Doja Cat Is So Messy

[@MogChoth]

Im sorry but if you hate engaging with your fans so much then get off social media. The main point of social media is FOR INTERACTION, and i definitely find it annoying and hypocritical how she tells her fans to touch grass when i simply cannot seem to escape her constant tweets and posts involving problematic behavior. I understand having socials for announcements but that’s barely what she uses it for…and she can hire someone else to post for her. She seems very confused.

[@melika2812]

Exactly🤣like if you don’t fw your supporters or any fan interaction, you’re the one that needs to get off their phone and be off social media. I swear she’s a walking contradiction 💀

[@elizabethm8982]

fr. tons of celebs hire ppl to manage their socials, if she's so sick of social media why does she keep logging in?? make it make sense😭

[@SocialExperiment232]

Confused is a perfect word to use here 😂 like girly you don’t even know where you are. You’re posting on Twitter… a social media site… where people can see it 😂

[@bachito1996]

It reminded me of that anime Kakegurui when the idol was so pleased by her fans, but in reality she hated them and just used them to achieve her purpose. The difference is that Doja is openly showing hatred 🤣🤣

[@missbellaiza]

The only way to solve this is for her getting PR, which she doesn’t have for some weird reason.

[@missbellaiza]

Her being repeatedly hypocritical and disrespectful is the one thing I cannot get by.

[@puffball4484]

I think girly is on drugs. That explains the back and forth, up and down, hot and cold behavior. She tweets love and positive shit when she's high, then nasty angry stuff when she's in withdrawals. The pattern is there as someone who's been around a lot of users it's familiar to me.

[@sleepysartorialist]

@@puffball4484she's got ADHD and is unmedicated. Don't be nasty.

[@amandadunn7678]

​@@puffball4484I've been saying this since her 27th Illuminati-themed birthday party.

[@Pink_pr1ncess]

@@puffball4484I think she’s an alcoholic more than anything. Every time she’s on live or in public she’s either already drunk or has a half empty drink in her hand. she’s been excessively drunk since the beginning of her popularity, and her behaviors are eerily similar to alcoholics. The unprovoked aggression, the attention seeking behavior, the highs and lows of her mood, it screams “I’m a drunk”.

[@ToxDuris]

no one cares now go help your parents with the house

[@yaseenthis2971]

she’s a prime example of letting fame get to your head. many artists suffer from this delusion but more in private.

[@BroJo676]

This. However, privacy still makes the difference and shows that some artists actually do genuinely care about their perception.

[@tone901]

No, these fans letting fandom get to their head.

[@jinx6946]

How did the fame get to her head if she doesn’t even want it and wants to go back to being unknown making SoundCloud tracks 💀

[@Tinyplea]

I agree she use to be wholesome but she has changed for the worst.

[@yaseenthis2971]

@@jinx6946 you’re just as delusional as your fave. if she wanted to be unknown she wouldn’t be going on a world tour, sign a record deal contract or work so hard to get it

[@Beyondthebayou]

Lady Gaga was weird and quirky at the beginning of her career but never rude to her fans and insulting. Fame really transforms a person they are not gods

[@guillaumem9953]

I don’t think it transforms people/transformed her. She’s just showing her true colors.

[@killjoy_noize4982]

Very good example. Gaga is wonderful example for how to handle things.

[@klishna3745]

Lady Gaga is so fake dude. Avon lady at best.

[@rattlesthecrewmate]

​@@guillaumem9953boooom😂

[@rentacop7038]

I miss the old lady gaga like damn

[@mar35962]

it's not about her private life or ''fans crossing the boundaries''. it's about her silencing actual victims of pedophilia by blocking them and invalidating their trauma. no one gives a damn abt that girl's private life. i couldn't care less abt who she is or what she wears or sings, that doesn't concern me. but dismissing victims when they're addressing trauma about her boyfriend and not giving a damn when evidences are presented to her when she's almost pushing 30 is disgusting and needs to be called out

[@melanintingz6555]

I don’t know why you’re so surprised about that. That’s what people in Hollywood do, of course they are gonna silence victims. All of the people you support are in on it as well, that’s why you will always find them dating someone with a sketchy past.

[@arispiercing]

right.. no one gaf abt what she's doing w that man , blocking the victims after calling him out is a new level of LOW

[@MVangelmx]

ONG she’s not a damn teenager to be acting like a damn 4chan user

[@itunesdrop]

her telling her fans to “get a job” and get off their phone for stanning her like she didn’t drop out of high school to spend her time in online chatrooms with 30 year old incels is laughable.

[@missbellaiza]

This ☝🏼

[@tatikay9818]

@@skylarmichellex they are just pointing out her hypocrisy

[@BroJo676]

This one was personal!

[@_Sumeyo_]

lol

[@OceanLasky]

Duhhh yalll wake up on her box go on her live she clearly don’t need u or anyone kissing her ass like y’all do

In the process of trying to "weed out" her fake fans, she has successfully weeded out the real ones.

[@alwaysyouramanda]

And got the attention of professional haters 😂😂😂😂 (I mean me.)

[@Lola_Nico]

I’m an og fan since 2017. Seen here live in 2018 on her first tour. I’m still a fan. You’re just a big hater lol.

[@Lola_Nico]

@@alwaysyouramandayou’re not cool. You never will be.

@@Lola_Nico Not true, but whatever you need to tell yourself to endure the disrespect

[@Lola_Nico]

@ I do not feel disrespect at all. Doja didn’t attack me LOL.

[@_BellesMerveilles_]

I don't understand how one could be so mean to their fans in the name of being "quirky"? There's a difference between calling out parasocial relationships and just being flat-out disrespectful.

[@jasmeetsandhu229]

Many people are like doja cat nowadays they mask their rudeness with being honest or keeping it real when you can be honest and still keep it respectful going off on people and calling them names isn't being quirky or being real it's not having manners to act like a civilized adult she'll be 30 soon her fans can't say she doesn't know any better to behavior better

[@_BellesMerveilles_]

@@jasmeetsandhu229 This! Exactly!

[@lavender4322]

Because it's working. Lots of people are defending her and are going crazy lengths to find excuses to her extremely rude and entitled behavior: "she is just setting boundaries", "she needs help", "she deserves privacy and she is just fighting the whole stan culture, it's so liberating". Nah, she is just rude.

[@JellyOnAPancakeAyyyy]

Yeah… I really don’t know what’s gotten into her… like, why?

[@alwaysyouramanda]

She prolly just stupid 😂

[@imissu1854]

She’s been rude and nasty since 2020 and y’all just don’t GET IT ! Everyone seems to forget !!

[@laurenblanc6172]

Shes been weird since that Noah Schapp incidem, I swear

[@LP-ct9nk]

She’s been weird since the racist chatroom days. People just don’t care if they’re personally benefiting from it (her songs)

[@bribear0030]

@@LP-ct9nkwell no shit because the whole chat room mess was a lie and false narrative invented by a black man 💀

[@LoveK1]

⁠@@LP-ct9nkI’ll NEVER forget those racist chats. Those clips were so weird and had such dark energy.

[@D3V_Official]

It's so embarassing and sad seeing your favourite artist turn into the worst version of themselves and being so ignorant about their behaviour Even if she is doing this to build of the character of 'Scarlet' there's a fine line between it

[@she-3PO]

"Scarlet"? who tf is that? does she have a rap alter-ego like Nicki Minaj now?

[@elementohsix]

Doja can lash out all she wants. In a few months she’s gonna be singing all these “cash grab” songs on stage with a smile 😂

[@_Sumeyo_]

right

[@anita.b]

@@ColbyandEon Nah, she a loser

[@yelanswhore]

@@ColbyandEonno tf, there are plenty of other vids made by women and men acknowledging how weird shes acting

[@despaversailles]

​@@ColbyandEonAbsolutely not.

[@jordantamah9408]

She really don't got a choice. That contract is not going away any time soon.

[@tylerhackner9731]

I understand being anti-parasocial and Stan culture is insufferable, but there are people that genuinely support her as an artist that see how weird she’s acting and the decisions made that are odd

[@cheshirerose2001]

If it was something like with Amy Lee from Evanescence (where she just wants to be seen as a person and doesn’t want people to worship her) that would be different

[@sabrinastars1284]

Nah fr, call out ur stans not your fans bc at the end of the day, you fans will be the ones supporting you. They'll be going to your concerts, buying merch, streaming and promoting your album.

[@maurice1263]

It’s all fun and games till her fans stop supporting her and she’s left with piling bills. Hope she’s ready for the fallout that this new attitude can bring . Dababy had a way of disrespecting his fans and carrying on and look what happened.

[@rosegold-]

literally I’m one of her biggest fans, but I’m tired of being disrespected, because I genuinely care about her

[@Angel_Auraa]

A friend of mine she lashed out at on Threads isn’t an obsessive stan at all, she has a husband and a son, she’s just a Day One fan. So no there’s no parasocial fans. No excuse for her rudeness.

[@panquequescondulcedeleche]

I think she is an example of someone who's got the talent but lacks the personality that's needed to be a star, sigh

[@superg6787]

​@xchi8040 u can dislike her for her behavior lately but u cant deny shes a good dancer and singer

[@zoe._.1850]

@@xchi8040let’s not lie. Sis is talented. She unfortunately is just utterly insufferable.

[@jinx6946]

@@xchi8040if you gon be one thing in life, be fr. she’s the best female performer of our generation…

[@alysssabear]

@@xchi8040Don’t even try and act different. You know she has talent.

[@cookiesncream9158]

⁠@@jinx6946she can sing and dance decently but don’t put a fool like that on such a pedestal

[@mksketchms]

I will not be surprised in the slightest if she pulls the bipolar card to gain sympathy in 3-4 years after failing hard and not making as much money.

[@FS-qk5uq]

And it'll work too🤦🏻‍♀️

[@mksketchms]

@@FS-qk5uq can't wait for the documentary trailer full of dramatic moments of her acting quirky🤪 and sad😣

[@mksketchms]

@@18poundsofcokane google is your friend

[@LoveK1]

@@18poundsofcokanemeaning these celebrities whip out a “mental health” bingo card to have their despicable behavior excused for a few years. It’s been very effective since about 2020.

[@amarjotsingh8455]

@@18poundsofcokanewhen celebs act a mess they will blame it on being manic/having an episode like bipolar

[@alexdavis360]

she keeps saying 'go touch grass' but she's the one who is chronically online tweeting all day

[@KOOKlEDOUGH]

doja doesn't technically owe her fans anything, but spitting in their faces and telling them off when they didn't even do anything is just so disrespectful. at the end of the day ur fanbase is the only ones, u can truly count on to always support you and keep you relevant. and she's effectively ailianeting them for simply existing. like she's digging her own grave here.

[@jk4675]

she does owe them. they keep her career alive

[@KOOKlEDOUGH]

@@jk4675 yeah the technically is vague. however she is a human that can do whatever she wants so therefore technically. however i do believe artist should to some extent give back to the fans that made them get to where they are. however even tho i think she should doesn’t mean she has to, but just bc she doesn’t have to doesn’t mean she shouldn’t, which is where my technically comes in. hope that cleared it up a bit!😅

[@janelleguild3866]

Also, we also don’t owe her anything.

[@misspiggy4545]

@@KOOKlEDOUGH yep! but we don’t owe her shit either. it works both ways and when she ends up with a trashy fans, it’ll be on her

[@pregnantleggies3696]

She’s expressed thanks and gratitude to her fans in the past, there’s videos of her hugging, thanking and complementing her fans when they praise her. However I feel like once she started to lose weight and shaved her head people started saying she was doing cocaine and other sketchy shit. She was probably angry she wasn’t praised for more than Say so and was held in that era, doesn’t make insulting people who actually love all her music alright. I’d love to listen to her music and vibe to it but I don’t support her decisions and actions beyond her career hopefully with time she won’t be so bitter.

[@luigifarts]

it’s a shame because attention was actually a refreshing song… but it’s hard to take her seriously nowadays. i just hope she gets the help she needs and leaves others alone

[@xlectraheart]

she said that song will be completely different and it was just a reject from planet her

[@blueyblue5831]

@@xlectraheart How was it a reject from planet her? the stuff she raps about in the rap parts are current unless you mean the chorus part

[@babyxblue]

​@@xlectraheartIt couldn't be from planet her 😭

[@Teemo6544]

The song was horrible be for real lol

[@blueyblue5831]

@@Teemo6544 not the OP but I liked the chorus a bit, it was pretty catchy but the rest was pretty mid lolol

[@user-mb8rf7qk5q]

She’s like a weird mix of the worst of internet millennials and Gen z’s combined.

[@perrip2355]

Simply a toxic Zellennial

[@madisonj5136]

@@perrip2355fr

[@user-mb8rf7qk5q]

@@perrip2355 zellenial is genius.

[@solar6284]

That’s a bit much. The worst are the racists and Tate stans, Doja is nowhere near that.

[@chuusenberg519]

@@solar6284nowhere is generous 😂

[@tankissed]

What no one ever talks about in this “para-social” conversation is how celebrities intentionally cultivate these kinds of relationships with their audience as they stand to benefit hugely from the ensuing loyalty and attention. Fans are always blamed for ‘caring too much’ about a public figure, be it a traditional star or a KZbinr/Influencer, but we have to ask ourselves. Is it really fair to interact with your admirers as if they’re your friends, profit off of their love, and then turn around and accuse them of obsession? It’s called a para-social relationship for a reason. A relationship goes two ways.

[@retiredboxer_]

this right here.

[@magicalmomo9987]

Thank you for this, I know I've seen a lot of people explain this in videos discussing parasocial relationships and yet I still we get folks talking about fan should touch grass and shit. It's a two way street, this whole relationship is cultivated by the fans and the people they admire to benefit from each other like a symbiotic relationship. The more a celebrity interacts positively the more fans become attached and consume their content.

[@JeromeProductions]

I’d say she’s the female Kanye in terms of all the controversy. But even he appreciated his fans.

[@crystalcastillo7575]

I always thought her “weird” quirky persona was just a way to hide how rude she was. Like the people who hide their criticisms in backhanded compliments. Her personality never appealed to me & I knew it was a matter of time before other people saw her unlikeable-ness

[@avlaysia1868]

Exactly…

[@pinkmenace2452]

thank u omg 😭

[@sleepysartorialist]

She's flatly said she has ADHD and doesn't take medication. I think it's all a symptom of dysregulation. She has to want help tho

[@iJustBeTalkinn]

Yeah I always said that I enjoyed her art and I enjoyed watching her create music on live and stuff like that but her personality has never been likable to me. She’s an artist I just wanted to hear the music and nothing more 😂

[@Pink_pr1ncess]

@@sleepysartorialistI believe it, I think she’s also addicted to something too. 🥃

[@TheBlackPanther05]

And to think I thought she was gonna be the Nicki Minaj of the 2020s..... Right now, she's moreso looking like the Azealia Banks of the 2020s. This self-sabotage is honestly so hard to watch it's not even funny.

[@madisonkay_yay]

I was just thinking she was giving Azealia Banks 😭😭😂

[@missbellaiza]

Only difference is that I’ve never seen Azealia be nasty to her own fans

[@sky_ferreira]

+ atleast Azealia has some🔥 songs.

[@xlectraheart]

azealia literally said this is how doja would turn out

[@va6632]

@@xlectraheart Azealia sees the future fr

[@chandnirai7039]

She is being so disrespectful towards her fans. She cried first for winning the awards for her albums which was a "cash grab" and then acts like it's the audiance at fault who ever liked her previous work. Now she is getting mad at her fans coz they call themselves Kittens. Like wtf is she smoking. I don't support bullying. But the way she is acting. I'm kinda glad some people are requesting refund for her concert tickets.

[@pinkcows5]

we've been calling ourselves kittens for years - so why is it now a problem????

[@chandnirai7039]

@@pinkcows5 tbh i was okay when she said her old albums were cash grabs and listeners are stupid. i took that statement as a joke. Coz I know it's okay to hate your previous work and wanting to change your direction. But to go out of your way to insult the audiance who are probably one of the biggest reasons you even have the world wide fame. Its just beyond me

[@stuff1784]

Knowing Doja, she’ll “forget” to appear onstage for her tour dates or show up hours late. That’s how disrespectful she is. I don’t know why anyone would risk it going to her tour dates.

[@TriangularMango101]

People are saying it’s weird but like…doja literally made that fandom name herself. She made a twitter poll asking her fans what she should call them 😭 like girl, there are so many mixed signals

[@pinkcows5]

@@chandnirai7039 no because if she can call it a cash grab on twitter then why cant she say it on the grammys stage to all of her adoring fans who BOUGHT those albums and streamed it enough to get her there????

[@chrissy8862]

i’ve been a fan since 2018 since “moo!” was blowing up. i knew instantly that she would be a hit success. her tone, her personality, and her ability to create music was great. i feel personally bad for her because i try to tell myself, “maybe she’s just extremely stressed or depressed and that’s why she’s saying these things” but when you just tell your fans to get a job, delete their accounts, to fuck off, etc. i understand she’s not entitled to show care for anyone, but to tell her fans so many times that she loves them and to constantly bring them down afterwards and how she just degrades them is so disappointing.

[@jenniemikasa576]

it never felt like her music was cash grabby or mediocre to me. i loved her pop sound. kinda disappointing to hear that she never felt the same way.

[@DoingStuffWithDiana]

“She made all the noise about mediocre pop, but it’s not like she’s releasing great hip hop either “. 😂😂 bissshhh I died

[@Frostedcranberrysnowflake]

That comment was hilarious 😆

[@lukalakicevic2305]

Lmaooo

[@mayomuslim5855]

she has a choice to date someone (allegedly criminally) problematic, and people have a choice not to support her for that but watch she'll have a tantrum about that too

[@Lola_Nico]

What did he do? What are his crimes?

[@__yeri3719]

@@Lola_Nicogrooming minors

[@Cherubb3_systemsOT8]

I feel like calling that raging hunk of wasted space “ problematic” is too sweet of a label Lmao

[@superultragiggachigga]

I remember when she blocked me on twitter because I told her the last few albums she made were inspirational for me 😂😂 It sucks because I remember when she first started posting music online. I was one of her first few hundred followers.

[@Mighty.Matcha.]

That’s so sad, I hope you are alright

[@superultragiggachigga]

@@esthergift8373 thanks, but no worries! I don’t hold these celebrities to high on the ladder anyway. Just makes me feel hurt because I’ve literally seen/supported her come up from beginning but 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️

[@superultragiggachigga]

@@Mighty.Matcha. thanks I’m doing well! It happens though. Hurts, but it happens. I was a hardcore supporter for her in the beginning, but now I’m just sending her hopes and prayers.

[@julianamarques1828]

Jesus, that's wild. I've seen celebs block someone cause they talked shit about their work, but blocking someone bc they complemented your work is new to me 😂😂😂

[@julianamarques1828]

Like what does she want people to do, insult her? If that's the case, if she keeps doing this she's gonna get it

[@musicviolamusician4392]

I saw a tweet saying just a year ago The Weeknd, Doja Cat and Ariana Grande were one of the most loved artists

[@Pink_pr1ncess]

And now they’re all showing their true colors in the exact same year.. yikes

[@musicviolamusician4392]

@@Pink_pr1ncess yea but I still like Ariana

[@ONLY1JAYJAY]

She’s losing the “IDGAF” War.

[@fleurdelalune8745]

I think Doja Cat absolutely hates being famous and she's lashing out at everyone who gives her attention she doesnt like

[@madisonj5136]

I think she’s just hangry

[@zoe._.1850]

@@madisonj5136you’re not you when you’re hungry

[@ilefttheband]

​@@zoe._.1850she could just grab a snicker or smth

[@ToniCarrington]

But I bet she loves being a millionaire 🥴🥴🥴 fame is the price

[@Caitlin2608]

I think if she didn't like being famous she wouldn't go to publicity events like the met gala, let alone in a very out-there costume

[@Atingsueee]

I know she doesn’t owe us anything but her albums helped me mentally throughout the pandemic. Reading that tweet about falling for mediocre music was the last straw for me.

[@sj3695]

No literally …like I used to cry to that album wtf.

[@halatiny6537]

Yea it’s just cruel for her to say

[@GolgappaUwU]

😭👌 and the jab at my name LOL

[@Atingsueee]

@@GolgappaUwU lmao not the name😭

[@GolgappaUwU]

@@Atingsueee 😭😭 i swear i named me this cause i love baby cats 🤧🤧

[@oovvrm]

If your still a fan, she doesn't care about you.

[@asiandilf7955]

Thats why it hurtss, A lot of "kittenz" Already left

[@itsnautsch]

As she shouldn't.

[@jinx6946]

She cares abt that fans that understand her lmao the ppl getting offended by her words obviously are new here unless they wanna be crybabies acting like they’ve been cyber bullied bc she lashed out & will inevitably continue to do so

[@asiandilf7955]

@@jinx6946 Are we gonna disregard the new fans? They still contribute to doja's success. Its not that hard to be rude? Plus Ive seen old fans of doja slaming and calling her out

[@jinx6946]

@@asiandilf7955 get with it or get lost 😂

[@stephme2686]

Not everyone deserves recognition and she’s one of them

[@dalayneejo]

i applaud celebs for standing up to parasocial relationships and the culture surrounding it, but doja is just being a bully. she only makes valid points once she’s already dug herself a 50ft deep hole with previous comments insulting the people who care about her most.

[@QAmodb]

Her fans must have a "I like being embarrassed" kink.

[@QAmodb]

But I do agree with her when it comes to her not wanting a parasocial relationship with fans. But the way she goes about it is toxic.

[@darklyweird]

lmaooo true

[@milkbread5036]

@@QAmodb yeah there's a difference between "hey don't stalk me or wait outside my house, that's not cool", to outright calling her fans stupid and poor taste in music.

[@Nessa-k7q]

A lot of her fans r no longer her fans after this

[@MusicLover333]

They must cuz she ain't losing many views. Subscribers or followers. Last I checked she still had millions. Next month if she still has all these followers ain't nobody allowed to complain about her ugly attitude cuz clearly it's wanted.

[@shawncarter5434]

Doja is so ungrateful treating her fans like this. She wouldn’t be where she is if it wasn’t for us streaming her music

[@omo8150]

She didn’t ask us to stream it, it was the pandemic and people were hungry for new music and she happened to release a song at the right time with the right vibe. Let’s face it, she doesn’t owe us anything we made her the star she is, we make the wrong people superstars It would be nice for Dona to be appreciative but a lot of fans are acted like their some god or deity that Doja should praise and be thankful for. I’m happy she letting people know the real her, cause artists like doja are always expected to have some moral compass like we don’t know them or how they grew up.

[@crimsonred9280]

​@@omo8150exactly!

[@gretchenwieners3621]

@@omo8150stfu why put something out you don’t want people to stream? That literally makes no sense

[@amoraacho6181]

@@omo8150but If we didn’t stream she would be flipping burgers right now

[@cheyennehenry9000]

I think she reached her breaking point ever since that backlash she got from canceling her events in Brazil. That time she said she was going to quit music. she felt the wrath of what it's like being a pop sensation in Hollywood and hated it. I think She doesn't want to be the lime light no more but wants the perks that come with it because she still goes to fashion shows,does magazine covers,etc.

[@darklyweird]

it's simpler. she's just an attention seeker and her words mean nothing.

[@janedeauxxx]

I actually thinks she hates those events and is contracted to them. Another thing that adds to her misery and self loathing

[@MusicLover333]

​@@darklyweird I agree she wants attention but no responsibility smh

[@StarCatcher8]

Nah not true, she clearly wants attention, if she wanted privacy she wouldn't be online all the time fighting with her fans. She would simply ignore it and live her private life but she doesn't bcz she liked the attention she gets.

[@anisanurraudah8383]

Doja Cat, Frank Ocean, and Tyler The Creator are in a competition to win the "I Hate My Fans" award...

[@nyelaadams3749]

What did Tyler the Creator do

[@cherreii..]

@@nyelaadams3749Right

[@Angel_Auraa]

I’m done. 😅 Just three days ago I was a fan and now I just can’t anymore. It’s not a celebrity thing. It’s not “setting boundaries.” It’s a mean thing. It’s a Doja thing.

[@Shearedfield]

She’s not being weird. She’s being a jerk to everyone. Clearly something is going on, she needs to get offline for awhile. Also needs to self reflect.

[@inlandempress4587]

she needs to get off the nose candy she will be ok😂

[@annabellacastro1255]

She is constantly doing this and I can't even be surprised anymore because she constantly is contradicting herself😑

[@Chuu_Vault]

I saw honest and i click. And for Doja she can dislike her fans how much as she want, she is on her right. But at least be grateful to the ppl are giving you your livelyhood and recognition on your carrer.

[@chrisroyale7626]

The fact that Doja watches this channel is tea 🐸☕️

[@IMeanIGuessWhatevs]

Bruh I literally was telling myself that her lashing out at her fans on Twitter was reminding me of someone on drugs… low and behold, hours later I see a clip of her on live trying to hide her casually huffing poppers, slurred speech and jagged disposition to match. It’s very concerning.

[@Tavtav66]

fans showed her nothing but love and adulation for years and she doesn’t reciprocate the same energy back?? i’m sorry but that is some big loser shit to me.

[@namirouge]

It really is.

[@tootietootie.8545]

like no honestly, I never thought that she'd say something mean or rude like that to people who support her & ppl who see her, waste money on her because they love her for she is and her music. it's truly so upsetting and im genuinely disgusted by her. did not think it'd get worse than a few months ago or last year.

[@dianan355]

I missed the days when we only heard about celebrities thru magazines and tv interviews. They are too accessible now. Does Doja have any friends because she’s always online?

[@crystalcastillo7575]

FINALLY someone’s admitting that Attention was MEDIOCRE.

[@thepriceisright048]

I think I expected much more because of how she was talking about how great the songs on the next album are going to be

[@Mighty.Matcha.]

Tbh the song was good bc of the visuals and some strong messages

[@safiyaxox231]

@@Mighty.Matcha. also the flow was crazy, the hooks could have been a lil better, but calling that mediocre is a sin lmao. The song was a message and it did that job very well. Thats the only thing i disagree with in this vid.

[@safiyaxox231]

also if it is mediocre then most, if not all the other current female hip hop songs are down right dog shit.

[@glamglam8347]

@@safiyaxox231 it was a boring message. and just bc its better than songs like wap doesn't mean its the best. her song was boring and she should've kept in the drafts and stuck with pop

[@squeekytoy123]

Setting boundaries and insulting fans are two different things. Why doesn't she just take her money, sign off line, and touch grass, like she says she wants to? She is such a talented songwriter, singer, and dancer, wild and out there, which I love, but this is just being mean.

[@spoonstar2081]

Im sooo glad you made this video 🙏🏽!!

[@shanmarie000]

ive been following her journey since moo and its sad to see whats been going on with her lately…

[@3mi3mi]

I think she’s purposely trying to sabotage her career, she doesn’t like being this famous.

[@ilacallya324]

She sold her soul, it doesn't matter anymore, she's going to be in our faces until she's used up

[@fatimasummaray784]

@@ilacallya324or she just doesn’t like being famous .

[@alysssabear]

@@ilacallya324Brainwashed

[@jinx6946]

You just realized that?…..

[@3mi3mi]

@@jinx6946 no 💀 just commenting tf

[@queensandkings9586]

Doja receives so much love but always focused on the negative comments and the trolls. Like everybody can’t love you. But at least respect the people who appreciate your craft. You always want to focus on the minority that doesn’t. Also I can’t help but think about Nicki or Beyoncé. Can you imagine Nicki telling the Barbs to F- off?? Stan culture can be very annoying but treating your fans like dumb people is not it

[@cookie.cami03]

I know it’s not something to get too worked up about, but when she called her albums mediocre pop and said we were dumb for falling for it, it really hurt. I found her music in my freshman year of high school, every girl I knew sang juicy in sophomore year and when her hot pink album came out I listened to every song and would make other friends do so too. We would all anxiously eat for her next single or album to come out. Those songs gave me and so many other girls confidence and are tied to fun times, so it was like a punch to the gut to hear her say that. I stopped listening to her music months ago but this made me and a lot of people I know disappointed :/

[@Catroversy]

So many woman like her have come in music industry and just like her have taken their couple of years of success to their heads and now are nowhere to be seen. We could be watching another example of donwfall caused by your own ego in the shape of doja cat. The reason why artists like Beyonce, Nicki Minaj, Taylor Swift have remained relevant after decades is because they have always showed their humbleness towards their fans. Nicki and Beyonce have expressed dislike for a lot of things in their careers but they have never laughed in the face of their fans or belittled them.

[@lovegood141]

The thing is that her fans aren’t even crazy or mean . I literally hear nothing problematic about them, so I don’t understand why she would hate them unless she’s just purposely trying to make people not like her anymore

[@celestialbunny]

it must be the few bad ones that shine tbe most, at least to her. i've never heard anything about her fandom being particularly toxic, i think that's just what she focuses on. so it's seem like a bigger problem than what it is. bc every fandom of a celebrity, show, movie, etc will always have bad fans. but that's like the only thing she focuses on

[@ruminationstation4200]

​​@@celestialbunnyshe attracts trolls because she responds to them. You see it with anyone who does lives a lot. It's crazy she's so online and doesn't understand basic aspects of the internet. They go to places they know she is and spam her with hate and she feeds it so they keep coming back. They're not her fans, they're people who like being able to get a rise out of her.

[@hatsunemei3106]

Nah they're 100% mean, I remember that one time in 2022 when one of her conserts in Paraguay got cancelled because of a storm that destroyed thousands of houses and killed a lot of people and she threw a tantrum about "how no fans went to the hotel to see her" even though there was proof that a group of fans waited for HOURS to see her and she straight up ignored and went to a bar and even though people tried to point out in good way that she was in the wrong she kept saying that she didn`t give a fuck, and you what her fans? they started saying xenophobic slurs and that she didn`t do anything wrong. And that was one of the few times she showed how bad of a person she is and her fans defended her without questioning her actions

[@abby-a]

Her fans need to *stop* supporting her she is *very* ungrateful to her fans

[@lore1612]

i can't tell you how hard i was rooting for her rap era before all this

[@jackdean2537]

Didn’t she tweet something like “why y’all listening to Planet Her and Hot Pink” saying it’s “boring pop music and not good” when those albums are regarded as some of the best pop/rap albums of this decade and got her to super stardom? Idk why she would say that and it’s such a shame, because she is remarkably talented, she’s just becoming so unlikable..

[@vi_toria_]

the only thing she owes to her fans is respect because at the end of the day, if it weren't for them she wouldn't have gotten the success shes got, the awards, the support, the money. she may not love the fans since she doesn't know them, but she needs to be humble and recognize that you did not do your fame alone

[@brionnalane6231]

Thanks for this. Im not a super fan by any means and I dont get offended by celebrities/musicians often, but the cash grab tweet bugged me when i read it. You dont have to love all your work but it was unnecessary to diss people who supported it. Hot Pink was a big part of my third deployment to the UAE, which was the hardest i had ever worked at the time. Forget her. Oh! and Attention is mid......

[@tootietootie.8545]

😭😭 DAMN

[@cloudy-pepsi]

Also people on Twitter are saying that doja cat is playing a character..oh.. so the character she's playing is a nearly 30 year old woman who treats her fans like garbage, disrespect them and blocks people when they criticize her, calls underage kid a snake, complains about her music while crying and accepting the awards about how grateful she is for receiving the awards because of the music, a weird hypocrite, and lastly a grown woman telling her fans to get a job even though she's a high school dropout who goes on private chat rooms to talk to 30 Old white racist Men whom she tells that she doesn't like her black side... Hmm, That is such an interesting character..

[@celestialbunny]

and she's just "trolling" yeha i think at this point if she's saying the same shit over and over and over it's not a joke or character

[@va6632]

At this point I genuinely believe she is doing hard drugs. There's no way you can have a clear head and do all this shit.

[@Chartingthefall]

It's probably mental illness and drugs. Why does everyone assume drugs instead of mental illness?? I'm not a fan of her but these assumptions are p harmful.

[@artisticaquarius_]

She did coke

[@julesking1303]

she’s been talking about how rude it is when fans say she’s having a “mental breakdown” because she cut off her hair or shaved her eyebrows. And I wanna be clear when I say that I don’t want this to happen, but I do believe she might have an actual breakdown doing this upcoming tour. Not about fans, but from what I know, going on tour can be extremely stressful to musicians having a shift in their style or career, and she has previously talked about being burned out from doing so many performances and concerts. I genuinely don’t know how this tour is gonna go for her. I hope she’ll be ok, but I’m questioning it tbh

[@abigailwolden]

Thinking about returning my Doja cat tickets. I’m thinking it’s not going to be a good concert

[@ArtbyAyanna]

I just put mines up for sale🫤

[@Capibaracapibara1992]

she gonna be crying in a couple of months in a insta live about how her career is flopping

[@theravenofblack3872]

I think Doja needs like serious help

[@RicardodaSilvaRdS]

At first I thought she was being smart and using people's will to be outraged about everything she says/does on social media to get free promo but now Idk man. She is really coming off as mean spirited just for the hell of it and it's blowing up in her face.

[@Gabriel-br4qe]

It's not just mean and disrespectful behavior, she's legit straight up abusive and gaslighty towards her fans like wtf

[@gabrielle3650]

Telling people who gave you a job to get a job is so wild.

[@badgalirri]

I was best friends w a girl who acted very very similar to Doja in many ways. In the way of talking, posting, carrying herself, behaving. First time I saw Doja Cat in interview, I thought of my friend. She was diagnosed with ADHD and Schizophrenia. Some people just suffer from these disorders and it seems horrific to deal with. I am not diagnosing Doja of course I cannot do that, but it wouldnt surprise me if she had a similar situation. Im surprised tho how many people scream ”devil worshipper” before considering Schizophrenia . Just hope she can feel better soon. ❤️

[@Mar-pe9kx]

Not that it justifies her actions in any way, but she does seem like she's going through something. Reminds me when Amanda Bynes and Lindsay Lohan had social media and were posting some weird ass posts. Someone needs to disable her social media account before she says something she can't come back from.

[@rosalina2773]

True I think the public needs to stop assuming everything a celebrity does is a calculated action and taking their words so personally. Sometimes people are ill. Sometimes people have a mental break. She comes across to me as manic and antagonistic, and this personality shift happened rather rapidly. Hopefully she has real friends (not yes men) who will persuade her to get help if she isn’t well.

[@angiepangie2795]

It’s nice to see a comment / thread like this, I agree, everything celebs do and say get picked apart as if they’re free from mental health issues

[@stuff1784]

That’s a good point. It probably is legitimate severe mental illness and/or drug use that’s causing her to act this bizarre.

[@margarida6857]

I saw a comment saying that Doja said before that she has ADHD and is not medicated. My girlfriend has ADHD and because of her, I know how dysregulated someone's emotions can become because of it. It's not easy to live with ADHD and actually know yourself and what you feel, not what your dysregulated thoughts and emotions do. Also, Doja is on a contract which she can't escape and is overworked by it; I honestly can't imagine how she can have all those deadlines and expectations while not being medicated for her ADHD. Her fans have a right to feel hurt and the public to be weirded out, but I wish people would not assume everyone is disorder free.

[@angelinaoliver5587]

She doesn’t owe them love? Okay let’s be very honest here, where would she be without her fans? I know for a fact she’d still be broke if no one was showing her love and support the least she can do is show it back….

[@_moonstrucklover_9589]

Hm I disagree (respectfully). Doja cat or any celebrity do not owe their fans love. Like at all. Maybe they or in this case doja cat can show that they are grateful for the support and continue to put out good music 🤷🏾 Also if my English is bad I apologize its not my 1st language 😅

[@jinx6946]

That’s like EXPECTING a birthday gift when you gifted somebody something for their birthday. I do think the favor should be returned but that’s literally being entitled asf. The reason someone gifted you something should be because they wanted to & wanted to show you love/appreciation/wtv not because they’re suppose to. Doja is not obligated to show anybody love for shit lol she’s still thankful even if she wants to act like she isn’t when she lashes out but fans need to stop acting entitled to reciprocation. If you don’t like the way she acts then don’t like her.

[@ritchieashley8843]

@@jinx6946but music isn’t a gift, it’s ultimately a business at the end of the day. If the fans, as consumers, pour money and time into something, it’s fair for them (to an extent), to want something in return. I don’t like Stan culture, but let’s not pretend they’re overreacting by wanting something from an artist they spend hundreds of dollars and hours on, which directly benefits said artist.

[@jinx6946]

⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@ritchieashley8843 and what do you think happens behind business? To act like there isn’t unfairness behind it is complete asinine. And I still don’t agree with her reciprocating the same energy bc she alr said she doesn’t want to be famous and wants to go back to being unknown on SoundCloud doing wtv she wants, the consumers made her who she maybe dreamed of being but inevitably now sees that she doesn’t want to, she never told them that they were obligated to do so as it was their own choices. At the end of the day they’re still gonna be pouring such time and money into her so it doesn’t matter.

[@emixxixx3001]

@@jinx6946ass kisser

[@DoingStuffWithDiana]

After the first people said she was shady in chat rooms but with only witness testimony, I let it slide. Then she said we were fools for liking her music. Then she talks shit about her fans trying to call themselves kittens 😂 Bruh I feel like she is exhausting to be around irl, like you gotta step on eggshells because as much as you love hanging out with her and being her friend, anything you do is open to critique of how it affected her. It’s exhausting. I’ve had friends like that and lemme tell you those fRiEnDsHipS don’t last long before I lose my shit 😂

[@sushibunsxo]

THANK YOU so much for 4:24. Telling her fans to get a job is INSANE. We clearly make money if we're buying your merch. She's so unserious.

[@nishi.mp3425]

She had been showing this behavior since Paraguay, at that time everyone said that she did not owe love to anyone but that at least she should be more kind and considerate with the people who supported her.

[@lisag.4054]

I think Doja really does want to quit music but her contracts and commitments wouldn’t let her, So she’s trying to make herself not marketable so her label will let her go. They won’t let her go if people still love her. So she’s trying to get ppl to hate her.

[@FirstNameLastName-gq4tb]

4:42 “miss high school dropout” 💀💀💀

[@_Sumeyo_]

Seriously, she gets mad at her true supporters for liking her previous craft, making her look snobbish. Yikes, Girl, it looks like the town really had the brush all along to paint her red in cancellation. Likewise, it's funny how she always says she's not mad yet continues to reply to hateful comments. I get that she's a self-proclaimed troll, but this is not it. Anyway, who knows? This is probably due to her trying to break free from her toxic music contract with D.R. Luke or J-Cyrus, manipulating her. Man, Doja sure tends to make poor decisions, but that's on her at the end of the day.

[@Skysthelimit212]

Her "quirkiness" always felt forced to me

[@cheshirerose2001]

Anytime an artist disrespects their fans I hope their career has a downfall Like these are the people who made you.

[@Sun.ce.214]

At this point doja needs to retire because she's clearly constantly annoyed with the industry and her fans. I'm sure she's made more than enough money to the point where she never needs to make another album again

[@OzanaDivine]

She could be a model if she wanted to,go into fashion and beauty or write for other artists lowkey. You're right. There are other options. Loosing a brand deal because of wanting to constantly troll people is crazy to me.

[@ImaniVersus]

Right like “Attention” wasn’t any different from what we’ve heard before and it sounded like a Doja Cat song with a different beat. She just trolls too hard online.

[@monovatherealest]

I've been a stan since 2020. I sent defense threads to people spreading misinformation, I've reported people for making racist/antisemitic remarks about her. I always gave her the benefit of the doubt. I have stood by Doja for so long and seeing her take her own fans' dedication for granted really just made me feel like I've been wasting my time wanting to support her. This isn't even really the breaking point for me, I already felt some sort of way about her mocking Amber Heard's testimony so hearing that she's perfectly fine with dating (and possibly MARRYING) someone who has admitted to being a groomer and using his platform to take advantage of his female fans really made me feel too uncomfortable to keep up with her as frequently, especially considering she is cool with women who have publicly suffered at the hands of men (ex. Megan thee Stallion). Everything she's been saying/doing in the past 2 months have been so contradictory and plain hypocritical that I really don't think I'll ever be a stan again, stanning her and being apart of her fan community really helped me through some emotionally tough times and it truly irks me to see her act out against us like this.

[@va6632]

She made fun of Amber?

[@catscut1060]

​@@va6632 yea, she made a TikTok making fun of Amber talking about her dog but deleted it a few hours after the fact

[@PurpleNoir]

Dang I didn’t know any of that, i’m horrified yikes. I hope she changes for the better someday.

[@tay2944]

My opinion girl is to not be a stan to anyone. You can like the music you can listen to it all you want but at the end of the day these people don’t know you and just want your money.

[@sanada-sama8303]

​@@catscut1060A lot of people made fun of Amber Heard for being an abusive gf. Thats not shocking

[@ZiMakeUp]

Sending her positive vibes. I hope she's happy!

[@ilistentoallkindsofmusic]

i've seen ppl on twitter comparing this issue to parasocial relationship and may i just say its so stupid. parasocial relationship is a problem but its not a problem here. i understand doja doesnt wanna do fanservice and thats okay. the thing is, she's just so disrespectful. yes she doesnt owe her fans shit, but it doesnt take much to be just a good person. like, have some basic human decency. be grateful, try to be humble. idk whats going on behind the scenes, but i dont think she should be treating her fans like this when in reality they just want the best for her.

[@MalcolmAblacc]

The problem is she’s not only isolating and disrespecting her new pop fans , she’s disrespecting us fans who supported her before she was big and genuinely loved her. She’s definitely gone crazy and it’s sad because she has the potential to become the biggest star but the problem is she doesn’t want the attention but she made her fan base on social media. I don’t understand how these new artist come up on social media then when they blow Up they act like they don’t need it anymore but expect to still be relevant . We saw it with Azealia , Dababy , Kanye , one day people get tired of being upset and they lose interest . Y’all saw how quick Dababy fell off and he was on top and had the game in a chokehold . People think they invincible but Dojas core audience is people in my age range and I can’t speak for the new generation but my generation generally aren’t so pressed on an artist or give a fuck what they do

[@harunoloochie1264]

This is so sad to see, she used to be so great and love-able but now she’s just self sabotaging at this point.

[@cloed0ll]

I always found her weird. The way she's treating her fans really just proves my point

[@420bae]

lowkey pains me bc ive been a fan since like 2015 when i found her in middle school and have loved her/listened to her since and now this makes me really sad what happened to my doja kitty

[@donjai9366]

I agree with Honest about Doja Cat & how she does not owe anyone anything pertaining to her personal life & she does not owe anyone love. However Doja Cat has been doing things recently that are questionable & a bit strange on her social media & do understand how that could turn her fans off. I do agree w/ everything Honest said in this video.

[@sophiaisabelle01]

Doja Cat seems to have found herself spiraling these days. Planet Her was an extraordinary album. It's just unfortunate to see her in a situation that feels unfavorable on her behalf.

[@maganmagan9422]

I like your videos man. You seem to share your honest thoughts on things.

[@tay2944]

This is why I don’t believe in being a stan. I will never go to bat for these people because I don’t know them and really they just want my money. I got ate up in the comment section a week ago for saying, Doja Cat hates her fans and her stans were attacking me and my looks all for a girl who doesn’t even appreciate them.

[@ren2896]

So she's saying her and sza Collab was mediocre and downgrade their winning.

[@kleicat724]

I think Doja is the pure example of the danger of the overuse of social media when you're a celeb

[@brittanymcclellan8748]

My thing is in 2023 the price of fame is nothing new. It’s no secret what games comes with and what you’ll have to deal with we’ve seen it time and time again. So for anyone seeking a career in the music industry shouldn’t be surprised when they get famous and have to deal with fame. At some point it becomes ungreatful. There are countless other artsiest would kill to be in doja and a lot of other positions but they take it for granted

[@LILGHETTI]

The label that spent millions promoting those albums 😐

[@elisabeths9076]

She’s going through some type of crisis atp💀

[@lovediedin2009]

its true she doesnt owe her fans anything but shitting on them just for existing ain't it. we dont owe her anything either

[@AmalDevYT]

What u expect from women who tries to normalise cheating with her songs