Don’t Ignore THIS Friendship Red Flag 🚩

[@musankosi762]

This is not only limited to friendships. Even some family members are like this and I’m saying this from experience.

[@joannebell3405]

Came here for this comment

[@-Kitty._.TwT-]

Real

[@jaymie-leacollingwood2753]

This is exactly where my mind went too. The difficult thing about family, especially immediate family, is that you are conditioned to look after their ego and the people around you expect that from you too. To look after that one person whose ego can’t tolerate other people also taking up space.

[@joannebell3405]

@@jaymie-leacollingwood2753 Omg this! This is really helpful for me to get my head around it/be able to articulate it too 🙏

[@yellowmoon4564]

yes! thats why i dont have any concat with them

[@The900AD]

So many people are like this, envious and jealous. Be aware of it in yourself too and celebrate others achievements and victories!

[@HISIAM888RUHIS888]

Very excellent Advice!!! I try to do this!!..& don’t much about the bad things that has happened in my life!! Just try to stay “Positive!!” ..& Give Out Good Vibes!!🥰🙏

[@ellengrace4609]

So true! It’s really slim pickings out there for friends. Everyone has faults but it seems we have a narcissist pandemic. I’m to the point I prefer my own company over almost anyone else. It’s so calm and peaceful. 😁

[@DrRock2009]

People are quick to share your failures: slow to celebrate your successes.

[@paulalane8638]

This is especially true for those of us who grew up in childhood trauma. Its difficult being our authentic selves and believing we will be accepted by others. Thank you for this reminder, we are worth it!❤

[@narelleking6624]

True. Grew up with multiple traumas and now I'm a recovering fawner/people pleaser. Lost many friends when I started being myself

[@bodyofhope]

​@@narelleking6624 same here. I was the listener and cheerleader for everyone my entire life, and when I needed help and started sharing myself, I lost friends. But that's okay bc my friendships are more meaningful now, and I don't resent anyone. Things can't always be "equal" we should lean on each other, but I had so many friends who were only leaning on me and zero ppl who I could lean on. Now I have a couple good friends who know the real me, and it's a big part of healing ❤

[@localppcartist]

To rejoice for another's success- never knowing envy, be their safe person to the vulnerable intimate sharing of their difficulties- free from maliciously judging, as i never had from anyone- encouraging confidence and ensuring thier self worth by validating their feelings to be as normal, natural, and rightful to their self- to do what one feels is the right thing to do for their self- this,I've yet to experience from another. to not allow other people's cohersive behaviors manipulate the rights to one's own decisions, thoughts, and feelings- maybe someone, some day with these manifesting traits of a friend- will appear for me. It seems there are more UNSAFE people my the world as I grow older. No one wants to be accountable for owning what friendship is for another. Friends are just a means to an end- when the end is there, the abusive behaviors come out to run off the other. I dont get it, never had. Relearning and rediscovering parts of my self, after life long abuse, around unevolved people is difficult. Smear campaigns, gas light, and used is the results.

[@estheradao]

True

[@sybilizzard4926]

And be careful of others in the group who enable them.

[@ChristopherClaudioSkierka]

So true. I work with an narcissistic person and one other particular co worker seems to aid him, I do not comprehend why

[@clairechloe5294]

​@@ChristopherClaudioSkierka - because they both have similar interests and agendas.

[@sv-yh3mq]

" flying monkeys"

[@jyotivyas9286]

😂😂there are great Narc cults supporting them. They knew it. It fulfills their Ego...We need to be Aware ,Going No Contact With them. Om Shri.

[@clairechloe5294]

@@jyotivyas9286 - Well said and so true. 👍💯👍

[@incognito595]

Life shouldn't be painful and abusive..DON'T TOLERATE IT. RESPECT YOURSELF.

[@nikitasingh7243]

I was in such a friendship for 3 freaking years....its traumatizing everytime I think of it... They were horrible people but taught me what was necessary for me to know...

[@doombardevon6099]

How brilliant... Nelson Mandela said the same thing in one of his quotes ' you're being small doesn't serve the World ' ❤

[@drelizabethscott]

Oh I love this--thank you for sharing!

[@southafricangirl1698]

It waz a quote by Nelson Mandela, the person who wrote this was Marianne Wilson, a writer

[@monakhan18242]

Good to know that.🎉

[@EMunaBee]

They both had profound, beautiful things to say. Nelson Mandela said "There is no passion to be found playing small - in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living"." He also said, "Your playing small doesn't serve the world. There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you".

[@victoriasegall3404]

​@@EMunaBee🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@malachitestorm]

and the worst thing for me is that when you stand up for yourself, you get ridiculed and left alome. as if just being me is not enough, not worth their time.

[@lianasara7475]

Just leave them they are not worthy to be with you...

[@drunkfish111]

...and also that you get exactly the same effect when it's them standing for themselves (when there's usually no need to do so..) and you try to put a word, even a compassionate one...

[@gabrielavilla7308]

They're using you as a pawn to make them feel better about themselves. It's not about you at all. But you can step out of their little game once you realize what's happening

[@cample_denize1171]

Sooo true. Praying for everyone to find their own group and people who are rooting for each other's best interest. 🙏🏻❤️

[@ElleEssRocks]

I love this. The responsibility for someone else’s ego isn’t yours 👍

[@maryscully5647]

Talking about too much good things can be hard around others I also find I have to limit myself around sadness and grief The balance of being happier by myself and feeling isolated is a tricky one 😢❤

[@marcellaoreilly2730]

True friendship is accepting someone wholeheartedly and feeling completely yourself around someone without putting up barriers. That’s true love xxx

[@margaritakleinman5701]

Yes, well said!

[@Yogagirl9935]

So true, I’ve had to do this is the past, but not anymore, I’ve learned that if you have a problem or are jealous of me, that’s your problem, not mine

[@lizstraub6621]

All true. I also realized that certain "friends" only invited me to gatherings that required me to bring a check or other gift. "Sorry, can't make it. But thanks for the invite!" is my new response. Eventually the invitations stop, which is a relief.

[@prismstars]

Thanks for this. I had to learn this lesson the hard way and on my own. I’m glad there are people like you on KZbin to help people learn how to navigate poor treatment from others at a younger age.

[@Biologist557]

This is so true. I have a couple of “friends” and family members like this. I can’t talk to them about the direction I am taking my life because they accuse me of bragging. I quit sharing my life and they don’t seem to even notice I don’t speak. They just talk about themselves.

[@joannegoodman8608]

It's their FAVORITE subject. I can relate....❤

[@alexisoconnor9027]

Also can be true of “family”

[@littleiodine9480]

Sometimes “Especially Family!” 😢

[@Torreann]

Alledged family, what many of us had.

[@incognito595]

@@Torreann YES. THAT'S MORE ACCURATE THAN WHAT I SAID! "ALLEGED."

[@PaulineZahlout-tg1bk]

SO TRUE -- ALL OF WHICH IS NOT ACCEPTABLE. 😮😮😮

[@iChannelz88]

I have this problems with my older sister. She never cares about my life and whats going on for me and when i try to share my accomplishments and what’s going on for me, she tries her best to make it sound insignificant and sometimes even ridicule it to shrink me down. Then if i talk too freely it might start a fight over something minor because i said something that upset her or she doesn’t agree with. It’s too draining for me to deal with her so i’ve decided to not keep in touch with her and i feel so much better

[@chakratemple7969]

I’m Proud of you

[@theswede303]

Sounds like my sister. 🫨

[@nicknamess232]

My sister is similar. Talking down my achievements because she wants others to perceive her as the more succesful sibling.

[@chakratemple7969]

I have helped many people emotionally overcome this obstacle in the body due to others negative impacts . My heart goes out to you all

[@classnclassics7252]

I have seen this with women of my age ( friends / in laws / cousins who are women ) but also in men ( friends / brother / husband on occasions ). This is crazy !!

[@Agnieszkakot777]

I love your videos because: 1. They help me to take care of myself 2. I do love your accent and as a non-native speaker I enjoy listening to your English I hope your're well ❤ take care

[@JimmyYuen-n5n]

The story of the age of innocence

[@vamsikrishna4562]

​​@@JimmyYuen-n5n I did not get your comment.

[@sorighe154]

This hits so hard, I recognise myself in this 😢

[@Space--cowgirl19]

Literally every single friendship I've ever had.... They could go on for weeks about their lives and their problems and I'd do everything I could to be as supportive as possible, listen, advise, talk them out of a spiral. But whenever I started sharing something about myself, a story from my day or a problem I was facing. All of a sudden- you're over reacting... Or they'd tell me they are taking a break from talking to me because they need to focus on themselves. I get myself out of some pretty dark places all on my own and yet I'd move mountains just to make those "friends" smile. I've wanted to cut them off but without them I literally have no one

[@tabby73]

I could've written that! I had the same experience. Nowadays I have a few acquaintances but no friends. Maybe a real friend will enter my life at some point in the future but I'll not compromise anymore.

[@suzannechapman4302]

I'd rather be alone than compromise being freely me. Use alone time for self reflection and ask yourself, what do l need from a friendship and what am l willing bring to that friendship. If you are giving too much, you are already compromising your own boundaries. REMEMBER, users are like emotional vampires. They take and discard in equal measures. Give them not one moment of your precious energy and move on just as quickly.

[@showpalm5466]

Have you tried talking to your friends about how you feel? Speak your truth

[@tabby73]

@@showpalm5466 I did. Usually only leads to arguments. I don't bother anymore 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@Space--cowgirl19]

@@showpalm5466 I've tried and I've tried. Poured my soul out to them, cried in front of them over it and the most I get is a "there there" "everyone feels like that". They care for maybe the length of the conversation and then act afterwards like it never happened. They'll never be the people I need, but they are all I have.

[@renitafernandes2678]

I have just learned that no one is perfect. Everyone has some good and bad to offer. We just need to figure out how much time is worth spending on each one.

[@kudai9557]

I am surrounded by such red flags... Both in family and friends circle. If I wish to stay away, I'm been declared an aloof person.

[@TheNovemberRose]

💛

[@sv-yh3mq]

Aloof is better than kowtowing to their demands that are against you

[@johnskarns1607]

Why should you care? They're not paying your bills. Don't waste your time. Find others that value your companionship.

[@ACHRAF1644]

Wow that's true i had to cut a lot of friends. don't settle for less❤

[@prismonthethehorizon5793]

I wish my 14 year old self heard this, at least I can share this with my children and then they can share it with their children! Thank you ❤

[@Samsara2408]

Thanks, as always , great insight. Not all psychologists are equal

[@jyotivyas9286]

Yes😮Dear Doctor...Friends relations etc...All sucks... 😊😊राधे राधे कृष्ण।ॐ नमः शिवाय।

[@mr.anonymousir170]

beautifully said

[@noelzywright6798]

Very true. Being authentic, and genuinely who you are, is a far healthier way to live ❤️🦋

[@FarhanaTasneem-m6k]

My best frnd used to ignore me and spend time w her other frnds..n when i would confront her sayin that its hurtful and u r ignoring me..she would shout at me saying that u are being needy or emo or she is not ignorimg me when in reality she was..she literally shouted at me for telling the truth..indeed it was an abusive relationship...So even after not wanting to I ended it..n went thrgh the horrible emotion of giref..went thrgh suicidal thghts until i found You❤...You book saved me dr julie..Thankyou so much❤..idk how shld i thank u enough or pay u back..❤

[@sharongoren1899]

Thank you for sharing. It is helpful too

[@nadine4062]

Hi I hope things are better for you in your life now No deserves to be treated like that You are Worth More Hope Life Gives you So Much Happiness and Hope 🙏🙏

[@jennifermarie8707]

Ugh! I've experienced this so much--and on a ridiculous level. I haven't been able to mention even almost insignificant good news, such as seeing a sunset

[@teresadvorak6145]

Yeah, here's an experiment for ya if want to see them get happy & smile. Fake them out just for minute, like you are sad & crying. See how this works?😮😮😢😅❤

[@Mjeedp20]

so true i was in a toxic relationship for 2 years never been acceptable to him till i bring something huge other than myself and it’s not even enough for him but thank god it’s over never felt more free my whole life

[@itsmeolivialee]

I recently stepped a few steps backwards from a friendship that made me feel this way…whenever I had accomplishments or exciting news, I would be met with “good for you, meanwhile I’m here [insert struggles].” It got to a point where I felt bad for feeling good and growing that I noticed myself also complaining and downplaying myself and my wins whenever I was with this person. It was difficult to acknowledge because it was someone I met over a decade ago, but I decided to ever so slowly become more and more unavailable for regular meetups… my gut just knew that I shouldn’t put my trust and love in someone who views my happiness as a “competition of self-worth.” 🥺💔

[@cloudfish1829]

Good for you. That's a wise thing to do and shows your maturity. There's a saying if the people around you aren't happy for your successes, then maybe it's time for you to find new people that suit your energy. Except for our family, other people often come and go in our train of life. For one, your friend is emitting negative energy that's negatively affecting you. For two, if you're growing faster, it definitely means you can find new ppl who grow at the same pace as you. This is how we advance in life imo. I'm also Asian and this has happened to me before too. I've moved out of and found new social circles many times already, because some groups simply didn't vibe with my energy anymore as I grew. Growing fast is a good thing dear, I'm proud of you. ❤ It does hurt or get lonely leaving behind old friends at times, if that's something which worries you, but our family are the only ppl who stay the longest tbh As long as we're on good terms with plenty of family, moving onto new friend circles is fine imo.

[@Conald_isAfalseProphet]

I always appreciate your new videos, advice and wisdom when you post things like this. Thanks Dr. Julie

[@Sweet_Southern_Pecan]

What you have stated is, so true. On another note, my favorite therapist served tea.

[@Wesenskern]

Gosh that is so good to hear. I went through something similar a while ago and I kept on asking myself what went wrong.

[@mdtcomm1533]

Sadly, this happened during and after the pandemic. We could not express our concerns or feelings, and frankly still can’t. If we do, we are dismissed and told to get over it when there is day by day, mounting evidence that most things didn’t add up or make sense People are still suffering from adverse events which are still ignored. More and more people are getting sick. Even in the summer.

[@sv-yh3mq]

@mdtcomm1533 - this is very important what you mention here. I have also noticed "even in the summer" , in particular, the summer. Some young adults have appeared to have caught something from a popular festival from Oct.13, '24.

[@whatsupchannel3047]

Completely get this , it's hard work and eventually they rule you !

[@EverlastingJoy-gp9yq]

I love how you are always pouring a drink and talking to us.I feel like I just say down with a friend. Who’s telling me the truth with love and respect. ❤

[@stefanolivier7071]

Loving your videos. They bring me a little peace through better understanding my current situations 🙏

[@simplypawly4500]

I found that to be the case with some of my “trauma bonded” friends. We helped each other through a lot when we were in a toxic workplace. I was the first to leave and most of them soon follow suit. But I still remember during our first “reunion” shortly after before they have left, no one asked me about my new work is, and when they eventually asked i had a strong feeling that no one actually want to hear about it. I did not run it in, in fact I deliberately didn’t say anything because I was afraid that would make them feel bad. I remember at times I had to make it out like my new job is good but not that great when in reality I felt like I went to heaven from hell! But I felt like I had to downplay it to not “hurt their feelings”. The rare times I did talk about my new job and show some happiness, I get quite cold responses back. It’s a shame because I genuinely thought we were friends for life because we helped each other through A LOT!

[@margaritakleinman5701]

A true friend will always be happy for you when things are going well for you. They would never be envious or downplay it. They want you to be happy.

[@sarahyip2825]

It's been said that misery loves company. True but not helpful once we get out of misery. And for all the personal stories shared during that time (warts and all), someone who became highly successful might want to put distance btw former allies. Self protection. So NEVER re-enter that person's space-you don't know how much is at stake for them.

[@Prometheuspredator]

True. Heavy burden and very difficult for you to carry it on your shoulders. Too difficult and robs you of your peace, physical energy and health, and your mental health. Very exhausting. Robs you of your deserved happiness and joy. A relationship of this kind is it worth it? All in all it is toxic. Again, is it worth it? For myself...No. I found for myself to be true and have removed myself from these type of friendships and family relationships. I only have 3 friendship now and it is ok. I removed my brother out of my life years ago as he is a malignant narcissist and very dangerous. I am experiencing so much peace and freedom.

[@Frugalmomandwife]

The added personal touch of pouring your guest a cup of tea as well... nice! The advice along with the kind gesture shows you care more about your clients wellbeing rather than so many others who only want their point to be absorbed more for their egos sake.

[@mangogrower5426]

Thank you Dr Julie. I finally learned that when I was with my “friend” of many years I was always left feeling lousy and I always wondered why. You have explained it to me perfectly. I no longer have any contact with him.

[@ashtoreth8412]

Thank you for reminding me that my worth can't define by them

[@smritisingh1710]

I’ve been through this in my life before and I have to say I really support Dr Julie for making these videos. I know a lot of people who watch these videos to heal,❤

[@Rosey_Squirrel]

Thank you for the reminder. ❤

[@catherinesee]

Wow, this is one of the most powerful message I’ve heard and needed to hear.

[@AlokKumar-gk4kc]

This feels so good after what I have experienced recently, thanks for posting it now

[@veeveemille8830]

Thank you for accurately describing all the members of my immediate family.

[@eliv.7062]

So true, Dr. Julie! In love with the teapot and looking-through teacups and just drinking my cuppa right now. Stay well❣

[@DrJulie]

Thank you! You too!

[@eliv.7062]

@@DrJulie 😍❤

[@stavokg]

Thank you for making this important video. I needed to learn the lesson at this particular moment to understand what’s wrong with a long-standing friendship.

[@tekaamoy]

So needed to hear that right now. This has been most of my friends sadly. But my eyes have been opened and the bondage released. Appreciate insight

[@anjalivs4517]

I have stopped running after friends, it's a waste of time....

[@Pamela-l9u]

I never make comments on people’s short ~ but truly you are so heart felt, genuine and what you come up with even by pouring tea and sharing it just shows your humanity in being truly ❤. I sound sappy but I am ~ gratitude 💫

[@damienfritz]

It's always a pleasure having tea with you Julie. Your videos help me a lot. Thank you

[@JananiR.S]

Feeling like I'm not alone. Thank you sooooo much doc. Love you❤

[@AA-yl4wq]

Hang around with people who have achieved similar to yourself to eliminate factors that can create jealousy

[@mvaug69]

It's so oppressive. Fitting in to the social group isn't satisfying and frustrating. Co dependants do this. It's a heavy price as you say as you say. 😊❤😭🇬🇧

[@artwithmamafairybreadd]

I have to watch my words always with the one friend I have. She gets jealous so easily. I always have to play the part that’s acceptable for her or else she will hate me. It seemed too faux , and I couldn’t be me, so I don’t keep in touch…I’m surprised how stressed I was with her, I’m happier without her.

[@Jurassicparkatmospheres]

Your videos are always spot on. Love it

[@clydeferrier7596]

So I do that with everyone. If I don't perceive that I have something to give that will benefit, I start to subconsciously distance myself. Doesn't really matter what I say or do. I've got a lot of recovery infront of me.

[@TheNovemberRose]

Good advice~ living authentically helps others as well as ourselves 💛 I love the way you slide that cup of tea over to the viewer 🙏

[@lolakathleen2261]

I’m so glad that I came across one of your shorts. I subscribed to your channel almost immediately. Thank you for sharing your ideas! I’ve been in and out of therapy for the past 30+ years. Although my degree work is incomplete (life happens), I majored in social work. I’ve become the “therapist” to many of my friends (at their request). I make time for them and they usually just want someone to listen. Only if asked, I try to offer a different perspective and that seems to be helpful to most. How I wish you could be my therapist; but, there is an ocean between us. Thank you for your insight & please keep up your good work!😊

[@wejoin]

THIS is how I always felt around my mother. It was sooo painful. She spoke words of love, but her actions were quite the opposite.

[@PhilosophyMeetsPsychology]

Wow! I just made a video on "The price we pay when we hold on to toxic friendships" and then I see this here. Definitely a message for the season!

[@sussannekeith5676]

I really hope you are doing well and thank you for these valuable insights ❤

[@mukulgautam-i2c]

I, too, experienced this phenomenon over the past four years, and regrettably, I remained oblivious to it. The most disconcerting aspect was my inability to discern it sooner. It was only when the situation had significantly deteriorated that I finally recognized the reality. However, today, I find myself in a much better place, imbued with newfound confidence. Thank you for sharing; please continue creating such insightful content, as it is profoundly impactful.

[@adityakulshrestha7554]

Hey love to see you again. Hope you are doing good dr Julie.Have an speedy recovery. God bless you🙏❤🙏

[@mirnafranco4318]

Thank you dear Dr.Julie ❤😊

[@yantisetiawan3103]

Thanks a lot for sharing, Ma'am... 🤗🤗 we all should learn to love / appreciate ourselves not to let ourselves to get involved in such a toxic friendship / relationship... 🎉🎉

[@PhilSmith-mu1jw]

Thank you for your advice I recognise theses red flags from no other than the people close to me I had to cope with this on my own for what seemed like a life time I am now only coming out on the other side some what wiser now I have to learn never to share my good fortune with others lessons well learned a bitter pill to swallow.😢

[@SamuelLee-kc3rh]

Cool video, your channel is really an inspiration. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

[@michael-gg2rh]

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back

[@SamuelLee-kc3rh]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/ her?

[@michael-gg2rh]

Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@SamuelLee-kc3rh]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@Torreann]

Throw yourself into something else like volunteer work. You mean a lot of people when your brain will be busy learning a new situation and helping others. It will help you get that person out of your head. Go walk dogs at a shelter. They need you.

[@nejagobec4697]

Dr.Julie you are amazing!!! And gorgeous lady who helps so many people around the world! Xxxx

[@LuccaAce]

Thanks for the delightful little cup of tea! I was expecting it to be used in an illustrative way, so I was delighted when it was just for me to enjoyb😊

[@luciann5590]

Your wonderful! Thank you for your words of encouragement!

[@JSath]

I dont know how youtube recommended your channel to me exactly when my avoidant fiance ditched me because he wasn't happy that I was not believing his gaslightings! I never knew his pull and push was attachment issues until he felt worn off amd left me! I was so hard on myself for not meeting him at his level as I didnt know what was what, I was being vocal about us having time and emotions for each other! Thanks for the insight that I can heal and the 'essentially playing their game by their rules and losing everytime'

[@Sherry.9]

Thank you for the wonderful message and the tea! ❤😊

[@partycat10]

I just got back from my youth group, and I always feel like my friends don't actually care about my interests or what I have to say and they always cut me off or change the subject or walk away whenever I'm talking. I just got home and I prayed to God for comfort bc I didn't want to be forgotten again, and this was the first thing I saw when I opened my tablet. Thank you

[@dasa4294]

Thank you so much for the explanation. It means so much to get a confirmation.

[@ACWS000]

Glad that you are back! ❤

[@jamesspalten5977]

Thank you! Very true! Amazing insight!

[@Sweetie93]

Thank you for serving us tea. Really nice and inspiring videos you make, love them.

[@_ross5800]

Thank you. It seems this is the way it was with the group of people i was born into. You're wonderful, I've listened to so many of your shorts and found a great deal of benefit.

[@pandoraelysium]

Thx for the tea, my friend. ❤

[@dorisparker811]

It's SO GOOD to see you doing videos again. I enjoy watching and listening to you -- your content and your presentation are an amazing combo. Thank you for your personal information a few months ago. My heartfelt support/prayers for you.

[@chlariepeace3093]

This so true I have had been round people like this and my mum was like this

[@EvannaLily123]

Same here. I'm sorry that you were surrounded by those kind of people. Take good care🌻

[@laura7434]

Thank you for the cup of tea 😉💕

[@III-mu4yn]

Everybody is bound to get jealous etc about something and/or someone at some point in their lives but the key is to not let it consume you

[@drelizabethscott]

It's sad how common this experience is--such an important short! Thank you for sharing this.

[@drelizabethscott]

(And for the tea!)

[@JuliePenne]

I like that you always include us in your tea😊

[@RiyaShiv-q3x]

Thank you for the Tea that you poured shared with me in front of you❤

[@SuzannePoschet]

Thank you ❤ we need more content on friendships, especially women the dynamics are so complicated compared to men’s friendships.

[@AbsoluteRangatira]

I love seeing this channel and your clips. Really helps me as I am feeling pain today ❤

[@luminakazak2573]

adore her way of thinking 🌟

[@Philipwaltho]

I'm glad you are ok ❤

[@youtubetekdin5651]

Out of topic, hut I love how you make the ambience and feeling like we're best friend and I came visit you and you just served me a cup of tea while talking like a close friend. It feels warmth, save, relax, and you ready to listen to my story

[@SaileshS-qy9ib]

Happy to c u after recovery, God bless u and u guide us

[@wfidan]

So good to hear and see you ❤