening! Its the best part of having him on the cast

[@hopenobodynoticesthis]

this might be one of the best fits of Harry

[@chocolatos1003]

PARK HARRY HAVE NO RIGHT TO BE THAT HOT IN THIS EPISODE

[@siriih.974]

I LOVE this episode *le Harry* imagine four of us have the same child *le Harry again* *to Ashley* who's WE? haha WhO'S WeEe !!

[@chocolatos1003]

Holly seriously so adorable and can get along with everyone ❤️❤️

[@TPWK95]

After 16 minutes, isn't Harry supposed to tell his college detention story?

[@thehdose]

ph-1’s face when the girls were reading their lists 😂😭

[@thebeatsmelody395]

I'm glad I'm not the only one that noticed that "right Ashley" 🤭 Anyway, I agree with the boys rules but I can squeeze one or two of the girls rules in there too 🥴😂

[@rufayda7813]

Harry looks hotter than July in California

[@jessieperson]

I was dying laughing over the simplicity of the guys' lists vs. the super specific and complex rules from the ladies LOL

[@jessieperson]

But if you were to sum up what the girls want, they're not that unreasonable. Like for Ashley's smell rule, basically she wants someone with good hygiene. And for Soobean's sneakerhead and gaming rules, basically she wants them to have similar interests or be willing to try out and learn about her interests. Those are pretty reasonable when summed up!

[@ningyoes]

@@jessieperson YES

[@horrendous_karaoke]

This was such a fun episode. I loved the ladies’ partner lists.

[@Iamichelle]

36:11 I could tell peniel was about to complain more about his friend’s girlfriend but he stopped himself or they edited it out lol

[@kassandramilloroso5890]

We didn't get to hear Harry's probation story. I listened to this last night but didn't finish the whole episode. And then, I dreamed about my cousin getting a probation and my aunt said he got Probation No. 1900 10. I googled it there's no such thing.... I think I was deprived of Harry's probation story haha

[@Erii21]

😩😂

[@clementine.6.2.2]

ph-1 and Peniel’s compatability is next level 😂

[@corgisrule21]

Harry’s college probation story when tho? 🧐😆 Also, the girls’ lists were so extra! 😂😂😂 it’s good that they know themselves and what they want though 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@shinebrightbyul]

"she has digestion problems" LMAOOOOOOOOO the girls were hella extra but relatable

[@nivethar4830]

wow..im really loving the special appearance of holly!!!its her playground!

[@heyitsme5537]

29:11 I thought Michael is gonna show up again….”Hey Ms. Choiiii” 😅

[@boredom0808]

Ayee you an OG listener

[@g.0256-w9y]

YeaH!

[@Buttercup8598]

Harry's fit in this ep is immaculate

[@kimtaetae9800]

Been waiting this episode after Ph-1 posted it on ig 🥰

[@yourlocalfairyhere]

I can only concentrate with your podcasts I end up rewatching everything, so it feels like a huge gift whenever we get a new ep. !!!!

[@ellie1448]

wow harry never disappoints... i keep falling everytime

[@mbot565]

I can't wait for the entire BTOB members to be guests on Get Real. Oooohh the stories and the crazzzzyyy...it's going to be epic! They will cover 2 episodes..easyyyy...😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@hanaahhi2935]

Oh please I want this sooo bad😩😂😂😂

[@dyraa.9876]

Ily so much. Ash and harry, date each other already 🤧

[@tins_melo]

26:12 Harry:we all sharing the same child. Me :🤯👀🤯👀

[@rain-jpg]

Just watched the shorts of Ashley's type list so I'm here to watch the full interview 🤣