Don’t Make This Mistake When You Spend the Night

[@angelaonthego]

I actually have a super easy way to avoid this problem: If I'm in any way feeling insecure enough about a guy that I'd even be tempted to do this: I DON'T sleep with him! Or sleep over with him or any permutation thereof, until I'm feeling secure that he's hooked (aka invested) to the degree that *i've* decided I need to feel good. LADIES! If you're not sure that's he's super into you--if you're not sure he's even gonna want to SEE you again--why are you giving him the cookie?? Don't give him the cookie till you're happy with the situation, whatever that might be for you.

[@wowso4]

Wow I love your comment so true girl

[@roxanneworld11]

+HelloGorgeous1 sing it, sister! and so funny: i only ever heard one person call it, "the cookie." maybe because i'm, from a whole other generation? since she's nearly half my age?..but anyway, *GREAT* advice!..wish i had grown up with sisters, cousins, aunties who had properly 'trained' me to think that was from early adult dating days - could have avoided some serious heartbreak..what's that about hindsight being 20/20?...sigh.

[@missjasscute]

I totally agree with you

[@missjasscute]

+Nurit L that's a good expression👍

[@berly9397]

Jass alM thanks :)

[@DearSybersue]

"He didn't have Cinderella's number" Love it!

[@mimasaifi3410]

:D

[@chenda2067]

LOL omg! I had to laugh when he said that LOL

[@debrawilliams7983]

so he could not send Cinderella a text!! LOL!!!

[@jojonyambura9879]

Dear Sybersue nbhhgb bbbhjikjhb. hjnbb. icuxyfnbmocv. convinced me to do bffg

[@lorrilewis2178]

Cinderella didn't have sex with him. Not even a valid comparison.

[@hopethornhill9737]

Also Cinderella didn't ask for her glass shoe back.

[@meatmoneymilkmonogamyequal5583]

Hope you said it! plus, everything thing else Cinderella was wearing or used turned back into the rotten fruit- hand-me down, rodent infested trinkets that were in her house; everything except on glass slipper

[@HFIC]

Hope Cook 😃

[@kikataye6293]

I left stuff by mistake and didn’t notice til I was there again lol

[@vildanered4161]

Cinderella didnt ask for her shoe bavk.....Good one!! 😂 love it

[@heninthefoxhouse]

I’ve had guys do this to me. It’s annoying.

[@amorphousface2401]

I buy H&M rings in bulk specifically for this purpose.

[@nc_elle]

amorphous face lolll

[@bridgetrose9686]

omg hahahha

[@at5286]

🤣🤣🤣

[@lolabrini3758]

amorphous face LOL i died😭😂🤣

[@nadja7770]

Best comment here 😂

[@letstalkpretty8843]

So if I spent the night at your house and left you some Girl Scout cookies with a note saying "there's more where that came from"... hahaha

[@espositolne]

Sounds like he's sleeping with a girl scout 🤢

[@JoifulFamily]

Billy But Whole 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@rebelduck9077]

🤩

[@madridista703usa3]

Let'sTalkPretty oooooooookkkaaaayy. Not cute

[@lucyobillo35]

😂

[@emmanueladeyemi4837]

The note idea is so golden, I’ve never tried it before but I will. I can just see the woman smiling ear to ear reading it, especially with thoughtful words. It’s a universal rule that men and women can apply.

[@ohthegaoness]

Not going to lie, sometimes things are left as a bread crumb for other women. I appreciate finding an earring on the floor, bobby pin in the bathroom... ect. Helps me gauge who I'm interacting with, let alone choosing to be intimate with.

[@HFIC]

Gaonou Yang I was thinking the same thing

[@savannahnovotny8789]

Yeah, I found a hair elastic in a guy's bed weeks after he said we were exclusive. I left a bobby pin for her so she knew too that he wasn't being exclusive

[@singasong785]

Haha this is some spy shit, love it!

[@NAConen]

I once found a random sponge ear plug in a boyfriend’s bed once. He had no idea what it was from but I still wonder if he had taken some girl to a loud rock concert and she left it in his bed.

[@onthemagenta]

YEP! We don’t always do it for the dude. If I’m at a dude’s house and he’s got a bunch of other women’s shit in little places, that’s a fuckboy. Not a boyfriend. And it’s easier for us to tell the difference up front.

[@malabuha]

you cant make someone like you but you can make them stop liking you

[@jayamilapersson4030]

željka strbat its kinda true and also not IF you are nice and caring towards ppl they usually gonna like you but like is not love

[@OurWorldAhead]

Jayamila Persson hm kinda true, kinda not.. psychopaths are known for making people like them

[@jinswonderland6798]

Love of Music I have a problem if someone likes me they never stop lol even if I try

[@Tan87ful]

True

[@DeepFriedLemonWedges]

This is so true I cried.

[@Swanky95472]

here's a tip for guys! Don't put your dirty laundry in MY pile of dirty laundry. Take your shit home and wash it at your own house!

[@letissue461]

Swankster that's so strange

[@ashdragon537]

Swankster loool than CHOOSE the RIGHT person duhhh!!! p.s. NO guy I heard of left their dirty cloths in a girl they just meet if your fiance or a WIFE well than it comes as a package!

[@Cwesade]

Swankster lol

[@rosegarcia2371]

Swankster I once handed a guy his dirty laundry in a bag.....hahaha. Not doing his laundry..

[@rosegarcia2371]

Do not leave a note,saying nice stuff....that is totally against the RULES.

[@hermetickitten]

A guy did this to me twice, the first time I thought it wasn't conscious, the second time I got suspicious when he said "Oh, I forgot this and this and that at your place" 10 minutes after he left. So annoying!

[@Tan87ful]

Exactly smh

[@GlitchClaw]

Who says that after 10 minutes? Something's not right here.

[@GlitchClaw]

TheSwoleBroscientist lmao

[@GlitchClaw]

TheSwoleBroscientist something tells me He fucked her more 😂

[@jbmusicdimention]

@TheSwoleBroscientist preach!!!😂

[@siennavenezia792]

I think if your stuff is not welcome then you should consider yourself equally unwelcome.

[@bschafer4247]

Wtf what a crazy equation^^

[@makeitcount2985]

Just don't give these losers sex....

[@amasion2882]

Absolutely. Would anyone be annoyed or inconvenienced by an invited houseguest leaving something at the home? If you invite someone into your home that person is your guest. Show some class.

[@Fbitypeshit]

Youthful Tuber losers? Why is that? Man have their own agendas and lives, it ain’t all about you just because i fucked up once

[@solvisionx9965]

These white hands and tanned arms though.

[@fargolt]

omg so observant...

[@SquaddieSoul]

OMG Is that OCD

[@Strawberryfield0182]

I noticed the same!!!! ahahahahahahah fake tanning lovely Matt!!!! 🙈🙈🙈

[@Hspncchick1]

He addressed this in another video. He noticed it but uploaded it anyways and made a lesson about it. His self-spray tan was obvious. He taught about being confident anyways etc

[@sarahsuliman4462]

Its the hair

[@VeraliekeBusman]

My ex still finds long hair laying around in his house. It's been a year. No need for buying rings xp

[@contr4dixion]

Lol...

[@serendipity2229]

Veralieke Busman 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

[@amberivey5212]

Haha. Same here

[@florgonzalez6362]

Maybe he/she should clean more often jjaajjaja

[@madridista703usa3]

Veralieke Busman facts it’s annoying

[@rudylabsilica2286]

Hey Matt, I’m glad you mentioned scent as a subtle way to remind him of me. So as a suggestion to the ladies and gents; if you’re gonna do that, wear good, expensive fragrance, not those cheap generic crap. And, don’t overspray! Give him a heartache, not a headache lol!

[@suzystanek]

Yes good cologne only!! Cheap stuff always gives a headache.

[@heathern4052]

I wear the same lotion each time we have a date. It's a bit strong, so I just dab a little after moisturizing with a non-scented lotion. BUT if you're feeling a little manipulative, choose a fragrance he/she could smell anywhere (maybe peppermint or citrus - basic scents). Olfactory sense is heavily tied to memory. He/she will be grocery-shopping then walk past oranges (or whatever scent) without noticing and suddenly think of you.

[@user-qv6xq2yf5h]

He reminds me of Daniel Radcliffe, dare I say.

[@audiliaangkasa6317]

omg was thinking the same thing! i think there's a similarity in their voices

[@AdorablySweet96]

also with a touch of Patrick Dempsey

[@user-qv6xq2yf5h]

omg yes !!!!

[@comica3368]

mcdreamy yessss! ah

[@nellymalone2802]

....an extremely hottest one, yes....

[@aurelie4628]

it's the first time where i get the feeling that you made this video for the guys. Like, "don't pretend you're more than a one night stand, it will scare them, don't be a hassle leaving stuff to their place". Honestly i think i would never leave something behind after the first night at his place, but seriously if i did, and i realised that made him uncomfortable, i think it would be worth it. Who wants to get further in a relationship with a guy who's feeling forced to call you and see you again because you left something behind?? Hope this makes sense, english is not my first language. xx

[@heathern4052]

Good comment, and I can't believe English isn't your first language - I wouldn't have known if you hadn't said so. You're fluent!

[@A.Hanaais]

Totally agree with that 👌🏼👏🏻

[@catrenabest873]

Hi Matthew, I totally agree with you. You should never leave anything behind when leaving his home. I have always left my lotion/perfume which I use on me before leaving his home so, he can smell it through out his home. nothing wrong with leaving your scent behind especially if he loves they way you smell! 😉

[@mariedumpling]

what if you left something accidentally and you don't want to see him again?

[@freyjastravelchariot3343]

Marie F Then it is gone forever... just accept the loss and move on.

[@chuchewme3458]

you call or message and ask him to leave the item in the mailbox for you to pick up or somewhere safe on the porch

[@fanishojo]

send an uber to pick it up

[@TiaLoveex3]

Break in

[@GlitchClaw]

Chuchewme stfu, it's not his fault

[@TheodoraKimmelHello]

You have changed so much. This line of work has definitely proven beneficial for you on many levels. It’s so cool to get to see how much you’ve matured and your message has only gotten stronger with more time. I think you should revamp and 2.0 this video and combine what not to leave and when to start having a reason to be concerned if you should be leaving something or not and what it should be… when to leave the toothbrush and when to have a need to carry your toothbrush with you and what kind of toothbrush that nest conveys who you truly are in the form of a toothbrush and how to not be too obstructive or confrontational with a possibly politically loaded choice of toothpaste… or to just get it over and done with about the fluoride issue the moment the toothbrush enters the scene and didn’t hang back until you got home…

[@thefirespectrum]

I've had this happen to me and it totally worked. Just saying. I'm really awkward in the early stages of dating and it was a nice excuse to segue into the sober daylight phase of courtship. I might not have called her out of my own fear of rejection and awkwardness, but leaving the item let me know she wanted to see me again. They were gloves, so there's no way it wasn't intentional. Even if you really forget that at first, you remember as soon as you step outside and open the frozen car door with your bare hands, right?

[@lorrilewis2178]

Or, here's a thought. Maybe don't put yourself in the situation of sleeping with a man when you have no idea how he feels about you because you haven't discussed it yet. I'm not sleeping with anyone until we've decided on an exclusive relationship and I've seen a medical report card for STDs. I don't need the aggravation.

[@lajudiajodona1212]

Lorri Lewis Well Said 👏 👏 👏 👍

[@abrilllanos1652]

Smart

[@kotniezalezny9527]

Wow, that sounds so planned! Like... didn't you ever want to do something for fun? Just for fun?

[@w1975b]

are you a guy? from what I've read, most women don't really enjoy one night stands, we aren't wired that way

[@ashdragon537]

well WOMEN these days do their shit and than TRY to blame the guy for everything that has gone wrong in her life!

[@bunnyann786]

I actually totally agree with this! I find it completely manipulative to leave stuff there. If a person has to do that, maybe just don't spend the night.

[@gigi.sovanny]

I leave my hair everywhere 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@madridista703usa3]

ilivealifealive your like a cat

[@knkn4508]

ilivealifealive all women do unfortunately

[@Fbitypeshit]

ilivealifealive you mean your wig

[@gigi.sovanny]

FBI we got em ?? No

[@OmgAuntySuzanne16]

I have hair nets in bulk. Everyone knows if I’m creeping around

[@MillyToast]

I once had a guy tell me his wife found my glasses in his car. I didn't even wear glasses at the time and I was only meeting with him as a client.

[@Hollins23]

Oh, my! He can't even keep all of the women straight! What an adulterous cad!

[@JanellRhiannon]

I think women should STOP sleeping with men on dates. Don’t have sex until he’s expressed a desire to commit or date you exclusively. All this heart ache and uncertainty in the dating world is because men are trying to milk as many cows as they can these days via Tinder, Match, Bumble, etc. The sexual revolution has backfired on women... it was pushed by a generation who now require commercials for Hep-C. The people who pushed for free love in the 60s pushed all the boundaries of family ties and sexual interaction. What happened was a continual movement toward more sex before marriage... that’s not necessarily a bad thing, BUT it has eroded ideas of commitment to the point that it’s now NORMAL to have sexual on a first date. Some women might feel that that’s all they want, perhaps that’s true for a few. But MOST women are looking for a relationship and commitment or at least exclusivity. Otherwise, no one would care what Matthew is saying. Men are never slut-shamed, but women are. The more relationship “benefits” men get without commitment the less they feel they can or should ever commit to any one woman.

[@Red0660]

Agreed.."free love" and "no-fault" divorce destroyed us all.

[@madridista703usa3]

Janell Rhiannon That’s why a lot of women are turning bisexual and they have relationships with their so-called girlfriend and scissor themselves to sleep. Facts

[@sofitocyn100]

Your last sentence specifically is a game changer. I'll never forget that !

[@sofitocyn100]

@@madridista703usa3 I've never, never, never been approached by a woman. I don't know many women who would be keen on trying same sex. Some keep it as a fantasy but would never go do it. I think you are watching too much porn. Also, lesbian sex isn't about scissoring...facts.

[@Mel-id7yq]

And welcome to the patriarchy...

[@jaunique-2578]

Smell is totally true. I just so happen to use a shampoo with his favorite fragrance and after we spent time together he asked me where I got it. 💖

[@AngieKiss02]

I can't believe some women purposely leave stuff at guys' houses so that they get back to them! I mean, they really have to be insecure if they believe that's the only way these guys will see them again. Like Matthew said, don't make him feel obligated to see you. If he wanted to see you once more in the first place, he would have, and if not, then so be it! I mean, there are plenty of fish in the sea!! Chin up, ladies :)

[@biffybilliamson]

HAHA I always leave a sprits of my perfume on a guys pillow if he's new. They always call! The note is a cute idea

[@bingobriano6021]

...I'm not going to lie, this works. ;)

[@mandavb0763]

I leave things everywhere I go. Home, Work, car, family and friends house's, restaurants, the gym . When I do it at a guy's house, I kiss it goodbye unless they bring it up. I'm often distracted. Since I know it's part of who I am, even though I try, I don't care what a guys thinks of it.

[@CapitolYaSa]

I am exactly the same way.

[@madridista703usa3]

Amanda Logue u are confusing let me guess your still single and fucking lol

[@lydiarueakchai7359]

Great

[@val-schaeffer1117]

Basically he means it should be 100% the discretion of the guy to decide the next step. And should not be any way coerced or even insinuated about it.

[@aliferdous7513]

Val-schaeffer this goes both ways. Guys shouldnt leave their stuff either lol

[@jessicamaeder611]

I would honestly listen to his grocery list in that accent.

[@stellarstar9340]

Jessica Creel omgosh...TOTALLY SAAAAMEE-MUUUHH❣️‼️❣️🥰😍🤩☺️😊😁😘🙃🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️💯👌🏻👏🏻😂👍🏻

[@MillyToast]

Haha you'd better not come to England, everyone's doing it! You'd get in a right state.

[@HFIC]

Jessica Creel same

[@allisonschmitter8198]

Honestly the only thing I care about in this video are his hilarious bits about the cookie. I could watch that again and again. So endearing.

[@filmtressmu8552]

That note is 'overkill'. "Amazing? So much fun? Incredible man? If a man said this to me, it would sound desperate and fake.

[@jenGeeJushawshee]

I watched this video when it first came out and didn't even pay any attention to the spray tan! I was focused on your words and message, Matt!!

[@carlax5270]

He was the one that took my squishy when it fell from my hand and told me "I am gonna give it back when we meet again"

[@maclippy713]

Couldn't stop staring at the harsh tan line at ur wrists Matthew hahaha! Nonetheless, great video as always :)

[@aurorafranco3085]

Lol...oh my gosh and that you brought it up to my attention. It's horrible. Haha

[@moniqueviscetto6622]

MAC Lippy Looks like he is a golfer :D

[@blackcoffee9470]

I thought it was the lightening... But I definitely noticed it.

[@slowlybutshelly]

What’s the tan line from?

[@blackcoffee9470]

Shelly Bankston Gloves, maybe 🤷‍♀️

[@kitkat-bp2zv]

Is anyone actually listening to him? Stares at charming man; 'Blah blah blah.........'

[@samurilip]

Sweets & Jokes im just looking at all the comments of women who had one night stands.

[@kitkat-bp2zv]

I don't think this video is about one night stands :p

[@samurilip]

But the other girls left thoughs comments :/

[@kitkat-bp2zv]

Oh ok got it! 😂

[@portia547]

I left a favorite necklace once by accident. I told him to just throw it out, because I wasn't coming back.

[@debracrawford2906]

I was the exact opposite - After dating someone for six months he told me I could leave something there, ex shampoo. He even purchased hangers for me to use. Instead of leaving anything I made sure I almost always removed everything. I think it was a control thing for me. It was my protective mechanism I had put in place. After almost two years the relationship ended. For many reasons I was never able to commit my life to him - and not all my issues. I believe deep down I knew I could never be with him a lifetime so it was how I protected myself. You once explained this as attention vs intervention. That really resonated with me. He had intentions (as he did with everyone he dated) and I had attention because I never trusted his feeling were any different towards me than any other woman.

[@Mel-id7yq]

Accidentally leaving a really good piece of jewelry at an One-Night Stands place is the actual worst though. It happens to me once and I swear to god it will never happen again.

[@jacquesnicolay9221]

Ha. This girl first time she slept over left her pink umbrella in my car, on the front seat... literally a bright neon pink umbrella in passenger's side on the floor lol. Then second time she left her cap. I kept both ;)

[@margiedimaranan306]

😂😂😂

[@arabicthing1632]

Who else doesn't have a guy in her life nor wanting to have them but still watches his videos and apply it into everybody else cause he sound pretty legit also he's hot and has deep British accent so I'd rather waste my time here than anywhere else

[@blackpinkluv9869]

I keep forgetting every time. Lol, I always leave something by mistake. One time I left my favorite bracelet and I was devastated. I go back to his place only to find a girl wearing that said bracelet! I was more disappointed in losing my bracelet than the guy

[@E-plunksna]

oh my god really?? so he gave the bracelet to her? :D

[@heathern4052]

That's super messed up!! You dodged a bullet.

[@stacey119]

First time my boyfriend stayed over was a couple weeks after we met, he left early the next morning for work and I didn’t realise until when I got up later he left his sock! I mentioned it to him in a message that day and he said he would come back that night to get them, ended up staying and forgot to take them but also left his phone charger. Messaged him about it so he knew where it was and he said he left that on purpose 😂 Even now a month later I still have his socks 😂😂

[@emily_rose_elyse]

I accidentally left my underwear at a guys place. I only realized after I got back to my place and I was thinking about this video like SHIT.

[@2Bonita08]

Agreed!!! The worst is to leave something, he calls, tells you to pick it up, then clearly wants to just get it over with. Then a week or two later, it is back to come on over, babe. Ouch!!!

[@leoniestrydom1998]

Well my problem is my hair. I leave it everywhere quite by accident. He has told me that he finds my hair days after I left. Hahaha

[@pugfan4212]

So this made me reevaluate my life😂 and why I’ve been watching Matthew for yearssss now and I’m still single. I’ve always been like ummm wtf is wrong with me but then I realised that every time there’s someone that really likes me... they always have a friend who I like just as much. It’s always two guys at once so it ends up being nothing at all omg. Like Omg I love these videos and this guy, even if the video is on something completely different I always end up realising something!!!!! Dude!!!

[@patriciaskye1999]

I cannot get enough of Matthew’s charisma 😂 even though I’m like, ‘what the hell am I watching this for? how did I get here? what year is it?’ It’s just so entertaining to watch, in the best way possible!

[@jessy9230]

I accidentally left my keys and i needed to see him again haha and we started liking each other more

[@cielog.1026]

Yes ,we girls do that. Love the example of the perfume. Love you.

[@Christiane-yb1wj]

Sonia Garcia I do make an attempt to leave my perfume lingering abit on something. on that shirt i borrowed or his pillow. And I leave a cute note occasionally if he is close to me.

[@madridista703usa3]

Cielo G. It’s pretty say, we will still fuck another women lol

[@carmenauza8680]

I'm dude and left my watch but honestly I was just hungover and lazy to go get it. We barely text now it's just like weird that person always busy. I just want my watch and I'm out.

[@carmenauza8680]

I'm a dude*

[@julia16amfl]

A guy have done this to me and it's true.... He forgot his glasses two times, and just by knowing that I'd have to meet him to give it back made me not want to see him that much. Because it was implied that we would meet again whether I wanted or not, I had to give them back......

[@catherine14877]

Sometimes Mat, I have the feeling that you get ur inspiration from personal experience! ;) lol much love!!

[@gluenati]

Catherine Dubovina haha good one! Me too

[@marshagonzales593]

You are brilliant, funny, handsome and smart! You won't believe this, but I almost forgot that I was supposed to notice your hands lol!!! Your voice captives me, I was paying more attention to what you were saying 😊. Your hands didn't distract me. Had me rollin at the end🤣🤣🤣

[@ElliotScottDating]

Agreed. We think, "Really? You're going to try and leave that there.....that thing over there....really?" We subconsciously get the clingy vibe from women or that you're invading our space. Sounds stupid but then again, men are the most logical beings on Earth. I personally disagree with the idea of leaving the note. Great vid!!! The best thing you can leave behind is your scent and the thought in our mind that you're such an amazing person and the best option we have out there. Those two things go a very very very very long way.

[@ohsuzeyq_]

What’s wrong with a note?

[@karenlewkowitz5858]

Really? And you presumably invade a woman’s Body, Emotions (one can believe)!

[@TimTamSlam7]

This comment is so fucked. Fuck off with your assumptions about women

[@Hollins23]

Wow! "...men are the most logical beings on Earth." ??? Like women much? What a misogynistic ass!

[@Hollins23]

@@TimTamSlam7 Totally! The douchebag vibes are strong with that lunatic rambling of a woman-hating mind!

[@JustBeYouooh]

I have done it twice.. One I asked to post back.. The other I did a U turn and went back and stood outside the door whilst he went to get it. I don't play games

[@LHGCat]

"but he didn't have Cinderella's number" lol

[@shibear19]

I always thought leaving something behind was like the “handkerchief” situation

[@MillyToast]

Haha I went home in my reading glasses. I was sneaking out while he was sleeping and I couldn't find what had happened to my distance glasses. Couldn't see properly for a week!

[@MochiColorsZanos]

I just used the "I know you're going out with your friends, and I'm jealous..." script and all I got was "I don't want to argue" and got hung up on. Mind you, I sounded very sweet and understanding :/

[@patriciagurwitz509]

Actually if you’re going to leave anything behind, the scent of our perfume on his pillows seems like the perfect and classy way to leave that reminder. Believe me, if he likes you he won’t forget you!!

[@tat.cross.stitch]

What if he doesnt like your perfume but too polite to say it?

[@KeeshRose]

Ok Matthew Hussey I am a girl scout and whilst I appreciate the advice I do not appreciate the hate lol. The feeling is not mutual I love you anyway. Thank you for supporting Girl Scouts even though you hate us lol I helped my daughter sell over 2000 of those cookies and most were probably thin mints..any who.. thanks again

[@freyjastravelchariot3343]

I have been with one of my boyfriends (yes plural... that's another story for another time) for a year and I STILL don't leave things there. I think you are right, obligations are not as positive as memory. Also, if he lives alone and everything in his house is his and his alone... it almost might make them feel like they have this out of place burden if you leave your stuff there. If you are further into your relationship, ASK HIM if he wouldn't mind you leaving a toothbrush, hair brush or shampoo or something there... don't just assume it is ok. He isn't going to be considerate of your feelings and wishes if you aren't of his. Think before you do.

[@heathern4052]

Well said!

[@Natashea]

It’s crazy to worry about this many details lol I think being secure and happy with who you are is the only key you need to find someone who you really vibe with & until then know what’s not good for you and shut them down!

[@mossematters]

lol idk about this guy I am reading the description on this video and It's all about how you make HIM happy. no girl is going around telling men how to make a girl not scared or how to make a girl be with you forever. never see anyone tell a guy not to leave stuff at a girl's place. it's so disturbing to me that this guy is telling women how to act to be accepted by men. I think whatever you feel like doing you should do and if it doesn't work out then this isn't your guy. no one stays single forever, he will never tell you that cause it will put him out of business. but ladies don't worry about pleasing men. please yourselves and you're gonna find someone who likes you for who you are flaws and all and love you and want you to better yourself cause YOU want to not cause you want to "keep him forever." Just sayin................

[@chloenaidoo701]

I totally agree with u, since when is he the voice and authority on what men want...

[@imaneinjar7304]

i understand your point, but I think you should watch others videos and you'll find out that matthew doesn't just teach women how to attract men, he actually teaches you how to become a confident woman who feels good in her skin cause ultimately that's what draws people (not only men) to you

[@Jaylyn231]

mosse matters There are actually many videos from other people who teach human dynamics, who deal with men who are having difficultly with women. Go have a look on youtube.

[@20twelvevolution]

mosse matters It's true. With my boyfriend I am 100 percent myself, it's the first time I've ever felt like I can be like that with a guy, he says it's the first time he feels he can be himself with a woman also. We love each other so deeply and we don't play games about it. We're in the best relationship either of us have ever had and that is because it is natural and not forced.

[@justjosie8963]

mosse matters well, that's kind of what he is teaching woman, if you listen to enough of his videos. Like this one, in so many words. woman, don't be desperate, be confident.

[@maihegazi8319]

U know what? U look gorgeous no matter what. Cause u have a lovely soul 💖 and u still pretty outside even if ur hands are not tanned! For me ur hands are not tanned means u were busy doing activities and enjoying life 💖 not only that but your eyes caught my attention more than your not tanned hands. I think who commented on that is empty minded.

[@ingaserg]

I love this video! Really made me laugh. I did have the opposite. A guy came to my place and left his jacket in the morning. We didn't keep dating, so it was a bit awkward when he came to get his jacket. So I completely understand how guys feel when this happens. :D

[@ruchimeshram8775]

I was watching the video and listening what he was telling but then midway I just got distracted from what he was saying and forgot it because ... DAMN how gorgeous this man looks😅😍😍😍

[@TheKayleeanna]

"If you are a Girl Scout, don't come to my house... Sweet sweet hatred. Mmmm! LOL!" Matthew is both funny and hott!

[@sarahgittler1599]

ive definitely left things by accident. only bc i dont sleep well if i spend the night, so being sleep deprived and hungover i tend to be forgetful! (lol i no longer intend to have those types of nights) but still good to know! i think im getting the general theme about guys now after watching some videos! thanks!

[@samurilip]

Sarah Gittler i have never had a one night stand with a girl. wish i kinda knew

[@simcologneh4038]

Everything seems so easy when you say so but reality ...

[@nataliehy1220]

"He doesnt have cinderalla's no." haha.. That's funny and so true!

[@TheBerkeleyBeauty]

It's amazing to me that women don't instinctively know this.

[@IrisWalraven]

I had a guy do this when we started dating, at first he just seemed like a forgetful guy but when it became clear to me that he used it as an excuse to come back and hang around it made me feel suffocated and completely turned off. Never dumped anyone so fast. xD

[@beatrice8910]

Once I REALLY forgot my favourite pair of earrings at his house and I didn't want to see him again and he was "using" the earrings to get a date.. i never saw those earrings again ☹️

[@racheltolliver1248]

Haha thats awful

[@AishawithanEye]

I had the problem that they'd leave something with me or let me borrow something and they WOULDN'T want me to return it!

[@angellopes1416]

Next video: How to make him feel like he want to do something

[@evangeline9969]

I'd be mortified if I left something behind, precisely because I'd be afraid he'd think I was being manipulative.

[@Cash4Fruit]

I actually left a really nice necklace which was gifted by my best friend who moved away :( I want it back Anthony. lmao

[@dianalee603]

Did you ever get your necklace back?

[@joseechevarria277]

If she's left it; It had no sentimental/financial value. Trash it. But I do agree with the note. Genuine sentiment.

[@jayamilapersson4030]

I forgot My keys one time so I couldnt get into My apartment and that was not intentional.

[@thevanmustgoon2730]

I watched the other video talking about the spray tan & now this. We still love ya Matthew! Ha!🍊❤️🍊❤️🍊

[@mysticpizza02]

Girls, just get a cat!

[@makeitcount2985]

I agree cats are not full of nonsense

[@imogengonzales5195]

Hahahaha right

[@ShleeeShleee]

🤢

[@matcha_mage]

Haha one time I couldn't find something and after like an hour I gave up and said "never mind I'll just go." The guy I had a one night stand with asked "what do I do when I find it?" and I said "just throw it away." The look on his face suggests that he's never heard a girl say that before. I found it in the end just as I was about to leave, but I digress. Funny how it would seem like a smart idea to suggest meeting up again just to return the item but I've always felt like you're tricking him into seeing you again and you don't want to trick a guy into doing that ever.

[@TheSkycielito]

I would never leave things at a guy house, why some women do this? If you leave it by mistake okey but on purpose? Whyyy?

[@1ma1ya1]

yeah. some girls are so desperate!

[@jayamilapersson4030]

Adela Setara its the same for guys dont leave your things intentional, but after a few months ask about it I mean IF you are there all the time anyway then its probably okay to have a few things there

[@jayamilapersson4030]

Adela Setara whats up with all that hate? Its not an order or anything remotely like that its just a suggestion in response to what you asked IF you dont care about hearing others opinions then maybe you shouldnt ask questions SO please forgive me for caring about ppl.

[@bostenlemaire6895]

Adela Setara You are on an advice channel. People will post advice. If you don't like it, just ignore it or respond to it constructively. We are not here to sugarcoat things. And, by the way, you did not hold back from criticizing Jazmin for "girl shaming", whatever that means... So you are hypocritical. Here, I just "girl shamed" you.

[@ps6586]

Wow, I guess I'm more ahead of the game than I thought cause I have; 1) Left scent of my perfume on pillow & 2) I left a note when I woke up and boy was he estatic! When he woke up and saw that note he immediately texted me. I didn't realize how much it meant at the time until now.

[@najahyasin7]

Yes Matt yes! The Cinderella joke was hilarious. I think it's annoying when girls do that, it shows the desperation.

[@carmenmfscmf]

Absolutely!! It's like saying: I'm not really interesting so, I force you in a way to meet me again

[@crystaldelacruz9093]

I had a friend who did this to my roommate when they were dating and he caught on to it. This among many other little things pushed him away. It's unattractive, it doesn't work and a way to turn someone off.

[@lalakuma9]

So you're saying, leaving stuff at a guy's house is exploiting the "dropping your handkerchief" method?

[@AbigailChristineIsrael]

Yeah leave one item... Pah!

[@daniebeth]

lalakuma9 exactly what I was thinking

[@alidavideo]

***** huh? Doesn't make you look desperate? Maybe if you've been dating for a while...but on the first night?

[@alidavideo]

***** I think he's talking about in a situation really early on for girls women who come over pretty early on. I'm kind of old fashioned myself so wouldn't be staying over right away--but some women do. I know a girl who will sleep with guys very quickly and leave stuff "accidentally", but it's not really accidentally. I think that's the kind of girl this is aimed at. The ones who do it out of fear of losing a guy, not the girls who are being playful after something is pretty established with the guy.

[@darunia843]

+lalakuma9 often it is this silly method, but sometimes (rarely) not.

[@melx140]

I realize I made the first mistake:D But i never told him to give my necklace back or said I wanted to pick it up. And about 5 months later he suddenly asked if I would ever pick up my bracelet... so he used my last minute plan to join him if i want to and made it his plan.

[@dinahcastle4135]

He's eating my favorite cookies 😅 >.

[@MsCameoLover]

The Caramel deLites are my favorite 😋

[@GypsyRock]

+Confetti Sprinkles samoas!!!

[@MsCameoLover]

GypsyRock Yep xD Those are the ones, I'd imagine the Scouts in my area get the money they need for their field trip or whatever a thousand times over from all the money I throw at them for those things. lol

[@shaynaboyd8987]

Lmao...... “leave the note. GET OUT!” 😂😂😂

[@kateribeiro3636]

A guy will be lucky if I leave my stuff. He should feel honored 😂 let’s started treating these modern make species like they treat us

[@Kitty-t3r]

If I ever spend the night with a guy and I’ve previously left a phone charger it was completely a mistake,(he never gave it to me back,) and it will always be a mistake

[@alexish8183]

I really want thin mints know. I've been avoiding them on purpose but watching you eat them.. I have to buy a box. Great advice as well. :)

[@tropicbound1026]

I loose everything even in my own house ! I have left my scarf on his stair case and once forgot to get my debit card back from his wallet (arcade and didn't have pockets)!! I SWEAR it was NOT on purpose ! But , guess what ??? When I slept over , my scarf was under his covers !😂😂 .. Apparently he "snuggled " with it - he admitted it even 😅😍❤.. so cute omg !

[@angiebirt6977]

maybe I should leave some thin mints. good info thank u.

[@TheLovely990]

I spent the night at someone house, and his son's mom left something in his laundry room. This is how I found out, he was still sleeping with her, or someone. I stopped going to see him after that. I never leave anything at a man's house.

[@nonin245]

"a certain smell that reminds him of you and that he might smell on his pillow" I immediately thought "what if you smell bad"

[@sandramadrigal6320]

I left a nice dress in a guy's place once. I didn't want to see him again because he didn't even offer to make me breakfast in the morning. It wasn't on purpose and it sucked... he kept trying to see me again to return it or get my address to mail it. Nope... total loss of my nice dress. It's not always done on purpose.