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@it13333 жыл бұрын
It depends if the options are their all men will cheat that's what i think, but many don't have the option.
@catastrophe002 жыл бұрын
Somewhat of a contradiction, I hear. He said some men don’t have the options for cheating so they appreciate what they have. That doesn’t make him a man that doesn’t cheat. That makes him a man they CAN’T cheat. Huge difference. The title of this video should be, Do all men WANT to cheat. The want to do it is what’s relevant. If my woman doesn’t sleep with another man but it’s evident that she wants to, then she’s lost already.
@elly38372 жыл бұрын
Boom. Very well put ty.
@muna32322 жыл бұрын
This!
@kevinnivek50222 жыл бұрын
💯
@bettybella5950 Жыл бұрын
💯
@Laoriginal7183 ай бұрын
ALL men have the opportunity to cheat because you can literally buy some 🐱. Prostitution is the oldest “profession” in the world.
@ladyyvette13395 жыл бұрын
My X cheated on me and now he wants to cheat on his wife of 12 year's with me 😑 Of course I said hell naw!
@iLoveLeatherNYC5 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you are the kind of woman that shut the door on that. Did he cheat on you with his prior relationship? If so, that might be his M.O. he goes back to where he has been before, covered ground / familiar territory.
@ladyyvette13395 жыл бұрын
@@iLoveLeatherNYC No, Some other woman, He's wife was a college x, I keep telling to try to work things out bc our child will be destroyed of he's actions
@ladyyvette13395 жыл бұрын
@@iLoveLeatherNYC I can can u one thing, He lost all my respect for sure
@iLoveLeatherNYC5 жыл бұрын
@@ladyyvette1339 You truly are amazing advocating for them, their relationship, her. What I often see is that it is so easy to walk away. Or create enough space to feel his actions are justified. My ex and I are besties and he often complains about his wife. I was like: Maybe your the reason the love is out. You have to put it back in.
@jasu51425 жыл бұрын
once a cheat..always a cheat
@kayajackson505 жыл бұрын
As silly and gullible as I can be sometimes, I’ll never believe that ALL men cheat. That leads to entering a new relationship with doubts and fears. It’s not fair to him. Thanks Mr. Stephan for another good video!
@hr-hq8ji Жыл бұрын
They do though. Sorry to make you face reality
@ladybyrd2155 жыл бұрын
All men don't cheat. As women we can really do more.... Like not tolerate men like this. Let him know up front this is a deal breaker for you. Raise your standards and ask of them the same things they expect of you. Most importantly, love yourself and I promise you everything else will fall into place
@bobsmith12922 жыл бұрын
All men cheat. Facts. And if he’s not yet, he wants to. And he will given the opportunity. Men are not monogamous creatures. Period.
@michaelbell39392 жыл бұрын
Plz if he fat ugly or just really lame of course he not going to cheat but plz believe a man with swag and money u better bet ya dollar on it man we’ll test new vagina here and their…
@bibaolaitan5189 Жыл бұрын
THIS!!!... when men cheat and women tolerate it, they feel they can keep doing it, cos they will always be another woman that will take them. We are truely our own problem.
@MonochromaticBlues Жыл бұрын
“As women we cheat more” nah women who don’t know their worth and put themselves in weird situations cheat more… I’m a woman biologically
@franksmith741911 ай бұрын
HOW ABOUT NO SEX TIL MARRIAGE, THERE, YOUR STANDARDS ARE RAISED.
@michellesingleton83445 жыл бұрын
Exactly all man are not wired that way.I have 4 brothers that dont cheat.They like peace in there lives.
@torrihoward97295 жыл бұрын
Your brothers are rare indeed and blessed (rised correctly with the fear of GOD for sure)! Hats off to their parents.💕
@michellesingleton83445 жыл бұрын
@@torrihoward9729 💞💞💞
@giac88894 жыл бұрын
@@michellesingleton8344 can you hook me up with one please lol. Im not having any luck.
@giac88894 жыл бұрын
@Demark Cleaning whats your problem?
@alexism86863 жыл бұрын
I’m glad to know your brothers exist in the world it’s sad there’s not more MEN out there like them.
@MoveNgroove935 жыл бұрын
🙋🏾♂️ I am one who doesn’t, it takes a certain type of individual, one who is sure of himself and discipline. I respect men and women more when they’re committed, the will to do so is truly commendable because it’s not easy.
@yoruba215 жыл бұрын
Where you stay? Lol I'm kidding. There are few disciplined respectful men.
@MoveNgroove935 жыл бұрын
Sade_Ashley lol Atl. It really boils downs to morals and values,that as well as guilt.
@keepthefaithwithtori5 жыл бұрын
@@yoruba21 🤣😂🤣😂🤣.... laughing at where you stay
@yoruba215 жыл бұрын
@@keepthefaithwithtori I was just seeing something 😂😂😂
@Effort.lyss__4 жыл бұрын
Sade_Ashley lmao I was thinking the same sis 😂
@jamainegaitor11 ай бұрын
I have NEVER cheated in a relationship. I'd rather leave than cheat.
@anika_hАй бұрын
Leaving so you can sleep with others... you're a cheater.
@lavendertea4625Ай бұрын
You don't know what cheating is
@kaleidojess5 ай бұрын
Men who don't cheat are rare. The discipline isn't there for some.
@VJolie32 жыл бұрын
90% Comments: -Women saying not all men cheat -Men saying women cheat too Smh
@Ty131366 ай бұрын
Men's comments trying to prove women's comments wrong 😶
@Laoriginal7183 ай бұрын
Both things are true.
@Lefty38853 Жыл бұрын
Over 3 yrs into my marriage and no cheating. Def possible. No desire to ruin my relationship on temporary pleasure.
@deborahhoward2648 Жыл бұрын
Wait a few more years. Heck, a decade or two....y'all still in the "honeymoon" phase.
@FA-dv5he Жыл бұрын
@@deborahhoward2648facts
@franksmith741911 ай бұрын
OMG U LOSER, ITS 3 YEARS, THATS NO BADGE OF HONOR, WOW
@Ty131366 ай бұрын
Don't underestimate the time... Sometimes, a decade or even more is still less to see the reality... It's always better to be cautious and keep warning indirectly.
@mea29155 ай бұрын
That's a man of principles. Please don't corrupt him. He is not like you.
@MrsCrandon5 жыл бұрын
I'm yet to find one that don't cheat I'm not saying he don't exist I jus havnt met him
@Groovy4ever245 жыл бұрын
Repeat this daily: I deserve a loyal, committed man and he will soon find me 😁
@Cutegirl86145 жыл бұрын
@@Groovy4ever24 I'm going to repeat this to myself everyday too.
@icyunvme24003 жыл бұрын
Same💀 I’m at the stage of acceptance though. Imma just stay single.
@Laoriginal7183 ай бұрын
@@Groovy4ever24why does she deserve that? That sounds like entitlement. Affirmations are for people who don’t pray. No one is entitled to a relationship. Y’all be delulu truly.
@Laoriginal7183 ай бұрын
@@Cutegirl8614you’re not entitled to a relationship. You’re delulu too 😂. Just pray about it and ask God to bring forth HIS will for your life.
@tchappell42375 жыл бұрын
This is real talk. The huge challenge is to train our brains to the authentic belief that NOT all men cheat. As women, myself included, whether via personal experiences, witnessed experiences, lack of healthy relationships, social media and the movie business, we've been conditioned with the inaccurate assumption that ALL men cheat. I cannot believe that all men cheat because I'm a woman would not fathom cheating herself thus, my guy is out there and he's not one to cheat. Re-training the brain is an university I'm in right now during my season of being single (by choice). In order for me to attract what I've been praying for, I have to work that faith and hold positive, real and mature thoughts in my heart/mind while in preparation for my boo.
@shaideakapri53114 жыл бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@skhan31182 жыл бұрын
It’s not about not cheating when you don’t have options but to learn to be satisfied with what you have, genuinely!
@Medabrown19855 жыл бұрын
When i was at lack of knowledge i thought all men cheated ive seen it from other relationships. All men dont cheat. Its all mind of MATTER. Its good men out here but their really far in between. Its that needle in the hay stack few good men left.
@NYCCHOCOLATE77775 жыл бұрын
LOL LOL LOL Jermeta,YOU Ain't Never Lied- Far & Few Between lt's Just Like Playing The Lottery When lt's in the Upper Millions. I Do Believe They Are Around But Just NEVER ln MY Path
@SUNFLOWER-vt8gi2 жыл бұрын
Your chances of finding a man that doesn't cheat is like a needle in a haystack!!!!
@santanapage50443 ай бұрын
Unless they're a bum
@marydietterich59682 ай бұрын
Hmmm….they all want to be Hugh Hefner
@Boosiedabluprintt5 жыл бұрын
I agree completely...everybody ain't saints but its some good men out there
@mindingmyownbusiness61945 жыл бұрын
Please point me in the direction lol
@Boosiedabluprintt5 жыл бұрын
@@mindingmyownbusiness6194 I'm still looking myself 🤣💀
@hr-hq8ji Жыл бұрын
Where ? Lmao
@Ty131366 ай бұрын
Somewhere ?? You mean aliens.. I'm sure you're not talkin about humans right 😂
@Laoriginal7183 ай бұрын
Like 2. There’s like 2 faithful men left on earth.
@ruthhouston98605 жыл бұрын
To be fair alotta women cheat too. Trust me all these men aren’t just cheating with single women.
@harooncaptures98262 жыл бұрын
Women cheat far more. Western women, with social media on the rise, women have way more options then men. These women will be lead astray in life, and all justice is eventually served.
@elly38372 жыл бұрын
Cheating starts in the mind and in the heart.
@Laoriginal7183 ай бұрын
Facts
@Pamelina585 жыл бұрын
My ex husband of 15 years became distant during the last 3 years of our marriage. I didn't think he was cheating but just having a mid life crisis. I was very understanding but I found out he cheated. He left me for the mistress and married her. I will always love him and I truly hope all men don't cheat.
@shymultimedia5 жыл бұрын
Pamelina58 THE SAME THING HAPPENED TO ME!! We had 15 years together as well - 5 years dating 10 years marriage. I think he cheated on me within the last year though. Left me for mistress and married her, I’m still trying to get my life together, let’s pray for each other ❤️
@Pamelina585 жыл бұрын
@@shymultimedia I'm sorry to hear that the same thing happened to you. Hopefully you were able to deal with it better. I pray that we both can get past this and thrive.👏
@samanthajeffers93393 жыл бұрын
Honey, I’m so so sorry. That must’ve been so painful
@FF-fd4tm2 жыл бұрын
And how are their mistresses doing now?
@darceydiaries422 жыл бұрын
@@FF-fd4tm they've probably been cheated on with the mistress. Stay strong beautiful ladies, hope time has been a healer ❤️
@mackenzieweber70845 жыл бұрын
I'll believe it when I see it.
@suzanneaubin75995 жыл бұрын
I’m still waiting as well. In fact I remained hopeful until now. Given up at this point in my life. I do not think I can go through being lied to and stomped on again. It hurts too much.
@Haileyrodriguez2883 жыл бұрын
if u don change ur thinking youll never get a faithful guy !
@biancadort19903 жыл бұрын
Facts
@kevinnivek50222 жыл бұрын
Keep that mindset
@heartlessjay4902 жыл бұрын
Trust me when I say men also feel the same way. Wondering if there's any loyal women these days. But I can assure you there r some guys who r loyal.
@elp12465 жыл бұрын
@ 1:15 "some men aren't cheat-n, they're just busy" ----- YEAH, BUSY CHEATING LOL
@natasha726904 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@Green_Magic32264 жыл бұрын
You can say the same about women
@marcusvergara61933 жыл бұрын
Damn. So I guess work, school, studying and friends doesn’t exist, huh?
@brooklynzoo28103 жыл бұрын
@@marcusvergara6193 People be cheating at work and school ALL the time. I have heard stories for dayszz
@marcusvergara61933 жыл бұрын
@@brooklynzoo2810 damn. That means EVERY damn time a guy goes to school, he probably cheating. Dumbass.
@TarotReadingsandMeditations2 жыл бұрын
Cheating is mental.
@undercovernewsnetwork2 ай бұрын
All Men do not cheat , some Men have cheated and then they evolve. A busy content Man is a gift
@poemsjones41845 жыл бұрын
I've been a barber for 23 years and I'm going to give you ladies the real Tea. 98.9% of men cheat.
@liisabbyxD5 жыл бұрын
Poems Jones thank you for the statistics I knew it was ok that ball park
@prettyloubey84115 жыл бұрын
Poems Jones exactly it’s in the DNA nothing women can do about it
@ruthhouston98605 жыл бұрын
And women dont? Those 98% aint only cheating with single women.
@poemsjones41845 жыл бұрын
@@ruthhouston9860 nobody is saying women don't cheat, the topic is about men. Dishonest people cheat in general. I'm just being honest married men cheat when they travel afar, out of state. Women are emotional men are logical men are prone to cheat alot more
@ruthhouston98605 жыл бұрын
Poems Jones I wouldn’t say they are prone to cheat alot more. I just think the actual “cheating” might be different. Like a man out of state away from his wife probably will have to physically meet a person to have sex with. Where as a wife probably could get her needs met or the little attention she craves from ppl in the dm’s and shell be fine. Women don’t “need” sex so cheating is different. I guess u can’t compare.
@peaceful_and_blessed28795 жыл бұрын
Love this Stephan. You are speaking truth. I I have been in serious relationships, including my ex husband, and none of them were the cheating type they just didn’t operate like that they were honest men. One of them is actually my best friend now
@sica20365 жыл бұрын
so you have been with them 24/7?
@Qwertyx0172 жыл бұрын
that is very good
@Haileyrodriguez2883 жыл бұрын
Its weird bc when i was watching a cheating talk show they was like if men had the opportunity to cheat they would
@psychadelicpotato85803 жыл бұрын
I just saw it...
@lissarancourt33793 жыл бұрын
100%
@Luckyy2273 жыл бұрын
Life is all about contrast I think, when you are married to a millionaire for his money, would you pass the opportunity to marry a billionaire had the opportunity presented itself? I guess not! Settling and saying I’m ok with exactly what I have is not something all humans are capable of, or even care about in the first place because they’re most likely just looking for the next best thing...
@icyunvme24003 жыл бұрын
100% I use to be a hoe (not proud of it and I had issues when I was younger, but anyways) dudes were so easy. I never had one that turned me down all I had to do was ask. It didn’t matter if they were single or taken.
@thevegantitian2 жыл бұрын
Because it's true
@Lightskin-i1k6 ай бұрын
The thing is to men and women, If you know that you're not ready to be in a relationship, if you already love someone or someone already love you, if you using them , you wasting their trust or time, you going to dump them soon or in the future, and not going to be with your future children in the future. Then why be with them if u know you going to hurt them. Because that makes you the FOOL and that makes you STUPID because you wasting there time, breaking there hearts. Think before you you wanna be with someone. "Ok ik im going to hurt that person let me not do it" Like is that simple.
@OutlawShelz Жыл бұрын
yes they do. If you are doing anything that you wouldn't feel comfortable doing right in front of your wife/husband, girlfriend/boyfriend- it's cheating. That includes "liking" pictures, or DMing other people. Because you're not just "liking" a picture- you're hoping that person will reach out to you, or notice that you PERSONALLY "liked" their picture.
@p_virtuous5 жыл бұрын
Thank God all men don't cheat!! That'll be a terrible circumstance. I can see how one can conclude that after a bad experience...this is why healing is important! Can't wait to get your new book btw.
@hr-hq8ji Жыл бұрын
They do cheat . And If they say they don’t, they’re lying
@Emptytopfloor Жыл бұрын
@@hr-hq8ji💯
@jasminebrewster98705 жыл бұрын
Amen. No, all men to not cheat. Negativity and fear. Someone said this today. I had to go back to this video. God allowed me experience men (Christian men, friends, acquaintances) who are faithful to their women and love them. I think we need God to give us his perspective and give us a new perspective. Heal from those experiences where we experienced unfaithfiul men who hurt us. Ask God show us faithful men, not walking in fear. Let the right man love you. Thanks, Stephan!
@shaideakapri53114 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏽
@jessicafrost98942 жыл бұрын
I love this ❣️❣️💯
@CoachLove5 жыл бұрын
Of course there's a difference between being a man excited about using his energy to find ways to learn one woman versus being a grown boy who lacks control and discipline over himself. Men want to plant good seed for his legacy to reap.
@thoroughbred3735 жыл бұрын
I agree 100%. Just like not every woman is out for a man's money or is a cheater,etc,etc. Some people are simply not wired to become that way. Even when they are put in circumstances that make it difficult to see clearly. I tried to be wicked like many people near me. But I never follow through. It just never works out for me LOL. I'm glad God made me the way that I am. I don't fit in most places and I know that that's always going to be the case on this Earth.
@drayhines8183 ай бұрын
Thank you somebody finally said it all men do not cheat. Especially when he loves his woman.
@thoroughbred3735 жыл бұрын
It reminds me of the basic standard of keeping the Friendship intact if the friendship was a pure friendship to begin with and there's room for growth and understanding but if there was never an honest friendship between people who eventually got married or got into a relationship there clearly is no hope if you can't be a good friend to somebody then you must be alone with God until you can figure that one out
@yolandathomas28875 жыл бұрын
All men don't cheat
@marcusvergara61933 жыл бұрын
This statement is incorrect. It’s actually “not all men cheat”. The statement “all men don’t cheat” says that every single man doesn’t cheat, which isn’t true.
@bluehoney68315 жыл бұрын
I agree- In addition to that, communication is an important component in all this. After being hurt so much I can understand how it's "easier" to think that all men cheat. But with faith and true heeling, you start to see other ways of life. In this case TIME will be your best friend for you to believe the fact that not all men are the same 💚
@bluehoney68315 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank you as well, please continue to do what you do
@MsMPA5 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@glo10053 жыл бұрын
My thing is how can you tell if a man is not a cheater. We always know how they are cheaters, but what about the ones that aren't. How can we tell
@Luckyy2273 жыл бұрын
Is he a good person in general? Does he stick to any type of moral code in his life? Does he have personal values? And is he capable of maintaining them? Those are some ways you can tell.
@icyunvme24003 жыл бұрын
Simple see how they act around their friends. Most are proud of cheating and talk about it all the time with their friends or people close.
@kevinnivek50222 жыл бұрын
Almost impossible because the majority of us cheat in every way possible. Rather it's sex, Digitally, Flirting, or mentally. Now the question should be how to know when a man is not having sex with anyone else.
@coachfeliciad5 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Very good wisdom. I know I was guilty of the ALL word use. But I got checked and decided to do just what you say. Ask him inquire and find out what's going on instead of assuming and jumping to conclusions. Now the frustration for me is when he has the same answer that has nothing to do with the question. So I decided to Express myself and say hey it is absolutely unnecessary and unbelievable that you can go 24 hrs or more without a text, call or something and mean you love me. Stephan I agree that not all are cheating. but truth is with the mini computers we have in our hands there is no amount of busy that would ever [for me] warrant it ok to go 24hrs or more without a text, 5 sec facetime. Schedule a text message an audio message, a Marco polo. Short of being overseas as a military personnel, being in war. Working a double at a prison but even then u get a break. There's no reason short of hospitalization. Death. Maybe sleep for hours on end but not 24 unless you in a coma. But that's me. I have issues with that #workingonmyabandonmentissues #deathdoesweirdthingstoyou
@cocoa77125 жыл бұрын
Whoo Chile me too! We Got this!! It's okay luv❤️
@NYCCHOCOLATE77775 жыл бұрын
ME Too, ME Too Guilty-WE All Have Issues & Raising MY Hand Quick To Judge Without Asking ?'s 1st. I Am Thankful To Stephan For Doing This Video & Changing MY Thought Process To Even Ask The ? And Find Out What's Going On 1st
@vjmlvjml5 жыл бұрын
Same way as there are men that cheat, there are women that do to. Just like there are men that don't cheat, there are also women that don't cheat! Great video Stephan and eye-opening for many people!
@mizztiffany41545 жыл бұрын
I've no luck with dating at all!!!but I've never thought all men cheat!
@mizztiffany41545 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thanks iam waiting on god this time its been so crazy my life is the 2nd part of WAITING to Exhale but its gonna get better I just feel it
@kayajackson505 жыл бұрын
mizz Tiffany You’re so pretty. You’ll find someone :)
@mizztiffany41545 жыл бұрын
@@kayajackson50 Awww Thanks a bunch I hope so! I'm not in a rush but I'm ready but I know now everything happens according to gods plan
@melekehmedova1653 жыл бұрын
You're absolutely beautiful and you will find the one for you when the time comes. Stay safe,Love You
@hr-hq8ji Жыл бұрын
Well they do cheat aoooo
@deanj88703 жыл бұрын
You're absolutely right. It was a brother who had a great paying job. One day his wife came on his job raised hell by jumped in wrong conclusion just because he said he spoke to one of employees who was a female. He lost his job. The wife and her husband came to Bishop from help paying bills. When the story told to bishop, he told her she should work because she caused the husband to lost his job. Which I agreed because she was insecure and controlling. There are good men that are treated unfair because women are carries excessive baggage from the past📖🙏🏾👑
@exquisitejewelrikkei29573 жыл бұрын
This is good to know! There’s hope!
@Miswhitness05203 жыл бұрын
The answer is yes. Next question
@irenenjeri8720 Жыл бұрын
Cheating should not be normalised
@loveandfaithfulness4479 Жыл бұрын
Proverbs 5 My son, pay attention to my wisdom; Lend your ear to my understanding, That you may preserve discretion, And your lips may keep knowledge. For the lips of an immoral woman drip honey, And her mouth is smoother than oil; But in the end she is bitter as wormwood, Sharp as a two-edged sword. Her feet go down to death, Her steps lay hold of hell. Lest you ponder her path of life- Her ways are unstable; You do not know them. Therefore hear me now, my children, And do not depart from the words of my mouth. Remove your way far from her, And do not go near the door of her house, Lest you give your honor to others, And your years to the cruel one; Lest aliens be filled with your wealth, And your labors go to the house of a foreigner; And you mourn at last, When your flesh and your body are consumed, And say: “How I have hated instruction, And my heart despised correction! I have not obeyed the voice of my teachers, Nor inclined my ear to those who instructed me! I was on the verge of total ruin, In the midst of the assembly and congregation.” Drink water from your own cistern, And running water from your own well. Should your fountains be dispersed abroad, Streams of water in the streets? Let them be only your own, And not for strangers with you. Let your fountain be blessed, And rejoice with the wife of your youth. As a loving deer and a graceful doe, Let her breasts satisfy you at all times; And always be enraptured with her love. For why should you, my son, be enraptured by an immoral woman, And be embraced in the arms of a seductress? For the ways of man are before the eyes of the Lord, And He ponders all his paths. His own iniquities entrap the wicked man, And he is caught in the cords of his sin. He shall die for lack of instruction, And in the greatness of his folly he shall go astray.
@josemena68773 жыл бұрын
I am one of those dudes that takes stuff seriously I don't play around with that cheating stuff to be honest only had one relationship but that one girl she cheated on me and ever since I never had anyone and I always been so cold inside but I don't know if I'm worth it for anyone to be honest
@Fullrusher3 жыл бұрын
Same bro I’ve never cheated but got cheated multiple times
@icyunvme24003 жыл бұрын
I’ll believe it once I see it
@RachelCharles7892 жыл бұрын
You ARE worth it. Sry you went through that. I hope you stay loyal and get what you deserve, a faithful partner.
@christinachrist3274 Жыл бұрын
You are worth it and you are enough. Ask The LORD to guide and direct you to the right person.
@christinachrist3274 Жыл бұрын
@@Fullrusher So sorry you had to experience this. Not all women are the same. Pray and am the LORD to lead you to the right partner. Keep the faith♥️
@user-mb9jx5tx9y5 жыл бұрын
Well where are they
@tilliewillson9125 жыл бұрын
That's what I'm screaming! Where are they? But what if he don't answer my texts but quickly texts back 2 other females? And happened to tell one he loved her? Career my ass! As tech savvy as this world is today, he can either answer my call or text back.. before texting some other females. Result : I left him.. and feel better than I have in quite some time 🙏📿 thank you Jesus!
@marcusvergara61933 жыл бұрын
79% of men don’t cheat and 87% of women don’t cheat. You just happen to land in that 21% of men cheating. Don’t do on hooking apps, and try to find an educated guy. Try one who’s nice, friendly, hard working, and creative. Those men only have a 1.2% chance of cheating. And don’t be pessimistic. That’ll make men more prone to cheating. Treat them like you want to be treated.
@icyunvme24003 жыл бұрын
In your dreams😔
@lch78762 жыл бұрын
I'm one but women are to worried about my clothes, and me entertaining them 24/7. Know that when your going for the most attractive man in the room every other woman is to. And it's not normal for men to be pursued by women. So when one is desired by multiple women the odds of him being faithful to you are slim to none. Because there are no other elder men around who can talk him off that lustful ledge, because there are few men that live that experience, and the few men that do live that experience are to busy jumping off that lustful ledge into a pool of unlimited women. Most good men are undesirable and considered nice guys to most women. When in reality we are exactly those who are perfect for a relationship that wants to raise a family. But are for the Most part only wanted after the women have given all their youth and beauty away to the 6ft, swaggery, funny guy who jumped off the cliff into the pool of women.
@rosaliasolis404 Жыл бұрын
@@icyunvme2400 Stop being such a negative b****.You are spreading negative energy to everyone!
@abigalestoll2 жыл бұрын
I believe you 💯. I don't believe that all men cheat.
@godsfavorite20605 жыл бұрын
Who he think he kidding 😳...lol
@heart-2-heart-talks-with-tj5 жыл бұрын
My motto is: ALL MEN CHEAT BUT, THEY DONT CHEAT FOREVER!!! Basically, men retire from cheating at some point.
@g-max28105 жыл бұрын
Heart-2-Heart TALKS w/ TJ girl yes that’s it !!
@nurarich49455 жыл бұрын
Of course the do When they are old ugly and broke
@ThebigGLRams4 жыл бұрын
Noooo
@duradun47564 жыл бұрын
Lol
@MiaCarter73 жыл бұрын
Ive heard of men in their 50s and 60's, falling apart and still being able to cheat
@evak33564 жыл бұрын
One guy I caught told me after that all men do it and that's the harsh truth. He said even if I find a loyal guy, I won't like him. So basically, trying to make me accept the 3rd party scenario.
@evak33563 жыл бұрын
@Marly B Yeah basically. Thanks for reaching out! So over that one. I raised my standards even higher.
@Luckyy2273 жыл бұрын
Cheaters validate their cheating by pushing and projecting their fault into the collective. Saying that all men cheat is by far an exaggeration and him being a man does not speak for all men either. He just trying to sleep comfy at night. Don’t worry
@evak33563 жыл бұрын
@@Luckyy227 so true. I also feel he only sees and hangs around the men that do which also validates his behaviour. He shrugs off or is blind to any other man that is opposite of him.
@ThatHonestPerson2 жыл бұрын
All men do cheat.
@rosaliasolis404 Жыл бұрын
@@ThatHonestPerson not all and women do cheat.
@siphokazin.7552 Жыл бұрын
It's not about a man being busy its about him always being out with the boys,going to hang out without you,catching up with friends cousins or whatever without all the time. Its not about working
@doyoumind.atall.stopspying5572 Жыл бұрын
Yes they do
@Angelaaa_x0x05 жыл бұрын
Thank u!! I needed to hear this from a males perspective because all I hear all the time is all me cheat but it’s also what I’m seeing in that’s generation too, I just hope I find a true man of God who cares to be a respectable man!
@TrustJesus3333 ай бұрын
Because it is true. All men cheat.
@ultraspyninjascool18295 жыл бұрын
Love the way you answered this question.
@michele63755 жыл бұрын
Agreed! That was well said, Stephan!
@Mk-un3mp2 жыл бұрын
Has any ladies come across these men that do not cheat
@amc39646 ай бұрын
Love this man! Wish more were like you.
@ChannelFiend5 жыл бұрын
I think you should have defined what qualifies as cheating to men versus women. Is there such a thing as intellectually cheating on your partner? What if your partner isn't a techy or into coding, but you have a friend of the opposite gender who is into that? What about sharing your time with a friend of the opposite gender who enjoys the same activity that his partner doesn't? For example eating at a particular restaurant once a week or going to the movies, or shopping at a particular store. Is this cheating? To some, there are other ways of cheating and these things need to be discussed as much as physical infidelity.
@Sweet_lady19925 жыл бұрын
My man don’t cheat and hasn’t cheated👌🏾👌🏾❤️❤️🥰🥰
@mrslloydpolite15 жыл бұрын
So you think.
@Sweet_lady19925 жыл бұрын
Nikki Polite That’s what I know for a FACT sweetie👌🏾👌🏾🥰
@jkrystal114 жыл бұрын
Lol I thought mines didn’t go for a while when I found out he would use a app to cheat and then delete it when he came home. And if I call and he didn’t answer when he would call back he would be in his truck saying he had his music up. Lol maybe he dont cheat. But I was fooled
@lextherapy82083 жыл бұрын
If you feel like he’s an actual good one, don’t let people try to ruin your view of him
@Fullrusher3 жыл бұрын
As a man who doesn’t cheat , believe and try with your man and don’t let bitter women change your view of your man and commitment
@SarahsFan14 жыл бұрын
So the men who aren't cheating are not because they're busy...? xP Well that's great to hear... x) Better watch out if he gets some freetime
@kevinnivek50222 жыл бұрын
Oh Oh Oh and the ones who can't get women as well so when he gets the opportunity watch out for that too. LOL
@Feminazi1dc4 ай бұрын
yup
@blessedbeyondmeasures75323 жыл бұрын
It’s really hard to find a guy who don’t though ,you can be the prettiest,hold a nigga down etc he will still make time and entertain another bitch & it’s not bout being in a relationship because I’m single n I don’t deal with dudes who chases girls
@Feminazi1dc4 ай бұрын
it gets so old i am tired my heart is tired
@LaiLai.. Жыл бұрын
I think everyone have the capacity to cheat at some point. It honestly makes you feel like you should expect your partner cheat at some point especially if y’all been together for so long.
@carlawashington20835 жыл бұрын
Every men that a women may encounter with are not the same. Yes, some of you may have been with a men who have cheated on you in the past but that doesn’t mean the next men that you met or even have a relationship with will cheat on you. Ladies, you have to change your mindset by not putting all men in the same category and labeling them as cheaters. Give the next men a try but allow him to be the men. If you know your men is out handling business chasing after his dreams. Pray for him, support him, love him and encourage him. But don’t think he’s out cheating on you, and don’t be insecure.
@gwendolyndavid82275 жыл бұрын
I wasnt ensecure & i trusted him when he told me the relationship was iver with this woman.. (Who when he was with her he tild me she wasn't even his type.. So i figured he was just having sex with her.. We got back together & i found out that he was still cheating with tge sane woman , i confrinted her she claimed she didnt want to be with him cause he wasnt her type.. _so y'all just fuck buddies then.? Meanwhile she states to me no woman has ever confronted her about her messing around with their man.. So this is something shes done more than once.. While she heeself had a man she was living with.. But waa sending nude pics of herself to mine.. No i dont believe all men cheat , but, i never would have believed mine would either.. He has this so call christian friend who covers for him & tells him go ahead man Enjoy!!!! Wth is up with that?? Then sit in my house & tell me my husband don't want another woman!!!! I wanted to blast both of them but I'm trying to live peacefully!!!
@carlawashington20835 жыл бұрын
Gwendolyn David Sorry to hear that but choose to live peaceful.
@TrustJesus3333 ай бұрын
Sadly, you have been deceived. All men cheat. But, many women choose to live in denial. That is of course, your choice.
@DetroitsProduct3 жыл бұрын
Of course it’s not all. But most do. 😂
@TrustJesus3333 ай бұрын
I respectfully disagree with you. It is all.
@duradun47564 жыл бұрын
This sounds good, but... Now when he said guys are not always available because they cannot manage time, I get that. I dealt with a guy like that, but what was crazy was when he wanted to see me or I did not return his call right away he was upset.
@GorditaSlim6 ай бұрын
Yes. It's just how much do you know.
@AlanWake19942 ай бұрын
Not neccessarily But .... If he cheated for his wife or gf for you , there will be a risk for him to do it with you as well Sorry But i am a man so i know what i say
@slimjim2k34 жыл бұрын
Usually u can see a dog first hand. When a man is cheating he will be supicious
@aveidasimms36493 жыл бұрын
Love this message❤️
@deborahgloria38674 ай бұрын
Most men do!! There are exceptions!!
@TrustJesus3333 ай бұрын
Respectfully disagree. All men cheat.
@philiciaragsdale1296Ай бұрын
I don’t know that 1:05 Mark made it seem like he would cheat if he knew he had more options that don’t sound good to me 😂
@beautifulme66305 жыл бұрын
I want a god fearing faithful man.🙏💜
@ilovehousemusic26375 жыл бұрын
Beautiful Me He’s on his way sis! Keep the faith!! 😉
@beautifulme66305 жыл бұрын
@@ilovehousemusic2637 awww💜 Thanks Sis
@ruthhouston98605 жыл бұрын
They cheat too.
@danadavis83335 жыл бұрын
@@ruthhouston9860 lol yep
@Luckyy2273 жыл бұрын
I want a God loving man who is 💯 loving loyal and faithful to me and whose basically blind when it comes to other women because I’m that b 😂☝🏻
@rochelleceballos53125 жыл бұрын
Great video! Thanks so much
@MultiMackle5 жыл бұрын
It's almost as if women can't cheat
@faluqdah305 жыл бұрын
😍 right on time!!!
@Danw3437 ай бұрын
I don't believe men cheat . As a woman who only sees the man she is . I can't believe a man out there only has eyes for the woman he loves. I don't cheat because I go with a man I know I would love and also I don't believe in cheating .
@trajik0077 ай бұрын
I guess I could say that "all men don't cheat". I can say that I am picky about relationships, and even still I've been on the bad end of this far more than once. From every story from my family and myself, all men do cheat. Not necessarily a "dog" or a "pig" (as I've heard), but more of as nature of a male. The nature of our species is not monogamous, as much as female emotion would like it to be so (which is also more rare in nature). And tendency is, males cheat. As I over heard one day "Men cheat, honey, and it's best you get used to it now rather than wondering about what's wrong with you. Nothing is wrong with you. Men cheat. You better get used to it now".
@soniasohi50135 жыл бұрын
All men don't cheat.
@icyunvme24003 жыл бұрын
I’ll believe it once I see it.
@20yrs_oldBlackGuy2 жыл бұрын
Wym ?
@TrustJesus3333 ай бұрын
All men cheat. All. I actually really wanted to know the truth…I found it. This truth should be taught to ALL young girls.
@ivonnatheartist5 жыл бұрын
Love your wisdom Amen 😊
@bobsmith12922 жыл бұрын
YES. 💯
@j3v1N3 жыл бұрын
Do all men cheat? No! But the ones who don't cheat either don't have the opportunity(no access to women throwing themselves at him) or a good man who does, removes himself from social situations ahead of time that he knows may lead to it.
@BeGioBijoux Жыл бұрын
Not cheating because you don’t have an option is not a more interesting option then all men cheat…
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
@فاطمهمشتاقی-ه9ه4 жыл бұрын
these men live on far icelands not near to this world!!!!!!!!!
@karenKristal2 жыл бұрын
Its wierd that hes defending men and promoting a book called 'Hes lying sis'. Oh the irony.
@santanapage50443 ай бұрын
Than when u try to leave them ,they want to off you, smh u can't win with ninjas
@brendajones80735 жыл бұрын
Thank God,this isn’t the case for all men.
@sarahjoponziolifeteamprinc60602 жыл бұрын
So true !!!! Not all men not the same ! Their some women out there not good !
@rosaliasolis404 Жыл бұрын
Please.Stop lying.All men are nothing but cheaters who only care about themselves and never cared about the feelings of other people.
@bryangomez1384 Жыл бұрын
I’d say all relationships have cheating in them, if you aren’t cheating best believe your partner is, but I guarantee somebody is cheating in that relationship 😢
@laraemiller87975 жыл бұрын
I agree all men don’t cheat.
@CMchyy4 жыл бұрын
God Bless you all.
@kishnajohnson58605 жыл бұрын
I agree with you.
@thisisit46664 жыл бұрын
I just feel like good looking men are more likely to cheat. no?
@summero-my5in4 жыл бұрын
I agree... that's why people say men are as faithful as their options :/ it's sad. thankfully i am bisexual so i'll probably marry a woman... men are too risky because of this bs
@decidev3 жыл бұрын
@@summero-my5in kinda sexist ngl
@icyunvme24003 жыл бұрын
@@summero-my5in I feel the same except I’m aroace.
@Feminazi1dc4 ай бұрын
@@decidev nobody cares about "sexism" against men you buffoon
@kyliaballinout95313 жыл бұрын
He asked me to make more tyme for him an I think he's cheating but mabey I'm juss insecure idk any atvice .....???....
@destinyjames96013 жыл бұрын
Hmmm🤔time for him to do what? You should ask him what he needs time for. But also don’t jump to conclusions that he is cheating. But if he is asking for you to wait until he is ready to commit then I think you should cut it off.
@FeelGoodWithin5 жыл бұрын
Thankx so much 😇
@claudioccornejo Жыл бұрын
In my opinion all men are capable to cheat, but most don’t have the access to do it. If you’re guys who say they never cheated or won’t, I would like to see his answer if a dime gives him the opportunity to fuck and no one find out about it.
@AP-fv2in Жыл бұрын
All men cheat. He is talking crazy!
@annetteresto75875 жыл бұрын
PREACH IT, 🙆♀️☺😃😀😄🤲👩👐🙌👣🙂🙇♀️😁👏😆😊🤗💒PRAISE HIM
@millzdeals Жыл бұрын
Wow sooo are the ones not cheating the ones that don't have the options to cheat and they're just happy to have the one they have 😂 . wow thanks 😂