Don’t Date These Men

[@adammorgan7874]

My dad always said you could line up 99 good men and 1 worthless man and my sister would pick that one worthless guy every time.

[@pale_saint]

That’s the one female trait which is very persistent

[@AAron-gr3jk]

Women are the selectors. They will overlook every decent man and still blame those men for her choices

[@hayman4423]

Sounds like my sister.

[@Freespeecherson]

Real talk

[@richardhendrix7620]

​@@pale_saintthey learn from their mothers.

[@keithhayes6339]

$10 says she tried to pick a hood dude (s) and change him....😅😅😅

[@jamingaming9251]

even if it was a penny I'm not betting against it.

[@lamadesurvivor5216]

Of course she did! It never fails. When he was penetrating you commitment. Money. And all that shit ain’t matter

[@illuminated_]

I up the ante to 30k

[@keithhayes6339]

@@illuminated_ 😂😂😂😂 that's how sure we are of this stupidity

[@divinecommerce3912]

Let's not pretend she deserves better. She's hood too LOL

[@leewilliams106]

She makes bad choices. She has a type. And that type treats her a certain way. She chooses badly.

[@bobwilson5041]

Maybe,she likes the bad boys,players,not the nerdy blk guy,who works,not a party type.

[@tdm3301]

I didn't have a type except that he would have to be a true Christian and kind. You'd be surprised how many men lie and put on an act to get a woman to let down her guard. Men have podcasts about how women turn them down while spewing out venom. It's interesting. Thankfully God led me to my hubby and that my mom raised me to just live people no matter the race.

[@beepbopboop7727]

🙋🏾‍♂️🙋🏿‍♂️ ARE bad choices.

[@leewilliams106]

@@beepbopboop7727 That's like saying all 🧏🏾‍♀️🧏🏿‍♀️ are bad choices loll. It's up to us to pick and choose a healthy situation

[@AvalonDreamz]

As her son sits in the back seat hearing all this from his mother.

[@azure8696]

Right exactly

[@kateaustin9428]

I didn't even notice the kid until I saw this comment. That's fucked up.

[@charlescowan6121]

For real! Maybe that's why no dude wants to commit to her, he doesn't wanna raise some deadbeats kid! Because you gonna come home one day and find that mf sitting on your couch and telling you how to raise his kid!

[@wash360]

Because of this she may mistakenly raise him to be the type of man she hates.

[@AvalonDreamz]

@@wash360 I couldn't imagine speaking like this around my son ever, especially in those formative years. My son is 18 now and I couldn't be more proud of him.

[@GenX_-um2ct]

As a white man who has tried to date black women, there is no shortage of disrespect hurled at us! The mouths on these ladies are their biggest impediment. It’s almost like sweet and submissive is not in their vocabulary. Always trying to wear the pants.

[@michaelwaninger3155]

But it's all the black mens fault. Wow kinda like white women talking about white men, Chinese women talking about Chinese men, Japanese women talking about Japanese men, Indian women talking about Indian men.....

[@BeardGawd88]

Yup

[@jbusta8548]

They tend to be mouthy

[@IffyEdem]

Yes sir. That tends to be American ones. Non American ones are normal. I get you sir.

[@diegogodet1889]

@@IffyEdem im from Holland and no offence but allot of them have the same issues not to the degree as the American woman but they are still harder to be in a relationship with in my experience.

[@migit6foot4]

She just described exactly what woman do...lol Take accountability for THOSE men YOU chose

[@patriciamay2690]

She shouldn't bother to choose

[@mariebydon9013]

​@@patriciamay2690 And why its that🤔 Why ??? I tell you why, cause a BW are not desirable 2 BM. Let's be honest. Specially celebrities bro. They don't want a darker skin sister. BM are still suffer COLORISMMMM SYNDROME. Period. They always have excuses why they can't date or married a darker skin sister. They are self hate. How we having a attitudes, we bitter and angry BW, how we are aggressive, we violent, we are single mothers, we have 2 many body counts, we want be the men, we dont want a BM, we don't support a BM, how we weared weaves & wigs, fake nails & fake eyelashes. BW this, BW that. Boyyyyy i can go on and on with the list. BW its like a curse to a BM. Worst thing that happen to a BM , its a darker skin W. . Thatsssss why no body that want us, but to have the sacky pants, gang bangers, drugs dealers, jail birds. Pookies & Rayray.👍

[@userp67qjsbanwi]

Tell men to stop being deadbeats.

[@jamesdagmond]

Not even about being black it's about her choosing poorly. And she will continue to choose poorly.

[@SpencerMckenithWilliams]

And continue to blame black men. This is why I don't bother anymore. This is why I refuse to get married.

[@33GLOCK]

​@@SpencerMckenithWilliams😹😹😹

[@shanellem6310]

I disagree. The majority of Blk men are s**t & overshadow the tiny minority of good Blk men that are out there. Also, Blk women have been indoctrinated to be with Blk men to our detriment when it's these same Blk men that are killing & abusing us. Our loyalty to these Blk men will eventually kill us. Such loyal wonen believe it's traitorous to date out. But, times are changing. More & more Blk women are choosing to be single & childless or to expand their options & leave Blk men alone. This movement is worldwide.

[@freshgotbeatz8594]

Factsss they never take accountability

[@palerider964]

She's right.

[@RPNDWORLDWIDE]

We black men wish this sister well, whatever her choice.

[@crusoebower3391]

Bro chicks are all about feelings no facts here

[@bigterribletexas1501]

I'm a black and I don't wish her well, she can run into a tree going a 100 mph for all I care

[@tyrenrobb]

As a white man, I say let the Asians have her.

[@king-ghost1027]

Emotional stress from women

[@drewdown2142]

Naw I don't. She sounds like a clown 🤡

[@trevagraham1605]

Us good black guys can spot a bad woman a mile away. Shes not single by accident.

[@spvc4696]

💯

[@pleasedonttemptme5963]

Too facts

[@goat515]

Naw frfr

[@bobcranberries5853]

Damn!!!! 😂 The days of pretending women are queens is over!!!!

[@u_cant_handle_the_truth]

Never heard of a good black guy 😂

[@Matthew7.7]

As a black man, all I want is to find a deserving woman for marriage. No games. These woman today ain’t it. Bringing baggage, trauma, and a bad attitude.

[@stacktus9158]

Well then you better get your passport out. You ain’t gonna find that here.

[@kariw.160]

I feel bad for your generation. I’m 36, so I’m sure I’m older than you. These younger women are a dang mess. There are some good girls out there, but she won’t be the first one to catch your eye.

[@TheTurinturumbar]

Get out your passport bro.

[@Matthew7.7]

@@TheTurinturumbar already renewed. My wife in DR Or Jamaica.

[@moztheroz]

She won't be dating anybody is my guess.

[@keldon_champion]

A word of advice to her, the problem isn't the color it's that you keep dating thugs, and thugs come in all colors.

[@spvc4696]

💯

[@moisesr7840]

Her lack of interest is %1 but ignored 99% of good black men. She did good man a favor.

[@luisalphahernandezomega1704]

*SHE'S THE ONE THAT SHOULD BE IGNORED.*

[@johnrhodes101875]

but your not a black man and I'm not either . there is no 99% good black man or 99% of good white man but I can see her point when you look at the statistics

[@thegift369]

@@johnrhodes101875 What stats? The stats that show 80% of Blk Women are over weight and 64% have children? Why would well off Blk Men want to commit to that??? Lol

[@sm1purplmurderedme583]

good black men don’t exist

[@timothyprice9064]

Act as if she's not screwing that child's mind up. Go ahead,,, make excuses for her.

[@robsim4692]

So the kesson she teaching the child in the back is that when you act the way those men act, women get tired of your shit and dont want you anymore! However you say shes screwing his mind up because shes not teaching racist mindset that you date your own race! Damn if you're a racist why be ashamed of it? Are you confused?

[@AvalonDreamz]

That was the first thing that popped into my head was she is saying this as her son is sitting in the back seat listening. smh

[@erkl8823]

Yeah, while I 100% understand her plight & anyone can see she's being honest about it, ain't that a tiny little black man in the backseat?? Yeah don't be running his own group down right in front of his baby face! Idk... maybe he needs to hear it, maybe he needs a strong sense of what's goin' on to be able to steer away from all the stereotypes later in life, that's possible too... I was raised around a buncha females, constantly hearing what a POS my dad was, but I never ONCE believed ANY of it, until I was like 28 & could finally see for myself, but I still knew from a young age I didn't want to be like my dad, drunk, ALLLL the time, & violent, weak-minded, illogical, a *democrat* ...& I never was, I always chose the opposite, & it worked out pretty well for me...

[@u2-tv899]

🤨 💭 Hmmm, people wondering why other ethnic groups HATE/DISLIKE Black Have you ever watched most dangerous city in every state(Black & proud of that status, declaration) GREED-SELFISHNESS-COMPLETE DISREGARD & DISRESPECT FOR others… They’re proud being called: GANGSTERS Our communities are lack of: - Prestige - Support - Pride - Encouragement - Standard - Moral - Image - Education - Authority - Respect - Responsibility - Discipline - etc… WHY IS IT ALWAYS BLACK NEIGHBORHOOD? + Most immigrant parents including African & Black from West Indies forbid their children to date African Americans…

[@juanlambda27]

@@AvalonDreamz the son needs to hear it. The entire black community needs to hear it. They call each other Kings and Queens when in reality they act like imbeciles.

[@recoblade1465]

If a black man said the same thing and said he was sick and tired of dealing with her baby daddies her debt, her attitude, her lack of accountability, he would be canceled. She has an entire child in her backseat she gave a child to a man who did not marry her

[@dee-taylor]

An entire child...as opposed to half a child??

[@recoblade1465]

@dee-taylor dammit you try being around young people and not picking up there vernacular and yes I said the exact same thing you commented to them. But I just look at it as a way to draw attention to a person place or thing without using explicit language and it worked because you wouldn't have said nothing about me just saying a child Edit yes the entire end of that explanation is because I didn't even realize I had said it I use talk-to-text but it sounds good don't it

[@woodside4life]

@@dee-taylor Two thirds is a good compromise.

[@SeeLasSee]

Don’t date, just collect and grow their seed. Problem is this skips the natural life partner selection phase, which ultimately chooses suitable/compatible DNA. The tingles and lust are a poor substitute.

[@kevinclause4p55p5]

3/5ths compromise

[@brianscott3503]

I guarantee if a “good black man” approached her she would turn him down...Most women have no idea what a man is nevermind a good man...

[@manniking233]

Amen, patna!

[@untiedshoelaces2588]

Her blaming an entire group for her bad decisions. I cannot wait to see how long it will take for her to realize that the men she chooses will never wife a woman like her.

[@michaelbaziotis8287]

This woman is so obviously oppressed! Honestly she's pretty enough to think she deserves nothing less than Michael B. Jordan. Trouble is she has at least one child already and she's probably "friend zoned" thousands of black men that just don't reach her standards!

[@mikesuarez7539]

They always go for the rough necks and get mad when he treats them rough. Then they think”it was because he wasn’t rich that he was like that” and they start going for rough necks with money. They never learn how to look for men with character.

[@newyoutubewhodis]

She really said "lack of money". As a white man I don't want her either. Imagine some financial disaster hits you (it happens) and next thing you know she's riding the bang bus.

[@JesusChrist-uu2te]

Look to break it down easy. Women find a man that is a provider attractive. And it's the only way a woman will be submissive, act like a woman is if you, as a man, are handling business and have things locked down even if something happens to you where you lose your job, lose a leg, lose your life. I think men aren't taught what it means to be a man, and it isn't emphasized what women find attractive about an attractive man.

[@Lightskinemagic1995]

@@JesusChrist-uu2tethat is not true I’ve never provided for any woman an I’ve had plent of relationships an cheated on them an they still took me back what a lot of guys fail to realize is the lack the looks they aren’t attractive. Woman are only attracted to handsome men if your handsome woman will submit to u it’s that simple

[@clauaome25]

then you shouldn't be dating, money is the bare minimum

[@newyoutubewhodis]

@@clauaome25 For a gold digger, yes.

[@clauaome25]

@@newyoutubewhodis exactly, fyi we are all gold diggers or rather safety seekers. We seek safety because it is our natural responsibility to bring life onto the world. It doesn't matter if a girl tells you she will support you if you lose your job. Let enough time go by and she will drop you and find the next guy. Facts.

[@alexfriedman918]

It’s not men (or women) - it’s making the same bad choices over and over again, but blaming someone else for it!

[@archiefair750]

That long draw on lack of money is a red flag to why she feels that way

[@kariw.160]

When I met my husband he had two kids from his first marriage. I knew he was the type to raise his kids because he was, and full time at that. Mom was nowhere to be found. I was straight with him too. Told him on our first date I wasn’t dating to waste my time, I was looking for a husband and if he didn’t want that it would be our only date. People these days are so chicken to speak their minds.

[@thicccarteronxbox9930]

Yeah and as part of gen z I can guarantee that there’s gonna be a lot less marriage cuz most of the guys these days just want s*x (speaking from experience of knowing my friends) and girls just want attention (speaking from lots of experiences like she got pissed at me cuz I had a job and couldn’t FaceTime her all the time (this has happened 3-4 times already))

[@timpowers6876]

If a woman told me she was only dating to marry I would been out in a second, that’s crazy you date to have fun and connect smh

[@BigChungus-m2j]

​@@timpowers6876People get to a point they want to settle down and find someone not fuck around dating a bunch of different people. When you grow up you'll understand

[@ConceptNull]

@@timpowers6876 Yes and you would be doing her a favor... You are acting like she loses something by not getting what she doesn't want in the first place.

[@gadielcandelaria2416]

I told my lady the same thing. We've been together 8 years now. And I love her kids like my own.

[@saneman7177]

Don’t blame skin colour ffs, blame your choices within that demographic… as a white man I can guarantee you it’s the same across the dating field, I know really cool people & pretty toxic people all across the diversity of race/gender etc…

[@basedbroskiworld]

white men are always the better option

[@traviswilliams1398]

She really acting as if non black men won't do the same things that she saying about black men. She don't want to have any kind of accountability for her choices social never take responsibility and blame her choices. The reality is that she don't want the black men who'll give her exactly what she wants but the the serious relationship and marriage she wants, she only wants it from the guys like the one who knocked her up and left her a single mother. Women like her will ever own up to their bad decision-making. They want to be victims. I'm a black man and I don't want any black woman like her.

[@saneman7177]

@@traviswilliams1398 just proves my point… you could type the exact same post but switch “black” with “white”, “male” with “female” & it’d make no difference… but I will say that’s also the point I’m trying to make, we need to stop doing that, putting emphasis on race when it’s actually a universal human experience… I think I’m lucky that I work in a profession that draws people in from outside my country, so I have good first-hand experience from an international spectrum… I can say it’s pretty much the same across the board, it’s what’s inside that dictates the outcome eventually… race has nothing to do with where I live at least…

[@traviswilliams1398]

@@saneman7177 Yeah most definitely there's tons of non black women whose first choice of men are the kinds of men who don't want to give them the commitment and marriage they want. Oftentimes women no matter what the race is their first choice of men is toxic bad boy alphas. The jerks, douchebags and assholes they will "accidentally" have kids with. Women of all races will choose men who will help them become single mothers instead of men who will turn them into wives. They only want men who don't want to commit to them and wife them up. Women whether black, white, asian, hispanic, mixed want commitment from men who don't want to give them commitment. Those are their first desirable options in men. Specifically when they're in their early-mid 20s they don't want men who are happy to give them the commitments and long-term relationship and marriage they want.

[@JIP411]

every race is brought up differently.

[@outsideview9052]

Talk about "emotional labor" and tauma, I cant imagine anything worse than dating a Black woman.

[@YounGWaRd91]

😂 I think being self accountable for your own actions/mistakes is a good start on improvement 😂

[@jinerrayoung278]

If someone fools you and you are honestly shocked and hurt. Was it your fault for not being skeptical of everything you didn’t see?

[@HomelessOnline]

That's the hardest part, recognizing your own culpability in everything that doesn't go well. Even when I'm not at fault, I find ways that I still could've affected the outcome differently.

[@dswynne]

Correction: "I am so tired of dating Pookies and Ray-Rays, for the lack of support, for the lack of commitment..." This is what kills me. ALL of these women, who complain about men, are really complaining about the top physically and economically viable me that they are attracted to. And, when they get burned, they make generalities about ALL men, including the nice guys they don't like. You can't make this stuff up.

[@Mr.Boddie]

Exactly they will get with these thug boys knowing from the jump that they aren't any good than get mad and complain when these same dudes up and leave them high and dry after getting what they wanted which is the 😺 than blame all black men because they picked a bum to me that is as dumb as trying to pick up a rattlesnake and then getting mad and complaining when it bites you on the hand I mean it's a snake after all that's what it's going to do same with these thugs boys these women already know what's going to happen getting involved with these types of dudes I mean they see it all the damn time but unfortunately a lot of these Sistah's are so damn hard headed and don't want to listen until reality knocks them upside the head and now most of them are struggling because they didn't listen nor heed the warning signs.

[@mateaukalua4426]

I wish she would just close her mouth and stay off social media and the internet.

[@keepmoving2023-ku7nb]

Exactly thats all these American women especially black women like pookie and Ray Rays

[@Rowan-mo4ko]

Isolated incidents arent isolated. Too many of them are saying it so 🤷

[@k1llamanjaro532]

Crazy how just because she had one negative experience with one black man she generalizes the whole group, not understanding that whoever she chooses to be with is a reflective mirror of what type of person she is.

[@Maxx_d13]

The blue birds go with the blues birds, the red birds go with the red birds! Yes, Ali did say that and they make it seem like it was so intelligent but if a white man said it, they’d bash him..

[@cedpete7434]

That's the same as "Birds of a feather flock together". A lot of people say that.

[@TheDorianTube]

​@@cedpete7434 That's more moral/personality oriented of a saying. Ali instead brought race into it.

[@piperlong544]

And that's why I consider him "The Greatest". He took the hardest punches to the head, and he STILL makes more sense than ANY white woman these days! 😂

[@VLorenzoStone]

What are you trying to say?

[@SeeLasSee]

Don’t date, just collect and grow their seed. Problem is this skips the natural life partner selection phase, which ultimately chooses suitable/compatible DNA. The tingles and lust are a poor substitute.

[@187Blackheart]

There's nothing stupid about wanting to have a black family when you are black

[@Slumfii7]

❤💯

[@justicedamagnificent6047]

Nothing at All... Latinas and Latinos are the same.

[@CoreyT127]

Its normal for any race. Its human nature.

[@epic7224]

I don't understand it tbh. Maybe because I'm mixed and most of my family is too.

[@grindhard4312]

@@epic7224 Yeah mix kids, even with the world being so clear and concise about who you are, a lot times, still grapple with who they are unfortunately. It's common and I get it.

[@ZONRICH]

Late Michael Jackson said. TITO GIVE ME A TUSSUE😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@AnarexicSumo]

It’s not the maturity it’s the skin pigmentation that’s to blame! (this is obvious sarcasm)

[@xsotica]

You forgot culture.... You can't deny that most of these black men were raised by their strong grandmas & mums... Guess what happens when these guys go out to date?

[@pale_saint]

Funny how these bi or tri racial girls are the fastest to complain and they exclusively choose the darkest of men, why?

[@jessefay4984]

Black culture, dont be dumb.

[@azure8696]

Right exactly

[@joedoug6251]

I'm black and every male cousin and nephew I have work and support their families. Most of us are veterans or active duty. Half of my uncles are also retired from the military and have great relationships with their grandchildren. It's not the race.

[@HenDrixPwns]

she's generalizing and she's upset at the same time. let her entertain herself with her dogshit thoughts.

[@analogalbacore7166]

Ok lets not talk about gangster culture. And that 15% commit almost 50% of murder. I dont blame her.

[@imdon8920]

​@@analogalbacore7166if 15% commit 50% of murder she wants what's in the 85%. She doesn't want the 15% cos that's pookie who gave her the baby in the back seat. The 85% don't care to be her clean up dude. That's why she can't find any in the 85% to commit to her.

[@dannyknightblade4592]

​@@analogalbacore7166Yeah, but straggs like her tend to be the same ones who raise the Pookies and Ray Rays that terrorize the Communitah.

[@dickenscider4082]

@@analogalbacore7166stop bunching all bm in with those people.

[@HeatherBDentureDiVa]

Honestly girl that's every race of man lol. I'm Italian, Brazilian, Irish and from Azores and I dated every race and yup all the men I dated I was the strong, supportive and financial one. It's just so hard to find a good genuine caring man

[@passportpapi713]

No it's not 😂😂😂😂 I see these dudes every fucking day super nice guys that even I say to my self "damn he's a total pûssy" these dudes are in your friend zone ma'am or they are ignored by u. It's the guys with no swag, no edge to him, probably comes off as weird and u never give them a shot bc u not attracted. How about look at that guy who is invisible to u that u would never give a shot the guy that u can tell he gets no women, yeah there's millions of them walking around praying for a woman to give his love a chance.

[@laanyan]

She's saying, "These men, a majority of whom were raised by single Black women, weren't raised right."

[@unicorn73212]

It's not their fault the father left and took 0 accountability for his kids even if you prove it's their kid. I've heard enough about you guys to know you're a bunch of hypocrites you want respect but you do nothing to earn it and shift the blame on women when you're called out for your dead beat behavior that's why the child is actually screwed up because your a bunch of lazy bums. Leave everything for the little woman to do and pretend like you built this world when you didn't you had help from women and other men building this world too.

[@itzyogurlEleanor]

.... Abandoned by their father's that didn't take time to get court to get them. The children must not have the ability to see themselves as a father.

[@kittykatz4001]

BW need to wave the white flag and surrender that trying to raise these boys has a high failure rate.

[@jesuswilljudge7296]

I wouldn't date a guy raised by a single mother

[@jaha777jaha6]

Still not taking accountability for the terrible turn of the blk community and the wmn who Did cause it...for a bag of course

[@Gobig4l1f3]

That lady is an example of being used up and ready to settle down at 30. Stay wise, brothers, and stack your money.

[@Freenewztv]

Yeh she's expired...

[@ThaPianoPlaya1]

Exactly 💯

[@pleasedonttemptme5963]

Facts. She’s ran through and sad

[@johnfitzgerald2426]

Another words looking for a beta simp to pay her way

[@nstr698]

The "fine as hell" got me 😂

[@kentbeitel9966]

“Corn braids” 😂😂😂😂😂

[@alfredcowans880]

😆🤣😂😂😭😆😆😆👍🏾 That's Wat I Said😭😆😆😆

[@han3wmanwukong125]

They don't want you. They don't need you. And quite frankly, they don't like you very much.

[@MrAmhara]

You need to level up. Truth is there are no true Black men in America. Just ninjas.

[@M1America]

I'm a white man and "lack of money" will never be an issue, because I'm not sharing.

[@williamgrissom1995]

She lost me at lack of money. 🤣

[@Cirithungul]

Right??? I was like, you independent right? Where your money?

[@misslady5754]

Money is important in a relationship. Black people in general make a us average of 35k. Black women however excel financially and educationally wise. Their wealth goes down when they marry Black men.

[@Cirithungul]

@@misslady5754 money is important...but apparently only for men to have. Women just want a man with money. How about women have money ALSO and the relationship is then equal. Men are not a bank.

[@AbhinavSmith]

She's right. Men needs to earn too

[@Cirithungul]

@@AbhinavSmith yes, TOO. So does SHE show a credit history or something before it gets serious? What money does SHE bring? Any land? A home? Anything? Or just a body and a baby?

[@johnknope1664]

I think all the black men who don't date black girls need to find the black girls that don't date black guys. Then get together and Starr a community together.

[@pj20555]

Nope... SYSBM.

[@theawesomest2850]

They really do lol they can talk about why they hate themselves so much

[@Bustaperizm]

Or just let people date who they want and ignore people that want to complain.

[@ulyssessmith454]

I’ll never understand why people say black men or women hate themselves for not dating within their ethnic group or is it just a shaming tactic for black women and seemingly other use to discredit why black men don’t want to be with them?

[@theawesomest2850]

@@ulyssessmith454 because some actually do hate the fact they are black. I worked with two people like this a guy and a girl. The girl did everything she could to hide her black features, hair color eye color etc. and the guy just flat out admitted he didn’t like that he was black and would gladly pick this shrek looking white woman over the rather decent looking black girl. The self hate is real

[@pedalingthru2719]

My question is what is she bringing to the table? She wants someone with money to support her. What is her credit score

[@themidnightace8295]

We live in a weird time where people run to social media as if we give a shit about who she dates the need for attention is crazy lol social media will be the end of all of us

[@sd21z]

Totally agree

[@YouKnowMeDuh]

Love when y'all start fighting all loud and shit 😂

[@fourwholefriedchickensanda2168]

For real 😂😂

[@bennybenjben9594]

Tbf any race is gonna be loud when fighting.

[@dequezborden6944]

He spittin tobacco all on his lip

[@jameswoods3062]

Man y’all crack me up every time 😂😂😂. My 21 year old son showed me your videos and I’ve been rolling every since

[@JasonNewsted420]

You can be sure she never had to struggle for anything

[@michelleoli4201]

Growing up in 90s i saw many trends. But one thing i noticed very quickly was how my dad spoke to my mom. So when i heard someone say "hey lil momma" i ran for the hills. There are many charming man out there. Doesn't matter what there race are. Just listen to what they say and what they do. People tell you who they are quickly! Just start believing in what you see.

[@AvalonDreamz]

Exactly. It's not rocket science.

[@GTGTC]

💯😉

[@LottimusMaximus]

She’s saying they don’t have shit. The woman looking to take take take always ends up back in the streets.

[@michaelgraves3290]

She is mad because she picked Pookie and Ray Ray. Who are just overgrown boys that didn't have anything going for them. Now she wants to blame all black men. When she passed good men up running to get at Pookie and Ray Ray. It's absolutely all her own damn fault for being a 304.

[@jakedalton6236]

Couldn’t of said it any better bro. It’s always gotta be the men’s fault though😂

[@AvalonDreamz]

And she is saying all this shit with her black son sitting in the back seat listening. smh

[@Uhhhhinnbb]

Black women are unlucky and don’t have enough good apples to choose like other races of women do and that’s why i support them dating out like myself only.

[@carguy6512]

She done had her box blown out by Tyrone's all these years, now she not happy 😂😂

[@treeamigo8447]

It actually is most bk men. I'm just being real. Culture is a real thing. We're different that much is for sure.

[@mtmnynj8071]

"... lack of money ...". what do you bring to the table ...? nothing but drama drama drama.

[@basedbroskiworld]

and she got a kid aint no way no man want that drama

[@agoins]

Corn braids bruh? That was a good one 😂 😂😂

[@johnson2191cj]

Stop dating thugs!!!

[@pleasedonttemptme5963]

She won’t. She a single mom, unless she finds a simp who is a loser in dating, thugs are her benchmark for life

[@prolific1518]

That's the problem when you chase wallets. The average black men isn't going to be in a position to pay all your bills and be used as a wallet unless he's a criminal. That's why BW are baby mamas and the black community has terrible outcomes.

[@Thatguyd7y]

Exactly! Accountability is her kryptonite

[@removilmata5377]

Let her keep doing it, it will help a lot of simp´s not get detroyed by this tipe of woman.

[@Oll_704]

So all black men are thugs ? All she stated was that she dated black men. What a weird assumption to make.

[@TheRealG2024]

She has done us ALL A FAVOUR!!

[@dalejulian989]

Yea dont kid yourself shes fine as hell

[@TheRealG2024]

@@dalejulian989 you can have her.

[@Mr.Boddie]

​​​​​@@dalejulian989Bruh let's be for real she may be fine and all but trust me she's more than likely damaged goods like a used car with high mileage and no respectable man in his right mind who has his stuff together and is looking for a serious relationship potentially leading to marriage is going anywhere near her the only kind of dude she will potentially pull is either another thug/ street dude or a weak jelly back simp but that's it.

[@dougbones7095]

​@@dalejulian989that doesn't mean shit, she's a crybaby and she will have you miserable after work every night. She's the type of woman who complain about cooking you a hot meal but don't want to pay a bill.

[@carbon6951]

The only reason why you never hear white women go in on white men heavy on social media is because white men control these media platforms, and have the resources to punish them if they tried.. In other words, a white female version of Cynthia G would have got her Channel taken down years ago!!

[@LJB64]

I love your porch jockey skits! They are successfully perpetuating. Thank you.

[@jonsingleton203]

Im a white guy and think her problem is going after ghetto black dudes . My best freind is a black guy who is also a combat veteran now a business owner and has 3 kids two in collage he is present in their lives . If she went fishing for whote guys in a trailer park im sure she would find the exact same problem . Moral of the story avoid gheto loosers but remember gheto loosers come in different colors

[@basedbroskiworld]

ghetto people can be good too theyre just poor

[@robsim4692]

What does "Ghetto black dudes" supposed to mean? Sounds like you churched up and slick talked a way to call people the "N" word with your white speak racism! Yeah i saw where you say you have a black friend, some white slave owners had black slaves they would consider a friend but just not equal to them or their white friends! You sound like a undercover racist trying to convince yourself you're different even though with all your compensation and effort you know your not!

[@docshay7328]

They dont want to hear this, because it makes too much sense.

[@tangoalpha94]

Yeah but the difference is she would act like the trailer white guy is a prize simply for being white. BW do this a lot. BM are held to a higher standard by BW

[@ramonhenderson7484]

💯🔥🎯🎯

[@Snoring_woke]

Every white father approves this message and forwards it to our daughters

[@demetriusevans4139]

They ain't listening. Incel

[@dbig48d]

Please do. I dont want my Son touching anything you Devils produces

[@4040smokey]

lol

[@DrRhilTV]

This comments shows how out of pocket she was for saying this lol

[@carbon6951]

And that will make them run to the hood much faster!! I once had a coworker who was super racist.. In fact, I wouldn't be surprised if he was the grand wizard of the clan.. Anyway, his daughter and grandson showed up to the job one day.. His grandson was a baby.. I walked by the baby carriage and saw that his daughters baby was clearly half-black!! I was totally SHOCKED!!! Children are rebellious.. Sometimes the very group of people you sit around trashing all day in front of your kids will be the same group your kids run towards!!

[@mrmic7065]

"I'm so freakin pissed"😂 -White Chicks movie

[@jakethegreatest473]

This is what happens when told you're men ain't shit from a toddler to adulthood by all the older female relatives.....men fill the role they are told to fill

[@AvalonDreamz]

Right. Her son as well that is in the back seat listening to his mother speak about how awful black men are. smh That is shameful.

[@hornetguy9063]

Yup. Black women are raising the black men that they complain about.

[@5hadowlight85]

Facts

[@JFEnterprize]

I can show you to some great, hard working, mostly honest, and honorable black men if you want.

[@YouKnowMeDuh]

If that's what she wants, and if that is what she deserves. Her having a child already and clearly being young is not a good sign.

[@powerofme7144]

@@YouKnowMeDuh Yep, the Godfather would have had his usual field day with her.

[@denverscott37]

"mostly honest" 😂😂😂

[@igpxmaster]

@@denverscott37😂😂😂

[@nessinay1535]

​@@powerofme7144Oh you mean the gay man that's worm food now. Oh him...lol

[@profil-avitaravitar-profil7852]

Blame a collective for the faults of an individual.

[@pkstar4641]

The black dudes I met say the same thing about black women. But I can vouch for them black dudes I met and they are chill af.

[@igpxmaster]

Black women like thugs that’s the problem

[@johnhotson3796]

She really said nothing that would encourage a white guy to date her either......

[@AngelHxze]

You're assuming she would be interested in dating a white man..

[@Mr.Boddie]

​@@AngelHxzeWell she did say she's tired of black men did she not 🙄😒 and let's be honest I can assure you that most non bm are NOT going anywhere near this young woman at all so she knows she's pretty much screwed.

[@KnightxWulfx]

They dont want us either and Im Asian lol, it is what it is. Guess Im just gonna die alone.

[@AngelHxze]

@@Mr.Boddie There are other men besides white men lmao

[@youknowwhatflav9916]

​@@AngelHxze right !!! White people swear their center of everyone's universe 🙄

[@latiquaplease7915]

Cornbraids is sending me. 😭😂😭

[@cherub3624]

All too common. Beautiful girl making dumb ass choices and then wanting someone else to step in. Grow tf up BEFORE you get in this position.

[@christopherterzakos6118]

She lost me at being owed a good man. You don't deserve love you earn it.

[@ms.christheevangelist]

You're wrong. Every human being deserves Love--even the most unlovable ones...🦋🌹

[@AV-kr6gc]

@@ms.christheevangelistyour not wrong but not every woman deserves a man to commit to her

[@maxfanin1792]

Hey i worked hard at something i hope i get a good result. You cant blame her for putting her heart into somebody and THEY take advantage of the situation. For all you know she did and does deserve a good man.

[@WakandaleezaRazz]

@@ms.christheevangelistNo they don’t lmfao

[@ms.christheevangelist]

@@WakandaleezaRazz God says, "Yes, they DO!" 😂🦋🌹

[@Mr_Ray.]

How she said “lack of money” already screams volumes. Red flags all around.

[@vinsanity982]

I got respect for black men for the level of patience they have with their women.

[@leekycheeks2891]

Thanks dude we are out here putting in the work we just get 0 publicity get called weak and mistreated for giving a damn and treating them right and constantly get crucified for what the toxic ones did regardless of who we are as individuals

[@radiantgoldensun6438]

It has nothing to do with color. People ain’t ish, and have to work on themselves 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@humblyg1]

​@@radiantgoldensun6438you right

[@grindhard4312]

Thank you

[@morpheusreign7299]

Patience has ran out and Flights are being booked where the assignment of kindness respect and loyalty is honored and reciprocated..these women here are trapped in there own trauma and don’t want to take responsibility for there own healing.. dysfunctional children become dysfunctional adults until healed and whole unto themselves

[@Sam-df9rs]

😂😂😂😂 You two are absolutely underrated in comedy. Absolutely hilarious!😂

[@RuthAnne1961]

People are people, good and bad. Someone once told me this and it's never left me......'you deserve what you tolerate '..... and that's the truth!!

[@stevenfetterly7505]

Lady, ... speak your mind to the men you date. If you want to save sex until marriage or until you're feeling committed to .... then do it. Most men won't date you, but the ones that will, are of a higher grade.

[@dougknapman7016]

That would be good advice if she did not have a kid. Now she would be enforcing a double standard, making a "better" man wait for what another man got easier. Women need to remember they are the gatekeepers to sex, if their body count is high, they need to learn to say no.

[@chriswooten7693]

I tell my girls don't get rid of their diamond until they get one on their finger because they can never get it back

[@hornetguy9063]

No man of a higher grade is dating a woman with this attitude and baggage.

[@Aaron_Heininger]

Yep if you wait and not just give it out like candy then you'll find the right person. Only girls that just let it happen end up in misery with a small percentage finding that lucky man to treat them right. Personally I'm just gonna wait for God to find me the right girl cause I don't trust my judgement.

[@FatalS420]

What does a man get in return from spending his meat? Money, energy, attention, and time.

[@kpas22105]

These women pick men like this and ignore a whole lot of men that wouldn’t. When they stop rewarding the scumbags maybe their luck will change

[@brettreason484]

Good men are boring. Women hate boring, they love toxic.

[@lukewalken1316]

They stop when they past their prime

[@kpas22105]

@@lukewalken1316 Yep, sometimes it works out that way

[@morpheusreign7299]

Water seeks its own level even if it’s ditch water and sewer water .. fresh water scares the entire sh*t outta them when they get it they poison it with their own attitude and then complain.. how you pick ditch water and sewer water drink it and complain but everyday they passing up good fresh clean water .. the clean water must be gay if he doesn’t sleep around and find his seed valuable .. the clean water is nasty because he doesn’t have a rotation that she can compete with .. the clean water is nasty because he know where his birth certificate is at the clean water is nasty if he don’t have a play station instead of a buisness ..women love nasty ditch water and toxic water that’s where they thrive at..and that really what’s deep down inside of them..

[@Mr.Boddie]

Sorry brotha but most of them never learn until it's too late which is sad that is why I don't even waste my time anymore trying to talk to them I learned that at a young age, like Destiny's Child ( Beyonce's old group sung back in the day) : If ya status ain't hood I checking for him Betta be street if he lookin at me I need a soldier that ain't scared to stand up for me known to carry big things if you know what I mean. I remember when that song first came out and what disturbed me most was hearing little girls as young as 7 years old singing that mess and they weren't even old enough to know nor understand what the song was about, that right there should get us in the black community to WAKE THE HELL UP.

[@alfredcowans880]

"Corn Braids" 😭💀🤣😆😆💀

[@georgemangen1049]

Be the person you are trying to find.....you first. Then....you might find....

[@dejawii3759]

Corn braids took me outtt😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@theawesomest2850]

As a black man married to his black wife, this kind of thing pisses me off. You go and date a whole bunch of pookies dudes and literally do what we want everyone else to stop doing to us and generalize all black men. Same kind girl who gonna look at the brother who’s going somewhere and say”he’s not my type” go back to some dude who probably got multi baby mamas get mad that she can’t make him faithful cause duhh. And blame it on all black men? But I bet when she go and date some white guy he can be any kind of way, from a stand up guy to a piece of shit, she gonna settle. Our community needs self love

[@LiasVS_]

I'm a big believer of what you bring in is what you get out. The energy you bring into a relationship is what you get out out a relationship. Need to reevaluate yourself before you get into a relationship. It's not a race thing.

[@craigblack8382]

She speaking FACTS perpetuating the norm is what we do?

[@7Steveski]

It has always amazed me how women of any color pick bad guys who ruin their lives. But I think there’s a generational “curse” or something. Thank the Lord, my wife and I Have been married over 40 years and our six children are all married (once each).

[@skycat777u.k5]

Praise the Lord 🙌that's beutiful God is good 🙂👍

[@lukewalken1316]

Good for you Sir.Raise them right

[@clauaome25]

when the government starts giving hand outs to POC to support poverty, women can make do without a man, technically, this is the result of democratic policies. to disrupt the POC family unit

[@andrewrupkus8697]

Shit is never gonna stop if she keeps dating thugs that live in the projects

[@timothyprice9064]

After she tells you how bad he treated her, how broke he was, how poor his education was, and runs him down to the dirt my only question remains. Why or how was he the best guy you could find to have a child with? Who she decides to have a child with tells you just about all you need to know about her.

[@MrGMawson2438]

Spitting all over me 😆

[@Dewledoux]

I can’t imagine her having much problems finding a good guy. She’s stunning.

[@ThenameisOskar]

I wouldnt date/marry her

[@basedbroskiworld]

women just want the dick these days and put that at the top of the list

[@littlekingtrashmouth9219]

Don’t equate beauty with goodness. The pretty ones never learn bc they don’t have to try as hard

[@TheObserver85]

Sounds like she doesn't want a good guy, just a bad boy she can "change" good.

[@Mr.Boddie]

Sir you can put a wig, lipstick,ear rings and a dress on a pig but that doesn't make it a lady yeah she may be attractive but with her attitude,mouth and entitlement mindset she won't stay in a relationship long cause believe me no man with any kind of good sense is going to tolerate that sorry but it's not gonna happen.

[@dbreezymuzic]

He slid that “Fine as hell” in there smooth (pause)😂😂😂

[@TheCoreyHodges]

“Fine as hell.”

[@jeffcarlos5780]

she wants all the benefits of taking your money without doing s*** and return

[@dennis39able]

probaby dating out of her actual market place.

[@chadcadsonvii5258]

SYSBM, get your passports guys.

[@dangelamarx80]

Those Women want your money too. The girl in the video just wants an honest relationship. The girls abroad will want that cash upfront…. But might set you up to be robbed too.

[@Niic208]

Dude most non black women find African features hideous 😂. You bm are not going to go to other races of mens communities without war

[@YouKnowMeDuh]

​@@dangelamarx80Always be vigilant, especially when going to a foreign country. Some specifically wait for tourists so they can run their scams. Dog eat dog world isn't just the US 🤷

[@chrismaddock5790]

My advice to my daughters when it comes to dating is going to be simple: No sex, UNLESS that person you're about to have sex with is someone who has proven to you that they want to actually commit to you, not just some arsehole trying to get into your trousers. Oh and they must always ALWAYS wear protection EVERY. DAMN. TIME. Because unless he's in a full time job and shows that he's responsible with money, no man below the age of twenty five is ready for the responsibility of children, thus meaning you'll be a single mother forever struggling to take care of something that's going to depend on you for everything every day of it's life for at least sixteen years.

[@user-ze3sg6ix1u]

Dude I have no kids but I feel the same. In addition to your rules I'd say that I HAVE TO meet the boyfriend before it gets ANYWHERE close to serious. He's meeting me, my three younger brothers and all of my male friends. We're ALL testing his character. Multiple times too. A weak man who is just trying to manipulate her will recoil at having to meet the family and feign virtue. I also would advise her to date a man 10 years older than her. Like you said there's likely no point in dating a 21 year old man, it won't go anywhere.

[@chrismaddock5790]

@@user-ze3sg6ix1u Agreed bro, I might add that bit on, except I have no brothers, but plenty of bros who would happily go all uncle buck on his arse XD

[@besticudcumupwith202]

...sixteen years? Try early-mid twenties. They may eventually move out, but you'll still be "helping" them with bills and stuff whether you want to or not. Cause they're your babies.

[@MrYtubenewsanchorman]

Absolutely worthless if they don't actually take your advice into action. There is only one way for men and women to protect themselves and that is through being married before sex.

[@Krazykat3141]

Thank you for that statement. Your attitude enabled me to find the best man in the world. Im white and he’s black. You have me the greatest gift I have ever received.

[@rolando3853]

Man theres many good Black men who get paid well with good morals over here in Detroit who work for Union Iron Workers local 25.That women is trying to find a good man at the club

[@House_of_Zodd]

What's up girl, I'm whiter than an albino cave lizard

[@benjahbarnacles2937]

😂😂 I wasn’t expecting that !

[@bigschocolate]

corn braids is comedy af 😭😭😂😂

[@Mighty-VizioN]

As a professional black man with locks.... I approve this message. Don't date black men. Its obvious to her that we are all the same.

[@CC-pu6qn]

She’s making a generalization, obviously. However, we all see black neighborhoods the families are MOSTLY broken, stop gaslighting BW. Other races of women get treated wayyyy better!

[@dthrust9037]

@@CC-pu6qnhow do those other women act?

[@mateaukalua4426]

The men she chooses are all the same. That's her problem not ours.

[@Turtle9815]

​@@CC-pu6qnMaybe if BW had more estrogen and less testosterone, then maybe they would be able to attract good men

[@LKS-M9323]

cut your hair. Your a guy smfh 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

[@tripp2023]

My dating experience has brought me to conclude that all of the men on dating sites are married no matter what ethnicity they are. The excuses they come up with though😂 PURE GOLD A jewish guy told me his wife changed religions, and had joined a church that didn't believe in sex . So she gave him the ok to find a gf🤦🏾‍♀️

[@pleasedonttemptme5963]

This is a joke right

[@tripp2023]

@@pleasedonttemptme5963 not at all lol

[@gunkem214tv2]

I am so... (Fine as hell) 😂😂😂😂

[@995black]

There’s nothing stupid in wanting your kids to be blk, or white, or Latina and etc.

[@jamesgasable]

We not going to do none of that until y’all start acting like feminine women and not masculine men

[@bgifford1969]

Maybe if y'all stepped up and acted like men then the women wouldn't have too.

[@jamesgasable]

Black women are the only women that talk about they don’t need a man so if you all stop with that mindset and emasculating black men maybe we will all be what you need

[@BOZ_11]

@@bgifford1969 u cant be told nish

[@jamesgasable]

Yes ma’am, I’m going to be bigger human being (man) and say both sides has work to do, but I guarantee you that most men will admit that fact before women will. You (women) will say it’s ALL our fault.

[@rockk9753]

@@jamesgasable yeah specially black women they want to be talking crap, sometimes they wont even make food when they know you been working like a dog, and they dont take accountability for their bs, they also want to brag about being stong and independent but come back talking about I love you and all this bs haha

[@BCS-t4q]

"Fine as hell" 😅😂🤣

[@traviswilliams1398]

Her lack of accountability is so predictable. She deserves all the hate she'll get for what she saying. It's not bm that's the problem it's her choice of bm. She's her own problem bc the only kind of bm she's interested in are the ones who don't wanna give her what she wants. It's the bm she doesn't want to want to give her what she wants.

[@alxra]

"My wife's latina." No $hit. Ask any of her cousins, brothers, uncles, father, etc. they all want kids that look like them!

[@passportpapi713]

U know u can look like someone without having the same skin tones right??