Relationship Jealousy 101 | GET REAL S4 EP20

[@DIVEpods]

DIVE fam! What’s your thoughts on this juicy episode??😏⬇️

[@theashleighway]

I love learning about the differences between Western and Korean standards, culture. etc

[@JonasBrotherLuver122]

@@DIVEpods Love it as always! ❣️ I messaged your LinkedIn DIVE page when y'all have time!

[@worldclasssinner]

@@theashleighwaysame its so interesting

[@tamS0613]

I loved it! We needed some Harry situations in this episode tho! 😂😂✨

[@mariya1895]

The girl and guy perspective are way soooo different.

[@glorymishra7101]

I love that how Peniel was "I don't care" most of the times but the moment abusive partner was mentioned, he immediately took a stand and very rightly said they just need to feel comfortable before they start with their abusive behaviour

[@HiddenPGZ]

Man, we need to be more like Peniel, he must be so peaceful minded 🧘🏻‍♀️

[@PK-kitti]

Yep agree and he keeps it real all the time but sometimes we don't like that kind of person in our lives

[@josephpercy8772]

​@@PK-kittiTrue. Cuz sometimes they'll say something you NEED to hear but maybe not WANT to hear.

[@irismoons]

Are you guys ever inviting guests again? If yes please please get Mark Lee on it idc how long it takes I’ll wait 😭

[@missgirl6475]

YESSS PLEASE WE NEED MARK LEE

[@jacqueline2121]

What a good idea!

[@harutran4703]

MARK LEE!! Honestly I would love Johnny on this show too!

[@Or_you88]

on a similar note, they should invite felix sometime too. He must have a lot of stories from his teenage years in Australia and korea

[@sunghosnextdoor]

i actually like the current episodes without guests tbh. they had guests for so long now. i think someone like mark is still too restricted to say much in a show like this

[@gimmeasalad]

It makes perfect sense that Peniel is friends with all his exes. He just so clear-minded and intentional. It would probably be so easy to be in a relationship with him.

[@aeri_.]

actually he is! idr but he said he has even helped them get with another guy

[@jgrev68]

I looove how BM is so engaged with the topic and Peniel made me laugh A LOT... DOES HE CARE ABOUT SOMETHING? HAHAHAHA I LOVE IT

[@itssupriyahere]

Im crazy I read BM IS ENGAGED and my mind went blank 😂

[@dianaosazenaye1313]

Oh

[@jgrev68]

@@itssupriyahere 🤣🤣🤣

[@jaycee4679]

Them obviously implying they are in a relationship but news outlets do not care. All idols should do the same. Just say the obvious. Toxic fans might just get used to it. 😂 Really love how they are open to this topic.

[@angelamore]

BM: "No thank you, my good sir" 🤣😂 Please get DPR Ian as a guest 🙏🏻 😊

[@ijeomamiriam4216]

Jeez dat wld be the bedt guest

[@jasmynelucille9908]

Yesss Dpr Ian would be so fun!!

[@LifeofLaT]

YES

[@CrashOverride332]

I always find this stuff interesting since i've never had a relationship. On the one hand, it's kind of a privilege to learn from everybody else's mistakes while not actually making any yourself at the same time. On the other hand, it's a bit lonely when in a group when everybody else has stories to tell and you're just...listening and nodding along.

[@bobthebuilderday6leader]

Wow, this resonates. I’m already in my late 20s and barely have any relationships /longest one was a month/. I think it’s important to remind myself that having a partner doesn’t make me more worthy of love. I am worthy either way. I also lowkey think I’m aro.

[@keturah113]

42yo. Never being in a relationship. ( yes I consider myself a somewhat normal person ahaha. I'm a nurse so I can def talk to ppl). It's only been in the last few years where these conversations in groups feel alienating. Especially when married couples are talking about their lives.

[@farziakarim3087]

Peniel has literal gold standard mentality. Write a book on this man, there needs to be more like you!

[@prithatiwari9810]

Hey, your fans would want to know how to reach this level of calmness? Peniel- I just don't care

[@farziakarim3087]

@@prithatiwari9810 the literal human interpretation of the book, the subtle art of not giving a fuck 😂

[@changsublee5814]

Peniel may seem nonchalant but when it comes to unacceptable behavior, he voices it out. That's so sexy of him I must say.

[@terrieBTSOT7]

Peniel is goals. I wish i could not be bothered about things. He has this great balance between caring and not being bothered by stuff!!!

[@mariya1895]

I’d wait for the day that Peniel gets whipped in love and finally care 😂

[@francesberrios8250]

@mariya1895 Yes, that would be interesting to see.

[@CastleintheCloudForum]

Loooolllll 😂😂😂

[@malabuu]

I just love Peniels chill vibes. Especially when they talk about relationships. Pls never change this side of you unbothered King!

[@ligangvolleyballofficial]

PENIEL is soo UNREAL😅😂😂 Unbothered King

[@dianaosazenaye1313]

Yep

[@donsenorperrojronimin9043]

Peniel should do a song called "I don't care" 😅 with some comic and real theme ❤

[@dianaosazenaye1313]

True

[@SustainablePixelPodcast]

Note to self: don't watch these episodes while eating. Almost spit out my food when Peniel and Junny air hugged 😂

[@CastleintheCloudForum]

Loooolllll

[@bluesummer1365]

This episode is GOLD ! I live for Peniel honesty 39:47 , so refreshing and makes sense. Everybody was so fun and interesting to listen to ! Amazing team as always ✨ so many iconic moments 😂

[@justlovemeright7232]

Why am I listening to this, I don't even have a significant other😂. But this is so entertaining after a long day of work.

[@intartaruguinha]

This episode is just Peniel being like "I dpn't know, I don't care, This is fine" LOL he's just a chill guy

[@DianthaJones]

Good for you, Ashley. Ain't no looking past domestic violence. They NEVER change.

[@mysteriousplayer248]

I need a partner like Peniel who is just chill. I also find it endearing when my partner teases me in a playful way.

[@yetundeshomoye6668]

@DIVE Studios please cast Vernon from seventeen for just one episode, he is pretty chill like Peniel. It would be so interesting to see them together with their mindset.

[@forevercarat3499]

Been two years now asking for it

[@danahly3327]

(2) and/or Joshua too. 😊

[@flowergirl79]

Ashley's point of view is so interesting. She's so mature and she seems to understand psychology a lot. 🤩

[@goddessceleste1481]

This is the only podcast I can sit down after a long day and actually watch without drifting off to something else. Amazing host with amazing thought processing. Sending love from the USA!

[@Purebliss05]

30:02 that " maybe you can see it through your robot lenses" was funny 😂😂

[@nanabam3608]

dealing with a jealous partner is so unhealthy. Stay safe, everyone.

[@shadowzara]

44:15 Peniel goes: "That's weird. I don't wanna be Eskimo bros. What the fuck?" Ashley hella confused: "What's that?" Peniel: "Look it up later" 🤣💀

[@justme.11]

About photos with the ex, I don't want to totally erase the record of my life. I delete a lot of photos but never every single one. For me, I'd want a record for my kids or for when I'm older and look back on my life. It hurts at the time to break up but it's part of my story and I would want to keep some for that. I probably won't look at them for years but when the pain is gone, I can reflect as well.

[@nyxnightshade3511]

Daydream is great! I really like this song. You guys did such a great job of harmonizing, and it feels like a really sweet kind of song. I hope to see more songs by Peniel! 😊

[@prakritilover23]

I love Ashley's word... Babies also feel jealous when their mum plays with another babies and too much are toxic. Trust is important . Loyalty comes after trust and love. Everyone needs a li'l space, people need to respect it. That's why I love 70's 80's love story, they don't have phone or any social media but their love was beautiful.

[@steve13191]

where tf is PH 1? harry and BM are mandatory on topics that involve relationships 😂

[@seasunshine7550]

The amount of Harry situations that would come out of this episode if pH-1 had been on as a guest 🤣 but I’m excited for this episode. 2:10

[@sdavila96]

LOVE the episode 🫶 I kinda miss Harry on this topics, I love his point of view, hope he can come back to the show for one episode this season.

[@denisebrown2994]

Don’t delete your life journey. Years from now when you are reflecting on your life journey you would have deleted the visual memories. Relationship can be bad and good but it all part of your learning and growth process in your personality story. There was a time where your personality journey was captured in real time video and photos. In years to come you sat down with family and reminisce. Deleting evidence doesn’t mean you delete memories

[@leannes2032]

Love how the opinions/answers change depending on the rating of the person...lol. "Daydream" is a really good song...nice job!!

[@Kvalleypop]

The highlight of my day

[@ktay2124]

Me a The Rose fan and having a ton of photos of them on my phone. 😂. My husband is okay with it. Thanks babe 😅

[@JonasBrotherLuver122]

Ahh love that 😂 I hope to have a marriage like that one day! I will always love my bands, but of course my future husband/family too!

[@ktay2124]

@@JonasBrotherLuver122 I hope that you do as well. A spouse that understands your hobbies is an amazing thing to have.

[@maelisols]

I love Ashley being our voice there, hihi.

[@xotwod_raii]

literally, I always agree with her opinions

[@aewenien4774]

I love these episodes where they talk about relationships, so interesting and fun!😆 I need longer episodes, these are too short🥲 and I love the new song from Peniel w/Junny❤️🔥

[@bellab1117]

Ashley: "Some idols date fans" Delulu mode of all fans activated BM: "I wouldn't date fans!!" Delulu mode of BMs fans deactivated 😂😂😂

[@mariya1895]

Peniel randomly discovering his voice imitation talent of Johny Bravo

[@CastleintheCloudForum]

😂

[@renalyn-p]

"The fact that she said that meant you're not like that" got me thinking tooo

[@NicoleYoshihara]

It’s a horrible thing being jealous Better to build off trust and not feed into jealousy it’s like a rabbit hole it keeps going Hope for good healthy relationships ❤😊

[@preciouslyunhinged]

Peniel is definitely an easy going boy friend...I hope he has or get a cool,good healthy relationship ...pure sweetheart

[@shrimpified4413]

you need to call ph-1 to these relationships themed episodes 😂

[@farziakarim3087]

Loving the peniel appreciation so much in the comments

[@cj-gunn]

"I like teasing"... My response to his teasing would be 'I wonder if my next boyfriend will like the handbag you bought me' 😉

[@tessapinks3479]

22:51 The way Junny and BM are just staring at Ashely innocently while all the doubts flowing in their mind like "She could totally get me if she wanted"

[@DohaNachad-vj8no]

I think that Peniel is living a good life by not caring about anything

Peniel is the perfect boyfriend?? All he said is so true, cheaters gonna cheat no matter what you say or do, is never about you , its all about them.

[@grace0maIIey]

I don't want to throw away everything and delete all photos of my ex. He is part of my life. I don't want to delete a part of my life, just because the relationship didn't work out as we wished it had. I still have the first love letter I got, because it is important to me. It would hurt me to throw that away. I am glad my husband - who is obviously a different person than the one who wrote the letter - doesn't expect me to get rid of it! Keeping that memory doesn't change my love for my husband!

[@janayroyster9968]

We need a episode called Will Peniel Care where we find out what he will actually care about lol

[@shivanti]

guys honestly, can i please pitch myself for the next season, I HAVE SO MUCH TO SAY

[@v.v.9.9.]

Lmaaao, "I'm a professional yapper, hire me!!" 😂😂

[@TerraTrick]

Good thing I like to be left alone when I'm buzzed or drunk! Cause when there's a group talking and I'm drinking, I'm like, IT'S TOO LOUD! I'm outta of here.

[@brooke6198]

Can we have a reel of Ashley looking up what "Eskimo bro" means 😂

[@sejladzankovic172]

Peniel is right - If they want to cheat they will cheat. Yes I get jealous sometimes but I never cared enough to hound anyone about stuff. Ive been cheated on before twice by my exes and now Thankfully I found a good husband

[@Jiaqi-k1l]

really hope robot Peniel is not just a "character" because I LOOOVEEE him being so unbothered and rational with everything!! like "what even is emotion" 😂😂

[@Isabella_bubble]

Ohhh I wish ph1 was here😂😂😂

[@worldclasssinner]

12:46 peniel is always so real 😭

[@Coffee_Gal]

Junny is sooo cute at 34:31 where he's imitating Peniel 😂❤

[@taniaanani4404]

I also think although you might be the most confident person to say no to giving out your number most of the time women can't decline giving out their number for safety reasons as you don't what that person is gonna do or you feel unsafe at that moment so you do it for your own safety

[@Lulu-wi9rg]

These topics are interesting to me because I like learning about what other people have gone through and it helps me in a similar situation. I am in my first relationship so starting out I really did not know how a relationship should be. I didn't know how to act because I thought you had to act a certain way once you are someone's girlfriend for some reason. My boyfriend also has a lot of female friends and some of them are women that he went on dates with. At first I wanted to be jealous, but he is honest with me about everything so there was no reason for me to be jealous about it.

[@toniadams7816]

listening to peniel's "Daydream" after watching this episode just makes the song so much more adorable.

[@OrchidsAndKpop127]

So excited for this ep, I know it’s gonna be so good

[@riezkaayu21]

Ashley just like me when i talked about GUY in front of my GUYs-FRIEND.. the opposite point of view just gave me chills...

[@justme.11]

To be entirely honest, I find jealousy to be rooted in personal insecurity or a tool for control. It's thinking you're not good enough and making your partner suffer because they "might" find someone better. These jealous partners also start issues by trying to control who you hang out with or starting a fight if your eyes land on a person they feel threatened by. That's toxic. That said, there are people who behave like they'll leave you at any moment by flirting with others in front of you, constantly mentioning how attractive they find others, etc. Those people would make the most secure person worry that they'll leave. This behavior is also toxic and one should leave immediately. This kind of partner creates insecurity.

[@CastleintheCloudForum]

Peniel's Johnny Bravo voice had me cracking up 😂 I had to replay.

[@woozxvbnm]

love dis episode✨ more thirsty podcasts comin up pleasee, twas fun and spicy a new narrative on the korean culture

[@whatever8738]

Did they shoot two podcasts on the same day because all of them seem to be wearing the same outfits

[@lorenazf9521]

Yeah they usually do

[@almariaghern1876]

They've always filmed like 2 or 3 episodes a day. You just didn't notice because during the first few seasons they used to change outfits every episode, but if you look closely you can see little things like Ashley wearing the same makeup or hairstyle, at least that's how I always noticed how many episodes they did on the same day...

[@me9981]

they said it a few times that they usually film 2 or 3 episodes a day and they also said that they usually changed clothes and most people didn't pick up on it,but through times they just gave up on changing clothes 🤷‍♀️

[@Mairangg]

i really really REALLY enjoyed!!!!! please make more videos about relationships cause i am really sucks about it and need to hear some advice or experience :')

[@NativeGirl49]

The topic about keeping gifts from an ex, I say I don’t mind it. Only because say I’m dating a guy & they kept a wallet or tie from their ex. I would 100% buy a new wallet or tie for them. Mainly so I wouldn’t have to see them use the gift from their ex. However, I have kept a beautiful necklace from an ex, not just because it’s expensive but it was given to me the same day my niece was born. So it’s sentimental value. I would tell the guy that I’m dating, that he can get me a new one & id wear his necklace from now on. 😂

[@bellabella8677]

Ash was killing today🤣🤣🤣 this episode was so fun & relatable ❤❤❤ i love u guys fr being sooo reallll

[@lisa.222]

If one day yall get fatou or all of blackswan in the pod is would be so cool. I feel like they have a lot to say bout these topics

[@karinefalcao3564]

Just what I needed, another EP of get real. Love you guys and Ashely 💕✨😘🇧🇷❤

[@lights1839]

I wish there was another girl with Ashley on this show because her point of view is always on point but no one understands it, I think if there was a girl with her her ideas would get across better just like junny and bm

[@하진-h2h]

I think for Peniel, it appears to others that he didn't care but maybe because it comes with his personality that he is upfront to communicate the problem at hand at the given moment when he like saw or learn something he finds inappropriate or doesn't like than feeling something about it. for him it is based on right or wrong and trust which is something a someone have when he is really have that confidence and maturity in them. or maybe he doesn't experience that kind of love yet to really really really care haha

[@larayelendiaz1148]

I really like how they express their ideas and that helps me to have a wide view about this kind of topics. However, I don't think it is about asking "can I bla bla bla..." Nor giving permission or letting to significant other to go or hang out with someone else, neither. What I mean is, I would not like to be in a relationship where the other person feels he/she should ask "can I go with my guy friend or ex....", because I'm not the one to give or deny such a "permission" , I mean, we are both grown up and independent persons.

[@christycepe3294]

I just wish they can also show us what they are showing the guys so we can relate too. would be best. 🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@aerijelly]

how can junny be cute and have the bad boy vibe at the same time?! gosh Junny I really hope on a parallel life tou are mine😂

[@Devian016]

21:39 Actuallty happened to me. He would even tell me that I should try to work out like a certain model so that I'd look like her.... when I called it out, I was gaslit. People, follow your gut. I got out of that situation. That was just the first layer.

[@karenkatequilat9881]

😂😂 peniel and BM killing the english accent and robotic voice 😂😂 Soooooo funny. And BM got shot down by ashley again 😂😂 And junny was the most savage this episode. If she's a 4, she's gonna be a 4. 😂😂😂 damn junny!!! This is why i loooooove video podcasts! Thank you DIVE!!!

[@OurBlueOcean7]

Peniel was so funny and typical when making jokes about what the others were saying! Also everyone please check out Peniel’s song “Daydream” featuring Junny💙

[@vanillashake3544]

35:05 Junny really said lets get reallllll. I love it lmaooo

[@owethumochike6490]

😭😭The saying if they got a Rolex as a gift they'd keep it is so real. 12:28 ...

[@zerowiieexia9376]

Peniel is so chill, 😂 i guess thats nice, hope noone takes advantage of him

[@faithsousa1499]

I absolutely loved this episode and hearing everyone's opinions and and the most honest answers.!! A lot of us have seen toxic. I wish someone told me some of these red flags when I was growing up about dating. I love my ex because we share 2 amazing kids together but I had to go through a horrible heartbreak because of him too and oh boy was he a walking red flag then (now able to look back healed from it) 😅❤❤

[@mjonesmcdy6372]

I love Penniel on this one. We're so alike in most of the factors especially with the gifts. Sometimes it's fun to tease each other😁 the past will always be there and it's a part of us. However, we don't walk backwards, we don't start reading books from happily ever after.

[@bellabella8677]

how the timing gets so correct 😭😭😭 i was having really a bad day & jst came in utube to watch something & this episode made my day🥺🥺🥺🥺❤❤❤❤❤❤ lots of love for u guys from Bangladesh

[@mspixie123]

BM and Junny ready to steal your girl!!! 😂😂😂😂❤

[@owethumochike6490]

😭😭noo yall i almost fainted when BM said there's some pretty fans... 23:03 ....💀💀he notices!!

[@irismoons]

0:38 Junny looks so fine 😩

[@tamalahale6160]

My advice is: If your new partner has a problem with anything of your past, don’t bring them to your future. Younger generation now are way to obsessed with making sure that the minute you break up with someone you delete, erase, and remove any and everything about your ex, why does that matter. Yes I may have been to Disney Land, but I’ve never been to Disney Land with you. GET OVER IT!

[@BUTTERCUPJones]

💜 I always look forward to this

[@forevercarat3499]

Each year I see BM talking Each year I realise BM is actually a certified loverboy

[@jannicalindblom4458]

"let xx go out"!? That's crap, you don't own other people. It's really strange listening to these young people with these strange ideas. I just love Peneil! He is great. 👏👏😁

[@hpitbfe8216]

i totally understand where you’re coming from & “letting _____ go out” sounds crazy, but i think it’s also very circumstantial. if i were to put it in my own case, me & my boyfriend live together & he does it out of respect because he knows i’m waiting at home for him. the only times he goes out to drink with his friends is after work on the weekends & he always asks if he can go out (& sometimes i say no) just because he doesn’t get off of work until 3am & when he stays after to drink he doesn’t get home until around 6am or later. most of the time i let him go bc obviously everyone needs that time to de-stress with their friends but sometimes i also just want him to come straight home lol.

[@adzaniwa]

Could you please please please invite YoungK a.k.a Brian from Day6 :")

[@aprilladublan2966]

Yes please.but also I wanna see him again in daebak show

[@maheemakavindya]

I like the point of peniel 20:10 if they gonna cheat they gonna find the way to cheat. Thats true.... 😐 Relationship should not be stressful. 💯 Agreed with him.

[@Titania.Dimitra.MX.BM.Greece]

THIS EPISODE NEEDS PART 2 .... it was toooooo short ... pleeeeease ... ☺☺☺☺☺☺

[@vibeswithrosie_]

Guyss! have Maki and Nicholas of &TEAM on the show pleaseeeee~~~~~

[@falgieroberts9551]

They are too young 😅

[@vibeswithrosie_]

@@falgieroberts9551 lol I mean the regular talkshow with Eric nam😭🤣🤣🤣 not this one cuz yeaahh maki is to young for this one🤣

[@falgieroberts9551]

@@vibeswithrosie_ wanna be friends? When did you started following & team

[@falgieroberts9551]

@@vibeswithrosie_ hi