DON’T GIVE UP…DON’T EVER GIVE UP

Don’t give up don’t ever give up. Post narcissistic or relationship the healing path will not be linear. You will be faced with challenging times and the road will be windy, but continue moving forward each and every day continue to see the light at the end of the tunnel, knowing you will get through this knowing that just get through today and tomorrow is a new day. Don’t give up don’t ever give up. This is the path sending you, positive positive energy and strength. Namaste
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[@SagittariusBabe87]

I love this video and your older videos of this topic. Don't give up and let the Narcississt win! They aren't worth it. Don't ever go back. You will go through the 'dark night of the soul,' pain, suffering, depression, confusion, anger, craving them, hurt, rumination, & so much more. I am celebrating a full year since the discard and being removed from the toxicity & cycle.🙏 It's unbelievable how far I have come from feeling I would never get through the pain & the discard to becoming a stronger version of myself, knowledgeable, educated & aware of Narcissism. Andrew, you deserve a HUGE Hug 🤗 & shoutout! ❤🎉 Your channel has helped me so much and still does! As well as the amazing, supportive community you have! You have helped me already a year now! Your channel was one of the first I began watching. Your videos are unbelievably helpful & calming during a time I didn't know where to turn or how to deal. You know exactly how these creatures operate & its so validating to know someone like you understands and been through it & can relate. I'm so thankful that I made it out & I'm doing very good. But, it was not easy. A lot of inner work & healing I have done & I will still do for a lifetime. **Also, blocking, deleting & going no-contact is imperative if you truly wanna heal.**💯 Don't give up, don't ever give up! You're worth so much more & life is better & beauiful without the toxic Narcissist in it! Be grateful they're gone! 💯😌✌️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing..🙏💜😌

[@brianstacks79]

Please don’t ever stop making these videos. Thank you

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💜🙏😌

[@Maverik1989]

Andrew you were my light during this 7 months. Just today ignored the second hoover attempt but finally dumped her with no reaction, blocked her, slamming and cementing the door. Such a win after a heavy harassment due cyber stalking daily. I need to celebrate. Im nailing the pinnacle. Remember people: " You cannot force someone to respect you but you can refuse to be disrespected" Peace and love.

[@carriedillmann4455]

How WONDERFUL!!! You are WISE!! Thank you!💞

[@Sylvie-m5u]

✌️ & ❤

[@LindaHenderson-l4p]

That's good on you. Trying to get there also.

[@grendelhvs]

Excellent work! You did that for yourself! ✋ high fives!

[@marshat.ordureau3121]

THIS IS A GREAT MESAGE🙏💯🇫🇷SENDING ENERGY TO YOU FROM FRANCE🌿🌱🥰🙏BE KIND TO YOURSELF🥰

[@eringobragh7]

Don’t give up. Don’t EVER give up! We are not alone. Thank you Andrew 🙏🏼 I love you man ❤🌞🌺🤗

[@bruntofthepack4884]

Andrew, you're a legendary warrior. You're destroying so many strongholds. A giant among us.

[@melissak.8385]

It took 2 years no contact to reach the pinnacle of indifference.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💜💯🏔️

[@NinaYsabelle8]

Thank you so much, Andrew🙏🙏🙏

[@Mike_Cosentino]

I reached the pinnacle in about a year. It was a long journey of processing painful memories, watching channels such as this, reading many books, making lifestyle changes like simple distractions, exercising, getting outside more, etc. & taking care of myself and those who I love i.e. my dad, who was also a victim of narcissistic abuse himself, and everybody else who wants the best for them. I don’t give unto those who never reciprocate and those with hidden agendas. Truthfulness and transparency is vital in any relationship whether it’s a romantic interest, friend, acquaintance, business associate, family member, etc. I’ve incorporated all these hard-hitting life lessons into my regime. I’ve never accepted the hoovers..was a simple as ‘block, delete, goodbye, and going full NC’. Once I reflected and realized so many things I perhaps underestimated back then, or made excuses for the narc because, well, the trauma bond.. but I’m no longer a “yes” person or merely an empath; I’m more of an educated empath at that & I pay it forward to this awesome community of survivors however I can.

[@wallylasd]

I went from Dr.Ramani to Lisa Romano to NarcDaily, now I'm planning to move to the opposite side of the planet.

[@MattyNelson-rs3ik]

Peace at any cost...or distance

[@janeskey5042]

Good for you. Those channels are great also and of course Andrew here is the best 😉 and also another one you might be interested in is : Yaz from “the game exposed”

[@jenniferrosteski3955]

SAME HERE!!!❤😊🇨🇦

[@ananonym1617]

In the process of moving to get away from the wreckage this person made of my life.

[@jhavajoe3792]

Sometimes, I'll take a spin to other sites. Some excellent insights ... then, some are not so good, as they get too convoluted and you end up wondering how much did I bring this on myself, etc., I.e., Am I some type of Narcissist? I'll take the "basics ( many steps beyond that, actually) and repetition from Andrew as my personal choice. he has a way to quell overthinking. It's been the most effective ( for myself ) to see clearly.

[@annawallace3264]

in the end you will have peace, quiet and HAPPINESS!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💜😌

[@lumpylumpy3931]

I miss my Family. I’m trying to stay busy. My Wife left me without any good excuse. I’m devastated. Your videos help

[@PattiLockhart]

You are here among all of us who understand and are hurting , as well. But, after a while joy will return, hold on it will get better and you will heal. Listen to Andrew and trust his wisdom. He will be here everyday to encourage you. You have my prayers 🙏

[@lumpylumpy3931]

@@PattiLockhart thank you

[@kevinbushey1879]

Hang in there I feel your pain ❤

[@daphnewilliams3664]

I'm sorry 😢

[@Donnahodgins]

😢

[@marybarton5651]

I can't give up, even at the times I wanted to. God always gave me the strength to get back up and keep going 🙏❤✝️ 😊

[@LindaHenderson-l4p]

Amen

[@Senuawolf]

Just has the worst day yet out of nowhere months after discard, non stop crying and panic attack … this video came at the perfect time , many thanks you lovely special human 🙏 your videos are such a lifeline and bring so much healing energy xx

[@kevinbushey1879]

I’m going through it right now I kicked my wife out after 8 years of abuse

[@ananonym1617]

Just got dumped by narcissist who made wreckage of my life, now moving to another town.

[@toddanderson3568]

Sweet human, you are not alone. I am here too four months after a brutal discard. I am still in shock and disbelief. I hope you have someone you can talk to who can reinforce to you that this is not a reflection on you.

[@Senuawolf]

@@toddanderson3568 🙏 I am lucky to have supportive family & friends… yes it’s so easy to blame yourself and feel not good enough … we do need reminders …. be well ✨🌟🌞

[@6ftr]

You are on this earth for a reason. And I know fully it eas to help me in this present time

[@Rugbymom]

They know exactly what they’re doing… and the weight on my shoulders is lifting the more I am healing… Thank you for your knowledge and guidance!

[@cavedancesinc.6775]

I accepted the Hoover a few times, to my detriment. It’s been three years and I’m unemployed and homeless. Living in an extended stay. Funds are running low and I need to rebuild my life, but my energy is still wiped out. I was talking to myself about how close I am to giving up, then saw your video pop up. It’s good to remember that I’m on a healing path.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏💜💯

[@ss3032-d9g]

Don’t ever give up. Your body is trying to recover that’s why you’re exhausted. Narcissistic Burnout. Be kind to yourself, sleep, hydrate, walk and find and listen to survivors on you tube. You’re not alone.

[@snakeking992000]

Andrew, you are my favourite commentator on narcissism! I am a family law lawyers of nearly 20 years and I must say, everything you are saying is not only accurate, but also a growing problem in North America. I would say a major barrier for people in leaving the narcissistic partner is the fear of the separation process itself; knowing that the process will be yet worse than day to day life with the narcissist. Please keep up this important work!

[@Jerry-dm1yk]

I'm going to heal my deepest childhood wounds so that I can use that emotional energy for myself, not for someone else who might try to stop me.

[@marieeakin8534]

Applaud you & know... you don't have to stay in the bondage to any pain from that past! 💪❤💥 Blessings🙏 🌈🎀😘

[@the-writerofmyownstory]

💯! I’m telling myself the same thing. Andrew’s words “conserve your energy for yourself and your healing and rebuilding,” help as a continuous reminder.

[@Seanus32]

Some excellent advice here. Detect the abuse patterns early and get out ASAP because life is hard enough without an energy vampire sapping your vital life force. Build up your self respect in all the ways that you can think of. Do plenty breathwork as it can really regulate the tempo of your life and give you strength.

[@richardpluim4426]

I ran into a bible bully last week at work. The abuse by narcs in my family while growing up caused me to be an easy mark. In the past, I used to allow these types of people to bully me. This time, I went to my job steward and nipped the abuse in the bud. I do attend church, but on my terms. I seek God at my pace.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@richardpluim4426]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone Thank you.

[@denisemarsack6604]

There are narcs in the church wolves

[@Donnahodgins]

They never go away. You have to. Friendship will never be an option. They will all ways blame and accuse you, punish you in mind bending ways. I am 8 months no contact. After 4 years of trauma bonding, on the phone mostly. It has been almost 3 years since I seen him last. He is an attention leach. They will feed of your emotional strain. If I had not found Andrew, I would probably be in the nut house. Love you Andrew. You saved my mind and heart.

[@miharu00]

yes, I feel you, I had gone through very same path and finally realizing that this relationship will never end up the way I wished. So I rather be with other healthy people who knows what's real compassion is. Sadly, narcs are the most miserable people on the planet. They have nobody who they feel as close because even their own families are often their enemies or victims. That's why they try to get attention from you in most desperate way possible.

[@Siegefya]

They do go away, especially if you truly love them. People who truly fell out of love with a narc and able to get out before discard, sometimes the narcissist will continue to hoover, many times they don't especially if the person stuck in the fog was in love with the narcissist, and they do it on purpose because they know it's gonna hurt them, they WILL NOT give that person closure, they don't give it to anyone. Unfortunately narcs do find lost and broken people who thought they'd never find anyone, a person like that gets ABSOLUTELY DEVASTATED by narcs. Narcs treatment to a person like that is absolutely damaging, they love bomb a person and make them think they found someone who truly loves them, they parrot the person pretty much carbon copy the person to make them think they have a ton in common... This creates a condition of codependency for that person and trauma bonding as you mentioned. But eventually the narc sucks the supply dry and discards, before the person even realizes that narc was not their soul mate, so yeah now that person is left alone in the cold probably with no support system on the other side. A person like that either makes it through the fog and comes out much stronger or they literally don't make it through it which I don't need to say what I mean by that. It's important for people TO NOT GIVE UP... regardless of who they were before the narcissist. Need to understand you made it through it and you have knowledge a lot of people don't even realize is going on in this planet. People throw the term around haphazardly not even realize there are people out here who are literal mental monsters.

[@JulieShah-in7zz]

What an existence it was.... tortuous, painful and disgusting. I'm relieved I'm out and trying to live my life with care and compassion.... slowly 💜🙏

[@janeraymond1799]

As soon as someone tries to love bomb me, I put the brakes on. As soon as I feel any discomfort with someone I back way off. I will not allow anyone to hold me hostage emotionally ever again!

[@mattlyons6134]

Right on time Andrew! Feeling the lowest I've ever been in a long time. She isolated me from everyone and now I'm all alone. You are right about avoiding running into her. Went to get a haircut and the people there told me she had been there earlier and was bad mouthing me. It's really tough, but you are right, do not give up!

[@marieeakin8534]

Matt, keep listening & read the comments & engage with the community... it will help you. You will find support. 👍 Blessings 🙏 🌈🎀😘

[@Donnahodgins]

My ex husband took advantage of me as well. It was so one sided, only his side mattered. I was very alone. Starting to build a life. It has been slow. Like Andrew says. DON'T GIVE UP

[@MattyNelson-rs3ik]

Talk is cheap ,when its lies spewing out.

[@miharu00]

You are not the only one. I started to realize that the narc attack you and tell you all bad stuff in order to keep you isolated. They don't want to lose you and they are afraid that you start being happy and be with other people and forget them. So they try to damage you as much as they can but they might not remember the details of you because they never really cared that much! so whatever they say to hurt you do not matter and you don't need to take them personal. Keep cutting the ties with the narc and meet way healthier people out there! I am doing my best too 💪

[@annawallace3264]

Stay strong, keep moving forward you will heal and each day gets better. You’ve got this!

[@danielsiler2355]

sad......so sad....how can people be so cruel perhaps so a diamond like Andrew can shine....thanks for the encouragement , buddy

[@saitama.codm.]

I want to say so many things... but....I love what you're doing for us all. I hope and pray that all the people who need your help will find out this channel so they will have the ability to protect themselves. Thank you educating me and all these people and thank you for providing a positive energy.

[@kozubart]

Born as a golden child, surrounded by toxicity. I now see how damaging that role can be, and I am taking full ownership over my life and future as I tirelessly try to figure out how to break the cycle for good and how to break the generational curse of narcissism in my family. I will never give up on myself or living my dream / my best life. I will create a real family of my own, I will build generational wealth, and I will I intend to make a positive impact on everyone who comes across my path to be and remain the change I wish to see in this world. All is calculated by a narcissist. They know what they are doing. How they live their life is their own decision. You cannot change or "save" them. Instead of trying to control or change others to be who I want them to be, I have learned to appreciate others for exactly who they are.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing..🙏💜😌

[@conservativemom12]

Andrew, your videos are my lifeline these days. I just cannot believe he was that evil & enjoyed mistreating me the way he did. It is just a rotten way to be. This community & Andrew are such a light in the darkness that is narcissism. Love & light to you wonderful people ❤

[@blydnhvghn]

Felt super super low and alone today. Just the title is what I needed to hear.

[@DoraMoran-hb2jg]

Lots of hugs and prayers for you! 🙏❤️

[@blydnhvghn]

@@DoraMoran-hb2jg that is very kind thank you I appreciate you

[@BearfootBob]

same

[@blydnhvghn]

@@BearfootBob 💚

[@nancykrapf1948]

Thank you Andrew. I am frozen. It really is equivalent to being in prison. I will try to get in touch tomorrow. If you only knew...but God worked through you tonight.

[@countrygirl63baker64]

Once you get off the narcissistic drip.... The mud comes off the windshield !!!! Heads up, move forward, You are worth SO much better and you will respect yourself in the morning 🌞

[@marieeakin8534]

Luv it Country Girl! 👍❤💥💪 🌈🎀😘

[@Jesus_Resurrection_and_Life]

Well done 🫶🏼 they can make a person feel so unworthy and awful that a person could start taking more bad treatment from others with wrong or bad intentions. Knowing your worth and truth is a safety net from further wrong treatment from people. Take good care 🌸🌸🌸

[@Senarableuenn]

Well put

[@The-Vintage-Needlecrafter]

Even though I sometimes grieve, I know it is part of my healing. I do feel so much better. My health is better, my mind is better, I'm discovering my own true self, and it is sooo Amazing 😍!!!

[@bchristian85]

I have pretty much given up. I'm about to be 39 and my 30s have been the worst decade of my life. And it didn't have to be. My parents destroyed me and prevented me from being able to develop my own identity, and I'm unable to maintain any relationships. No friends, no significant others, nothing.

[@miharu00]

I am sure you can recover and get back what you have lost. I was deprived a lot by them but am finding out that they are very desperate to pull you down to the level they are. I learned a lot and the narc tells some truths too to get you in. So I take those lessons only and leave the rest behind. It was hard but am sure you are very strong now.

[@isabellstubbe4380]

You are not alone ! Most of us had narcissistic or/and codependent parents ! Recalibrate your brain , learn new skills and become the new version of yourself ! I wasted 16 years and now I am 46! You can change as much as you like ! You are not Alone !

[@carlaespen491]

I am in the exactly same situation.😢😢😢

[@codyjones1098]

YOU may not feel like you have a friend , But i read your post. I am thinking of you. God gave you a LIFE just for you. DONT give up that gift. God doesnt make mistakes. YOU have a future. Forget the haters.

[@Fernanda-cn9jd]

I feel this

[@AbbyEllie69]

My neurologist said to me: ‘ I need you to consider that your primary relationship is making you sick’ It took time to set it but she was right. After 30 years I left him. Out 9 years and everything Andrew says in this video I have gone through. I like where I’m at in my healing process, but I sometimes feel like it’s going to be a lifelong healing process, but every day gets better. My heart goes out every single one of you that has been through narcissistic abuse. It is real.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜🙏

[@h.j.chapin9595]

Thank you, Andrew. I needed to hear this after a tough month grappling with memories. I thought I was done with crying, but I was back at it again last week.😪 Thank you for your continued encouragement❣

[@yaritzaurbina6835]

This is one of your best, Andrew! Thank you so much for saying all this! It is true, it does get better once you distance yourself from them! Blessings and light to all of you!

[@AndeThompson-ex6sv]

I want to relocate. I pray, that I will be able to do so.

[@yaritzaurbina6835]

You”ll find a way. It was hard to leave the house and some stuff but at the end all you need is you! Blessings and light to you!

[@nickel7065]

So true. Never give up, never give in. Not for any reason. Then you've let the narcissist win for free. And if you ruminate just remember everything they've done to you and I don't think about the nice things. The nice things never came from the heart and it certainly wasn't for free. It cost you tenfold of bad treatment. Leave and, if you can, never look back.

[@jayTee-zp1jn]

Any target of a narcissist should never give up hope that they will feel better one day. Aim for healing and understanding of what npd is about and close the door on the narcissist. We can give closure to the mayhem and life can start again. Have hope survivors and thank you Andrew!

[@Linda-e9r]

This life this this life73 years old. Linda God Bliss 9 monthI ask for prayers was55 years with this narcissists can imagine We’re I am in.

[@Linda-e9r]

This life this this life73 years old. Linda God Bliss 9 monthI ask for prayers was55 years with this narcissists can imagine We’re I am in.

[@Linda-e9r]

Thank u all for your prayers. Thank u Andrew

[@SLLiberty23]

I have no words rn … it’s late and I’m tired and the pain and reality comes in waves. But thank you for deeply validating our feelings in this video and igniting our hope once again 🙏🏻🔥🕊️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜💯😌

[@SLLiberty23]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone and don’t you stop… don’t you ever stop. God has His mighty hand on your beautiful heart ♥️🙏🏻

[@jh9391]

I need this now more than ever! Homeless!! Overnight!! Because of a narcissist!!! (But I DO have a car!! 🚘 🤗) Thank you, Andrew! ☺️

[@NAMAHA_33]

Me too ❤ no house anymore

[@Siegefya]

I made myself "homeless" over her, not that our house was a home anyways, more like a horror house. We were in an extended stay hotel in Vegas, and I couldn't take it anymore, told her days before I need to leave, didn't feel safe and needed to go be with my family who she kept me from seeing for over a year, during that time my uncle passed and my friend passed and she kept me from going to their funerals, all the while she went to visit her family in CA and even Hawaii while I had to stay to watch our dog. She didn't take me seriously..she didn't think I had the strength, that Friday we were supposed to pay, I said nope I'm out. Me and the narc went homeless that day... They had to scramble supply, I left and went to my dad's a couple states over, who always supported me through her sht. Hes the only one though, out of all my fam, who understood the fog I was in... Because my Mom put him through it over 30 years ago. It's been very hard, pro con list for her... Only 1 real pro, food, and that wasn't even really a pro because she provided very unhealthy stuff, I gained a lot of unhealthy weight my ldl cholesterol stayed very high. Since, I've had to learn as a grown as man how to grocery shop and cook for myself... I was with her from the time I left the military at 22 until 35, so that whole time she controlled food, I wasn't allowed to choose, when I asked to help her cook and stuff she'd tell me no, tell me weird things like "it's not a mans place to cook"...so, yeah, having to learn that now and it's been interesting lol. Glad you're free.

[@noreensirianni3135]

What's amazing about Andrew is that he explains this- exactly how it happens. The saddest thing is that there are divorce attorneys that are narcissistic themselves and prolonged the suffering for families for $$$, and ultimately it expires because God's got this- in this earthly existence and the eternal. Stay strong ❤

[@annawallace3264]

you are correct about Attorneys, Narcissism and $$$$

[@noreensirianni3135]

@@annawallace3264 , stay strong and be your own advocate because they'll drag this thing out asking for more time which means more money in their pockets while you're waiting for final divorce decree and settlement. God Bless you and yours.

[@renaissance5300]

I called a lawyer with consult and he upset me I felt he hated women He told me thant he could get half of my nheritance I am disabled from lyme disease and long covid cant even walk how could he get half of my familis money I even gave him half of my house didnt that lawyer realize that I need money for healthcare and homecare he came to this country with noting told me he hated me shoved me around gave me nothing I will be looking for another lawyer god bless andrew

[@shereebarends1997]

Yes but if your divorce attorney is just a normal human being the narc will threaten and harass your attorney to the point of exhaustion. The divorce is drawn out over time while the narc has been skipping over other lovers until one of them gets pregnant and somehow things get a little easier. But the narc never stops being as evil as Satan himself.

[@anneyoung2310]

A lawyer can wreak havoc in the lives of all family members by malpracticing. When kids are involved, it's not only horrifying but can affect the rest of their lives when justice is ignored and power, money and greed run the show. I have lost 16 years of my life (this is definitely not the life I ever knew, nor the life I co-built) because of legal corruption. I could cry every day if I were to contemplate the destruction in my kids lives.

[@lourdesecheverria6209]

It is not in our nature to give up. However, we MUST give up all relationships that are abusive. Narc or not. Self-Dignity and Self-Respect. Loyalty to our path, to our destiny on earth, to be our best and to leave a legacy of love and service behind. Blessings to all!❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜🙏

[@jenniferrosteski3955]

It's uncanny how accurate everything you say is exactly true!! How is it that narcs have such identical personalities, or traits?? 😮

[@ruckerbrady8342]

Demons. Satan comes to kill steal and destroy and his demons do the same that are within the narc.

[@pjdog]

The turning point for me was upon realization that the narc would never offer closure. That’s the point that I blocked the narc. No explanation necessary. I just moved on and I’m feeling better and better with each day. Thank you so much Andrew.

[@noreensirianni3135]

Andrew has been there for me through this suffering, and finally after 5 years of divorce, all adult children, just finances, God, the Everlasting and Eternal Judge called DOA on my ex vampire and attorneys and I was set free! Thank you Jesus!

[@makelifematter1896]

First and most importantly if you are just seeing Andrew and his healing videos pay attention to him he as he states walked the walk so he knows all about what hes talking about as you will soon learn..Yes for me I just want the final call of never ever having to have encounters with this sick Narcissistic Abuser and his family of almost 30yrs. I so look forward to that final day ..I try hard daily, trying not to let the Devil in and yes either way I WILL WIN because he will not be able to throw me under the bus ever again..and for the so called friends, they stayed friends with him because they are all in the same ship it will sink someday I believe that for sure...thank you Andrew wish I could write a book now that we all know the true meaning of... Narcissistic Abuse thanks to you❤yes all of the above for me how could I have been so ignorant 😢

[@Mike_Cosentino]

Didn’t think I’d be able to heal as fast as I did-from two separate, toxic persons-and I owe much credit to you for this content when I was still ruminating. Looking back on it now, I have no regard for the narcissists who hurt me & my quality of life. As long as they stay from me, I’m just fine.

[@marieeakin8534]

I can relate! Your posts are a blessing to the community. Thanks Mike 👍💥💪❤ 🌈🎀😘

[@flowerpower4944]

Andrew is so correct about this,,there will be good days and bad days,,you must keep going and find your Normal Again,,,they will become a Distant memory ,,,in time in your time you'll thread out your individual path /and Future,,,Never Give Up ,,,You owe it to yourself to have a peaceful life free from any toxic,negative,Delusional,,Narcissist,,focus on you and all those hobbies that got neglected,,look at all your choices,,The freedom is just Beautiful,,new adventures new experiences,,New You,,,Blessings to ye all,💜💜💜💜💜💜💜🙏🤗

[@carolcollins3108]

Indeed we're not alone. It's amazing to hear you teach, because it always sounds to me that you're telling my story. I appreciate that something of the emotional and psychological isolation dissolves along with the huge burden of shame. Twenty- seven years later after breaking away. I look back and see just how alone I was. Only God. Mine a Classic and Typical narcissistic marriage and the aftermath. Not having all the knowledge that you share. All I knew was with God's help I'll survive. I had to, for the sake of my five children. We had to survive. Namaste Andrew.

[@SueJohnson-ry3uy]

I won't ever ever give up ! I'm a fighter ,I always been a strong person . When June 21,2024 it would 2 completely years of completely no contact . Andrew thank you for all your videos , thank you Andrew ,you have helped me so much and you still do and thank you everyone here for all of y'all's comments here . I hoped you Andrew and everyone here to have a beautiful wonderful blessed 🙏 night .

[@roslyncerro1263]

Thank you Sue. Very well said.❣️

[@deb2660]

I left my now ex on 3 5 21. To save my own life. No contact since then. It has truly been an uphill climb. I never give up either... Now. Looking back. I thank God I made it out alive. Some of us don't. My sister in law. Didn't. Life is too short to be miserable. I never thought I could be so strong. I have grown from it... Alot stronger today... ❤️

[@Tearsofasilentheart]

Been free since 2018 but still suffering and without my grown kids. Im heartbroken. Narcissists followed me everywhere my whole life. Im truly exhausted and burnt out. Ive got to be honest... Im really struggling. Could you do video on psycopath/social paths??? Im certain thats what i was dealing with too. Thankyou. I watch your videos daily. ❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💜🙏😌

[@annbrunoson2954]

The dentist IS the narcissist! It's been hell, but I want give up. When she bullied me, verb.&physically, she did that to the wrong person. I was healing from the two other narcs, when this happened in march!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜

[@glendaanderson1119]

Processing is inevitable. Four years back I walked, knowing I had given my best for the relationship. I was keeping notes the whole time and I believe thats what kept me good. But he "never" broke me. I just like watching now, Andrew. 😄 Definitely NEVER give up!

[@angelicamaster7764]

Hi Andrew. I've been following you for 3.5 years when my toxic marriage blew up. I learned about NPD after I left the Narcissist. That's when the REAL pain started. Even with complete No Contact, I still have triggered days where a memory of his many betrayals eats at my soul. It makes me angry at myself. He certainly isn't thinking about me now. He married the new supply the minute our divorce was final. I won't give up even on the days I struggle to leave my house. Damn its a waste of precious time to go through this. But it's like healing from cancer. You must cut out the poison and heal from the side affects. Thank YOU Andrew for sticking with this community while healing yourself. You look great these days. Namaste to you 🎉❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always..🙏💜😌😊

[@MariaSilva-ix1qc]

The survival made me stronger and now I am free, even on the healing stage.

[@tetr2024]

The beauty is she's out of the house, I'm divorced and I'm in the driver's seat. Cutting off all contact. Once that's done no problem avoiding this creep. Now I need to get my health back. Never give up. Thank you Andrew for all the knowledge and knowhow on how to deal with and rid ourselves of these 'monsters'.

[@annawallace3264]

yes they are Monsters!! Like Andrew tells us we are first, second and third. Narcs are History, peace and quiet now.

[@HatchiSan58]

Finding myself after 15 years of being with a toxic narcissist has been very difficult. I was attacked daily for eating, breathing and listening to music, among countless other things I used to enjoy. It was all 'too loud' for her. Finding new things to restore my soul after 6 years has not yet resulted in success and honestly I think it is because I still seek validation from others but refuse to accept it. I don't know how to validate my self and wonder if it is even possible.

[@marieeakin8534]

God knows how to make a mess into a message. You were beautifully & wonderfully made. You are worthy of happiness & are at the right place to gain back your worth! Keep tuned in & read community comments & engage when you choose. We have all done healing here & the support is very beneficial. Your not alone & shouldn't be. You will find you in time. Glad you found your way here. God Bless 👍 🌈🎀😘

[@lesabrydson2526]

The radical acceptance part for me is that i put alllllll my resources in someone who only saw me as a supply. SUPPLY???? very disturbing persevering, future faking my life with an evil entity. Persevering in Prayers Psalms 1-150🙏🇯🇲👑

[@marieeakin8534]

Blessings Lesa 🙏💥 🌈🎀😘

[@lesabrydson2526]

@@marieeakin8534 Thanks 🙏❤️

[@samirahonar4892]

True It is like a test day. Losing and gaining weight happened because of all the mind games I am dealing with.

[@annawallace3264]

stay strong and it will get better. Keep listening to Andrew he has been so helpful !!

[@collegegirl201418]

andrew you are teaching a new religion it's amazing how your preaching about narcissism love it and no i will never give up i am a fighter 🦋😊

[@lizajane1179]

28 years im stuck like a rat in a cage . Today i was locked in our bathroom he refused to let me out till i talked to him i am stuck no place to go no money. Im broken and have lost myself 💔

[@leighpennington2350]

PRAYERS For Your STRENGTH 🙏 Always Remember 🙏 The WORLD Is A BETTER PLACE, With YOU In It 🙏

[@Chasing70]

@lizajane1179 I was stuck too. The longer you stay, the longer it takes to heal. Life is so much better now. Try to think of a safe way to be free.

[@AndeThompson-ex6sv]

I have literally escaped a 32 year marriage. He has isolated me from everyone and everything. I was kept hostage, for 3 consecutive months. If he is abusing you, call 911 and have him arrested. At 1st opportunity, call an abuse line, go to your local ER, but get out! It’s not going to get any easier or better for us. There are resources available for us. It allows us to be safe and get back on our feet. We are not as helpless, as we think we are. They have led us to believe, that we have no hope. We do! Get out! Much love and prayer!❤️🙏

[@katiebabes57251]

Thank you Andrew!! Perfect timing.. As always ❤

[@STEPHANIEENAJE]

Don’t give up! Don’t ever give up!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💜🙏😌

[@marieeakin8534]

Hi Stephanie... got your message & glad your here! Take good care 👍❤💐 🌈🎀😘

[@brightpage1020]

Hold on! Hold tight! Praying your healing ❤️‍🩹 & salvation from this toxicity may be on its way.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💯

[@marshat.ordureau3121]

GOOD morning Andrew❤🙏🌿🌱🌿🌱NEVER GIVE UP!! WE WON'T💯🇫🇷🥰🌿🌿

[@MagnumD-bt6yb]

As NC State's, Jimmy Valvano, said, "Don't give up, don't ever give up".

[@cynthiawlaughlin5435]

I needed this today. The very thoughts running through my head . Thank you. Yes divorce is in 2 weeks . Would appreciate any good vibes and prayers from the empaths in the group. 💜🫶🏻🙌

[@gratefultobehere]

🙏 it’s another huge lifting of layers when that’s officially signed. Bless you💖

[@SherryWilson-dk7bo]

Love, prayers and blessings for you ❤🙏

[@jhavajoe3792]

Yeah, I'm an Empath ( now an 'educated' one). You wouldn't be posting if your decisions and challenges taking the divorce steps weren't tough ones. I have a feeling, the aftermath will be the greatest sigh of relief you've had in years. Wishing you the best!

[@Dazz3881]

Thank you Andrew... we must all concentrate on the Panicle of Indifference.... I can now FEEL it on the WAY!! .. 👍👌🙏🤠

[@PaulKelly-r5s]

i have been through the anger stage the confusion fog i have healed nearly 8 months after split when i had actually had enough of her i started putting on weight after she stopped me swimming going the gym and running i was miserable but since split up am living my 3rd version of myself swimming most days running most days gym most days weight lost happy with my friends and my bank acount is growing again thank you andrew your amazing

[@MattyNelson-rs3ik]

Vampire free zone..

[@gtrmarv333]

ABSOLUTELY !!! never EVER !! I thought my life waa over 20 years ago. Gave up my dreams .. NOW I'm livin the dreams , more so than i thought possible . Dear Reader You got this 💜 🎼 ☕️

[@daphnewilliams3664]

Thank you Andrew for all your positive thoughts and wisdom through these difficult times.....your side smile in your intro always makes me smile😊

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🤔🤔🤭

[@cyny6305]

This is the only kind of abuse where the victim participates in their own abuse. I'm starting to think that a lot of people don't understand because they don't want to. They might be doing similar. I remember, many years ago, being in a therapy group where a young woman was struggling with something like this. There was horrific sexual abuse involved. I cried for her but I also said to myself "Thank goodness this isn't me." But it was me. It only took 16 years for me to see it.

[@DC71235]

Thank you I needed this message. I went no contact with my parents and sibling about a month ago but the relationships have been dead a long time. Maybe never was real. I’m not proud that I called them up and was angry, hung up and blocked them. I know that makes me look crazy hormonal mean unreasonable and on and on. But this all started years ago trying to set boundaries and getting the cold shoulder. I’ve been an outsider and the amount of pain I can’t endure anymore. As my kids become teenagers they started to do it to them too. There are times I want to have a mom and dad and sister but there is nothing to go back to. What I wish I had didn’t exist. I have to be strong to protect my kids and husband and myself. 😔

[@jhavajoe3792]

Sounded like it was the snarl of a lioness protecting her family. If people can't respect that- too bad.

[@desim7826]

I’ve been listening for almost 2 years and today my divorce from a horrible narcissist is final!! Thanks Andrew for your wisdom and support. You speak truth and it helped me to break away!!! ❤

[@coffeegirl6854]

I wish I could be out walking where you are today. And the birds sound so beautiful. Thanks Andrew.

[@karenzilverberg4699]

Thanks, Andrew. You are a blessing. Even when it is over, residual stuff needs to be handled.

[@rebelrocker7494]

Dont know how Some People Sleep at Night !!!Awesome Video and Only Halfway through It,God Bless👍

[@animalt.v.4592]

The new video you put out 4 months ago was where I realized and made the harsh decision to split. The days that followed were awful, but the videos you kept putting out helped me get through it. Thank you Andrew

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌🙏💜💯

[@alexandranoone3195]

Still going strong. After 2 months ,no contact blocked all calls ,so its working for me ,thank you so much Andrew and community for sharing ,God bless ,namaste 🎉

[@miharu00]

I am blocking and not replying to the narc for a few days. However they can contact you any time just like nothing had happened. It happened to me too after two or three years of no contact, blocked and changed email address. So I need to keep my guard strong and reminding me NO contact. This chats help a lot.

[@alexandranoone3195]

@@miharu00 yes I think they will do that ,thank you so much ,namaste

[@miharu00]

@@alexandranoone3195 yes it took me a long time to realize that they get worse as time goes by. Thanks to this video, it was mentioned exactly how I experienced. So never going back! Stay strong and well 😇🙂

[@maureenjones7973]

Thank you, Andrew. This was the exact thing I needed to hear and see at this moment.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌💯💜

[@Tearsofasilentheart]

Thankyou Andrew for keeping me sane on a daily basis. ❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏💜😌

[@anneyoung2310]

Good preaching, brother Andrew. 👍 Thank you for something like a psychological cold plunge (v. cathartic). "Don't ever give up!" "Don't ever accept a hoover!" "Go no contact." "Many of us had to start all over again" (and sometimes again and again), because of the mass destruction of the narcissistic abuse and their flying monkeys' abuse (the flying monkeys are often much more abusive than the top of the food chain).

[@the-writerofmyownstory]

I began your videos seeking information on the current narcissist, not expecting I would be having to go back and heal the past all the way to childhood. I’m still at it. I had cut contact a few years ago with some family and will need to do it with all family. It’s going to take more time. Processing in really hard, but I’m also reminded of hard it was going through it all, and I’m encouraged to get to a place of healing so I never go through this again. Sharing lyrics from a favorite song that gives me strength, along with this channel “be the writer of your own story, let love turn into your heart again.” I’m looking forward to continuing my story without being on the controlled receiving end of another’s story.

[@MissNancy]

Some days are still hard, sad, I wonder why I go on. I yearn for connection after multiple years of seclusion. I have a male autistic friend I socialize with at times and a BPD girlfriend who I don't emotionally connect with. At least I don't feel so anxious and depressed, and I know I'm mentally healthy and put out a good vibe ❤

[@MattyNelson-rs3ik]

Build on what you have now,join a group,teach literacy, volunteer at a childrens hospital or library,smile more..

[@kathylatta6540]

Omg thank you Andrew! You have a gift of healing. So many of my questions you have answered. God is with me on my healing path. I have no words because it is finally over. Left him in 2021 and no contact since then. Moved back in with family after heart surgery and getting ready to relocate to where my kids and grandkids are. What a blessing. Thank you

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..🙏😌💯

[@melmovingforward]

It’s been one and a half years since the final discard, got discarded because my eyes were opening up. This time I drew the hard line, enough is enough. Following that there has been multiple hoover attempts, mixed with post separation abuse, lots of absenteeism from the children’s life. Thank God for child support laws. The rumination gets less and less with time. At the beginning my thoughts were non stop, competing for space in my brain. Such an excruciating experience… With time I learned how to self regulate. The battle is not over because the narcissist is always waiting for their next opportunity to come back to your life and destroy you. They’re wolves in sheep clothing

[@MoulikaMorou-t5u]

Beautiful background Andrew❤

[@TonyTruthRx]

A standing Andrew??? First for me! Godspeed

[@taliaherrera9416]

The humiliation rituals so much I’m learning about this stuff people are evil I’m thankful even though it’s hurtful it will be ok I’m Gods due time

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌🙏

[@marieeakin8534]

Investing in the growth of oneself is the act of love needed to help ourselves defy life's unpleasant devastations. The unfortunate reality is... we may never know when it is our time to lean on our deepest best friends that we need to count on OURSELVES & GOD! Be Well. 🌈🎀😘

[@gratefultobehere]

❤❤❤

[@jhavajoe3792]

"Life's unpleasant devastations."- Yes, Marie. Save for the lucky few, every one of us can expect things like that to happen to us one time or another.Improving our strength in mind, body and spirit is a win/win. You'll have the strength to face reality and to lend a firm grasp in your helping hand to those you deem worthy. 👍🤝

[@marieeakin8534]

@gratefultobehere Back at you Sweetheart! ❤❤❤

[@marieeakin8534]

@jhavajoe3792 You do know that I filed that quick note I received from you in my mental box of treasures, don't you? It's there for safe keeping to always make me smile! So Sweet, Thank you 👍❤

[@BeTheLight624]

Amen!🙏🏻 ✨SHINE ON Marie✨💖✨☀️✨

[@albertinacarillo3100]

Pro tip: if you are new here , start from the beginning of this channel; it helped me heal ..God Bless

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌💜🙏💯

[@maureenkeating8812]

It’s over after 10 years… enough of the abuse. Can’t believe he doesn’t care about me limping around getting a New Hip… I told him I’m done and he said me 2. He doesn’t care I’m in pain limping going to work…. He bounced 3 days ago…. 3 weeks notice…. He did pay rent for October… but truly can’t believe this 65 year Man has done damage for the last 40 years to people. I’m a Christian however, I’ve been questioning how God lets him get away with this. God is working I nMy life…

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏💜

[@devonways1657]

I’m sitting on the couch in front of the fire (it’s winter here), crocheting a blanket. This is exactly where I’m supposed to be right now 😌

[@paulaallen877]

Thank you for your videos.

[@allisonpayne2097]

I won’t never can,gotta be true to myself forever 😎

[@healing1106]

It is true the rumination decreases overtime. Divorced since 3/23. Rebuilt so much and still focused on the healing path! Some days are up and some are down. Just keep getting up each time even though you dont want to sometimes. Do it anyway, make yourself. ❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💜😌🙏💯

[@Baker-m9y]

I’ve gone no contact. The flying monkeys are everywhere. It’s scary

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@PJB-To-be]

I got closure after ten years! No kidding. Still dragging me through lies and I laid that on the table. They kept it going and finally I told them I would never reach out to them again. I meant it ! Takes decades for something that big to happen if ever. Usually not but I think God knew I needed closure. Now I will heal.❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💜🙏😌

[@marybarrett2002]

I am at the angry stage right now. I’m angry I’m angry and I’m angry that I fell for the spell of the narcissist. I love your videos thank you for being you and being honest and helping us. Have a blessed beautiful day.😊

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌😌💜

[@AliceCrawley]

I love you. Andrew, deepest heart felt thanks for you and all that you do. You’re a healing force through the most challenging times in recovering from a lifetime of narcissistic abuse. Bless you.

[@carolinb52]

Thanks once more Andrew, your messages are like a rock. I’ve been out of the family home for almost 15 months ( the first month due to a severe illness where I nearly didn’t make it) My lawyer has tried for 3 months to serve divorce papers, but he evaded. She’s gotten the judge to give him a final chance of being served and by the end of the week, if he doesn’t respond, then it will get serious. I just have to hang in there, I know or hope things will be different in a few months time. I only hope that people see the red flags. Thanks, 🙏🏼 p.s. I won’t give up! 🙂

[@PamelaRombough]

I love you, Andrew. You are a blessing to those of us who were ensnared by a narcissist. You are the best!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💜😌🙌

[@superkgal3065]

This gentleman. What a man. What a human being. Took the time to put this video together. For us. May god bless and protect you in this life and the next. Thank you