Does He LOVE YOU! (Signs he's into you and he loves you)

[@marib1881]

When a Man loves you....., Baaaabbbbyyyyyy.... He will leave NO ROOM for questions, you here me.... NONE! He is very loud with his actions. And leaves you with only security within the relationship with everything he does in that relationship with you. If you have to question anything... its not and never was anything serious. You are a placeholder. Leave and Move on fast and not slow.

[@Chommikenya]

You hear that 🫵

[@Bdiamondz]

Maybe he's being a placeholder for the woman ....it can go both ways.

[@marib1881]

@Bdiamondz True. I'm just speaking to the POV though.

[@sesethuntaphane3933]

Yes, girl... I hear you, and I'm listening to check on mine.

[@Thethingaboutthisis]

😆😆😆@ "...fast and not slow"!

[@sarahsmile2883]

Normalize women focusing on their divine purpose which is NOT a man and then god will send him in when we are ready .

[@Chommikenya]

Absolutely agree!!! You focus more on you and build you!

[@Bdiamondz]

@@sarahsmile2883 Sometimes, we have to practice what we preach and talk to ourselves to make it happen. Also, practice accountability.

[@strawberrysmoofie]

You’ll never really KNOW a man loves you until you’ve been genuinely loved by a man before. It’s really difficult to tell without that, but as soon as you meet a man who pours into you? Hoooo child, the bar will be raised so high

[@Chommikenya]

I absolutely agree 💯 And hey thank you for watching ❤️

[@JiHu-d8c]

Yeaaaaaasssssss this is so true. You know what love feels like. And honey, it feels great. It’s precious.

[@Ang-iz5hv]

Actions ALWAYS speak louder than words, in ANY relationship.

[@Chommikenya]

@@Ang-iz5hv Louder please 📢

[@FresaPeroNoParaTuMermelada]

God first. Any man second.

[@Chommikenya]

PERIOD!!!!!!!! Thank you for watching 😊

[@ninashirley432]

Amen

[@geremymason5936]

Take it from a man that fell in love with a woman, he should want to see that you are ok, even if there’s no gain for him. That’s unconditional love. It may seem a little extreme, but a man that is truly in love with you will want you to be happy, healthy, and thriving, even if it means he gets nothing from it. He’d honestly be willing to let you go from his life if he felt like he wasn’t adding any value and especially if he felt like he was causing you harm. He should take an interest in you and know your likes to do things that matter to you. He will not use things that you told him in moments of vulnerability to use as manipulative tactics against you. He should put forth an honest effort to see you smile and to show you how much you mean to him. He should also be able to be vulnerable with you so that you know what’s going on with him. He should also be able to express why he loves you outside of himself. The last segment was correct - it should not be what you do for him, but why he loves you as a person. A man that loves you will be willing to go to the ends of the earth and stretch himself thin just to show you how much you mean to him. And don’t get convenience confused with sacrifice. A man that sacrifices for you loves you.

[@Chommikenya]

This is incredible Thank you 😊

[@aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721]

​@@Chommikenya 😔🥺😭 Thank you for sharing. Can a man be in a relationship for 10 years, propose marriage twice then when rejected fall out of love but stay around for the kids and occasional inner course with his baby's mother. Then me another and secure (lady b)her before officially releasing the BM without taking time to heal in between relationships? Can a man just drop some they are "in love with" for another person?

[@aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721]

And what about the saying "what one woman won't do, another one will" line. Does that still apply when man is truly in love? Or i mean "loves a woman"? There is a difference.

[@geremymason5936]

@@aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721 I don’t separate the two when it comes to romantic relationships. There is a difference between loving someone (platonic, familial, etc) and being in love with someone (romantic) but I’m specifically talking about romantic relationships with this post.

[@ItsAuntieKaren]

A man can only truly love when he is driven by the Holy Spirit.

[@Chommikenya]

Am Glad you said it!!! Thank you

[@DormHouse]

Based and Christ-pilled 👍

[@marciebaker9816]

Pleeeease

[@Chommikenya]

@@marciebaker9816 You disagree? 😂

[@christinacreates2393]

What about people who aren’t Christian? Muslims don’t love their wives?????? What about Buddhist people? They can’t demonstrate deep true love for their partners???? 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

[@Tresdrole123]

You don’t need to watch a 24 minute video to know whether or not a man loves you. If he loves you, you’ll know.

[@Chommikenya]

EXACTLY 💯

[@Heygirl-Hey]

The fact that you're watching this video He definitely doesn't love you Run ... You will eventually find better.

[@Chommikenya]

😂😂😂 PERIOD

[@chewie6988]

Plot twist. I am a guy watching this to make sure I am doing right by the person I love. 😂

[@Chommikenya]

​@@chewie6988 you're a good man!!😂

[@Maskman_original]

😂😂😂 stupid

[@cro8sandy]

Why do they ask for number when they don't like you

[@jadegreen1554]

Be careful with all of these: • he will make you feel there is no other woman • he will give all attention to you • he will share intimate secrets • he will be stuck under you. Be careful with all of these, because they can present when someone is genuine, but these can also present with love-bombing from a narcissist. Be careful. With the lovebombing you WILL feel your body and gut rejecting him.

[@ishabellanamthrak1015]

There is no formula.... people love each other or don't. Be yourself.😊

[@Chommikenya]

Yes Be yourself!! Thank you for watching ❤️

[@shanalee8469]

Men are extremely simple! Extremely simple! If you feel like you not sure if he in to you it’s a sign he doesn’t like or loves you. If he does you will know without a doubt

[@lauramckiernan3213]

Yeah, alot of men do all that and they are into you in the beginning, but dont confuse being into you with wanting a relationship.

[@nikicarter2048]

Remember gaslighting an love bombing an manipulation

[@Chommikenya]

Love bombing!!

[@KurosakiLuvar01]

@@lauramckiernan3213 exactly. That love bombing bullshite

[@mercijoy3006]

Fact!!!! I can testify to this. We have had a splendid year with him. I can not wait to spend the rest of my life with him, and I pray to God to bless him in the next lifetime.

[@Chommikenya]

❤

[@colorfulsin]

Sorry but this is exhausting. Men should just date each other

[@Chommikenya]

I absolutely agree 💯

[@namimindyaw1201]

Exactly. 😂😂😂

[@OrganicallyYahs]

They already do

[@jimmie8101]

It's still just as confusing. Trust me.

[@nemotheo1629]

I told someone am opting out coz it's just a never ending rules and you are never sure for real why do I have to go through all this ?

[@honeyboo7549]

Also: check on how they treat their mothers. Can be very informative too.

[@Chommikenya]

Absolutely true 💯💐🥂

[@realestatecoach8626]

Not always true. Some men are pretenders.

[@MelissaChildofGod378]

This truth right here. NOT GOING TO TELL YOU 'YOUR CRAZY AND DELUSIONAL' when your telling him how you feel

[@TheSweetie223]

THAT PART !!! thats what im going through currently & just ended it today. I couldn't take that shit no more. I was bout ready to pew pew his ass so i have to remove myself. Can't talk to him about shit not even my day at work without him brushing it off or making it seem like im complaining because i had a bad day. Girl i hate this mutha fcka. Just writing about him is triggering me

[@TheSweetie223]

He's literally the human squidward from SpongeBob.

[@Mindful.Movement.01]

@@TheSweetie223awww sorry you went through that love ❤. Good for you for choosing yourself though

[@koyankrumah9857]

Isn’t everyone else tired of men and their games? Why come after me if you have no intention of doing right by me? Enough of the science behind men and their behaviours or lack of! It’s tiring and I am tired of hearing it!

[@Chommikenya]

I know right!!! It's just like let them go date they fellow men!!

[@djshockafrica4330]

This!

[@Mynameshelenbtw]

😂 yes. Like just forget it!!

[@briasworld8]

🤷👏💅

[@Thrivegrl24]

So what this video is confirming is my man my man my man my man lovesssssssss meeeee.

[@Chommikenya]

PERIOD GURL 💞

[@tnt3929]

@@Thrivegrl24 Right! Mine definitely does...but I already knew that.😁

[@KL31NGR055]

Same here. I can't believe this is actually happening! ❤

[@UnknownUnknown-yl1lt]

Must be nice..I'm happy for you sis💕

[@nikicarter2048]

Basically when a man really love a woman. He has the same emotions an respect for you like you do him. Or someone that you was really into. Women act like this all the time.. but males dont return the same love back. Instead they take advantage an dog the girl just because she loves him. 😢

[@Chommikenya]

So true!! Thank you for watching ❤️

[@JesusGeek33]

Sadly a narc can do all this until you’re comfortable

[@Chommikenya]

And that's why you need to know the signs of a Narcissist Man Hey thank you for watching ❤️

[@JesusGeek33]

@@Chommikenya Yes! Although my journey is unfortunate but I’m grateful I know how callous people can be

[@JrSrIIIIVV]

😂 @ 8:41 He said “He won’t let you know about his other wives because he really respects you.” That sounds crazy!!

[@Chommikenya]

@@JrSrIIIIVV listen to that again 😂😭

[@GB_008]

Chile! 😂 He was just another diaspora dusty.😅🤭

[@natural3362]

When a man loves you, he won't cheat. A man rather die to protect his women and cheaters rather be with someone else and he doesn't care whether you're hurt or not, he only cares about himself So please divorce any cheaters. Have self worth. You owe it to yourself, the only one that has been there for you in time of hardship Don't let any men mock you.cheating is a mockery on you and your marriage

[@Chommikenya]

@@natural3362 Thank you for watching ❤️

[@fatouleigh2968]

Watching this video makes me miss my late husband. He was a real man and manifested all these positive behaviours. He loved me and I love him.❤

[@Chommikenya]

I love to see this ❤️ May He rest in peace 🕊️ Thank you for watching ❤️

[@artisticagi]

0:34 if you are seeking effort, then run!

[@Chommikenya]

@@artisticagi This is the one 🔥 Thank you for watching ❤️

[@OracleOfGOD_PHD]

Reminds me of ALL my exes, I didn't know how Blessed I was, until I recently encountered the complete opposite!! It's better when a Man wants the Woman more, or both feel the same way about each other ❤🎉❤

[@LissaVents]

Damn I aint never been loved😂😂😂

[@Chommikenya]

😂😂😂It's not that serious babe.....

[@Laceeadventuretime]

Same sis 😭

[@alchemizedsoul12]

give that love to yourself ❤

[@UnknownUnknown-yl1lt]

Same here😒

[@catherinemuller3277]

@@Laceeadventuretime Me, too... It's okay. We will practice self love. We are God's daughters and worthy of love.

[@CJN5787]

It also means HE doesn't love himself.....RUN

[@Chommikenya]

@@CJN5787 Thank you for watching ❤️

[@CJN5787]

@@Chommikenya I had to to remind myself how grateful I am for my life and to remind you that God still has a reason for you to still be here. 💕 and 🚨

[@Mindful.Movement.01]

An important thing that I have noticed is that there are barely any videos out there holding men accountable and telling them that they need to heal go to therapy know their worth love themselves yet women are always held to a higher standard and expected to do all this work and when they do level up and heal now it’s no man to choose because they are not being held accountable no one is telling them to pick better no one is telling them to go to therapy. I’m really over all this shit. Women level up and have the chance to choose better only to be told they supposedly gone die alone with cats but the moment a woman picks the wrong man now all of a sudden she should’ve chose better. This why I don’t take them seriously. The jokes write themselves

[@OItsSasha]

2:11 I dont take trauma dumping from a guy as a sign he's into me

[@EasyBreezie]

Guys that trauma dump do this with ALL women. Lmao I don’t take that as a special sign either.

[@cecee3480]

Don’t. I’m a dancer and I hear men’s problems all the time. They will pay me (a stranger) to talk about problems and gain pity before they go see a therapist. They don’t want actual help but for a woman to be like awww want me to make you feel better and justify their behavior and life choices.

[@ba8501]

I was about to say that lol

[@phillyzstyar]

First time I heard the phrase was from this guy im currently talking too… He said I’m sorry for trauma dumping 😮

[@jadegreen1554]

This was one of the better ones: “When a man loves you he will be wrapped up in the totality of the energy of you. I repeat: he will be wrapped up in the totality of the energy of you.” But he still respects you fully. Be careful with this one though, because it doesn’t mean possessive or obsessive over you like you are property. That is a dangerous man, and you need to run.

[@shineepropertyof5hinee]

If you have to ask if he likes/loves you already have your answer x

[@Chommikenya]

@@shineepropertyof5hinee oouh!!!! Thank you for watching ❤️

[@Mindful.Movement.01]

Lmao 😂that girl who talked about leaving stuff at his house 😂😂😂 she need to speak for herself I take all my shit baby cause I don’t ever know when imma need it again. I didn’t know people still do that.

[@Chommikenya]

😂 people still do that actually

[@Mindful.Movement.01]

@@Chommikenya 😂😂😂 omg that’s crazy

[@nafisaxolmatova1814]

I am married, yet have twin daughters 😢 we had a fight because of his family members were rude and disrespectful to me, I moved to my parents house with daughters one month ago. All he did was just few phone calls telling me that I was wrong and should be more patient and serve to this family ( yeah we live together with his family ) I said I am going to divorce him, he refused said he loves me and his daughters but in reality in this month he never came to see me and daughters. Asked him to send girls warm clothes as summer is ending but he said he didn’t know where it is 😢 I don’t know why I should have such a man in my life if he is not even going to do anything for his daughters

[@Chommikenya]

Wishing You the best in making the right choice that you feel is best for you and your daughters ❤️🌹Much love 🫶 Thank you for watching ❤️

[@ndshen]

Divorce him. You deserve better.

[@nafisaxolmatova1814]

@@ChommikenyaThanks for understanding 😢 I don’t see my future with him

[@nafisaxolmatova1814]

@@ndshenThanks for support 😢 sometimes not everyone understands why you have to cut people from your life

[@Time4change111]

Pray dear, this is a hard time for you and your girls, please pray, you deserve protection, respect and you are not maid, you are God's daughter. Please go to the Heavenly Father in your spirit and speak openly with him and allow God to miniter to your heart. Call upon Jesus Christ of Nazareth and allow him to heal you and guide you as the Holy spirit and you guardian Angels guide you. Pray for everyone, including yourself, forgive and let Father lead you with love to the best decision while wsking God to heal your husband and his family dear. God bless ❤ 🫂​@@nafisaxolmatova1814

[@serenitygilles7064]

Good stuff guys! The painful truth we NEED to hear 💖

[@jadegreen1554]

When he wants to fully immerse himself in your story, when he sees the way you process the world better than you see it yourself, he loves you.

[@petitcoeur-q6r]

Yep that ex never truly loved me - definitely always"too busy" so he didn't care about me. He left me and discarded - I was used. A place holder was what I was. They were never in love at all - so good luck in them finding the "one". They never listened to what I said to them - never been vulnerable - so they never trusted me. Avoidants are never going to let their guard down - only for the "right" person apparently - a magical woman that doesn't trigger them and just does what they want and say with no arguing. They never wanted to be around me - they never wanted me around - only for their convenience. I was not valued - he didn't treat me right. Them saying "I love you" is bs.

[@Chommikenya]

Glad you know better now!! Thank you for watching ❤️

[@petitcoeur-q6r]

@@Chommikenya yep sure do - his actions are more important than empty words and promises :)

[@lala5061]

👏🏽🙌🏽

[@ndshen]

Listen to his actions

[@lovelylittlegirl3332]

If you’re watching this video, he probably doesn’t. Not enough to give you the security of expressing it to you anyway.

[@goddessgoldglow]

I can listen to these men all night

[@Chommikenya]

Watch as many times as you want 😄 Thank you for watching ❤️

[@Freakymum-l1c]

Modern dating advice for men is to treat women that he really likes with indifference and rudeness. Just saying.

[@Chommikenya]

That's toxic masculinity

[@Freakymum-l1c]

@@Chommikenya yes, and that’s bad. Thanks for your agreement.

[@SatumainenOlento]

Great video! Extremely well done compilation!!! ❤❤❤

[@Chommikenya]

Thank you for watching 😊

[@bonnie2057]

i believe the mens opinion they should know as men what a man feels what a man thinks

[@gabriellacindyxoxo]

always forgive is not love but no slef respect

[@mamadara2146]

Before we got married, my man always had a reason to meet in the afternoon. he often suddenly appears in front of my workplace. and send texts regularly and patiently wait for replies without getting angry (I'm too busy at work sometimes). He always sticks around.

[@Chommikenya]

@@mamadara2146 Thank you!!!

[@روايةبانغتان]

Puting a ring in your finger before putting a babie in you belly... Good point

[@Chommikenya]

@@روايةبانغتان Thank you for watching ❤️

[@روايةبانغتان]

@@Chommikenya you welcome 😊

[@xoxobutterfly]

I give up 😢 im just so exhausted

[@Laceeadventuretime]

Same 🥲

[@Chommikenya]

Let's start prioritizing ourselves now

[@shakirasmith6454]

@@Laceeadventuretime off topic, but you are gorgeous! ❤❤

[@Laceeadventuretime]

@@shakirasmith6454 thank you ❤️❤️❤️

[@honieebean]

"if he wanted to, he would" That applies to people in general and will save you so much heartbreak

[@RobinetteWortham]

Love is. A. Action.word to. Get it. You have to give it

[@Chommikenya]

Thank you ❤

[@Nunyabuiznesss1111]

I am a woman and I prefer getting this information from the men rather than the women. I feel like only men can really give you tools when it comes to what men want and how men think.

[@Chommikenya]

Absolutely agree 💯 Thank you for watching ❤️

[@themadcreative]

imagine he's watching this too and using these tips to manipulate you

[@galaxylucia1898]

True, but ppl can only fake it for so long.

[@Chommikenya]

@@galaxylucia1898 True!!!

[@Chommikenya]

@@themadcreative hey thank you for watching

[@jadegreen1554]

The Nigerian one was totally toxic and sickening sorry. “When a man loves you, he will hide his other relationships from you” 🤦‍♀️🤢

[@TrulyMademoizelle]

Facts get off my screen

[@jadegreen1554]

@@TrulyMademoizelle sorry for Nigerian women and children. Very very sorry for them.

[@maggiemcnally2087]

Listen to these men

[@suselperez2409]

They’re not capable of true love but they’re excellent at manipulation.

[@Chommikenya]

Be careful!!!

[@Dazzyy-O]

No , I’m sorry if you’ve had bad experiences at relationships… but men are actually capable of love

[@thebeescommunity]

This is so true

[@Chommikenya]

💯 Thank you for watching

[@rapunzelred9055]

2:50 Girl has "the Jennifer" (haircut from Friends) I haven't seen that in 30 years.

[@shanalee8469]

The woman opinion is wrong. Some men tell everyone about their trauma. Sometimes too they see their mother in you. Run

[@MisseverythingNewNew]

Right that’s called trauma bonding and he is seeing u as a therapist, not a WIFE!

[@ninashirley432]

Weak men are also more focused on money and how they look in the mirror!

[@Chommikenya]

@@ninashirley432 that's Deep Thank you for watching ❤️

[@pettyandfunny9474]

He got it wrong. The first guy a man is never too busy for the girl he wants to sleep with.😂😂😂😂 the girl that he wants there will never be a time frame of how long he’s willing to wait to get what he wants from her because he’ll be too concerned with losing her altogether. It’s all about values people. It’s all about values know your values so you don’t have to lower your standards😊❤❤❤❤

[@omoyi3631]

True! I leave by that motto !

[@gabriellacindyxoxo]

not always , remember trauma n avoidant attachtment etc

[@EternalflameC.L.]

Heal those before entering relationship no excuses

[@Wazey-by8lv]

Needed this 💜💜💜

[@Chommikenya]

Glad you enjoyed it 😊

[@VictoriaHerizon]

Lmfao if he truly loves us, you wouldn’t watching this shit lmfao.

[@Mindful.Movement.01]

😂😂😂😂

[@cherryb5244]

These guys only exist in books for me.

[@Chommikenya]

I hope you understand you deserve exactly what you read on those books Thank you for watching ❤️

[@cocochanel4936]

Thank you for this

[@Chommikenya]

My pleasure! ☺️

[@RitaDSouza-lw5gp]

I'm just waything from God to be.Done..the.decission ony life

[@NanaandMaddy]

Love your channel. ❤

[@Katrica670]

9:22 idk about every single day. Is it necessary? @10:55 if we truly love someone we don't wanna hurt them! Bingo! We don't wanna worry them! @11:25 when we really love someone we take on their problems too without even trying.

[@Chommikenya]

Thank you for watching ❤️

[@nla5307]

These men feel like liars to my spirit.

[@Chommikenya]

In 2024 you trust men?? 😂 In Nella rose voice! Thank you for watching ❤️☺️

[@namimindyaw1201]

lol. The only comment I agree with is the one who says women are carried away by what men say.

[@Chommikenya]

You disagree with the rest?

[@Iamkrystamarie]

PAUSE. What is sick is I’ve witnessed men do all of these things mentioned in this video as well the “he’s not that into you” video at the same time🙄 bruh atp we need to do monthly lie detector test. My head hurts😬

[@bates839]

Exactly

[@Mindful.Movement.01]

Girl mine too lol 🥴

[@ElevateYourWorth]

I’m just here to point out. I cannot stand seeing people driving down the road recording stuff for social media. I could give a crap less if a man loves me, but is inconsiderate on the road of his life my life in the lives of others because he rather be recording videos for content. So they can get likes click and view on social media. Good human beings don’t put the lives of others- at risk for this kind of stuff.

[@niekelombard4434]

He is stationary. Watch carefully.

[@missellz7630]

Put it this way my man loves me I’m not on here for confirmation on if he loves me or not I’m on here for entertainment that’s how you know a man loves you, you don’t have to watch videos to know 😂😂💯

[@Chommikenya]

@@missellz7630 Absolutely 😂 Hey thank you for watching ❤️

[@Laceeadventuretime]

Exactly!!!!

[@Chommikenya]

Thank you for watching 😊

[@andriavinithalobo5813]

3:58 so trueee! Thats necessary

[@Chommikenya]

Are you genuinely concerned?! Hey Thank you for watching ☺️

[@ShmaeyaSaffold]

So true so true

[@Chommikenya]

Thank you for watching ❤️

[@jadegreen1554]

The big question here: 1) How does a woman make herself someone a man would love? 2) what are some of the deal breakers men see immediately?

[@RitaDSouza-lw5gp]

Becouse I in Trutfull way I don't know But I had surrender the boundry bettween.me and any.one who is not for me

[@KeishaMs]

Ok are there any good single men in these comments? Hi, Im Keisha.:) LOL

[@Melvina1975]

What if he's a narcissist doing these things??

[@KurosakiLuvar01]

Then listen to your body. It always tells you to leave. Through, sickness, headaches, cramps, irregular cycle lack of sleep, lack of appetite, sudden body odor never experienced before. These are also signs. Listen to your body and observe the narc closely.

[@cecee3480]

He’s cheating. If you aren’t okay with that then you have to leave.

[@cha9165]

Run

[@nonai7897]

Narcissists are never worth it!! RUN

[@nikicarter2048]

​@@KurosakiLuvar01yes a male stressing you will cause all these things

[@Angelitaasmr]

Wow thanks guys!

[@Chommikenya]

Thank you for watching ❤️

[@Isak.a]

The man they are talking about is in ladies friendzone

[@Chommikenya]

😂how did you know?

[@HealingbeginswithU]

If this is not the truth! These are also the men that they don't want, but want them to love like this, and in turn have issues with reciprocation. That is people in general. The high is not being chased, but being ignored.

[@ariesjae6436]

😂😂😂

[@lillyflower7501]

Amen

[@lpsglitterpaws8536]

Omg! You are sooooo right!!!! 😮

[@RoyalPsilocybin]

18:38 to 18:58 best bit in the whole vid and 22:30

[@Chommikenya]

Thank you for watching ❤️

[@Dazzyy-O]

I agree

[@ShmaeyaSaffold]

Yea peace yes calm

[@ShmaeyaSaffold]

So deep so so deep

[@gabriellacindyxoxo]

no love language is different , not evrryone can say i love u words of affirm

[@jenster29]

Love bombing can also seem like 'effort'

[@Chommikenya]

Actually yes! Thank you for the input

[@amandamoore8421]

So they say watch his actions. he drove an hour to watch my first dance show, because he knew it was important for me. Came up to me after with flowers. I said let me go change into my regular clothes and I’ll come find you. He left!!?? and started driving back home without saying goodbye… so what do his actions mean??

[@Chommikenya]

Let's hear what people have to say about that?! 😂 You should ask him why he left.

[@amandamoore8421]

@@Chommikenya asked him to stay, he came back and said only 30 minutes. I asked if it was ok to go back with him. (We both had to go back same direction) he was hesitant but agreed. Something about needing to go home and watch the stock market (crypto/fx etc) (hobby) He can’t stay with me. I said just drop me off and then you can go home and do your thing… He could have told me his plan at the start instead of not saying anything. 😂

[@dolcesweet5173]

It could be that he’s doing just enough/ aka “ the bare minimum”. Or he actually needed to watch the stock market. But since you posted this question it means your gut knows what the answer is which is you know he’s doing the bare minimum.

[@shantimindproductions5585]

He's got someone else.

[@KurosakiLuvar01]

@@shantimindproductions5585 this is what I was gonna say. This man in a whole other relationship and needs to hurry back home before she starts getting suspicious

[@cocoaocean]

Many layers of relationships. Men asking for love is offensive. When a man behaves in duty, that's the gold standard. Love is for our children. A dutiful man allows love for those that depend on us. A man in his feelings about sentiments of "love " is a thief. Media set this "love " show going and nothing has been loving ever since. When a man doesn't love me I still make him useful. I cant respect a man hinged on love for the opposite sex. Duty to her though is deeper. When he loves his children its better than with me. Taking that "love " and not connecting to God instead is so distorted. Why are.grown adults still needing so much while duty is neglected? Its so corny and destructive to those that really deserve love, our children. Instead, the dodo bird man wants that or he's in his feelings or worse. 😢😢

[@RitaDSouza-lw5gp]

Very true

[@jovialjae]

8:26 "He lies to you"......"he will hide his wives" i sure hope this guy is trolling because...WHAT???🥴

[@corimoon3360]

This is why we must always watch who we listen to and take advice from. 😂

[@VeeKayGreenerGrass]

Nah. He is African.😂

[@Chommikenya]

😂😂 Thank you for watching ❤️

[@Katrica670]

14:15 who is that and what video is that? It says Homilia.

[@Katrica670]

20:07 -20:18 20:20 -20:43

[@genanunez8170]

Yes AMEN

[@Chommikenya]

@@genanunez8170 Hey thank you for watching ❤️

[@GENRTS]

Trauma dumping is not a green flag

[@KurosakiLuvar01]

Right

[@Chommikenya]

@@GENRTS Thank you for watching

[@Baaaybeeeh]

We don’t need you to love us. Romance and love is a distraction and it’s unnecessary. We need men to provide for us, be faithful to us, cover us, defend us, and father our children. We need nothing else.

[@Chommikenya]

As women we don't need love?!

[@VeeKayGreenerGrass]

Love isn't feelings, yet most describe it as feelings. Most men are not capable of love.

[@rosaclick1995]

Those things are what love is.

[@Baaaybeeeh]

@@Chommikenya I guess I could have been more clear. To rephrase, love and romance are not the same, but they are used interchangeably. The provision, faithfulness, covering, defending, and fathering that’s love. We need love in that way. In my opinion.

[@VeeKayGreenerGrass]

@Alixir1228 We are love itself. Most people don't even know what love is. Most men aren't even capable of it, they (and anyone else) would see this if they knew what love is.

[@AryonaSamoto]

My family and all the men in my life always sacrificed me(even crimes committed against me, I was sacrificed). I don't trust anyone anymore to believe that the men described in this video actually exists.

[@Chommikenya]

It can be difficult to trust anyone really..... You need to start healing yourself from past traumas

[@AryonaSamoto]

@@Chommikenya from what I've seen and heard, it's not worth it. I'm better off alone.

[@Chommikenya]

@@AryonaSamoto EVEN BETTER!!!

[@KurosakiLuvar01]

Same. I don’t trust ONE.

[@TheCakediva08]

They exist. I have one

[@Katrica670]

20:44 -20:56

[@MrPeterISABELLA]

What if a man treats you how he feels about himself

[@Chommikenya]

In a good way or a bad way?

[@MrPeterISABELLA]

@Chommikenya meaning if he sees himself as a low life he treats you as he sees himself.....

[@Chommikenya]

@@MrPeterISABELLA ooooh absolutely 💯 They treat you according to how they feel about themselves & other factors of course

[@MrPeterISABELLA]

@Chommikenya thankyou for your brilliant work....women need women like you...we have all been badly broken via pathological men.

[@Katrica670]

21:05 -21:56

[@ninashirley432]

What about the guys that hang out with couples, 😂 Or much younger girls ! Red flag 🚩

[@Chommikenya]

😂