How pH-1 Keeps the Spark in Relationships! | GET REAL S4 EP24

[@DIVEpods]

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[@valeriaarias483]

Yeees we miss her ;(

[@emma_tanago]

We miss her a lot!!!🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@pocahontas2158]

Where’s junny?

[@viewast2132]

Ashley we miss you

[@deanotyl4802]

Junny's on tour!

[@deanotyl4802]

Ashley is needed!! The boys are having too much fun talking about farts 😂😭

[@Jisungsjeekies]

Fr 😂

[@Rjbunnie_]

I was thinking the same lol

[@smith00775]

😂

[@thebradelonge5758]

Relationship topic suits them the most. All three nailed the topic conversation with facts, useful suggestions, & good humour. Harry the "guest" but leading the pack. He ain't no guest, Harry, who is You? 🤣

[@rainy9698]

Lol! 😂 Right? PH-1 is basically a part-time host at this point...

[@cpu6477]

Even though they are SINGLE, RIGHT? 😂😂😂 or am I WRONG? #wkwkland

[@horanghaeforever]

​@cpu6477 probably have dated or are dating tbh most idols arent actually single

[@thebradelonge5758]

​@@cpu6477 We wouldn't know. They're good at hiding their relationships. But I love Korean artists who expose their relationships. It should be a normal thing

[@Zainabeee]

Today I realized how Ashley is so important in the show

[@newtonblue]

lol

[@cutebumbum2044]

Why?

[@sadanandan9079]

It's not the first time they made an episode without ashley

[@Zainabeee]

@@sadanandan9079 I know,but her presence in this episode was needed

[@yjchanie3475]

Wasn't even surprised with Peniel's response when Harry asked him if he'd allow her gf to go on a trip with her guy friend. Dude that's the most Peniel answer evaaahhh 😅

[@dianaosazenaye1313]

He can't surprise them anymore

[@miszpazao]

Can we get a Get Real episode with Woosung, BM, Peniel and Harry … pleaseeee!?!? 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@srta.damasceno]

Yeeees 🙌🏼

[@karanda7832]

Yesssss that would be so fun

[@vanityshop5155]

I second this!!

[@katrinalouie7141]

Im hoping this becomes a reality ❤❤❤

[@hibataher3596]

omg yess i hope we get these four together

[@dennsolis5773]

Harry's disbelief face to Peniel and eye roll is everything during that gf and other guys trip question 🤣 . Peniel being himself as always 😆

[@Recheal-mf6lk]

That eye roll was intentional. We listen, we don't judge.

[@JanKut]

5 secs into get real: ‘What do you think about just farting in front of your partner?’

[@DIVEpods]

we. get. real.

[@JanKut]

@ we get real, down and deep 😭🫶

[@paolapaynee]

this showed that there were no girls !! (ashley) it was definitely a guys talk lol

[@the-real-jinxx]

@@DIVEpodstoo real

[@lily.97]

@@JanKutdeep and raw lmaoooo I had to (sorry)

[@terrieBTSOT7]

The most healthy relationship advice i have ever heard "I think love is something you work on for life" BM! You will make an excellent husband and father if you already understand this!

[@shrutithorat8427]

Love how comfortable they are talking about there relationship specially Peniel & BM being kpop idols...!! trusting there fans.. knowing no-one is going to be crazy enough asking to cancel them because they were/are in relationships!!

[@MichelleMouldArtist]

Most relationships change over time to be less about the sparks but more about reliability, trust, being able to be yourself and a glow of being loved and loving your partner. Doing new things together is always good but also having new things you each do that you can talk about is stimulating.

[@eiouiu]

can you guys redo this ep (or do a part 2?) cuz our girl Ashley should've been here!! would want to hear her thoughts on this topic lawl (ofc Junny too!)

[@chains1436]

😭😭 missing her

[@mamamememoo]

We need a part 2 with ALL girls lol

[@justme.11]

Jealousy - The only tips for that are to build confidence and self-worth. At the root of jealousy is insecurity. The jealous person feels like they're not good enough for their partner and is paranoid their partner will want or find someone better. Only the jealous one can fix that. Jealousy ends relationships too. The jealous person will always try to control their partner's behavior so they don't have to feel insecure. No one wants to be controlled so the partner will leave to feel free again. A big help for this is to convince yourself that though they CAN choose someone else, they chose you. Spend your time being grateful for that and enjoying their company.

[@mercyforhim]

The best part of a relationship is getting to know each other organically why ask others when you can just get to know them yourself day by day.

[@jennyfrancisco741]

Hi dive, just wondering if you can create content about the pros and cons of being a half-Korean, half-American K-pop idol in terms of Language Barrier, pressure to represent both culture, stereotyping,appeal or visual uniqueness etc. Just want to know more of it base from experience from the host :) hope you can see this. Much Love

[@TheCurlygirly14]

I recommend watching Eric Nam's Kpop Daebak Show on Dive Studios, as he often asks idols with a foreign background (meaning those not born and raised in Korea as well as non-Koreans) about these kinds of issues.

[@me9981]

i don't think these 3 are half... i think they are korean but born and raised in the US? more suitable topic for them would be pressures of representing the both cultures as you said or maybe differences of promoting in SK an the US,how they feel when they do it and what are the reactions of the public... but yeah... you're onto something there 😂 Edit: ive just realised i wrote "those 3" instead of their names and it turned out i jist dont know them and don't care 🤦‍♀️ I know you guys, Penny Shin is my spirit animal ❤

[@jennyfrancisco741]

@@me9981 thanks for correcting me tho, haha im just too focused on my thoughts that i forgot they were koreans and just live in the US 😅..

[@jennyfrancisco741]

Liked by DIVE omg thank you! Looking forward but no pressure 😍

[@MyTaylordCloset]

Harry is giving us the blueprint to be his GF. Go cut your hair, ladies ✂️. Also, I feel like Peniel would be such a chill BF, but like he's so not down for any drama and she has to be real confident, because Peniel does not care he doesn't get jealous.

[@thebradelonge5758]

I think Harry is a jelly (jealous) type too hhaha. Cute!

[@TemDTudo642]

I think Peniel is an amazing person but as a BF maybe this thing like "I don't care" can be a red flag 🚩 Pls don't hate me 🫶🏻

[@autumnight143]

​@TemDTudo642 I think probably he puts things in consideration before dating someone that he trusts her until she breaks that trust. I guess. I cam always be wrong

[@dewifortuna2489]

I really enjoy this episode. And I am sure, putting Ashley and Junny on this episode gonna much funnier. I LOVE THEM SO MUCH

[@ehengm]

The background laugh always gives me family vibes, you’re all DIVE Family indeed🤗

[@4thaluvofjari]

Can we talk abt how good PH-1 LOOKS?!? That hair style & color suits himmm

[@yoshithetiger]

1:37 the disbelief in Harry's face 😭😭😭

[@haruka.h560]

This topic specifically needed Ashley.

[@jlaw518]

Been with my man for 12yrs. If my hubby let's me know ahead and nothing urgent in the family comes up, man's night out is fine. I even encourage ppl to come over to our place once in a while. If you respect your hubby and your man respects you. They are not going to do stupid stuff.

[@hchung155]

We need more pH-1! But we need Ashley in there too, I miss their bickering! Loved this topic though b/c I feel like Peniel, BM, and pH-1 all have different preferences in dating

[@NurulAini-eu4rk]

Peniel I really love your lyrics in BtoB new song. "Dint ignore your pain" That's reality a lot people's ignore they're own pain just to live they're life.

[@Uncensored_Opinions]

The way i ran here after seeing the notification😂

[@sooma-ai]

The hosts discuss long-term relationships, covering topics like trust, personal space, common issues, and how to maintain spark. They answer fan questions about getting close to a partner's family, dealing with jealousy, and navigating differences in cleanliness habits.

[@lover2632]

I don’t know why this whole episode I’ve agreed with Peniel on everything. 😅

[@CS-jr4vi]

Harry’s reaction to Peniel with the girlfriend trip 😭😭 lmfao

[@NativeGirl49]

22:55 😂 I love the thought of getting to know the siblings so I can have a genuine connection with them too. I don’t want to exclude the siblings, since my intention on dating is to get married someday. Marriage to me is bringing families together & making connections with my husband’s family. If I wanted to get to know my boyfriends/husbands past, I’d ask him or if I wanted to see how he was with his siblings, I’d ask him in front of his siblings, so I can hear what they have to say too. If that makes sense.

[@JRiley813]

Personally, I feel like that first year is the time you take to really get to know the person. If you can't accept them flaws and all, then they aren't the one, and you need to move on. Now, there are main things that are unacceptable and are immediate shutdowns like lying, being disrespectful to me & my loved ones...etc

[@iamcerasus]

5:15, we love Hanni's hairstyle, too 💜

[@xotwod_raii]

realll

[@justme.11]

The fart thing... To me it's a sign of immaturity to want to believe your girl doesn't fart. Comfortable and complacent are 2 different things. You should be able to be who you are around your partner. At the same time, remember to put energy into the relationship. When people think of getting comfortable, they think they don't have to put effort into themselves or the relationship anymore.

[@manrolsiak]

this episode is really good, nice to hear their honest opinion also curious how would it be with junny and ash

[@Onnuear]

Peniel is just a chill guy

[@brianahodgson3279]

27:09 You also need to be people who don’t hit below the belt or call each other names. Its good to feel passionate about something that you don’t see eye to eye on but when you insult, call them derogatory names, people don’t get over that really no matter how much you apologize. And don’t start a fight imagining things will lead to passionate love making. That sh!t can be smelled a mile away

[@bruker4230]

Well said

[@caseygobel1227]

How are these 3 adorable dorky guys single!?! Men like them are hard to find!!

[@brightafterrain_]

Are you sure they're single??!

[@caseygobel1227]

@brightafterrain_ they might be for all we know, but that's their business. I'm mainly just assuming they still are, which the number of good men and women who are single is crazy

[@dewifortuna2489]

@@brightafterrain_ They aren't I think

[@Evelynnn56]

@@caseygobel1227they aren’t single. lol .

[@JonasBrotherLuver122]

I assumed they were all taken, but I'm happy if they're happy! ✨ ​@@dewifortuna2489

[@aewenien4774]

It took me way too long to watch this ep! So freaking fun! I always love these episodes where the hosts talk about relationships, especially when Harry is involved😂 I love GET REAL!❤ This show makes me laugh so much, and sometimes even helps with a problem I might have😁

[@ckbrowne9243]

It is key to grow with each other. Understand that sometimes people change. Especially women. Nature does it to us.

[@anastasiaroye1112]

The best morning I’ve ever had Thanks to Dive, all the guests and hosts for such cozy, interesting and funny talks Every time get real feels like home ❤

[@brunopinguim0067]

OMG, Ashley segment, the best, missing her

[@Rachel_NoonaRachel]

Loved this episode. These 3 men are a walking green flag. I love how openly they talk about anything and everything. This episode was so good IJBOL 😭

[@miszpazao]

Haven’t even watched yet but just wanted to say I loveeee Harry!!! 🥰

[@shee6241]

Love this podcast always!! I think a part two of this topic with Ashley and some girlie energy would hit ❤

[@suz-2050]

34:10 ㅇㅈ I agree with matthew. As a girl I think it’ll be best if my bf was to reply and say “I appreciate you reaching out, meeting is a boundary I don’t want to cross both for me and my partner but thank you for realising and sharing your regret with me. With that being said I am happy in my relationship right now, take care. Bye” or smt like that

[@Aye--.--]

I'd love to hear more on this when Ashley and Junny are back.

[@docanj812]

The Bois are baaaaaaack!!!!

[@kei.e]

lmao not Harry just getting annoyed at Peniel throughout this episode 🤣🤣

[@BipolaranticMallory]

My husband and I have been together for 20 years. He’s seen me give birth to both of our girls. Farting is nothing 😂

[@mariavania01]

i get to dive into what guys are actually thinking. its refreshing!

[@mamamememoo]

Who’s in a long term relationship right now? Me with God. Amen Amen Amen Love these guys for not being so authentic and open about their faith.

[@JonasBrotherLuver122]

I agree ❤

[@greece_00]

38:14 DUDE I literally sang "Now I knoooow~" at the same time BM did 💀😂oh god Doyoung I'm so sorry but thank you for that LMAO

[@2pmjonghyunralifetime254]

I love how i feel one of these 3 could be a perfect BF for me depending on their different reactions to situations.... i really be contemplating (as if i have a chance 😂) cz they be giving "that's what i need in a partner" ahhh on different times throughout the ep hhhhhh

[@geekdiggy]

Hearing Harry say he wants a hair twin and knowing how Ashley styles her hair now

[@MyTaylordCloset]

I love Ashley little ad I miss her. And now I want Kbbq.

[@GiuliaCampos-xp9xr]

Peniel takes NO BULLSHIT and im here for it 😂😂😂

[@hlc1453]

Ashley's input could have been valuable on this topic We miss her funny remarks too!

[@minhthuhuynh2028]

Harry’s mindset on this topic is just 😮‍💨🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

[@coffeejelly3985]

i think girls would be okay for a friends' night out if the said friends are trustworthy or we know them. cus intuition is strong about whether or not a person is a good influence. usually some people would ask for picture proofs if they have a bad history, like in the relationship there's a history of lying or cheating etc. normally a person wont ask for too much cos that's also too much of brain space even for the one waiting.

[@MichelleMouldArtist]

I think after 30 plus years of marriage I can safely say that all your worries about passing gas in front of your partner or burping are no biggy and don't affect sexual attraction because in a way it means you are showing that you trust your partner enough to be yourself. Just my POV.

[@mynameisana09]

The open door makes me think of this song: I'ma leave the door open, girl… I'ma leave the door open, hoping.. that you feel the way I feel 🤣

[@jacqueline2121]

fun episode love these 3 and their stories lol ❤

[@minttea4503]

32:48 the most obvious solution is to talk to your child about this, if you have a trusting relationship with them then they'll listen

[@bellabella8677]

U guysss areee sooo great to hear😁 enjoyed the episode to the fullest❤❤❤

[@Eden_001]

Oh wow Ph1 is the first guy ive heard that said he loves short short hair on girls cuz every guy around me hates when girls have those hairstyles🥲

[@ARMY-jc1cx]

I have also heard that story, before I wasn't really scared of them, but after reading that, I got so scared of them...

[@diananguyen8177]

Lmaooooooo the end where they start getting really into snake factoids had me cracking up. It's like when people fall into Reddit holes 🤣

[@pinkywinkyx]

Getting comfortable is a great feeling! Shows we are both just humans and have to fart from time to time. ❤

[@Uvamm3]

I’m so like Peniel in cleaning my house when it’s general cleaning it just make my house messier especially the closet like I would start washing the clothes that’s been in the closet too long midway into cleaning my room 😅 And when I’m done my room is shining shimmering splendidly clean😅 but when I go out there’s a pile clothes and some stuffs that I probably separated to throw,keep, and undecided😅

[@JaszielPotts]

I love this smmmm😭😭 but Ashley, gurl we miss youuu🫶❤‍🔥🙇🏽‍♀

[@isaabbbbbell]

the girl: i’m scared of the snake DD&D: see snakes will eat your baby , ate 2 kids, like yeah we get the scary part 🤣 love them, give them their own show please 😭✋🏽

[@favourakhamiokhor3388]

Peniel been spitting facts on the third fan question

[@Kiramb1999]

I just rewatched an old episode with Harry. Timing is great 😂

[@NativeGirl49]

30:58 I feel like all of us that HAVEN’T become parents or haven’t gotten married yet, we all think the same way. We’re going to be VERY protective of our kids & just as protective of our husband or wife. 😂♥️ With all of that said, I will still say that I’m very excited to have kids one day. Hopefully get married to one person only once. Unless it comes to vow renewals. I am speaking all of this into existence. ♥️🥰

[@thebradelonge5758]

Hello Dive Studios, please bring all 5 hosts on Get Real for this year's Christmas edition. It will be the greatest gift for us Realists/Divers for Christmas 2024! Thank you in advance! ✨🎄💝

[@saraahtwc]

Love how they just got on with it, I didn’t even realise they didn’t even introduce themselves😆

[@brithoman3900]

There is no man I holding my gas in that long for lol. Maybe initial dating stages but not long term! They comfortable or they gone. 😂

[@caterinamelosi377]

Three men and love....what a wonderful ep❤ love you guys! 💅

[@palee6454]

I love this Episode! ❤

[@Aye--.--]

Awnn I wish Ashley was here for this episode~

[@mzrandomness-thatsme]

🤣PH1. Got me laughing the first thing that came out his mouth.

[@Eleanor.Abernathy]

I love how pH-1 always loves to play through these one in a million relationship scenarios 😂😂

[@acchima]

first add that i wanted to be longer! already missing Ashley

[@elleignacio2590]

So smitten w Harry's low buttery voice 😩❤️

[@phinuknyn796]

My fav 3!!!! ❤ still got u too Junny 😂😂

[@Danielle-1124]

"your honor! I am here to spice up my relationship, one moment please. " 😂

[@AybiKaterin]

Btw, i like this podcast with BM here. And BM looks healthier now.

[@user-jg7dp4px7h]

Hoochie Mama is craaaaaaazy work, Harry 🤭🌚

[@iiamandaii]

AGAINST FARTINGGGG LOLLLLLL 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@bettyjai7635]

One of my favorite Get real episodes so far..."Who is you" 😂😂😂. Love you guys, Love Dive Studios❤❤❤

[@NativeGirl49]

19:32 I have to be able to have someone that will make me laugh but also know when to be serious. ♥️ My dad was always making my mom laugh & smile. My uncles do the same with my aunts. I don’t want to settle for anything less or to go through the same thing that my ex’s put me through.

[@NativeGirl49]

6:04 I don’t drink at all. Pretty sure I’ve said this before, if not, I have medication I have to take every day, including getting an IV infusion every 6 months to help my condition that I was diagnosed with about 10 years ago. I will say, I don’t mind if my mans wants to have a drink or two after a long day or he’s celebrating something with friends. Absolutely not an option to get blackout drunk. I’ve dealt with that in my previous relationships, especially my last one. Not going through that again.

[@Perfectstorm25]

I'm so glad I came across your video..its awesome to see guys talking about real things and giving their actual thoughts about the topic..Im definitely checking out more of your content..love you guys together too 😂😂😂

[@Aye--.--]

7:17 same reaction Harry.. samee lol

[@MyTaylordCloset]

I would love to know since all 3 of them have lived in the states and grew up there if they ever dated outside of their race? And there thought about that. If they haven't, would they ever?

[@JonasBrotherLuver122]

I'm wondering this too!

[@Branch_of_youth]

I’m pretty sure Matthew is , openly about it. He had said in a past interviews and whatnot he love Spanish women’s sooo

[@annahmogapi]

Does it really matter, though?

[@lily.97]

@@annahmogapimaybe BC since thy have a lot of foreign fans they wanna see if they have a chance lol I know harry is cool w it even his dad lol

[@moonon.u]

anyone also chanting HARRY HARRY HARRY when they start doing it? 😂

[@JonasBrotherLuver122]

Me everytime 😂🎉

[@lilinarm4090]

Next tour for harry her girl fans r gonna have all short hair 😭

[@forthelegends3536]

would really like to experience as guest in dive studios any host is so fun to talk with hahaha

[@joanamartins9648]

Peniel fits the i'm just a chill guy meme so well

[@stephaniexrenea]

7:23 "can you believe this guy?" 😂😂😂😂

[@I_am_Lauren]

Farting is a green flag in a relationship. I want to be more comfortable with my partner than I am with myself.