Pain of bereavement husbands endure after losing their wives

[@evidenceestellestar7996]

If both of your parents are still alive , thank God and appreciate them

[@ntfombiyenkhosidlamini8230]

That is one loving dad. God will help you overcome all struggles and He has already. Awesome God!

[@millicentsamapundo2241]

amen to that

[@ruthachayo8038]

I know the struggle when all of them are not there , we've gone through it ....let God see His people.

[@marymwangi3090]

These stories remind me of how my dad single handedly brought us up. , he choose never to remarry, being girls, it was nit easy for him . I have this strong rapport with him. He is my first love and the man who has taught me soo much . He is my hero..I had just turned 12 when mum passed on.Long live my dad and these great dads who work so hard to fill the gap.

[@ruthkamwi_youtube]

I can relate too🙏🏾

[@beckyr2805]

God bless him abundantly 💜 may the soul of your mum keep resting in Peace and you stay blessed too

[@shaniquepaul]

Sorry dear 💗

[@mercymuso8304]

Sorry dear.

[@pragz100]

Real men who never abandoned their kids and still keeping strong. My hat out to you gentlemen

[@joskyshams4758]

These men are real and full of wisdom. May the Lord give them peace.

[@jackyw1910]

These men have been good dads may God bless them 🙏..I am a widow my husband Left me with two young kids who are adults now it's never easy in the beginning that's why I thumb up to all widow and widowers.

[@joskyshams4758]

@@jackyw1910 May the Lord be with you

[@abbygael1330]

Soo amazing

[@caroandayi7461]

The group that is always forgotten "widowers " God continue to see you through.

[@irenewangeci4046]

Very true.we are the lost tribe in Kenya

[@susanwanjiru8053]

I absolutely honour these men for their selfless sacrifices. May the Lord bless you immensely and watch over your children. You are great men!!!

[@sheechege4084]

So sorry for them, I was raised by a single dad and it wasnt easy but the grace of God is sufficient. Now we are all grown and he is out there ,no longer around like he used to,emotionally detached and maybe broken but God knows I love and respect that man.

[@annemutua7469]

I appreciate my mum for taking care of my sister and I single-handedly since my dad passed away in 1993.

[@barbarabunya7579]

Thank you for creating a platform where people who have lost their loved ones can share their experiences

[@linetotieno2163]

Dear God Pls bless me with a long life.. I dont wana die young and leave my future husband and kids 😢😢 Amen 🙏 I am so sorry You are strong men, keep going on, May God be with you all.

[@Mafa__B]

That’s always my prayer.. Let’s it be in Jesus mighty Name.👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@TheJakamburi]

Am the future husband just call me. You won't die and leave me just know that

[@TheJakamburi]

Wonderful men here

[@linetotieno2163]

@@TheJakamburi hehe

[@SM-mh1kq]

Amen you will have a long life ....

[@violetnanjala1999]

I extend my heartfelt condolences for the loss of your wife's. I am a widow too. With four children. I lost my husband 23yrs ago. My children were very young and now they are at university

[@antoniokwayamba2479]

Take heart babygirl.God is in control

[@wilsonogot7009]

Usijali, Vio...am a widower now too n i just know hw it feels. U'v endured 23 years! Amen

[@wangarimuraguri3795]

Congratulations mum.hugs

[@nadamata1303]

Congrats mum,hugs

[@beverlykadenge2095]

Hugs sweedy

[@lynelee5846]

Women play a big role in the family i feel these fathers may God strengthen you guys 😱😱😱😱

[@davidkimani3784]

Great courage to open up, share such painful experiences. May God continue to uphold you gentlemen and your families.

[@ashcablee7669]

I feel them,we lost both parents wen we're little kids we used to look at they're bed n we cry 😭😭the pain is permanent 😥😭

[@rtsoca5560]

Yes. I can understand. It is never easy losing loved ones.

[@adongofaith7374]

Me too

[@priscillamunjita8316]

😭😭😭😭

[@princesssophievicsophievic744]

Bambi sry swtie

[@juliethhouseofdesigns147]

I understand you I lost my parent between 9 -16 I remember going to their room and there was no one and till now am married but still that memory roaming in my mind

[@JessicaAfricaOfficialke]

Women are taken for granted if you are reading this mad at your spouse for some reason, just forgive, embrace and appreciate each other

[@carolinemakezi5926]

Death is such a cruel master, when it happens we are almost left at its mercy. For Christians we have the hope of seeing our loved ones again and find comfort in our God with whom we can converse and share our grief and pain. May God be your ever present helper in your time of need.

[@rtsoca5560]

I agree. We will see our loved ones in heaven

[@machariajoanne1595]

i like how they are honest about their experiences

[@mariacindie8262]

I lost my mum at the age of 1 and my dad remarried shortly after that.... gladly God gave me an aunt who neva made me feel the loss n actually discovered I didn't have a mum at the age of 17....and now 22 n very Happy with life.... though it hasn't been easy knowing that deep down am different from my siblings

[@leledladla1637]

I feel you n may you find peace n closure of knowing that you cannot keep on having a heavy heart of knowing that you are different. For the fact that your aunt never made you feelnthe void that enough. Big ups to her may she be blessed.

[@gracekyale4395]

This as really brought tears in my heart,I'm happy to see strong men like you guys,may the lord bless you

[@a.muchemi4360]

Poleni for sure it was beautiful to see men who stoond with their vows. My Big brother After 20yrs he is remarried, but all his kids from my later sister in law are aldults. I see him happy and we are all for him.

[@naturerazzi7shi495]

Its disgusts me that 2020 children are been punished for a curriculum that is so rigid and so insensitive to the ever-changing circumstances of child. Curriculum should be fitted to accommodate all sexes. Dad can cook too ! Its sexist and out-dated! Needs an overhaul asp! Great dads u are a gem!!!

[@agnesndumia1713]

These guys are true heroes, Mutahi your kids will still grow.

[@nahyialetomia9284]

Mutahi is good looking

[@wahufrashia222]

I know the pain of losing a loved one 😭😭😭 am a widow for 11yrs now i hv two boys 23yrs old ad 13yrs old ad it has not been easy bt i thnk God for everything

[@Sunshine_Amy]

May God give you more strength....Mr. Chessaina as well as the other men who went through a lot and still played good roles to their kids

[@twosugars966]

This was a beautiful segment of honoring dads,wives and their children.Not easy but God has a way of hugging us through the toughest times.Trust in him even through such times when it doesn't make sense.I wish there are support groups for families going through loss.God bless you all.

[@annanjoroge1890]

Teachers should know why children give some answers before punishing the child 👶

[@connie7192]

They shouldn't even beat up children

[@fridahbirungi6883]

This made me cry sooo painfully

[@julietboachieyiadom1178]

This is so much my dad. I lost my mum at age 12 to a car accident, it's been 23yrs now & the pain never goes away. It's been God & my sweet, kind & loving dad who has seen us to this time. And now that I have my own kid, I miss her more. I see my dad still cry & asking her why she left him with us this way as if she could hear whenever he bows to pray. He's been everything & anything to me & my 3 other sisters & my only brother. I pray God bless us to be a blessing to him. He has done so much for us & still worries abt how we're doing with marriage & our kids. You are great dads, my hugs!

[@stefwambui8439]

Pole Chesaina! One of the greatest Zain distributors who really invested in his team's welfare and training.

[@abatetsiangela4523]

So touching stories my God! I couldn't hold my tears back! To all the widows and widowers out there, Jesus is your strength, Holyspirit is your conformforter. Am married for 30yrs now, my husband was hit with a stroke 5years now. He is bedridden but I thank God I still have him. Life isn't easy but every day I can see a smile on his face because he sees me. Thank you for this programme my dear brothers. Angela Baguma from Uganda.

[@lilyfrankkiambu8935]

Am very sorry for dat...am widow from 2012 .,..my hubby die on road accident ..my kids was 8yrs & 9mnths..am always strong for them

[@akinyiomollo-musau3276]

@Roger, (10.10) Nice seeing you here and sharing your experience. It's always nice to talk and share coz others get encouraged by such and realize they are not alone in these things. I went through this too... But I've managed to keep my head up and move on with the kids. Blessings Kwenu, all who are in this.

[@vickyk.m9596]

Gentlemen, the best gift you can ever give your kids is being present in their lives and allowing them to express how they feel. You all are gentle giants and it speaks volumes. I love how you engage your children in cooking meals and doing chores and that is how it should be. You are raising well rounded children so kuddos to you. I pray that God continues to Bless you and sees you through it all. It shall be well🙌🙌🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@LeshaoL]

For men watching this stories especially the unmarried one I hope it’ll help you see the roles a wife plays in the family . A lot is taken for granted. Hope their sad stories will help you treat and love your future wives unconditionally...😁

[@asandasam7893]

We that God for making these father's strong and to be able to handle everything by not getting married again. much love ❤❤ from SA

[@favouredblessed2631]

Am so sorry i lost my dad 11yrs ago i was 15yrs, our last born was 6months,but i thank God for my mom she is amazing strong and prayerful the journey of mourning is still hard, my sister who at the time was 9 she is into alcohol we dont what to do, am way from kenya am studying my mim is really stressed Please pray us and everyone who is mourning God have mercy on all single parents❤️😭😭

[@tettmoh]

How i wish my dad was there for us when mum died, though in my case they had separated since i was 2 years old but still he should have put some effort to know how we are coping without mum, the issues was between them not us, life could have been better if all men are like this dads. Watching this brought me tears cz i had to look for him last year April but couldn't even cry my pain out 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 the pain we went through, left me with depression, I was only 13 and the last born in a family of 3 💔💔💔, i just pray to God to please allow me to bring up my kids cz can't imagine them going through what we went through. It's been 22 years and i really miss my mum😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 Big up all this dads and the one's out there who really cares for their kids. May God bless you and sustain you with good health, prosperity and above all happiness.

[@beckybundi4546]

I cried about the second dad and the daughter it reminded me of my own life I miss mom , sometimes I wish she were around to see what I have become

[@risperoseko6297]

Thanks Daddy for everything you did since mommy passed away even myself I never knew her but u took Care of us since 1999 now that I have opportunity to do anything for you Daddy I promise you I will never let you down.Salute to all single daddies love you y' all so much kisses

[@nungaris4624]

Very powerful !! Thank you for sharing your stories Dads.

[@relaxverse3986]

I see you're not wearing your capes today but I know heroes when I see them. I salute you gentlemen. May blessings and good health be your potions.

[@jackiekabute6159]

Ave been a single mother of one daughter for 19yrs now.....the far we have come, I got nothing to boast about. She is a 2nd year university student as for now....but all this, to God be the glory!! May the Lord give them strength!

[@bettyelizabeth4389]

I lost my dead in 1999 wen I was 6 months but I thank my the almighty lord for where we are now, am now 21 years happy and grateful

[@wenyma5349]

Mr.Rodger Ogolla,my teacher.Such an amazing man.You ain't aging,good to see you strong..God bless you and continue to strengthen you.

[@loismuiru1647]

Waa i salute u Dad's my God give u strength to big up the ,I understand how painful it is,I a widow for 24yrs now my husband left me with 2yrs boy & I thanks God this for, but too hard to be single, but mungu ni mueza yote,

[@christinewangari1598]

I was raised by a single Dad I know it was not easy during the first year . I love you dad

[@blossombenter5608]

Moving on is hard especially where the kids are involved coz getting a woman who can take care and love ur children is hard I feel for these guys

[@rayray8137]

I know but I would think that if the person is loaded it helps ,coz let's face it if am childless am not using my money to raise Your kids,am just stepping in to help raise them so you have to continue providing for them

[@roseshiombo9607]

I agree 💯

[@genovevashitsama3831]

Am a widow my husband died in 2017 it has never been easy ...experience you can not even wish your worsed enemy to go through.

[@wambui185]

Hugs dear

[@felliesweetie]

Pole mami. Mungu akupe nguvu

[@swaphiyyahumwali8310]

I felt his pain when he said "sometimes i het out my phone "it has happened to me verymany times when i want to call my dad but then i remember he is no more😭😭😭😭😭😭😭my Allah forgive the soul of all our beloved ones who passed away

[@Dianaemanuel888]

That group is awesome.amen.may God be your strength always.

[@akinyiomollo-musau3276]

You mean there is such a group? Would like to join. Been widowed 19years now and had to learn on the job (totally new to me then) Left with 2 daughters.

[@drkatendifwalanga410]

How is wish Dad would feature on this program.... It has been 5yrs since Mum answered the Lord's call. He doesn't want to remarry... His only focused on us the children. I thank God for giving him the strength.... rising 3 girls who are goal oriented ain't a joke... it is by the Grace of God

[@melthrinas9060]

Wow! May God bless all these strong men. 👏🙏

[@Mafa__B]

People always say when you lose someone that the pain goes away with time,I can assure you it’s doesn’t go you will just be heal and make peace with it and cope.. God bless all the widowers and give them strengths.

[@awuorwenwa5651]

wow such a beautiful feature. I am glad the fathers are soldiering on. All glory be to God.

[@monicahnjoroge8168]

The death of a loved one can disorient you properly. Life is never the same again, it's like learning to live with an amputation😢😢😢. I lost my mum 23 years ago when I was 13 and my dad about 5 years ago. The hardest things I ever faced

[@estherlabaru7333]

Am so sorry

[@nardasimpson3333]

My heart bleeds for every single one of these men. Such honour, such respect, such love in the way they speak about their decreased wives. Much healing and strength to all of them and their respective children.

[@devothaniyukuri5619]

I thank god everyday when I remember that me and my husband are still around for our children.

[@mariancruz1261]

i salute every parent especially fathers , after loosing my mother on April 2nd . My world has never been the same again ,, may all our mums watch over us IJN. May they rest in peace as well

[@mmantwathakadu2982]

painful yet beautiful to watch, grateful of all fathers doing their best for their families.

[@Himpossibleinternational]

May God keep you all. Thanks for sharing your powerful testimonies. God be with you all.

[@faithchebor9698]

You are all amazing and trying your best, may God give you enough grace and strength to soldier on

[@goodmemory5893]

I don’t know why but I’m crying 😭single parents are heroes ❤️🙏

[@annanjoroge1890]

God bless you guys you are wonderful and great 👍

[@catherinesumner9708]

Godbless you all ,I never knew we still have good men in Africa.

[@janewakariti4273]

It is sad he says he had to learn the price of groceries and how to be home to make sure everyone is fed and safe......it shouldn't take lose of a wife to do these things!

[@triciakaranja911]

It’s really sad when you lose your life partner. You men have done well really proud of all of you. It is well

[@hisgracesuffient6046]

Kudos to all this Fathers. May the Lord heal your broken hearts. And strengthen you in all ways. Your children and call you blessed.

[@dorcasmakotsi2135]

We appreciate great work you're doing,,God bless you all

[@jacqueypatrick4090]

I am a widow too a mother of two so I can understand some of things everyone in my shoe's goes through

[@elvishhudson2402]

Sorry for your lost. I hope you are coping well. Stay strong.

[@هُدىعبدالله-ك9ع]

Am widow too

[@sifisosithole7656]

Sad stories but information very helpful. Well done dads for persevering 👏👏!

[@glorialouiise]

My Dad could cook clean iron bless him.✊🏿 Black men do not appreciate their Empress neither their children.

[@roselyneandeka2078]

My sincere condolences to you strong men and your family's! I'm praying for you all. I didn't know some men never remarried. My own dad remarried after 4 years! I respect you all even more!

[@naomif6774]

What a programme! I know Ches (Bartonjo) Lovely selfless guy, never knew about your loss. My condolences to all you dads who are keeping it real!

[@krisboyfavour8603]

No, the teacher should be blamed for punishing the child without finding out why he said his father cooks at home.

[@kap849]

I think you can't blame the teacher. These are some of the issues that arise when we have a government that does not prioritize education. We need to review our education system.

[@mumbi-maina]

That was soo sad 🥺

[@ntombindaba806]

No need for the teacher to be punished, bcs he really didn't understand obviously he thought the child is confused.

[@krisboyfavour8603]

@@ntombindaba806 You are wrong.

[@ntombindaba806]

@@kap849 true dat

[@rosedidi235]

God bless these Men. And give them strength.Amen

[@agathakphiri1384]

May the good Lord bless all men who is there for their children after the passing of their wives, your in my prayers always ❤️💕

[@eunnymbugua10]

Sorry for these wonderful and strong men for their loss of their wives si kawaida mwanamme kuongea uchungu wake bt i salute them all 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@kitakaflora3948]

I have been widowed for a year now, but its is taking a toll on me. Some one help.

[@alicec6589]

Hi Flora, The Lord is your refuge and your strength. HE HOLDS YOU AT THE PALMS OF HIS HANDS. You are in my prayers 🙏

[@Zen-cx5tc]

🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@annsitymakena2382]

Its sad Kenyan men seem to miss the wife due to wife duties she did mainly.

[@pa798]

Love is a verb. Its the role they played as a wife. A woman is a helper

[@priscillamunjita8316]

Am praying for these great men! God's love & comfort abound in your lives.I personally have so much respect for you especially on the stance of not remarrying. Not remarrying is always the best option to consider when you have children. I wish you all God's peace, love & comfort

[@ekakhumalointombi5286]

So sorry for your loss sir...May God comfort you...

[@kemigishajesicca8332]

This is so touching ♥️♥️Single fathers are the true unsung heros. I salute them👏👏👏👏.They sacrifice so many things to raise their children right. They are often judged by society wrongly regardless of the effort they put in to raise their children.There is that obvious option that society thinks is a solution to widowhood.... re-marrying. People forget that re-marrying is first of all, a choice and it doesn't necessarily fill the void. Secondly, the truth is that your deceased wife is in every way irreplaceable. I was raised by a single father and the older I get I appreciate him for all that he has done for Us. May God bless all Single fathers. You are special ♥️

[@alajmialajm8794]

Na kuna wanaume wanatia wasichana mimba alafu wanawakataa..waje waona wanaume wenzao hpo vile wako humbled.. may God continue to give these men strength to take care of their children 🙏🙏🙏 your my hero's

[@savanna3985]

It's great to give men/fathers a platform to open up and talk about challenges and emotions in their life, not the old day mentality of "men are meant to be tough and stomach everything" a good old cry is also therapeutic for them. Kudos to these fathers and others in the world going through challenges!

[@doriswangari2048]

This really makes us appreciate the role that mothers and women play in a family set up. So important.

[@estherjulius7414]

Watching this with tears in my eyes

[@shalom3522]

Waooow, this is a group of people who are so forgotten. Thanks for getting into this very sensitive topic. I never ever knew my father was a smoker until my mother died. Then my father became a chimney. He would follow her after 5 years. I really pray that widowers can be reached in their grieving process. It is always not easy for them. They are usually seen as the rock of the family and society just takes it for granted that they can go through grief and come out strong, but they need to have people around them who understand the grieving process to stay close to them and help them through.

[@josatinooking388]

Here I am seated on Kim's sofa set...hahahaha aol yawa

[@lynelee5846]

😃😃😃😃😃😃😃💃💃💃

[@fidelisekaale8325]

😂😂😂😂

[@annmaina1692]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@zawadiamanda3143]

Haha

[@Achieng_Omoro]

So me na saa hizo labda hata sijaona Kim’s sofas for weeeeeks 😂😂😂

[@twosugars966]

Hi Mike what a suprise to c u here again??love from Canada fbk friend.i loved ur work remember?Sorry for your demise too soon.i hope the kids will get through this and become great!HW

[@leahdan8594]

This is quite sad, we lost our mum in 2010 but God has seen us through and my dad has really done his best to bring us up, though we weren't that young. God bless and strengthen all the widows and widowers.

[@modest8917]

It's not an easy thing,I can relate when my mum died in 1999.Things were never the same

[@annefranciselizabeth3840]

Kenya is my favorite nation in Africa. The average Kenyan has got so much love. Just look at these struggling fathers.

[@keepondreaming1240]

Where are you from if I may ask

[@rtsoca5560]

I must say that I like Kenya n's. I like their peaceful and calm nature

[@edykirimi3320]

My mum left us when our last born was below 2yrs. I was in form 2. As we continued if our last born felt hurt would go to 'report at my mum's grave' it's never easy to loose your mum. Myself didn't know how to peel even potatoes and my dad could not sleep at night. But we have seen God.

[@phyllisplays3811]

The children should understand that their fathers need some in their lives and its healthy, they deserve to be happy, step mum will never replace their mothers but will help their father to cope with life a little bit, i lost my mum at the age of 3yrs and my dad took care of us for 10 years alone, but later we all agree dad need someone..., and we all needed mum to come home to...

[@kentosh120]

Some step mother's ate evil, and control the man,I went through it but luckily i moved out.

[@maryalff2897]

Great Content!

[@amo2743]

It is Very true men breakdown in tears but on their private rooms

[@kariminjiru9162]

Salute you Dad's, may God's grace abound to you and your kids.

[@emmakikundwa885]

Wow! I am glad to hear these very courageous men share. My uncle lost a wife 20 years ago, my mum lost her husband (not my father) around the same time too, I could not understand why they didn't remarry. I always supported anyone talking about match making for them, I now have a better appreciation of their decision.

[@millicentmusewe3876]

All is well. May God give you strength & wisdom to bring up your kids.

[@hopeinHisgrace_official]

May God give all of you strength to press on. I lost my sister to cervical cancer April this year. She left her husband three young kids. The youngest, 2 year old girl keeps on asking when her mum is coming back from 'school' . Death is so cruel