Living with NO RAGRETS ft. Bernard Park | Get Real S2 Ep. #17

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[@excited3134]

Living with no REGRETS, isn't it?

[@jinnie_95]

One time, i had an argument with my friend over our own faith/religion standard because of some silly video... It was in our friends group chat, we are a friend circle of 4. Later, i regret it soo much... Though i think i m right in my own way, i regret that i had a fight with her for something like that..... We all had our own path , and it was wrong of me to try and push her to my own standard of faith... (We're both Christians) So, i later apologize to her in private, after that i think she habe a little bit of respect for me🤭and our relationship is even better...

[@Make_It_Ro]

ph-1: “I didn’t want to sing, I’m not a singer.” Also ph-1: *appears on masked singer with a great voice*

[@humblepebble]

Oh yessssss.

[@callfrommountaintop]

oh my god didn't know he went to masked singer

[@novillahnugraha2881]

So the show that he mentioned in 2:50 was a masked singer?

[@humblepebble]

@@novillahnugraha2881 nope, that's a different show. The Masked Singer was just this year. Here's the link, enjoy! kzbin.info/www/bejne/iWOpZJufapV9fNU

[@novillahnugraha2881]

@@humblepebble ah I see thx for the info😊

[@nataligil2003]

The way Harry is surprised at the end about how Peniel's relationship is with his ex-partners is hilarious. also harry's facial expressions haha. They are both so different and it is interesting to see how they think about this couple topic.

[@navi3430]

Harry's facial expressions had me dying 😂😂

[@oooov1920]

Timestamp?

[@swaggymcjaggy]

i love how harry actually laughs so much at things ashley says/does when in an earlier podcast they all said they thought ashley wasn’t funny😂

[@navi3430]

Right!

[@exoredteen2490]

The chemistry between these 2!!!

[@MyFaceToo]

I legit hope they date

[@reshneetabanag6216]

Omg guyss, I'm all with you in these comments- they look good together🥺😅🤭

[@olugboyeopeyemi2428]

@@reshneetabanag6216 really 👀🤣

[@bepu27]

*Ashley:* pretends that c'est la vie doesn't exist. *Harry:* innocently (?) reads it out loud *Peniel:* you ain't slick!

[@jl4519]

Their personalities are very different !!! But the chemistry among the three of them is sooooo good!!!!

[@ngeowngeow]

@@jl4519 exactlyyy hahahaha

[@viviando1386]

“I mean, I just got out of the army”. Mans is too funny 💀💀 I love Bernard

[@deekshasharma8859]

Ash- *skips a word* PH1- *saves her the embarrassment*/ *makes it a casual thing* Peniel- SO YDK HOW TO PRONOUNCE THAT WORD HUH?!!! LMAO

[@nicole5426]

I'm an INTP too and totally get Bernard when he said we don't talk much unless we're into the topic. I find that if I don't know enough about a certain topic, I would avoid speaking too much to reduce opportunities to regret what i've said. (if that makes sense!)

[@hannahg2945]

this happens to me all the time i’m INFP but everytime someone talks to me that i’m not very close with i always lose the opportunity to say things i’m very passionate about and i always regret it later.

[@hongit350]

Same INTP here, I lose all energy on topic I'm not interested in. (shout out to the world: I'm not mean, we just don't match

[@leilani2258]

Saaame here. Most of my regrets are not being as social as I wish I was in certain situations.

[@rainbows5232]

same, intp as well. nice to see more people like that exist lol

[@veritush]

"well, I just got out of the army" HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA I choked on my water ahhahahaha I mean, there are some people that really play with your hormones. bad influence is such a good song. I can't get it out of my head

[@Dowoon_is_a_drum]

Off topic but I love Harry's knitted sweater (I'm not sure if that's the right word), actually his whole outfit is so cool.

[@iyuu9431]

same omg ikr!! what a fashion icon hahah

[@callfrommountaintop]

i want one:( but the shoe mark on the jeans tho from afar looks hella real lol

[@tonikinsella]

The first thing I thought 😂

[@aastha1753]

Theres a similar one in zara(not exactly same)...

[@tonikinsella]

It's from jaded london, I asked him

[@humblepebble]

35:19 had me LOLING even when I heard it on Spotify, but seeing their facial expressions now is so extra 🤣... Ashley, don't worry, we all got moments like that hahaha! You'll know you're in a company of good friends when they laughed at you like that. Peniel and Ash is definitely super close at this point, in a bun-smacking and c'est la vie kinda way. 😂

[@shea4239]

39:35 that argument between thinkers and feelers says a lot haha

[@shasisstuff]

it's Harry reflecting on Peniel's whole personality 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@MAng-sh2zl]

seriously 😂😂😂

[@aastha1753]

Istg 😂😂💀

[@emydeer4913]

To Ashley's defence, French is really a difficult language. So many silent letters... I really appreciated Bernard's vibe and I think he had a good chemistry with the hosts

[@kenzdomyuji8387]

I'm so glad i took it when i was really young i would HATE to study it now that I'm older it would be so annoying hhhh

[@wendybonilla2682]

Péniel, “Yeah, well grow up.” I love their friendship.

[@shasisstuff]

would love to have Bernard back at the podcast

[@callfrommountaintop]

bernard really balances the team lol can we have him again next time

[@aneisap7517]

Bernard was a chill vibe dude... I relate... Peniel I'm proud of his maturity and his openess to everyone.

[@margarete5920]

Why does it felt like Peniel is a different breed when it comes to relationship loll

[@pragatisinha2404]

pls ikr

[@neoriize]

Bernard and Peniel have such different humour we can just see it 😂 He's not even cracking a smile at Peniel's jokes I'm dead

[@AA-ph9hn]

This ep is especially good, maybe because Bernard have similar vibe with hosts

[@Idkwhattocallmyselfonhere]

Peniel spoke so much in this episode and this made my Friday!! His one liners and his stories are so cool and he is so hilarious 🥳🥳🥳🥳💙💙💙

[@aimidesu235]

I feel like this particular podcast emphasizes the difference between feeling and thinking type of people

[@Dowoon_is_a_drum]

My favorite time of the whole week is when I get the notification of the new episode of 'Get Real' 💚

[@wt5574]

Me too!! 😊 Btw I always see you commenting on dive studios KZbin videos and I love it haha

[@Dowoon_is_a_drum]

@@wt5574 lol, thank U, I can say I'm a Dive Studio enthusiast 💚😁

[@kardnews981]

sameeee

[@nastyalitvinova2784]

when I say I DIED laughing at "well, I just got out of the army" omg I had to pause to ca;m down! Bernard has such a nice vibe to him, it was my first time seeing him so I will def check out his stuff The episode came out so wholesome and funny, thank you guys! It's like my ritual already - I usually turn on a podcast while I'm cooking so thanks for keeping me a company -love from Russia

[@ЕкатеринаЕремеева-п3ь]

ААААААА!!!!!! Как приятно видеть земляков!❤️‍🩹

[@usandyouyouandwebtobandmelody]

"Later on when you get married friends are done" - Harry " Keep your friendship like every once in a while+ if you want to keep your sanity" - Peniel "your spouse can't give you that satisfaction" - Ashley This is true. When my close friends got married, we could only see each other during their kids bdays or sometimes not bc one or two is living far from one another. I had missed the days where we goes out and have fun when everyone was still single. But glad we still do communicate through group chats, like we talk about family things, advice, etc. And two of my friends are like planning to marry their kids when they grow up lol..

[@TigerrrLily]

Bernard “You took Latin?” Ph-1 “yeah I did” Bernard “why?” Ph-1 “….I don’t know” 😅😅😅 I SWEAR! Ph-1 you have me dying 😂 RELATABLE KING 👑

[@thobsss]

Ashley is so precious and cute in this. She looks happy, she's laughing so much I love it😭

[@purplequokka]

God! I can't be the only one who's so *whipped* for Harry!!! Him laughing @35:26??? I'm ready to risk it all for this man!!!

[@w.motherdann]

The epicicity of this epic podcast is on a whole other level of epicness

[@mumuvincai5107]

Imagine jessi on get real🤩 it would be a bombastic💥

[@chocolatos1003]

Don't mind me please 6:38 Peniel and Harry imitating Otter 🦦 9:10 11:16 13:06 17:03 25:02 30:01 20:24 32:39 pH-1 stumbling + Ashley Hyori jacket story 36:13 latin 37:06 38:15 "cuz ur a human" "aaw 🥺"

[@dementedchris]

Harry at 27:17 is me stopping myself before I regret anything

[@luro2122]

I was literally scrolling searching for this comment. It wasnt just me.

[@rayannetirza9432]

Lol why does he look so guilty?

[@Sophya7]

He almost put his arm behind ashley but then stopped himself and played it off lmao

[@LotsOfLove4Music]

damn i wish i had peniel’s mindset, he’s so carefree LOL

[@oh.themoon]

Ashley is extra cute in this episode hehe. I always LOL at the No Ragrets tattoo. Especially the "Really? Not even a single letter?" part 😁

[@reshneetabanag6216]

32:52 i perfectly get Harry here. When you were really asocial yet you want to connect to a new friend because she/he interests you but you just don't knew how to initiate the right conversation that you end up saying unnecessary things. Later you'll realize that you shouldn't have brought those things just because you wanted to kill awkwardness or just for the sake of initiating first a connection.

[@tuesday6928]

i remember bernard from his ost for more than friends and literally that's my go to song every day and i didn't even knew i was listening to him all these months🖤🖤🖤 loveeeeee his voice

[@imnaeo]

That simultaneously "you were?!" @2:51 is so funnyyy

[@keishaelyoni]

Them debating over regret and sorry is honestly so fun to watch for analysis of personalities hehe

[@callfrommountaintop]

harry: are you a shooter? peniel: or a regreter? 3:57 harry's glance lol

[@annyang4527]

Ashley and Peniel’s: ‘YOU WERE???’ And then Bernard: ‘you were.¿’

[@samira7164]

50:12 pls the way Ashley said "wow" im actually dying 😭😭

[@iheartu121]

Bernard's sweater makes him look like a floating head

[@nurulsyafiqah6295]

like professor snape 😭

[@rayannetirza9432]

Thank God it wasn't just me!!!!!!! Loool

[@thaoa16]

I was looking for this comment!! Lol. No neck at all 😂

[@camila_hey]

25:37 Harry's reaction is everything

[@hhhajar9299]

ashley looks extra pretty in this episode!!!!! 😍😍😍

[@gnuoyawh]

bernard has a main character voice. his voice sounds very soothing and charismatic. it also helps he’s a charming guy 😄

[@MAng-sh2zl]

I didn't know about Bernard but I had a very nice time watching this episode so I'm happier now. Definitely I'm going to look for his stuff!

[@seulliie]

I love this trio of hosts so much. Need this trio for more than a few eps 🥺🥺

[@bel6611]

49:12 I relate so much to Peniel. I'm ok giving and asking exes for advice *if* we ended the relationship on good terms and their ok with it too. If it was a long-term relationship we probably know each other so well that we may be the best people to give honest opinions and advices for each other, specially if they're sincere and straightforward as Peniel seems to be. Personally I also find easier to listen to someone I had shared love and affection with.

[@sm0rses]

Ayeee Bernard!! I love his chill vibe and personality, which I only got to know of during the blame promos where he appeared in jae’s vid(?). Otherwise, the only thing I knew about him before that was how he was my fav in the 6, 8, 12 performance. So I knew this was going to be a great episode, and yep, this bunch was a good one!

[@bepu27]

"That smells like fart". 💨 Peniel and his savageness lol

[@aliz0141]

Another fun ep as always! Bernard seems like a really chill guy, hope to see him on again in the future

[@hanahime5734]

38:15 Ashley : awwww Peniel: Σ('◉⌓◉’)???!?!?????!!!! why are we suddenly having a friendship bubble moment?????????

[@mgnrvnn4199]

This episode was so funny 😂 I wouldn't mind Bernard as a guest more times 🤭

[@jordz.feiiii]

Peniel: i give my exes like relationship consultation sometimes Ph-1: that's kinda weird man. LOL ladies i think we need Peniel 😅

[@auroratorito]

The best moment of the week. Thank you for make me so happy Get Real and Dive studios family. Love from México 🇲🇽💚

[@yok-yokquintana2325]

WE LOVE YOU BERNARD PARK !!! :)

[@Danventures]

3 EPISODES IN AND THEY STILL ROASTING ASHLEY FOR NOT LIKING PICKLES HAHAHAHAHA I'M GAGGING--

[@gimmeasalad]

Peniel's healthy relationship with his exes is so precious.

[@marybyju2880]

harry's voice is sooooo soothing and he looks very finee.

[@kanishkagoel22]

For me, I feel like bernard left such a strong goooood impression on me that i kinda hope for him to appear again, if not host, definitely. Similar to what happened with harry ig

[@Ashe-kv1lj]

Luv this show..keep going..Missing Big Matt..(BM)

[@AstarionWifey]

Harry please don’t ever leave us ❤️

[@Army13_06]

Ashley's style is dope

[@ivak8988]

Peniel really shot hard at Ash ! Cest la vieeeeeeee...🤣😂🤣😂

[@mapszorin8511]

Bernard looks like a long lost cousin from a foreign country who got introduced to his cousins after years and dint get their jokes yet in 35:31

[@hira8847]

he was just like 😅😅😅

[@MyTaylordCloset]

I love you guys. This really help brighten my day I've had a stressful week and this was a need escape. I laughed so much . Love Bernard he's so talented and luv his new song.

[@iamaquokka]

Harry’s fashion sense is amazing 🥰 I need his sweater!

[@mi.yan_]

best podcast handsdown, I enjoy listening to every episode so much 😩❤️

[@beenishhaider6308]

Love this trio. Peniel I want to be friends with you to bring some calm in my life. Ashley you look soooo beautiful today. And pH1 ❤️❤️❤️

[@Buttercup8598]

Ashley at 10:30😂😂😂😂 she's so animated I love her

[@luvvvv124]

Just listened to Benards song and I’m OBSESSED !! super seggsy vibes 😯

[@DeliaX]

45:29 harry is just an angel

[@jule12ify]

Ohhh Bernard I love him!! He’s soo cool/cute 😍🤗 i remember him from Kpopstar3 such a great talent hope JYP utilize it well.

[@tasha9047]

ashley talkin bout lee hyori jacket is so funnyyyyy

[@tua9668]

Tbh I don’t think it’s weird that Peniel gives relationship advice to his exes. Like he said, he sees them as friends. Just because it’s not a normal thing that occurs between exes doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. And maybe his exes must really trust the guy because that’s the only other best possible reason for them to ask Peniel. If I had an ex, I feel like I’m the type of person who can’t move forward if I don’t end a relationship in good terms (meaning I’ll probably stay friends with an ex too). Not necessarily the keep in touch all the time friends but more like if they come asking for help on anything, I’ll gladly help. I feel like Peniel isn’t a yes person, which is why he asks a lot of What if questions to give the other person the benefit of the doubt. Thus, he really gives off an unbiased perspective and that’s literally a ✅ for a relationship advice.

[@kolenwu4850]

I didn’t know Bernard before this ep, but he is so nice! Idk like he doesn’t talk too much, but when he talks it’s already interesting… Thanks for nice guest)

[@rayannetirza9432]

This episode was great!!! I had so much fun with Bernard, bring him back asap!! Peniel being super chill, Ashley was so carefree here 🤗 and Harry obviously iconic with his reactions, he's sooo Korean when it comes to relationships lol also, you ought to give friendship more value, harry!!

[@mihri.]

Bernard is so niceee. I want him here again and his music is so good

[@jenniferflores6794]

I love love love Harry being host, thank you DIVE!

[@mysweetheonie]

I'm happy to finally figure who Bernard is as a person and not just an artist!!

[@greynana]

Peniel's personality is really kind and forgiving. I couldn't give relationship consultation without thinking there's an ulterior meaning behind the concern, bear in mind i am the INTP human robot type too. My respects one again, Peniel! You're awesome

[@joonie5107]

I honestly don’t get why someone would go to their ex for relationship advice. If you guys broke up it’s because your way of being/ thinking clashed and you guys weren’t able to meet ends so then why would you ask them for their opinion on a relationship if that’s probably the same reason why y’all broke up, because of the different opinions? Anyway really enjoyed the episode, I love the fact that Harry is finally a host and I’ve been enjoying every episode. Like seriously as soon as Friday comes I just can’t wait to go home and keep up with the podcast. Much love to the dive team and the wonderful hosts 💚.

[@ariesa9751]

Sometimes it's just a distance thing or right person wrong time.

[@janicebolosan119]

My kids teachers, we all kept in touch because we all lived close by!!! Then we had friends outside the school, they knew each other too!😊

[@sanyukta2942]

Bernard's a super cool guy. Thanks for another amazing guest get real

[@kardnews981]

Every episode of get real is so beautiful

[@melody1743]

these 4 are so fun to watch

[@melange1044]

Harry is the king 👑 of colorful cardigans/sweatshirts! He pulls it off so well 🤌🤍

[@Clairesinha]

I am French and Ashley's pronunciation of "c'est la vie" is super great!

[@sammygurl637]

I keep in touch with my 6th grade teacher and one of my college professors through FB.. its nice that they still give advice and cheer me on in life ♡♡♡

[@helloire6843]

I looove this episode! Please invite Bernard more to the show!

[@jorgelinasjourney]

30:33 "well..then grow up" - damn Peniel! (i'm a picky eater but I really like pickles // 35:23 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 c'est la vie!

[@jannyc3903]

Peniel is just a different breed bro he’s not here he’s beyond

[@ilyysj505]

Peniel is so straightforward 😂😂😂😂😂 My boy 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@DOESITENDD]

It's Peniel , anyone would want him around 😆

[@hira8847]

I kept on replaying their reactions on the videos, most esp harry's. Omg 😂

[@hongit350]

Good for hosts and guest this ep!! Btw, hopefully seeing Ailee someday plz plz

[@antihero22]

Okay but Bernards cheekbones are immaculate!

[@moonlight-gt1ej]

This episode was so much fun!

[@navi3430]

Everyone freaking out about the otters is so funny 😂😂