Don't Get into the Players Game Unless You Ready to Fight

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[@supremevision631]

This is why dudes fall out in the club and somebody end up hurt. Either the woman trying to start some stuff, her man got major insecurities or the player is to persistent.

[@RomWills]

You seen this play out.

[@prayermadepatna8439]

SupremeVision.. I was the too persistent player in that situation once before. A man got to be on high alert when on that night scene.

[@taycal7076]

and that's why i will tell anybody looking for quick sex to find your local community colleges and go hunt there. its all types young,middle and old. they be looking to get into something sometimes. plus more.

[@loveincorporated9658]

This is the dark side of the Game most men never talk about.

[@RomWills]

Men have to know all sides of the game.

[@KtotheG]

I never got into a physical altercation with a dude over a female. My squad rolled thick. Some of us had the heat and wasn't afraid to use it, either. In college, I remember this one dude stepped to me over his chick I cussed out for talking greasy to me. I told him the deal, that she disrespected me first. I could tell he didn't want it, so he just said, "well, don't say anything to her and she won't say anything to you." I was like, "whatever" and walked off. Plenty of men are in the ground and in the clinker over females. It ain't always worth it, unless you're truly protecting her honor. Some women... i.e. bitches... have no honor, though.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@lavarism9661]

One thing that stuck out to me what Rosebudd said he did during his years of pimping on one of his podcasts is that, "Diplomacy is the best policy and always is the first choice. There isn't any sense in one alpha killing another alpha, especially over some female."

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@ratbatnufftime2861]

3MCL EHT we males have to be better. Just being who we are demands it. I think it was Pimpin' Ken who said pimping is a non-contact sport.

[@Kyofitnesscoaching]

If you are not prepared to break someone's jaw or neck you shouldn't play those games Not only prepared but equiped and built to do those things Great video Uncle

[@RomWills]

That's what I'm trying to tell them Nephew. The game gotta a dark side.

[@RobsterCWell]

That type of drama is to rich for my blood. Man don't need drama, but I don't mind conflict.

[@RomWills]

I feel you.

[@saverplanetofworlds482]

Regardless of being a player or not a real mean always got to be ready to protect himself or his loved ones. Especially in a physical fight one on other with another man.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@willms7173]

I've noticed on a number of occasions, how women might enter a vehicle after leaving a store, or another type of an establishment. Often times, the man waiting for her, may not necessarily be in an actual parking space.

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@mauribush88]

This is one of the reasons I don't get into player mode in my immediate living surroundings. I'm very picky nowadays, as opposed to how indiscriminate I was five years ago.

[@RomWills]

Smart move. Men need to have standards.

[@TheMidnightMaroon]

These are facts of life. I don't have much experience in regards to boyfriends or husband's wanting an altercation. But damn near every time I go out, and especially when I'm with a woman, I notice little acts of micro aggression from other men in the area. I remember walking with a young Bengali woman through downtown Houston. My head was on a constant swivel, and watching every man that walked by. She goes; "why are you so alert?" I said baby I'm just doing what I do. Incredible drop Rom. No one else is talking about shit like this.

[@matthewbrown1279]

Powerful... This is exactly why it's best to let the lady make the approach/wait until SHE flirts. Thirsty dudes lose the advantage of being discreet. YOU already have to keep a hand canon if you plan on piping these women nowadays. I never fall asleep around her whether we get a room or are at her place.

[@matthewbrown1279]

On one occasion, at her place, I swear I heard the doorknob turning while I'm handling my business. Don't know if it was her man or whatever but that was the last time I ever fucked with a chick in territory that wasn't neutral. Stay woke brethren.

[@RomWills]

Yeah a man has to be aware of his surroundings.

[@robertgrays8790]

True that; If you're not looking out for them, they'll be looking out for you. First to get the jump wins.

[@skinfanjay]

No doubt

[@MuhammadAli-mf1hw]

All these women in the world and guys fighting over women 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️😓😓😓😓😓😭😭😭😭😭

[@RomWills]

Some men lucky to get who they get.

[@SmallsGang_773]

Man fighting over a woman is simping!

[@Sam-jp2lu]

No need too fight over someone that is not lusting after you. Let's be the Bait too allure them but keep on the look out.

[@lsporter88]

Absolutely. Sometimes it's not worth it. Real talk.

[@RomWills]

Real talk Bro. Leslie.

[@donnelladams6284]

I was dealing with a chick and her dude called me and I gave him all the information he wanted. She did that man dirty

[@RomWills]

Wow.

[@bigkev9539]

+kiran mn She lied about ordidn't mention having a dude.

[@SIRLAVO4excellence]

Good game bro. I've been in situations where a woman invited me over and told her current dude she was gonna be busy so don't call her. I thought she was single. She wasn't. Her crib was set up to where it was one way in and one way out...Brooklyn brownstone. The boyfriend showed up leaving me trapped inside with her. I had to coax her on what to say and how to get him away. He went down the block. She said OK... He's gone. I said no he is not. He was back 5 mins later and banging on door and glass. I got her to spit some more game. Wore her tail out and vowed to know I'm gonna play the game and like you said... Be ready, either with game of my mouthpiece or force with the fist. The game can be dangerous.

[@RomWills]

That real talk. The game has to be taken seriously.

[@C.Douglas777]

EVERYBODY AIN'T BUILT 4 IT... GOOD CONVO OG!

[@RomWills]

Many cats need to focus on finding that one woman.

[@neetea2]

And this is why im in the gym and plan on taking some type of boxing/mma type style.. dont mess with other dudes women knowingly

[@RomWills]

Watch some women though.

[@MsJoyce31202]

Please be observant. It's dangerous out here. People are weird and too ready to jump to conclusions.

[@e-jaythesupreme1504]

Thank you for the info.

[@TTBTechResumes]

If "your girl" is choosin up give her back to the wild. It's about how she reacts to other men as well. Pull up to the stop light and shes gazing into the man next to you eyes. Let her out right there and have her get in the car with him. Lol Keep it lit. That's like dudes that catch "their woman" cheating and want to fight the nigga. She the one you was laid up with saying I love you and shit not him. He just playing the game like we playing the game.

[@RomWills]

Yes.

[@wormsali]

Yup he jus doin what he sposed to do

[@sudarshangs4235]

facts G

[@willms7173]

Not really being ready to fight, was one of the motivating factors that kept me out of the players game. Although on some level, I was motivated to study the basics of the martial arts including Tai Chi. It was almost like I was trying to gradually work myself into the game. I've never been the rambunctious (Big Word) type. I figure that the players game does not require one to be rambunctious anyway, but a man should at least be able to handle himself in a situation. And on some level this is my game.

[@RomWills]

Yes a man has to always be able to handle himself.

[@madslasher18]

Rom burning the midnight oil. 👌🏿 DROPPING KNOWLEDGE EARLLLLLLY

[@GokuBlack-sn5dr]

i approached this muslim woman she went crazy and called her husband and then my ass had to run

[@RomWills]

Have to observe the situation first.

[@mikerizzyraw]

lmao.. i don't approach chicks in burkas

[@GokuBlack-sn5dr]

this woman was wearing a hijab with tight jeans and her ass sticking out, i just had to

[@ibrahimismail8670]

lmao

[@Magi-engineer_shiva-destroyer]

Certain hoods in Chicago have a mentality relative to this in which one of the things you can't do if you not from there or know anyone from that area is "mic" on their women doing that is considered worse then "opening up shop" on there block

[@RomWills]

That's real talk.

[@o.p.4254]

Wow!

[@SmallsGang_773]

Man these hoes are for everyone, Im from Chicago . Yeah mfz gonna hate but fuck em... I normally spit game in areas were I got people.

[@Malik_Hoff]

I've been Stabbed over this. Playing with some dudes girl. Rom Not Playing. Not fucking worth it. 🙏🙏🙏

[@mr.wright7803]

That’s why it is always wise to watch and peep who is with who before you step. Now if she comes to you that’s another thing. But if you see her with someone fall back unless she makes it obvious that it ain’t nothing.

[@RomWills]

Yep, peep the situation at all times.

[@ThaDocta_Evans97]

2:21 That’s me right now Uncle Rom I be ready to go to someone’s jaw out of principle if they’re being disrespectful, but I’m still working on me though

[@shadowgiest22]

Yeah these days I'm too old to be jumping out of second story windows. That was the good thing about the Army. Usually you can run faster scared than they can mad.

[@RomWills]

LOL

[@meezy3188]

Lmao

[@kelvinrice7872]

This is definitely real talk Rom! That's why it's so important to respect people when you're out in these streets because shit is real and serious and that's why I expect to be respected in return. Mainly be cautious of the women you choose to approach where ever you're at because you never know the scenario of the situation when it comes to these women. Another important thing you mentioned which is something I do which I've learned throughout the years because I made my mistake and a old school cat checked me about and I took the constructive criticism! Especially when you're in a club where you have a lot of women at, you can't just assume shit at all as far as automatically thinking these women are by themselves because that's how it appears to be. You must observe and watch to see what's what before you decide to approach a woman, you never know, her man could be in the bathroom and come right and see you talking to his woman and it could be a serious problem because that guy could be crazy and possessive! I'm a tell you a story fam that this old school cat told me, he was at a club and he saw this guy buy this woman a drink and send it to her by the bartender. Next thing you know, a guy walks right up on him, wrap his arm around the guy and tell what's up man like he's speaking to him and then asked him could he buy him a drink! My man reply was why you're asking me to buy you a drink, I don't know you, he said, you just bought my woman a drink, see shit like that but if my man had of been more observant and scope the scenery out a little more, he would've been up on what was going on and seen who was with who. That's just one story, I can tell you more and these other ones lead to serious physical violence which can and will get to that point in a lot of cases. Like I was told, guys will kill for a bad chick, especially a yellow one! I remember when my grandfather who lives in Chicago, he would tell my father when they would go to Mississippi to visit they peoples, my grandfather would tell my father when they go to certain places, don't say nothing to these guys women because more than likely, they're with somebody, I don't if they do speak or smile at you, these southern guys are crazy down here when it comes to they women.At the end of the day, men need to realize that, that vagina between that woman's legs is hers and she'll open her legs and give it to whoever she wants to at any given moment, it don't belong to you, even if you marry her, I can tell you from experience as well as yourself, these women are not worth killing for nor dying for! So guys need to be mindful about starting shit you can't finish with other men over women. Another too, even if you're a very skillful fighter and have maximum strength physically, you still have to be very careful in these streets because you'll always meet your match!!!!!!!!!!

[@RomWills]

Great comment.

[@adrianthomas373]

T'challa vs Mbaku!!! LMFAO the power of the D.C. Panther has been relinquished!!!

[@RomWills]

LOL

[@schoolshiiit1409]

Crazy shit out here, gotta almost have the aura of a psycho killer these days... I been on slack mode but I always try to stay updated n the real and raw.

[@RomWills]

You have to stay updated out here.

[@ghanadan5659]

Haven't started the video and I know this is a classic

[@RomWills]

Thanks fam.

[@wormsali]

I feel u But there's a big difference between learning to talk to women and bein a player

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@legendoftwok6586]

The one thing I never understood is a man getting OVER protective over a woman towards a stranger. It’s too many crazy ppl in the world to be bucking at everyone that looks her way. I would only get aggressive towards someone who is CLEARLY violating and disrespecting me and mine other than that I take any attention towards the shawty I’m with as a compliment.

[@RomWills]

I understand.

[@Blackout300]

Well said Rom!!!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@adrianthomas373]

Ain't nobody else in the game kicking this!!!

[@RomWills]

I don't know fam. I just share what I know.

[@rahkeemthegreat360]

great video

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@salsaqueen4911]

I'm a female and have these problems the only thing I take my super time in my moves and then I see the guy for what and who he really is. Your so right too many people with too many games.

[@quitepossible4498]

Throw hands? Lol You better know how to fight AND pack some heat.

[@RomWills]

Real talk these days.

[@healthpot5033]

Great game Rom.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@bigkev9539]

I don't endorse mate poaching (fuckin' with other dudes' women), precisely BECAUSE of all these stories of dudes getting thrown in jail, getting fucked up physically, or even killed over that shit. *It's one thing if the broads are lying about/don't mention being in a relationship (it's not you're fault then). But to intentionally try to cuckhold another man (without his permission, of course) is grounds for potential murder.* My thing is, if a guy's going to live that lifestyle, a precursor should be that he only gets with women that are single themselves, in order to cut down on the risk of drama. *This is where I disagree with guys like Alan Rodger Currie and Alpha Male Strategies that ignore/endorse mate poaching, because, as Hardcore Tito has pointed out, a big critique of the dating coach industry is that most of the coaches only teach about how TO get laid, but never teach the guys about the consequences OF getting laid, especially "getting laid at all costs".* Same thing goes with these females. If she truly wants to ride the cock carousel, then she needs to be honest (above all with herself) about it and stop trying to insuate wanting a serious relationship of any sort. Because this fuckery of trying to hop back and forth between being a hoe and being a housewife (going back and forth between the regular dating world and the "sexual shadow world") in the name of "sexual liberation" and unchecked hypergamy is exactly why an ever-increasing number of women are either batshit crazy and/or stuck with incurable STDs from hopping on too many dicks. kzbin.info/www/bejne/o4Pam5eKo9VghKM *We have rules, so as to prevent unnecessary chaos, pain, and suffering.*

[@cardiganflynn4905]

MAAAN that last piece about the ex tryna get her dude to fight you! Thats cold smh. Rom can you give us some game on how chicks set men up against each other?

[@RomWills]

Yeah I need to do that.

[@cardiganflynn4905]

Ryan D Facts my G

[@MultiStar84]

Rom Muthafuckin WIlls, always kickin' us game & facts

[@pharoahworld_class_hustlae9997]

Uncle Rom, I have to say you keep that shit 🔥🔥💯💯

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@martialartist06]

We got the street Rom on this video! Lol

[@RomWills]

LOL

[@msingathingwenze6631]

Straight up uncle Rom, it is essential for us as men to know what time it is. One of the typical scenarios regarding the theme of this video is dealing with an attractive woman that lives in or comes from a dangerous neighborhood, more often then not she might be fuckin with some dangerous nigga or niggaz that arent shy to tear someone's shit up over her, it definitely does help to be a thorough dude who can get down/busy in this type of situation 💯

[@RomWills]

I got stories behind that.

[@msingathingwenze6631]

I know of a couple of dudes that caught wreck behind a that type of a female, the most recent was a dude we grew up with, he got hit in that girl's home because they were living together at the time, this was a bitter reminder of how grimey the game can get, especially in our black neighborhoods.

[@jabbzcross2880]

Damn!!when macing goes wrong 😆😆

[@SmallsGang_773]

If youre approach is respectful and she got a man and he pops up just be player about it and give props and fall back. Man I dont care if they come at females im with. Im confident and sit back. She lets em know "Im with him"

[@thebest12700]

lol luckily i didnt really have to fight back in those days. but had plenty of close calls, sensitive dudes callin my phone askin bout they girl. i never understood that shit. go talk to her is all i had to say! i cant solve anything for u bro

[@RomWills]

Dudes do need to confront their women though.

[@sniper11n.d.34]

What i always find funny is when i see couples the guy start kissing his girl but hey player if you are so insecure about your girl i will do here in front of you no joke.

[@RomWills]

Bruh... You don't play.

[@sniper11n.d.34]

I feel the same as you.

[@1122slickliverpool]

This is deep. lol You can't be scared to through them hands. Even if you do get your ass whooped. lol

[@RomWills]

Yep.

[@baconhigh3882]

If you take boxing would you be safe in a street fight

[@anthonywilliams9415]

.......with YET(raises finger) another video👍🏿👍🏿. Hella game involved. I appreciate your videos Rom, always good game to soak up. Much respect. Made me reevaluate how I see women. Thanks again!!

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@CGthree2]

This isn’t Fighting somebody in a dojo 😂

[@BrolyKing801]

Dont be a playa unless you ready to fight because they will try you im Glad im on Nofap it makes a man dangerous thus game aint for the weak

[@SeanDiego]

I’ll throw hands, kicks, bows with the quickness for my queen. Train daily

[@SeanDiego]

Hope you doing well Unc!

[@JayGrinding]

Fax💯

[@SmallsGang_773]

I took my puma out sunday night and guys were scared to dance with her. Im not a dancer and told her to dance with any guy she wants. Its all in your look, I dont smile or look goofy... I sit back chilled and drunk my drink.

[@RomWills]

Seen.

[@EdwinRiveraTheOneThatGotAway]

Ah ha !

[@alanfreeman7374]

This type stuff has made me back off from perusing plenty of times... Too many potential pit falls to end up in..

[@RomWills]

THe game is good and bad.

[@mrj9224]

Wish u upload later in morning I miss being first lol

[@RomWills]

I schedule them now so I can do other things in the morning.

[@MalakShelomoh921]

Very true, gotta be observant before approaching a woman in a public space.

[@RomWills]

Gotta be.

[@kevinjones9127]

Hey Uncle Rom first off much respect you real and you right dudes shouldn't get in game especially if they playing game on some slick shit but if a dude work on his hands and got vicious streak he will be problem for anybody but on a light and more important note congratulations to UMBC they made history beating UVA as 1 seed that shit was awesome

[@RomWills]

Thanks fam.

[@rakeanecollins2366]

Yeah!Me and this dude were ringing the same girl's bell!Then walked into the apartment together!He asked who I was and I turned just left.Long story short,I asked and she lied.I wasn't gonna do nothing,but if he stepped.....!

[@salvieluciano2431]

Every time the Cullens Brothers see me, bc of my former life as a hit guy, they take off runnin l, I would just be shooting.....🤔💯😂😂😂

[@robertgrays8790]

I'm fearful for some of these guys that try to get tough over a woman. That guy that came over to your house could have been looking down the barrel of a shotgun and the jaws of a pit-bull pack if he tried that shit in my neighborhood. Solo, it's like what people used to say: If you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen. Leave the cooking to the professionals, and even then it's dangerous for them; they get burned every once in a while. Good show of conflict-resolution skills, though. I wish I had that back when I had tight spots to get out of.

[@RomWills]

Yeah dude didn't know what I had in my place. He was looking scared though.

[@ratbatnufftime2861]

Uncle Rom, you're not even a full two inches taller than me!!! That's a shock. I'm 5'9" myself.

[@RomWills]

I'm a stocky brotha.

[@ratbatnufftime2861]

Rom Wills okay.

[@doreengartrell5428]

Went out with one of my exes and at the time he was engaged, now married. We were just friends and hadn't done anything in years. So we walking to the concert and I point blank ask him what you going to do if some of you and your girl mutual friends see us here. He says some flaky lie and I go along because I can't think of a better one to tell. So we go to our assigned seats at the concert and he goes to get us drinks. This young man sees me across the pallidium, we are at one of those outdoor venues, and he starts coming towards me. He is looking so intense and I'm just totally flattered grinning my head off. The dude starts jumping over the empty seats like a gazelle to get to me and I'm like damn he fine and fit. He's about two rows away and I hear this thundering voice from the side of me "What the fuck is going on here!" It was my ex returning with the drinks. The guy looks at me with utter disappointment and I'm in shock like What! But also a little scared because I mean he hollered this shit. Dude walks away my friend mumbling and I'm just in shock cause I wanted to talk to the man. We had connected with the eyeballs. Then my ex just started a conversation all nice and shit like nothing had happened at all. We never spoke on it ever again and I'm still friends with him to this day. In fact he hooked me up on a blind date. What was that about?

[@RomWills]

You were still marked territory at that point. Apparently he got over it.

[@AndrewJohnson-bj3hp]

That's why I am sneaky as hell on talking to women sometimes. Let's say I was in Pizza Hut. I would talk to her when a group of men are not staring at her anymore. Approach her when she comes out the toilet and stuff. Its just I hate low key competitions over women. Catching evil looks and shit. lol!

[@RomWills]

Do your thing.

[@andretownsel2989]

Hey Rom my man with the wisdom there this black woman on youtube name "Deborrah Cooper" and she breaks down her thoughts and Ideas on what Womb imprint really means. When you get a chance you should check her out or maybe you already have check out some of her videos.

[@RomWills]

I know Deborrah. She has her opinion.

[@MrSadelover100]

6 foot 5 is relative to the guys Skill, thickness and power. If I was Anthony Joshua I would have backed down from you too, Rom....thats a NO WIN situation for me.

[@RomWills]

LOL I would have been more diplomatic with Anthony Joshua.

[@najirban]

You kinda always have to be ready. I'm pretty respecful and willing to talk it out. One night I verbally 🔥 a man for his foolish, intoxicated behavior toward me. His lady friend applogized and bought me a Guinness. His mans (4or5) stayed put. I was bout it, beer mug in the chamber... It's not the most dignified thing but folks gotta know you bout that classic Brand Nubian

[@Halfbloedprins]

facts

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@JayGrinding]

100

[@darrenhawkins9040]

What's up Big Rom, brothers need to know female's make the players I still say chose are lose because if she can up grade my stable first and foremost it is dangerous but if she's ready to trade up you should of have that back up plan because you never know when she's going to change her mind brother's please don't throw your life a way when you can continue another day.

[@RomWills]

Well said.

[@mahorn83]

1:54 DAM ROM, YOU WAS REALLY GOING TO SQUARE UP WITH A GUY JUST FOR TALKING TO YOUR CHICK! THAT'S RECKLESS! NO ONE IS THE TOUGHEST GUY IN THE WORLD, THERE IS ALWAYS SOMEONE THAT CAN WHIP SOMEONE ESLE'S A**, AND THERE ARE PEOPLE THAT CARRY TO! I THOUGHT A PLAYA IS SUPPOSE TO LET HER CHOOSE! IF SHE CHOOSE THE OTHER GUY INSTEAD OF YOU, IT WAS NEVER MEANT TO BE! I HAD A CHICK I WAS DATING GET MAD AT ME FOR NOT STEPPING TO A GUY FOR TALKING TO HER. I GOT RID OF HER EVENTUALLY, SHE WAS TOO STUPID FOR ME! IF I REACTED THE WAY SHE WANTED, I WOULD HAVE EITHER BEEN DEAD, IN JAIL, OR IN THE HOSPITAL! 7:29 I GET WHAT YOU ARE SAYING THOUGH. I CAME ACROSS A LOT OF CHIX I WOULD CHECK OUT, AND THEIR MAN WOULD GET ANGRY AND RAISE THEIR VOICE, BUT I WOULD JUST WALK AWAY (WHEN I CAN DO THAT)! IT'S NOT THAT SERIOUS TO RUIN YOUR LIFE OVER, BUT SOME DUDES DON'T CARE!

[@RomWills]

I was going to square up for disrespecting me. Where I grew up honor was everything. Very little to do with her.

[@mahorn83]

@@RomWills , OH OKAY. I SEE YOUR POINT OF VIEW NOW! I KNEW A GUY FROM NY THAT WAS LIKE THAT, HONOR WAS EVERYTHING TO HIM TO.

[@sixowe3083]

u and locario aint got not filter ya just tell the ugly truth i repsect that

[@munajmursheed1238]

A lesson from black mass the movie if nobody sees its not a crime....... anyway its good to watchout