How to Be a Proverbs 31 Woman with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Get ready to journey with us as we unpack the virtues of the Proverbs 31 woman and illuminate the principles that transcend gender. Promising empowerment, our episode is a must-listen for anyone striving for growth in their spiritual journey, and a deeper understanding of the women in their lives. This is not just for the ladies, gents - this is your chance to glean deep insights into the driving forces of your mothers, sisters, wives, and daughters.
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[@40AndBecoming]

Tabatha…can we (the ladies) get maybe a separate podcast that focuses on being a godly woman/wife/homemaker/business woman etc.? Just food for thought. Blessings to y’all! ❤

[@CrystallinaRose]

Yes I agree!!

[@ashleyforbes7933]

Yes! This!

[@TeresaHoward-z1y]

Yes!

[@bevee3711]

Yes please!

[@GardeningZone7b]

Yes

[@briancoleman489]

I'm a single Christian man and I want a family to advance God's kingdom here on earth. Hearing your testimony on marriage inspires me to be a great man for my future family

[@syliviasylivita5023]

This reminds me of a video thy have on “lists” it’s always about the other person in the relationship and never about how one aspires to be in the relationship. This is a good one

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Praying that you will find your spouse! Thanks for watching!

[@user-ho6xz4td3i]

Actually I didn’t know this until I was so broken and was my day of fasting then run into this channel and found my self renewing my life and having thirst for the change to be happy by understanding the man and myself as a woman God created me to be

[@CharCharJars]

So refreshing to hear from a Christian man ❤ thank you for sharing

[@dainapelham6780]

❤

[@ShaiAzariahsMOM2223]

I view that proverbs 31 woman as the bride of Christ herself, getting up early in the morning providing food for her household( early prayer, reading of the word) all in her house are clothed in scarlet ( the blood of Jesus) the heart of her husband (Christ ) safely trusts in her, she sells linen in the market places( evangelism, witnessing , going after the loss) I see it more from a spiritual perspective. Not saying a woman can’t aspire to be this , I believe like she said we are different things according to the season of life , so don’t feel bad if it’s not who you are all around, we as women have different calls , backgrounds, and strengths. 🙏🏽😁 anywho be blessed

[@_forevergrateful1]

This is such a beautiful perspective.

[@1006woman]

I love this I’m going to keep this in my notes❤

[@giftoj1473]

This is so beautiful

[@ChristsBelovedDaughter]

That’s interesting 🤔

[@Zirhe5]

I love this perspective 💕

[@corinthiaslaughter6148]

“How do you know God is real?” “Have you seen my wife?” WOW. This whole conversation was wonderful, but that part struck me. Hopefully my future husband will be able to share Ken’s sentiment. God bless y’all! 💓

[@lifewithmahalia]

I kinda screamed 😂

[@yourshma]

I have to be the kind of wife that my husband would be so proud to have. Working on myself first... That's the first step.

[@alieahengs8697]

I teared up on that. Wow.

[@coreyamison]

Pray for her.

[@fariwiththefacts7143]

When the student is ready to learn, the teacher will appear. Thank you for appearing for me today ❤️

[@adspluss]

👌

[@shernacunningham8541]

A Proverbs 31 woman is balanced and knows that the Sovereign God is her source.

[@alisamiller6556]

This has blessed me. I never saw myself as a Proverbs Woman because I thought of her as perfect and I’m nowhere near. How y’all broke this down brought tears to my eyes. I do what I have to do daily to make sure my household is taken care of. I love y’all’s podcast because I’m learning so much.

[@cookgirlcook]

I'm so glad to have found a real Christian, non celebrity married couple.

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

We're glad to have you here!

[@righteousmasculine]

But they are celebrities in GOD’s eyes they are helping many people with GODLY wisdom. Thank you both I pray your marriage is fruitful and long lasting

[@royalkelley4585]

No fr and they speak on what goes on in day to day life not just what the media puts out

[@patricedates8809]

This just gave me life. Yesterday I was reading Proverbs 31 and then the enemy had me questioning if I at 46 with no husband or kids could be that Proverbs 31 woman. It shook me but oh today, I opened You tube to listen to someone else and this was the first video I seen. My God My God!! Oh how he cares for me!!

[@ShienaLene]

I think Proverbs 31 should be a bigger conversation in circles of men…even moreso mother’s speaking to their sons and even women speaking at men’s meetings, because Proverbs 31 was written by a mother to her son. We just have a cheat code ☺️

[@Paigepatton305]

I love this! I’m getting married in about 1 year! I also take my sabbath rest every week Friday night to Saturday night! We all need that rest

[@BiblicalAcumen]

Me and boyfriend watch these podcast together and they have been such a blessing to us. Definitely help us grow in our relationship with the Lord, individually and as a team. God bless you guys always, may the Lord multiply what He pours onto you! We pray this ministry grows according to Gods will 🥰❤️

[@nunii.]

Awe that’s so beautiful, I wish you guys much success!!

[@amyfriess7960]

I love the Proverbs 31 woman and have tried to follow that example my whole adult life and continue even though I am alone. it is only just in the last year that I actually studied this verse. You really need to go to the beginning of Proverbs 31 to understand it completely. It talks about King Lemuel and his mother's instruction to him. First of all, there is really no record of a King Lemuel. The word Lemuel means: Man of God" It is believed that the king is actually King Solomon, and this is his mother Beshea giving him instruction and King Lemuel is his nickname for her son meaning he is a "Man of God". she is explaining to him how important it is he chooses the right woman wisely or he could be ruined. I used to feel unworthy as I felt I could not be this virtuous of a woman, especially in the failed relationship I had in divorce. What I realized when I studied Proverbs 31:10 the woman part cannot start without the first parts of Proverbs 31, It starts with King Lemuel, a "Man of God." I kept picking men who were maybe not a "Man of God", and Proverbs 31 can never work without a King Lemuel. You have to choose a mate that is a "Man of God" It really is a guide for women, but too many women think they can change a man. We must be obedient to the Lord and stay away from the unequally yoked. However, his mother was telling him he also cannot just pick any woman, it must be a virtuous woman, a woman of God, one of high moral character. There is so much more to this, but it starts with two people who need to be equally yoked in the Lord.

[@voltrondefender1174]

You are on the right path! Big question for you, if this is Bathsheba speaking over Solomon, (big if! but also very probable) do you think she is describing and Solomon is later recording a type of ideal woman, or an actual ideal woman? For instance, there is a woman described in scripture that closely fits the description in Prov 31. Hint: In the Masoretic text her book immediately follows Proverbs 31. She also has a special relationship to Solomon, and is the only other woman in scripture described as "Eishet Chayil" translated as woman of noble character but more accurately as a woman of valor... happy studying!

[@mercedesbenz220]

First time hearing these two and WOW! I love the connection they have while being two separate people. By that I mean there’s so much respect for eachother.

[@angel6017]

There's this boy that I know, and not only is he a believer, but he is so generous, kind, dorky, loving, respectful, and so willing to learn. He's amazing, and I know he likes me. But he's also been through a lot relationship wise. And I know that im not ready for a relationship, because I know I have to focus on my physical life but also SPIRITUAL life. I want to be better so I can REALLY deserve a good person like this friend of mine. And I'm glad I saw this video. God bless you.

[@amandafewless]

I am excited! I have been married almost 17 years I love hearing from fellow Christian couples!

[@aaliyahtia2496]

Hi, before 2021 I didn’t know how to cook. And then one day I was like I want a family one day. I want to learn so I can cook for my family. So since 2021 I have been cooking. I watched KZbin video and Pinterest food videos. And keep in mind before hand I was eating out all the time. I didn’t mind eating out. Then one day boom.

[@ChozenbytheAlmighty]

Nice!!!!

[@madelynwright6171]

I am a young Christian woman in college and I strive to be a Proverbs 31 woman who becomes what the Lord calls me to be.

[@serite]

I am watching this cos im in a life changing journey of becoming the proverbs 31 woman the Godly woman, thank you.

[@coleenoteroceo]

23 years married and Tony and I have had our roles change based on the various seasons we were in. Now I travel more for work than he does and we have had to figure out what works for us. For ex: He does mornings with the kids, I do evenings. He shops and I cook or order👀. I clean and hire maid service to support, He washes clothes, I fold. Like we have a system that works. So I absolutely love Pastor Tab’s comment about how this could look different for every woman but at the core she’s a woman handling her business!

[@denisehouston7805]

Doing it God's way we can avoid alot 😢. He created us & he knows what's best for his children Liisten to Father.

[@andreag8416]

I absolutely love the idea of a men’s conference for women and a women’s conference for men. I would attend one of those.

[@Socydney]

My husband and I are both 24, we will be married for two years next month. I literally prayed for mentorship from a more seasoned Christian couple, and here I am stumbling on your podcast! This has blessed us, thank you!

[@melliemel32]

I’m sorry I missed this live. You guys have blessed me so much. It’s not just for married people, but single people too! I’m 48 and still believe the LORD for a spouse. I just joke that I’ll be an “older” wife. 😮🙏🏽✝️

[@teddyholloway5178]

I love y’all so much , me and my wife have been married for 22 years and I pray that we be like you guys one day🦾💯🙌🏽🙏🏽

[@senorasalazar1462]

So happy to have found you guys. Tabitha, I am such a better wife to my hubby after listening to you the first time weeks ago. I have even bumped up our intimacy. Thank you.

[@jaesjournal1497]

I absolutely love this video. As a 22 year old and a young mom I’ve struggled so much maintaining an image that’s acceptable to society but also to God and watching this had made me realize that a virtuous/ Proverbs 21 woman is so much more inspiring and worthwhile. ❤ its gives me something to teach myself and my daughter!

[@Beautybyqueenb]

That’s great to share😊. It proverbs 31:10 going. Not 21😊

[@shenikacook6928]

Surrender to his will and watch your life change!

[@EphesiansTwoEight]

I’m a young woman who strives to be like proverbs 31 woman! I was recently saved and this kind of content is so helpful for me. I love how Tabatha was trying to make it more realistic with the modern day culture and Ken kind of brought it back to the more traditional view. I don’t know how to cook but I’m learning! My favorite part of this podcast was when Ken started complaining about the milk 😂 The way Tabatha ultimately submitted to her husband and apologized for not providing or fulfilling her role, that was so powerful!!! I would love more content on this passage or a video on how to be a biblical wife and submit to your husband. 🤍

[@kaer_pn]

Love hearing your perspective on this. You say it was powerful to see that she ultimately submitted to him for not having milk a few days..I don’t know why but it makes me so angry instead! She takes care of the whole house (including outdoors) but he complains if they ran out of milk for 3 days. Uhm what stops him from getting milk for once? How can everything be on her shoulders? It’s so unfair 😢

[@Ashlynma]

I loved this content💐....I am not married yet but I am soon to be in Jesus Name! I am with you Tabitha on sourcing outside help to cater to my family if I am not abe to. As long as I am making sure my family is taken care of. I used to be intimidated by Proverbs 31 but not anyome as I believe we are graced by Our God in many different ways and are constantly being worked on by His hand to just do good. Amen.

[@SH-im2vw]

I’ve been married 30 years. You are so correct brother, it takes partnership but we also should strive to be better for our household and others, God’s way.

[@RebekahAnderson-ig8bg]

My mother is my inspiration she did things the most mother shouldn't have to do but all provides for me sisters and brothers she sings dances praise God everyday stays in life even when she could have left me takes me out on my birthday includes me in her concerts the struggle of a foster mother is real

[@serite]

Best vídeo so far that i liked qbout proverbs 31,im currently innthis journey. And the lord has been my leader❤ im grateful that this is the journey He placed in my heart.

[@hephzibahakpamida]

I'm Hephzibah from Nigeria. You guys are amaizing! And this is something i look forward to doing with my wife if the Lord Permit. Good work Sir and Ma'am you're doing the Kingdom work and God bless and keep you.

[@Shelenamarie]

You all speak so well .I desire to speak the same way in my relationships ❤ I’m a Proverbs 31:10 Woman

[@paigealexaandra]

I love this. I’m a single 30 y/o woman with a desire for family and I feel like God is really showing me the areas that are in need of development for me to be the woman He’s created a vision of me being. My priorities are shifting and I see my habits need to shift with them. This message is right on time and is really fueling that desire to grow into true womanhood. Thank you. ❤

[@iBvtterfly]

Love this video thank you. Just thrown off on the 4-5 days without milk, he can’t go get milk? Can he not meet her in an area as simple as going to the store and getting the milk? Yet she’s so classy still apologizes and also works like he does. I work a full shift day, provide for everyone in all aspects and would still be expected to do everything? No he can help and get some milk instead of say it’s going on a week.. love the rest of the video, love their patience with each other and gems dropped thank you for the video 🫶🏼

[@CJC-ec6sk]

I was confused too but why he couldn’t just get milk this one time if she always has it locked down.

[@bridgeyb]

I am a single woman of God and I have always had that want in my heart to have the qualities of a Prov. 31 woman. Yet I did feel somewhat condemned because it felt like so much work and that when I would try to for example wake up before dawn it would last for a week then I would cave and sleep in. But this has truly blessed me so much because I believe that I have the heart of a servant and long to make meals for my hard working future husband, to take care of my home and to strive to be a Prov. 31 woman! After this I no longer feel condemned but I feel encouraged that in this season of my life is the perfect time to work on myself and to become a Prov. 31 woman! God bless you both thank you so much for this! ❤️😊🙏

[@mitchellemutombwa9820]

Above all, its wisdom that we need to be that Proverbs 31 woman

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

yes!

[@Amy-yb4ne]

I'm only 15 mins in and I love this. This is something I aspire to be. Recently our lives got flipped around. We have suffered a lot of trauma (house fire in 2023) and my husband got PTSD and is now unable to work. I am working and doing housework and he cooks every night and takes my son to his therapies, our littlest to daycare etc. We are a team and share it but I feel bad that I'm not the one cooking at night but he says it's on him coz I'm working so I'm grateful but I was feeling like I wasnt being a Christian wife coz I'm not the SAHM now. Id love some wisdom on this.

[@___Wendy___]

Hi Amy, It's not a law for the wife to cook every night, so don't worry about it. You're doing what your family needs you to do the most for this period of time. So I think your doing a great job. Don't be ashamed that your husband helps out at home. You're team

[@amymcintosh7378]

God Bless you both. You have inspired me to be a virtuous woman. My daughter shared this with me and told me I am a virtuous woman. What a way for me to ring in the New Year 2024!

[@SB-ze9xs]

I just love hearing what God speaks through you two. ❤ I am walking in my learning to be a true godly wife. I want to honor God in my marriage. My boyfriend and I have been officially courting since March of this year, and he has 2 daughters from a previous relationship that ended 7 years ago (I don't have children). The girls are 11 and 18. The 18 year old is away in college, and the 11 year old lives with their dad. Occasionally, when I come to the house and have a space of time alone, I pray as I walk through each room and I mark each door and window with oil. I speak love into the atmosphere, but it seems like whenever I speak to the youngest daughter, she simply answers my questions very dryly, or when she has something to say, she literally turns her whole body towards her dad as if I don't exist. I have a 17 year old niece in college, and we started a thread with the 18 year old daughter-just to send a funny meme or scripture or simple encouragement, knowing its both of their first year in college. I havent bombarded....Ive sent 4 texts since August, and my niece sent a really kind intro to open herself for conversation anytime. I have yet to hear anything from my future daughter (the 18yo). One thing I know is that you cant fight Love and nothing can stop a move of God, so I will be consistent in sending love. I know her mom has spoken harshly about there being someone in her dad's life whom he loves, but that I have been a constant of encouragement and support to both girls. I love them, and I love Jesus. My boyfriend is also saved. I said all this to say, sometimes the encourager needs to be encouraged. What do you recommend I do, study, pray about to go higher in my Proverbs 31 position as a wife and future bonus mom in training? I want Christ to have His mark in our home and for these attitudes and resistance to be broken, but I feel stuck. ❤

[@virginiechristinemangaonan3012]

You are a beautiful soul. Keep doing the righteous deeds with no regards towards the attitude of the one infront of you. Remember, God's Love is above all. Jesus' Sacrifice can save anyone❤

[@SB-ze9xs]

Amen, I appreciate you so much for saying this. Thank-you.

[@SB-ze9xs]

And I hope I'm not overstepping my current boundaries. I call it walking by faith, and I am definitely not trying to replace the girls mom. I feel like there is room for each of us to shine in the role that God has for us. I want to do this right. God has been so good to my boyfriend and I by sending us into each other's lives.

[@brandybeacham7707]

One of my friends I got together and formed a small group to study the book of Proverbs for the entire month of July. I'm excited for this.

[@michelletaylorsmotivation3171]

Praise the Lord I’m thankful that I ran across this live or teaching or this replay but I really like what first lady said about how if you don’t know how to cook or you don’t like going to the grocery store that you can get on the app and order some groceries or you can hire somebody to cook even thinking about myself and my busy lifestyle I do clean sometimes but it’s OK if you got a higher somebody to come in and do your general cleaning It’s OK if you have to hire somebody or get somebody to help you with some things even with the kids I believe that it takes a village to raise a child. It’s OK grandma can come in and watch the kids while you get some things done or you know if your kids are small if you gotta get a nap or you gotta study or whatever the case maybe so I think that’s awesome that she said that because at one point time in my life I was feeling lack because I can cook, but I don’t like to Cook and clean all the time that is not the focal point of who I am so what I’ve learned with striving to be proverbs 31 woman is that being a mom being a wife being a entrepreneur being a minister being a teacher all of that you have to find balance and it’s OK to reach out for help to help you do these thingsso thank you Lady for mentioning that

[@tiffanypickett8797]

Even as a single woman, this is so inspiring! You both have incredible God-given wisdom, Im thankful to you guys for sharing! I’ve been praying and fasting to be prepared for marriage and motherhood, this will be kept close to my heart. Now i wanna write almost every verse of this passage around my house as reminders and encouragement!!😆❤️✨

[@Keonahawk24]

I truly love this couple. I’m not even married yet but they’ve helped me so much as an individual and preparing me for marriage. So thank you both for your support and diligence ❤

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Glad to have you watching!

[@lovinglife58]

Praise God I found your channel! When it was over, I was like, noooo, not already!! Really enjoyed this and I learned a lot. I always thought striving to be a Proverbs 31 woman was unattainable, but listening to you explain it so well, I now know that I can be like this woman and it is so encouraging! I am a 65 year old woman, and I reconnected with my HS boyfriend from 45 years ago over a year ago and now we are talking marriage!! I need to learn as much as I can about being the kind of wife God wants me to be. I lost my husband 5 years ago and even though I am a Christian, we had quite a rocky marriage and I was not submissive. I am working to change that with God's help. God bless you both and I look forward to watching more of your videos!

[@deborahsteele7389]

I am proud to say that I am a pioneer woman and finally a Proverbs 31 Wife.

[@aidaortiz7219]

“There’s going to be Grace upon me to help me get there.” Beautifully expressed! Thank you for your insight. 🙏🏼

[@AJ-cy1mm]

I NEEDED THIS! Seriously! I love when she mentioned this chapter is like a highlight reel like Instagram and the Proverbs 31 woman still goes through the motions of daily life!! Truly a word.

[@misskissy17]

As women, we often feel criticized in all we do. When you read the Bible and are new to the faith, it can be overwhelming. Sometimes we have history that makes us feel like we will never amount. But through time and growing it can be inspirational. Sometimes we take the Bible so literal when we need to consider it spiritually. As a single mother with now grown children, seek God on who and how He wants you to be. Especially, if you’re feeling overwhelmed.

[@baileycagle601]

I aspire to be a Proverbs 21 woman and it is something I’ve struggled in becoming for years now allowing temptations and outside factors get in my way. This podcast gave me the motivation I needed and have been looking for. Thank you guys!❤

[@RebekahAnderson-ig8bg]

I'm a Christian and i've been through some trails that i don't why has happened to me and be pulled away from the ones i love everyone has different problems that are not spoken about some days i'm so tired and weak because i a suffer from heart conditions and high blood pressure makes me feel bad and my life is so under-control that i just want be happy but i take my stress out on others which makes me feel like a burden i want to be a good woman and study the word and learn to be better person so i could change my life around i dont blame anyone for my actions the only one who can change is you ive always want to help but it was sometimes seen as i wasn't doing enough i used to make everyones food from a young age and clean the entire house whie my mum was at and look after my sister when she was sick im always help others tme to put myself first then the right people will see who i can be again

[@moreliaallyns]

Amen, Bless you both. I shared my Sunday morning and breakfast with you both today here outside. I aspire to have a marriage like yours one day.

[@Sophianeka]

I love this so much. Especially the part concerning being kind to your family as you would a stranger. That struck me because I am waiting for college to resume and I am at home most times and I’m like how can I be kind I don’t see people at all. This podcast taught me to show kindness to my family and check on them. Overall, it also hones in on how to be a better woman in this society. I love it. God bless yall

[@Victoriaakunyili]

1:17 i love how she looks at him!

[@ayannagriffin1136]

Listening to this today gives me hopes that at any stage of our life is never too late to get better. Learning to trust and allow God to move me through the process of growth. I am willing to work on a few steps in Proverbs 31 to help me develop and become a better woman mentally and spiritually. Thank you and God bless you.

[@corinneroberson-hickson7633]

It takes a lot on one hand, and it takes 💯 some time wants to do it or this . Believe it, trust it, want it, know it, and do it. Faith 😊build it

[@ashleymonay9676]

I was studying proverbs 31 this week so this episode was sooo timely and very helpful!

[@michelletaylorsmotivation3171]

Glory to God I am enjoying this when first lady said, and I’m saying first lady because I don’t know the name I like when she explained or talked about how there’s a psycho how woman has a psycho and then when she didn’t have a psycho, she was probably pregnant and nursing and dealing with the children oh my God and if you’re a businesswoman, that’s even added responsibility and stress but what I love the most is how she talked about the proverbs 31 woman taking a sabbath like within the last maybe year I decided to take a sabbath because for one, God said to then God created the world, and he rested on the seven days, so there has to be a day of restand replenishing and a time that God can pour back into us so we can get back on our journey so once again, thank you for Lady for pointing that out

[@_iamkadijakim]

This was beautiful he is a strong leader I loved how in each response he affirmed you ❤️ much love to you all

[@RebekahAnderson-ig8bg]

I also hope I listened to her quotes when i was young to i knew what it meant yes i do thing an adults should still do i need to see now what my family has given to me to share with others :)

[@missygodschild836]

I am a woman who happens to be single but I look forward to being married and I want to thank you for helping us understand Prov 31. I work on operating in the same spirit she did (selfless, responsible considerate, kind, etc.)

[@nono.1921]

I just found you guys today after watching your fasting video and it’s blessed me tremendously. I am back for a second video today and it’s this. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and may God bless you and keep you near his heart.

[@sarahcarter7274]

A thought crossed my mind to share this because maybe you both were meant to hear or see this. But a quick thought crossed my mind and it was “these are people of this world, how can I know they are speaking truth of God and I’m not being mislead” (which btw I wasn’t thinking this was misleading by any means but some people nowadays are more worldly teaching than in the word teaching) so I say that to say this. I immediately after thinking that thought felt a sense of peace and I found comfort in video this right off the back meaning I know God was telling me it was right, but also I am “the one that just stumbled upon the video” so I believe God put it on my heart to tell you this to hopefully encourage you more bc the thought kept rumbling over and over in my mind!

[@jenmedulian]

Thank you for this podcast. I am excited to be transformed as a Proverbs 31 woman throught the Holy Spirit. GOD bless your show and praying that all women will bentouched by thw Holy Spirit and be transformed to be the woman who pleases God alone in who they are and in everything thwy do and say. In Jesus name. Amen🙏🙏🙏

[@MSMS-xi9vl]

I came across this video today and I was very inspiring that a beautiful married couple like yourselves and putting this out there I was married widowed then married again for the second time with an abusive spouse. Now I’ve been a single mom for almost 7 years and I’m just praying for Mr. Wright if there is still one out there for me, thank you for giving me hope. Have a blessed day.

[@cassiajackson8658]

This truly blessed me I have a new perspective when I read the Bible now. I can study Proverbs 31 and aspire to be that woman and not be discouraged that I may not have it all together now

[@_forevergrateful1]

This! The book of Proverbs is a guidance book. It should help you aspire to be the best version of you.

[@user-gc2ht5ol6f]

You just hit The nail on the head. ❤ I do a lot of counseling and a lot of times people don't even understand themselves and it's easier to go ahead and start learning about the opposite sex that we are and that helps us to discover more about them. And then it helps us to open up to learn about us. You guys do amazing job. Thank you so much. I just found you a couple days ago. Many prayers. Continue blessings🎉

[@roselynvillareal4816]

Such a blessing to me ❤ Thank you so much. I will definitely be a Proverbs 31 wife.. Praise the Lord 🙏

[@gettended]

28:48 😂❤ it’s a good spoiled. It’s really lovely and sweet

[@gracechitauro8380]

Good topic!

[@espybeltran9679]

Hi you guys so I just found your podcast. This is actually the first one I’m watching and it truly found me because I recently started to church religiously as I say. I’m currently doing prayer and fasting with my church and it’s a real challenge that I’m facing. But I’m 24 years old with no kids I have gave birth to but I have a boyfriend/husband and 4 kids who are his bio nephews and nieces but we both took legal guardianship. To be so young and having to take care of a household which was once just two and in the past 6 months is now 6 is very challenging but I know it’s possible. As I’m hearing what you guys are saying and reading this chapter with you I truly feel I am a proverbs 31 woman but there is a couple things that I can work on to become even more powerful,loving,kind for my spouse and our children. I love what you guys are doing.Im excited to see start from the beginning and hear all of your podcast

[@PattyDeVille]

I can’t thank yall enough for taking the time to break down this chapter. I have been to a service where a husband read the chapter and the wife acted out Proverbs 31. I left the service feeling so horrible about myself. I felt like I could never measure up to be the woman God intended me to be. Thank you.

[@Amden411]

Not the cereal with no milk being his biggest issue! You done loved that man so well! 😂

[@shanitalee30sl]

This teaching was awesome ❤️. I taught a Bible study earlier in the year on Proverbs 31 and when tasked with this I felt unworthy 😅 because I’m a single mother but my Bishop was able to change my perspective as you all have as well. I’m definitely subscribing, God Bless you all 🥰

[@Iammidly]

I feel very blessed, i was about to start my personal bible study and devotional and came across this video ! I really appreciate having the perspective and insight of a married Christian couple. ❤ As a young woman, about to turn 26, i started to put myself into perspective ( how to be a woman in the image of God and also which standards should i hold myself to) the 31 woman was definitely needed. I really loved your video and will definitely be watching more ! You guys are really lovely. I can feel the love you have for each other. May God bless you and your family. See you soon ! ❤

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Thank you so much. We are glad our podcast can be a blessing to you! Tune in every Thursday and don't forget to share it with your friends and family :)

[@chrissyejenkins808]

I needed to hear this! Around 13 minutes in, Ken talks about being encouraged to become the proverbs 31 woman. For so long, I have been the opposite, the one who sees everything in Proverbs 31 and feels lacking. I’m excited to strive toward my new goals of becoming a proverbs 31 woman! Tabitha talked about a woman at all different stages of life before that. I love the concept that becoming a proverbs 31 woman is a lifetime goal. This woman in Proverbs 31 is my roadmap to a happy and successful life as a woman! Thank you for sharing your perspective, I feel a burden lifted, and I am light!

[@user-kj4qt1in3h]

charm and grace are deceptive, and beauty is vain. but a woman who fears the Lord shall be praised. i enjoyed this episode so much. i love your advice.

[@margaretlewis8064]

hi Paster Ken ,i have been listening to your pod cast , and i and totally bless. i am in agreement with the switch program. Women going to men seminar and men going to the women seminar. This would definately help us wives to better understand our husbands. God,s richest blessing upon your ministry

[@shaynemorgan]

I strive to be a proverbs 31 woman!! Amen 🙏🏾

[@ketubah857]

Really?? Please tell me ehat it means to be a proverbs 31 woman. What does one have to do to achieve all these things? Can you help me with this??

[@ivymwiwa4558]

I have been looking for content on proverbs 31 woman and I am so glad this is the first one that I stumbled upon on KZbin....this is my first little miracle today❤

[@avabasler2902]

thank you for this- this is helping go over the topic of the proverbs 31 woman for a mission trip that I am taking that is going to costa rica

[@raquelbetancourt1153]

This podcast is such a blessing to my life. God Bless! ❤

[@michole3380]

So glad my pastor shared your page during one of our marriage ministry meetings.

[@tashsmith5908]

I don’t want to be measured by works … Although I love God .The Holy Spirit still working with me …

[@christianbyers6292]

Tabathaaaa you are a great example of a proverbs 31 women! Truly inspiring, as a young lady who’s 21 yrs old your a role model for me and I thank you for your 🙏🏽 God bless your beautiful family!!

[@latitiaezell334]

Love this Message! I’m a first time listener. Thanks y’all !

[@shernacunningham8541]

This is a real Blessing! Thank you. Still work in progress as the Proverbs 31 woman after 32 years of marriage but God remains faithful and the love and bond between my Hubby and I is a tapestry that God continues to weave....beautifully. it's humbling.

[@lynnbethea680]

I really enjoyed this podcast! I am encouraged! Thanks soooo much!

[@stephaniegaines2693]

I love your podcast and I learned something Today. Thank you so much. No I'm not married yet but I'm preparing for my BFF, Husband ❤

[@jacquelinenoel]

Thank you so much for this message! I particularly loved the comments around proverbs 31 not being meant to condemn, but instead being a guideline from God for the women we want to be

[@roxannerubydaughta4239]

Oh my goodness hello, I was reading provebs before taking my son to school it was chapter 8 to continue with my study when I got back I love to listen to heavenly muscis that I see this beautiful couple I had to take notes its my first time here I thank the holy spirit for leading me in this direction ❤

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

Amen! Thanks for watching!

[@justhereyeah1112]

I’m so glad that you mentioned that this is what a mother shared with her son. I had learned that too in turn it’s not the foundation of who I am as a woman. I remember a Muslim co-worker came to me and asked me what I thought about psalms 31, I told her truthfully I’ve never been taught to be that woman, my mother taught me about psalms 23 instead. Great conversation!

[@tatianamizhenskaya7397]

Hello everyone! Just looking for advice here. I'm not married, but I'm in a relationship now. I'm wondering, how can a woman balance her life wisely? I live alone in a apartment now, I work, I do everything around the house myself. And there are times when it gets really difficult to be on top of everything. Like, to always have my fridge stocked with food, maintain a clean house, have time to rest and do self care. But I can't imagine how I will do all of that and even more (because I will always try to do a better job at being a caregiver and a mother for my family) when I have a husband and kids? Me and my bofriend agreed that we will have somewhat traditional gender roles in our family. I'm okay with that, I'm looking forward to taking care of my family. But I don't want to be a stay-at-home mom. I have so many amazing projects and goals that God is helping me achieve. I don't want to give it up. How can I balance all?

[@siakala7078]

wow 24yrs..so blessed to fall into this program..BULA from FIJI..South Pacific

[@user-qc8hr1ui4n]

I feel like I ran upon this podcast at the right time, in right season, right day. I literally enjoyed y’all so much! The both of you spoke so much encouragement into my life. As a woman who’s trying to surrender to God’s will and NOT beat myself up so much about where I am or I am not in my life y’all have giving me so much HOPE. On this FAITH WALK I can be exactly what God called me to be.

[@Ehipopo]

ready for this one!

[@mercedezgaia6660]

Please make. Video about what God says a good Christian man is supposed to be.

[@mikat7365]

Thank you so much for this teaching ❤️ The comments I've heard in the past is that some women are overwhelmed, feeling as though they have to meet the Psalm 31 standard all at once. This is who she was over time not overnight! As Pastor Claytor pointed out, use Psalm 31 as a guide to strive towards a goal. If there is an area of lack, look to improve in that area. It's actually nice to have a goal to shoot for, that with God's help, will produce much fruit. 🙏🏾

[@tashaneclark5947]

This is so good God has been sending me in the direction I’ve lacked this is confirmation that lord is working with me right now thank you God bless the both of you !!!!!