I don't have any children yet, but I like watching Judge Toler's videos because she gives such good advice as a young sista in her 20s I listen to her!
@jncuttie6 жыл бұрын
Dominique i am 31 this month and no kids. My husband and I got married, moved into together and no kids until I am done with my doctorate and we are ready. And we know how to prevent them and take the precautions to not have them. It is possible to not have children and prevent them. I followed her advice to a T! And it has worked for a very long time for him and I. She is not wrong in her preaching.
@lmsatafb6 жыл бұрын
You're ahead of the game!
@wonderfullymade10866 жыл бұрын
He still cheating
@sademorris24335 жыл бұрын
yes! im 22 and was on a break with my girl, i watched so much divorce court in between that time that i came back into the relationship a whole new person and loving her right lol
@baderinwa15 жыл бұрын
Good for you ! Youth is a time for education, exploration, and simply enjoying like. I am in my sixties and both of my sons are grown, single, no children and have college degrees. I love the single life. I have traveled to every continent except Antarctica . I have skydived, paraglided over the Himalayas , hot air ballooned over the Valley of the Kings in Egypt , snorkeled in the South Islands of the Galapagos , Iceland and the Great Barrier Reef in Cairns , Australia and done so much more. I also take classes occasionally in subjects that enhance my understanding of the Universe, such as Astronomy, Anthropology, Geology, and Philosophy. I have recently signed up for classes to learn how to weave baskets and learn floral design. The opportunities to grow and learn are too many to enumerate.
@valerialanegra95677 жыл бұрын
Flirting is only cute when you're single. Once you're in a relationship, you have to change your single ways. But I think they can solve their problems & I love them together 💯
@troy0282 жыл бұрын
Do you not see this girl? She ugly n fat. Fat n ugly girls get cheated on.
@baderinwa15 жыл бұрын
Judge Toler and Iyanla Vanzant are two rare jewels in our community.
@ghaisredmon11623 жыл бұрын
Judge mathis
@kkv61243 жыл бұрын
And now Kevin Samuels.
@theseeker47002 жыл бұрын
@@kkv6124 who? lol no
@kkv61242 жыл бұрын
@@theseeker4700 😆 🤣
@ddnquestion17 жыл бұрын
He talk a good game but truth be told he ain't quite ready to give up his playa playa card just yet real recognizing real!
@teresaj.41037 жыл бұрын
Dwahn Denson I think you may be right.
@MegaZedlav6 жыл бұрын
Dwahn Denson What it really is you don't give up the card you give up the game! When a doctor retires he still a doctor he just doesn't practice medicine anymore. Ya dig!
@gidgethrobowski38606 жыл бұрын
Dwahn Denson Thank you for peeping game.
@gidgethrobowski38606 жыл бұрын
Furious Styles That doesn't make one bit of sense.
@nikitathomas96645 жыл бұрын
Did you give up your playa ways yet?😬😬😬😬
@teresaj.41037 жыл бұрын
He needs to stop communicating with other women and value what he has at home. She needs to stop bringing up the past. If they do that it will work out fine
@NellieKAdaba7 жыл бұрын
Hopefully
@gina99856 жыл бұрын
we got that part judge lynn
@TT-th1gb4 жыл бұрын
Very true Teresa J if only all were mature enough to listen
@beeautifuldreamer22114 жыл бұрын
You can't stop talking about a past if it is still on going 🤷🏾♀️
@troy0282 жыл бұрын
How can you value something that's overweight and lazy? That's not valuable. She has no value except to be used.
@yolanda49667 жыл бұрын
The money aint mad, it's just upset?? 😹😂😂💀
@memorycard.7 жыл бұрын
i loved that! lol
@sharronreid2946 жыл бұрын
Yolanda Vos I love that
@lisareid33364 жыл бұрын
Was a good one
@JasmineJabberwockee7 жыл бұрын
"It ain't mad, but it's upset" 😂
@byalexisrenee97627 жыл бұрын
They gotta be from New Orleans. "basically"😭
@caracolcaracolito62796 жыл бұрын
alexis coles What's wrong with New Orleans since you put that crying 😢 face after the town mentioned above...😉
@deborahhouston13026 жыл бұрын
alexis coles was g
@bribri07867 жыл бұрын
She is so adorable 🤗!! They're a cute couple though...
@MartianBlues117 жыл бұрын
Britt Brat They are very cute
@memberberries20037 жыл бұрын
nah she needs someone smart, who respects her and treats her right
@eluvshesaid84693 жыл бұрын
They really are
@MsBizzyRae2 жыл бұрын
I agree! They are.
@Leaux.Behold7 жыл бұрын
He wants a casual wife. He wants to be able to still act single and not committal and take peeks elsewhere.
@MartianBlues117 жыл бұрын
Style at Five He should definitely dial back the "flirting." I doubt he'd like her flirting with men over the phone. Just because you don't sleep with other people doesn't mean that the flirting behavior is acceptable.
@Leaux.Behold7 жыл бұрын
exactly, he has a slick wanderer vibe to him and he gets away with it because "technically" he isn't doing anything
@proudmommytoowenandmilo22947 жыл бұрын
I know guys like this....they think cheating is strictly sexual contact but it's not. The emotional cheating or wandering, whatever people like to call it, is not helping her insecurity. They seem sweet though. Some adjustments and I think they could make it! Best of luck to them!
@kimberlywhitehead225 жыл бұрын
He wants to faithful, devoted and loving wife, he wants to be a single husband.
@Leaux.Behold7 жыл бұрын
She is gorgeous!!
@baderinwa15 жыл бұрын
88 Lovely couple.
@itsallgoodz14 жыл бұрын
She is overweight
@raqui1744 жыл бұрын
Wayne Brady 2 your point and.. she’s still cute
@sjont4 жыл бұрын
@@itsallgoodz1 fucking idiot.
@moses26266 жыл бұрын
The issue is that too many women think a baby will tie a young man to her. He's not ready to settle. Get over it.
@BrooklynTall6 жыл бұрын
Its amazing to me how far a man can go with a woman when either he's not showing any emotion or unaffectionate, sleeps around but a woman still marries this type of man, regardless of all the warning signs. Damn, Dogs get all the bone.
@TT-th1gb4 жыл бұрын
Nah bruh, the only chicks that go for that chump behavior are the foolish, immature emotionally damaged girls that usually end up being cray cray. Queens that are aware of their worth don't play in the dirt with mutts bruh😎
@antaresscorpicus6925 жыл бұрын
I cannot have a child with someone who already has four children, nada.
@jillmorrow74225 жыл бұрын
Antares Scorpicus...you would never be with a, mother of children...right?
@wordplay66652 жыл бұрын
@@jillmorrow7422 he said 4
@ladyj56822 жыл бұрын
Four in the house kids but if they are grown and living there own life then…..
@sullivancountydays2 жыл бұрын
Five kids come on. Why not stay single if you want to flirt .
@hasnabouras52466 жыл бұрын
He is so disrespectful..how would he feel if she spends a lot of time flirting with other men 😕 and he thinks he all thattt...boy Bye
@jamekadunn46643 жыл бұрын
We both know he would lose his everlasting mind. Men can't never take what they dish out!
@indianqueen46072 жыл бұрын
@@jamekadunn4664 Amen!!!
@anthonymckenzie51829 ай бұрын
What makes you think she doesn't ?
@silentwhisperer7777 жыл бұрын
i'm sorry the only person he needs to be charming, flirtatious or anything is towards his woman, no one else. the rest are either friends and strictly that, and be addressed in that manner, or business is business. no charm no nothing. if you're confident in your product, you don't need to charm others, no matter what the gender is or anything. you don't need to oil up a person to get that for work or friendships, or be disarming and cool with her, and causing her being insecure.
@mdniteeagl16477 жыл бұрын
Another couple with easy-to-solve issues... and the same two issues as many other couples - communication and living in the past. They both have to work at it, but if they do, they'll be ok.
@TheCarnivoreSoprano7 жыл бұрын
MdniteEagl I agree. this is a good couple and I think they can make it
@MartianBlues117 жыл бұрын
MdniteEagl I agree. It's nice to see a couple with fixable issues. They seem nice.
@demetriacass7 жыл бұрын
Those NOLA accents ya...
@TheCarnivoreSoprano7 жыл бұрын
Demetria Cass yaa baby
@seangriffin65277 жыл бұрын
I know right
@jesterarts7345 жыл бұрын
Yea heard me lol. I caught it super quick like, he from the 504.
@erieyoung26155 жыл бұрын
I came to the comments to find out what accent that was! I love it!
@IllDawgable4 жыл бұрын
Culture.
@FreeYahFreedom6 жыл бұрын
This man isn't the worst but he isn't Mr. Phenomenal either. The way a lot of the commentators here are swooning over him speaks volumes. #ManShortage? On another note, this couple didn't seem to have any crazy issues that couldn't be fixed if they were willing to put in the work. I hope they're in a better place.
@rachelgarrison23617 жыл бұрын
😍the ending..I like them together....wishing them the best!
@mj429107 жыл бұрын
I think N.O. accents are the best!
@asouthernwriter7 жыл бұрын
Mykesha - yesssss!! Louisiana accents period! ❤️
@LaTasha22247 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU!! Mine gets the best of me though. No one understands what I'm saying when I'm pissed!!
@mj429107 жыл бұрын
Joyce J / ASouthernWriter YES! I've listened to accents from the U.K., Australia, other parts of the south, the West Coast, and while the New York accents come in as a second close favorite, I admire how people from Louisiana talk. I could listen to a CD play say "behhhhh-baaaaay!" allllll day!
@mj429107 жыл бұрын
LaTasha2224 oh I understand! You looked absolutely fabulous and I am sending nothing but positive. Ives to you and your family!
@LaTasha22247 жыл бұрын
Oh wait...I am not her, lol!! I am from there (Louisiana) also and my accent (to other people) is very strong so I agreed with your comment! But thanks for your kinds words anyway!!!
@4656superman6 жыл бұрын
he said it aint mad money but its upset...lol ...that was classic
@Carpediem58267 жыл бұрын
just a side note: she is gorgeous !
@msshannyangel10587 жыл бұрын
Awwww they so sweet...y'all keep it up!! I love their relationship It seems very genuine and loving.
@Ria199077 жыл бұрын
Brandon is very handsome and I love his NOLA accent. That is all 😍👏
THIS IS SO MUCH BETTER THAN THE PEOPLE'S COURT... I LOVE JUDGE LYN... YOU'RE SO REAL
@themediabee76424 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣 He thinks her mouth gonna get him robbed!
@goldeneckconfetti6 жыл бұрын
"basically, so like basically.. yea basically, so thats why.. basically.."
@jaycevonsteele30666 жыл бұрын
as soon as I heard her say that he don't show any emotions and that she has to pick fights in order to get emotions out of him ... right been in there I knew that she's not relationship material in any kind of way form or fashion
@conniechoward6 жыл бұрын
The Latin girl behind him is so into him lol he's not the guy you take seriously though ladies
@damienkirksey70266 жыл бұрын
Wait a minute,You're getting with a woman with 4 children,she kicked you out and doesn't work,it's alot red flags in this situation
@snoopyluvscena7 жыл бұрын
The accent I love but idk where everyone is getting this good looking thing from
@annfitzgerald49067 жыл бұрын
S Evans
@littlepanda27316 жыл бұрын
I don't hear the accent. 🤔🤔🤔😐
@syeunirae4 жыл бұрын
Facts.. like where 👀
@leciamorris88327 жыл бұрын
You have to love judge Lyn
@Leaux.Behold7 жыл бұрын
I really really like them. I want them to stay together
@HelenHarris-zu1uo2 жыл бұрын
Wow, this couple is stunning! I love the way he talks.
@wynterbreeze12027 жыл бұрын
He has Louisiana SWAG !
@RegzGirl7 жыл бұрын
I like these 2. They have solvable issues. Bless these 2
@dennetofferman3716 жыл бұрын
AWWW I like this lady. Man, you better be good to her
@Leaux.Behold7 жыл бұрын
FIVE KIDS?!?!?!?!?!
@goddessofpeacelove53414 жыл бұрын
Exactly smh at such a young age
@colleenthecatlady23447 жыл бұрын
LOVE Judge Lynn!!!
@freshfruet6 жыл бұрын
“OH HERE SHE COME....” dyinggggggggg. Also he says “Yes” like “Yaaaaassss” and I freakin love it lol
@ForestvilleOppa7 жыл бұрын
With that being said I hope I never hear that phrase again.
@matsuewiles49724 жыл бұрын
Woop de whoop
@jamekadunn46643 жыл бұрын
I hate the phrase "at the end of the day" like huh uugghh lol
@brownskin46847 жыл бұрын
shes sooooo beautiful..i think they could work it out..she just needs to leave the past in the past
@dsaturdayfwight75167 жыл бұрын
i havent herd that accent sence early cashmoney dayz yaheardmea! LOL!
@andradavis72014 жыл бұрын
thank you Judge Toler for the advice i love watching your videos you are awesome
@AmanishaketoMeroe6 жыл бұрын
When the branches of the apricot tree keep leaning over the fence and they can't be cut off, leave the garden for surely one day someone will catch an apricot and it will be too late, you can't do anything ...next thing you know you lose all tree, apricots and garden. NOT WORHT IT.
@nianiah22126 жыл бұрын
He ain't ready and she ain't Leavin she love herself some him. With some counseling and no more babies for a while, they can make it, with PRAYER.
@forgiven5919 Жыл бұрын
So sweet when they hugged, I never saw a couple seem like they love each other on this show.
@dowardwashington99586 жыл бұрын
BRUH!!!!!! Grow up!!! I get so tired of these men who want to be single with married benefits.
@Noviia937 жыл бұрын
I love when the N.O visits divorce court!!! 😍😍
@walkerpantera7 жыл бұрын
Now THAT was a sweet and happy ending. very rare on here. i was skeptical at first too.
@jeanniehowell57187 жыл бұрын
5 kids...stay at-home mom???..30?....how can you afford to be a stay at home mom?...the more kids the more financially obligated you are ... bump that!!!! daycare would have all of my paycheck every week... tie your tubes girl go to school; work; get your life don't worry about this character - cheating should be the ultimate deal breaker... move along...move on...you're too pretty to have such low self esteem...
@malayasiafl7 жыл бұрын
how do you know his income when was it mentioned
@RG-xv5ji7 жыл бұрын
There is something about his face, his voice and his accent
@DatsWatsUp7 жыл бұрын
RIGHT! So It's NOT just me? Okay... ok
@BSH677 жыл бұрын
Not just you at all...😜
@dinoman44517 жыл бұрын
The lady of the house wishes for me to inform you that she approves your message. lol
@thatsmz.ashley2u8177 жыл бұрын
yess everytime he says something it makes me smile!! I see why she go through it with him lol
@jennifers43927 жыл бұрын
really?
@kayb33277 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your advice on this case.
@Aginxx2x28847 жыл бұрын
He is so New Orleans! I'm from Louisiana and you can't get no accent that's better than this... 😍😍😍😍😍
@cynthiakila11614 жыл бұрын
When he said that - I understood - no one else need to know my business . And I see u like to tell and show
@sharonharper62554 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love this young couple!! I pray that God strengthens their marriage and give their union staying power to withstand any obstacles they may be faced with!!! 💓
@MsBizzyRae2 жыл бұрын
I thought it was just me. I love them and hope they can make it work. I don't get all the negative comments.
@DeviancyBehavir7 жыл бұрын
Finally a good case with decent people. All she needs to do is find her some business and no be babbling to her family and friends about their business and he needs to not be acting single. I do sense a bit of a me vibe in him at times, even when he mentioned that he told her to go to the store, instead of asking if she could, if he got rid of that trait and treated her more like an equal they'd be alright. And I'm happy that a sista finally came in with their hair looking good for a change, it's been awhile.
@labrea6542 жыл бұрын
She actually needs an afro to cover that big arse head.😳😳😳😳🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Bullethead787 жыл бұрын
I knew they were from my state. Louisiana baby
@aleaharthur53235 жыл бұрын
You guys are a beautiful couple with small issues I wish you guys all the best
@j.janine16377 жыл бұрын
Cute couple. I hope they use what the judge told them, and that its successful
@taburrellable5 жыл бұрын
I like this dude LOL he's got such a chill vibe and he has a nice voice LOL
@silentwhisperer7777 жыл бұрын
i don't know why people who say they've taken a break, means that they can have sex with someone else. if you loved this person, you would be at a house thinking of how to change things, and to get back on track, not have sex. that's not real love then. it's adultery plain and simple. and when you treat on your companion, you are cheating on your child. why these people who come to divorce court think that it's a laughable matter when they testify what they are going through,. i would be mad as hell if i had a companion and saying to the court about the heating etc.,. and why the audience in that studio think it's funny, shows me that relationships are a funny issue when you break up. there's nothing funny about these divorce cases i watch. i would be pissed as hell hearing these stories, and even more pissed if those who come to divorce court are laughing about it. then you obviously never got hurt about what he or she did to you.
@gina99856 жыл бұрын
tell that one to Gabriel Union
@bambidaydreamer35 жыл бұрын
"As long as those kids are taken care of and the rent is being paid, everything else is irrelevant!" Keep that same energy when she withholds sex from you bruh. Other than that they make a real nice couple. He just needs to understand that if she were entertaining guys the way he entertains other women, that he would be bothered too.
@lisareid33364 жыл бұрын
For Reak
@lisareid33364 жыл бұрын
Excuse me For Real...
@bambidaydreamer34 жыл бұрын
@@lisareid3336 💯
@SeleneCJordan2 жыл бұрын
I could listen to him talk all day.
@josephcain9072Ай бұрын
And I can look into ur eyes ALL day
@chrisaraujo6945 жыл бұрын
Why is that: kids first not married, 2-4 kids with prior relationships.... at 20’s... not right. Hi from 🇧🇷.
@jasonwebb61504 жыл бұрын
She’s beautiful and I’m in love with her New Orleans accent 😍
@tiffanymonique21436 жыл бұрын
Service announcement to all the ladies when you find out your man is cheating kicking him out the house and bites him into that other woman's house not a good idea you either leave him or you make him stay and talk about it do not kick him out that is a get-out-of-jail-free card
@regina39616 жыл бұрын
they got a NOLA accent but i feel like he’s jamaican too😭
@latricesmithers78874 жыл бұрын
It ain't mad but it's upset😂😂😂
@josephcain9072Ай бұрын
Tryna play on my pockets 😂I had a little over 10,000 inna bank at dat time
@pamelacrews45374 жыл бұрын
I don't like when women try to rush young men into marriage so soon. He's only 25 he's not ready, she has 4 kids he will end up resenting her later on.
@nadinerodriguez47086 жыл бұрын
he still playing the game and he liking it.....and it seems like when he ready he will change his ways in his own time, yet at the same time you in a relationship sooo he has to choose...the single life or the family life....that NOLA though....
@MsBizzyRae2 жыл бұрын
There really is something charming about him (in a hood-ish kinda way lol) and she is just too cute. I hope they figure things out and make it work.
@cocobenji61237 жыл бұрын
five children total...wow.
@jeanniehowell57187 жыл бұрын
Correction: 25 years old... she just needs an constructive outlet... she wouldn't be so worried about what he's doing...
@ebonysweetnesssweetness51536 жыл бұрын
Brandon had Judge Toler dancing in her chair 5mins in to this episode as always she gave good advise - hope this couple have a long and happy future together on the island of Lewis and Silas.
@rolyntriacollings3287 жыл бұрын
Sister you can't change a person that person has to change for their selves.
@ernicaferdinand59766 жыл бұрын
When he said..."and my ex gets brungs up again", I died a little inside.
@Beautyy8324 жыл бұрын
Why did you die a little inside? Are the ex?
@Authenticallyathena6 жыл бұрын
I love the way they talk... Outside of that, they do have things to work on but they are really adorable I think.
@sabrina.natalie6 жыл бұрын
She is breathtaking! 💋✨
@lakiareed76437 жыл бұрын
lovely mimi in divorce court already?
@reyadubb24595 жыл бұрын
Lakia Reed omg ! 😂😂
@leslienamey96872 жыл бұрын
Beautiful couple. Like the guy a lot.
@hasanjohnson1086 жыл бұрын
Mystikal and Mia X got married!!!! No limit for ever!
@Baby-gt2bm2 жыл бұрын
She laughed at everything he has to say. She still act like a little child.
@tangeeo96526 жыл бұрын
Don't be in a relationship if u still want to communicate with other women. It's really that simple. If you love the woman u with then cut them off. Who is more important them or your woman who is pregnant! Jeez.
@brownskin46844 жыл бұрын
Such beautiful people,an i love their accents😍😍😍..i hope they stayed together
@BN-hy1nd3 жыл бұрын
Free lesson on how to be mature and a better person. MLK on voting right, Judge Toler on emotional stability
@subicbay257 жыл бұрын
dude will not change so do not get married..just move on and let the dude become an expert baby daddy to other women..his attitude is that if she is foolish enough to marry him...it is her fault
@ritajohn57297 ай бұрын
He's a cool dude 😊
@teriwilliams42556 жыл бұрын
She already know she shouldn't marry him bc he is not ready for marriage. I wouldn't go on tv with this
@janinelew24837 жыл бұрын
When I lived in Georgia after hurricane Katrtina, people would ask me if I was from N.O. I didn't realize I had an accent until they pointed it out.
@sya2866 жыл бұрын
First playa where I can believe other women may be interested. He is handsome. (NOT saying its okay, just most the other men on here are busted.) She gorgeous too btw, handsome couple!
@alleynehowe7 жыл бұрын
Black love, faults & all
@hevspring1896 жыл бұрын
This is not a good example of black love wtf.....!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@INDIGO.GODDESS_5736 жыл бұрын
SHE IS TOOOOOOOOOO YOUNG TO HAVE 5 DAMN KIDS... AND SHE STAY HOME AT HOME MOM.. SMH SHE NEED TO BE DOING SOMETHING.. OPEN A HOME DAY CARE OR SOMETHING.. IT SHOULD NOT BE ON HIM TO PROVIDE FOR ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL OF THEM..
@deemonrovia66986 жыл бұрын
She has 3. I think she's claiming his kids also
@INDIGO.GODDESS_5736 жыл бұрын
@@deemonrovia6698 Right..She's married to him.. so his kids are her kids 2.
@bnwo6 жыл бұрын
She probably lied about her age
@emiajjohnson62376 жыл бұрын
Them LA accents are too cute
@tiffanymonique70983 жыл бұрын
To the naive young lady who almost came across as ignorant that's why the judge had to take a pause and ask her for another story because when you're going through troubles you don't kick him out because then you give him the reason to go into someone else at arms you have a conversation because when you let him out hes out and you can't control what he does and you have no right to ask what hes doing when you kick them out
@josephcain9072Ай бұрын
Preach 🗣️🗣️
@littlewhisper10455 жыл бұрын
I must say I like his voice 😂😂
@15sophomore152 жыл бұрын
Aww I wish they had an update on this couple.
@josephcain9072Ай бұрын
We had two mo kids and unfortunately we both moved on.. we grew apart😢
@15sophomore15Ай бұрын
@@josephcain9072 damn wanted to see yall work it out