The Real Players

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[@MarkTheGreat555]

So true. I'm the silent lone wolf sigma male type that's introverted but confident even though I don't like to smile all the time. The way how I dress, and my demeanor attracts women that are drawn to my mysterious personna seeing how I stand out from other men that are thirsty for women and not me. Just be yourself, remain low-key, be a lone wolf, and you'll stand out from the competition.

[@RomWills]

Real talk.

[@smashrugged]

The more mysterious you are the more attractive you become in their eyes. When you talk to her make sure your eyes pierced and penetrate her soul. Speak with confidence and never second guessed yourself.

[@RomWills]

That's that seductive stare. A man can make a woman have an orgasm off of that.

[@shawnrichards8197]

Smash Rugged fact

[@tjaspire]

I have never cared for quiet guys, especially if it feels like pulling teeth talking to you. Been there, done that. To me, quiet=creepy hahaha 😆

[@chucknoris7648]

@@tjaspire their is a difference between quite anti social and reserved men with confidence and social skills.

[@dollarwil1234]

Players project purpose and confidence. The ONLY secret players have is the ability to notice when a woman is interested in them. They do not hesitate to close the damn deal. That is all. Women want men they see being successful with other women. Women advertise for the player by running their damn mouth after they've been with him (to one-up other women). Players know this and don't hide their liaisons. Wanna be players try to hide their prospects from other women fearing what these other women will think. Players know women are catty and competitive and will step their game up to win. Players know she is more likely to do something freaky and desperate after seeing another woman want them. Simple.

[@RomWills]

The game in a nutshell.

[@colinogorman8279]

Good to hear

[@megamafiarecords]

Real talk bro 💯makes no sense hiding your options it only makes you look lonely

[@ericrobertson7589]

Playas are born... We're born.

[@RomWills]

My father says that.

[@resedabeast1870]

Can players be made or develop?

[@collegesmakesyouconsumers]

that mystery part is honestly the game. indeed Rom nothing complex just by pertaining to yourself and on your mission; I've seen women wait outside my classes, my job, at the gym, even mimic my habitual movements and expressions. im humbled that theirs others and people like you that understands these principles.

[@RomWills]

The reality is that many men are naturally introverted. Yet this is not a bar to sex. Some women look for the outgoing, funny guy and others look for the calm quiet one. Every man needs to know who he is and stick with the women naturally attracted to him.

[@collegesmakesyouconsumers]

Rom Wills Exactly!! & thank you for responding back.

[@RomWills]

Brothas like you are supporting me. The least I can do is at least acknowledge I've read your comments.

[@dollarwil1234]

Being slow to close the deal ruins the mystery. Players know this. The woman is thinking just how is he going to get me? She wants to be captured. Like they say robbers subconsciously want to be caught by the cop. EVERY woman that is interested enough in you to go on a date with you, allow you to visit her at home or visits your home wants you to tickle her psychological fantasy and make a move. If she acts offended ask her over again and go for it again. Never apologize for acting like a man. If she keeps acting like she is not interested either keep trying or decide she's too much work. Maybe she is a user or maybe she is not. You have to play to win and to win you gotta take a chance. There is no safe path. Rather than accept that you didn't want her, if you are alone with her and make no attempt she will call you weak or gay to protect her ego. Nobody said being a man was easy. Just go for it. He who hesitates masterb....

[@RomWills]

Correct.

[@ceemee9461]

If she ain't choosing she don't exist to me let her choose up first don't chase her around.

[@RomWills]

That's game.

[@johnnycage8327]

Good video, brother. Yeah man, do one video about them "quiet low key" dudes. Being a good player in this game, requires being lowkey. As i say: More money, more problems, more friends more problems, more talk more problems. Some of them lowkey dudes with good self-esteem know all this shit, they KNOW women love to solve mysteries. They don't really talk much about their "conquests". The loudest one in the room, is usually the weakest one in the room.

[@RomWills]

I knew this one brotha who was very low key. If you saw him with a woman he was hitting it. Even women he was just friends with would give him sex at some point.

[@spacelyman9482]

Rom Wills Rom any pointers on how you smash even the ones your friends with. it usually seems easier when your dating a chick to get some

[@jyoung9046]

you dead on..i do it all the time...regular convo and discretion...mystery is the best way

[@RomWills]

Too many folks making it deeper than it has to be.

[@MalakShelomoh921]

That's real talk right there, women are very intimidated by good looking men… you would think they would jump at the chance but they don't because they know that can't run their game on him effectively especially if he shows that he knows the game… they escape quickly ……RETREAT !!!! Lol

[@RomWills]

Exactly. That's how some average looking dudes will have harems.

[@MalakShelomoh921]

Rom Wills it's like you said I've seen it with my own eyes

[@jamid87]

Man...this is definitely a good message. A lot of times, you attract a lot more by just doing you. I'm definitely on the introverted side, and at my side job, I don't talk to a lot of people. I just do what boss man asks me to do. And believe it or not, I get ALOT more attention from the female co-workers around me. And this is while I'm on this gym grind and getting my body right. hahaha

[@RomWills]

Many women like trying to figure a man out. A quiet confident man turns on as many women as an outgoing one.

[@dudewat212]

darkmanjeff ... The Body Game.

[@spacelyman9482]

darkmanjeff but those women will be trying real hard to figure you out. it makes them get pissed off sometimes too lol

[@FGAlele]

darkmanjeff: That's Some REAL Talk Brotha.

[@jamid87]

@dudewat212 Yeah I gotta improve on that RNS

[@sniper11n.d.34]

The X factor...she don't even know you but she will do whatever to impress you. Quit and clean. It's about class!

[@RomWills]

There you go.

[@targetegrat]

You know the saying when life gives you lemon make lemonade. Too many men don't know how to turn a problem to their advantage. For example a man can like a woman but the woman will put him in the friendzone. A player will not be mad about it but use the opportunity to find out more information about her girlfriends and eventually hook up with one of her friends. Working in a majority woman department, I enjoy happy hour because it really lets me see how women think and play the game. Again now I can use this to my advantage when it comes to dating because I have a better idea of how a woman perceives me (public boyfriend, sponsor/sugardaddy, mr. goodbar, etc). With this knowledge I can keep dating or cut the woman off if its not to my advantage. At the end of the day women are like football. The only way to be successful in the game is to take what the defense gives you.

[@RomWills]

LOL. That's how I tell men to work the friendzone.

[@jholliday3]

Dropped some good science on this video. You provided some good insight on the game.

[@pw7875]

Truth be told! You said they freeze, when they might get a chance with a really good looking man. That is major truth!

[@RomWills]

Women definitely look at good looking men and a good looking man can definitely get plenty of women if he knows what he's doing, i.e. got game. Otherwise women will look, sigh, and go back to Busted Brian.

[@pw7875]

Rom Wills They may even hop in a good looking mans lap. But only for a 1 time getaway

[@LuFromThe041]

This is an awesome video Unc Rom 👍🏿

[@christrucker4882]

At the end of the day she gotta be feeling you and if so you really don't have to say much . If you gotta make her feel you she not feeling you . Just my opinion big rom .

[@RomWills]

Your opinion is on point.

[@mikeprat1]

so true! the biggest issue with women is their concern to impress their peers. appearance outweighs happiness. any man building an empire/infrastructure or chasing a bag has no time for liabilities. most "beautiful" women are non compromising in regard to adding to "the pot." they don't understand the more you add, the greater the meal, they just want to eat and have their dingaling too! yes any man chasing a bag will not have time for multiple women. m.o.b.!

[@RomWills]

Seen.

[@deandrethompson5341]

Good video Rom. People have called me quiet all my life but I've always been able to pull plenty of women.

[@RomWills]

The mysteriousness can draw many women as long as the man looks decent.

[@KhemistryIBMOR]

Rom, you are definitely right about the long hours thing.

[@RomWills]

I know you know.

[@lsporter88]

Absolutely right. Find out who fits with you and approach that type. You must," Know Thyself". I promise I'm not a, "Yes Man", Rom. W'ell disagree one of these days on something I guess, but for the life of me I can't see what. Genius Video.

[@RomWills]

Thank you Bro Leslie. If you disagree with me on something trust I'm sitting up and paying attention.

[@seanwiggins1633]

true brother ROM I stay to myself all the time and they are always wondering about me

[@RomWills]

A sense of mystery does something to women.

[@AndrewJohnson-bj3hp]

Damn, this video made me think back! I am gonna say something people ain't gonna believe. I am a low key quiet dude and a few gangsta/ bad girls used to show some interest in me but its either: 1. They think they're too "bad" for me. Or 2. Scared their rough boyfriends gonna slap them. I couldn't figure out why these girls flirted with me cause I wasn't a gangsta dude. Now from listening to this video, I guess it was my calm mysterious vibe.

[@RomWills]

That works for many men. To be clear they still go for the outgoing charismatic man as well. It depends on the woman.

[@AndrewJohnson-bj3hp]

Rom Wills True. A lot of us guys think women go for one type of man and can't be attracted to several at the same time.

[@encryptedwolf7623]

Sir, I just listened to this and performed a self evaluation based on the criteria you set out in this video. Personally, I believe I would be considered an educated lame/thinking black man, but by your description of a real player, you have described me to devastating accuracy. Hear me out...lookswise, I'd be considered an Adjustable 7 who works a 40 hr/wk job, I go to the gym 3 days a week and have a decent physique, my conversation can cover a range of topics from anime and comic books to street life. I've had women in the age range from the youngest being 20 and the oldest being 47, I've had a 3 and a 4, even I couple 8's and a 9, but my best success and experiences have always been with 6's and adjustable 7's, and they've ranged from "Instagram Bad Bitch" to "Nerdy Comic-Con Girls". I stick to what I know how to hunt, I rarely deviate, and I operate with the utmost discretion (hence my KZbin name). I'm a bit of a social ghost in that aspect. TL;DR: I couldn't agree more, I'm a living testament to this.

[@RomWills]

Yeah you sound like you're in there. People have to understand that Real players are like hitmen or high level hustlers. They are not going to draw too much attention to themselves. The ability to blend in gives them more freedom of movement.

[@encryptedwolf7623]

...and that's EXACTLY how I think. My targets are usually unaware. They're of the mindset that I'm pursuing them when in all actuality I'm maintaining a faint enough presence to work on their subconscious and pull them closer to me. They don't realize that they were chasing me until I've caught them. Perks of being a Scorpio I suppose, lol.

[@RomWills]

Brilliant! The game is both simple and yet complex.

[@encryptedwolf7623]

I tell women that "I'm a simple complexity living in complex simplicity". You should see the look in their eyes. They don't know what to do or how to respond, but that look is always a dead giveaway that the game is afoot, and she's ready to play. I've found that with women, the most effective tactic is to be consistently inconsistent. They respond to it so well because it's speaks to their very nature. I just use what works with those who indicate a mutual desire.

[@encryptedwolf7623]

Thanks again for all the wisdom you share. It's rare that I get to engage in this kind of dialogue with other brothers who get it.

[@shawnrichards8197]

Quiet dudes most of the time get all the women.

[@pw7875]

Yes you're right about women not wanting a man who is better looking than herself. I say look over seas if possible, because those women are usually more than happy to get with a great looking black american man

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@FGAlele]

Henry Henshaw III Good Knowledge.

[@thevizkid]

Henry Henshaw III

[@88bignate42]

Rom, I'm 47 and you guys would tell me to learn the "art of conversation". Once I did,it was like reading from the "teacher's edition". Looks get women but words keep them is what you guys taught me. thanks

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@seekunderstanding4280]

@88bignate42... What steps did you took to learn the art of conversation because there are many books on the art of conversation and I don't know which one would be the best one to study from?

[@ThaDocta_Evans97]

I use to be this guy as far as the 40 hour a week job and a whole lot of women from week to week, 6 women on rotation and I could fit em all in within one week , it’s crazy how I use to do that shit definitely don’t have time for that shit no more reaching higher heights and only dealing with two maybe 3 women at a time now

[@seanwiggins1633]

indeed I'm seeing it a lot as I get older

[@RomWills]

That's the thing. You learn with experience.

[@brookvalley907]

Very enlightening video. Can you expand more on “they could sexually connect to a woman”? Can women sense this when they meet the man? If so, what is it about the man that they sense? Or, do women discover this about the man during sex, and, therefore, keep coming back to him (no pun intended). I believe one hundred percent in staying in your own lane. I can definitely see how a guy who is a “six” and stays in his own lane will have a lot more women, than a “six” who’s chasing “tens”. Especially, if the “six” doesn’t waste time on women who don’t give him the “look”. You also mentioned that good-looking women will sometimes go with a guy that’s not as good looking. I was always surprised at how good-looking women were much more aggressive with me than women I thought were in my lane. I formed the theory that average looking women were rejected more often and were therefore less aggressive. It took me more time to convince average looking women to do things. With good looking women it was like they were running the show and I was along for the ride.

[@RomWills]

I get more into the sexual aspects of the game on my subscription site, www.connectpal.com/romwillsraw. Good looking women just don't like being out shined.

[@shadowgiest22]

I think much of that occurence comes from the necessity of the average dude to develop ability, whereas an especially good looking guy usually does not have to rely on superior tactics.

[@RomWills]

I agree with you. That's why many very good looking men have problems getting a woman they actually have to work for.

[@BEENIECRIS]

True Content

[@sethmaurice]

Damn Rom....I'm exposed now! LOL!!! Great Video!!!

[@RomWills]

Your secret is safe. LOL! Thank you.

[@cygnusprime6728]

a lot of guys forgot these are general rules of thumb, not that every single person fits into every category down to the last detail with no variation.

[@RomWills]

Thank you. These things are not set in stone. The game is more art than science.

[@christrucker4882]

Wow rom I'm in bmore ! Didn't know you were that close.

[@RomWills]

Well technically I'm in Harford County but close enough.

[@deoncovington9485]

Thanks for the video it all makes sense .. now …. 16 hour work day’s

[@ceemee9461]

You let the game out at 13 minutes. The game is easy when you by eye contact aka choosing, all you got to do is notice it. Once I got good at seeing it fucking and having a harem became easy peasy.

[@RomWills]

Yeah these women out here are trying to give it away,

[@ER1CK1NG]

This is NOT a thesis brothas! I'm all ears

[@RomWills]

Thanks.

[@MrOrlandodh12]

talk into her ear dont talk into your ear because if you thorough theyll know when they see you move and do.

[@RomWills]

Seen.

[@darknova7863]

You know Rom after watching your vids l had the simple mindset of there's only 1 way to get women, but with this video, "Just Be cool", "Style", "Check for those who check for you", and etc. It seems we as a men have to just find out what works for us and capitalize and we might have similar gimmicks/Style but we'll always have our own spin on it or we could just be different. At the end of the day do what works for YOU? (Am l right or wrong?)

[@RomWills]

You are correct. The most I can do is present my angle on it. My job is to help you find what works best for you.

[@darknova7863]

Thank you for your wisdom. One of my favorites quotes "Adapt what's useful, reject the useless, and make specifically your own." Bruce Lee

[@RomWills]

Ism.

[@seanwiggins1633]

yes sir

[@hadiyahammonds3033]

Do you think Barber’s are players

[@RomWills]

Many are.

[@hadiyahammonds3033]

I really enjoy ur videos & appreciate your honesty. 🙏🏿

[@missk3429]

Who is the woman player? I'd like to watch her videos.

[@RomWills]

I don't think her channel is up anymore. I checked through the channels I subscribed to and she wasn't there.

[@missk3429]

Thanx anyway