HOW TO BE & STAY CLASSY | The TRUE Meaning of Elegance & Class | Dominique Sachse

So many of you have requested that I share my thoughts on the topic of class and I am so glad we are on the same page. These are my top 8 tips for keeping it classy in a world that seems to have lost its desire to. I hope you subscribe to my channel and come back for my new videos every Thursday.
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[@sarnrse]

My "be classy" rule - turn off your cell phone when you are socializing with others. Don't take calls during social lunches or visits. Be there for the person you are with.

[@mommabear5059]

sarnrse I wish I could give your comment a million likes. The cell phone has become a pariah to good social graces.

[@lovespurpleflowers]

I totally area with the cell phone discussion, I rarely engage anyone when they always glued to their phone!

[@KasiaZ]

Exactly! Good point!

[@jostephens6080]

I am a school principal and this is something we are focusing on in 2019! Great point that you make.

[@SoAnesu]

sarnrse be present in the moment!

[@rebecaelizondo9880]

Values and morals are always classy

[@Hazem_al-Attar]

That's right

[@singingbananas9393]

Everyone has those. Unfortunately we don't all agree on the good ones.

[@Dablkwid0w2008]

Every time

[@countryboi6089]

Not necessarily. Let's just say the RIGHT values and morals are always classy because EVERYONE has values and morals.

[@virgominerva2665]

You are so right, Ms. Elizondo. I think you would love the scene from the show "Designing Women" where and when "Julia Sugarbaker" explains having morals and principles. It in season 1.

[@brokenwing2005]

In my opinion, one of the main signs of class is how you treat others, especially those of lower status than yourself. A woman who is rude to the wait staff shows a lack of class. So does a woman who treats people above her on the organizational chart well & those below her on the org chart as if they are beneath her notice. I strive to treat everyone with equal kindness & respect. It also shows class & respect to learn people’s names & use them.

[@celeshite6433]

"Lower status" 🙄

[@deepadcruz6483]

Nice concept

[@twinklestar333]

Lower status??

[@harleyquiinnnn]

VERY IMPORTANT

[@cameliap1146]

@@twinklestar333 : yes . Lower status. Is the appropriate word. We are not equals. Like it or not. And you know it.

[@akikothyn4824]

"If you're not liking the friends that you're hanging around with, if you feel like the wrong guy is showing up all the time, if you feel like the doors are closing when it comes to career opportunities, might I ask you to look within? Instead of blaming what's out? Look to yourself and ask, "What am I doing to draw this?"...Is there something i can project...You are a magnet... Thank you for those words.

[@eefmorel3985]

I love You and your video's so very much! You are beautiful inside and outside I m learning so much from You!

[@angelinazru82]

That was ‘gold’.

[@TravelingMissD]

🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@GlamouratziGurl]

Love the term “it’s not my favorite” rather than I hate it! Great advice

[@littlemisstwiggy2302]

Hate really is an ugly word. No matter how it's used imo.

[@KL-bg8fi]

@@littlemisstwiggy2302 True

[@KL-bg8fi]

👍

[@dawncross7644]

Joann Wright my granddaughter says that. We’ve picked it up and use it often. Her comment is “that’s not my favorite” and she will use it.

[@Aurora9990]

I like that.

[@ta3970]

I was raised to be exactly the type of woman that you describe. The only thing that I would like to add to this is to be sure to not judge others harshly by these rules we never know what a person is going through. I am sure you already understand this but sometimes there can be beauty in imperfection. At the end of the day a good heart is the classiest thing of all. Thank you so much.

[@ta3970]

Just from reading your comment be assured you are radiating class in its purest form. There's not a doubt in my mind you are a Masterpiece Madame.

[@MissBeeeBeee]

A Latitude Adjustment Thank you for saying this. I was starting to resent her "one size fits all" suggestions, which sound more like preferences anyway. Thank you very much for sharing your story. I hope a lot of people read your comment.

[@maryjaneferguson30]

A Latitude Adjustment I very much understand and can related with you...I too, have a chronic illness...and alittle friend who goes everywhere with me... (not a service dog)....just me!! You are beautiful...

[@kimonaNo1]

This is exactly the kind of thing I meant in my comment. :) I wish you lots of luck :)

[@dellahicks7231]

A Latitude Adjustment ~ I have lived with Chronic Pain for approx. 20 years now, my purple crutches have been my legs for 6+ years, so I think I understand a little of what you are going through. I heard what Dominique said, I also read your comments, and while I hear Dominique saying our looks make an impression, I think you have to take all of her points as a whole. While your clothing would not be your first choice, I am betting it is clean, pressed and without wrinkles. You mentioned that while it is difficult, you have your nails painted. You said you put a smile on your face daily (And isn't that a struggle some days?) you are the epitome of class. I would hope that Dominique and others allow for the fact that class is also tailored to the individual, and that we cannot all come at it from the same vantage point. You continue to do the best you can, I wish you pain free days.

[@rosacellulosa4460]

"You are a magnet What you put out is what you are gonna get back in return" Omg, I'm gonna carry these words with me.

[@mariasimion7443]

That doesn't actually make sense because a magnet attracts the opposite...

[@danarzechula3769]

@@mariasimion7443 haha I was just waiting for someone to point that out...

[@katie.kovtun]

what do we do now??

[@harleyquiinnnn]

when does she say that?

[@Hannah2265]

@@harleyquiinnnn go to 13:50 she says it there

[@karensholar9021]

Class and morals are so rare these days. We need this! I LOVE THIS! She is spot on!

[@debrahouston2884]

I cannot agree more, and in many cases, these are intertwined.

[@lyngartin318]

May I add a ninth? Be a good listener. It has been my experience that people have lost the ability to really listen to each other. Close your mouth, and open your ears. To me, being classy also means being able to listen with compassion and empathy, which ties into your point about knowledge. When you employ a robust listening aptitude, there is no end to what you can learn.

[@jdb123ize]

Lyn Gartin Yes!

[@emilyennulat-lustine5645]

SOOO very true!

[@pa2fl1996]

Very true! It seems now days people aren't listening to what you are saying, they're already thinking of a reply before you even finish, you can see it on their face.

[@LouLou-bu2th]

Great point, so true!

[@juliewarburton9411]

Lyn Gartin I

[@katieharris412]

You have addressed one of my concerns. A woman can have a perfect posture, be beautifully dressed and coiffed, but if her language is vulgar none of the rest matters.

[@karensetchfield3495]

Katie Harris I totally agree. Certain, beautiful on the outside, actresses are a prime example.

[@teresafraher7595]

My goodness! This video should be mandatory viewing for women of all ages. Thank you for telling us what we all need to hear!

[@queentinadoire6931]

You are 100% accurate.

[@Boddissatva]

Yes and why isn’t this all over social media. Bring back the class!

[@jenc775]

And we need to teach manners to our girls and boys again. Manners are just a public display of respect after all.

[@rosecirigliano5706]

Forget just women!! Everyone. Please!

[@sujathademel8698]

@@queentinadoire6931 qqq

[@colleen2513]

This is a absolutely a much needed video in this day and age. It’s sad that we’ve lost the romance and classiness of previous generations. Thank you for this

[@llcoolg52001]

Maybe it’s lost only because the older generation failed to pass it on! So in a way maybe we should refrain from blaming the younger generation for not acting right and blame ourselves (parents) instead🤔🤷🏽‍♀️

[@MsLadyLilian]

yes and people from another countries can see absence of romance from man from here

[@maureenlangerfeld8489]

Maybe there has been as much resistance to learn has there has been failure to teach

[@sarahkeith9392]

I am 73 and have always felt that I was a gracious, happy and classy woman then, my husband died, I let things go, had some medical issues and am in a state of transition. I am so grateful for this video as it has hit home and made me aware that I need to make some major changes to become all of the woman that I have been and need to be again. Thank you Dominique, this was special.

[@lovesdogs8616]

Sarah, I don't think we can ever lose class if we have it, sometimes life can contribute to our misplacing things. Finding yourself again can be a joyous event.

[@Mexicobeanpole]

Hello Sarah. I’m so sorry to hear about your husband. You’ve been through the hardest time of a person’s life. You are still in there. It’s time to look after yourself, because you deserve it!!

[@asknise]

Bless you Sarah Keith. You have been through one of the hardest things this life has to offer but you still know who you are. Sometimes we get off track and lose sight of ourselves. Please take care of yourself, keep the wonderful memories you have and work on the things that are in your power to mend.

[@rebeccalott7675]

That was a very classy comment. We hit hard spots in life that take us back a little - and it’s ok to give ourselves the grace to go through these times - whatever it takes. Get back up, it will be a new adventure.

[@theresachatty]

sarah keith I'm so sorry for your loss. I wish you all the best as you navigate through this transition. My thoughts are with you. Take good care of yourself.

[@sranyak]

As the saying goes, money can't buy you class, but elegance can be learned.”

[@blancaruiz561]

Agree with you.

[@pamelawolf313]

Be punctual and prompt. I value my time and other peoples time.

[@sunshine-bs2jx]

So agree x

[@terryannmartinez3368]

I feel someone who is always late, Dosnt respect you. Kinda selfish.

[@crystalsaylor1532]

I just found your page on KZbin and I’ve enjoyed your comments.

[@lisaryherd4685]

Pamela Wolf Yes, I’m getting better at this!!

[@downeyjr4423]

Yes, so so important

[@karimahayhasnaoui8353]

My be classy rule is : never chew food with the mouth open. Always look at the people when they talk to you. Never interrupt someone speaking.

[@PPNanaHime]

In some culture, chewing food with noise and kinda open mouth is the way to appreciate the food.

[@jenc775]

@@PPNanaHime When in Rome do as the Romans do. In some cultures you're correct, but here in the USA it's just gross.

[@LunaPaloma77]

@@jenc775 It's not cute here in the Caribbean and South America either.

[@vgpurple6887]

@@jenc775 😅🤣

[@joybeum7177]

Fine, as long as you are within THAT culture! Most of us are not.

[@jandtfurman5192]

I wish the entertainment industry would celebrate more class and less trash.

[@chunkychica1376]

Tell it!!! Tell it!!! 👍X Billion

[@117giraffe-doc]

JandT Furman I FULLY agree.

[@BeccaisjustAwesome]

AKA Cardi B -.- it has to stop

[@PattymacMakes]

So true. Thank you for saying it. 😘

[@minervaf3097]

The problem there is that you are even watching the entertainment industry. And even worse than that - that actually expect anything positive or good to come out of it!!!!

[@AScrapOfKindness]

My husband of 42 years said something profoundly beautiful about me, to me, earlier today. This video piggybacks on it and actually made me weep. As a child, I admired class, wanted it, and made it my goal. I continue to work on being all the beautiful things humans are capable of; however, I sometimes feel alone, one of the last surviving dinosaurs walking towards extinction. He reminded me that it is noticed, appreciated, and loved. You have made me realize I am not alone, but in good company. Thank you...

[@Th3lite]

ScrapofKindness If you feel like being classy is rare, take someone under your wing, coach and help them to develop the same behavior.

[@kimdiedrich9712]

There are so many good women on this page.

[@nurtured-channel2953]

Keep it Classy... you are not Alone🌱👊😚

[@constanceyoussef8535]

Had been having the same thoughts for some years now , now we can be of like minds , nice .

[@patriciasmith4627]

Dominique is a very classy beautiful lady. She demonstrates elegance in all she does. I enjoy all her videos.

[@WineAndRoses9526]

I’m watching this two years after the fact. And this is still current, accurate & relevant. I feel you said this on point and with lot of heart. Thanks

[@debrahouston2884]

It is a timeless message.

[@AshleyCroft]

Thank you Dominique! I accidentally discovered you on KZbin and absolutely love your videos and tutorials! I have one thing to add to your list on being classy: don't interrupt people and let them finish their sentence. That is so annoying to me when I'm constantly interrupted and never allowed to finish my sentence or thought. God have us two ears to listen more and only one mouth to speak! :)

[@jerimiller3017]

So true! My twenty-year-old granddaughter confided in me recently that she had so few friends; I wanted to tell her that friendship is not just talking AT somebody, but also stopping to LISTEN to what they have to say! Constantly interrupting people indicates to them that YOU are all that is important, and that you have no interest in the person with whom you are supposedly conversing!

[@JEtt4108]

Me too! She is great!!

[@happytraveller2122]

Wish my husband would stop interrupting. So annoying

[@sampuatisamuel9785]

@@happytraveller2122 Hmm maybe you talk too much and he can't get a word in

[@lindamcmahon9841]

Being interrupted ticks me off so much. I hate when I catch myself doing it. I apologize right away.

[@thedisconnectedwife4165]

My Italian grandmother told me one thing when I was a teenager that has stuck with me my entire life and I still hold to what she taught me. "When you walk out your door, how you dress and conduct yourself in public is a direct reflection of the level of respect you have for those around you"

[@LDM805]

I am going to use that. Love that!

[@foreverXcinderella]

My grandma's advice was "A lady never leaves the house without lipstick and earrings." Maybe old fashioned but it was the thing that stuck with me. Lol.

[@mov1ngforward]

The Disconnected Wife It's how we appear to the world...simply put. Your grandmother got it.

[@matthewgallien77]

Disconnected Wife, I would like to add to your grandmother's statement and it is one that I share with others who've asked why should I put for the effort in presenting myself to the world. "How you present yourself to the world, is an indicator of how you feel about yourself and the level of respect that you have for yourself and that will set the precedence of the treatment and respect that you will expect to receive. If you present yourself looking polished and put together, you will exude confidence, which is an energy that other's will notice. If you put zero to minimal effort into your appearance and how you present yourself to the world, that too will be perceived as the level of effort you will put into all areas of your life, and you may out on opportunities that you are passionate about or are qualified to apply for, but are overlooked soley based on your self-presentation.. You only get one shot to make a good impression; make it the right one, the first time. Life is not a dress rehearsal! You are the lead in the movie of "You", for which there is no understudy!" I can appreciate the videos that Dominique has created as a pathway for those who need and are searching for makeup tips, hair-style ideas, or clothing styles. It's something that Dominique enjoys doing, it appears that many others have enjoyed following her video logs (given her 576 thousand followers) and to always keep in mind that one's style is subjective and not applicable to everyone.

[@annebooyse1112]

and for yourself.☺

[@tanishap6760]

One of the best videos on KZbin. Please don’t change your style of instruction for the disagreeable naysayers. Unfortunately, we now live in a day where everyone hates to be corrected or instructed on anything. They are offended, which is in itself unattractive. As a young woman looking to improve my style, I appreciate your tips. Thanks for your dignified presentation

[@jostephens6080]

totally agree - nice work Dominique :)

[@makeupdarling6171]

I couldn't agree more, Natalia.

[@lindasorensen8497]

Absolutely keep these kinds of videos coming!!

[@sunny_dhende6289]

I concur, she's one of the classiest ladies on you tube! I❤Dominique 💯 I consider her my sister!✌

[@margovlahinich5979]

More class and sophistication are absolutely needed in today’s society. I am a real estate broker and I am running a team of agents. The one thing I strongly teach is personal appearance and conversation to new recruits. Since I am in the New York metropolitan area, leggings and jeans are not allowed on my team. Personal grooming is vital!

[@lilbabytears]

Im horrible with cursing and being vulgar. I really strive to change this. Im starting today.

[@globalmuffin2]

express yourself and don't change a thing for others' sake.

[@nihilisticbarbie]

I'm gonna start as well. I like how there's people that get offended that you're making the choice to stop 😂 no one says you have to stop too! People are very silly

[@janegordon-chauvet1816]

Hahaah!!! Me too! I'm terrible!

[@kattodoggo3868]

Me too. You're not alone Sis. It's not about changing for other people. I would never do it but i cursing is just a bad habit.

[@maryannking960]

Thank you. I'm on a self improvement journey. I was injured at work a year ago December. My self esteem, among other things have deminished. I'm unable to work in the medical field I'm so used to taking care of others. I have felt lost, very lost. I'm happy to say I've started this New Year with a new me. I value and appreciate you and your knowledge. I'm enjoying waking up and have started an exercise routine within my physical limits. Eating better again. I'm taking care of me... Inside and out. You inspire me. Thank you again. You have made a positive difference in my life. I've needed you. Glad I found you on here.

[@debrahouston2884]

Sending you prayers for healing...and the knowledge that God is in the midst...You have begun to "realign and reorient" yourself...I have no doubt that as you seek Him along your journey, He will light the way to new facets of your life, areas where you and your gifts are needed! Blessings in the midst! 💞🎆💞

[@olgasmith5398]

Proverbs 31 that's a classic woman!! God bless you all!😘

[@lounic0216]

Olga Smith Amen!

[@djshockafrica4330]

Yes and Amen!

[@consiouslyignorant2989]

AMEN

[@stephrose7540]

Olga Smith Omgosh yes

[@biancahotca3244]

The best!

[@adri2060]

Well said! I think I have also learned over the years that another classy move is to not over speak, over state something just to be heard. A lot of times it serves us well to listen more, nod in acknowledgment, keep eye contact of course and speak carefully, wait a beat or two, don’t be too excited to contribute. Blurting out and bluntness are definitely not classy moves.

[@enoughnonymity]

I am not your regular demographic because I am a teen, but I found this video so helpful!

[@candysmith8724]

It's for everyone...good to learn these things as a young lady. People notice!

[@classyladyangie31]

Yes, do not loose yourself in this over sensual generation. Being classy is the real beauty of a woman, from teen to the 90’s. This beauty will take you places you want to go. 💖😉

[@saraimonet8588]

Same😭

[@TravelingMissD]

MissGlam, you are ahead of your time Sweetie! I am a young 64 and this advice is timeless. Now go out and make your life a great one and please remember to be true to YOURSELF! 🤗🤗🙄

[@enoughnonymity]

@@TravelingMissD Woohoo! Thank you! You too, you rockstar!

[@jeanwarner7244]

Thank you for the very poignant suggestions. Two years ago I decided to give up swearing, as I realized it had begun to creep into my dialogue way more than I cared for. It really changed my life and made me much more aware of the content of my conversation. I sometimes think people go to the four-letter words too quickly because they really don’t have anything of value to say. NOT classy! Try it, gals. You’ll likeit!

[@mcperez529]

Jean Warner hey what do you dowhen you feel like doing so? Do you use any alternative word or something?

[@nihilisticbarbie]

I'm going to try that as well! Wish me luck, because I'm a very verbal person and just say what's on my mind 😀

[@Aurora9990]

@She’s so Lucky Ha ha.

[@Aurora9990]

I have never been comfortable with that. I think because I knew a few adults who did that when I was young, and it made a bad impression on me. I think the swearing thing starts young. I don't think someone starts doing that as an adult. Also, if you hang around other people who do, you can unconsciously, pick it up. Then it can become a bad habit. I think if you go to college, enter the workforce, you realize, that it is not the professional thing to do. You want to be seen as intelligent and taken seriously-- bad language doesn't help that. Also, when you have children, people reconsider their language. They will parrot you! And, in the most inopportune times. Lol

[@annaarrington]

I absolutely agree! I don't swear & the women I work with, not the men, but the women will say some curse word & then apologize to me by name! I have never said anything to them about swearing, but I just don't and people notice & respect you for it.

[@tmb4100]

Doing the very best you can with the resources available to you while also being the very best person you can be, regardless of your size, your personal situation or the balance in your bank account, is what classy is to me. Very little else really matters.

[@carolying4340]

I think showing interest in another person and what they have to say shows class.

[@kslaw9636]

Ding ding ding!

[@thinkforyourselfjohn3163]

No doubt and a tender caring ❤.

[@YenzChan]

I do that everyday!❤️

[@kgitto1]

I might add to watch the alcohol intake to your list. An occasional cocktail is fine but it is hard to be classy after over drinking. Just a thought. Just was in Houston and new to your channel.

[@skyloveup]

I would say spread 2 apart then stop.

[@mskatefish]

So true... I’ve been guilty of this ... just out of nerves and low tolerance to booze unfortunately and it’s so off putting to potential partners

[@deniseadorno4544]

Totally agree.

[@dinapreuss1922]

Dominique what a lovely video. Thanks for sharing this. It's definitely a topic that completely breaks my heart. My favorite memories of my grandfather are of him tipping his hat to women and of him standing whenever a woman entered the room. I raised three sons who thankfully learned well to seek out women who behave with class. I'm trying to instill class into my nine beautiful grandchildren. When they sleep over, we eat on china! I want them to know what it is to appreciate and care for expensive things. And to know that they're worth being respected enough that others value them, etc. Cheers for this wonderful message!

[@cUser691]

@Dina Preuss Excellent message you’re imparting to your grandchildren. These messages impact their lives for the better. Also, it was golden reading about your own gradfather’s manners.

[@debrahouston2884]

Cheers to you, Dina Preuss, and to holding your standards HIGH! Your grandchildren are so fortunate to have you in their lives, as you were to have your precious grandfather! We learn by our experiences, and those childhood years are sooo important, so foundational -- yet fleeting! Carpe diem!

[@melissasnotsureaboutthis]

Sitting here in my truck wearing my joggers and baggy sweatshirt, not having washed my face in two days, not having brushed my hair at all, with coffee spilled down the front of me, no socks, Ugg boots, having just dropped my daughter and her friend off at school and watching this video. Pretty sure I can do better than this and I appreciate the push.

[@auntiecc]

Melissa Key Class and being a lady has nothing to do with how you look. I met a homeless lady the other day and she exuded class and grace. You are a mother, probably a tired and overworked one. Be who God designed you to be....doing for your daughter is selfless...and that is a great attribute. God bless.

[@EtreTocsin]

I totally get that! But use the moments you have to yourself for yourself! I started making my bed everyday, doing a skin care routine and light ( very light ) excersise and I feel so much better! I also pamper my hair with henna and indigo once a month. Find what you like and don't feel guilty for treating yourself...And when you feel well, your daughter and everyone around you will feel better also. Trust me, kids love it when Mommy is happy! Best regards.

[@maryjaneferguson30]

Melissa Key your daughter will always love you....thats the very most important thing.....i bet you look cute, we all have those days...if we will admit it...

[@celestegodsey5689]

Yes, a push. There are always people who will tell you that you are fine how you are, but few who will push you to improve, even excell. People like Dominique push us. Thank you.

[@marynichols8504]

Yes, for me here too. : )

[@abgorden]

This should be in school/college curriculum! Love this!

[@rmainero1014]

Or perhaps taught by your parent?

[@terryhenson3350]

, excellent point. That is where it should begin!@@rmainero1014

[@i-said-that8539]

Absolutely! What ever happened to home economic & sewing classes?

[@juliemcknight7150]

I came across your videos today, and I love how confident and elegant you are. Thank you for your tips! I completely agree that class is evaporating from our communities. One example is people wearing pajamas in public. It’s so odd to me.

[@deborahstone4201]

Class on the outside starts with a good supportive bra. Having the girls lifted and contained makes a woman look younger, leaner and more professional.

[@youtuberfanz4582]

I'm 19 and really want to be a classy lady rather than "vulgar" like I see in the people around me... I just wish that there was a video that showed what it looks like and not just talked about it. Or like a school near me that could pin-point what I'm doing wrong.

[@annaarrington]

You may be just 19, but you are wise beyond your years. Young people need mentors to emulate how to do things in life correctly. ONE thing you can do is be mindful of what you watch. As you watch, you become changed into what you see. Garbage in, garbage out is a simple way to say that. Watch this woman's videos, you will see how she carries herself, and you will begin to see how "it's done". Choose the people you spend time with wisely. Humans were designed to model. There is a lot to the old saying, "monkey see, monkey do" we do that without thinking about it. But you are smart enough to ask the right questions. I wish you well young lady!!

[@rhondaanthony12]

You are already classy just by wanting to know “HOW”....

[@FashionByPaige]

I’m 19 as well! I think these videos will really help.

[@fmcw43]

Subscribe to ‘school of affluence’ on KZbin as well as the lovely Dominique here. - it is great for classy tips. It’s kind of geared to mixing in affluent society but Anna Bey gives fab tips on dressing and acting in a classy way x

[@christiannail1749]

The things you see people do that you do not like, just continue not doing them. Also, don't be mean to others... All will pay off.

[@MindfulMidlife]

I agree with all that you said-I would add to not think so highly of ourselves that we make others feel inferior. If someone makes you feel better about yourself you probably just encountered a classy person.

[@xxxmindblockxxx]

Yes!

[@litghost5427]

Absolutely

[@trentmiles5554]

You are so right about us fixing ourselves on the inside instead of blaming others for our shortcomings. Be aware of yourself and be willing to step back and take a good hard look at the people around us and we may need to make some adjustments. I personally put God first and he helps me in all situations.

[@vivienfiedlernetoth6137]

I find all the tips important to know and act to them, but the most important part was the last message! Self-reflection is key to improving ourselfs and our lifes. I loved this video, Dominique!

[@AR-xi5hi]

When I think of class or being classy I think of one word “respect” for oneself and others, it’s that simple! Everything else can be attained. Great video Dominique. I agree with many here who have noted that you are a classy lady!

[@debrahouston2884]

True.

[@jonirondeau9399]

I am a 36 year old mom of 4 kids ages 10 and under. 2 of my sons are autistic so sometimes I'm just tired. Your videos always serve as an encouragement for me to not get too tired to stay on top of looking and being my best. I appreciate that. Thank you. 😊

[@eileenkillen6475]

Joni Rondeau I am sending you blessings Joni, I also have a beautiful son who has a diagnosis of Aspergers syndrome, he is 18 now and living on his own. I get very tired and overwhelmed with his anxiety and demands, that being said I make a conscious effort to be thoughtful of others, I see positives when I practice this and it sustains me spiritually. God bless you on your reading your little ones.😇🌼🤗

[@eileenkillen6475]

Rearing your little ones!!!!

[@jonirondeau9399]

Thank you, Eileen! I appreciate your kind words. The Lord bless you and give you strength as you minister to your son. 😊

[@mommywood1]

Take care of yourselves ladies. Taking pride in your appearance is such an esteem booster.

[@blancaruiz561]

Yes is very truth. Thank you.

[@andreaviel7572]

Classy women are kind. If we all make an effort to say or do something kind every day, our society would be better. An act of kindness has a rippling effect.

[@jeannetteburgess3516]

I love that you mentioned thank you notes. I was taught to write them, I taught my daughter to write them. As a matter of fact, when it came to presents, we couldn’t use or play with it until the note was written. The thing about a thank you note is, you can’t go wrong. When in doubt, write one anyway. No one will criticize you for writing one.

[@downeyjr4423]

"You can't play with it until you write the thank you note" if that's not an incentive to write it,I don't know what is!! Genius!!

[@happytraveller2122]

Absolutely… always write notes. They seem to be appreciated- on the rare time I receive one, I love them

[@jstewart3799]

So true, understated simple basics such as writing a thank you card or note is a sign of class. It not only shows appreciation but the receiver can keep the item and revisit it for a little bit of comfort. Traditional values made society a much better world to live in.

[@selectshelley]

Spot on. Like it or not, this is social reality. How we look, starting with good posture; our manners, most noticeably table manners; and our command of the English language are how we are reviewed and whether or not we get a second chance, have a door of opportunity open, and catch the eye of that certain someone.

[@karenburke1100]

From a mother and educator of high school students, I want to thank you for your insight. I found myself shaking my head in agreement as you spoke. I don't know how many times I have given this same speech to so many students, especially during prom season and upon graduations. Many young ladies do not understand the importance of being classy and how it will make a positive impact in their lives. Sadly, they have never been exposed to positive behavior, thus their behavior emulates what they have seen and been taught. As a mother of a son, we also need to teach our young men how to be gentlemen (another video)! Again, thank you for being a positive role model to young women, and reminding us ALL what classy really is!

[@kristincurfman4231]

Karen Burke I too raised sons to be gentleman. But it seems that the girls nowadays do not appreciate guys with good manners who show them respect. It seems they would rather be with the vulgar boys that end up treating them badly. Sad.

[@janemcgrath4907]

Karen Burke A positive roll model is not ageist.

[@ndlkdan6213]

Thank you for bringing back the class and the sophistication. I love it

[@denisec8914]

Thank you so very much for your videos and all you do to help educate us and help us to improve. I married young and have fallen below my own high standards, losing myself and forgetting how to speak and eat in public. I'm 61 and on my own self-improvement mission.

[@evecrabapple8413]

I loved every single point you made. As a millennial myself I completely agree about what you said. A society cannot function at its highest ideals unless we communicate and show respect to each other in ways that bring out the highest in ourselves and others.

[@samanthatheencourager]

I think there is beauty in simplicity! I think it’s classy to also keep your life simple and devoid of clutter!

[@kenny9871]

Her look itself is just pure Class

[@alexismurshed6334]

This video never goes out of date. I love watching this video and I especially like what you say about looking within. I have been fortunate in drawing few classy friends who really project goodness. Never gossips and always open to feedback and I think that speaks volumes when it comes to class.

[@crbohannon]

Preach Dom! We do need to keep it classy. If I were to add one it would be "put the phone down and talk to people around you". Thank you for the videos! Love them!

[@Lisa_Uncensored]

I’m not sure how people took this video so wrong. It’s about a total package and appearance is actually very important. It shows that you value yourself. People initially are drawn to someone from the presentation and are then more willing or not to get to know the individual. She discusses the inside part very well.

[@thetonibrelandagency3477]

Indeed. I agree with you.

[@melvina628]

I heard the same thing.

[@kp-tq1fw]

Because of their own frustrations and feeling not good about themselfes ,they project it like this video as a judgment not as am advice. Possitive people will hear the advice ,negative people will feel it as a judgment...

[@Hilushenka]

In some societies appearances are everything. Pitiful!

[@juliekostas7322]

I watch this from time to time as reference--- it's like having a treasured 1/2 hour with a "big sister' sharing her wisdom. I cannot tell you how much I appreciate you breaking form and putting your own opinion out there---I really value your viewpoint. You've made a lot out of your life with the choices you've made.

[@educationfirst9552]

Being confident yet having humility is something that I think is a great plus point for being classy and likeable. Having genuine care and concern for others is also a very very attractive trait. We need more people like this in our society.

[@mrsdewdrop9678]

Dear Education First, you hit the nail on the head!! People are not genuinely interested in others these days. Its all about "self". Thus- no genuine interest in anyone else. I see it often. People don't make eye contact when speaking. They are looking around, turning their head elsewhere. Or the most annoying and says "go away" is their head down scrolling their cell phones. Definitely no class. No genuine interest or caring. So sad.

[@clairejohnson6522]

@@mrsdewdrop9678 Mrs DewDrop, You are so correct.Also it seems if anyone shows interest it is usually because they want to gain something from you.I don't understand why people are more comfortable with bad manners/walking around like they've just got out of bed/walking around with their mobile glued to their ear/No self respect or respect for others.Surely, now more than ever,we need to be kinder to each other and have genuine concern and interest in our fellow man.Perhaps we need a time machine to go back in time before the rot set in!

[@mrsdewdrop9678]

@@clairejohnson6522 I sometimes feel it is to late, rotting seems to be here....so very tragic

[@ameliaplaying8326]

Very Well Said!!! I am an older woman who has seen such change in our society. And it's not in a positive way. So sad. Thank you for this posting.

[@This-isGirl]

I'm so glad to watch a video like this. I'm Asian and we are taught self control, honour and respect for one's self, which projects forth good upbringing. We automatically treat others the way we treat ourselves. Good manners and etiquette is everything! Please make a series of videos like this one for the young who have not been privileged to have parents to impart proper social behaviour. Thank you ❤️

[@mariawelling4194]

This is so refreshing! I'm loving that these amazing ladies are stepping up and speaking up! Class rules!!

[@newnana9070]

You are speaking the truth in everything you have just said. My Mother always told her children “Be careful what you put out into the universe because it will come back too you. Make sure you don’t mind seeing it again”. And “Your first impression might be the only one you. Get to show yourself so make it your best”

[@1960genius]

I've watched this twice and had to comment again. This should be required information starting in elementary school!! Thanks again Dominique.

[@suetomfordlaw6673]

1960genius Totally agree!

[@mommabear5059]

1960genius this should be taught be parents, both in conversation and example.

[@1960genius]

totally agree and reiterated in school!!

[@dreamsdocometrue4447]

I agree with you completely! I've been trying to figure out a way to get the education system in this country to add a couple of well needed subjects to school, mainly KINDNESS 101. Now that you mentioned how this should be required information in school, that would be part of curriculum...WOW!

[@auntiecc]

School should be for learning math, science English, etc. Parents should be teaching class, manners and grace at home.

[@gomentor]

As a woman, nearly 50, I am choosing to embrace my place as an older woman and taking the role of encourager. I think classy women build others up. In conversation, they take interest in others and then find something positive to complement, especially in younger women.

[@ablrll]

Thanks for your videos Dominique. I'm turning 50 this year and have noticed that I've let myself go over the last few years. This is a great video for reminding me how to be classy again. Thanks for sharing!

[@lynnthomas8533]

It is so refreshing to see Dominique sharing her ideas on grace and class. Thank you, Dominique.

[@dominiquesachsetv]

Usually, I’m quick to respond to comments and chime in, but my husband and I are on vacation, so I’m making a conscious effort to back off of work a bit. I had a feeling this video would resonate and possibly stir it up, and I’m happy it has sparked dialogue, thought and reflection. It is a subject that has been on my mind lately, and I’m grateful we have this opportunity to discuss, agree or “agree to disagree.” More than anything, I just want us all to be the best version of ourselves, happy with it and proud of our efforts. Like I’ve always said, you’re an amazing community!

[@monicarodriguez2425]

Dominique Sachse Thank you for this video. ... is really touching

[@Tanja-yn9qs]

Amen!

[@quetaybarbo5709]

Love this video, I agree 100 percent. Enjoy your Vacation but I do miss you on the news :)

[@sabrinaagostini7248]

Hi Dominique my name is Sabrina my parents are Italian and i was born and raised in france i came in the united state when i was 18 i have to say its so nice to hear that u inbrasse the European culture i love this video and all your wonderful advice you are a breath of fresh air i hope you are enjoying your vacation😊

[@saromaliga5937]

Dominique Sachse thanks 💗

[@anne-sophiealain2366]

I am so glad you didn't keep this video to the "superficial" stuff (as in "on the surface"), but added that knowledge, reasoning and logic Are classy! I would add that knowledge isn't only classy and useful in a conversation, but it makes us true and fulfilled human beings!

[@kschult4861]

Anne-Sophie Alain

[@saintk3893]

Thank you for this! I remember when I was a teenager and I would dress like a classy lady, everyone made fun of me. I was just wearing a maxi skirt and I was taunted. Because I cared so much about what people think, I have been dressing so boyishly since then. // Now at 27 I realized I have to go back to who I was. I believe it's not too late. Since my Level Up, I couldn't believe I used to wear Jordans! Lol what was I thinking

[@marikadiamond4366]

Everything you said is so true and can be applied to everyone. I agree with you ... when you are beautiful on the outside, be even more beautiful on the inside. It's a winning combination.

[@cjconfettiofwords9134]

Please pray for me and my family. We are experiencing difficult times. There is lots of love in our family and we are very close. Just need some additional prayers and I know you have Jesus in your heart. Thank You CJ 🙏🏼💗

[@debortega7778]

Cj confettiofwords 🙏🏼God bless you.

[@eleanorrodway263]

In the UK we used to be sticklers for good manners, but that doesn’t seem so prevalent these days which is a great shame. I especially loathe bad table manners, particularly chewing with open mouths, stretching across others, leaving the table before everyone has finished or not thanking the cook! Well done Dominique for highlighting this important area of our make up. We can be as poor as church mice but still be a lady!

[@latinaalma1947]

It pains me now to visit Britain to see how it has changed...my stepfather was British and he and my American mother lived there many years. They lived a modest but very civilized life...they made an effort to eat on their nice china, use their stemware, prepare and serve lovely food, dress informally but with cachet for the table..tweeds jacket for my stepfather (he prided himself on how many decades he had HAD his tweeds..having them rewoven when necessary)my mother in wool skirt , sweaters...lovely table manners, no unpleasant topics at table etc. . They inspired me and I miss them. My adult daughter has inherited those fine things that were her grandparents after I used them. Sadly she has them packed away in boxes. She says those stuffy things make her friends uncomfortable and she is a high ranking officer in the US military , a very traditional career. Sadly her friends are more at home with cookouts. SHe told me when she was in officers school that the curriculum included a course in table manners and she was surprised that so many did not know how to use a traditional place setting..something she grew up with from toddler age. Sadly the idea has taken root everywhere that burgers and beer or fish and chips are democratic and anything more civilized is "putting on airs". A sad state of affairs in many quarters of the USA and Britain.I miss how we used to be..both sides of "the pond".

[@JJ-jt1jz]

Sybil Francis: Excellently written, I agree wholeheartedly with your comment. It is so sad to see the state of modern life.

[@michellekelly2937]

When I think of a woman with class, I automatically think of my grandmother. She was the epitome of elegance and class in every way. She was someone I always looked up to and admired for so many reasons.....And on top of all that, she was the sweetest, most loving grandmother in the whole world (to me, anyway!). I was very blessed to have her in my life as long as I did. She died four years ago, on Dec. 11th, at the age of 96. I miss her so much. ♥

[@latinaalma1947]

Many of us had grandmothers like that..they live on in us.

[@MustardSeedish]

I had a grandmother like that too. She passed away at 94. What a blessing and legacy they leave.

[@vickyoli]

People have always find me a classy woman. I never understood why, but now I see that few people can have a decent conversation with manners, say thank you or sorry, have manners at the table, dress properly even for small things. For me all this was normal because my mother tought me well, and now I see why others consider me classy, but you know, It should be something that everything hhing should do because these are basic manners!

[@nihilisticbarbie]

If you have to declare yourself to be 'classy', are you? To me being classy includes being modest. Not everyone is an animal.

[@EnglishforPUNJABIs]

You are definitely an epitome of class n grace. 👌

[@bakuexpat1653]

Adore you! I am a Grandma now but when I was a young girl my mom would have us write a thank you note immediately after receiving a gift, she would say do not eat it, use it or spend it before you write a thank you note! My daughter is now 30 and I have passed on this to her! My friends have often have complimented me "about her raising"..... after receiving notes from her! Merry Christmas !!

[@connie5768]

My mom was the same--we were always sending notes. I tried to instill this in my stepsons when they lived with my husband and me, but they and their wives aren't very good about this. Too sad, and I'm especially disappointed in the girls for not doing this.

[@avawilliams5827]

My Grandma always made me do that and as a child I used to hate it. I thought it was so tedious lol but now I understand it’s significant

[@BellinaSkyBright]

May I add that it is classy to not be slovenly in public places by leaving mess and litter. I used to clean in a big marina and noticed that people can have the clothes, the boat, the money but if they then throw litter, or don't flush the toilet or leave hair or tissues covered in make-up on the sink etc., it is difficult to respect those people.

[@suetomfordlaw6673]

BellinaSkyBright Great point!

[@simonah1574]

People who behave like this don't have any respect for others, in my opinion. And disrespectful behaviour is not classy at all...

[@andreacannon1263]

I completely agree with you my dear, I worked in a very expensive spa and part of my job involved cleaning the bathrooms...the women bathroom was always worse than the men's. I think being classy is the reflection of how well you were raised by your parents. I'm sorry you had such a bad experience at the marina, I completely understand.

[@xiaohui1307]

Thank you Dominique for another wonderful video. Thank you for the really helpful tips. I agree with all👍. I am a Chinese and my dad brought me up with so many rules, such as slow eating, no noise when eating, do not cross you leg in front of older generations,good posture, work hard, study hard and be humble . Unfortunately he passed away when I was 12. He was always proud of me being the top student in my class and in a school. His tips really helped me in my whole life. Even now as 53, I still use his rules to help our son to grow up. When I was 32, I was living in China, I decided to learn English--self taught. The word got me to know that there is tense difference in English was left😃. At the time, I knew left as left side, left hand but did not know left is past tense of leave. I took my opportunity to be promoted so many times through my career in China and in UK and I am pleased to say as age 53, I will get my MSc degree in 2 months time if I pass my dissertation. So many ways to be classy. We are living in a vast, variety world, be yourself and be a useful person to this society, be responsible, and do not leave any regret of your life. I total agree with you Dominique , do not complain about missing opportunities or because of your colour, look yourself what you can give, what you can offer to others and the society as a whole. As a foreigner in uk, I have heard so many other nationalities saying job promotion was not fair but I, myself proved it is fair because I have been promoted a couple of times within 17 years working in UK as a foreigner. It dose not matter where You come from and I have yellow skin but not white😀. It is your behaviour and you contribution to the job to the society to the country matters.

[@achetjamir8784]

You scream classy. I especially love the last part where you say it's important to look within ourselves instead of blaming the other people around us for the situations that come our way. Watching your channel is like reading a really good book in lesser time. Love from Nagaland 💗

[@bgw2247]

Leaving a legacy of grace has always been important to me and I have encouraged my daughter to strive for grace and dignity also. The question, "How will I be remembered" keeps me centered. Thanks for addressing this topic!

[@perfectlyyoubeauty]

I believe a classy woman is one who gives herself grace. So often we are our own worst critic. We should explore our inner passions and pursuits.. things that make us feel confident and embolden us to try new things and take risks while staying true to our inner character and core values. Just wanted to share my take in the dialogue.

[@jaynekarinova256]

Very well said. I’m almost 29 and I’m constantly struggling with releasing that inner critic and allowing myself to be open to new opportunities while letting go of my past. Sometimes I’m afraid to pursue things I really want out of fear that some sort of past “demon” will come back to haunt and just take it all away. It’s interesting, I think I have a lot of these “classy” characteristics but a part of me feels undeserving of certain things or opportunities... like I’ll think “Oh, that’s amazing, but that’s for that person..not me.” If that makes sense. I definitely need to put in the work to gradually overcome this.

[@yaseminkher]

Perfectly You Beauty uyn

[@synolve]

Absolutely! There are so many versions of beautiful and true style. I’d hate to have to live my whole life trying to always fit into someone else’s definition of beautiful 💖✨💖💖

[@butterpecanrican_]

I love this!

[@micheleainsworth1709]

Perfectly said!

[@Marie-uu4yg]

Like your suggestions about keeping it classy. These are simple step to follow. For me, I need to work on my posture so I will definitely keep this in mind. With regards to behavior, I think it is also so important to be kind to people. My mother would say, “Kindness is free” It is true and I think when we make others feel good, we feel good too. Thank you Dominique.

[@gemashuster1951]

I’m so inspired and I really believe in your voice. I’m very critical. I love what you have to say and I feel that you are real and blessed. I’m taking all your videos in and also applying them to my life and children. Your mom should start a page. She has the gift! We need this type of community and leadership. KZbin is an amazing platform to share! You have truly inspired me! Thanks for being you!

[@kosmetikosjo2061]

I wish I could post a photo of me from a few years ago and a photo of me now. 3 years ago I had no knowledge of anything, I was a drug attict, and even though I held down a job and kept composure I did not take care of myself. I stopped doing my drug of choice and become obsessed with skin care and makeup. I have been studying and researching it for 3 years. I haven't gone to school for it yet but I plan on it next year. My outer appearance has improved immensely! I'm still working on my inner, thank you for this video. I am going to take your advice and make some BIG changes!

[@dvhanson1962]

A.J. Watkins Good for you! That is a great achievement. Another channel you may want to check out is The Daily Connoisseur. The is very big on manners and deportment. Keep up the good work. :-)

[@madelinescrogin8808]

How terrific for you! Congratulations on giving your self-awareness a kick start.

[@musicinthewildwood]

I do online dating. I've been at it for years now trying to find the right one. I refuse to compromise on what I feel is important in a relationship. One thing that I make sure any guy knows right up front is that intimacy won't happen immediately with me. I need to get to know you, we need to be friends first. Always. So I'll keep it classy in the meantime, because I know that the right one for me is out there and he agrees with my views on this important subject!

[@delyparker777]

It may sound "old fashioned" but waiting until marriage is the best thing to do. A virtuous woman will attract an honorable man or a gentleman. Birds of a feather flock together. I don't know if you're a believer or not, but that's my best advice IMHO. Best wishes to you!

[@kathleensullivan6824]

I just came across this video and loved it. This is exactly the way my father raised me and it has served me well in my life. Thank you for bringing the subject into peoples awareness. We need more class in this society.

[@alexds8452]

YES 200%. Language (vocabulary) & manners (self-conduct), plus posture & carriage are absolute keys to class & self-presentation, along with quality conversation & content. It's so unfortunate that media glorifies the profane as cool & woke. It is NOT & never will be! Class is where it's at; thank you!

[@lovemychacha]

AMEN, and again I say AMEN!!! You are so on point with this video. In addition to all, you said I also think being someone that lives a life filled with love, and compassion towards others is key! It's just so sad that the society we live in is as selfish as it is!

[@cmmonchez]

A few years ago I met you in the shoe department at Neiman Marcus I still remember how nice and classy you presented yourself 😊

[@cw8682]

Claudia Monchez love that

[@melyndaruckels5760]

Thank you, thank you Dominique! You have reiterated my own personal beliefs and what my mother taught me on what is class (though I may have resented her control at the time). I especially agree that they way we carry ourselves, enter a room, say please and thank you and use other manners and etiquette are the keys to being a successful woman who leads in our homes, careers and lives. Like you, doors have opened by this awareness. Exude that inner joy and see how contagious it is!

[@moonlight6855]

I am very happy to come across this video. Although I was born in 80s, there is an “old” soul living inside of me. I have always admired 30-50s women’s glamour and class. The way they carried themselves; Proper English they spoke; Classy outfits they wore. The list can go on. This video serves as a reminder that being classy is timeless. It might be a rarity nowadays but it never goes out of style.

[@FlaNativeLady73]

There's a lack of etiquette in America today. I'm a big fan of Emily Post. My mother always told me first impressions are the one you will remember. I would love to see an etiquette video.

[@darlenehealy3150]

Well said. Since I retired, I have become lazy about how I dress and am frankly just sloppy and only looking for quick comfort. I more often then not forget about makeup and my hair is just in a ponytail. This video reminded me how important it is to take better care of myself and the way I project myself. Thank you for the reminder.

[@Missjanet48]

Thank you! You are sooo right. Exterior class is a luxury that I can’t live without. It’s almost reassuring! As for the inside part, I always « breathe » and focus on the person I really am, before going out into the world. Staying connected to my true self - that I learn to love more everyday- is my key to being classy « inside » and people notice it « outside ».

[@natashanovak7260]

I just love everything about you and this video is one of my favorite. Everything you say is true and these days it's hard to find class. I just love it when I come across a classy lady. There is a special aura around it. Thank you for being here for us...greetings from Slovenia. Love, Natasha

[@tonimullinix1546]

You were able to speak about class without seeming snooty. Thank you!

[@cathydowling3805]

What a fabulous lesson. So many younger ladies were never taught the basic “social graces” . I LOVED THIS. THANK YOU, THANK YOU THANK YOU!

[@rosemarie7816]

I appreciate this. As a teen, I didn't have money to spend on clothes, but I practiced ballet on my own in my bedroom, developed good posture from this, and wore my hand-me-downs with as much style as possible. Also, I was very modest in my dress. I received no invitations to the prom, no dates, and a lot of hate from other women socially and in my career life. So, I became more coarse over the years and hid my true self. This will change now. I'm old enough to understand that I can't let my confidence be shattered by others. Thank you. I wish I'd had access to mentors like you growing up!

[@NewYork7914]

"Less is more" best advice ever for a classy woman!

[@sapphireblue2987]

I understand exactly what you are saying. A true classy woman is a kind and caring person. A proud woman is a selfish person and yes a proud woman is usually dresses well , but that doesn't mean she is classy. Being classy is a state of mental, physical, emotional ,and spiritual well being.

[@trinacerk7608]

What can I say to a young woman who listens to her father's bad mouth and inappropriate behavior?

[@bluewrenreilly129]

If one is looking to get a job or further a career then classy will get it for you where egotism will fail. Even exceptional beauty without class could be a handicap. The advise she gives is just a good starting point anyone who thinks long hair by the way, on an older woman in society is classy is just delusional. Too much fat too is a no-no. Virtue signalling is so stupid. Kind and caring comes way after the first hurdle of impression and personal interaction has been passed.

[@truebe01]

Perhaps you are delusional if you think there is only one model for "older" women. As an older woman I have healthy and luxuriant long hair that has always, and continues to be much admired. As for being kind and caring, it can be a very powerful first impression. Try opening yourself up.

[@lauraryan4240]

Would Love you to have 8 tips to keeping it classy for men too

[@carlav8357]

You’re definitely right, bring back classy!

[@sherylolson11]

I ADORE YOU ❤️! You don't know me nor what my life has been like for the past year and a half. I will say one thing. Due to my poor decisions money wise, I ended up living in the salvation army. Although being thankful for the shelter, it was the most traumatic experience in my life. I am a changed person for the better and I appreciate every little thing. YOU ARE AN ANSWERED PRAYER 🙏 for me at this time of my life. I have FB but I won't post anything recent because I know I have aged during this beyond difficult time. I am trying to regain my confidence and find my identity being a Woman..A CLASSY WOMAN. Thank you for all of your wonderful inspiring videos! YOU are definitely my mentor ❤️. Love, Sheryl Howard Olson.