Coming from a man who has been married for many years and has raised daughters. I think he is a truth speaker
@coffeelover176311 күн бұрын
He speaks what he believes to be true.
@xNoCxNecroBoy6 ай бұрын
So true, watch her actions. If she's a victim in every relationship, RUN.
@DivineLogos6 ай бұрын
It either means she is lying or she always picks the wrong men. Both are bad.
@coffeelover17636 ай бұрын
How many hours has it been since the last lie you gentlemen told?
@DivineLogos6 ай бұрын
@@coffeelover1763 Days ago probably, can't even remember.
@dontron55186 ай бұрын
@@coffeelover1763 White lies do not compare with false accusations, which can be devastating to the victim accused.
@coffeelover17636 ай бұрын
@@DivineLogos Days isn't very long...
@fulopeduard6 ай бұрын
This is indeed true. For example, my girlfriend lied to me about being pregnant while I was travelling because she was afraid of losing me and wanted to keep me close. She even went so far as to send me a positive pregnancy test. You have to be careful.
@coffeelover17636 ай бұрын
That sucks. So you never lie at all?
@DavGre6 ай бұрын
Society is generally more accepting of clingy women than clingy men, but to lie about a pregnancy is getting dangerously close to crazy town.
@Babygrinch6506 ай бұрын
@@coffeelover1763most normal men know the consequences of lying so we try not to do it. Women know they’re more likely to get away with it because “she’s just a girl” type stuff. A lot of men will act like they don’t know what’s going on instead of lying if they have to. While some women will create a whole false truth to cover for themselves. Aka lying. Bad guys lie too but the consequences are usually more severe,and they lose all respect. I’ve experienced more women lying about serious stuff than men. Situations putting me in direct danger because of a woman afraid to express the truth. Even more dangerous when she involves multiple men who have no clue what’s really going on. A lot of women are freaking puppet masters. That’s why they say a girl with many guys friends is a red flag. It’s so important for men to learn to control their sexual energy and not get hooked by a manipulative woman.
@frblaze26 ай бұрын
@@coffeelover1763a masculine man avoids lying if not necessary, you wouldn't know being a feminine male
@coffeelover17636 ай бұрын
@@Babygrinch650 I could say the same thing but with men. I don't really have friends anymore. The ones I did have were mostly men. The women went crazy, and because of relationships, friends with the men couldn't be, because of how the world is. That made me go crazy on my male friends. Nasty cycle. I hate lying though. I guess I'm more masculine in some ways, and apparently that's not good either, lol. Can't win lol.
@NobleBruv6 ай бұрын
I think women's narcissism can be so potent that they can actually convince themselves that things happen to them that actually never happened.
@ggzii6 ай бұрын
She mentally abused me for months, silent treatment, blaming my reactions to HER bad behaviour as the issue, no accountability, when I ended it, suddenly "I was bad for her mental health" despite being the "Only man she ever knew to car this much and pay for therapy". So when I ended it I was shocked she told her mates I was bad, Sadly some people are narcassists and will do anything to protect their life of lies.
@coffeelover17636 ай бұрын
I've dealt with the same stuff with men, it really sucks when people are not accountable and don't take responsibility.
@pushbackorlaydown6 ай бұрын
Going through something similar, praying for you brother
@coffeelover17636 ай бұрын
@@pushbackorlaydown That sucks dude. If women said all men are liers when they say this, how would you feel? You know how both men and women who are like this are, you might know better about this topic.
@KingBeef2166 ай бұрын
@@coffeelover1763 You're really pressing this "well what about men?" narrative, aren't you? Yes...men lie too. Want to know the difference? Men are actually held accountable societally by said lies. Women are not, by comparison.
@DreErdna4 ай бұрын
Mice shades
@Unknown-sz8kg6 ай бұрын
👯 16-30: I don't need no man 🤱31-36: Where the good men at 👵37-45: I'm still young 🧟46-death: I made a mistake ☠️ Last word: I blame men
@frblaze26 ай бұрын
More like 16-25
@JoeyJ0J06 ай бұрын
Cope
@wastemanagement38756 ай бұрын
16-last word: I blame men
@DreErdna4 ай бұрын
@@wastemanagement3875😂
@DreErdna4 ай бұрын
@@wastemanagement38750-End
@juniorsanchez74416 ай бұрын
I once dated a coworker that claimed she had been r@ped and given up the child to adoption because of it. I was new to the job so i believed her. I was so angry and even wanted to find the guy. I started asking around and turns out some of his family members worked there as well. They proceeded to show me photographs of them dating and together that they were a happy couple she tricked him into impregnating her, so she could keep him around, so he left her. She gave up the baby to spite him and made up the story about rape to ruin his reputation.
@juniorsanchez74416 ай бұрын
@@quartzshine2828 Honestly i was crazy and immature asf at that point in my life like. 22 years old fresh put of county jail simping HARD 🤣🤣🤣 thank goodness i saw the light
@DivineLogos6 ай бұрын
True, they lie often, sometimes even to themselves. Can't see truth when you are emotional.
@coffeelover17636 ай бұрын
Except this is true of men and women.
@entitiessoul6 ай бұрын
Nah men use logic. Men always get blamed for everything including Adam and Eve.
@47nodoubt6 ай бұрын
no wonder the holy books address men only.
@loveistheanswer59246 ай бұрын
@@entitiessoulWhat about Adam and Eve? 🙂
@loveistheanswer59246 ай бұрын
I don't understand why you guys say that women often lie when man and women both lie... 🤔
@mosescola41746 ай бұрын
Return of the Mack! “Ya lied to me!” -Mark Morrison
@benjaminwood81266 ай бұрын
But I do, do, do.
@mosescola41746 ай бұрын
@@benjaminwood8126 “yes I cried! Yes I cried cried cried! Return of the Mack!”
@Tripp3933 ай бұрын
OOOHHH LAWDD
@dnicexxx8866 ай бұрын
It’s the truth
@coffeelover17636 ай бұрын
No, it's not. Think about the last lie you told
@bozo24666 ай бұрын
Holy shit old Elliot is back and love the "done" in the end I freaking popped off when I heard it. Thank you so much for the wisdom
@47nodoubt6 ай бұрын
I was probably age 11-14 when these events happened. Case 1- Girl in one of my class claims she will commit suicide if i'm not with her. Interesting she later becomes like top 3 popular girls in our high school. Case 2- Girlfriend and I go to the movies, later tells her friends that I was touching her while she was "sleeping" at the movies. Well, I can surely say she was not asleep. This didn't make me despise women, but more recent events involving women on a non sexual relation has proven that it just ain't worth it. When it comes down to it, most dudes are just paying for sex, either with money or time. In short, we live in a degen sex addicted cult, where most of the members don't have sex to reproduce!
@Brandon.manga.6 ай бұрын
A wise man once said, "When you know, you know... Done."
@thomasanderson25516 ай бұрын
It helps tremendously if you don't take the female tendencies emotionally or personally. Have empathy and understanding, but still calmly hold her to the flames of accountability. At the end, you'll maintain your self-respect as a man and she'll respect you even more for it.
@deepsmoviereviews32126 ай бұрын
Exactly!
@Random-rt5ec6 ай бұрын
I caught my wife of 10 years cheating on me. Every time I asked questions about her betrayal the facts changed. Conclusion: I don’t believe anything my wife tells me about her sexual history. Shame is I thought she was so sweet & innocent, obviously I was wrong.
@PhamVans6 ай бұрын
That's a tough one brother... Loyalty is all a man really needs in this world, and to find out she ain't the one after 10 years is.......
@Naturalhit6 ай бұрын
Yes. Very true. My friend is currently is in prison now for 5 years now because he was accused of rape by his girlfriend who he had a baby with. The girl tried to take it back and she admitted to lying after the trail, bit it's too late and it's a mess.
@Random-rt5ec6 ай бұрын
What an idiot I was - when I 1st met my wife she told me she never wanted kids, but she kept getting pregnant & having miscarriages & l was saying WTF to myself. I admit back then I was a Blue Pilled idiot thinking women were special and would never lie.
@dsciple6 ай бұрын
Elliot spoke facts
@r34p3r_here6 ай бұрын
Couldn't agree more. After my last relationship, I realized how susceptible I was to being played by her without actually realizing it. Eventually I caught on and ended it. So much better now in comparison.
@dymongodbey75976 ай бұрын
This was a really good Take
@jahreigns8886 ай бұрын
Tell her to press charges. It's not your business.
@1badmotherucker9476 ай бұрын
Great advice. This is real. This is the importance of perception and perspective in regards of the ex and himself
@findingfr33dom6 ай бұрын
Honestly, I think you'll get surprisingly little push back from this, because men are *that* disenchanted in women right now. Just two or three days ago, the story of several women being assaulted in NYC broke. A female NYC council member asked the question on twitter: "Where are the men calling this out?" 99.9% of the men responding to her post were saying things like "you voted for this," "I was told women didn't need men," "you literally did this to yourself," and noting that she literally supported locking up Daniel Penny. Men have had enough.
@AndrewCraigPianoPlayer6 ай бұрын
This is absolutely the truth. I would have liked to know this when I was younger.
@focus30106 ай бұрын
Great video
@dontron55186 ай бұрын
So, to explain her actions you have to force the foot into the smaller shoe and say it's a mechanism for her to survive. A child has to be confronted with their error before they would even begin to prevaricate in the same way. How does she survive by potentially accusing someone of a deed they did not do ? She brought it up of the past deed without threat, torment or punishment.
@dontron55186 ай бұрын
If that is a survival mechanism for women... then the human race is doomed.
@hbutta10096 ай бұрын
I love this video keep the videos coming very powerful information
@Lu-e6 ай бұрын
Somewhere far in place there’s a woman punching air saying this video is “misogynist”
@juniorgamba6 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing this Elliott
@meanmole32126 ай бұрын
Are you posting from midsummer Finland?
@nordicforex886 ай бұрын
Nice
@panzeralienofficial6 ай бұрын
Lol 😂
@Fiazco6 ай бұрын
The thing is that we as men are hardly depending on honest feedback for self development reasons. Women lie most of the time when they fear negative reactions from the guy. These are the situations where we are missing out of learning from our mistakes. It makes it more difficult cause we have to find out by ourselves what went wrong.
@EndlessWeekendlife6 ай бұрын
That's a really good way to put it, women's survival mechanism. I have reacted in the past based on partial information given to me at the time, intentional for me to react. My greatest regret was scaring a guy so much about 'what he done'.. to him dying months later and that was my last conversation with him and my reaction based on mistruths.
@loveistheanswer59246 ай бұрын
Reminds me of the Bible verse: When anyone replies to a matter before he hears the facts, It is foolish and humiliating. (Proverbs 18: 13) Or from another translation: What a shame, what a stupidity to give advice before you know the background! (Proverbs 18: 13) 📖🙂👍
@JujuBerry6 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@Mai_Tai_Meyers6 ай бұрын
This video came at a good time. I'm dating this girl and she has been dealing with an ex that has been a bit too persistent with trying to get her back (showing up at her work/home, and continuing to 'get at' her). At first, I thought I should step in and basically tell him to back off, but lately, I've been thinking, "Wait, I don't know the whole story, maybe I should hold off before doing something rash." I dunno man, I'm gonna see how it plays out. You guys have any idea what I should do?
@gaian6396 ай бұрын
My experience and instinct tell me "don't date her". It is very likely you will end up being that same guy next.
@iElia6 ай бұрын
Have had a similar situation. But the girl said the ex still comes to her house and also inside (but they dont do anything together) she exposed herself LOL after that i lost interest.
@Mai_Tai_Meyers6 ай бұрын
@@iElia oh mann, that's rough dude
@Mai_Tai_Meyers6 ай бұрын
@@gaian639 I've had that same thought!
@coffeelover17636 ай бұрын
Maybe show up when he does
@loveistheanswer59246 ай бұрын
Reminds me of the Bible verse: When anyone replies to a matter before he hears the facts, It is foolish and humiliating. (Proverbs 18: 13) Or from another translation: What a shame, what a stupidity to give advice before you know the background! (Proverbs 18: 13) I would believe her tho. Its more likely in my opinion that she says the truth!
@roadbully3845 ай бұрын
Thank you for having this very uncomfortable conversation that ALL men must be aware of.
@123someone3216 ай бұрын
I'd like to give a females perspective on this. R*pe is one serious accusation and personally I wouldn't dare ruin someones reputation and life just so I can get some attention. While this might be true to some extend (I know women can lie as can men, both about different things). We need to be careful and discerning when approaching r*pe topic. There are some women who really do go through it and last thing they would need is someone to accuse them of lying. There is no real way to know if someone is lying but by following gut instinct and by observing the person in question. Have you caught them lying about other things? Did you catch them lying to others in front of you? Do they always like to have it their way? Something just feels off and you can't quite put your finger on it? Writing down their story and seeing if they slightly change it each time they talk about it. (Unless its a recent event and the memories are still coming back).
@singlemotherRespector6 ай бұрын
This spitting facts
@Sachi_19966 ай бұрын
Us young men don't want to believe this, until it's too late. Great wisdom.
@itsamadness65786 ай бұрын
Well said elliot.
@calholli6 ай бұрын
I wish you would make a video addressing all the reuploads.. What is the strategy here? At least make a short about it
@VertexOnKeys2 ай бұрын
Listen to Colleen buddy
@rtxfox57456 ай бұрын
Uncle Yo!
@J1gtbfanpage6 ай бұрын
Exact
@josephmichael11316 ай бұрын
“Do as I say, not as I do”
@Stevesguitartraveling7776 ай бұрын
What I learned in life is pay attention to what they do not what they say because if she is all talk and no action, then she’s playing games and wasting your time. If you know she’s playing games and you’ve had enough you should not have to spell it out to her if she is smart enough to play games then she is smart enough to see the size that you have figured out what she is doing, let the women in there boy play along when you got your act together you don’t have to accept it from women or anyone in that matter
@cic60022 ай бұрын
Well, it used to be that way but now women say they are strong and independent and don’t need no man so we are starting to look the other way now
@Babygrinch6506 ай бұрын
💯truth
@BLaQz845 ай бұрын
Watch their actions, not their words...
@nissanzenkiboy6 ай бұрын
Wait I’ve seen this?
@coffeelover17636 ай бұрын
Yes, he double shares vids
@entitiessoul6 ай бұрын
If it's women that actually want to better themselves rather than better their imaginary street cred. Then okay. But don't give them a upper edge than it is.
@tomojobs6 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@bw32416 ай бұрын
💯
@AnthonyRusso936 ай бұрын
Resist the urge to hulk out over everything Solid advice doesn't make as clickable title that's just marketing You see "Women lie" and think NO I HAVE TO DEFEND THEM FROM THIS SLANDER! *click*
@coffeelover17636 ай бұрын
Not all women lie, starting to really question if any man tell the truth though...
@BigDome16 ай бұрын
Better yet, don't make blanket rules about people, use common sense, intuition and reasoning to judge things on a case by case basis. Saying "don't believe women" is not that much less stupid than saying "#believeallwomen"
@nstar13723 ай бұрын
Best comment 🙏🏿
@ReconcilemE6 ай бұрын
ur mentality is so precious but learning from the younger kids. Their standards are predominantly flipped lol
@rendarsmith6 ай бұрын
Ask to see the police report. If there isn't one then you know she's lying.
@joshroberts56616 ай бұрын
They're lying 😐
@jonsnow9116 ай бұрын
4:40 turned on by anger
@SarahJacquier4 ай бұрын
Is this satire?
@VlogVibes5 ай бұрын
How many men in here would like to see YT content based around a proven process to make WISE, GODLY decisions-every time?
@ef28836 ай бұрын
Prophet Muhammad(ﷺ) said: "Many men have attained perfection but no women have attained perfection except Maryam bint 'Imran (Mary) and Asiyah the wife of Fir'awn (Pharaoh).“
@mikep59076 ай бұрын
Women want to be held….unless it’s accountable.
@DreErdna4 ай бұрын
yoooooooo hahahahah this is classic
@NobleBruv6 ай бұрын
Simply, don't believe women.
@marry.mebitc.h32796 ай бұрын
were you always bold, looked at your old videos no good hair to be seen
@josephmcnamee76016 ай бұрын
If I have as much hair as Eliot when I’m in my 40s il be happy . Mines falling out I’m only in my late Twenties
@dilpickles59286 ай бұрын
What does being bald have to do with the message he's trying to convey? Are you always vapid and shallow?
@dannylesnarr23466 ай бұрын
Nice
@alexmix86656 ай бұрын
Чистая правда. Верить нельзя.
@wmcm96296 ай бұрын
Good shit bro, looks like you skin is a little dry make sure you are taking your cinnamon supplements
@Bobnormal46 ай бұрын
Gay
@mihalisg69406 ай бұрын
After that Goggins video, I cannot take this dude seriously any more.
@KingBeef2166 ай бұрын
Okay...?
@doctorgainz6 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your opinion. We needed it
@marcelmorningman64296 ай бұрын
Since it went more and more wierd Im out of this Channel. Thanks for Awesome and powerful fitness and mindset advices years ago Elliot! Whenever you will Go Back to that I would love it! Til then its Not for me