DO THIS To Be Confident IN ANY SITUATION | Marisa Peer

[@ggll5240]

1. Talk slowly 2. Put your shoulders back and down 3. Eye contact 4. Use slower hand movements 5. Keep your mouth wet with saliva What have I missed?

[@DV-dt9sq]

Thank you for a summary ;).

[@kellybowman9600]

🙏😇 Thank you!

[@eveningPS4Gamer]

Chin up

[@lehuafromkailua8781]

Thank you! Let's grow in confidence and self esteem!!

[@ggll5240]

You're all so welcome 😁

[@abuhuraira3685]

Confidence isn't walking into a room thinking you're better than anyone It's walking in not having to compare yourself to anyone at all

[@LittleLulubee]

I like that 👍

[@MarisaPeer]

I love that x

[@rubywalker8623]

SO TRUE!

[@naida6958]

Agreed It's also how you see your self And not seeking validation from any one but your self . As the only person we need to improve is our self. Spreading kindness and goodness brings peace and tranquility which then makes you happy' a happy person is a confident person no matter what situation. Positive thinking and good energy shines the atmosphere A confident person is most humble .

[@seemarawal5717]

Confidence is accepting yourself ,your average looks or average education or average family background ,but still be nice ,accepting and kind to others .

[@seenuvasanv]

I like the phrase- Strength is shown in stillness

[@makubegysman6160]

Its like the calm to the storm

[@jacydyer5489]

Speaking slowly makes perfect sense to me because when I was younger, my mom was either ADD or rude. She would never let me finish what I was saying before she started to talk over me. Now, to this day, I still find myself rushing to get my words out at times, afraid that if I take too long someone might stop listening. Or, maybe even feeling that I am boring someone. I love this tip!

[@Luckyy227]

Jacy Dyer same :)

[@karol12130]

No matter what happened in your life before, what trully matter is what you do now. Something from the past doesnt define your whole life. You are great. Remember that. If you trust yourself and your voice, believe that you are worth beeing listen, then the world will listen to you.

[@vampiraqueen7449]

I can relate.. Are u asian or latino? Cos they are that way most of them.. I am Asian

[@Designalily]

This is exactly my story... wow. This comment gave me that epiphany.

[@annettealmvik]

Same!!

[@chirstyaggas7703]

I used these techniques in an interview today. They worked and managed to calm my nerves at the same time.

[@mirelasemanjaku]

I have an interview tomorrow and i'm starting to get nervous since now. I watched this for help. Seeing your comment on the same situation is very comforting! I hope to manage to be calm as well..i dont want to miss this oportunity 🙏

[@dankoher4318]

Mihaila How did you hold up and did you get your job?

[@mirelasemanjaku]

@@dankoher4318 it was the most confident interview i have been (this time around) and yes, i got a job in that company. :)

[@dankoher4318]

Mihaila YESSS!!! Congratulations! 🍾 Let this be the beginning of many happy 😊 Years for You!

[@mirelasemanjaku]

@@dankoher4318 thank you very much for your kind words 😀 I wish the best for you too!

[@colleenreid5029]

Don't rush who you are, Never heard anything more beautiful 🌹

[@muun7080]

Confidence is not they will like me. Confidence is I'm fine if they don't.

[@alyssacampos1010]

rightt

[@lindapierce5299]

Fantastic insight.

[@jimmysskits6694]

Nice 😊

[@narminm.9903]

Thank you!!!

[@inspiredchange5573]

They will like me whether they show it or not!

[@berkayakbey7234]

She has relaxing voice

[@ErikaK]

I really love this! I find it very intimidating as an introvert to speak in front of people, but what I have learned along my journey is to focus on the purpose of what I'm going to say, to speak slowly, to avoid the fear of being judged by having a meaning and a reason why I do what I do... People will remember you for how you make them feel.

[@livinginthemoment8254]

Erika K....you’re here too😃😃😃😃

[@MarisaPeer]

People will remember you for how you make them feel. - absolutely. x

[@ErikaK]

@@MarisaPeer ♡♡♡ Marisa thank you ! Sending lot of love

[@ErikaK]

@@livinginthemoment8254 hi !!! Much love! ♡♡♡ have a wonderful day

[@abdirashidnur5372]

I was searching introverts like me right there at the comment section. Got it Erika. By the way thanks for the tips. I am gonna used it. Really helps,

[@zainabali30]

“Strength is shown in stillness “ wow I love this phrase♥️

[@dafnifoti2063]

I realised that I am nervous when I teach the students in university! I speak quickly as someone chasing me. Marisa you are perfect!!!! Thank you!!!

[@sassysandie2865]

Dafni Foti well the young people have short attention spans lol! If you start slowing down your speech they will wonder if you took a calming agent!

[@MarisaPeer]

How will you do things differently on Monday? x

[@dafnifoti2063]

@@MarisaPeer I found the way! Watching your videos??

[@KingsCrossVIP]

Dafni make it about them. They just want to learn and succeed🌷best of luck lovely

[@easy4steve]

hello Marisa I have been through life working to provide for my family , now at 61 and wife at 62 she fell down with 3 x heart attacks and now diabetes . my bosses are never happy always wanting more , I have been watching your videos and I see why ,my passion is motorcycles restoring which im keen to get going with this (im a electrician ) . I am changing my mind set ,enough! I am enough ! thankyou for giving me a push im on my way . im still looking after my family and need to be happy too work never been good enough , Enough ! change my mind set ! thankyou Steven from Australia

[@InnerVisionStudios]

These are great techniques that will help everyone. Thanks for sharing Marisa.

[@timmorakinyo9529]

Can't we just be like a child? Open; receptive, non judgemental. Acting from the center of our being.

[@rosaartemisg5027]

Like Dr Wayne Dyer 💜

[@Light-Shift]

We aren't children. Who wants to be naive and receptive like a child. Children move forward into adulthood, expanding and increasing in self empowerment, they don't move backward into adulthood. You can be open hearted as a calm mature perceptive adult, but receptive is the result of agreeing with the energies being exchanged.

[@kathrynmcnerney6490]

I wrote i am enough on my mirror . At first i felt embarrased and would shut the door so my flat mates wouldn't see what i had written. After a few weeks i kept thinking i should rub it off so no one could see but now i no longer feel ashamed and i won't wipe it off . Friends of mine and my mum even read it and commented on how clever a statement it is. Thanks Marissa! Nothing has made me feel more self worth than this statement..learning to like myself is the most empowering feeling ever and it just gets stronger by the day xx

[@avril.227]

“It’s probably not that they are that interested in you and the tomatoes you grow” ... 😅 💓

[@insomniaaaaa4813]

One thing I like to do when I'm feeling down or insecure is I smile, like not a big one, just a small one, and keep smiling, it really makes me feel happy. Idk if this is kind of obvious but you can try it anyway.

[@teresakilleen7087]

insomniaaaAa There have been studies done into the effect of a smile (genuine or manufactured, it didn't seem to make a significant difference) and the very act of smiling was found to improve the happiness scores of the study population. Unfortunately, I don't know how reliable the study methods were but shows you're not far off the mark - besides, I think it takes fewer muscles to smile than it does to frown. Keep it up! 😀

[@carieyounginsurance]

I’ve always been a “toucher”- while listening, waitressing, my insurance clients now- it’s just my way and I feel people respond to it in a sincere way. I truly care about others and want to serve them- that gives me the confidence to make it always about them and never about me. People can FEEL that when they are with you and that will bring confidence to the situation because you aren’t thinking what’s in it for me...

[@anthoniotallsman1933]

Hello

[@angelaujunwa]

Your voice! Your voice! Your voice alone inspires!!

[@Timmsy]

Marissa, I've just found you at the perfect time in my life. Thank you from Australia 🙏💙

[@NicoMoreno]

FIRST! :) Marisa i love your message and everything you say and create!! Thank you, you are such a shining light in this world!

[@MarisaPeer]

Thank you x

[@jennyiedema680]

Everything Marisa says to do, really works. She is genuine, real and so observant. She is one in a million. Queen Elizabeth should give her the highesthonor of all, as she has helped so many people and is so generous with her time. She is a life changer and she does it for free.

[@breakthroughmoment1647]

I’m that person you described in the video: All over the place with the verbal vomit, the gesticulating, the flailing arms, jerky movements, bobbing head, etc. I will try this new approach. I needed this!! It’s so tiresome to be this way. I feel uncomfortable with awkward silences, fill the gaps in conversation to make people feel more comfortable, but by the end of the day, I’m exhausted. Your tips are great. Thank you.

[@MarisaPeer]

Please let me know how you get on with implementing these techniques x

[@breakthroughmoment1647]

Marisa Peer I certainly will. Thank you so much for the encouragement!

[@larasmith2931]

🦋so important to not just listen to respond but listen because that’s what you want

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

Lara Smith, you are absolutely gorgeous 💓💓❤🌹🌹and I will be glad to know you more

[@soulfulsinging105]

Hey Marisa peer. I would like to know for teens how can they overcome bullying and lack of self worth. Pls make a video on that Thank you

[@MarisaPeer]

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[@vapeking466]

What I tell my 14yo son is to not allow anyone to bully him and to ignore them if they try to pick on him cause all they want is a reaction if you dont react they will usually stop. However he does know if he is physically attacked to fight back even if you lose they will respect you for fighting back and usually leave you alone after that. Hope that is helpful.

[@anthonykaps9174]

Honestly, what I realized the only way to overcome bullying and make it permanent is by learning how to release what inside you causes you to get hurt by these bullies. All the insults, all the things that hurts you emotionally is because subconsciously you agree with what's being said by addressing the part of you who believes and release trauma you become free and start stepping up. I help people who struggle with social confrontations and social interactions through extensive amount of experience. If you're interested to know more about being a social person and getting immune to bullying send me an email : [e-mail] or @theboringkaps

[@alinedeleandro123]

@@vapeking466 My father used to say that to his little grandson too. He was five when he went to pick him up from school and couldn't find him. When he searched the grounds, he found him on top of 2 boys and beating them up. My dad was a tall man and when he wanted to instill the fear in anyone he just needed to stare down at them and put on a frightening face. After, he'd seen enough, he called his grandchild and the 3 of them hurriedly stood up! Dad didn't say a word and the bullies never bothered Albert again! He told us later that he'd had enough and since his grandpa told him he had to give them a few chances before "using his fists", he decided that ignoring them had failed.

[@varshaahuja4239]

Marisa I couldn't love you and respect you more. You are changing my life in ways I could never imagine. Thank you so much for being You.

[@kerryirving2949]

I didn't know that if you have sliva in your month you are relaxed! I've had low self esteem & low confidence since I was 14 I'm now 34

[@catherinefriederich]

I love listening to you, Marisa. Both your coaching and your meditations capture me because of your kindness and confidence. Thank you!

[@MarisaPeer]

Thank you, I really appreciate your lovely words and I'm so pleased to hear you love the videos x

[@chrisashleylewer5914]

Love all the work you do Marissa, thank you!

[@sneha2804]

I'm just 15 and your talks really changed the way I experienced the change improved my conversation grades and self talks soooooooooo much I very grateful to you

[@sussanhashemi8353]

I am glad you showed up on my screen. You are the epitome of fabulous. Thank you! And God says “ Be still and know that I am God.” !!! You are able to deliver that stillness.

[@JustineMfulama]

WOW I LOVE THESE PRACTICAL TIPS. Especially for women that have a hard time being confident around men they like. And I love the point about how it's not about making yourself look good, but actually making the other person seen. Like the quote says "The most interesting person in the room is the most interested person!". THANKS FOR SHARING YOUR WISDOM!!!

[@MarisaPeer]

I love that quote and yes, it's so true x

[@vapeking466]

I always thought it was only the man who needed confidence when pursuing a relationship. I have never looked for confidence from a woman Im interested in. Actually most of them stumble words and are nervous but I have always found that feminine and attractive. I find these I dont "need" a man women a huge turn off. Men and women need each other just as God intended.

[@amandajane8203]

So basically.. be like a Cat 😽

[@melissab77]

Love this!

[@sangeethak.s1411]

Actually true😂

[@InSync3912]

Amanda, what a stunning metaphor! You have great imagination and visionary thinking

[@reflections4me]

Amanda Jane 🤭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you are crazy 😜

[@lovealways4957]

😂 That's actually great advice!!

[@MellisaDormoy]

Thank you Marisa! I've had to work on this over the years. I do find that when we project that confidence with our body language that we NATURALLY feel much more confident.

[@MarisaPeer]

Absolutely x

[@RebeccaRuano]

“It may be disgusting but who knows you’re doing it” 😄 Thank you for these tips and for tagging this video in newer ones so I could watch it again. I needed the reminders. Thank you 💐

[@anthoniotallsman1933]

Hi

[@frankuvlkan]

Hi Rebecca I hope my comment didn't sound as a form of privacy invasion your comment tells of a wonderful woman with a beautiful heart which led me to comment I don't normally write in the comment section but I think you deserve this compliment. If you don’t mind can we be friends? Thanks God bless you….🌹🌹

[@davenovak226]

Be fake is what she’s saying. Act as if you’re interested, then people realise you don’t care they’ll think you disingenuous. Being known as a liar loses people trust. Great advice Marisa. How about spend time with people that share your interests and don’t waste your time(or there’s). Genuine confident people respect themselves and don’t have to lie to get people to like because they don’t fear others opinions. Question is what is fear though? Confident people are fearless, not to be confused with aggressive or manipulation like Marisa in inferring with this video.

[@natasshalobanova]

This is the most useful video that I ever watched on KZbin

[@MarisaPeer]

Thank you, that means a lot x

[@fredflintstone8998]

Hello Marisa, I thought you were rather mesmerising and living proof that your advice works. I will listen to this video again... and maybe again... and absorb your wisdom. Thank you.

[@harshas7265]

I was speaking fast all the time I am glad that she made me aware of my mistakes. Thanks 😊

[@ioannaathineos5269]

her voice is so relaxing

[@maha002]

Wow... This helps so much! Truly thank you for this, Marissa. I've always been struggling with anxiety and got tense easily, this helps me to relax and slow down of all the rush going through my head. Thank you!

[@safiyaamir6939]

Im the student of psychology n my teachers did not teach me the way ur videos benifits me. U r my hero peer

[@dupontfra]

I would add : Train yourself ! For example, for a conference, repeat it, prepare it, and do conferences often : After more and more, everybody becomes more confident ... Thanks Marisa, you're so motivating !

[@jay.jay.]

True, that's why I joined a Toastmasters so I can practice in presence of other people over and over again

[@snow67cwth]

Marisa you are changing my life!!!!

[@Wildfire4496]

Omg thank you for this because I naturally have a high pitched voice and have a habit of rushing through what I'm saying to my school peers and I'm starting to realize they don't take me serious.. opposed to when I talk slow and chill with my family and they take me serious

[@nalinisingh2684]

Excellent Tips Marisa thank you Love always

[@augustayarteh7524]

Aw great one ma. I have big confident in my self in every thing I am doing in my life. I put confident first. Above all I strongly believe be live in my self. Trust me mrs I have confident in speaking to every body I meet with around me. I refuse to be nervous.

[@dejabluek8297]

I’ve been having anxiety all day but listening to this video I feel much calmer. I saved to play back when I need it again.

[@liv6483]

The words of wisdom, inspiration and insight. This lady is so lovely, absolutely beautiful and incredibly clever. Her advice is spot on and I listen to her every word with intrigue and admiration.

[@amyzhao2908]

whenever I feel something wrong in my heart, I could watch your videos. Thank you!

[@sigalm8205]

Marisa advice is so perfect. You are the most generous person I know giving us this treasure!! You are so loving and caring to the world. Thank you⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

[@mindsetwithsally4556]

Love love this. So simple 😍

[@cjennings6179]

Touch. Touch. Touch growth!

[@cheriewi7874]

I love this.. Strength is shown in stillness

[@dododolol3211]

I feel like I am listening to the most loving beautiful spirited person in the world , and I feel so good listening to you .

[@reynantealvarez931]

I love your voice. It gives me courage. Thank you Marisa! 😊💙💜💖

[@linabuivydiene3433]

Thank you so much Marisa 🙏💕

[@melissaszarka5718]

Strength is shown in stillness! It’s a great thing to remember.

[@mirafilipovic5162]

Great and very useful! Thanks Marisa!

[@anaf8867]

Thank you for sharing! Piece of jewel!

[@RicardoMoreira-qe1rl]

So motivacional and paeceful. The way you speak is so wonderful

[@MsBloo]

Wow she is like the living definition of the term POISE!

[@MarisaPeer]

Thank you, I don't think anyone has ever said that to me before x

[@MsBloo]

@@MarisaPeer My pleasure and happy I could be the first then. Please keep sharing your valuable knowledge with those who need it and hope you keep prospering.

[@lluvia3thkpsp]

Omg! I love this. Thank you

[@sucremarre6014]

You’re the sweetest thing I’ve watched on KZbin, I almost teared .. I’d love to learn from you. I’m sure there’s a lot where that came from. Thank you so much for sharing 🤩🙏

[@eveningPS4Gamer]

Thanks for your light.

[@louisianaeu828]

Thanks for sharing your knowledge and giving us all the chance at it!

[@kevinn5976]

Thanks.Your voice is mesmerizing. You are a beautiful soul Marisa, inside and out.💕

[@kgrymp]

What an amazing teacher you are!! Thanking you ever so kindly for your brilliant work!!❤

[@meyliqg1774]

Wow I'm so glad I found her in just two videos I've learned more than I have watching videos and reading self help books for years.

[@jerrydouglas4583]

You’re amazing. I purchased some of your your hypnosis, but I must do it more regularly. I fall back when it is out of rotation. The regression therapy is a tear jerker every time.

[@blogoosfera]

Thank You! Congratulations on your channel.

[@IAmAwesomeSoAreYou]

Powerful tips for powerful people.

[@TheNordicHunter]

Feels like a vocal massage. Ahhhhh...so relaxing. 😌

[@thekingcrab1345]

Her ad popped up on her own video. Great vid by the way, definitely going to start using them ♥️

[@veroniquehoflack4910]

Thank you Marisa. I am very grateful for these tips.

[@MarisaPeer]

Thank you for watching, which tip is your favourite?

[@veroniquehoflack4910]

@@MarisaPeer Speaking slowly.

[@BadBoy-bk8mz]

Marisas voice is so calming. ASMR kinda) Thank you for your videos♡

[@DV-dt9sq]

Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful!! Just what I needed! I remember myself being like that - chin up, shoulders down, calm... As if confidence was radiating from every my pore. That was when I was growing up. Somewhere along the way I lost it, and I am aware of my posture very often, but I didn'n what to do about it. When I was confident that confident posture came naturaly for me, it looked as some sort of aristocrat looking from above ;) . I saw people didn' t liked it... they would look at me strange as "who do I think you are". Than I deliberatedly hid it. Big mistake. I let others control me.👎 And once depression came, my posture was bended... like Quasimodo little bit. It still is I am affraid. But I didn't know I can regain my confident posture (confidence) with this practice. Thank you soooo much!! xxxxxx I am looking forward to practice it... perhaps my body will remember, perhaps some neuropath will remember my natural posture I lost long time ago. And thank you for posting this short reminders every week, I can not express joy and help you provide me with this. Thank you for including same sex people in videos. A huuuuuge hug 🙌🌼🙋.

[@MarisaPeer]

Please let me know how you get on. Put it into practice as soon as you can x

[@NenaLavonne]

D V 😊✨

[@DV-dt9sq]

@@MarisaPeer : I practiced it this week. I would find myself walking as usual. Bended haha...but than I would remember your advice and practice it. I will continue because I feel good and I think it can work. xxx

[@sukkar5200]

Marisa, I appreciate you sharing all the important content absolutely for free. Thank you.

[@angelnicoleagpasa2103]

I was very anxious these days trying hard how to deal with online class and stuff and I happened to be here at the end with a still heart saying thank you. This is wonderful.

[@MarisaPeer]

Such a lovely message, wishing you all the best xx Marisa Peer Team

[@frankuvlkan]

Hi Angel I hope my comment didn't sound as a form of privacy invasion your comment tells of a wonderful woman with a beautiful heart which led me to comment I don't normally write in the comment section but I think you deserve this compliment. If you don’t mind can we be friends? Thanks God bless you….🌹🌹

[@mariapescifeltri953]

Thank you for those tips. Have been learning a lot from you. God bless you.

[@kristy135792468]

Thank you Marisa. Thank you

[@yashapuzankov412]

I'm bookmarking this gold. Thanks for the knowledge!

[@WellBalancedWallet]

I love this. A person’s energy is readable and it is definitely noticeable when conversing with others.

[@bambie381]

Thanks for sharing this great advice !!!

[@sohailkhan1651]

Fantastic marissa❤❤

[@emarivelino235]

Love your advise Marisa....you are the best

[@aviancag8716]

This channel saved my life.

[@MarisaPeer]

I'm so pleased to hear that and so thankful you found my channel x

[@NenaLavonne]

Avianca G 😊✨

[@drexelking8792]

In returning and rest you shall be saved in quietness and confidence shall be your strength,- Isaiah 30:15.

[@dovahkiind7896]

Brilliant advices dear Marisa!⚘

[@michellewambura5742]

Thank you SO much. Can’t wait to apply these techniques

[@zkwelsh76]

I love this human.

[@architectMd]

Thank you Marisa Peer for the lovely tips of body language of how to be confident!

[@osleinyperez3853]

I love You Marisa Peer. Thanks

[@zhaus3298]

Thanks Marissa, wonderful advice, love your content and the help you provide

[@sheliaricks9947]

I have done tiny small morning interviews for our auxiliary group and a few other community activities I was involved in previously. I never liked myself on these interviews‼️ Excellent presentation❣️

[@LaTersaDenise]

I use to speak with my hands a lot growing up. I struggled as a young girl with my self esteem. It’s been a heck of a journey to get here today. Thanks for sharing these tips because I’m always looking to learn how to be the highest version of myself.

[@leonoradompor8706]

I am confident and i am very natural !

[@minoabbassi1517]

Hi Marisa. I just found your videos today sunday 23 may new moon, perfect timing in my life. Just lost my job because of the virus and the Guy i’ve been dating on the same day. Thank you for this.

[@nneomajessica1644]

Thank you mum I love this and have learnt more from it

[@mythilims3277]

Love you Marisa. Thank you so much. You are absolutely brilliant.