HOW THE NARCISSIST CONTINUES TO FALL APART

[@lisamariesmith3610]

Who could ever believe such evil was amongst us and then we married it. 100% Andrew as always.

[@juttalarosa4944]

So true!!!

[@makelifematter1896]

Never ever in my wildest dreams😢 30yrs wasted but as Andrew says we will WIN

[@stevelichtwark4259]

​@makelifematter1896 25 years for me ,wasn't wasted it's a lesson

[@stephaniepiazzese2602]

Very good description” and we MARRIED IT”,,, thankyou.

[@makelifematter1896]

@@stevelichtwark4259 I know you are exactly correct! I hope you're young enough as with so many others, I wish that for them also, to find that special person in their life that's all I hope for, but being an introvert and have Livestock and love the outdoors, at least I can say I have been Blessed. Also having a beautiful daughter and son in law...just wish my fairytale world would happen meaning seeing what it would be like to have someone love me unconditionally. Andrew has been so wonderful on this path to healing for sure..as so many others who share their thoughts so we all can see there is hope

[@annberlin5811]

Bullies are cowards

[@sinceresong9907]

Cowards are bullies

[@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht]

Biggest cowards EVERRRR

[@user-pv3px4nb2m]

Cowards to their core 🤓

[@MeeMee-gz5vp]

totally agree.

[@fhs72grad]

Think Trump.

[@ccm8620]

Absolutely, they are a empty shell. No contact is the only way. They are a waste of time and space. Runnnn 🏃‍♀️

[@user-tq9jj5rq8k]

Lol...I feel the same way...thank God in heaven for Andrew's videos !

[@bobbyt7448]

Run baby run 🏃‍♀️

[@lilfairycupcake]

no contact is the only cure.

[@Masuzyo0017btx]

Imagine being so miserable and empty that you get your satisfaction from destroying other people's lives, God help theses people 😢

[@franksimmons9242]

It's incomprehensible if it wasn't for all the comments I would have thought it was just me. This is some seriously deep mental stuff.

[@lilfairycupcake]

its a mindset that is draining to think about, let alone be one.

[@dahjord]

yeah insane how miserable and empty these husks of people they never were really are. these people just need to get hobbys besides bullying people and projecting to cope with misery

[@Goethe2andFro]

It's wild how they use the same playbook!

[@BeTheLight624]

Yes, so true Narc Manual 101

[@JFish-df2ep]

They think they are extraordinary but they are ordinary. Same boring recipe.

[@ToxicFreeTV]

All over the world 🌎

[@usernamea99]

Indeed.Just like having the same parents🥵😵‍💫

[@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht]

Yes it really is and it's soooo predictable and most importantly PATHETIC.

[@BeTheLight624]

One year ago today, Andrew saved me from the narc and the living hell the narc placed me in. I asked God to show me what was really going on, that’s when I found Andrew’s channel. One year ago today, I went no contact and I am all the better for it today. I followed everything Andrew said and it all worked. Thank You God.✝️🙏🏻 Thank you Andrew. 🙏🏻🙏🏻 Thank you community.🩷 LET YOUR LIGHT SHINE ✨☀️✨💖✨

[@chazbickel4518]

😊

[@marieeakin8534]

Yes, Thank God! 💪❤💥 🌈🎀😘

[@sorearm]

God bless you, I hope you are healing well :pray:

[@lilfairycupcake]

well u lucked out finding this channel. the worst part of being w a narc, is not truly knowing what a narc is.

[@BeTheLight624]

lilfairycupcake - yes, after 12+ years I finally found out what a narc is and I was blessed by God to find Andrew’s channel and to have a phone appointment with him to clarify things to me, when I promptly walked out of that house and away from the narc never to return or answer a hoover. I certainly wish I would have known about this a long time ago. Thank you for your help, support and good wishes community ❤️

[@Anne_W64]

This is so true. The narcissist is a bottomless pit that can't be filled. There's no love there. They want a perfect caregiver and no one can do that for them. Like Andrew rightly says, they wreck everyone and every relationship.

[@aegisreflector1239]

Exactly

[@MeeMee-gz5vp]

I agree. Wish I knew this before getting involved with one

[@Anne_W64]

@@MeeMee-gz5vp They are master manipulators so don't be hard on yourself. My future defense, and I recommend this, with every new person you meet take time before serious involvement. Especially abstain from sexual involvement because it can cloud your judgement and narcissists are very performative as just another manipulation tactic. Taking time to get to know someone as an acquaintance and then as a friend in various environments over a prolonged period of time will allow you to see clearly whether or not they are wearing a mask. My goal would be a couple of years. I'd rather take that time to know someone before a commitment than to waste the years that will follow repairing injury this type of person can inflict on your mental, social, spiritual and physical health. If someone is rushing you, that's a red flag. Sorry to go on. Just offering pearls to those who might benefit. Please remember you are worth all the love and respect you have to give. 🌹❤

[@katielung6515]

100% self absorbed and absolutely ev il to the core

[@MeeMee-gz5vp]

@@Anne_W64 the wisest advice I've ever heard. Thank you. All the best wishes on your endeavors!

[@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht]

These demons know their time is almost up. They also see tons of beautiful empaths coming together exposing their demonic tactics and taking a stand against their FOOLISHNESS.

[@embraceit21]

What a inspiring statement. The internet has been a life-saver

[@williampicton7072]

I am finished with all toxic parasites! I just need to get the evil out of my mind!!

[@aegisreflector1239]

Same

[@debra7911]

Exactly!! I cannot get that evil out of my mind. I am also finished with all toxic parasites in my life.

[@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht]

You will william,I stopped ruminating a long time ago,you will too.

[@user-gg6qj1pn5h]

@@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht I hope so

[@user-pv3px4nb2m]

It’s a war up there after these relationships. Best of luck

[@flowerpower4944]

P.s. put yourself 1st,2nd and 3,,Don't waste your precious time or Energy on them,,,life is magnificent,peaceful and Happy without Them,,keep well everyone Here,,Sending love and Strength 💖💖💖💖🙏👍

[@candicehounshell5747]

💕

[@heatherroberson1648]

Block them. Don't care and I love indifference. Life is beautiful ❤

[@hannastrack4310]

karma catches you no matter how long and far you run

[@hannastrack4310]

great video

[@whosdatguy91]

Nope. This is the Real World. There is no Justice. Just go no contact

[@kathleencondit1660]

Often aging narcissists have mental health issues like anxiety, and paranoia. They won't get help because they consider themselves too great. So, the problems get worse as they age. They blame their victims for making their anxiety issues worse. Their mood swings are hard to experience. They definitely continue to fall apart.

[@gratefultobehere]

Yes agree and some are constantly at the ER, clinics etc - had a landlord who was banned from an ER because of the same issue in reverse. Can’t make this stuff up. It’s all about them either way. That’s the point.

[@kathleencondit1660]

@@gratefultobehere Thanks. You are so correct about the ER.

[@jhavajoe3792]

Dead on! Maximun DARVO and other weird stuff by that time. 'I think' there was always an invisible high RPM motor, whirring within their nervous system and brain.. They couldn't just relax and enjoy moments with you.

[@hongtruong4576]

@@jhavajoe3792💯💯 I called the ex: Tigger, always moving, talking, mostly about his accomplishments or other people’s stupidity

[@harperlewis1526]

100% especially the paranoia. They even get "PTSD" from all the relationships they torched, marriage their kids, new supply, etc. and are depressed, anxious, seeing therapists who probably have no clue that THEY are the problem. They are now reaping what they have sown their whole life. For the narc in my life, her soul was gutted by her malignant narc father, so now she has been stuck as a 12 year old because of his abuse. She seemed so well adjusted for the 3 years we dated, until the day we got back from the honeymoon, the mask started slipping but I didn't know it. The false persona she created: perfect love, perfect marriage, perfect kids, perfect Hallmark everything fantasy, grandiose inside her head, entitled, fake empathy - everything was fine until 1. I dared to gently challenge 2. our kids got old enough to have ideas of their own 3. I got hurt and "ruined HER life" /her perfect future plans crafted in her head, then the mask completely came off with rage, abuse, and finally discard with demands for divorce. When I finally figured this all out, and said OK, what do you want, she has been fighting the divorce going on 4 years now (will it ever end?), because the 12 year old cannot do anything on her own as Andrew pointed out again on this one. I've been long over her, and minimal contact as possible, but do pray somehow she will change, though unlikely. I wonder who she really is, or who, she could have been had she not been abused. She is communal and covert narcissist, so everyone superficially who knows her, thinks she is amazing. I did too. But then, if they get to know her, eventually they figure out. Can you imagine waking up every day like a vampire needs blood, wondering where you will get Supply and validation? Nothing in your soul, even if you say your religious. And if you don't get supply, oh boy, you will create DRAMA! Sorry for long post...I try not to vent. Thankfully 90% of family and all 4 kids, who have gotten out and no contact or moved away, have seen her unmasked.

[@pattrujillo6899]

I could write a book, but I have to shut off the horrible memories, god bless you 🙏

[@cindymcdonnell2119]

You have helped me heal this past year. Knowing you are there when I struggle is peace of mind ! Thank u 💪💪👍no contact is the only way

[@Dragonfly_magictarot]

I know the feeling ❤️🙏🏼

[@TheBlownGSR]

I have two things to say. 1. I didn’t know anything about this dynamic when I entered into it. (It was honestly a red flag and confusing when I was being accused of all of these terms I’d never heard of, gaslighting, triangulation, grey rocking etc.) 2. My life went from fairly successful, to losing my freedom, all of my money, almost my house, and frankly my sanity, to being the best version it’s ever been. I have my dream job, I truly enjoy waking up every morning. It’s just one of those situations that was extremely painful, but without it I wouldn’t be where I am today, so in a way I’m almost grateful for it. Life is funny people, learn to laugh.

[@user-dt1sf6vm8p]

I have to agree! ❤❤❤❤

[@lilfairycupcake]

the absolute worst part is not knowing. its to bad we have to learn the hard way. one of my big pluses was, i have a low bs tolerance. so if the narc bs, disrespect, got to deep, out the door she went.

[@whoisimani44]

Anyone listening for the first time or the 20th time, you are not alone. Leave no matter how long you've been in the relationship. Be free!! Live free!! Have peace in your life! Andrew Thank you so much for these videos and God bless you!!

[@gouvyrock]

Twelve weeks without that evil narcissist-i feel good and happy-game over for her !!!!!

[@embraceit21]

23 weeks for me without the narc 🎉

[@gouvyrock]

@@embraceit21 great!!!!

[@sharoneh8929]

4 months of Freedom✅ Praise the LORD ✝️ His life is going sideways at 74 years old. The "Toxic creature" is REAPING what he has Sowed ❗💯. I am letting my light shine. ✨🌟💫 Forward motion ahead💥. Thanks Andrew for your do diligence on narcissism. Take care of yourselves Folks❤. Be careful out there...

[@gouvyrock]

@@sharoneh8929 great!!!!!

[@easylivingwithniecy4317]

I thought it was just an ego issue.Much more than that.They are at constant paranoia and fighting the demons in their heads.Fear of the mask coming off and people finally see nothing there.

[@zodiacfish69]

They are like robots no feelings no emotions nothing just empty dark depressing bland shells

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌

[@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht]

Yes and they act like complete and utter FOOLS.

[@mvbigmagic4048]

Yes, I have never seen my mother cry in my 52 years of life. Funny thing is, a chat I had with Chat GPT seemed to have more empathy than my uncanny valley narcissistic mother.

[@stephaniepiazzese2602]

I especially love hearing” YOU ARE NOT ALONE” ,,, because I’ve felt alone my entire life. I surround myself w/ animals, I think because of their weakness and vulnerability ,,and INNOCENCE. ,, and we are always together. But growing up with a NARC DAD, a scared weak lonely Mom,,, life feels scary all the time. It’s always hovering over me. But when I hear your words Anthony,, they are seeping ever deeper into my heart and I’m rising slowly. ❤

[@America_is_beautiful2024]

Don’t be afraid. Just because others let you down doesn’t mean everybody will. I’ve almost gone full on recluse with my dog and cat + 4 feral cats that stop by twice a day to eat and to stay in the cat condos I put out for them to shelter in when the weather is bad. Helping them has speeded up my healing. Animals are, as you say, innocent, almost like little angels sent here to help us.❤😊

[@Anne_W64]

The narcissist never saw 'you'. They only see their imaginary idea of you and that has more to do with their expectations and fantasies because that's where they live. They have a fantasy ideal self and then a fantasy ideal you. It's their imaginary 'you' that they put onto a pedestal when you meet them. That's when they love bombed the imaginary ideal you. It feels good for a hot minute. You can be your true honest self and still get swept up into their fantasy. Their imaginary idea of you doesn't interact with truth or reality though, and you can't live up to it because we are all flawed humans. When you fall from being that imaginary ideal they hold in their mind of you, you will go from being wonderful to being despised. Then they will devalue and discard you. That's their cycle. It has nothing to do with you. They play it out because of who they are in their development which is stuck in childhood. You aren't their imaginary ideal person because that only exists in their mind. You are real, human and flaws and all, you, the real you, are worthy to receive all the love and respect you have to give. I hope you heal and find a real loving person who sees and respects 'you'. 🌹❤

[@gratefultobehere]

💯 🙌 🙏❤️

[@marieeakin8534]

Amen! 👍❤👍❤👍 🌈🎀😘

[@JesusChristus33-]

Wonderfull, thank you, be blessed everyone❤

[@carrietaylor3027]

@Anne_W64 you described it perfectly!! I figured out my ex narc didn't KNOW me or care to know me at all & so many fights were cuz I didn't fit into his imaginary image of me. Getting away from that vile, soulless pit of a human is the best thing that ever happened to me.

[@martinsmith8926]

Spot on!! 34 years, 3 children later,totally discarded!!!!!!! (Completely shattered and confused at the time) 2 years of pain,confusion and learning later. I Reached the Pinnacle of indifference. Totally thriving,loved by life and everything around me. As per always for the loving empath that I am. Wasn’t easy and still isn’t as I completely promote the relationships of the children with their mother. (Because I’m a beautiful human being Praise GOD!) YOU to will also get through it!! Huge thanks to Andrew and these videos for giving me the education and understanding I needed when I so NEEDED it!!! Plenty of love and prayers for him!! Saddest thing at the end of it all is she doesn’t have me in her life anymore. Of course the prayers still go out for her,but now they go out all. Blessings

[@kimsteed9401]

Thanks Andrew, I've been in therapy with you for over a year now. No one in my family other than myself has ever gone through a toxic narcissistic partnership. Thank you for knowing, it's near impossible to describe it to someone who has not lived through it.

[@vinnieo7082]

Absolutely 💯 true Andrew! Thank you! My ex narc was so close to their controlling narcissist mother, she treated him like a husband, sickening!

[@hongtruong4576]

The ex narc and his mother were very close. She was jealous of me. She called me names now I’m not sure if it was dementia? Thanks God! I’m not in HIS mess anymore. And it’s a beautiful thing! Peace is Priceless 🙏

[@vinnieo7082]

@@hongtruong4576 wishing you peace and happiness on your healing path 💕

[@emmanuelnjohnjoh3921]

​@@hongtruong4576how does a man not realize how unhealthy that relationship is? With his mom,,that's the whole idea of the earth carrying on,letting your children be independent to carry on with life.

[@vinnieo7082]

Absolutely so true, narcs are controlling and manipulative. Wouldn’t they love to see their children’s thrive with their own family! My ex narcs mum is horrible, zero substance, her adult sons under her control have no future because she doesn’t like anyone other than herself, she treats them like husbands. Best to remove these types of people and live a peaceful life

[@jenettethorson3138]

That's called enmeshment.

[@meanjeanie9314]

My Narc Abuser spent over 20 yrs on his mission to destroy me ,my careers ,my homes my relationships with family n friends .. meantime he didnt work nor build nor gain anything significant .. Even his flying Monkeys are done with it because he depended on them for free food rent money etc when I was no where to be found ..and they had to hear how horrible I was .. while I healed , grew , gained and progressed in life without the likes of him and his Tyranny.

[@taliaherrera9416]

❤I hear no evil see no evil and speak no evil and let the good lord have his way ❤I’m thankful he opened my eyes to evil

[@mansoura7628]

I'm happy being alone. I don't need selfish people in my life

[@BWSRbushcraft]

One of the big take aways I had to learn as mentioned in this video here is don't be attempting to initiate any conversations or contact wirh these narcs...no matter whay you say or atttempt to convey they will always spin it and leave you drained emotionally.

[@gratefultobehere]

Strong message tonight. Going no contact is definitely what will help so much. Because I went no contact long ago and exited Facebook etc, it cut off many issues right there. Along with new phone number, email and address. If it’s possible, I really agree with Andrew on those points. And it also eliminates me from seeing anything related to the narcissist(s) so it freed up my life to spend time with myself. Which looks like isolation, but for me has been educating, healing, self care and personal interests. When you pour into yourself more you realize how much they did not. God bless you Andrew. You are a blessing to us ❤️🙏🌳

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you..😌💜🙏🙌

[@createdintheimageofgod1584]

There’s no peace for the wicked!!! Narcs working full time for the devil with no benefits 🤷🏽‍♀️ they sign the contract without reading the fine print that they are defeated 💯 !! Smh

[@gabrielleg8794]

Yep, that's why they're LOSERS all the way until the grave and beyond.

[@lilfairycupcake]

it ends the same for each, and every one of them. not a pretty picture.

[@livinggood6876]

That's all they want, is someone in their life. A home base to operate from they could go home to. Most of the time they don't want to be home. They're out screwing around or spending our money that they think is only their's.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌

[@allisonpayne2097]

Hello Andrew, yes he’s very small to me now,time helps and heals ,it’s so much better to be sure of yourself,then to let someone else poison your mind for all times😎

[@ReelFloridaOutdoors]

Truly a great video. Everything you said is how my life used to be. They become so insignificant when you heal and see what garbage they are.

[@pura1]

Thank you, my heart overflows with peace as you shine a light on this. I never thought i would make it in that relationship. Thoughts darker and darker by the day. they take everything and more and spit in your face. Torment and torture you to your core and scramble your mind. Isolate you and villianize you. Stand up for yourself even if you stand alone. Your love will return to you tenfold

[@6ftr]

Most positive teacher ever

[@jenniferrosteski3955]

I am moving forward each and every single day. One step at a time I will continue to climb my mountain of indifference 🙏❤️👋

[@Seanus32]

Precisely, Andrew. Block them. I'm not quite sure how she came to be as she is. Let's say she had a hard childhood. Well, at the risk of sounding like a victim (but just stating a fact, not an opinion), I had it rough as well but I came through it to be a contributor to society as a teacher. I don't hurt people. Quite the opposite. Protect your energy, folks. It is golden.

[@mvbigmagic4048]

Yes, I don't buy that the trauma "causes narcissism," because I too had trauma, but people choose to sublimate in different ways. My mother chose to hurt people. Repeatedly. Unremorsefully. And although I would think that she got away with it.... as she ages, I think more and more people see her for what she is. A cruel person in a meat suit.

[@Seanus32]

@@mvbigmagic4048 It can do, perhaps, but rising above is key. Purging oneself of unwanted energy can be done in a number of ways. Choosing to hurt people is disgusting. It advances virtually nothing in humanity. One key difference between a narc and a normal person is that most normal folks are of good conscience. A narc couldn't give a monkey's about that.

[@DH-tp1it]

My ex always said “if it wasn’t for your Mother I’d be on the dark side” (to our daughter). We split up 10 years ago. Just recently passed away from Xanax and alcohol addiction. Left 200k in cc debt and took fake loans in our daughter’s name. TRUE Evil! I knew something was very dark and evil with him, and finally had had enough. Thank God! These truly are the the devil- beyond frightening!. Run away as fast as you can!

[@jenettethorson3138]

My narcissistic parents used me as a pawn in the divorce. My dad actually showed up and kidnapped my brother and I in California and drove us back to Seattle. Imagine my poor mother though seeing us missing. This was after she put me in a mental institution at age ten for 7 months. My dad started beating me once my mom got my brother back. I am in NO contact with both parents now.

[@smcsavage]

He was always telling me I’m stupid. He was always criticizing everything I did or didn’t do. I felt insane then.

[@kimlorraine369]

Same

[@Dawna-gp1zk]

hugs!

[@fireupyourheartfortruth]

So sorry I can fully relate! Please Know Creator God and us love all you... Please pass on we send our love and prayers. ❤

[@nicolajirving]

I've been out to a music night with my father tonight. I've encountered 2 narcissists. One of them was telling me what to do. I told him do not tell me what to do. The other one confessed he has borderline personality disorder and he can't see his 3 Yr old daughter, he smokes weed and drinks. It seems like I'm a manget for toxic people.

[@Mockduck2020]

Probably because you are a truly good person.

[@hongtruong4576]

I just give them the look and walk away. Walk away my friend, I keep the focus on me first and foremost. My lesson learned, my time I choose to spend it the way chose 🙏💜💐

[@emmanuelnjohnjoh3921]

Prayer and fasting is the repellent agent to be used against that attraction and them,,plead the Blood of Yeshua Hamachiac in their presence.

[@delicatelace8830]

It is difficult to comprehend the truth that there are so many toxic people everwhere. So it's not you, it's a total lack of boundaries from other people.

[@user-hl2xp7jl6s]

I’ve been listening to Andrew for over a year right after the discard when I found out about narcissism Andrew compared to the other teachers is my favorite. He’s almost built for this so listen to him. He speaks the truth with love.

[@juttalarosa4944]

Thank you soooo much Andrew- I keep saying this for years that I'm following you and this wonderful community- but im not getting tired of repeating: thank you Andrew from the bottom of my ❤! You are helping us all tremendously! God bless you! Lots of gratitude and love from Germany!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌💜🙌🇩🇪

[@Crystalblue58]

Absolutely spot on. I am years out now. I recently got curious. i looked online at his church's services. They video their sunday services. He is there playing guitar and praising. After ther service, which had almost no attendees, ex starts complaining that something was considered "pastoral" and he "better watch what he says". He was at it all right. Spreading unrest about the female pastor and how she runs the church! Now he looks so small and pitiful, (though now sloppy and fat), if I cared I'd feel something, glad I don't. The new supply his wife was not there.

[@emmanuelnjohnjoh3921]

Tired of the hippocrit

[@archiehendricks6093]

Yes Andrew the more you loved them the more it will sting when your gone and ther new source wont be able to produce the fix the narcissist needs.

[@user-lk7ew4yp8c]

You’re the best. Love the cheerlead at the end. 🎉❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😊🙏💜

[@charansidhu9]

How do you make a narcissist suffer forever? You need to destroy narcissist ego and pride. You need to bring them back to reality. And there is a way you can do that. Without harming them directly. And that is by working on yourself. And going back to being the person you were before you got involved with the narcissist. The person that they were attracted to. And then becoming a better version of yourself. If you do that and let them see it, but you reject their hoover attempts. It will destroy their ego. Because they can't deal with rejection. They can't deal with being ignored. Especially if it's from something that they believe they should have. Narcissists find pleasure in breaking you down. They find pleasure in your pain. It gives them satisfaction. So the last thing they want to see is you building yourself up. You being happy. Because what really destroys their ego is when they see that you're not affected by their attempts to destroy you. You're still able to do what you need to do. You're still able to live the life that you want to live. You're still able to laugh and smile. Which means that their efforts have gone to waste. Their plan has failed. They didn't get the result that they were intending for. Because now you're even more successful. You look better than you ever did before. You're in better condition than when they first met you. Which destroys them. Because they remember how good things were back then. That's why they lovebombed you. And they would love to have that again. But if they can't, it will crush them. So you don't need to get revenge on the narcissist. You don't need to do anything to them. Just focus on yourself. Focus on your own life. Focus on building yourself up. Making your life better. And don't let them partake in it. Don't let them be a part of it. That is how you do it. ✌🏾

[@theearthauger]

Hi Andrew. It's everything you said. Plus, stalking, hiding mail,endless lies. List goes on and on. They will never change. Also, jealousy, raging fits. Everything is all my fault. Add deliberately hurting you on purpose. And, they are never sorry. The narcissist will never apologize. Thanks for everything you do. We all need some healing for sure. Who doesn't. The sooner the better, but no easy way out. Knowing we're not alone really helps. 🇺🇸 👍

[@hongtruong4576]

They stuck on: Don’t you know who I am! Every time the ex narc in a car, everybody is STUPID even the cyclist. Now I think it’s funny. He has to live himself not me 😇

[@sovstarr7948]

Fkn well said Andrew 💯 She over played her hand and I over stayed my welcome. I'm done! And thank you for paying it forward 🤜 My journey has begun.

[@America_is_beautiful2024]

Andrew is on fire today! Spot on descriptions of the narcs. 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@user-qd8tz8xz7y]

I really enjoy his videos.... and he's a dog lover too! Thank you, Andrew.

[@CatsPJS2027]

Once you realize you are dealing with a significant mental illness called narcissism and that helps manage the resentment and lasting traumas inflicted; I feel bad for my brother, I know why it happened, a mother who didn’t like babies and especially male babies. No violence, just keening and screaming at every human function a baby has. Ugh, I had it better as girl

[@lilfairycupcake]

its tough as a kid. i did not have a great childhood, but what i took away from the negatives was, how not to be. narcs born of abuse had the same option as i, and chose a different path.

[@adamstarr-3649]

💯 you told my story 💯, 4 years ago I thought she was my soulmate I'd been waiting my whole life for, the love, the intimacy, the future wide open, my "soulmate", how it spiralled to a trapped living hell of 4 years of every abuse, betrayals, triangulating, cheating, theft, threats, fear, isolation, devalueing, used up could never do anything enough living nightmare. 4 years of my life for that kind of love. I'm out by the grace of God and no contact blocked for months now as she's on juggling new supplies. I never knew the depths of evil existed I've lived through and I can only hope to help others escape the same in the future. Thankyou for your videos, God's work🙌

[@interestingtopics1617]

My mother always used, abused, and discarded me since I was little. I became a ppl pleaser and always wanted to be loved and valued. My mom put me in unsafe places. I forgave her later in life and the cycle started all over. I am a fixer and hate to see that I rose above and now she is losing everything and I am wired to help. I am unavailable and silent. I’m mentally tormented b/c I chose healthy instead of being a tool that will be destroyed to save her. Your message has been listened to three times. TY

[@mvbigmagic4048]

I agree. My mother literally wants me to set myself on fire to keep herself warm. Doesn't matter that I have three kids. Nothing matters except her. And that's how it's always been since I was small. No contact was my only solution, after falling for her hoovers for decades. Each time, getting severely burned financially. Well, now I have kids. And I don't have time to play that game anymore. Unlike her, I actually want to take care of my kids.

[@angel-no5sy]

HOLY HOLY HOLY IS THE LORD GOD ALL MIGHTY ❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌🙏

[@RachelH.B]

Up here on the peak of indifference, I see the incurable narcissist as a mentally disordered supply addict. They are not possessed, but they need to recruit and possess. They develop these methods to get their fix. It’s never too late to get far away from them and preserve yourself. Good health to you!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💜⛰️

[@Senoritagata-nu5te]

Thank you for your encouragement. I am so happy & content because I am healing every single day from the bite of that slithery narcissistic serpent bite. Their " dirty little fangs" can't bite me anymore thank God! Scars are slowly fading away😃. No more tears I pray

[@Davinia77]

I’m in the disgust stage. I’m so grateful I’m no longer under the narcissistic spell he had me under. They are so controlling

[@roslyncerro1263]

I have been out 15 years and alive from my ♥️ tragedy 10 years, and I will always be healing forever.❣️

[@aliciabell7631]

When I was with my ex, it was something always going on with him. I never experienced someone with so much karma. This man look so good on paper and that's it. He and his mother is a tag team narcissistic dynamic duo

[@jennifernewton4637]

Hey Andrew and friends! 🙌🙌🙌😁🥰🌷🌼❤️💜

[@estelle5686]

You know, really know, their strategies exactly. He did worse with the supply, can't admit it and stays when everyone knows the truth. The new supply couldn't regulate him the same way and never did. He made bigger mistakes, less impulse control, loss of all credibility. You are an expert!

[@Thedisgardedoptimist]

It does help to realize they are missing part of their brain.. That's why we are different to them.. The anger will pass (eventually) because we can introspect... Have a good day.. 🙏☮️✨🐬

[@marylowe7135]

Thank you, Andrew, another great video that is spot on!! Keep smiling that beautiful smile💕💕 Your smile is a beacon of hope for those that are trying to recover from a narcissistic relationship, it gives them hope that they, too will be able to smile again. God bless you all and stay strong, don't fall for the narcs lies, like Andrew said, block them on your phone and don't contact them. Be happy and enjoy your life💕💕

[@America_is_beautiful2024]

It’s almost like he’s plugged into the accumulated wisdom of the Universe and channels it to us

[@karenzilverberg4699]

Thanks, Andrew, you are 100% correct. The toxicity, evil ways, and low philosophy that the narcissist clings to results in less personal prosperity, less development, and a decline in his/her body, mind, and soul giving the narcissist an undesirable outcome.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💜😌🙏🙌

[@karenzilverberg4699]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 👍

[@tracigodlef8103]

They have to have the best looking person by there side. To show everyone that they can have what they think you cannot have

[@user-ou3sd2vp3u]

Even a trophy teapot tbh 😉

[@user-qd8tz8xz7y]

My ex's second wife could have been my "TWIN" Looked just like me!

[@WildOne71]

Thank You~ your videos encouraged me to tell my bro ( 13 yrs my senior) to KICK ROCKS~~ he’s MAD AS A HATTER but, I’m like THE FONZ and I WILL NOT LOSE MY COOL❤ While he’s crying to my 85 yr old blind mother that IM NOT FAIR and MAKE HER DO IT ~ I STAND STRONG. It’s almost a year now and I AM CAPABLE. ❤❤❤

[@archiehendricks6093]

Hey dont touch the hair.

[@WildOne71]

@@archiehendricks6093 🤣🤣🤣

[@maryolinger9465]

An excellent video!! Andrew you are the BEST educator!! Thank you!! Sending love to all community folks. I feel so much better following your sessions!! 😊❤🙏💜

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌💜🙌

[@Dawna-gp1zk]

Wow Andrew! Every single characteristic you described fits my ex husband! This includes his adoration of his mother which I thought was admirable at the time. I feel like you witnessed my marriage; I was his maid. Thank you so much for the compliments letting me know he lost the best thing that he ever had! I now live atop the pinnacle of indifference and want you to know that your insight and guidance have led me there.... Much love to you from Dawna in Canada.

[@gratefultobehere]

They are clingy to their mommies

[@hongtruong4576]

@@gratefultobehere They have an unnaturally strong bond!

[@smcsavage]

Thank you for reinforcing the truth to my mind.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💜🙏😌

[@lisashope2926]

Fruit loops! Lol. Great information in this video besides the good laugh.

[@kimlorraine369]

I look forward to Andrews side-eye face . Gives me a giggle even tho this shid is serious. I miss laughing

[@brokenwingrdz4782]

"Aren't you gonna do those things for me"? My Narc Moms favorite line 😮. Ive been 100% no contact for 3yrs now and the woman still tries to wiggly into my life through my kids or grandkids like some predator. I am so proud that my children and I have a united front. It was my adult children who decided that we all heal from her abuse🥰 and move along. We have all noticed how peaceful life is without her in it. Namaste❤

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing..😌🙏🙌💯

[@RoseKent-uu7rw]

Thank you Andrew…..you are so knowledgeable! Once you know who and what they are, you never allow them back. Yes they fall apart…my ex is stalking and is so obsessed. It has been 17 months of no contact and I peek at NOTHING about him. If not for the pathetic stalking, I wouldn’t know he is alive. It was the easiest breakup of any relationship I ever had. A total nightmare.

[@zodiacfish69]

The narcissist sees you as an item we are empaths they are they are opposite of what we are . We are the positive they are the negative we are good they are the bad once you heal yourself you move on from that relationship the narcissist do not ever heal their wounds they project their wounds onto their partners or anyone else their empty dark vessels the only thing I can thank him for is making me see the light and healing maself totally people get out of that fake relationship and heal yourself stay 💪 🤍🤍🤍✨️✨️✨️ thank you Andrew for this 👏👏

[@paulandshark1]

Dear Andrew, thank you for your passion, energy, dedication… Excellent content as always. You’re speaking the WISDOM! You really know what narcissism is about! I love you my friend! ❤

[@nellythenarcissist]

The way Andrew speaks it’s like he met my ex narcissist personally! That’s how it is, they are all identical. My ex since I left and changed countries is falling down big time…and realising that finding supply equal to me is not so easy….there is regret without regret.

[@juneallan627]

I love the train in the background

[@BruhBruh-do5cq]

I was with this girl for 3 years and thought I couldn’t be happier but she unfortunately discarded me for another guy that I knew (he is a loser and a real a**hole, so it makes me feel better but also makes less sense to me). She shoved it in my face and kissed him in front of me and showed no empathy at all, when she supposedly loved me a few days before leaving me. Now it’s been about 5 months after leaving social media, blocking the narcissist and their entire family and going no contact… I feel better then I ever have mentally & physically, but still in shock that she truly didn’t care at all after 3 years. Sometimes I still wonder what I did wrong for her to treat me that way, but these videos helped me realize I’m dealing with a huge narcissist and it’s not my fault at all. Thank you for your videos. I will update if things change. I’m now headed towards the pinnacle of indifference!!!

[@RIDDYxMUSICH]

Preach. I always told this women she was a bully. Sometimes you gotta bully the bully then plan your exit/escape.

[@bonnieromick9397]

no contact 6 months

[@kimberlyblunt]

Yesss

[@RiverAngel312]

All true!

[@debra7911]

That's why my ex was so close to his mother. He never really left his home, his parents took care of him because he was always hurting people, including me. It was a very horrible time in my life and I am not the same. I am free now and I am still watching my back, I do not even live near him but who knows what the demon is thinking. I've been watching you for some time now and I have learned so much. Your words have helped my mind and I am not alone. Thank you so very much!!

[@fmckeon1595]

Powerful.....Thank you and God Bless 🙏

[@gailyhanna510]

Andrew, you just made me laugh out loud😂 Yes... they are know it alls, that in reality know very little. And so cheap... unless they're spending YOUR money💰

[@karenwigtil894]

Andrew, I love hearing you say, "You are not alone." I needed to hear that in the beginning but it still soothes my soul. I know i stayed too long in two relationships because i was afraid of being alone. We are not alone. We have one another. We have God. Bless you in your work!!❤

[@user-vn7df6xk3u]

Three weeks ago my Narc had a stroke and died. It feels like the Universe stepped in, an Act of God.I had ended it, as I’d done more than once but he was trying to continue contact. I had become volatile, lashing out angry, distressed, confused, highly distressed. I cried when he died, remembering the good times but was honest in facing the reality there were very few good times. The overriding feeling which came up and continues is relief. Now,p released from the pain, triangulation, hoovering, highly distressing, smear campaigns. All the stuff you know so well about. Five years of it, on and off. Unbelievable. Andrew, thank you SO much for all you say and do, your videos. Reading comments from others who have nearly been destroyed too makes so much difference Tommy healing. As you say, we are not alone. You are a bright shining light too. 🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌💜🙏

[@kathylatta6540]

Sometimes I do feel alone. I've been no contact and divorced from ex for 3 years but when I hear you say you You are not alone it is comforting. Thanks Andrew

[@natqt93]

OMG it’s been over a year since I was discarded by that coward, narcissistic bully of an ex I was in a relationship with for 5 years… and I thought I had all the lightbulb moments possible but this video just gave me another one. Wow. This healing journey is one of the most incredible things I’ve ever embarked on in my entire life. Forever thankful to the narcissist for breaking me! I needed to be broken so I can put myself back together into the 3rd version of myself.. the most galvanized version of myself known to this fucking world. LFG!!!! 🎉❤

[@user-up2zj5lm2s]

I am in utter amazement of the depth and knowledge that this man has! Every video I watch gives me strength. He hits the nail on the head every time.. everything he has said, is exactly the way my life was with the woman I married,and finally divorced . Thank you Andrew for all you do for us. Again, it amazes me, your content every day tells me so much in so many different ways. GOD bless you!

[@guysomebody1145]

I always do the little head nod along with you Andrew.

[@archiehendricks6093]

It is so great all of us can attiscipate ther behavior.

[@Temp97]

Speak it! Wise words of experience! Thank you Andrew! 3 years post here and feeling amazing! I think one of the greatest lessons I learned from the experience with a Narcissist and healing is that I learned who I really am, where I come from, what I want, don’t want …. Morals and values and so much more… this came in the silence when feeling alone yet knowing I am not alone! Thank you very much and I will always check in here to do my best to pay it forward. If you are going through it or just coming out of it please know it gets better and better and better as soon as you block delete and do not accept Hoovers! Life changing ❣️

[@user-ou3sd2vp3u]

They will push you to your absolute limit and more. Don’t take their Bs… life is so precious x

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌😌💯

[@reginaldmines4569]

Straight Facts!💯💯

[@tamerastone4732]

This is so true. It's a weird absorbed dynamic, in the relationship!! I feel so embarrassed when I recall what he made me do!! Very humiliating!!!

[@125adfTtp]

When I went up against a narcissist they tried everything to destroy me we went to court they did not turn up never seen them again.

[@hongtruong4576]

Good for you! 👍💜

[@dawnkinateder9617]

I couldn't need this channel more. Thank you Andrew. It's almost incomprehensible what was done to me, and my son. How in God's name could a human being be so absolutely evil, disgusting, empty, cruel and selfish? No joke, you can't make this 💩 up, and I need to say it somewhere people might actually get it because I have NO ONE who truly does. The multiple levels of betrayal are staggering. 25 years of marriage, longer than that together. Today is the 29th anniversary of my daughter's death. He so took advantage of me at the most vulnerable time of my life. We had our son, got married. We moved across the country away from any support system. The rest is history. I did everything, scratching and clawing to build a decent life only to have him rip everything out from under me. He abandoned me sick AF, left me for dead bleeding on the garage floor, sabotaged my medical care hoping I would die. I nearly did. He left our son to take care of me. Turns out he was texting women as I lie sick in bed and in the hospital. I have reason to believe he had a fling with my doctor. He's drug me through three years of a horrible divorce trying to give me next to nothing. I'm disabled and can't work which is truly the worst because I want nothing more than to not need one penny from him. But that isn't the case. He's trying to screw me so bad that I will very likely lose my home. He turned my entire family against me and our son. Not hard, I was the scapegoat. I have a narc mother and the queen of all narcs on earth mother in law who is so evil there aren't words to convey it. The triangulation that took place is absolutely revolting and disgusting. I don't know if my son or I will ever recover. What we have endured the past three years, very few could. But this channel gives me hope. If nothing else, I feel less alone and like someone understands this hell. My heart goes out to everyone who has ended up here because of their experience with some stupid narc. I just so want to move on, be done and find happiness. Watching my son be so traumatized is beyond painful. I pray somehow he can recover. It's beyond cruel and unfair what's been done to us both. Absolutely heinous.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing..😌😌🙏💜

[@user-by6hd2uh4s]

Thank you Andew. You are so right you heal faster when u don't give them any access to you and when u don't look at what they are doing.

[@magdakhan598]

Ten years to get into it and ten years to get out!.. but you're a breeze to listen to and so funny with it..I listen each night before I sleep..x

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you..😊💯💜

[@rc0334]

100% agree with this! They can’t handle normal responsibilities. When I was married and had two young children. I was contemplating getting a job. I told my narc husband that we would have to get car seats for his vehicle because there would be days that he would have to pick up the kids from daycare. He looked at me like I was speaking another language. He could not fathom taking on that responsibility. What a tool.

[@naomilopez7802]

You are so Right ???? He only cares about what others can do for them ???