Does A Man Marry Out of Convenience vs Love?

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Tony Gaskins

Tony Gaskins

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@breannn
@breannn Жыл бұрын
I feel like women are in denial because most never had a man that was truly in love with them.
@beefaye18
@beefaye18 Жыл бұрын
IKR....men rarely ever give 100% of their heart to any woman.
@AyesheAlwaysLovely
@AyesheAlwaysLovely Жыл бұрын
THIS!
@gapeach7814
@gapeach7814 Жыл бұрын
So happy mine gives as much to me as I give to him. He's truly my best friend. Continue to have hope. Real love does exist.
@haroldmartin3652
@haroldmartin3652 4 ай бұрын
I thought men and womans mary because they are compativel.
@la6136
@la6136 Жыл бұрын
It's sad but most men and women settle. It is rare to find the right person through just dating around. I believe finding the right person is only something God can really orchestrate. All other relationships are just people choosing based on their own limited understanding and where they are in their life.
@Channyb89
@Channyb89 Жыл бұрын
Boom 👊🏾💥
@TempermentalTart
@TempermentalTart Жыл бұрын
Now this is a word! 💯
@durbansaladyinaccra2173
@durbansaladyinaccra2173 Жыл бұрын
I agree with you fully.💯🎯 I dreamt about my partner 4 times and he had dreams and prophecy about me even before we met and at that time we weren't even living in the same country. God definitely takes the wheel if we are diligently seeking for His plan for our lives to be fulfilled. I'm not saying it will be the same for everyone with the dreams etc cos God is not limited in how He moves. All I can say is, I've done things via trial and error before and i definitely see much different and better results from God's way. ❤ Your last point also weighs heavy in truth and I can testify that I was brought to higher level of maturity spiritually, emotionally and mentally by God in preparation first before allowing me to meet my partner and he testified to the same thing.
@prettyloubey8411
@prettyloubey8411 Жыл бұрын
You are 100 percent correct!!
@Goodwillwinoverevil1984
@Goodwillwinoverevil1984 Жыл бұрын
And some people NEVER settle and end up 50 and alone
@Dr.Elaine1
@Dr.Elaine1 Жыл бұрын
“When you are being hurt, you are not being loved”. TG
@valentinesboy8593
@valentinesboy8593 Жыл бұрын
Say that!!!
@dalainetaylor7533
@dalainetaylor7533 Жыл бұрын
​@@valentinesboy8593 😊.pppp😊p😊pp0pp0pp😊😊pp love pp😊😊oo😊😊po😊polpllpp😊p
@durbansaladyinaccra2173
@durbansaladyinaccra2173 Жыл бұрын
Yep, the one is like oil and the other like water....they don't mix. 🚫
@tulip4169
@tulip4169 Жыл бұрын
49:00 After Cardi got back with Offset after she was about to divorse him, she admitted publically that she wasn't really going to divorce him. She said she was just trying to scare him. Personally, I don't think a woman should ever admit that. He should believe that it was truly about to be over. Never show your hand.
@beefaye18
@beefaye18 Жыл бұрын
"A man will STRUGGLE to walk away from what he truly loves" TG 👈 💯 FACTS
@ladynottingham89
@ladynottingham89 Жыл бұрын
I used to believe that too, that somehow the man regretted that he lost a good woman, but I have realized that it's a woman's way of protecting her ego from the reality that the man never wanted them. Also, the women who think like that is because they have been traumatized in their childhood or by men they dated. Somewhere through life our sense of what love is gets twisted sometimes and we rationalize a lot of things that hurt us so it doesn't make us feel like we're not worthy of love. It hurts more to face the reality they never loved us and we were the only ones invested and made a fool of ourselves. I've done this myself and only accepted this because of the work I've been doing to heal childhood trauma. I really believe only a REAL relationship with God can heal this. A lot of times as people we say we love God and believe in Him but we love man more and we honor them before God. We worship finding love with a man and we would sell our souls for it, fornicating, losing self-respect over a human. If I could turn back time I would do things so different with men. Like my mom said when you're young you lack wisdom and when you finally get wisdom, you're out of time. Ladies don't pine over the men who hurt you, let them go, because you're losing precious time.
@PeaceBeStill-
@PeaceBeStill- Жыл бұрын
Powerful testimony! 👏🏾🙏🏾
@xoxo5324
@xoxo5324 Жыл бұрын
So true n i Needed this. Thank you.
@ogeanazia3230
@ogeanazia3230 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the words of wisdom
@MichelleNagir
@MichelleNagir Жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you. If a man loves you he will never leave. I have to say there was a time I loved my husband more than God and I hate to admit it. That’s the biggest mistake we make. Wish you all the best!!
@angeliquedavidson3674
@angeliquedavidson3674 Жыл бұрын
Whew this comment is a whole sermon! This comment should been pinned! 🙏🏼🔥
@marilynking527
@marilynking527 Жыл бұрын
Preach Tony!! Ladies that wasn’t real love that was a trauma bond. It’s called being attracted to an emotionally unavailable person. Let that man go so your real husband can come in. Men can sense when you haven’t let go of someone emotionally
@gapeach7814
@gapeach7814 Жыл бұрын
Have you guys seen the sneak peak for VH1s Couple's Retreat??? Guess who's one of the therapists this season?? Our boy Tony‼️ Super proud of you Tony! It's so inspiring to watch your continued success unfold right before our eyes. Congratulations! B 🎉🎉🎉
@evka24
@evka24 Жыл бұрын
Where is that ? Thank u
@asmith1679
@asmith1679 Жыл бұрын
Yasssss Tony 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@gapeach7814
@gapeach7814 Жыл бұрын
@@evka24 VH1 on cable or maybe see if KZbin has a video of the sneak peak.
@DD-mg2se
@DD-mg2se Жыл бұрын
We're in 2023 ..'bout time women learn to shut up, listen, learn the game and keep their eyes open especially when help is being offered on such high level. Be blessed.
@thekimberlynproject
@thekimberlynproject Жыл бұрын
Ok! 👂🏾
@nashsis
@nashsis Жыл бұрын
Like why do some of these ppl log on and listen if they're just going to say "it's not true"??
@gapeach7814
@gapeach7814 Жыл бұрын
Amen Sis
@gapeach7814
@gapeach7814 Жыл бұрын
@@nashsis exactly! I'm still trying to figure that one out. 🤦🏾‍♀️
@gapeach7814
@gapeach7814 Жыл бұрын
@@wonderfullyrenee 💯🎯
@queenmelise2706
@queenmelise2706 Жыл бұрын
That why i don't trust no man words but his actions speak for itself!!
@MidnightMoon88
@MidnightMoon88 Жыл бұрын
Many men these days get married out of convenience, because marriage benefits them more …. Marriage most of the times traps women into domestic slavery ! Ladies marry smart, and make sure you’re going to benefit out the marriage 😅
@PeaceBeStill-
@PeaceBeStill- Жыл бұрын
Good point!
@joycenash8271
@joycenash8271 Жыл бұрын
Marry with purpose. Period. Not what you're going to do for me, but what are we doing? I asked that question once and got crickets.
@nataliehenderson8657
@nataliehenderson8657 Жыл бұрын
Nah I’m trying to see how I’m go benefit period
@GlowingOfAgeStory
@GlowingOfAgeStory Жыл бұрын
​@@joycenash8271Right! Purpose will prevent the heartache and pain.
@GlowingOfAgeStory
@GlowingOfAgeStory Жыл бұрын
​@@nataliehenderson8657 And still end up single or miserable.
@crazystarluv
@crazystarluv Жыл бұрын
unfortunately most men have to settle. a lot of men cant secure their dream woman due to lack of finances, social awkwardness etc.. just how it is!!
@mommymommie
@mommymommie Жыл бұрын
Yikes! Wow..... 🥴
@iamcellular6650
@iamcellular6650 Жыл бұрын
Everyone settles when they leave their imagination and realize they are dealing with an imperfect human being that will evolve and that they don’t need the cream of the crop to have a successful marriage. Your so called dream woman may use you, not want you, talk down to you, have excess bodies, not be very kind and probably settled for you. Many men like the look of ice spice yet that is not what a wife/mother needs to be. EVERYONE SETTLES WHEN THEY STOP LOOKING FOR PERFECTION IN OTHER PEOPLE AND STOPS AVOIDING THEIR VOIDS.
@janisemills1
@janisemills1 Жыл бұрын
@@iamcellular6650 Exactly I realized that too. My partner is imperfect just like me. He takes care of me very well. He pays all the bills but he is verbally abusive. He also has a son by another woman before he met me which caused a lot of drama. I do feel like I settled because he had a lot of baggage and past trama that he takes out on me.
@anthonynosike
@anthonynosike Жыл бұрын
Most women settled too but some get lucky
@thaliesigaraille
@thaliesigaraille Жыл бұрын
Your dream woman doesn’t automatically mean you’re not settling. If you’re only talking about looks then I guess but a good match is deeper than looks. You can have a “dream woman” and her personality, character etc. is so underdeveloped that you are settling. Remember that.
@teresadavis528
@teresadavis528 Жыл бұрын
Reconnected with an old boyfriend from 30 years ago back in 2021. He, too, admitted that he married his wife out of convenience because he didn't have a place to live. He admitted he didn't love her but tried to make it work and wanted children. He said that for most years in the marriage, he was miserable. They😮 slept in separate rooms and were not communicating. He moved out during covid19. Now, with us reconnecting, we were together 5 months. Thia time, he ended by admitting that he loves me but wasn't happy with himself and couldn't offer me anything. He did me a favor because it made me realize that I could never have a life with him. He had alot to work out (divorce and making amends with his kids). Plus, he doesn't take accountability or responsibility for his actions. He likes to play the victim.I was also labeled as the one who got away. When we were together over 30 years ago, I was the one who ended because he wasn't ready and was immature. It's sad because he's still immature and if he wasn't married, he'd have the same head space, and our relationship would end the same way.
@msmj9102
@msmj9102 8 ай бұрын
Sounds like my ex as well. He never learned what love was nor has he learned. I know we did not have true love. He went back recently to the current wife so he could work on his exit plan and not loving the current wife either. He is selfish to the 9th degree and the wife thinks she cant live without him. Those two deserve each other
@janiceparkerson4727
@janiceparkerson4727 Жыл бұрын
As an older woman if a woman loses respect for a man it will be hard for him to win her heart again and the longer he stays away will play a part to because if or when he does come back he won't be coming back by himself and the woman may not want to deal with all the additional baggage.
@LDolar
@LDolar 4 ай бұрын
Dear Father God, on behalf of myself and all the women in the world, Thank Sincerely for our Brother Tony Gaskins walking in his true purpose giving away the game and helping us women normalize Only healthy relationships! He is the Moses, John the Baptist and Apostle Paul of our generation crying out for righteous for All relationships. Cover him under your blood and continue to anoint and prosper him and his family in Everything! In the Mighty name of Jesus, amen❤️🙏.
@flowers7951
@flowers7951 Жыл бұрын
"The Evidence of love " sounds like your next book. 🌻
@gefaga2883
@gefaga2883 Жыл бұрын
You're absolutely right, Tony. If he loves you... he'll grow up before she leaves! I can attest to that.
@lololollaughatlife1431
@lololollaughatlife1431 Жыл бұрын
Both men and women settle and while most won’t admit it…. We all have that one person we wish we were still with.
@DD-mg2se
@DD-mg2se Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂..I know Mr Tony message is serious but hey you know we must get a good laugh in when we pop up here.. it's the humour for me..Be blessed.
@I-MyselfAndMe
@I-MyselfAndMe Жыл бұрын
Same here. My fiancé is my dream guy and I don’t miss none of those ex jokers
@DD-mg2se
@DD-mg2se Жыл бұрын
I don't know about you, but not me..I really don't want anyone knowing I was their woman.
@LinakoNgcobo
@LinakoNgcobo Жыл бұрын
I guess I must say I’m one of the lucky ones I’m with the best person ever
@CeeceeH1819
@CeeceeH1819 Жыл бұрын
I aint settling, why i stay single. I deserve the best because I'm giving my best.
@YourLoveNeverFails
@YourLoveNeverFails Жыл бұрын
God I wish I had Tony’s advise when I was younger. Would have saved me so much pain and heartache. Thank you TG for doing Gods work 🕊️
@missqueen5878
@missqueen5878 Жыл бұрын
A married man can never be mine true love ‼️😏
@LP---
@LP--- Жыл бұрын
I'm at the point where I hit the Like button, and then listen to the message. Sometimes, I go through the videos, hit Like, and save them to my Tony Gaskins Playlist! I don't put you on a pedestal, because I know You are Human and we All have flaws. But I KNOW with all of my Heart, Soul, and Spirit that Tony Gaskins is Definitely GOD Sent! Thank You Father God, for Tony & Sherri Gaskins.. AMEN 🙏🏾❤🙏🏾
@k.lanette7949
@k.lanette7949 Жыл бұрын
Same
@MyaChantelle
@MyaChantelle 7 ай бұрын
Amen . That was perfectly said ❤and I have a playlist of him too. It really helps
@LP---
@LP--- 7 ай бұрын
@@MyaChantelle Yes, He is a God Sent and I wish he had been around in my younger years. I'm just Grateful that he's Helping countless Women and Men with REAL GODLY TRUTH..
@Indiscrazyworld
@Indiscrazyworld Жыл бұрын
Tony I know you be so passionate but it be comedic I be cracking up 😅
@DarraCherieTV
@DarraCherieTV Жыл бұрын
“Who taught y’all that? R. Kelly? “😂😂😂 when a woman’s fed up
@TrishC5280
@TrishC5280 Жыл бұрын
I fell out 😂😂😂
@Indiscrazyworld
@Indiscrazyworld Жыл бұрын
Tony more of us than you think are listening and getting it your purpose is purposing your a blessing stay in your purpose Man of GOD GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY AND EVERYONE CONNECTED TO YALL IN JESUS NAME AMEN THANKS A MILLION AGAIN
@TanshellaBranch
@TanshellaBranch Жыл бұрын
Amen!
@thekimberlynproject
@thekimberlynproject Жыл бұрын
Amen!
@Birdie319
@Birdie319 Жыл бұрын
God has blessed me to turn 40 yrs old this year. I know, I know everyone says I look in my 20s but I am 40... Anyways, I'm new to this channel and you are right about Love. God gifted you to be a relationship Coach to help people know how to receive love and give love. So don't give up...Trust God and keep going.
@rachelphillips5576
@rachelphillips5576 Жыл бұрын
So true Tony I've ran into both men. One that wanted to marry me to get a Green Card or a hobo man that needed a place to stay. Thank God I didn't marry either!
@juanitaervin4757
@juanitaervin4757 Жыл бұрын
I got the two for one deal lol he needed a place to stay and a green card and I thought it was love 😂 I wanted it to be real so bad I convinced myself it was I forgave him for stuff I shouldn’t have until I finally had enough and filled for annulment I did it bc I was lonely and I really do love him but no matter how much I love him he doesn’t share the feelings and he never will I just have to accept it I’m just thankful that at least he’s here to help me out with our two sons and he’s made a lot of improvements in the last year I’m no longer lonely now that I’ve got all the kids to take care of and I’m just thankful 🥲 that even we are not married I still have a family and even though he’s not my man he is trying to be a good father and he graduated high school and he quit drinking and I just pray 🤲🏽 for him and my babies 👶🏽 that we all gonna be ok
@taghazoutmoon5031
@taghazoutmoon5031 Жыл бұрын
I got 2 hobos that wanted a green card. Married and divorced one. Still with the other...
@rosiexx8127
@rosiexx8127 11 ай бұрын
No one fall in love faster than a man who need a place to live
@Ms.Chapp3y
@Ms.Chapp3y Жыл бұрын
32 with 4 children: I got informed and confirmation from this video. Thank You.🙇🏿‍♀⚡🔓🧠☝🏿💯🌟.
@a1xluv
@a1xluv 11 ай бұрын
Thank you Tony G! Most men out here DO NOT KNOW LOVE! 💯✅😇🙏🏾
@thekimberlynproject
@thekimberlynproject Жыл бұрын
Tony I'm 46 years old. I know you don't want thanks but, this is just testimony... from God and through you, here's what I've learned: to refute adequately, to interpret men's actions, to be daring again, that I am the antagonist and hero of my journey, to let "character" be a person's true currency, that this walk is not alone.... and so much more. Yes, many of these concepts have been known to me but, I've also learned the true meaning of understanding knowledge. Your ministry, yes ministry, has been the catalyst to my awakening. Not making you a guru... however, you must receive that you have brought light! Thank you for letting God use you and ALL acknowledge to the Greatness of our Father!!🙌🏾🙏🏾👏🏾
@durbansaladyinaccra2173
@durbansaladyinaccra2173 Жыл бұрын
Amen...he is well deserving of his 💐🙂
@asiaz248
@asiaz248 Жыл бұрын
My daddy married out of convenience. My mama didn’t want him (he proposed 5 times plus he was in a relationship) & he married his girlfriend after I turned 19 & only gave her a reception. They’ve been together since I was 4 months old. My granny even said he only married her for her insurance & good credit 😭
@Stormy867
@Stormy867 Жыл бұрын
What you mean he gave her a reception? Lol
@theehardpill
@theehardpill Жыл бұрын
Yikes!!!
@VirtuousWoman1143
@VirtuousWoman1143 Жыл бұрын
WOW !!!! NOW THATS A WORD !!!!! I HEAR THAT ALOT.
@asiaz248
@asiaz248 Жыл бұрын
@@Stormy867 he didn’t give her a wedding only a reception.
@Stormy867
@Stormy867 Жыл бұрын
@@asiaz248 🤣🤣🤣 that’s wild
@Bluntgirly
@Bluntgirly Жыл бұрын
Absolutely loved this ! Haha one thing I learned about men is they are going to do what they want to do. The girl he's with right now is the girl he WANTS to be with period! Those women online saying how men love the one that got away are trying to make their self feel better and projecting. A man's love is STRONG AND INTENSE! Goodbye😂
@Sunshine-fv1eb
@Sunshine-fv1eb Жыл бұрын
Dang, this video is really hitting home that I’ve never been actually loved, protected, or cared for 😔😥
@ambermobetta6885
@ambermobetta6885 Жыл бұрын
His analogies be having me 🤣😂😅…I get the word, the message and the punchlines‼️💯👏🏾
@prestigiouswisdom1283
@prestigiouswisdom1283 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂🤣 Tony you better not leave us for construction 🚧 🦺 job we are truly thanking God for him presenting us with a servant like yourself! May he continue to bless you and your lovely family for the obedience!
@beefaye18
@beefaye18 Жыл бұрын
Dead 💀😂😂😂😂
@HSBsoulsurfer
@HSBsoulsurfer Жыл бұрын
Tony's helping in the repairing/rebuilding of the Lord's Kingdom. Greatest construction task ever.
@Bells_Ville
@Bells_Ville Жыл бұрын
This insight specifically about the brokeness of man is really helpful for forgiving. 1:20:15
@KFontLab
@KFontLab Жыл бұрын
I have seen so many marriages lasting 1-3 years and it’s over. Something ain’t right. Foundation, maturity … something just ain’t right. Ego and Pride definitely can win with a grown-boy. If a man is extremely immature the rules are just not the same. And you shouldn’t subject yourself to it. I think women wait for men to grow up and some never do. This video is an interesting one. Some people (men/women) never grow up. Love is also not enough. There has to be discipline in all of this.
@jessicascreenwritingservices
@jessicascreenwritingservices Жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony! Your videos and your books have helped me with my healing journey. You are one of the few relationship coaches who break down the difference between a man coming back out of love vs a man coming back out of ego.
@jifunzekiingerezanadorothy
@jifunzekiingerezanadorothy Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Tony! You are saving lives and protecting love. Real love. We appreciate you so much!!!
@indea7
@indea7 Жыл бұрын
“truly love.” SIMPLE. ❤️ Thank you Mr. Tony! I hope women start to understand this and stop making up fairytales in their head.
@thekimberlynproject
@thekimberlynproject Жыл бұрын
Tony, we hear you and we're listening... your work is not in vain! Ty for answering your call, many blessings to you and your wife!
@tulip4169
@tulip4169 Жыл бұрын
What you said at 8 minutes is true. Tony you taught me to listen to men’s assessment of other men because men know men. I see post on social media where men are sharing their experiences or how they feel and women will come in the comments and tell them they’re lying.
@ShiaGirl18
@ShiaGirl18 2 ай бұрын
Wow
@Goodwillwinoverevil1984
@Goodwillwinoverevil1984 Жыл бұрын
Mrs. Gaskins is so lucky.
@zoejaiattoh1243
@zoejaiattoh1243 Жыл бұрын
I really wish I had this insight in my 20’s .. I wouldn’t have poured 10/11 years into a man who was immature and did not know how to love/and or. never loved me. It was all down hill from there , I lost all my confidence, all my light and it lead to some severe dark times.
@Mirpeace93
@Mirpeace93 9 ай бұрын
I see you have a beautiful face! I hope you are on to better things now. GOD BLESS YOU ♡ be glad you learned
@NewYorRicanSista1979
@NewYorRicanSista1979 Жыл бұрын
We love you Tony ❤! I said to my adult daughter today “where was Tony 20 years ago before I started making mistakes”. I told her to take heed, before she makes careless mistakes.
@brownshugakale2410
@brownshugakale2410 Жыл бұрын
God, continue to bless Tony Gaskins as he walks in purpose 🙏🏾 Fresh anointing 🙏🏾
@basimahknowshow
@basimahknowshow Жыл бұрын
Men behave differently with women! A grown behaves the same with ALL WOMEN! He respects all women He loves from his heart but know the difference between love n lust or real from fake. He’s pure on his intentions. He’s very loyal n understanding to women. Etc etc etc
@charlinecharlostin3188
@charlinecharlostin3188 Жыл бұрын
This was gospel!!!!!!! Thank you for being obedient
@andreabellahall
@andreabellahall Жыл бұрын
Once again Tony you are 💯💯💯 A man will truly change for the woman he is honestly without a doubt in LOVE with. Bottom Line!!
@evka24
@evka24 Жыл бұрын
Nobody can change .. not really. .. temporarily maybe
@andreabellahall
@andreabellahall Жыл бұрын
Men can change; it often will take the one they TRULY love to walk away. (Just as Tony often states in his videos. This one included. ) What we must understand is that a man will change once he starts to love himself. (You must truly love yourself before you can truly love another person.) A man begins to examine himself when a woman walks away. He will ask himself several questions about the situation. He will do this when he is ready to STOP being a "grown boy". I ask that you watch this video again; as my reply is too long and Tony is the professional.
@jasmynsharniece2286
@jasmynsharniece2286 Жыл бұрын
Your videos inspire me so much and have taught me a lot about relationships. Thank you for giving me hope. God bless you.
@andreacormier6254
@andreacormier6254 Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU SIR FOR ALL OF YOUR HONESTY! I just wish I had this info given to me as a teenager! You are truly a blessing for all those who want the harsh facts! 🤴🏾💜👐🏼
@naomibrown8133
@naomibrown8133 Жыл бұрын
Tonnnnyyyyy you are PREACHING!! I listen to sooo much of your videos and listening to some of these comments you are reading. MAN I have learned SO much from you. These women are so lost. I’m so thankful for this knowledge you been giving!🙌🏽 I’m so mad I missed this live I was sleep.😂
@kayjeffs3741
@kayjeffs3741 Жыл бұрын
Tony is speaking facts! Love is stronger than pride and a woman's biggest weakness will always be a man!
@Keke-vs7gm
@Keke-vs7gm 11 ай бұрын
That's not true. A man may be your weakness but thats not all men. From the way it looks to me, it looks like women are a man weakness.
@Missbevybaby_
@Missbevybaby_ Жыл бұрын
I was JUST having this conversation with a friend of mine. Thank you for touching on this subject!🙌🏽
@laciena
@laciena Жыл бұрын
My guy best friend calls it “revenge f***”. He will circle back on a woman who played hard to get by swooning her and wining and dining her just to leave when she catches feelings because he felt played the first time. So you wasn’t lying about how men when come back out of ego and toxicity
@Novembersongbird
@Novembersongbird Жыл бұрын
True facts we label love as the one that really didn't do right by us . He can obsess with us later after we are gone and we look at that as love and it not nessarily is.
@TiffanyNicholeCatley
@TiffanyNicholeCatley Жыл бұрын
All facts, Tony! People have got to get out of these delusions!
@A...LA...LA...A
@A...LA...LA...A Жыл бұрын
Umm, I love a guy whom I'll never give another chance too, partially because I'm simply feed up with ppl in general, let alone being in a relationship with someone who is intentionally rude and annoying because his excuse is that he is a man lol. I truly and purely do love him but that doesn't mean I'm willing to accept him back, even if he has changed. He knew he was taking a risk of losing/hurting me, thats why ppl keep secrets. We were young but I refuse to keep blaming immaturity and mistakes for conscious behavioral choices. I'm sure this may come off as bitter or unforgiving, but that is truly not the case, I truly have forgiven him and think of him everyday, but I have found peace and comfort by myself, and now it seems foolish to give it up or away for the instability, uncertainty, and immaturity of a man. I gave my all and did my best but God gave me choices and options, and as of now these relationships can take a rest.
@lenalove3276
@lenalove3276 Жыл бұрын
💯💯
@GlowingOfAgeStory
@GlowingOfAgeStory Жыл бұрын
It don't sound like you have found peace nor forgiven him.
@Jess2b_fit
@Jess2b_fit Жыл бұрын
Tony is the realest on KZbin let’s all just be honest 🏆
@Salma_143
@Salma_143 Жыл бұрын
OMG Tony!!!! This talk was truly the greatest. I listen to your playlists all the time, but this one was an absolute GEM… my goodness. Thank you! 😊
@MysticButterfly22
@MysticButterfly22 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this one Tony! I get it👌🏽 Beautifully put "Your Ex is prepared for his next!" Im not a man and I can't pretend as I am either. But I appreciate the input.❤
@niki-mars955
@niki-mars955 Жыл бұрын
I agree with this about love. God is love and love NEVER hurts. It's so true.
@cherylwright453
@cherylwright453 Жыл бұрын
I was live with you Tony despite it being hard to keep my eyes open (reason I didn’t comment this morning). I look forward to when I can support your efforts and send cash app gifts to you and your lovely wife. Because of your godly spiritual honor and respect , you operate with wisdom eons beyond your years. You’re doing a needed, great work Tony that’s pleasing our Father God. Whoever has ears to hear will benefit immensely from what you share in these videos.☮️🙏🏽
@summiedajanae3700
@summiedajanae3700 Жыл бұрын
Uncle Tony idc what nobody say you one of THE GOATS 🐐 I know you gone be sitting in heaven wit Jesus fa sho. The women that get it, GET IT. A man gone do it for the women he love, if he not doing it for you HE DOES NOT WANT YOU. I’m seeing it in my own life I’m in my 20’s I have a young man who shows me he loves me and wants me an it’s kinda annoying honestly cause I try an deny it but I know he does love me. Thank youuuuuu uncle tony for the work. God bless your life 💫
@2B-Steele
@2B-Steele Жыл бұрын
😂😂🤣🤣king dang-a-lang😂😂😂I can not take this 😂😂😂
@trinigirl7846
@trinigirl7846 Жыл бұрын
Uncle Tony be making me laugh so hard😂😂😂😂😂
@radiantsun1680
@radiantsun1680 Жыл бұрын
Everyone will settle if they don't seek God for his original plan with the person he assigned/ordained for us..Sometimes we sit in confusion because it's easier to have a topic to contribute to the masses nonsense...Choose well in choosing God..🙏🙏
@Honey66.
@Honey66. Жыл бұрын
How you go say you love me and you cussing on my platform! Get thee behind me devil 👿 😂😂😂 that statement had me on the floor Tony! 😅
@DreamGirlHub101
@DreamGirlHub101 11 ай бұрын
Tony right we women are hard headed. our emotions are our weakness
@Dakotakotapop
@Dakotakotapop Жыл бұрын
You making a lot of sense TG 1:30 💡
@tiawilliams4461
@tiawilliams4461 Жыл бұрын
Tony, keep teaching for the ones that want to learn, I’ve only had 2 relationships in my life, one in my youth, and a second one that I entered in my early thirties and got married, and even though I haven’t had a lot of relationships, I find a lot of truth in what you’re saying, one thing for sure, you have to establish your tolerance with a man the moment he crosses the line, even in a marriage, you need to separate from that person especially when it’s infidelity and do not give in, until there is definite growth and you can see that person is truly sorry and they’ve changed, and love does not hurt, so if someone is inflicting pain on you, they can’t be operating in love, it would help us a lot in understanding as women, if we get into relationship with God, then we can see clearer our mistakes in dealing with men, and the main thing, is never idolize anything or anyone above God, as women, we can get so caught up in having what we deem as a good man, and having the perfect relationship, that we become consumed by it, and we leave God out of the equation, which is why we get hurt, I know everybody don’t know God as Savior, but if you ain’t having no success on your own strength, try God, keep teaching the truth and exalting God Tony, that’s one difference between you and a lot of other men on these platforms 💯
@breannn
@breannn Жыл бұрын
God did not create Us to be single and alone. It’s just the way the world is, it’s getting harder to be in relationships with people. I come across so many single men who don’t even want relationships. We as women were created for love!
@prettyloubey8411
@prettyloubey8411 Жыл бұрын
You’re right, sad state the world is in.
@chiannestarks8155
@chiannestarks8155 Жыл бұрын
Tony, you are speaking truth.
@SanctifiedNation
@SanctifiedNation Жыл бұрын
I always learn something from Mr. Gaskins videos
@paulapartridge4922
@paulapartridge4922 Жыл бұрын
OMG Tony, I am going through the exact situation! He's not married but dealing consistently with his ex! I walked away from him! I did EVERYTHING for this man. I'm good because I know GOD and I know my value and worth! May GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY!!!❤
@Kingdom_Women_Rise_41
@Kingdom_Women_Rise_41 Жыл бұрын
He is speaking 100% truth hands down! I am 👂 listening.
@JessicaTiramisu
@JessicaTiramisu Жыл бұрын
"Love is pure. Love is whole. Love is healthy." Amen🤍
@brendatindal
@brendatindal Жыл бұрын
Tony, you are a great man of God!!! Don’t let the Evil ones discourage you from teaching God’s plan for family, man and women in is Church… I love your faithful work ❤
@gretiquemartin
@gretiquemartin Жыл бұрын
Thank you MOG for always looking out for us and having our best interest at heart 🙏🏾
@Aarona_TheVirgo
@Aarona_TheVirgo Жыл бұрын
Of course they do🤷🏽‍♀️ most people do… they don’t know real love
@beatriceruttagah6305
@beatriceruttagah6305 Жыл бұрын
I’m just here to take in the wisdom 💎💎
@sarahberry792
@sarahberry792 Жыл бұрын
I pray God keeps using this man to heal hearts and souls
@christineporter9914
@christineporter9914 Жыл бұрын
Bro Tony this message is super Good ‼️💯❤️🎯 I love this it was truly on point.
@sheilatorbert4850
@sheilatorbert4850 Жыл бұрын
We are listening...please don't get frustrated. This is good stuff...
@semanisa9611
@semanisa9611 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your kindness and support ❤❤
@2B-Steele
@2B-Steele Жыл бұрын
😂😂Who taught y’all that RKelly😂😂🤣😂I laid out….I hear what you are saying Tony. I hear it loud and clear. If some women ain’t there they won’t get what you are saying. There is a place there you have to be to get what you are saying
@TrishC5280
@TrishC5280 Жыл бұрын
I fell out when he said that 😂😂😂 he is funny and wise at the same time 💯
@sarahberry792
@sarahberry792 Жыл бұрын
It gives us hope that you are so faithful to your wife.
@lorigray1150
@lorigray1150 Жыл бұрын
Best talk yet for me Tony, THANK YOU!!!
@MeeMeeG
@MeeMeeG Жыл бұрын
Thank God for this message. I believe every word and will seek God for my direction ❤
@joanne5275
@joanne5275 Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@Itsjustanna16
@Itsjustanna16 Жыл бұрын
Tony thank you for giving us the game. I ve learned so much from you!
@Goodwillwinoverevil1984
@Goodwillwinoverevil1984 Жыл бұрын
Too many people are negative, you're right.
@queensun6059
@queensun6059 Жыл бұрын
👸he only changes for the wm he doesn't want to lose/ live w/o. trust😌!
@bacingram
@bacingram Жыл бұрын
The Bible speaks of many types of love. Agape love is one of them. My advice is to seek a relationship with Jesus and allow him to bring the right man into your life. The creator has always wanted to provide wisdom, knowledge, and understanding, and men on KZbin getting rich, giving their opinions about men. Man is simply a specie created by God for purpose. It is God who chooses his helper with vision to accomplish Kingdom assignments. When the Proverbs 31 woman meets her Ephesians 6 man, that is the true King and Queen with power. Selah
@carlacampbell7127
@carlacampbell7127 Жыл бұрын
Tony you are funny! Wise but your delivery is funny. Keep walking in your PURPOSE. TY
@professorc8377
@professorc8377 Жыл бұрын
Discernment is key 🔑
@Kingdom_Women_Rise_41
@Kingdom_Women_Rise_41 Жыл бұрын
Tony is so right. Really ponder on what he is saying.
@nooraoraha9294
@nooraoraha9294 Жыл бұрын
After looking at your videos Tony, I am sorry to say but men are just way too complicated to be with for the rest of my life and for that, I am stepping away. Many men are too confused. I still love your videos and listen to them religiously
@deniseakite8312
@deniseakite8312 3 ай бұрын
@@nooraoraha9294 confused and childish
@datingdiaries1681
@datingdiaries1681 Жыл бұрын
Men typically never leave first even if they don't love the woman. 😅😅😅
@2B-Steele
@2B-Steele Жыл бұрын
Tony this one was so 🔥🔥🔥and on point….
@montricec8795
@montricec8795 Жыл бұрын
I'm listening to this every single day!!!
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