Do narcissists copy the people they are with or around? | The Narcissists' Code Ep 623

A lot of narcissists do copy the people they are in a relationship with. A lot of narcissist lack true identity and tend to mirror those around them in order to fit in.
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Thank you so much

[@azike24]

They call you names, belittle you about your cooking, the way you dress and the kind of job you do then go ahead and do the same thing they insult you for.

[@edwardc6288]

1000%. These people are animals. Run. The. Other. Way.

[@Ashwhi]

Its sooo weird like Evil … my husband literally applied for a job at my place of employment when we were in our early relationship and it pissed me off so bad bc why would you do this and lie Nd add my name as a reference meanwhile I had no idea he was applying until someone at my job mentioned the application…. I eventually got over that but here it is 7 years later married 2 years and a 5 year old and the mask has fallen off more than ever ,,, lord have mercy I never thought id be praying to get out of a marriage 🥺🥺 I just want my life back Id rather be alone !!

[@nadinesoussi7352]

Total demented

[@ChannelZero1031]

1. They mirror because they have no proper sense of Self. 2. They mirror because they lack emotional integrity. 3. They mirror because what is working for you? Has to work for them. 4. They mirror your authenticity because they lack it. Then eventually you get discarded or they fall out of correspondence with you. Human vacuums of the soul.

[@netrap9937]

🎯💯

[@ChannelZero1031]

@@netrap9937 Thank you

[@netrap9937]

@@ChannelZero1031 no thank u n ur welcome

[@nickygirl695]

👏👏👏

[@yuzuke4573]

I bring my spare shirt to change in the bathroom

[@shinashina602]

I be literally seen my narc text things I told him word for word to other women. Like he couldn’t think for his self. I never experienced someone so sick in my life. Literally was hell on earth dealing with him. I’m so happy I’m away from that situation.

[@Analysis_Paralysis]

One thing most people miss talking about is manipulation: Abusers copy the speech of their survivors in order to disguise themselves and twist the meaning of words and concepts. It helps them being better social chameleons. They sound less aggressive/abusive if they copy the language of decent and sincere people. They also steal the ideas of their victims because it helps them sound original and fresh to new targets who they can impress with the freshness of those ideas.

[@sarahcash391]

Suddenly getting "interested" in your interests then realize they are using your personality to manipulate someone else. doesn't have any actual interest, just borrowing mine for a while 🤡🤡

[@Analysis_Paralysis]

Precisely. They lack a coherent identity and they're dull, they have no sense of purpose or meaning. They're inauthentic.

[@HunterSommerness]

You both just described my older brother

[@diamondonpurpose9145]

They do it to flatter u and make u believe yall have more in common. Also to fit in!

[@rhondam4369]

it's exhausting just hearing this...I absolutely don't know how Narcissistic folks do it...I could never be in another relationship with a narcissist....it's too exhausting...almost like having another child or a full time job....life is already too much but dealing with someone like this is ridiculous...it should be mandatory they get help

[@courtneyhowe8832]

Preach on it absolutely like having another child or full time job

[@elizabethchidiac221]

Because they aren't us and never will be!! 😘❤🙏

[@blackjag121]

They lack the confidence in their originality so they copy someone else’s

[@jackieblue2341]

The ex husband 😩 use to say he’d be a shell of a man if I left him. I told him “ you’re already a shell. You’re just missing the “ man “ part 😩

[@jamikarolle590]

Lol

[@MentalHealness]

😫

[@jackieblue2341]

@@MentalHealness why the 😩. It’s the truth

[@goblin1226]

That's a savage comeback lmao

[@ruthberesford7801]

Pmsl x

[@Hanna3471-r9q]

It's a red flag that somebody is too much like you❤ perfect

[@MentalHealness]

❤️‍🩹♥️

[@Truth377]

I started researching his behavior as to wtf was wrong with him When I started being more aware I picked it up He ate the same food that I liked He watched Rugby and pretended he was enjoying the game even cheered Started giggling like me He mounded himself as to the joys I had in my life and seriously acted and mirrored me

[@saucitamercy7136]

Anyone else give an answer or explanation, and the narc says you’re wrong and then repeats exactly what you said like it’s different? I’m trying to see something 😅

[@julieanne25]

My ex went as far as when he left he got the same dog as me, took his new gf to the camping spot we would always go to that i introduced him to, wears the same fragrance as me, stole all my records and cds I owned and posted pics of "his fav" vinyls on social media. I just thought he was being an unoriginal turd and was obsessing over me--- didn't realize this was actually a thing some narcissists do!

[@jacquelinejones4230]

Took her to my hair dresser 🤣😅🤣

[@jacquelinejones4230]

That's funny my ex tried to find a lady that looked like me. He even took her to my hair dresser

[@julieanne25]

@@jacquelinejones4230 😳😳😳

[@Justmelanin]

No seriously this is what they do, I had a covert narc friend go out and buy the same exact car as me!

[@lisaengland1048]

Change whose style . ?. Gets and repeats . Because no soul?!. Oof 😅.

[@lisalandry140]

I had a coworker that would copy whoever was around. I never found anything cute or endearing about it but other people fell for it.

[@michellepowell3020]

A narcissist will mirror you and then criticize you as if they're not trying to act just like you. It's some sick, confusing shit.

[@EmpressAcended]

1:20 😂🤷🏽‍♀️🧿🙄 BE YOU BOO-BOO… thanks for this candid insight!

[@recoveringsoul755]

Yes! Claimed my accomplishments as his own. He's so empty.

[@MentalHealness]

💯

[@cierasmith8703]

Mine is not doing well without me caring n no contact while new supply finally callee from her phone while he was sleep cuz no contact is impossible for both of the narcs, he getting his dues as we speak for what he done to me

[@jackieblue2341]

They’re a shell of a “thing “

[@Inkpinkierosie]

@@cierasmith8703 good same thing happened to me lol 😂 these narcs are something else.

[@blackpearldermalab]

He copied everything I did. He took everything and passed it off as his own. It was weird and annoying 🙄 🚩

[@marymrtzmztrbs]

💡 ooooh, "to fit in", that makes so much sense. I thought it was creepy when my ex copied me, but yes! He wanted to fit in my circle of friends and family, so he mirrored me. 🤯, light bulb moment, thanks!

[@rebekahjette6304]

Someone I know read a book on manners because he is very worried about offending others all the time (just not his spouse & kids).

[@nokotose7127]

They copy everything.

[@MentalHealness]

💯💯🙏🏽

[@TeaLeaf222]

I appreciate you so much for being open and honest, I know you gave the disclaimer of people choosing to copy for different reasons. With that said I have a few questions. Asking from a real place, not trying to be snarky: 1. If the imitation is simply to fit in, while trying to get someone to like you why is it that when we call these behaviors out that isn't explained? I've attempted to have very respectful 1 on 1's with people like this and the gaslighting is real. 2. Why are there almost always digs at that person for the characteristic you seek to imitate? In my interactions with people who do this about 85% of the time they have made a condescending remark or joke regarding what ever it is they end up mimicking. 3. Do you know how unsettling and odd it can feel if you're hanging out with someone who is competing with you for your vibe? All of us have our own experiences and were raised differently. You can't imitate life experience. Do you realize that it can kind of make yall look corny and weird in a horror movie way?

[@elizabethchidiac221]

It also teaches healthy innocent people to be aware at all costs. I've been becoming aware of the lengths people go to whether they are good or bad to destroy the reputations of innocent victims in the games they constantly play. Preying on your vulnerabilities to utilise them for their advantage. Surround yourself with trustworthy people that validate your experiences with people like this and know your truth and that of your family and children. They will do anything to take that all away from you. So long story short, you know who you are and that's all that matters. No one's opinion of you defines who you are and what you stand for. Be strong and stay safe in this dangerous world which is your life! Thanks Lee for the insight. It's most valuable. Lots of lessons have been learnt by many I'm sure.

[@SimplyTamanisha]

YOU NAILED THIS 🙌🙏🏾🎉🎊🏆‼️ I've never understood those who are narcissistic & seemingly more successful than me copying or stealing my ideas or business concepts! I'd share something I was planning to do & they'd run out & do the exact thing before I did it. So if I went forward with MY OWN IDEA I was accused of copying them‼️ This angered hurt & frustrated me for my whole life. Thank you‼️

[@annettebaggett]

No two people are exactly alike. We're all unique. Embrace it.

[@kikataye6293]

We absolutely are! Unfortunately those narcissistic people sure haven’t embraced that part…

[@annettebaggett]

@@kikataye6293. Sadly, they just aren't capable..

[@LaniSnowTheLeenieBeenie123]

You should make a book about your journey. I don't have NPD but these videos are great. I'd love to read it if you decide to make one! I'm sure it would help many people.

[@B.I.-EIO_macdonald9786]

I actually believe the book hes selling currently is what your looking for.

[@MsKawami]

My experience has been copying for purposes of mocking oneupmanship and competition.

[@joshuaanzalone2060]

I've witnessed many of them copy me. They have to put on masks depending on the people and circumstances they are around. As an empath I have my own personality and I am authentic. So yeah narcs copy personalities

[@antroneb1]

That’s not real, I see what you’re saying ,but Lee! Keep it on point my N, fake as people will always copy realness, be real, about these folks

[@MentalHealness]

😵‍💫

[@NamelessAnon]

Thank you for being so open and honest about your narcissism. I think it's a brave and respectable thing to do, and most people probably have no clue how difficult it really is for someone with NPD to do this.

[@alisiciacurrymayoclark9119]

I experienced a coworker who copied my jewelery, nail polish Color, same color of my car, clothing, the most excessive thing is she lost a lot of weight, she was about a size 14-16 and for an entire year, dropped to a size 4-6 (which is my current size). I try to stay away from her at all costs in the work place as that was extremely scary 🤯

[@freshtadef26]

My person literally picked out the things about me that they lacked. I am a designer dude, they became designer. I am a humanitarian, they pretended to be a humanitarian. They wanted to get in the gym, that too was one of my things. My surviving parent is financially well of, they constantly reminded me that their father generated x amount of dollars. I grew up a bit privileged, so did they. Even though I know the truth. I watch so many videos, channels, and podcast and I was able to let go of my resentment, hurt, and anger as a result. I literally fell in love with myself during the bombing stage. The mask came off within 90 days, I was blown away. Lee, you have really aided in my healing process, I used to feel that I was alone and I was crazy, it is very validating and so much value has been added to what I went through and all of the thoughts and feelings that I experienced. Many thanks sir.

[@XOChristianaNicole]

“I like to fit in, though, still stand out.” LOL, that’s EXACTLY how I tell the facility caretakers to treat my grandmother, diagnosed with NPD - make her feel like she is the most special person in the whole, wide world, though, do not single her out. Interestingly enough, they say she gives ‘em the least trouble outta everyone and she is always super helpful.

[@tabathaterry2998]

I think some narcs are a little darker than you Lee some might try to think they can start clean if they believe their personality is like their new source or they can be a better version of their source.

[@LisaLisa-zs7bj]

This irked the hell out of me when he would copy the things I did. It was so dumb, until when he did it/ what he was trying to copy didn’t match with the situation. A TRUE A-HOLE.

[@jackieblue2341]

I’ve seen that fool ex agree with people on things/ issues I know for an absolute fact he’s against. So sickening 🤮

[@MentalHealness]

🤒

[@jackieblue2341]

@@MentalHealness He’d do and or say ANYTHING, simply ANYTHING to get attention

[@nancydowling4049]

Lee! The words and behaviors are so accurate I actually feel like I'm going to be replaced any minute ugh! It feels a bit like the Twilight Zone. This all just started happening I'm not sure if the flying monkey is turning into the narcissist or whatever the blip. They are using words they don't even understand and have never had in their vocabulary before. This is my ex-husband and my ex-sister-in-law / friend. Thank you for what you do! I know it's not funny, what's happening, but the absurdity of it all makes you crave for some kind of comic relief before the insanity infiltrates your very being! I actually had the triple threat because I had to get rid of the queen of all narcissists prior to these two. When will I learn? ☮️💯🙏

[@bean8354]

My daughter recently said you know dad is saying the same things you have said for years to make him a victim. He has tried turning all of our kids against us and it worked on my son. My son feels awful for him and thinks I’m an awful person. My son was 15 and would still snuggle on couch with me but at 16 he all of a sudden turned and hated me and got very disrespectful. My daughter recently told me their dad would take them on rides and say all this stuff about me and made me look awful but my girls knew this wasn’t true because I was always present and there for them while their dad had his own life and didn’t do crap with us as family. Somehow my son fell for it and I won’t speak bad about their dad it’s not their place but he still tries it to this day. I can’t wait to get out and just hope one day my son will get it but from what I hear he treats his girlfriend just like his dad did me. I thought I hid stuff from them so well and thought a family together was better but I realized how I did them a huge disservice. Then when I wanted to leave he caught on and took me off bank and things like that. I’m hoping to get out in the next few months.

[@kimberlybarnes799]

My ex used to copy the accent of the person he was talking to. It was super weird to me. This was a good explanation.

[@XOChristianaNicole]

Not everyone who does that is a narcissist. I do that, because I am autistic/ADHD. I get concerned people will think I am attempting to mock ‘em or copy ‘em. I don’t do it intentionally. I can’t even do any accent, whatsoever, other than a parody of a southern accent, if I am not around it. It’s called “echolalia” - involuntary mimicking of sound and language. There is, also,” echopraxia” - involuntary imitation and/or repetition of another’s actions/movements. Many people whom are neurodivergent- from autism, ADHD, dementia - do this. People diagnosed with narcissism/anti-social personalities are, also, considered neurodivergent. So, it would make sense there is some sort of cross-over.

[@kimberlybarnes799]

@@XOChristianaNicole thanks for sharing that. I did not know that. Mine is a narc for sure. He threw my late husband's ashes off the side of the interstate ramp. Jealous and sick. Lots of mind games.

[@crystalclimenhage7159]

I had a friend I grew up with me...all my life.she has been copying me to the best of her.ability. she knows my family...she never brags to me but brags ALOT to my parents....I think she is competing with me

[@XOChristianaNicole]

As someone who is immensely neurodivergent, myself - I do the same thing; taking aspects I like of people, and applying ‘em to myself, in a manner I see fit. They are my inspiration, yet, I become more refined, and continue to become my ideal person, as result. That’s not narcissistic. Though, I have DID and fall on the (pro-social) psychopathy spectrum. To which, psychopaths tend to see themselves as the ideal person. Yet, I have no problem admitting I am inspired by the behaviors of those that catch my eye, and attempt those to my own ways of being. Because I make it my own - to where the source is nearly unrecognizable. And I stand out, uniquely, as result. Yet, it is NEVER my goal to attempt to diminish that attribute in someone else or appear as them, as result. Because, again. I see myself as the ideal person. I don’t want to be anyone else. Though, simply because I am my ideal person - that does not imply I do not want to refine myself, more. I mean, people may live in their ideal house, on their ideal piece of land - that doesn’t mean they ain’t gonna redecorate or remodel, from time to time. Though, what IS narcissistic? Attempting to BECOME that person, by engulfing everything about ‘em. I realized that sadistic narcissists, legitimately, want to destroy you - one way or another. Either induce stress, to the point of death and destruction.. Or, when that doesn’t work, and you have come out stronger and better, as result of their abuse? They attempt to destroy you by BECOMING you - from your outfits, to vocal inflections, to likes, dislikes, body movements.. To a freakin’ T. Because if it’s working for me - it’s gotta work for them, right? My mother is doing this, now, after surviving a near decade of Munchhausen’s by Proxy, while bedridden/housebound, with her as my “caretaker.” She couldn’t destroy me one way - so, she is attempting to destroy me in another. It’s absolutely sickening. To which, I only recently began to feel such sort of physical emotions and even certain physical sensations, since cutting out corn/corn-derivatives. My inability to register certain emotions and physical sensations, while also having an inclination towards adrenaline, is greatly what has allowed me to become so trauma-bonded and addicted - vs. emotionally attached. I still feels so surreal, this is what I am living through.

[@Enlightened77777]

I see how that’s your perspective on intimate relationship mirroring, but when it’s a friend that mirrors you it’s a totally different beast and it’s annoying as hell!

[@XOChristianaNicole]

Or a parent.

[@CieraLevelsUp777]

Definitely he copies me it’s annoying and criticize me at the same time and I have to hide myself because it’s like without me his worst side shines brightly. I don’t need more feminine energy therefore I pray for strength to only coparent and finally divorce. Please give me strength God I am weak.

[@MentalHealness]

Stay empowered on your healing journey

[@oneofthemmnms4231]

You know how I know ur not lying about being a narcissist because you say favorite hahaa kinda kidding but he always used to say ...but your my favorite..your my number 1 ...mhmmm lol, proud of ya for actually doing something about the disorder

[@MentalHealness]

I appreciate it

[@Freeminder-tj5us]

My stbx covert narc always copied me. He depended on me to make friends for him and used them.

[@niyserenjiy]

Possibly to fit in. Every narc may Vary

[@aprilvaughn9781]

All I can say is I'm glad I did not go back. I'm at the point I don't even want to think about bro no more. The past is the past learn a lesson and move on. Why don't they ever copy that lol

[@lisaengland1048]

I can't wait to get the journals for my kids!. Great holiday gift . For the I'm me!.

[@renaissance1763]

This I needed answers to my ex narc is copying me and his new supply is to😂 it’s creepy but funny 😂

[@MentalHealness]

😆

[@patricerowland5785]

Yup, ex narc went as far as to take my identity from being born in Ohio and made a whole facebook profile off of that, creepy!

[@jacquelinejones4230]

Yes this is happening to me on Facebook. They want me to send my ID. Why is it so hard to stop people on Facebook

[@thelovely961]

Idk why I find it funny when he copies me but I find it hilarious when he mimics what I say, it's actually so funny to me. maybe because he isn't abusive like physically or anything that deep to me in the years I've known him.

[@LBGirl98]

I had certain friends much of my life who would do this. They didn't like to compliment me about anything it seemed also. It got real creepy and confusing when my mother started to do it. It's understandable as a kid when we may do this, but when adults do it...it's weird to me. Thanks Lee for the information.🙏🏻💗👍

[@NamelessAnon]

I would love to hear more about the inner thoughts of narcs, which you touched on slightly here.

[@CrazyCandy5]

Yes they do copy! Annoying!

[@jacob98264]

Will a narcissist ever accuse the other person of being a narcissist?

[@stephaniedekinger2463]

Yes because they are mirroring up you.

[@GregtheGrey6969]

It's called projection. We all have some narcissism in us.

[@goblin1226]

That's called projection, and is very common, not just with narcissists. People accuse others of what they are doing a lot

[@LillBitt]

Absolutely yes

[@dyoung2739]

Lee, in the first 2 minutes you debunked what I was getting ready to write about the narc that I know😂😂😂😂

[@SN-bl6xm]

My sister told everyone she had the same job as I did at the same company I was working for (a company with 100k employees and she had exactly the same job, as I had?). 🙈 This was after I had left that company. So I asked my sister some questions, easy to answer if you work there. But she couldn’t answer me one question. 🙄 Plus everyone knows that you have to a be hard worker to get a job at that company, but my sister has never really worked in her life. She let my dad pay her luxury life.

[@kyki8512]

My neighbor tried to hijack my whole style......the way that I dress the way that I wear my hair, my son wears cute hats she went and bought hats for her son! She even went and bought the exact same grocery bags that I use! 🤔🤨 She started doing this after I rejected her love bombing! When she first moved in beside me she used to look at me with the turn up lip envy stank face stare! 🥴 Then when she found out my daughter died she tried her best to force her way into my life! I was in so much pain because I just lost a child and all she could think about was trying to get me to hang out with her even though I just wanted to be alone and plus I am an introvert anyway!( She was trying to take advantage of the situation) This girl was just making everything worse by trying to rush and force some kind of relationship! 🤨 Anyway she made me feel so uncomfortable that I just stop speaking to her PERIOD.....meaning she would say hello and I would ignore her like she didn't even exist and when I did that the girl started following me around and stalking me as if to say you can't just dismiss me! And one day I gave her a long stare down and if looks could kill she would not be here!!!🤨🤨🤨 It was nonverbal communication and she looked scared to death and stop following me and I thought it was over but that is when she started coping me and when she goes to her car she always looks up at my window to see if my blinds are up! She has no family no friends and her husband left her with two kids because he couldn't tolerate her crazy behavior! I have never met anyone who acts this way! I know that she is a covert narcissist but I think that she also has another mentally illness too because the girl is too CRAZY.......A WHOLE NUT! I am a no nonsense type of person so covert narcissist behavior annoys me to no end!

[@moments2photos929]

Your the Godfather Lee

[@lolabear6788]

Ok, you are talking about copying behaviors, I think we all do that to a degree, sometimes. It’s not weird. It’s how we can gain an accent being around people over time. The deep was of the copying is what I think most people are talking about with the narcissist. You are talking about all superficial things. The narcissist WILL try to copy your humanity. Your soul. Bc they DO have a lack of a deep sense of self and self heart connection. We all can copy hairstyles and behavior trends. We all can have silly aspects to our personality or serious times or different moods. This copying we are talking about as a general rule for narcissists is a total life suck. It’s vacuuming up your soul.

[@aprilvaughn9781]

Thanks Lee!

[@soniajoy3727]

Thanks

[@Ashwhi]

Its sooo weird like Evil … my husband literally applied for a job at my place of employment when we were in our early relationship and it pissed me off so bad bc why would you do this and lie Nd add my name as a reference meanwhile I had no idea he was applying until someone at my job mentioned the application…. I eventually got over that but here it is 7 years later married 2 years and a 5 year old and the mask has fallen off more than ever ,,, lord have mercy I never thought id be praying to get out of a marriage 🥺🥺 I just want my life back Id rather be alone !!

[@His.Heart.]

Chameleon

[@mariposa1933]

I think you’re a doll. 🤗 But in their case imitation isn’t flattering, Yes, they do copy and it’s not a compliment unfortunately. They will take full credit for things they had nothing to do with and will steal other peoples ideas too. Once saw my sister take credit for something the CARDIOLOGIST was saying for my mother after suffering a heart attack. That’s the cardiologist’s job! She was acting like she was the doctor. She isn’t qualified to even speak on anything medical, but had the nerve to lie so blatantly as if we all didn’t hear it for it selves. 🙄

[@B.I.-EIO_macdonald9786]

You are my favorite

[@vhviki]

I have done this. Am I a narcissist? 🤔

[@MentalHealness]

this doesnt make you a narcissist

[@crystalnyla]

Yep … sounds about right 🤪 but I like all the people I am 👑 We are a team that’s how I survived this long on my own… Just with the Nex he took over the one person in charge( ME ) when I gave him UNCONDITIONAL LOVE AMD CHANCES. 10 yrs and 2 children later was truly a life lesson learned

[@Zhinengzheyangle]

But imitation is annoying to the other person. You sure that’s gonna make them like you more?

[@B.I.-EIO_macdonald9786]

I get leary when the new guy is too much like me. Anymore. It’s necessary

[@amberpotts7760]

At some point though, doesn't everyone do this? I mean, how do most people adopt new views, ideas, trends, styles, etc? It's inherently human to live through the senses; what we see, hear, taste, touch, smell, feel... maybe narcs do it more so? Or with more of an agenda?? Idk... not totes sure about this one... I love love love your content though man! And yes, I don't mind feeding your ego that you're my favorite NPD lol ❤️😁

[@LillBitt]

There's a big difference between having a perspective on something and then changing because you agree with that New perspective than it is to adopt a New perspective in the hopes of gaining access to a person or their life to destroy it and use it to your advantage

[@amberpotts7760]

@@LillBitt I don't understand what you're actually trying to say. Please use clearer statements and punctuation as this response makes no sense. Thank you!

[@LillBitt]

@@amberpotts7760 I didn't realize I was using too many big words that didn't make sense little passive-aggressive there weren't you?

[@amberpotts7760]

@@LillBitt Hello there! I was just trying to engage with you in intelligent conversation. I can't understand the meaning of your text with tense errors, spelling errors, and zero punctuation, so I was asking for clarification to continue conversing. (The words you use definitely aren't too big, no worries there!) If you find that my responses are too passive aggressive and/or too offensive to continue on, we don't have to keep engaging. Thanks and have a great day!👍

[@mercedesharrison5550]

@@LillBitt I completely understood what you said.

[@kayligo]

Bless you

[@Indigodream0]

Once again you've explained him. Atleast I know I love myself! The things he loved about me, those things that are at the core of who I am are the things that he couldn't stand in the end. When I met him, I told him I love cats. Cats find me no matter where I go. I live 35 miles out in the country. My place that is hard to find. People won't drive this far to dump animals and they STILL find me. I wake up in bed with cats I don't know. They have their kittens on my bed in the middle of the night. I come home to find them having parties in my house, lounging around on the furniture, helping themselves to a meal. Last year a feral had her kittens under my kitchen sink. I'm convinced there's a flyer circulating around the feral cat community with my name, address and photo ID. I even have wild animals showing up at my house! Before I even gave him my phone number I told him these things ARE NOT NEGOTIABLE! He said he loved those things. Towards the end, those are the things he wanted me to change. Did really love those those things about me, did he convince himself he loved those things? Is that typical narcissistic behavior?

[@sharonwalters3439]

Good morning Lee question did you ever ask yourself why am I like this where did narcissism come from how does it manifest itself into a personality disorder is it from profound abuse mentally physically emotional !!

[@ajdeb5758]

In gay relationships is the copying very literal, one holidaytrip he is in tanktop and cap. The next he is in a white shirt and a fancy man purse. Depends on the supply.

[@aprilvaughn9781]

It's sad when you know each person my ex narcissist would act like. Especially his shorty at work. He used to copy her mirror her whatever.

[@margarethaywood4915]

I really need help getting three this Because I’m angry with myself

[@michaeljackson7361]

We know what ya doin in the bathroom, lmao

[@MaryamAli-vd1xv]

Your locks are cool.

[@tammysmith77]

For me I don’t fall in love with it it’s annoying and I don’t like it so I’m gonna tell you to be original stop using my lines or whatever there copying from me even though he/she never stops doing it or maybe they don’t even notice that always grinds my gears even before I learned about NPD copying me annoyed the beep outta me😩😩😩😩😩😩😩

[@PaperMario64]

Lee, is your twin a narcissist or exhibits anything on the spectrum? Only asking because you seem to have felt alone, which seems weird since you are a twin. Im not a twin so I genuinely am curious.

[@alethiasingleton3109]

Babydaddy copy my Text "bae" 🙄 whateva 👀

[@Lbxrr]

So you really dont feel love? I'm trying to understand narcissists but i just dont get it

[@lilc5353]

They are wired differently.

[@verreal]

I don't know if that's even being narcissist. Doesn't everyone adopt or absorb whatever they life from others and add it to themselves? But usually they do it because they really like it, not just to fit in. Am I not allowed to like BTS music because someone else does? Of course, if I really like it, I can go ahead. If that's wrong, then maybe unbeknownst to me, I'm a narcissist???

[@Nidhi_Maheshwari]

Last part📍

[@MentalHealness]

💯

[@verreal]

If you're really a narcissist, don't you believe you're God's gift to the world? Why would you want to change? If someone suspects they might be a narcissist and doesn't want to be doing behaviour that messes up relationships, then might they not actually be a narcissist?

[@sueb6662]

On the outside sure but narcissists inner world they are deeply insecure.

[@tranquility9325]

Lee is your twin identical?

[@sherryviera5696]

Sounds like too much work to me.

[@MentalHealness]

😮‍💨😮‍💨

[@robertestep7440]

"take this evil spawn of satan"-ave venture nature calls

[@chosenforjustice8701]

Lee you are over narcis okay for the simple fact that you could have been told us you had a twin brother

[@jacob98264]

I'm starting to see things more clearly but why do I still want her back? Am I crazy? Dam I miss her, I think I'm a cry baby

[@GregtheGrey6969]

They are like a drug. Be strong

[@kayligo]

They pay you a lot of attention and make you feel special. Write down all the bad stuff and reread it when you miss them. Hope that helps.

[@tickety-bootoyou1850]

You're not crazy. What you're going through is normal after a narcissistic relationship. You've been used, abused, manipulated & lied to. You've been future faked & given false hope. The thing that helped me stay away was remembering how awful it could be, the Confusion, the Pain. It came down to either staying in the relationship & being in long term pain or going No Contact & being in short term pain. You've chosen wisely. Stay strong. 💪

[@jacob98264]

@@tickety-bootoyou1850 future faked is what I have been feeling all this time

[@tickety-bootoyou1850]

@@jacob98264 I can relate

[@danajones3818]

So the entire video is a personal video about u.

[@TryfifiiKalii]

Is he a Virgo?

[@MentalHealness]

Who me? No

[@blackjag121]

Mine was Leo the liar

[@Inkpinkierosie]

Mine was a a male cancer Lmfao 🤣 I’m a Scorpio I seen through his bs glad I left

[@jiggss]

Two of mine are Virgo 🤮🤮 copy copy copy 🤮

[@melodywhite1536]

I love you Lee you help me out of hell I wish I could talk to you I lived a lifetime movie I need help

[@B.I.-EIO_macdonald9786]

When in Rome. Do as the romans do.

[@cierasmith8703]

They dnt know bout ace lol, yeah my ex winny asf excuse the letters lol

[@MentalHealness]

😆

[@cierasmith8703]

@@MentalHealness I do want to thank u Mr Lee. I'm from NC also and not to far away from where u from I'm in TN now lol, but I want to thank u cuz of the grace of God first and your video I've healed and so much damn stronger and he's so mad and bitter and he can't lie about not knowing now lol

[@Михаил-м7в9ы]

Cute door 34

[@stephfeels555]

You’re a way self aware “narcissist”.

[@terrimoten1603]

So actually u aren't really u so who are u sir? Just saying