Don’t Pursue A Man! | Part 1

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[@MsEma0810]

My daddy said if he want you, he'll come get you. 💯

[@jamaicanscorpio9522]

Amen

[@irlandaise5631]

@@crazycrimess they actually chase easy women, with no opinion that follow a man..sounds boring though to have a slave..even a 5 year old would fight back..Women are divorcing men because they arent good..give me the stats of the divorce reasons? They shouldn't have married them in the first place..if you voice your values and morals..the men that will cheat etc..will shut down..there ll be red flags..These women dont want to be alone forever due to the body clock..in my case id rather be alone than being with the wrong man.a man with vices etc..I also have other interests..

[@ericbreaux6124]

There is no reason women should wait for a man to confess his attraction to her first if she wants a partner to eventually be married to. Women shouldn’t need to wait for a man to propose marriage. Women don’t need to risk losing the fulfillment of that desire more than men. Desire for that relationship is equally wanted by both genders. One gender should passionately want to pursue the other mutually or marital intimacy that sexual desire is made for will be difficult. Sexual desire is the most passionate feeling anyone can have for another.

[@en5719]

Aman!

[@marilynking527]

Period!!

[@doriscrumpton2980]

If a man don't chase you, he don't want you. If you chase him he don't want you but he will use you up. Hi 🤗 Mr. Gaskins

[@michelleatchison8424]

Exactly

[@sarahbutler5463]

That chase may not be the right one chasing you, ask the Lord Jesus Christ, for decernment too know the difference so you are not deceive by the wicked, kept in mind he is the most subtle of all , the scripture speak about it👍💓

[@toviaclayton]

Doris Crumpton true story it happen to me and I stop

[@treshabuckley8438]

Yup

[@angelbasham6631]

🤦‍♀️

[@trinawize461]

That "lip smacking" right before Tony does his female impressions cracks me up everytime 😂😂😂😂.

[@michelleatchison8424]

😂😂😂

[@InspirationalExpress]

Smack...OOOOHHHH! 😂

[@martinefort8]

I died 🤣

[@tiarachiffon8131]

Lmao! That cracks me up every time !!

[@lilmssunshine9188]

Yes!!! I just made the same comment before I started scrolling thru these comments!!!😹😹😹

[@LevenLyfe]

I told GOD, "I want a husband with his heart to love me, or with a heart like mines", I left it alone and started running around fixing my life, that faithful day we met, my plane was delayed, he was in first class and I was in economy, we ended up in the same immigration line, and I was busy trying to full out my forms and contact my mom to tell her I landed safe, he turned to me and said," is it working" (he meant the wifi), and ever since then he's been in my life, he pursued me long distance. It's been 2yrs now

[@Ummkelechi]

🥰🥰🥰

[@MrTesfamicael]

If that’s not the cutest story I’ve ever heard, I don’t know what is ! God surely knows! 🙏🏾

[@drippedinglory]

Beautiful ❤

[@TeeAhhhna]

👏🏾

[@dianasj]

Omg Stories like these give me hope! 💕💕

[@natashafreeman2220]

If you have to pursue him then clearly he didn’t want you in the first place. Move on.

[@michelleatchison8424]

Exactly

[@kina8103]

Yng Chaos If a woman is giving you half assed effort she doesn’t want you buddy lol or she’s a player... either way she needs to be cut off lol and another thing how she gonna be half assed and pursue you at the same time?

[@stanleydadaille]

If I have to pursue her then clearly she doesn't want me. To be with a woman who doesn't want me is one thing I would never settle for. I'll do me that way till I'm dead. I'm the only human being who get to define who I am. By the way I can, and I do, chase women. The women I've chased, I had my fun and I move on. I'm living in times when women complain about how bad men are, and they file for divorce 80% of the times, why on earth would I want to pursue someone to be in a relationship with me?

[@allenmack5589]

@@stanleydadaille Why do you think women file for divorce 80% of the time? Think about it dude.

[@stanleydadaille]

@@allenmack5589 They were chased by the men into marriages. There might be other reasons, however, that's the one Im going with.

[@fiftyfiftylifestyle456]

A feminine energy man wants you to approach him. A masculine energy man doesn't. Unfortunately I feel there are too many feminine energy men today.

[@maebeacook]

They're everywhere.

[@InspirationalExpress]

That energy transference between men and women today is REAL! OMG!

[@lizzie2301]

Facts‼️

[@kaoshi_kutie]

YES OMW. there are WAYYYY too many feminine energy Men!! I'm not sure when and how the roles are reversing of men and women. Sad but true 😭😩

[@fiftyfiftylifestyle456]

@@kaoshi_kutie sometimes us women can be too controlling and want to plan and do everything. I've been that woman. 🤦‍♀️. I realised it works in business but not in relationship. 🤷‍♀️.

[@Dr.Elaine1]

“You saw something you like, but he don’t like you.” TG

[@pooh4025]

That was tough to digest.

[@ladyjvlogs7463]

Yes. Exactly because if he liked you.. he would come to you first. 💯

[@DawneMega]

Hahahaha that part made me laugh out loud.

[@passionatequeen6125]

Been There and Done That!

[@AishaWhitlockEmpoweredsuccess]

It sucks but gotta move on.

[@staceythorpe7938]

A friend of mine told me years ago to "Let a man be a man!"

[@k.d.6114]

Same here... I never chased a guy but I’d flirt n shoot my shot a couple times... it never felt natural.. I never dated a guy I initiated anything with... NOPE

[@charlisewitcher1219]

@@k.d.6114 exactly women don’t chase men because it makes them lazy. Too many men been cuddled and don’t want to put in work to get a good women.

[@ibcandy]

“If the man don’t approach you...go ‘bout yo bidness “ 💯👊🏼🔥🔥🔥

[@keelycrawford8622]

Lord Tony, airbag hit her in the face but she still texting!!🤣🤣🤣

[@DONT4GET_SUNSCREEN]

😂

[@eileendom5858]

LOL

[@YoliLoves]

😆🤣

[@niania6779]

I had it with him.😩🤣🤣🤣

[@joanna6570]

Ms. Peaches too funny 😂

[@mwashington6]

“If he does not see you then keep it moving👏🏾.” TG

[@GoodGrief101]

I have NEVER chased after nobody, but I do know women who chase, end up on their back and left wondering why they got played. Never look desperate! Thank you, Tony and be blessed!

[@ericbreaux6124]

There is no reason women should wait for a man to confess his attraction to her first if she wants a partner to eventually be married to. Women shouldn’t need to wait for a man to propose marriage. Women don’t need to risk losing the fulfillment of that desire more than men. Desire for that relationship is equally wanted by both genders. One gender should passionately want to pursue the other mutually or marital intimacy that sexual desire is made for will be difficult. Sexual desire is the most passionate feeling anyone can have for another.

[@nomessnostress]

I know Two beautiful women who pursued and still married

[@maebeacook]

This is one mistake I've never made and WILL NEVER make. A woman hollering at a man......why??

[@briana14333]

Right! Times will never be that rough.

[@kuhlemragala9745]

Like really.. Why

[@entitled7665]

Briana Kelley Lol’ exactly 🤨🤨🤨🤨

[@deborahthomes3383]

U real country fied

[@Nekole1]

I agree. I see women doing that all the time online. Many women are so use to these type that they hate the women who are not chasing them.

[@2cut32handle]

I'm 25 and my friends are always telling me to stop being so old school and waiting for a man to come talk to me. They tell me i'll end up single unless I take the bull by the horn and pursue the man I want. They claim, waiting for a man to come to you is the mentality that keeps a lot of women single. I've been feeling a bit down about it but this video has helped me to understand that i'm on the right track

[@Proverbs-vw2sc]

Hi, Take it from a 43yr old who spent ALOT of time in her twenties shooting her shot.....don't do it! They will never respect you, only use you until he finds what he is really looking for. I'm divorced and miserable right now. Save yourself some trouble. Your Prince will find you!😊 Be Blessed!

[@fiftyfiftylifestyle456]

Next time say to them..."the egg doesn't chase the sperm" 😁

[@maebeacook]

@@fiftyfiftylifestyle456 lol. True....✔🎯💯

[@briana14333]

Good for you! Seriously. If you initiate things like a man, you may be expected to continue filling that role throughout the relationship. I did it once in high school(if that counts) off a dare but never again!

[@VintageAfro91]

Don’t listen to them. Pursuing a man always puts the woman in an awkward position. You also have to ask yourself what type of man would even want a woman to pursue him in the first place? You don’t want an effeminate man.

[@denisemyers733]

It always works out best. When a man loves you more. And comes after you........ when you chase a man you interfere with the process of him wanting you..... let him come to you. Don’t learn this lesson the hard way. TRUST ME ON THIS!

[@ShivaniSingh-rr3hh]

Learnt this hard way🤣

[@destinyuplift]

Biblical Proverbs 18:23 "When a man "FIND" a wife!

[@jennifersalinas716]

Exactly 👍🏼

[@sarahbutler5463]

Amen, Sister👍

[@brittthecancerqueenempress9137]

Exactly I agree with this so much ‼️‼️

[@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115]

Sometime it’s better to be on your purpose and focus on your purpose

[@cheekscheeks5840]

If they like you they will take a shot whether they get rejected or not they coming if they like you 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@ibierejumbo6827]

Truth!

[@kheleecebrown1799]

AMEN

[@SoultanicalsTube]

🤸🏿‍♀️ “Do your Cartwheel but Don’t shoot your shot!” 😂 Mr. Gaskins, Stohhhhpppp!!!! 🤣

[@drippedinglory]

🤣🤣

[@melaniegonzalezart8506]

LOL

[@Uapqv336xzuqk]

Tony hit the nail on the head with this video! I was out to lunch with my aunt and when we were leaving the restaurant, a guy approached me as I getting into my car. He said "I wanted your number but I didn't want to bother you while you were eating." We were in the restaurant for an hour and 1/2!! AND-he was on his lunch break. So he waited almost 2 hours to get my number!

[@virgowriter5591]

Gurrllll yes, then what happened 🍿

[@Uapqv336xzuqk]

@@virgowriter5591 LOLLLLL!!! We dated for awhile! I moved to another state and lost contact....wish I could find his a**!

[@juliawhite7152]

Wait??! You didn't have his number?

[@vickymor3963]

Wow

[@Jazz.Ministry]

🔑 Take always: 1. Real men don’t like when a woman shoot her shot only grown boys want that 2. You can get a man’s attention by being in his vicinity (for social media: watch his stories, like his posts but don’t comment) let him come towards you if he’s interested he will shoot his shot 3. Just because you saw something you like does not mean he like you 4. If a man don’t go to the end of the Earth for you he does not want you 5. On Instagram when you see someone on your popular page then that means they’re going to see you on their popular page

[@melaniegonzalezart8506]

Thank you for transcribing! Be blessed.

[@ericbreaux6124]

There is no reason women should wait for a man to confess his attraction to her first if she wants a partner to eventually be married to. Women shouldn’t need to wait for a man to propose marriage. Women don’t need to risk losing the fulfillment of that desire more than men. Desire for that relationship is equally wanted by both genders. One gender should passionately want to pursue the other mutually or marital intimacy that sexual desire is made for will be difficult. Sexual desire is the most passionate feeling anyone can have for another.

[@laradara7175]

Dam the 4th one is so powerful

[@fluffysox6072]

I agree. Women should let the man take the reigns. Heartbreak and confusion will inevitably come when he’s in a relationship with you and later meets the woman that he really had in mind for himself.

[@taz12184]

Wow

[@PlannerGirlLifestyle]

Oh I learned my lesson shooting my shot! Neva again!

[@deestefmorr]

me too!

[@daniellem578]

I had to tell my friend that ... she had a huge crush on this man for years. So he told her he had a girlfriend one day & she just cried. I told her that if he wanted you. Then he would have pursued you. That’s not your husband! Let him go.

[@anayarenee5827]

This just happened to me 😔. Saw this video a little too late. Now I've messed things up with this boy, but I've learned a lesson

[@peppermint2111]

@@anayarenee5827 Young lady please don't be too hard on your self everyone has made that mistake.. Better to learn in your early life like in your early 20's.. Than to learn 30's, 40's, 50's, 60's.. Never humiliate yourself in this manner. No matter how much you like him. This is a new generation but always follow the old skool rules.. If you want advice on how a man thinks ask a man he will tell you the truth..I would often feel hurt when my Male elders would tell me things but now that I'm older I realize that they were telling me the truth because they wanted to spare me from humiliation. Please listen with your heart and your ears. The truth hurts but its better to gain this knowledge early in life than later. Stay strong this too shall pass. 😊

[@Bgrace15]

😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 Tony stop playing with us! Driving 80mph & texting back 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@j.aolani]

😂😂😂

[@SoultanicalsTube]

Tears, ok!!!! 😂😂😂

[@mskodak82]

Lol I can't with him 🤣🤣

[@briana14333]

No joke, this is my crazy older cousin! She hasn't had a serious relationship since the 90s, she's miserable and she is still shooting her shot!

[@tiarachiffon8131]

Lmao!

[@dianariley1067]

Even as a teenager. I've always played hard to get.😉👍🏾

[@caddyscott5330]

Right on

[@enhlephung2908]

im a teenager and i play hard to get😂😂

[@telly_talks1497]

I definitely tried this once in my entire life from hearing “shoot your shot girl” but let’s just say Tony is right! Will never do that again. If you want me, step up and let it be known

[@brittthecancerqueenempress9137]

Absolutely Agree‼️‼️

[@kendraphic87]

Told a man I don’t pursue men, he responded by telling me he’s used to getting pursued. He legit was wondering why I wasn’t reaching out to him more..it does not feel natural to me to pursue a man at all..never will.

[@Bgrace15]

The thought actually makes me cringe! Eww. I use your analogy to my girlfriends. "Approaching a man is like a gazelle walking up to a lion" be prepared to be chewed up and spat out sis.

[@lovedbyYahuah]

LMBO!!!!

[@survivorship4290]

"Real Men, do Not, want, a woman, to shoot, her shot..." ~TG 🌿🌿🌿🌿🌿🌿🌿🌿

[@queenofthesouth4205]

Real Men will shoot their own shot!!!

[@klickingkayasmr7585]

And...even if he “likes” your posts, that doesn’t mean anything either. ✔️

[@drippedinglory]

Right

[@klickingkayasmr7585]

Aviela Naäma Efraïm Ezra question: Is there a difference between “shooting your shot” and showing interest? And are both bad?

[@drippedinglory]

@@klickingkayasmr7585 I don't know. If you watched the videos fully Tony said to not pursue a man by sending dms or asking him out. Just be around his area, but don't say anything let him notice you. I say if he notices you and comes to talk to you show interest. Wait until he asks you for your number.

[@geminilady11]

I refuse to shoot my shot at the man. I've done it in the past and it did not work out so I feel you on this my homie

[@sierram.6046]

The “boy shut up” took me out!!😂😂 This video is well articulated Mr. Gaskins🙌🏾

[@jroyal2229]

I don’t even chase the man I’m involved with now. I still sit back & let him text/call me first. Honestly, I’m just too busy to be texting/talking on the phone. He’s been actively pursuing me (went on several dates) since June. Yes, I’ve kept my legs closed & they’re still closed. We have kissed (pecked, no tongue), held hands & that’s it. I’m not gonna start chasing, heck naw. It’ll be a day in well, you “know what I mean.” 🤣

[@victoriaakines9843]

Go girl, you doing well, don’t let those bitches loosed girls tell you otherwise. We been more ladies like you. Keep it up girl!! Don’t compromise, wait till he put a ring on it 😉

[@krislonzie2759]

Lol he might loose interest cause your not matching energy . But good luck

[@ericbreaux6124]

There is no reason women should wait for a man to confess his attraction to her first if she wants a partner to eventually be married to. Women shouldn’t need to wait for a man to propose marriage. Women don’t need to risk losing the fulfillment of that desire more than men. Desire for that relationship is equally wanted by both genders. One gender should passionately want to pursue the other mutually or marital intimacy that sexual desire is made for will be difficult. Sexual desire is the most passionate feeling anyone can have for another.

[@Machenziethemodel]

I’m early. I’m not approaching any man. I will smile at him but that’s it. Real Dudes do not like that.

[@KalimahSBICeo]

I believe you Tony!

[@TheFactsofLife237]

Keep your legs closed. Keep your clothes on. Keep your mouth closed. These things will get you noticed. The real man that's for you will see you. Coach Sophie

[@Ummkelechi]

Good advice! Thank You!

[@michelleatchison8424]

Yes indeed nothing but true Facts

[@whatsupwithtorii]

I love this comment ! 💖

[@nicolelagamo11]

Yes lord 🙌🏽

[@Yumyumhoneybun]

Yes

[@shanepruitt2715]

NEVER, EVER have I pursued a man! I don’t have to....👸🏽

[@alexisalford735]

Thank you Tony. We gotta have patience and chasing after a man, isn't going to make him want you. It's a waste of time.

[@ibcandy]

“He see u...he see UUU!” lol. Thank you, Tony, for keeping it real!

[@janae412]

“You see something you like, but he don’t like you!” 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@heygirlkenzie2283]

Ladies, we all have made this mistake at one point in time. Oh well. Once you know better, you gotta do better 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@mashae.1066]

I work at a big hospital And have seen it happen many times were a nurse chased after a particular doctor, and was so proud of herself for snagging him, only to be consistently cheated on for the rest of their marriage with the women that this doctor was actually interested in, and chasing them himself. Seeing it play out in real life completely turned me off to taking a lot of initiative with a man. Trust me, those who really want you, will be so obvious, it will be annoying! Lol

[@dianasj]

I embrace my feminine energy, so I do not approach men. My friends may think it is antiquated but it just doesn’t feel right to chase a man 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

[@thecollection9447]

You be having me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I’m 34 and single & I’ve made tons of mistakes. I’ve been single for a few yrs but I’m taking your advice. It’s worth trying.

[@ashleyanderson9857]

Just do a cartwheel if he don’t see you 😂😂😂🤣 we love your videos Tony!! God bless you brother us ladies need this truth🙌🏽❤️

[@amandabretch85]

Here’s what I do. A little tip. I saw a video about the cognitive connection between us and our texts. How we go crazy waiting for a text from a guy. So I turn OFF my text notifications. Soooo as a result, by default I do not see a guys texts immediately. It could be 30-45 to an hour before I respond bc I’ve turned them off. It helps. Last guy I talked to was bothered that I didn’t respond right away so he noticed. It took him awhile to say he was bothered. I never revealed what I had done. I didn’t want to obsess over if I had received a text yet so I turned them off. It felt good not to sit around and wait.

[@cheekscheeks5840]

You telling the truth if they want you they will do whatever to get you 💯💯💯💯💯

[@agnespoku4993]

I've learned to not pursue a man! Reporting for class!!

[@nhbeautyzone]

My male friend told me exactly the same about how he feels when women shoot their shot at him

[@overcomerbtboj]

Lol 🤣😂🤣😂🤣- not laughing at your comment but just the truth behind it

[@katrinabrown7871]

A man see everything!!!

[@a1xluv]

I’m old school! I don’t approach!! If a man tells me to message him, it’s a turn off! Big TYME!!!! I want a man to have the spirit to know and approach me! If a man lets me know he may be interested, then and only then will I show or return the interest!

[@VintageAfro91]

Ugh I know that’s a turn off to me too! It’s like seriously? It’s a trick to get you to chase them.

[@ibierejumbo6827]

I don’t care how long I am single for but no matter how cute a guy is one thing ☝️ I will never do is walk up to a guy and ask him out. I’m originally from Africa and that’s so unnatural over there. I wasn’t brought up that way and can never feel right

[@cremeshiaallen7303]

"you saw something you like but he don't like you" I swear that's the main reason why I never approached or came on to a man first, I'm 28 and I always had that mentality...

[@AmyElizabethBehnke]

😇 just found you today searching the topic of pursuing a man. I LOVE that you are a God fearing man!!! That's the key to being fulfilled😇 P.S. I enjoyed your video! I'm about to share it with a female friend👍... And I laughed quite a few times!👍😇

[@bridgetteryans4874]

I believe you🤣🤣🤣. My sister was telling me about this site called bumble and the women have to pick the men. What in the world....

[@come_on_barbie_123]

No way! Lol

[@beunkkadavis8594]

Just wanted to say thanks for the content u produce. I grew up without my biological dad and my family was very religious. I love and respect my step dad but there were some things we never talked about like sex and relationships. I was just figuring things out through heartache, trail and error. I was 27 years old before I started understanding the negative patterns in relationships I was going through. Started watching your videos last year, now I’m going on 6 months in a healthy relationship. Thanks for filling the gaps.

[@judycanales852]

💯🙌🏼💯🙌🏼💯 preach!! Only grown boys enjoy being pursued because they don’t have to take responsibility for the relationship!💯

[@avianne]

When he set everyone straight about viewing their story. loooooool

[@Destinybynature]

He be speaking that real but I can't take him 😂😂😂 he be on point ..

[@FutureAttyInTheMaking]

Confirmation, Confirmation, Confirmation!!! Chivalry is still very prevalent and so admired!

[@lisag5046]

Always right on time......Recently someone showed me other coaches that say the exact opposite and my spirit doesn’t line up with those statements. You’ve said it before as you’re saying it now “ Let HIM choose and pursue you” THANK YOU again Mr. Gaskins BeBlessed

[@candid.303]

It’s our egos. Especially when we are fine. We can’t believe that a man wouldn’t want us or is taking forever. I’m enjoying being pursued. It takes the pressure off me.

[@alinas8003]

That's true my cousin's husband said that he was thinking of hitting her car in the church parking lot to get her attention so Tony isn't lying

[@jaramillo471]

Tonyyyyy! I can't when you said driving do 80 miles and hour air bags come out and you still answer this man message...lol!!!!! You are so right dont know REAl man want to be approached. A man that finds a wife finds a good thing that is what my Bible tells me!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@lorenzashepherd430]

Tony is a natural comedian. I be listening to him but be laughing too. Very real insightful guy. 😀😊😂

[@Momof7kids]

That lip smack and woman impression I’m dyinggggggggg laughing 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@darleneaugustin978]

This is gonna sound really crazy but whenever I listen to you I feel at peace

[@eileendom5858]

You did do a video regarding Instagram and social media. It was something like, "how to get his attention". I dont remember the exact title. I watched a man from afar for a year or 2 years. I figured he was too handsome and probably had lots of women around him throwing themselves. We always had a lunch break at the same time. Sometimes I would go to lunch where I knew he would be and other days I would go somewhere else. Long story short bc we are both essential workers, there were less people around during lunch. Recently he approached me and told me he has been admiring me for a long time, but xould never get a word in bc I always seemed busy lol. I say that to say, if he really likes you, he will notice you even if you think he isnt looking.

[@kaboomroom33]

How’d things turn out? 🤔

[@eileendom5858]

@@kaboomroom33 He recently asked to take me out. I'm just a little hesitant not knowing if I'm ready. But its only a date and nothing more so I think it would be nice to meet in Central Park (In NYC) and walk around on a Saturday. We will see what he has in mind.

[@LLCoolCooper]

I was at work and this guy kept talking to me everyday. I can tell he liked me. He wasn't my type but he makes me laugh. I pursued him and he said he wasn't interest, that I wasn't his type. But he breaks his neck looking at me or talking to me. Now I just ignore him.

[@caddyscott5330]

Sounds like he was leading you on.

[@BeBeautifullyYou]

Gameboy

[@veelove2226]

Not one lie told, not one true thing hidden he’s telling the truth and I love it!

[@riorio-rt1oq]

I just did a FB live yesterday on this had a whole argument we are not to chase men

[@erica-marie]

What's yo FB

[@laquetianewstartmercer]

I'm old fashioned too Tony . I was raised by my grandparents. I have been told by men that I'm the truth and they have never met a woman like me. So I'm good. I will continue to be me. Keep telling the truth Tony we need it!

[@adriantaft770]

Team Tony Gaskins all day everyday!✌

[@NekeishaWise]

Thank you so much for talking about this. The young lady at my job didn't believe me when I told her this. I am going to highly recommend this vid for her.

[@Lacilove1991]

Man this dude was like “woman can propose to a man” I was like wow!!! Pigs will fly before I do that

[@deliciarollins915]

Blessed Tony your Right Tell dem the dam truth _woman needs to Learn about these and those kind of grown boy secrets & Lies no doubt

[@christineporter9914]

Bro Tony you are so funny 😂😂😂 you trying to demonstrate how we women be posting in a picture. You have me laughing Everytime you pop your lips imitating us women.

[@mskodak82]

Lol 😆 🤣 😂

[@RubyRoxxie]

Praise God! Glad your back is better, brother! Believing it will not come back in Jesus name! Also, I’ve always believed this. I try to tell other women that they do NOT need to pursue a man. Thanks for sharing and the confirmation! I really enjoyed the story this man shared with you. Be blessed! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@MsBlackscorpion1]

I’M NOT PURSUING RUNNING BEHIND NO MAN IM THE PRIZE

[@willLLIt]

i am hard to get ive been single to long to play with my peace! to run after a man nah sis ..

[@EssenceofGod5657]

The “Good Book” says “he who finds a wife finds a good thing & he finds favor with God”.ladies stop seeking its the man who will benefit when he finds you 💯

[@Bigtruck2ful]

Real talk. Be blessed, Part 1.

[@thegratitudeattitude67]

I am watching this the second time because I have always been the type of woman to slide into a man's DM when I think he looks really good. YOU👏🏾NEED👏🏾 TO 👏🏾STOP. (Note to self). I just went on IG and saw this guy whose DM I slid into and we talked. He is liking pictures on Instagram but hasn't got the time to text me unless I text him. I have to understand that he doesn't want me. I saw something I like but he don't like me. Wow. 😭 I'm never shooting my shot again! NEVER. And I have to remind myself by watching this over and over.

[@flowest1647]

There are a lot of thirsty and crazy women out here chasing men like fools. Let these men be hunters and do the pursing!

[@williamnesh223]

Hey ya'll its the one and only Tony Gaskins i aint tuned in a lil minute im getting this knowledge cause tony gone give it to u straight no juice and needless to say class in session be blessed everyone get in your bag and be safe.

[@georgiannaj.grantham6431]

Like 942..Thank you for being so real. I am a older woman and I look good for my age. The first thing I tell a man/boy a (bum). I don't have any money just to see then run away. What you're talking about is for all women of all ages. Yes, I get lonely but I learned something that is to love myself first. Take my time, and I am enjoy every side of myself, finding things out about myself. My likes and dislikes. I can say that I'm HAPPY. And maybe some day a good man will find ME a wonderful woman. God blessed 🌹

[@simonemays8413]

Blessed Triibe. Do Not Purse A man

[@misoministries]

When he is doing the driving and texting part 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@vickymor3963]

😂😂

[@heathermixson1265]

"Done went and tapped her in the bumper"🤣🤣 I truly appreciate the comic relief with this very informative education......

[@desslaneshia]

Tony, you’re my big brother!😩🫶🏾

[@tulip4169]

Tony, you did do a video on how to get a man's attention on Instagram. I remember one of the things you said was to open your page and take it off of private. It gives a better chance of a man coming across our page. And thank you for being patient and kind enough to teach us the same thing multiple times because you've done videos on not pursuing men 2 or 3 times. 😄🙏🏽

[@doriscrumpton2980]

You just got to be on his radar and act and look feminine but not thirsty 🤗 You are the prize and worth chasing. A man that is pursuing and chasing a woman actively is attractive and fascinating to him. 🤗👍

[@christinetomelden4337]

True he will use you, you look cheap to him. If a man wants you he will pursue.

[@michellebattle6356]

Hello..TIMES HAVE DEFINITELY CHANGED!! Women have no shame. Be Blessed

[@stephbell5102]

Hello 👋🏾 Tony. I definitely disagree with women pursuing men. I think after a while the woman would have to continue to pursue that man because now the tables have turned, this is where roles get reversed and communication gets lot in translation. I guess I’m old fashioned, but I truly believe in letting the man pursue the woman. We(women) just have to show up, and let things flow organically.✌🏾✊🏾❤️

[@DiEdraStinson]

"Don't flatter yourself".

[@lynnjones7695]

Keep it moving!!!

[@veronicakimbrell8256]

“Oh my goodness just got into a wreck”I can not with him 😂😂😂

[@ireneknow3814]

Tony! You are so smart! Im older than yourself and most of the stuff you're 👄 about I have experience d it over the years I cant denie anything you're saying!

[@indamel8569]

This was funny I enjoyed this😂😂😂😂 do ladies be messing they backs up trying to take pictures lmao 😂 dawg dead funny😂