Divorce, Depression, and Demons 😈 = Drama

[@CheeseLayong]

When you are financially stable, thats the best therapy EVER!

[@RippSnortin]

I've been divorced and alone since 2001 Couldn't be happier.

[@Sally01d]

The devil comes to kill, steal and destroy (John 10:10). God comes to give you life and have it to the full. Keep your eyes on God and he will heal you emotionally, physically and spiritually. Thank you for your testimony. Blessings 🙏

[@chestrockwell7023]

They are one in the same Isiah 45 " I form the light and create darkness, I make peace and create evil I the Lord do all these things" God will heal you then destroy you basically......that's a psychopath!

[@finally7664]

Good job young lady I agree with your wonderful comment very true.

[@ToFightTheGoodFight]

Bro, I have been divorced for almost 24 years. I have 2 kids, worked full-time & in battle in court for 10 years. Zero dependent on any medication. Betrayal from the kids mom, betrayal from my friend with her, friends etc. I'm dealing with a malignant narcissist. Fighting with fu@king demons. Lost everything plus extra debts from court battles. I eventually lost my kids. That's another story. Never have suicidal thoughts. I just become a battler. I lost everything & and ended up ZERO$. I finally left the country with no money. I survived & thrive now . I'm still the same good person but now I'm one strong son-of-bit@h. Mentality & physically. I hope people don't destroy yourself because of someone's doesn't appreciate you. I'm 65. I would not fall apart for no one, that includes my adult children. Zero emotional ransom. In short, I don't tolerate bullsh@t. Live my friends. You can make it, dont add another problem to your life. Dont be reckless

[@LupeRodriguez-s6g]

I have had 2 divorces and 2 boyfriends that died. I have always had anxiety but I started taking medication for it which helped me a lot. I am retired now 71 single receiving social security and a pension but still working part time at a library to keep me active. I go to church and thank god for my blessings I am happy and at peace with my life.

[@johnessmyer4665]

Thanks for telling your story. The reason people want to hear your story is because we’re all in some stage of grief. Lift is rough, and there’s no way through but one foot in front of the other thank you

[@sunnyskye213]

NO MEDS! NO PRESCRIPTIONS.....BLWSS UR HEART....

[@JuneMcNab]

You are a surviver just like me after my divorce ,I felt like it was no way out 😢i been thru hell and survive. Now im stronger than ever , thanks to the universe 🙏🏽 i feel much better 😊 time is the best healer enjoying the best of my life on this beautiful island 🏝️ in the Caribbean ❤️

[@jilldomschot]

Thank you for posting; this really resonated. Life is hard. Depression is real, and Jesus is the Good Shepherd. I don't know what I'd do without him.

[@Ross_Will]

My ex took my business sent me off to be homeless and charged me for child support. She failed over time. She destroyed the company and here we are 6 Years later and life leveled out. Trust the process

[@gringogg1780]

Time to stop living in your past and look to the future brother.. Forget the past and think about what your retirement will look like.. Find things to do to have positive relationships and experiences. Move forward sir. You have a great future if you focus on it...

[@x.X.China.X.x]

Thank you for sharing your experience. Depression and anxiety is a b*tch. I've lived with it for over 25 years and it's not fun. Once you get everything under control, it's easier to manage.

Ernest, thank you so much for your honesty and for having the courage to talk about the male perspective in divorce. You are making a significant positive difference by sharing with us your tough times in addition to all of your successes... such as you intelligently living beneath your means; surviving what sounds like a narcissistic ex spouse; job trauma; being a great father even while in pain; and your other amazing accomplishments. You are awesome, Ernest! Thanks again for this video.

[@lauralangdale6800]

Woah! I love the transparency from you as a man. Most men don’t open up and this had to be hard for you. Thank you for being honest. May Jesus bless you

[@marcK599.]

Life is full of ups and downs. Back in my 20’s put off dating so that I could raise my niece. I had done that for 16 years. I totally forgot how to date and just gave it up. I had a female co-worker who would travel to Thailand with her husband every year. I was so stressed out from work and thought how nice it would be to get away. I decided to go to Thailand in 2003. I got off the plane at midnight and checked into my hotel. Decided to go to an all night coffee shop and this first Thai woman I met we ended up getting married a year later. Still happily married and have a family. Completely changed my life. I say this because just around the corner something great will happen for you.

[@tomw7647]

Doctors and psychiatrist never helped me…Reading scripture got me off depression and anxiety meds. Reading got me closer to Jesus and he is the ultimate physician. It’s been a few years no pills needed.

[@bobdees6428]

Brother the only true peace that you will find in this world is found in Jesus Christ. Everything else is temporary , fleeting - read the words of Jesus Christ through the gospels they will touch your heart and soul with healing powers that the world cannot offer you. Jesus said , seek ye first the kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you … 🧐

[@karencoffee8960]

Amen!

[@alexrosario6967]

Thank you, Ernest🙏 There's something about ur channel that I admire. Keep going brother.

[@childofthe1livinggod]

I appreciate you sharing your story because it’s becoming my story as far as the divorce situation and starting over. It’s helpful to hear how other people have gone through similar things and come out better on the other side.

[@rangerbob42]

Enerst I had a pretty bad childhood due to my parents that were constantly arguing and fighting all of the times. They gotten married at a very young age. 19 for my mom and 21 for my father. They were really kids with kids that they were having for a total of us three. I learned to endure a lot of hostile emotions from that poor experience. Moving own flash forward into my life I married twice and filed bankruptcy after the first divorce without any children of mine. And pretty much went through it again the second time around although I had managed to restore my credit after around 10 years. Life was good until my wife had wreaked in her 3rd auto accident within about 4 years. Her insurance went sky high and I told her no more new cars at least until her insurance premiums went back down again. And that’s when she decided to leave and cheat on me. So I filed for a no fault divorce and gotten her to sign off on it and now I’m free to retire and do whatever I want! 😮 good luck 🍀 my friend you deserve a better life! Stay strong as you can!

[@chilloften]

Just being real, glad I listened. I adore real, non materialistic folk.

[@lindacarrillo2158]

Wow! I’m glad you were able to get help and that you’re better, now.

[@CheeseLayong]

Pills pills pills. I'm glad ur still here with us and sharing. I can relate.

[@Oscarlevy1992]

At 62 and divorced since 2014 after 32 years I can relate to so much of what you told here, I’m still fighting the demons but slowly winning small battles. From a fellow Texan…Thanks for sharing!

[@everett8610]

Also watch some of the narcissism videos on youtube about narcissism. They may not speak to you and your ex may not be a narcissist but its worth watching those. For me those video's told me more about my relationship with her than I could even explain or could see till I watched those video's and they knew more about my marriage than I ever did. Take care man.

[@michaelgallegos4517]

You should go to church Ernest, I want to invite you to Freedom house church it’s in San Antonio Tx….God can give you that peace that you seek

[@lmErnest]

@@michaelgallegos4517 I do go to church. City Church , thanks

[@brendasanderson]

Thank you for sharing. I'm 62 and separated and these feelings of depression and anxiety are hard. I live at lake pk and feel so alone sometimes. Thank you for sharing your experience.

[@uh5jg]

Sorry to hear about your life changing experiences❤️🙏🏽

[@nimfaballesteros3156]

You are such a brave full of wisdom man.. GOD BLESS your journey ❤

[@twalsh1801]

glad you are on upward trajectory-thanks for sharing your journey

[@theWaltVegas]

When I watch your videos, it resonates. I hear the pain in your voice. It's the pain I feel. You've been through it. I'm going through it. I'm stuck in a cycle. Luckily I don't like to drink or party. My struggle is all internal. I still live in an apartment. I don't think I'll ever trust again. I don't think I'll ever be happy again. I'm just kinda done.

[@gpants3633]

I saw your previous video and it was very interesting. Then here you are again and this one was even more interesting. Good on you, having overcome a painful experience and you’ve come out on other side. Good luck on your future endeavors and I’ll keep watching. Aloha.

[@alexrolon3505]

I can relate too u brother , my ex left me 3 months ago with a guy she had on the side for a while , im still going thru it ...depression and demons have been haunting me ever since ...God bless u bro 🙏

[@sandraosborn171]

Hi Ernest you look Great and glad to see you hope you have a great evening and Thank you for this channel You inspire people And they keep coming back. So keep the great job up doing great 🌹💕🙏

[@coffeecup369]

I LIKE THAT ITS WORTH IT IG U MAKE IT WORTH IT THAT PACKS A PUNCH ! PEACE BE WITH YOU U GOT THIS!

[@Chuck-qi8pw]

Bro, my entire life has been faced with one challenge after another. However, my Faith has sustained me and helped me navigate those challenges. Your mind and personal choices can really control you. I found exercising, consistent church attendance, and professional counseling really kept me on the solid footing. I believe in Holistic approach rather than pills, However, if you had clinical depression, that can be difficult to overcome. As men, at least with me, we can go through change of life issues. However, it usually temporary and most men navigate through it. Having friends to talk to can be healing. I would be really careful with medications and counselors. I’m not an expect and this has been just my opinions. I live a structured life, get plenty of rest, pray, talk to God, read scripture, and love people. I do not drink or smoke. I might have a beer or glass of wine with dinner. Bro, you are not alone. The Catholic Church is my back ground. I’m greatful that Jesus and his church is the Light that guides my path. God Bless you brother.

[@philsalvage]

Thank you for sharing… you’re not alone my friend.

[@williamdacosta9026]

Earnest , another fine awesome video.Keep up the good work and always the best of luck to you

[@CheeseLayong]

Sadly. Yes! You look good tho. Stay healthy brother

[@budgetwithfatima6530]

I can relate to stress I lived with stress all my life but I came out of it myself no pills nothing. Panic attacks are the worst .

[@Baistegenx]

I'm 5 years out from mine. Worst thing I've ever experienced. I don't take women seriously, at all, anymore

[@Peace-nm6bx]

It is not the other woman's fault that you find the wrong one. Give yourself another chance to find the right one that will make you happy.

[@Baistegenx]

@@Peace-nm6bx I'd rather keep my stuff and my peace of mind

[@Baistegenx]

@@Peace-nm6bx I get what you're saying though

[@Oscarlevy1992]

“Worst thing you ever experienced”……I 💯 agree, for me it was worse than a death! Hang in there and best of luck, it slowly gets better.

[@Baistegenx]

@@Oscarlevy1992 same to you man

[@michellebarrera6313]

Before I watch this video I just want to say the other video popped up on my feed as I have been separated for 8 years and I must have said something out loud and there goes the powers that be so I wanted to see what you had to say on the subject not for any drama but how you coped with your divorce as it’s time I get mine. Just never got around to it. I can say it always feels like I failed as it’s been 24 years married but separated 8. I waited and waited for him to change and stop cheating but it never happened so please don’t believe everyone likes drama as all I want peace in my life lol. Now back to the video! God bless you sir and thanks for sharing your story as it might help me get through! In Jesus name I pray 🙏🏻 amen

[@ErnestAsh-f2i]

Thank you for sharing all of this - All the best to you my friend 👍

[@sharonwalshthompson8185]

Just be you Ernest. That’s why I watch. Create the content you want to share.

[@timetravelcaptain]

Really appreciate u bro God bless thanks for the videos

[@Tlcutrell-hn9yy]

I'm glad your doing good 💚

[@ADadSupreme]

Most people don't realize women fall in love with men, but men value loyalty over love (usually). Women will love you, but leave you because they aren't loyal; but men are usually loyal and will never leave but may not have ever really been in love with that woman. I've always valued loyalty over love from anyone other than my mother/father, because that's where the 'in sickness and health' comes in. Love fades when that woman sees/hears some other guy whispering and then her 'loyalty' follows.

[@duhg6059]

We don't like drama but I can identify with what you've gone through.. society doesn't care about men and encourages and rewards womens bad behavior.. God hates divorce and after going through it so do I.. it's a horrible bad dream that never ends..

[@1MNUTZ]

You had situational depression because of that situation which made you vulnerable those pills just mask the problem and cause bigger problems once unnasked. The problems you faced exposed the people around you and showed you that you were strong.

[@marleangreene6117]

I live in a rv and I like it i don't have a big mortgage no grass to mow i pay 5 dollars rent 10 for water and electricity is free i come and go as i please i have friends and a couple hobbies im happy as a pig in sun

[@fernwehchronicle]

In ancient times depression was embraced; they even had depression gardens. Depression is God nudging you that you are not where you are supposed to be in life. Once when I was depressed someone asked me to write down what I needed to do to change my life. I did write it down and it (I) changed my life. Ernesto, why are you still going to clubs if demons go to you through clubbing? 🙏🏻💕

[@Ritterkritterz]

I just watched your video you made in the car about divorce. But what i noticed, is something that you didn't say...I think this wasn't just a normal divorce but the worst kind where someone you thought you would live & love the rest of your life with. That is hard stuff. Is this the case of why your divorce was so hard? You still loved her. And you were morning the loss of living with your children.

[@lmErnest]

@Ritterkritterz Yes, I didn't get married to later divorce. I did love my wife. I planned on being in my children life everyday. I didn't get married till I was 40. I was divorced by 53. I am 61 now.

[@mrc9699]

👍

[@LindaStokes-ff2kv]

I can relate to going through divorce and depression as well. Thank you for sharing your story. Sending hugs and blessings to you..

[@nolehopkins1077]

That's me right now. I won't do the meds thing. I am the one wanting the divorce . I've been on the couch for almost 4 years but for some stupid reason I haven't gotten the balls to just pull the trigger amd go off on my own. Any recommendations. I'm miserable. I'm building and rv to move into but it's not ready yet. I'm also retired military

[@Peace-nm6bx]

Many Americans are retiring and moving into Mexico. More happy, peaceful, and relaxed life. Maybe you can find your true love over there. In Mexico there is no time to stay on a couch. There is a lot to do. Watch KZbin videos from people that are retired and living in Mexico or other country. Be happy❤. Leave your couch. You deserve all the happines in this world. Thank you for your service.

[@Oscarlevy1992]

Mexico and the RV life with a dog is how I’ve been coping, I’d definitely recommend, and if not Mexico there’s so much in the states. Good Luck!

[@uh5jg]

No drama just opinions you put out videos so we leave comments NOTHING wrong w/leaving comments sir

[@faustinreeder1075]

My ex wife stole my child away from me at the age of six. I never saw him again. He hanged himself on July 24, 2022 at the age of 26. About three years before this his mother got MS. So always remember this: Karma is a b*tch and she has a long memory. Revenge belongs to The Lord. He will remember who did you dirty.

[@NoraJane-s6q]

I am in love with you Earnest

[@mikelee7876]

Don’t tell em that they will lock u up

[@GUITARTIME2024]

2 weeks on a new med isnt long enough.

[@liveyourbestlife1513]

It takes more than two weeks to know if an antidepressant works. Just saying.

[@YouCanCallMeDon]

Seems like doctors really don't like you getting off meds. That was my experience. I was taking Omeprazole for acid reflux, and I aksed the doctors a few times how to get off it and fix the problem. They really didn't talk about diet and things that made sense. I had ideas about which foods were causing issues and dropped those. It was said you should not stop taking this Omeprazole cold turkey or without a doctor's advice. So I did get the doctor's advice on how to ween off. It took a month, and then I was off. I am still prone to acid reflux, but I am not getting it as nearly as badly or as much with diet change, and I know I can do better. So, no meds at all now. I did six months on that Omeprazole... and that experience of dealing with doctors was shocking. Seems like they want more business, and not really fixing things.

[@MendozaEd]

Tea time

[@derrick8224]

Alcohol is not the answer

[@uh5jg]

Counseling helped me through my divorce & life changes. It took 6 years to fill whole again! 🫶🏽