Don't Tolerate Disrespect

Don't Tolerate Disrespect. If you tolerate a partner that continually disrespects you, they will not love you. Respect and love go hand and hand together. This video we share an email example where a partner repeatedly says cruel and disrespectful things.
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[@CoachCraigKenneth]

The dislikes are from people who want u to tolerate disrespect lol. But seriously this was a tough one. If u find yourself in a situation like this, Margaret would be an excellent resource for you

[@asfandabid5056]

Haha, nice one Coach.

[@Indigo1280]

Hi coach, Just recently recently replied to you with my break up situation for my email coaching on 9/11, and I would like to know what the usual waiting time is to receive your response back? I understand you're very very busy, and since it is my first coaching, I don't really have experience with how long should I be expecting to wait. Thank you and be blessed,

[@ronsyp]

@Coach Craig .. Can you explain in more detail what your Workbooks encompass ? It appears to just state that they're audio workbooks which I have no experience with. I personally like to study and highlight hard copy books.

[@CoachCraigKenneth]

They are digital and you can actually write on the PDF. Each workbook is based on 7 videos. You watch the Video and then you answer questions that are both focused on helping you retain the information and use critical thinking to help you and your relationships. You are able to print them on your end if you like

[@ronsyp]

@@CoachCraigKenneth ok sounds good, thank you Coach.. Thank you also to yourself and Margaret for the vids, looks like there might be a turnaround tomorrow with my ex, we'll see if she follows through.

[@Danash2013]

If you've identified your ex as a narcissist, then that should be enough to end your heartbreak! Don't be embarrassed that you fell for their manipulation, but learn from it! It's messed up, but it not your fault... we're the good guys 😃

[@crking36]

Magaret said something very insightful...if you are an anxious person you have a tendancy to over-value the other person.... spot on... golden words!!💫💫

[@TheThirdLieberkind]

I was through something similar. "I don't think I ever loved you", "I don't find you attractive", " lately I have just been annoyed every time I see you". You try to give them everything, while they cheat and lie to you. And at the moment you believe you have finally overcome the worst of it and the relationship seems the healthiest, they discard you and within a week get together with some other person you had worried about in the relationship, and deliberately try to hurt you by letting you know about it, making you jealous. And even 4 months after picking up the pieces of your self esteem and going to therapy working though all this I am still left missing her and somehow wanting to fix it. You can see how you were treated and disrespected, but your heart is still determined to hold on. Attachment is so hard to give up.

[@princhipessa1969]

Lovebomb, devalue & discard. Total Narcissist. Not worth trying to get back, Narcs don’t change.

[@blessedfavored8032]

So true they’ll never change. I know one

[@meeraraj0]

YES YOU GOT IT!! They give you so much at beginning that whrn they devalue you it sends you into a soul shock and you get obsessed with getting the nice person back. Because they make u believe they are being bad because of you. He kept telling me i did all this. Urgghhhh!!! Narcisst🤤🤤

[@cynthiadavison5785]

Yes! Margaret is a blessing! She is incredibly insightful. ❤

[@jamesrounds4225]

God bless the girl. I pray that she find her own strength.

[@melissachinnici]

This was heavy. Poor girl. I hope she was able to transcend and move forward. I relate to some of this. The narcissistic abuse especially.

[@CC-my4sn]

These videos are incredible. The dynamic between you both on the topics is so entertaining/informative. Seeing a new video pop up is one of the highlights of my day.

[@davidj5425]

Keeping people in line by being dishonest and playing with their self esteem (without remorse) are the actions of a narcissist. This person likely doesn't understand what a loving relationship is due to being guilted and mistreated in the same way by his caregiver and now is just embodying the same behaviour. He is probably incapable of empathy otherwise he wouldn't do such things. That's a really detrimental person to stay with if love is what you're looking for. They have a lot of inner growth and reflection to do to become the sort of person that can offer those things.

[@mhammer50]

This is ones of best/hardest ones in a while. Thanks coaches.

[@gabbymontoya2085]

This scenario is a typical narcissist . they don’t care but wants to drag you in their game . they start ignoring you ..

[@jaynepearson3203]

Hi, Craig, Love all yous & Margrets videos and find them very informative in the real world. Can you do one on "covert contracts" in these type of narc relationships ? As they sure seem to be a set-up that they know their only going to end.

[@stillencharger]

My ex told me the same thing, she didn’t find any connections anymore because i gain weight, the told me she care if i gain weight because she loved me, that was 5 years ago we broke up 1 month ago i lost 30 pounds since the brake up, i did it beause of my health funny thing is i gain all this weight because i was working all the time so i can help her children, and pay the rent and all the bills, i haven’t talked to her for 10 days i don’t love her anymore the way she treated me was just wrong sorry my first language is not english.

[@vitaminka225]

Such a great and useful video as always! 😘

[@Pattie-o7f]

my ex said he liked who he is and didnt want to change. Hes a narcissist avoidant IMO and I'm an anxious attachment of course it was my fault. He did the lovebombing, discard, devalue to me. He was very covert, no integrity and cheating. He broke me down and I had no support system. He left me high and dry while he has a new victim..that's 30yrs younger single mom. They've moved in together so now he has ensnared her.

[@amstarla]

I agree with Margaret - she can have him lol

[@michyortiz3077]

I think this sounds like my husband!!!! I will be calling Margaret as soon as I can get the funds.

[@meeraraj0]

The only therapy i need now is to have courage to be open to a sweet acting man

[@psalms1163]

Great video bro

[@niekvanbeusekom3058]

Thank you so much for this video

[@Rat454]

I’m so interested in this topic about liking the serial killer documentaries and horror movies. My ex gf loves this stuff, even horrific true stories and websites. Never showed interest in it while we were together, but recently been extremely interested.

[@lenaschaef6714]

But is it possible still to get someone disrespectful selfish and narcissistic like this back..?

[@zoobear84]

Lena Schaef why would you want them back?? 🤔🤔

[@kinkao2373]

😂😂😂this just cracked me up so hard lol

[@charliealpha2095]

Please do a video about disorganized attachment style? That sounds just like me ex.

[@A.Aleena]

I couldn't agree more!!

[@mrsdragonite]

Coach, I've followed you a year now since my breakup and I've looked to you as a solace through my dark time. I've been in 7 months no contact and my ex is FINALLY okay with seeing me Sunday (and tomorrow's his 32nd birthday 😢) I was involved in rehousing him with a friend after his house became repoed. He found out I was an aid and with his avoidant personality, wasn't very pleased (probably due to pride). Perhaps, because of a change of heart, he allowed the friend to make arrangements for me to come over and break the ice. (We were together 3 years and there's a lot of chaotic history there) I am terrified. I have to have the discipline and composure with an anxious attachment. Coach, I wanna make you proud after this long, grueling year. I wish I could have been more prepared for this meeting. I wanted a session with you before this happened (and you're probably swamped with requests!) Calm, cool and collected. I'm not bringing up the relationship. I'd like to be as non-confrontational as possible as he is a very reserved and private person. I am not. My anxious tendencies pushed him away and I cannot afford to flunk this. Wish me luck...

[@sshuteandrew]

Andrea Cadle YOU WON’T BLOW IT!!! You’ve learned a lot and grown over the past year!! Watch some encouraging videos before the meet up with your ex. Like you said- stay cool and calm- don’t push, coerce, be defensive or act needy...no matter he says. Remember, words are just that and feelings often change. Stay the course no matter what. Demonstrate your new strength and self-control. Let him guide the conversation- better to be quiet than say too much. You’ll be great- enjoy yourself and this wonderful opportunity to be close to your ex, have fun and build trust. I’m a recovering anxious myself and in the past year I’ve learned to enjoy the moment with my ex and not attach to an agenda. Just be your warm, loving self and breathe!!! Enjoy the anticipation and the meet up!!! Keep us posted! You’ll nail it! 💗

[@mrsdragonite]

@@sshuteandrew Thank you for your encouraging words!! I've got the best trainer in my corner! Craig is a blessing and beacon to us all!!!

[@sshuteandrew]

Andrea Cadle Yes!! You’ve prepared well!! Be confident and enjoy this time!! You’ve got this! 🙂

[@Danash2013]

Andrea Cadle Can you update us all on how it went please? I wish you all the good luck and hopefully he's also put in the work that you deserve too x

[@mrsdragonite]

@@Danash2013 It's unlikely he cares with his personality and attachment type but I'm gonna let him make his observations.

[@rosaamile2534]

My ex actually reached out after 4months on this past Sunday to my bff and said to give me his cel # to talk about an credit account we have and wished me happy birthday. She just gave him my cel# for him to call me and he did. He said the same thing about the credit issue and wished me happy bday all i said was "thank you and my birthday is tomorrow" he said "i know" and he will contact me once he deals with the credit. He sounded nervous and was stuttering. He knows he really screwed things up. He hasnt contacted me so far and now i have his new #😟 and i feel tempted but i believe i should wait for him to contact me again. He also has something of mine that i asked to mail since the break up tellin my bff that he was gonna take it to her house but then said he was gonna mail it. I was feeling pretty darn great again about myself and now he reappears. I feel angry and hurt again, i gave the best of me and he was always anxious about everything and manipulative. He is in another relationship too ever since he broke up with me. Wth

[@cynthiadavison5785]

Let him be. Respect his wishes. Stay in NC. Let him reach out to you. You will be better off. Work on yourself and keep watching these videos. Good luck!

[@rosaamile2534]

@@cynthiadavison5785 thank you so much. Im proud that i didnt curse him out.lmao. I just listened to what he said and i was just in shock myself. Its like Craig says about holidays and that they could have been scared to reach out themselves especially knowing they hurt you. He reached out the day b4 my bday. I am working on myself 💪 lost 20lbs and now im working on training my mind and body. Thanks again😉 and thanks coaches

[@cynthiadavison5785]

@@rosaamile2534 eventually you will feel better. I'm right there too. I just did the same thing. Good work on the emotional self control! They will eventually regret it all. It may not mean they will come back, but you are doing the best for yourself. Onward and upward!

[@mrsdragonite]

Good luck to ya!!!!

[@sshuteandrew]

Stay in NC. Keep focusing on you and your amazing growth. He hasn’t done anything in one contact to earn you back or show he’s changed. Keep doing what you were doing and let him go on his way- if he truly wants you back, he’ll make a real effort and show change. Good luck!!

[@psalms1163]

Dynamic duo

[@laurenalperstein9463]

So I had a long distance relationship for a month...he broke up with me got back in contact with in 5 day we got back together....I found out he was also having a emotional affair with a married woman that he knows from his home town... He told me he would end it...I went to see him on the weekend of the 14th of October...the 15th he text me with a lame excuse to break up with me again...I haven't heard from him since....did no contact the first time and now...

[@PricelessBinkey1337]

Not tryin to reattract my ex, neo'd that bullet.

[@Rice_M1k]

Great vid thank you !

[@koryshepard770]

Happens to men to

[@MiMi-ks8qq]

Hi Craig and Margaret! Been watching your videos. My ex accused me of being a narcissist in our BU. I believed I really have a narcissistic behavior, but after watching this vid... I'm confused. I'm still trying to understand why our relationship ended too. I think I have anxious attachment, I've just been introduced to attachment styles. This was my first relationship and I seriously have no idea how and why everything happened. Can you help me out? May I ask where and how can I send an email to you both?

[@meeraraj0]

YES! He was Very very Rude! Very very nasty. No empathy. Unprovoked. Humiliated me for having human emotion like crying because someone i thought lovd me yesterday threatend me to call lawyern police the next day after i found out he tried mee ting up with his ex. When i cried hetold me he's talking with so many girls. To hurt me. NO compassion. Till today he thinks he's amazing not even a sorry. Brat. Yes you get human beings who are evil, when i remember him i think of a demon.😈☻👹👽👿

[@biancapinola1641]

does an ex telling you that they want to move forward, not backwards, confirm the relationship is over forever?

[@cynthiadavison5785]

Who knows what they are thinking. I would go NC and just let it alone. They could be saying one thing and doing another. Just work on your own forward. Good luck!

[@LunaLiZardKxngVic]

how do you identify your ex as narcissist? (my ex told me he loved me but missed me as a friend but says he wants to get back together maybe senior year of college i brought up how i cant wait to have my own place later on and he said yeah me too i can’t wait to be on my own and by myself) mentions a lot how i’m going to be a hot teacher or he thinks about us a lot of our sex and that he misses me but made his decision and constantly tells me he isn’t shit but three weeks ago would want to buy me things called us hanging out our little dates try to find ways to kiss me and would try to touch me in private (putting his hand on my leg holding my hand getting long hugs) but now doesn’t act like that at all but will mention my body looking good invited me over to drink with his guy friends at his house is this a narcissist?

[@LunaLiZardKxngVic]

my mom tells me he doesn’t know what he wants he called me the love of his life and that he lost me but he broke up with me so i don’t get how he can say that and i still love him i just want help

[@SpbElena]

The guy does sound like a narcissist.They have a special atmosphere around them that you can tell by looking at their pictures. Not even talking about the behaviour that doesn't add up. Also, they like to triangulate

[@cynthiadavison5785]

My ex tried to triangulate me with his new gf. I told him no its disrespectful to her. I'm sure it injured him. No boundaries. Ask me if it matters if he's hurt. What about me? What a jerk. I chose to respect myself. Go have her. I'm not getting mixed up in his relationship. If it fails it's on him.

[@ms.coleman8403]

Ummm sounds like my ex

[@zoobear84]

You can tell if someone is narcissistic by looking at their eyes..narcissistic women and I'm sure men as well have dilated pupils. Might want to make sure their not wearing contacts lol

[@ij6654]

Eyes are windows to the soul!

[@susanc.2207]

Have you seen all the "Karen" videos yet?

[@yukojohnson31]

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