Don't Expect a Clean Up Man to Save You

[@JesseVealIII]

Facts! The days of a clean up man saving women are OVER! I done ghosted a lot of chicks after finding out their past and/or situation.

[@xoacatl]

Smart move my brother! Find a sister who's ready to build with you

[@PreppyPrincess777]

I wish this was taught in middle school at the least or high school at the most

[@helloladieswithromwills6426]

Older women need to talk to the younger women. Of course they try and the younger women don't listen.

[@GnosticCushite]

It starts with your family. Family values. America especially black America has a fucked up culture.

[@gregoryglass9040]

The old black women tried to give you this wisdom but those dummy heffes told you more lies so now pass this on to the younger generations of blackvwomen

[@jlionmenelik77]

Romwills you right this new generation is not having that. I don't know why older women don't teach younger women this.

[@hsamzsd]

in ghana, nigeria, south africa, women are straight up put through magick rituals before they enter prostitution. Some of these stories are documented here on youtube. Everything from stuffing a snake up their pussy to watching their john astral travel and "feed" his entities in the spirit world. Ignorance is not the issue.

[@eteold]

Uncle Rom, you are one of the very few dating relationship experts on here who have integrity and says what he means without compromise. You offer great content and help Black women-and women period-w/o throwing men under the bus or being a hypocrite. I will remain a lifelong listener and supporter Rom.

[@helloladieswithromwills6426]

Thank you brotha. That mean a lot.

[@eteold]

@@helloladieswithromwills6426 Anytime my man

[@shawnhazel8208]

A Men can accept a women with a few miles on her, but it very difficult for a man to have peace with a women with a lot of emotional miles. Our human mental car just don't drive the same

[@MsJoyce31202]

True, men shouldn't have to be the clean up men when the woman knows what's wrong and can take the steps to fix it herself. God himself won't help us if we don't cooperate with him. And these women who "dog the man out" don't want the clean up man anyway, if they are bragging about mistreating him, they like their mess. If they don't like it, I wonder why are they bragging ?

[@claraht.6999]

My captain don't ask questions.

[@xoacatl]

In that role reversal of being a clean up women, in the words of minister Jap you know the answer is no!!!"

[@jasonlewis848]

Self preservation is the key to healthy relationships

[@greendelano]

ROM WILLS MVP!!!🏆

[@rharden66]

Great video RW,a responsible mancant afford drama,he got business and maybe a family to look out for,a womans history tell who she is,amd also what turns on,if she isnt working and sacrificing for your happiness and benefit,your not the the one,just one of many to fulfilling a need.

[@jeremiahgiles3593]

AMEN!! FINALLY THE TRUTH IS REVEALED!! THERE IS A GOD!!

[@raiders48gates5]

Brother Rom you a bad man,I'm learning something from you all time. Lol I just got to distinguish which channel is for the women. Lol

[@helloladieswithromwills6426]

LOL!

[@fastingislife3766]

Raiders 48 Gates 😂🤣🤣🤣😂

[@deejones4682]

Good morning, ROM!!!!

[@musicinthesky1213]

REAL TALK

[@terryruff64]

You are right brotha, I love this Video, thank you Mr. Rom Wills

[@jessicavarona8099]

Can you please talk about how this same thought process seems to be very prevalent with most men (obviously not all). But I notice a lot of guys are socialized to think they can run around in their youth, sleep with whomever, and once they're ready to 'settle down' they want the so called virtuous woman to be waiting for them. I don't think there's anything wrong with having standards, but you must be able to meet that standard yourself. I'm not coming from the typical 'women should be able to do what men do' rhetoric. Genuinely curious as to why some men think they deserve a virtuous woman when they themselves have not been selective or intentional about their relationships. Thanks!

[@rbean1954]

You always have the option to not deal with such men. There are many men who meet the high standards they set for women, who are focused more on taking care of their business rather than increasing their body count. They tend to be very selective with the women they deal with because they know the wrong woman can destroy everything they've been working years to achieve. But many women either can't recognize these guys, or see them as "square" - and instead go for the very men you described. That is, until the women get older, their options start to dry up, and they suddenly realize they need stability.

[@jeremiahgiles3593]

A lot of men who get down like that have a change of heart later on with something big like the birth of their first child or religious faith or one day it just gets old to them and they realize they have too much to lose if they continue that lifestyle. The difference being that women will carry that baggage for life usually regardless of what they do and most men will learn to live with it and tell the younger generation not to do what he did. That is unless he's just an immoral person to begin with.

[@helloladieswithromwills6426]

Jessica Varona, The difference is that most men don't expect the virtuous woman to clean up his mess. Most men will clean up their own mess before wanting to settle down.

[@jeremiahgiles3593]

@@helloladieswithromwills6426 facts

[@GnosticCushite]

Theres ALOT of good guys who haven't fucked many women but ya'll don't want them till ya'll are pushing 40. By that time it's way too late, hahaha

[@MoveInSilence23]

💯 as always

[@JTu8925]

What is the esoteric significance of 9 months?

[@helloladieswithromwills6426]

That's a long explanation.

[@Jader83]

There is nothing but truth in what you say... there is so much more to sex than the physical. It is more spiritual than physical....you are on to something about men passing their energy to women through sex... Its true because the woman is really the receptacle if you look only at the sex organs.. So many women or young girls have developed emotional and psychology problems from dealing with the wrong guy while he is unaffected. Personally, I believe in being mindful of the energies you expose yourself to....now they don't teach this in school but our old folks have always guided us accordingly....watch the company you keep; don't mess with xyz etc because they are not good. Its what you would probably call the metaphysical aspects of relationships (right?). Its our responsibility as women to protect our spirits and beware of the energies we expose ourself to. Then you will not have to worry about a clean up guy. Even if things don't work out for you with a 'good man', he will always take care of his children. Keep teaching Rom.

[@helloladieswithromwills6426]

Thank you.