Do POLISH People Prefer Dating Foreigners?

I asked people on the streets of Krakow and Warsaw if they would prefer to date a Pole or a foreigner.
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[@mindful-communication]

I love Poles, been there 4 times, currently learning te language. I’m from Mexico and I believe I should have been born in Poland. Much love to this country ❤

[@NihonDream]

❤

[@nabilrise1551]

My understanding is that mexicans are olive skinned for most of them... doesn't that cause problems given the poles are usually racist against nonwhites ?

[@isiahmaliklevantezimmerman6570]

most people won't care@@nabilrise1551

[@raczyk]

Which cities you been in? Do you find them polluted?

[@cristoballopez2764]

Been there once. Love it too going this year for summer first london for a while than flying to Poland. I'm a Chicano and I love polish woman trying to learn how to speak polish and it's pretty hard to learn.

[@Turk3yFilms]

I dated a Polish girl and it was amazing, but she made me choose between her and my career. I miss her, but I'm glad i have a great career now

[@AZ-rg3rf]

What do you do thats makes it so good to pass up a good polish partner?

[@maxalbon9557]

Perfect decision!

[@Turk3yFilms]

@@AZ-rg3rf Serve in the military

[@AZ-rg3rf]

@@Turk3yFilms 👍

[@Rafael-xt1nm]

Hope you don't live a lonely life bro.

[@mixmotion603]

Really appreciate the effort in stopping random people on the street it would be stressful for me as well 😅 this man who was talking and looking at his woman with love was so precious ❤

[@benrado6913]

for you everything is stressful lol

[@Sammi_Kristiansen]

Thank you so much Marina for sharing your chat with Polish women. Thank you very much for stopping them and getting rejected. I have a lot of spect for you!

[@rhalfcorrea2684]

Your videos are amazing, never stop it☺️✨greetings from brasil😁🇧🇷

[@slapshot0074]

Smashing it with these videos.

[@kku6857]

''Murzyn" is not offensive in Polish. We never had slaves or took part in colonialism.

[@KukusPierunski]

Realy?NOT Realy

[@tobiojo6469]

Awesome video

[@johngonzalez4298]

Happy Thursday, Marina! As an USA 🇺🇲 born, I prefer to date a foreign woman. Sending my love ❤ and great content

[@petrahalbur476]

I love this!

[@AZ-rg3rf]

Great video! Very informative👍

[@Adam-uu2wh]

Thank you 😊👍👏

[@markbigelow2608]

I love these talks❤

[@Chahlie]

Many many years ago I had a couple dates with a Polish ship jumper here in Canada. He was so earnest and polite, but in hindsight i imagine he had marriage as a visa route in mind. Years after that a Polish man at a dance led me in the most amazing Viennese waltz, which I have never forgotten, but he also had very good manners. It's hard to tell from ones who have already left Poland as they have different views to start with.

[@klimtkahlo]

Totally love your channel! Very nice and brings people together! Do you speak polish?

[@DatingBeyondBorders]

I don't no :(

[@chrisskywalker6079]

Can't wait to go there🤟🏼❤🇵🇱

[@j.c.n9718]

"Polish women are hard to copy when it comes to their mentality" 🙌🏿

[@benrado6913]

xd

[@tonyslaughter8954]

I can't wait til I get back to Poland! I remember being there and the people were great!

[@michaelray5023]

Okay, I’m gonna visit Poland this summer. As Americans, we too are very focused on work and business and because we’re so busy all the time we tend to do spontaneous things when we have some downtime. I don’t drink or party so it’s always a challenge to find a girl who appreciates a man who can have fun without alcohol. 😁

[@willileo2373]

More of Eastern Europe and Balkans please

[@jankoborszewski5068]

Central idioto. Balkany to inny świat. Pamiętaj!

[@UcheOdikanwa]

Well, There’s always the desire for people to date outside their race/country. Ask an Italian wo/man if she likes his/her counterpart, results are always negative when it comes to dating.

[@redleeks6253]

Not true. Chinese men always prefer to date chinese women. Same goes for korean and Japanese

[@Lakshyakh]

@@redleeks6253unless a mid tall white guy enters the chat

[@Sisterlisk]

I was approached by a man that I suspect was Polish, while I was waiting for the bus after work. He was jogging past and stopped to chat. After some initial polite small talk, he said I was beautiful, he likes my smile and he'd like to get to know me. Polite and straight forward! I wasn't in a good place mentally and it felt strange to be approached at night and offered to be driven home..! He lived close by, he said. Lil too risky for me. If he was interested enough, he would've asked for my number.

[@L_from_USA_]

Where are you from?

[@jangiovanni9231]

That's a missed opportunity young lady! Maybe he was the love of your life...

[@Sisterlisk]

@@L_from_USA_ Where do I live or my ancestry? I live in Canada, west coast.

[@Sisterlisk]

@@jangiovanni9231I guess I'll never know

[@L_from_USA_]

@Sisterlisk like nationality and which roots?

[@annajoy2306]

i am half polish =P intesting to hear how polish people are thinking :D

[@NihonDream]

Come and check by yourself. ;-)

[@petertakacs999]

AAh Finally Poland! I was curious, when will you do a video about polish ppl agan! Aaaanyway, I'd love to see you travel here to Hungary and ask the same at Budapest, but not the most fequently turist visited streets and squers, becouse that would't be so representative in my humble oppinion. How knows?! Next stop maybe? After all Polish and Hungarian peoples are nationally friends... they say :) Keep up the travels and the vids!

[@davidfreeman3083]

Non-Polish here. And I have to say that overall my experience with Polish women are really great. Would definitely be honored to be with one some day. ;)

[@davidfreeman3083]

And the girl with sunglasses almost sounds like a good match haha! She seems to be my type. And looks like I actually match some of the things she's asking for XD.

[@toomuchinformation]

​@@davidfreeman3083She's Russian.

[@reichen609]

3:24 this guy, wow! 💕♥️ He's a rarity in Poland, right?

[@SamtheI]

I know dating is complicated everywhere but Polish girls seem to be so nice and respectful it's so refreshing to see. They look very approachable and that's amazing

[@zepter00]

lol. I am 44 years old Polish guy, had a lot o Polish women and these women are exactly the same like anywhere else in the globalism.

[@CO84trucker]

Hey Polish women! Y'all's can get the best of both worlds with me! I may be 🇺🇸 born & raised with Polish & Austrian roots but I also have Polish citizenship by descent!

[@benrado6913]

leave polish women alone lol,you better get some austrain or even australian ladies lol

[@joshfulmer3689]

You do a wonderful job with your videos and I love Ideas in making them. It's also a shame that that black eye had to go through that type of Racism in a country like that.

[@robertoleszek8361]

I love the idea that Poles speak English so good

[@rodan2852]

From what ive seen in life. One Polish woman could probably work 7-8 municipal workers out of a job here in The states

[@joxp6971]

My son would love to meet a polish girl,but would a polish girl like to meet an australian

[@MabusNero-bb3sv]

your son should not trust all women in the world....... it's dangerous........

[@benrado6913]

nope,polish girls prefer to meet austrain boys

[@ymmijchen9310]

Respect to the girl at 5:13 for expressing her opinion instead of virtue signaling.

[@ahm3187]

Prefer to date rich foreign guys. Telling from experience 😂

[@minx.bloodbrink3316]

3:34-3:36 ❤️✨🥺✨❤️

[@OverTheVoids]

If this format is too much stress for you, then you might want to either enhance it or abandon it. Maybe consider having a sign that passively asks for participants instead of directly asking them yourself (though I am not sure that this will work very well).

[@DatingBeyondBorders]

I lured them in by saying I had gifts, but yes considered having a sign as well. Just couldn't lunge it around Europe 😅

[@alexandramccarthy4648]

It would have to be in the language of the country so, something more temporary. I am often approached in US to sign on some issues I have not studied yet. So, I am very weary of someone doing that. But if there's a short sign stating what is your need in talking to them they have time to process it and maybe accept it even without you having to talk to them.

[@Angelcynn_2001]

1m Polish people live in England. And Englishmen love Polish women 😂

[@benrado6913]

what kind of language is that? lol

[@-xirx-]

I married one! 14 years going strong ♥

[@_MC529]

✝️✝️✝️

[@sonh788]

Ayo i wanna go to poland in November but it looks scary

[@maraszynawa1414]

Scary? It’s one of the safest countries in Europe

[@Tom-tx7vs]

​@@maraszynawa1414he means because Poland isn't a multicultural shithole like France

[@Kawka1122]

It's spooky scary booooo 👻👻 Polish people bite 🧛

[@benrado6913]

you better stay where you are,we dont want any trouble here in Poland

[@adrianadrian3510]

Love Polish women. Greeting from Indonesia ❤️

[@jankoborszewski5068]

Chłopak ruchaj ile wlezie! Ja naszczęscie nie mam z tym gów... "kwiatem" nic wspólnego.🐐🐐 🐐🐐🐐🐐🐐🐐🐐🐐🐐🐐🐐🐐🐐

[@adrianadrian3510]

​@@jankoborszewski5068relax just give a compliment ok

[@jankoborszewski5068]

nie nie nie panie panie nie complienjent nie materac witaminka polsko lęzyczna@@adrianadrian3510 😭😳😋🤣

[@benrado6913]

but they dont love you

[@Live-jk1pn]

I am not a Christian, but I respect that Poles are true Christians. The crime rate is very low. The people are religious, and the only European country where people come to churches in a very, very large proportion.

[@barbarad4367]

Well, no. Actually lots of Poles are leaving church and feel not more connected with religion.

[@a.m928]

They are not very Christian as in following the commandments of bible and the pope. But they are Christian in the sense that they beat their chestvand call themselves Christian.

[@user-ii6ed8gz7r]

Latinos are religious christians too, but the criminal rate is really high.

[@Lina-ws3sy]

Yes, nothing more christian than casual racism

[@chrisskywalker6079]

​@@user-ii6ed8gz7rWell, those who commited crime is NOT Christian.

[@user-zf2zt7fu9i]

I always thought that Polish women were mostly conservative and well-mannered, loving their homeland and their men. Apparently I was wrong and they are generally no different from other Slavic women. An interesting trend is that the more Slavic men extol their women, the more negative they receive in return.

[@MabusNero-bb3sv]

actually it's a common trend to all women in the world to hate their local male counterparts...... it's women's hobby.......

[@MabusNero-bb3sv]

@@al1999 those are just virtue signallers......the moment it became open you would see Serbian women are happy to mock their own men also just like what is happening in Poland.......all women are the same........

[@lordronn472]

Dating outside of your community is not smart

[@barbarad4367]

I am a Polish woman and from what I see most of young women (up to 30yo) are wayyy ahead od Polish men. More educated, more independent, definitely more open-minded. In case of relationship I see many intelligent women dont accept trash anymore, just reach for men on their level, doesnt matter of their origin. I am also happy to see that this polish stereotype/culture of a mother, cleaner and cook reliants on her husband is literally dying. Some polish guys can complain but well, too late😉The change is made.

[@maxalbon9557]

Just because you are graduating from some psychological or pedagogical studies - read "useless" - doesn't mean you are more educated. As for intelligence, your opinion matters little, because just on this topic we have a scientific study in Poland, where they show a totally different result. For the rest, it can be seen even in your protests, you shout, and you do not even know what is at stake and what you are really fighting for. I too am glad that men in Poland are finally slowly stop treating women as Gods and citizens of a higher category, because you are not worth it. We need to end this matriarchy and start treating you guys like guys treat each other. In addition, it's high time to equalize the retirement age in Poland, equalize the requirements regardless of gender at work or at universities, because after all, you fight all the time for equality.

[@jankoborszewski5068]

Chyba cię popie...... głu... c .... t. nie masz k........ po.....

[@theroyalbanana1]

@giwrgospetrou1159 Asian here. I can tell you from experience (in Lublin) that

[@NihonDream]

@@theroyalbanana1 What does it tell us? Please, enlight me.

[@marcinluberadzki6422]

Aha ty możesz nie być kucharką,sprzatączką,matką Polką i to każdy zaakceptuje bo będziesz odebrana jako niezależna super nowoczesna Polka a jak ja powiem że nie jestem złotą rączką bo nie mam takiej potrzeby,nie interesuje się mechaniką,budowlanką to mnie zjedzą tekstami że dziś nie ma prawdziwych mężczyzn,że jestem nieudacznik i to już nie jest ok

[@raczyk]

Nienprzeskadza wam Polek miec nie mjale dzieci z obcokrajowcami?

[@burakthepegas]

Girl in red has this guy,so all non good looking guys no worries😂😂u gonna find nice one

[@gordian2939]

First of all, I know how it may feel, but please don't get mad with people who didn't want to talk, in the big cities the people are so annoyed with the pollsters that bother them that they probably thought you were the one and avoided you as much as they could. And I'm curious - when did you visit Cracow? Because now the bigger tower of the church is being renovated and it doesn't look like this xD And when it comes to dating Polish or foreign woman... well, I'd say it doesn't matter that much to me, I used to be in a relationship with a Turkish girl and it was okay, so... The only thing I should point is that dating a foreigner there could be some cultural differences that may be an obstacle. Every place in the world has its own mindset in which the people grow up and soak with. With a Polish girl there would be a bigger chance that we could understand each other. But the problem with the girls here is that they usually look for a prince charming on white horse who will give them everything, look like young Brad Pitt, have a lot of money and always knows what they want and gives them that. It's a pity, because in my life I could see so, so many great relationships here, like my parents' one, it's my biggest dream to have something like this as well, but... I don't think it's possible with today's Polish girls, sorry :/ They know only how to demand, and if you demand something from them it automatically means you are a sexist. And having a family for them is like a form of slavery. Now more and more Polish men marry Ukrainian and Belarussian woman, for that exact reason.

[@davidfreeman3083]

Currently I live in America & I'm from China. And from my experience with Polish girls (who also live in America, for example NY) has been pretty good. Never that serious into marriage or whatnot. But my experience is almost the opposite. Actually, the Polish girls are the ones that I feel natural when being with them. I feel like for me & some of the Polish girls that I met, it's more likely that we like each other & find each other attractive when we are just 'being ourselves' & being authentic.

[@marisa82]

Because Ukrainian and Belarussian women are more dependent and forced to be agreeing due to the situation. Your idea of an ideal marriage does sound quite egocentric and that the women should have an inferial role in the family. Sorry but you provide an impression that you are actually looking for a slave woman that has no demands. If this is how many polish men think then Im not suprised. It does sound latent sexist, yes.

[@gordian2939]

@@marisa82 no, I don't and I don't know how you drew that conclusion, but... it exactly proves what I said: just tell a woman what you expect (even though I didn't say anything in this comment) or that you expect anything and she will immediately bombard you with such phrases like egoism, slavery etc. If you want to know - no, I don't want a family with "traditional roles" (whatever the hell this is, because the things you describe using this term are nonsensical and can exist only in small, close communities, in other circumstances they are impossible), but I do want a family. A family in which I can trust and I know that when something goes wrong we can rely on each other. But the problem is the woman today think that they have no duties as wives and mothers, that their men must be with her only when she wants, but other than that he better not bother her with his life, and when they finally have children (if so) the best solution is to give it to a babysitter and focus again on their own lives. And who is egoistic now?

[@KT-bc1ql]

Tl: dr

[@beataruszczyk1098]

Kobiety z Ukrainy,Białorusi nie mają pojęcia o tradycyjnej rodzinie.Małżeństwo traktują jak sponsoring.Mężczyzna ma je utrzymywać a one chcą tylko siedzieć w domu.Nawet jak pracują to pensje zostawiają tylko dla siebie.Małżeństwo to wzajemnie się obdarowywanie i dawanie daru z siebie.Ukrainki potrafią zostawić mężczyznę który zachorował czy stał się niepełnosprawny.W mężczyznach szukają utrzymanków.Większość małżeństw Polaków z Ukrainkami,Białorusinkami,kończy się rozwodem.(takie są statystyki z cywilnych rozwodów)Dla Polskich mężczyzn,różnice cywilizacyjno- kulturowe,są na dłuższą metę nie do zaakceptowania.Kobiety że Wschodu(Białoruś,Ukrainą,Rosja)to cywilizacja Turańsko-Bizantyjska .Polska należy do cywilizacji Łacińskiej.W Rosji I Ukrainie jest bardzo wysoki wskaźnik chorób(zaraz po Afryce)wenerycznych I AIDS.Tamtejsze kobiety i mężczyźni mają bardzo liberalne podejście w sprawach obyczajowych.

[@tfujstarynarowerze5447]

oglądałem jakieś zloty driftow w japonii, jest 8ma rano, a kurwa doszedlem do jakiegoś pojebanego tematu na yt

[@sonh788]

When they say foreigner they mean white dudes

[@AZ-rg3rf]

Obviously not since the black guy was married to a polish woman. I've met many polish women that were married to asian, indian, latin american men. They are pretty open

[@billysanchez-eh6nn]

@@AZ-rg3rf he is talking about the video and also in all their videos they are talking about white dudes from other european countries not from other continents

[@billysanchez-eh6nn]

@@AZ-rg3rf just cause one woman was dating someone from different continent doesn,t mean they exist a lot, like you could find someone from oceania with a woman from faroe islands if you look but that doesn,t mean it happens often

[@benrado6913]

@@AZ-rg3rf they pretty silly and they pretty women lol

[@valhalla7567]

Bullsh!t they mean no white dudes but dudes who are no Muslim 🤫 If you say something say it correct. Friend of me is Polish and he told me many times they dont like people from the muslim culture becease they know it aint gonna work. Poles love every type of foreigners except Muslim people.

[@angelrogo]

With huge pain in my heart, I have to say that Polish girls and Polish women are extremely cold-minded about possible foreign couples. Polish language is quite difficult to learn and just a small amount of women speak another language diffrerent from Polish. It does not matter at all if the foreign possible couple is Roman Catholic. The only important thing for Polish women is tall Polish men (more than 1,90 m.) with whom can communicate in their native languages and it does not care at all if they are Roman Catholics.

[@benrado6913]

lol

[@maraszynawa1414]

He’s not wrong about sosnoweic

[@user-od4yl3rf4n]

Well, seems like it's common behavior for slavic women

[@gliboperuta9213]

preferring foreigners? true. i think money has a role to play too.

[@timmymannies6888]

​​@@gliboperuta9213exactly, I don't mean to be mean but damn if you go to the UAE or Saudi, most of the time you'll always see an Eastern European girl usually from Ukraine, Poland or Hungary there with a rich Arab dude. Don't mean to be rude but I was see this in urban areas of Arabia.

[@ryantucker2166]

@@timmymannies6888 Ukrainian and Russian, I would agree, but not Polish.

[@ryantucker2166]

@@timmymannies6888 They are called prostitutes

[@rupaschannel5856]

@@timmymannies6888 Yeah. Ukraine, Russian girls always go to Arab (Gulf) to get Rich arab men.

[@papadajnia268]

ćiapa...ka !!!!!!

[@abduraufsherkulov1393]

For my american friends out there, N words means nothing here. So if you travel and hear it, it is nothing about slavery and all.

[@nocapnobs7845]

you're right, it is his fault he went to low brain countries. Africa is a massive continent, he could've went to Tanzania, Uganda or Rwanda. Those three countries are magic and the ladies are WOW!! but this American went to POLAND lol imagine going to crocodile infested waters and complaining you got bit

[@AZ-rg3rf]

then why do they say it?

[@abduraufsherkulov1393]

@@AZ-rg3rf pop culture

[@AZ-rg3rf]

@@abduraufsherkulov1393 I see

[@Ghostrex101]

It seems to me that Polish women are like Russians, conservative (not political) and traditional.

[@thatguyfromthere1168]

Polskie dziewczyny są takie miłe i piękne. Polska nad wszystkim

[@benrado6913]

taa,a skąd ty tyle wiesz?xd

[@MrSobeer]

Clearly they want to have perfect husband, takin full care of them but they wont agree to take resposebility as a wife, cause they know how their mothers took all care of the household over time. Be aware 😂 Poland is great place to have shorttime relationship

[@jangiovanni9231]

Polka jak to polka, gdy zobaczy obcokrajowca to....

[@M_US_W]

@jangiovanni9231 Bredzisz! Polacy nie potrafia traktowac kobiet z szacunkiem, o romantyzmie juz nie wspomne, dlatego Polki wybieraja mezczyzn innych narodowosci! Majac za meza Polaka taka Polka jest 24h na nogach, ma pracowac, zajmowac sie dziecmi, pracowac w domu itd. Nigdy Polaka za meża!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@TIMHA-cz9oz]

masakra z tymi idiotkami, nawet największe paskudne bazyle uważają się za piękność.

[@jankoborszewski5068]

to co? możesz przybliżć ?

[@thebloody0076]

mokro polkom sie robi na widok zagraniczniaków@@jankoborszewski5068

[@magdasienkiewicz8546]

nie wszystkie Polki wolą obcokrajowców np ja mogłabym być z obcokrajowcem ale uważam że nasi mężczyźni są najprzystojniejsi i wolałabym być z Polakiem na pierwszym miejscu

[@celsocosta880]

Polish people in general have the most close mind in Europe 👀

[@L_from_USA_]

Mexicans too 👀👀

[@KT-bc1ql]

Why closed mind? Please explain. Are there foreign women secretly wanting Polish guy? Polish ladies already date outside way too much.

[@EA00000]

Some ? Not everyone ! But Poland is changing

[@zlonczekk7088]

p0lki