Leggings as Outdoor Attire? A Fashion Etiquette Discussion 👗 | GET REAL S4 EP12

[@858kyoko]

Just a suggestion, when the hosts are looking at photos online, can you put the photo on the screen so the audience can see what they’re talking about?

[@lamaabouassaf2154]

Frr

[@Aihg-hv8th]

Yes

[@MonalisaRit]

Yess

[@magda_lena1892]

I'm pretty sure it could get copyrighted

[@eirllyssmeron]

also when someone talking from behind put subs we cant hear what they are saying

[@bheamijares2390]

Why do they all look so fine in this episode 😍

[@andhiniretno3886]

bro junny with white tee, that hair, and tattoo on display looks soo hot

[@jeorginastefnyknower7649]

true........

[@yoongy1]

I know .....

[@moonlight_orange]

oh my god i found my people....

[@sayuriakirayuu7944]

For reaaaaaal, like extremely hot

[@bleust]

the talk about the wedding thing omg i feel like yall should have gotten a whole segment for it lmaoo i laughed so much, actually this whole ep is too funny

[@SyN_B]

Can you mark it up? Unable to find it

[@krizelle.h1701]

​​@@SyN_Bsomewhere around 10 minutes

[@Hasti07rororo]

to the editing team, pls put the images on the screen so we can see them too. ❤❤❤❤

[@fauzianalwoga]

Yes😢

[@SyN_B]

Just imagine a young Kim Jong un with straight up hair 😂

[@Hasti07rororo]

​@@SyN_B OMG no I don't mean that... I mean when they're talking about an image they've been shown.

[@kiwinoona2009]

Not Ashley hella pausing when they asked if they’re invited to her future wedding 😆😆😆

[@veronicalalalala]

Because they told her they going to steal her shine by dressing in white lol she had to think about it.

[@kiwinoona2009]

@@veronicalalalala haha truuu

[@AllisonSisco]

Lol that was hilarious I loved BM and Junny's reactions 😂😂😂

[@hera_pov]

When BM asked ashley what is her fave dress, i immediately answered “with pockets”

[@Kaz-ef1od]

Peniel lookin extra fine this episode

[@soniaoppong2670]

I think so too 😊

[@Myunghao611]

I know right

[@redhidinghood9337]

He always looks so damn fine. Sexy and cute af

[@evaeva77e]

Fr and he makes a buzzcut look good

[@kiwinoona2009]

Agreedddd

[@neoriize]

46:26 Junny’s cheekiness and little brother behaviour towards Ashley here. CUTEE 😂

[@Duh_isnt_it_obvious]

Peniel is the whole package.... Like really funny, cool, dances, songs, knows everything from sports to pets like woa....

[@glorymishra7101]

But like he said...he doesn't know anything about fashion 😂😂

[@magicrinkles]

That surprises me because everytime i see this guy i'm always impressed by what he's wearing. I always thought he had the coolest style@@glorymishra7101😅

[@astha9098]

In India, you wear red as a bride but other than that as a guest you freaking wear any color even the same color as the bride cause you can never outshine an Indian bride wearing all those Jewel and makeup, and heavy fully embroidered wedding gown and white for funeral and black for nothing I guess

[@Justamob_]

Black is pretty inauspicious

[@bevbevbev_]

I'm Nigerian and I will never understand this concept of "dress xyz way so you don't outshine the bride at a wedding". We wear custom made dresses to weddings in any colour the bride wants, including white and no one ever outshines a Nigerian bride.

[@Rjbunnie_]

I mean they are idols and our favourites maybe but they are still Korean American and all four of them are Christian so we can't really expect for them to know about cultural diversity within the weddings bc even their friends, I don't think they have diverse cultural friends. also this may come out as racist but it's the truth koreans and americans are a bit self centered.

[@MinieAnne]

​@@Rjbunnie_ the white dress is not even a Christian thing , if i remember clearly i think a princess or queen one day married in a white dress and it became popular and then became the norm in the west.

[@Tanvir-ts3co]

The way BM is just eating and listening to them talk the entire episode😭😭😭 that would litarily be me😭

[@navi3430]

Lmao me too

[@yjchanie3475]

Lol the way Peniel just literally broke their imagination of him crying on his wedding day by saying he might not have one 😅

[@nks2291]

I think I'm addicted to these 4 people at this point

[@nornajatf]

I'm scared when Ashley asked BM to finish his sentence. 😂😭

[@juanitakirkland]

right....

[@yoongy1]

Whenever i see " wrap-up " i just feel like crying . Like my friends are leaving after having a fun day🙂. In other news, i laughed so much and enjoyed the episode . Also learned the word "Blouson" exists. The cast is looking really really good. Sending much love to everyone ❤️

[@sienna5083]

The wedding segment was hilarious!! Honestly though the best weddings I have attended are backyard weddings, and one where the bride and groom put on an 80s rock concert with their band (best cousins ever!). The backyard weddings were the most fun where one was a potluck, and the other guests brought their favorite alcohol to be used for the open bar, it was so cheap for everyone to do. LOVE this episode

[@jingcc0121]

I love watching this crew. It’s like being with close friends talking real REAL. ❤

[@Mariamcmp]

I think Peniel is that kind of man that won't cry at his wedding. But will cry when he became a father.

[@moonlove4u]

Junny saying "goodbye" to Ashley at 46:26 was just so cute😅

[@Ladesole]

I’ve been to both Indian weddings and Hindu funerals, in which we were requested to wear bright colors - no white or black. I have to say the wedding photos looked stunning as the colors made the photos so full of life and joy! I’ve thought about enforcing a bright color dress code for my wedding for this reason. I also find that giving more instructions on dress code actually makes it easier for the guest.

[@SomewhereinNigeria]

In Nigeria, for funeral its black for a younger person but when an older person dies like 70+ we do celebration of life. Its a party, we dress up for that

[@meligo1685]

And even if the person is not so old there’s like ‘uniform’ kinda

[@okarikeprecious5130]

​@@meligo1685yes uniform Ankaras for family members and others

[@yeahhi3207]

@28:38 Matthew's right, that's how you pronounce pomade in English

[@cameo403]

America in general is very lax with what people wear. When I have visited there, people have been at the mall in pyjamas.

[@EmelyPhan]

Walking in slippers to public spaces

[@AGULL]

I love that too. People in Turkey dress like they go to a wedding, too lux. Im happy here in the NL we dont care thst much either

[@malihakarim1696]

Or more like just bad fashion sense

[@LotsOfLove4Music]

speaking as an american, yeah americans can be super lax about fashion lol but i think metropolitan/city areas tend to have more people who "dress up" or care more about what they wear compared to more rural/less populated areas

[@yoakleoakle]

@@LotsOfLove4Music as an american who is from a rural area im fine going to the gas station or work i work as acook so im never seen by the public in leggings but if im gonna go to a real store or to the city i "dress up" by wearing a blouse and jeans

[@sozayas]

Maxi dresses are super comfy. I wear them every summer.

[@easternpacific2634]

Ashley was so point on the best outfit for a man in the beach 😂that’s what I was thinking the same too

[@chains1436]

My cozy podcast, this changed timing and so more than 2 weeks 😭😭😭😭

[@kxatae4833]

All ready excited for this wedding with everyone . It’s about to get REAL 🔥 please vlog it

[@sky_s3932]

"I've been waiting for this to be uploaded 😭, and it's finally here!" Thank you dive studio and my mood makers❤ comfort place❤ #getreal

[@tenywajimowen1002]

Ashley is busy fantasizing about her wedding upon the question. HAHAHAHAHAHA the facial expression I see it right there.

[@studylog10]

멜로디인데 이런 방송도 재밌네요! 프니엘님의 다른 모습도 볼 수 있고 특히 에슐리님 진행하는게 너무 멋있어요~~ I am korean melody, and this kind of thing is soo fun! It is good to study english too😂

[@bintarchetype]

Many restaurants in the States don't allow casual attire such as open-toe shoes and shorts. It's actually quite common for higher-end spots.

[@britneyisallyouneedtoknow2406]

I don't know too much about Korean weddings but I have seen some pictures from celebrities' weddings and I was surprised that there were older guys who showed in like jeans and a cardigan. They seem to just show up to drop off money and take that group picture. So it's not even formal/casual for some. And how does that even work? Like how is your relation to the marrying couple defined that you choose jeans & sweater vs dress pants & shirt vs suit & tie?

[@akavinhho]

Not BM snacking in every shot😎

[@evaeva77e]

At first I even forgot that he was there because he wasn't talking, just eating 😄

[@SomewhereinNigeria]

I cannot imagine dressing casual to a wedding in Nigeria. It just screams you were not invited. We all go all out with the makeup and attire

[@meligo1685]

Exactly like if you’re casual you’re embarrassed of yourself you have to go all out And it’s so funny when people are bothered about out dressing the couple that can’t happen ever

[@SomewhereinNigeria]

@meligo1685 you can never outshine a Nigerian bride.

[@meligo1685]

@@SomewhereinNigeria never

[@hameedaubaidullah4573]

Oooo! 2:14 ! There’s something called “ idam porul eval” which is similar. Translates to place, objective, situation. It’s implied for dressing talking and everything concerning a situation

[@Anonymous-oc8dt]

Can y’all insert the pictures of what the hosts are talking about in future episodes? Like for this episode towards the end they were talking about specific outfits but we have no idea what they’re talking about. Thanks 🙏

[@sehlahalabi5205]

Same

[@aimee_11101]

Bm doing asmr the whole episode is so real omfg 😂😂❤

[@wulanayu5925]

Omg even the funeral talk is funny, seriously guys, i'm addicted listening to you

[@SpikedPinapple]

Emo aesthetic Ashley is 🔥🔥🔥

[@kathyvi7217]

That’s true, having the destination wedding is worth it. I’m having my wedding in Hawaii and it’s so much cheaper and more inmate with close friends and family!

[@AstarionWifey]

Hawaii ain’t cheap huh??? 😂😂😂

[@terrieBTSOT7]

I love the 4 of you together!!!!!

[@alicemon7602]

Ashley's style in this podcast is unique. It suits her really well. "Dalla"

[@annabelletsai2804]

My aunt actually had the exact same wedding as the one Ashley imagined! By the beach, with dj, dance floor, and in Hawaii😆 It's the best one

[@demaweema]

with booz?

[@yook_sasha]

Omg... junior BM was so cute 🥹 btw amazing glow up! 😊👍

[@valeriefry6380]

There are so many themed weddings in Australia 🇦🇺 I seen Gothic, Outback, Hot Air Balloon, 20's era, Tongan with traditional gear, and Celtic hand fasting, fantasy and full Scotish national clan outfits. I'm 70 and I've requested that they wear colours at my funeral.

[@valeriefry6380]

Are swim trunks board shorts or are they swimmers like the swim athletes wear "Speedos" (which we call budgie smugglers)😂!

[@wulanayu5925]

the discussion of Ashley's wedding is making me laugh! LOL

[@Cocozfinest]

Everyone looking hella good this episode. 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@lily.97]

The bra straps were definitely a Cali thing too especially with hollister stuff 😂😂

[@hopewithad1551]

I couldn't help but look at Peniel the whole episode than man is fiiiiiiiine ❤‍🔥

[@edenmorales1820]

He was the most handsome during their fancon too. Like his skin was literally glowing

[@KPOPSTANSINCE09]

BM is digging those chips lol

[@evaeva77e]

Aren't they recording a few videos for advance? Because their outfits are similar. He must have been hungry 😄

[@peace5300]

watching this podcast made me feel like i was hanging out with them❤

[@anishasoreng407]

These 4 are my favorite host

[@LAartist2015]

Actually in the US proper golf attire is required depending on whether it’s a private club or public course. Public golf courses don’t care but private golf courses you have to wear the proper attire. Also, wearing white in a wedding is not ok. You have to wear the proper attire on weddings especially if the invitation asked for it. It also depends on when the wedding is happening seasons and time of day. You can’t wear white after summer (Labor Day) is over especially in the south. A sexy beach attire for men is a loose linen pants and tank top with a panama hat. Business casual and semi-formal are not the same. Business casual doesn’t require a tie or a suit jacket for men but semi-formal does and also depending on the occasion. For women semi-formal is a lot dressier than business casual. There are many protocols on attire depending on the occasion. Nice content.

[@rewa118]

Ashley's face 21:57 😂😂😂😂 and why does junny look extra fine in this episode!

[@miriammorales3338]

The sibling energy they give off

[@Quincey-gb3df]

I'm excited to laugh and to watch

[@shivanti]

1000% recommend picking up a snack everytime BM picks up a snack

[@amani.nausan]

Okay but WHY AM I SOOO OBSESSES WITH BM ??? 😮 Enjoyed the podcast tho- lived everything about it.. especially Mathew🥹

[@hamm0816]

Real flowers at weddings make the photos look so much better.

[@ygfambam4182]

Here in the Philippines, we wear either black or white during funerals

[@neoriize]

Junny’s getting hotter and hotter damn

[@blackangel7834]

Now I wanna get casted to this show.. Those facts I wish I can share some 😂😂

[@tenywajimowen1002]

Ashley reacting to a friend putting on white on her wedding day is going to be a short😅😅

[@Eleazar888]

@10:34. Definitely recomend you majestic resorts punta cana. They specialize in beach weddings and even an entire hotelnis dedicated for honey moons. So good luck. And its affordable. You may spend more on the plane than in the whole wedding package.

[@brittanym9266]

Not me putting on leggings to wear for the day while watching this…

[@mandie492]

So the wedding thing is actually really funny. I wore a red and black wedding gown with a black cape, and somehow my cousin wore an almost IDENTICAL dress. I wasn't bothered by it (she felt so bad) but the way our lives are beginning to look similar is hilarious to me.

[@fauzianalwoga]

😢😅

[@mandie492]

@@fauzianalwoga I thought it was funny honestly, I wish I'd gotten a photo. We both have an alternative style and we're both heavier white women married to Asian men, so I think photos would be really funny

[@fauzianalwoga]

​@@mandie492it's really funny 😅

[@kittypot888]

BM : i dont even think girls need make up anywhere Love all of this dive guys

[@nappylappy]

My brain is fried fromThat quiz 😂 you guys are an amusing bunch 🌸

[@lusilalulu2686]

In Middle Eastern places i think its ok to wear white cuz u will prolly never outshine the bride no matter what u do The more u dress up the more respect u r showing to the couple

[@AstarionWifey]

I like that more cause the whole event alone is a celebration so why not go ham on your fits 🎉

[@_briceysworld]

Ashley is right about white tie being the most "fancy". It's like going to a royal event rather than like a black tie gala.

[@Summery_June]

Ashley I definitely remember the bra strap headband days. 🤣🤣

[@PipEater]

I love how BM is just snacking the whole video😭

[@고구마0099]

Omg I relate so much with Ashley I cry so much at weddings even in like movies or shows

[@tenywajimowen1002]

I think that issue of parents telling you to invite so many people kinda applies in the African culture especially where I come from. Much Love from Uganda in East Africa.

[@fauzianalwoga]

Hi fellow Ugandan 😅❤

[@FrazzledDudett]

Wearing white is not universal. In South Asian and Arab weddings, because textiles, fashion and jewellry are such a massive part of our culture, the bigger the event the more dressed up we get. So at a wedding, if you wear something plain to try and not "outshine the bride", it is extremely disrespectful. As if their wedding is not important or thinking they could outshine the bride if they wore something pretty. The bride is the bride and always the center of attention, and everyone is there to celebrate her and the groom.

[@ayo_sel2633]

i loved this episode! ♥ There are so many parts I enjoyed. You guys never fail to make me laugh! Please Dive Studio make a compilation video of just Ashley being judgy with her face. It`s so much fun 🤣 The way she was like "the airy ones, that blow in the wind" And BM be like "yeah and you see the body silhouette, while it flies away" Ashleys just: 😳and then waved him off🙄😂 Also how about inviting like fans of the show as guests? Would be so cool to chat with you 😊

[@beeee-bw2kh]

Yo It would be so freaking good if the episode cameout on weekly basis Like I waited 20 days for this episode 😢

[@bellabella8677]

I love hearing them soo much😭😭😭😭 they're so wholesome❤❤❤ why i don’t hav friends like these guys

[@ciara2892]

The black funeral veil is called a mourning fascinator where I’m from, and I wore one to my father’s funeral when I was 22. (There’s a backstory behind why but it’s too long to share here!)

[@hera_pov]

This is just a whole ep of them dissecting ashley’s preferences

[@hera_pov]

From wedding attire to ashley’s dream wedding hhahaahha

[@wiwiulfairah9097]

Peniel look gorgeous in this eipisode😊

[@user_whatdoesitmatter]

I just like these guys. They're just nice😁

[@sammygurl637]

Listening and Seeing my Mans Matthew eating 😌 Fill up the Chips 😆

[@aminakipkeeva7646]

Love u guys❤️ thanks for another episode ❤️

[@jerricarabbit]

The whole wedding segment. I'm actually getting married in January, so I feel for it. And funny enough, my fiance and I said that if anyone asked us "am I invited?" we'd remove them from the guest list lol.

[@HazellynNJ]

Yeah those funeral hat makes you look elegant

[@aidanaabitkanova1341]

I love this sound of little ASMR of them eating 🥰😅

[@Eden_001]

in Malaysia, for malays, we wear our traditional clothings or something appropriate with the colour of choice from the couple who also wears the same colour!

[@violet4481]

I'm a muslim so we dont have a dress code for weddings or funerals as long as what u wear is nice and preppy for weddings, and simple for funerals. The regional culture prefers a red bridal outfit, but lately it's changed and people were whatever color they want, as they should. Here in USA though, I have friends who have been traditional white-dress brides, but also those that do their own thing and wear different colors. I think you should express yourself on your day, if following tradition then great, if not, that's great too. But i dont wanna have a wedding, id rather travel.

[@QuokkasWorldd]

My second grade teacher and my elementary school music teacher got engaged while I was in elementary. All the students shipped them and then the ship became true lol

[@olvolvn]

Peniel, BM, and Junny don’t even think that girls need to wear makeup anywhere, natural beauty ftw. Green flag guys alert⚠️💕💚

[@discotechx]

Why is this episode so funny????? Hahahahah

[@sanchitabardhan8494]

Do they post like behind the scenes pictures They all look dayummmmmm fineeeeeee🤧🦋

[@babalwemathatha2735]

6:39 that is true because if your very close to the family as BM said you'd probably be taking pictures with them so 😑you don't want to look weird and not matching on other peoples wedding pictures

[@Bobobi-07]

Laughed my ass off today's episode was so fun . I truly hope to see more episodes with you guys ❤❤

[@ckbrowne9243]

For my older sister's funeral, I wore red. I wanted to celebrate her life and the joy she brought to everyone rather then mourn.

[@taesiepjw5668]

BM: G-Strings!!! Peniel: I agree!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Justamob_]

We went from one week feels too long to please make it a weekly episode again