DR UMAR JOHNSON TALKS LIVE ABOUT BLACK RELATIONSHIPS WITH HARDLY INITIATED

[@HardlyInitiated]

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[@MindfulMommahood]

Every Black woman man & child NEEDS TO WATCH THIS!!!! This was so impactful thanks Brother Dr Umar because this was POWERFUL and let me see so much about my life, my past partner, etc. This is the TRUTH

[@elat8403]

Umar is the LAST person to be giving relationship advice

[@RageTheMachine]

@@elat8403😂😂😂😂

[@kennethstone4590]

Dropping bombs! He brings us back to true value and what to value

[@blackcapone187]

@@elat8403 Idk a lot of his advices makes. Let’s stop being so judgmental, you are missing some valuable jewels.

[@marthabrown4127]

I really enjoyed the entire segment. This should be talked about in schools 😊 Very insightful.

[@deroyalwatson5554]

As a man i appreciate how Dr Umar has the ability to balance the conversations concerning both black men and women

[@youngjah2010]

He truly does create a balance in his conversation.

[@victoriataylor5584]

I agree.

[@DenelsiaWalker]

Yes

[@ladawnkeys9142]

That's why he is taking so much money from his black community.😉 He can be believable but only a fool will stick around when they see the true person. For someone to get money for a school that is still waiting to open over 10 yrs later. So he do have a gift for words but so do the devil.

[@PedalToTheMetal61888]

@@youngjah2010 ...SO WHAT DO YOU SAY ABOUT LIGHTSKIN RAVEN SYMONE SAYING SHE WANNA BE LESBIAN WT HELL'S WRONG WITH HER P.S. AND JUST GOT MARRIED P.S. LIGHTSKIN GIRL BALTIMORE MD GOT BEAT UP FOR BEING LIGHTSKIN AND PRETTY BY THOSE HYENASS DARKSKIN GIRLLS

[@MrBrandon330]

"Dating and mating has become the newest drug, it's how we escape from taking responsibility for our emotional health." He said a lot of good things in this video.

[@kaykaysthoughtfuldays]

Agreed

[@sljcsu]

That was a word 👏

[@YouTubeTW817]

This was truly, truly truly on point ☝️, everything Sr. Umar Johnson discuss is always healing, restore, where is his book 📚 s, I need this therapy serious 🙏😭

[@YouTubeTW817]

I anit going too lie, De. Umar Johnson saved my Life 🧬, Dr. Umar Johnson thank you for saving my😂 Life 🧬, I needed to hear you on this video resonates with me, Thank You sir may Allah Rubarak, Praises the Most High!!

[@BeBlessed56]

@@KZbinTW817love to see it! He’s a such an inspirational man and sometimes even something as simple as a video can impact people. Love you brother ❤

[@MufasaWacho]

“Observation always beats information… You gotta assess the gaps between what your woman says and what she does.” #LEGEND

[@kingsprincess7993]

Women don’t settle. Give monogamy and expect no less! Nothing worst than sharing someone who should honor you and you alone. You are worthy!

[@thewiseguy1979]

Bad advice. Getting married and/or committing to someone is settling - hence the tern settling down. The man you are going to be with for life will not be the greatest thing since sliced bread. Newsflash - neither are you. The guy who will choose you will be settling too. He is the person who likes and gets along with you and vice versa. You are not exceptional, nor is he. You are just a person just like everyone else - man or woman. You are flawed just like everyone else, and so is he.

[@QYAH322]

The CREATOR OF ALL...YAHUAH ALLUAH.... says we are WORTHY OF MONOGAMY.....I accept HIS validation! I serve YAHUAH ALLUAH, and I am trying to conform to HIS WISDOM and WILL!! Crucify my flesh and renew a righteous spirit within me. I pray🙏🏿 ! Help me , wash me, cleanse me to be worthy to serve both my future husband and my GREAT KING OF ALL KINGS 🤴🏿! I WILL HAVE NO OTHER GODS BEFORE YOU, MY YAHUAH ALLUAH! HALLELUYAH! 🙋🏿 SHALOM!!

[@atruismllc812]

Pathetic 😂

[@bellfaith1065]

People get caught blindly following celebs in their entirety bcuz that's easier than listening to multiple people & ideas & separating truths from untruths...Dr.Umar is wrong about polygamous relationships, but he's been right about a lot else...he's smart but he don't know everything.

[@sarahidu2640]

Shout out to Christianity shit that dumbed your brain 😅😅😅

[@carmondawkins2202]

My mother married a white man when I was in a third grade. I am now 56 and that man has been the best thing that ever could’ve happened to me and my children he has truly been a father and a grandfather and every sense of the word.

[@marlenahawkins7098]

Thank you for your honesty

[@marlenahawkins7098]

I teach my daughters they don’t have to be race loyal and abused.

[@MsSuitzHospitality]

Yeah I don't believe all YT men are like that either. Glad you got to experience that.

[@maxpowers111]

@@marlenahawkins7098 What is the correlation between being race - loyal and abused? Your logic is pathetic; you probably were raised without a father and are probably continuing her destructive pattern. Very sad.

[@wildflower7925]

And my mother married a black man, and it’s the best thing that could ever happen to me and my family. Black people who cape for interracial relationships, are suffering from white saviourism syndrome and trauma.

[@pettynettie5514]

I've never watched a 3 and a half hour ANYTHING, but this interview was one of the best I ever watched. Absolutely phenomenal!!! I couldn't stop watching. I love, love, love Dr. Umar!

[@dianemilitello1407]

I love watching Dr. Umar , watch all of his videos, he is really speaking the truth, I really enjoy Dr. Umar I sit in front of my TV and I listen to everything he says, he is really truly a blessing 🙏🙏

[@Christina-rz7zw]

Agreed

[@cherryblossoms942]

What’s new about it. It’s common sense.

[@mariejones2669]

​@@cherryblossoms942troll

[@neltins5308]

I hope this interview blows up massively, literally the best conversation on black love & black men in America I've heard in 10+ years on the internet, you can tell God really spoke to his spirit & spoke through him in it, you can feel the deep emotion/passion behind this, he seriously wants all black men & women to find love between one another and have healthy meaningful real life lasting relationships.

[@shawnfraser4432]

I could listen to this man talk all day because he's educated, informed and very wise .

[@madadisr]

He's a racist

[@jospeh-r9n]

A WISE MAN ? WHO IS HIS PARENTS?

[@madadisr]

@@jospeh-r9n no one

[@atritressfreeman5610]

He imo as many do reguritates for personal pleasure/ gains.

[@SethLofton707]

umar Jermaine shoemake sounds smart to blithering idiots 😂

[@jeanettemerchant7401]

I agree with Dr Umar, I'm a beautiful dark skinned black woman and I have experienced being overlooked by men because I'm darked skinned. Therefore growing up I told myself that I will marry only a light skinned man so that my children will not be overlooked I confessed that to my children and they were shocked and they showed empathy. Thank God I'm delivered from thinking that way.

[@blackjesus4973]

You might not be as beautiful as you think you are 💀

[@jacquelineellis7136]

You're more attractive to white men ..❤

[@lisatutler-jones5992]

Wow! I don't think I've ever witnessed anyone that acknowledged and healed👏🏾👏🏾 You go girl!

[@swannoir7949]

Thank you for your post. My Mom shared the same sentiment.

[@jasbury911]

This is a waste of time, a man with no wife, no human examples speaking on what he doesn’t know or experienced. Get 10 couples who’ve been married 5 to 50 years with flourishing success, and moderate failure(persistence in marriage despite relational difficulty) to be honest about what works and doesn’t work

[@sonjadf47]

If a woman does not have a child by a certain age, that does not mean she has suffered some kind of trauma. I chose not to be a single mother, therefore, I had to be married. Since I never married, I do not have children. I also have friends that have married, and have chosen NOT to have children. Not everyone should have children.

[@jasminealexia]

💯❤

[@juliene994]

I wish more ppl would accept that children are not necessities, a pension plan or a caregiver for their old age

[@haneefmuhammad]

What trauma have you gone through? As a pretty woman why has no man married you?

[@filmadcamp1512]

@@haneefmuhammad Contrary to the manosphere, men do not control marriage. They control asking for a woman's hand in marriage. A woman however has to agree. Being beautiful has never made men be good marriage material. Beautiful women get cheated on and mistreated every day just like regular looking and so-called ugly women. Cassie Is beautiful and she got treated like trash. Beyonce is beautiful and Jay Z still cheated on her. In case you haven't heard Dr. Umar is not married. Neither are the men on this platform. Go ask them why they are not married.

[@uduakudo8908]

I totally agree!!!

[@themelanatedempress]

I love that he addressed colorism in our community!

[@SharronClayton-e9b]

This was a much needed conversation. I especially enjoy Dr.Umar Johnson every time I get a chance to hear what he has to say is very insightful 🙌🏽

[@myramilton1833]

Whew, Chile. This man hit so many things on the nail. This man helped me understand and overstand the breakdown and the destruction of blk men and wmn. Some men and women not going to like what he said, but he spoke many facts. Protect this man at all costs. Drop the 🎤

[@nicolejames3054]

The spirit connects with this Truth 💯 He hit every nail on the head!🎯

[@madeline-hatim6575]

@@nicolejames3054 and that part

[@jacklyneverage3881]

He was great! Loved the interview.

[@samw7419]

Please stay away from that BM hating Cynthia G.

[@handyjoanna]

FActZ

[@Ki-Yemaya]

"Rather be single" is not a lie for many. Women telling you this and you dismissing it or not believing it is problematic.

[@wahoo4uva]

agreed. people can’t seem to grasp (or won’t) that people have different values, beliefs, and priorities, so their lives will look different based on those things. when that doesn’t conform to the status quo (societal standards) people tell them they’re being dishonest with themselves (like the dr. did here) or try to convince them it’s not what they really want. all because people are uncomfortable with difference, preferring others to be more like themselves. herd mentality, i guess?

[@xxhoopzxx22]

This!!!!! Idk why they dismiss women that are very clear that we'd rather be single than settle for mess. What happened to listen to the sistas??! 🥴 and no many of us don't want to be in a polygamous relationship... and that does not mean we are sleeping with marriage men either. Like why do we only have pathetic options? and when we respond nahhh rather be single we aren't believed. It's actually comical 😂😂😂

[@loveleemorris738]

Listen been married now divorced my husband was the textbook definition of a narcissist. Put me through all kinds of turmoil/abuse and I mean all kinds. After that, I have 💯 decided I will never marry again and I mean never. People tell me oh don’t say that, you shouldn’t say that, not all men are bad, blah blah blah. I dismiss that because I mean what I say NEVER AGAIN, PERIOD!!

[@antoniapinnix8321]

I'm a Christian, and I'd rather be single than date outside my race or accept less than from a man. I dated a married man, in my twenties, I've been the main woman and side chick in a relationship. Soul ties are real, and now that I'm an older, wiser adult; I don't tolerate the stuff I use to. I took sex off the table, and when I'm collecting data; if we aren't aligned; I'm out. No harm, no foul. Wish them well and move on.

[@nameshagardner8713]

It’s all about where your reasoning stems from.

[@nenajay3174]

Dear men: Please stop thinking for women and speaking in absolutes. Competition with other women and fearing how others view us aren’t the reasons many of us aren’t for the poly lifestyle. Women are human beings and all humans have the same basic needs/desires. We are territorial too. The same way men don’t like sharing their woman with another, women love just as hard and don’t want our man exerting the same energy-emotions and sexual energy to another either. And it may be worse for us because once a man gives his “chi” out, there’s nothing left. One woman can drain him and there’s nothing left for another. And most men have a hard time managing with one woman (mentally, emotionally and sexually). Also, for those who believe in the Bible, the command was one man and one woman for marriage.

[@ArethaRenee]

Thank you! Women can’t deal with knowing the man they are committed to is out their being with anothe woman. It will make her more insecure.

[@Jamja87]

So true

[@lastsam9846]

Women out here already sharing the same baby daddies. 60% of black men have no children. While around 65% of black women got children by the same 30% of black men. You're already in polygamy. How many children does your babe daddies have? Multiple, he stops by every now and then and does the same thing with other baby mamas. Too blind to see it

[@nenajay3174]

@@lastsam9846 I’m not in that situation AND that isn’t polygamy. Polygamy is the practice of having multiple wives or husbands at one time.

[@nenajay3174]

@@lastsam9846 And men are out here sharing women too. Maybe some don’t mind, but I am speaking for those of us who do. There are still women and men who choose monogamy.

[@justmyopinion9883]

Every young African American woman and man needs to watch this video. Dr Umar speaks the truth about relationships.

[@sphanksjohns]

So many people do not believe because they were not there and have not studied the social downfall of the Black man. I am 67 years old, a female with 5 other Black sisters, a psychology major, studied sociology outside of the book like Dr Umar has. I raised two Black male children and I noticed others pushing their females, Black and White and other races, past my Black male children. By mainly, I remember my household in the 60s and 70s reminding me of the Claudine movie. The house was in my mom’s name, the car was in my mom’s name, the people handing out self esteem on a platter of credit cards trusted my mom and not my dad. I heard the stories of how my mom’s mother scorned my dad even before they were married. My dad became a drunk. End of my dad’s story-no one to hold him up.

[@SethLofton707]

super fckn stupid, where's unars relationship 😂 umar is a blithering egotistical pathological lying psycho babbling mentally deranged rhetorical narcissistic agent provacatuer black devil vampire feminazi white supremist shjtbag lunatic with black skin 💯

[@aliveandconnected]

I'm American. I found my love in Jamaica. Kind, vulnerable, and hard-working. Never been happier. 🙌

[@Lindamorena]

And he probably can cook too.

[@aliveandconnected]

@Lindamorena yes that's a fact

[@IamFunsize]

@@Lindamorenawash, cook and clean.

[@Kita-ow9zh]

I found love in Nigeria. I’m happily married and he treats me like a queen

[@123-u1x8m]

@IamFunsize true but downside they aslo known for Not being faithful

[@tay8677]

This is Phenomenal! Dr. Umar has articulated this so well. Most people are AFRAID to turn the mirror on SELF. This requires bravery and vulnerability. True HEALING mandates solitude! It demands SELF EXPLORATION, TRUST and the ability to BE STILL! Those who look outside dreams, those who look inside AWAKENS!

[@annmiller5434]

I love these conversations because it’s the type of talking we should be engaged in as opposed to nonsense that adds no value to our quality of life.

[@providenceartdesign]

And it doesn't end up being a gender bash

[@luckyeyeyeah]

Hold on Umar gone ask for some money hang in there...

[@meganakinsanya4702]

I need black women to wake up I swear and listen. These men are telling you that the only way the world would be better when women go back to been considered property and owned, reasons why he mentions third world countries where women are still oppressed. How are women championing his stance is beyond weird ? You are literally agreeing to going back to be slaves

[@Sniper416-yy8hu]

Agreed. 💯

[@DeBoraMapp]

Thank you HI and Dr. Umar! I’m sending this to my friend so he can “grow” as a 70 year old. I have written 2 books that support some of this conversation: Making Sense of Today and My Child, Our Future. Keep up the good work!!!

[@ctruitt9250]

I could listen to Dr Umar over and over again

[@Kattkiteyez]

Yasss honey, yes!

[@aricharichie4976]

I ❤him!

[@LilBitsHoney123]

Reading through the comments and the problem is, we be so caught up in the messenger and not the message. This man is definitely speaking to alot of us and our trauma, including his own. There isn’t a person on this earth that is perfect or without flaws, but that does not negate the fact that we can be aware of our traumas and flaws. This is about self awareness and getting to the root and understanding why you feel , think, and navigate through life the way you do. Kudos to this platform. My first time here because I do appreciate Dr. Umar’s knowledge so I am here for him, however, interview questions and technique was great. 👍🏽

[@PeaceforLisa]

This male is telling women that we should allow Black men to have more than one “Queen”. That is his relationship advice. Oh and stay away from white people. This 🥷 is a joke. Y’all will let anyone give you advice. It’s embarrassing.

[@originaleverythingelseisca5977]

Exactly!! They just don't get it

[@handyjoanna]

🙏🏾

[@jacquelineellis7136]

And who causes our trauma 😂 Tyroneasaurus 😂

[@p.watson6289]

@@jacquelineellis7136 😂💀

[@artistcreatorallymamii]

I found peace in being single. I found peace in being myself. I found peace ✌🏽 ☮️ !

[@brownsugako7772]

I have too, it get's lonely at times but each of my married friends all got something going with their spouse (money, s3x issues, cheating, etc) on where I sleep peaceful at night. It's a catch 22.

[@CelestialDevestation]

MGTOW, sure.....enjoying my peace.ALWAYS! Why people act like being single is terrible?

[@dillyboy1583]

Stop lust , it destroy you

[@ka1ndoggy500x]

You won't be singing this song 20 years from now when you're alone with your cats

[@El_Doño_Da_Word]

Safety and peace are two different things.

[@traunfenelon1325]

This is honestly 1 of the most authentic, relatable, positive, and result oriented interviews that I've ever heard! Thoroughly enjoyed this! Appreciate you brothers for putting this together.✊🏾💪🏾

[@PaulaMillington]

Big shout out to Tysean and Ryan who never lose their voice in the room no matter who they have on the show!! I so appreciate you guys maturity level, your humility, and your dedication to bring us absolutely amazing content that is current and necessary!! Thank both of you so much🙌🏾💙💙!! You Rock✊🏾!

[@thabomadiba6025]

❤

[@dawnssunrises6050]

Yes. I'm very proud of them both for that, too! They are always 10 toes down, but humble enough to learn. Even Ryan. Bravo‼️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🏆🥳🏅

[@dianwest2412]

They are doing a great job. I’m 60 and have learnt so much from these young men!

[@youngjah2010]

This is my first time seeing these Men. I follow Dr. Umar and enjoys his interviews but I love it even more when the interviewers are intelligent and can carry the conversation too.

[@19nvo]

I agree, kudos to them!

[@Ginger_Spicy_Candor]

Situationship vs. pleasure contract vs. relationship was a GREAT distinction

[@Kaye.Nicole]

"When you love somebody you're 100% unapologetically and unconditional committed to that persons best interest even if it's to your loss"....that is love ladies and gentlemen ❤

[@123amorale]

You right . How many men you know have that quality in him. ? Ulterior motives though !

[@MD-DLive]

Valid point, 100% agreed

[@Ruffsecs]

And sometimes we learn that at the end of a relationship. The pain that we feel after the breakup is the bond we committed being torn apart slowly.

[@Kaye.Nicole]

@@123amorale tbh this can be applied to women as well. Most people love based on conditions. The true test of love is when it doesn't benefit you, yet you want the best for the person.

[@Sofrofitness]

My heart is breaking

[@lamondamartin6551]

Dr. Umar is a real prophet for the children of Isreal and the community to heal the mental health issues that plague us. Coupled with history and a plan. Outstanding interview. Thank you for having the character, integrity, and concern for the community to be able to land such an interview . Congratulations 🎊 👏🏽 and thank you!!! Blessings ❤

[@RobertLaster-ke5qk]

Dr Umar has never lied. Trauma, pain-bodies, all facts. Thank you, Sir.

[@shazj1842]

😆😆😆😆

[@JusaGthang1]

This has been by far the best conversation with Dr Umar I have seen by far. You have to be open minded to understand. Thank you Kings for this podcast. I am married with kids and had childhood trauma. My husband was willing to help heal me and I take pleasure in healing his past trauma. Dr Umar hit on a lot of strong points. And gave me some good insight on keeping my marriage growing. This was fire and again thanks Kings!! Much love and light!!

[@ifycaz]

Are u kidding me!!👌👌👌I think everyone should watch this podcast wow wow Phew!!!!

[@sallyhemings2295]

😅are you ready to SHARE your husband with another woman?😅

[@elvingaines2961]

I feel doctor Omar is right we shouldn't be married to anyone White we should stay in our race and build the black where is the white people are trying to our third I should to see what's really going on

[@jacklyneverage3881]

Right! He made a lot of good points. So many in the comment section focusing on what they don't agree with. I didn't agree with everything he said, but he made a lot of great points. It was a good conversation.

[@meganakinsanya4702]

Girl you must not be listening to the same interview. Not you praising your own demise 🤣. Umar is implying the only way for the world to work and be better is if women become oppressed again. For men to function in their masculinity, women would have to be oppressed and be owned as property and you dense women are eating it up. He want women to be oppressed, work mules and take his role of provision cos he can’t while allowing him to cheat in peace. Pimp and ho mentality 🤣

[@Tahtiluv]

You guys are putting out amazing content! Whether we agree with everything or not, the dialogue is not only interesting and entertaining, but most importantly PRODUCTIVE!

[@601downsouth]

These young brothers are great host! Podcast was polished, moderation was smooth, the questions were on point good follow-up. High quality work!!

[@yungkaos3500]

idk if anybody else felt this way, but Umar brought me close to tears over 3 times during this conversation. These problems are community has runs DEEP. This was a POWERFUL CONVERSATION!

[@jessicaball8959]

Yes me too. I cried yesterday

[@donnajeffreys8252]

Ditto 🙏🏾 makes me feel justified to just stay single because it's been so peaceful 💙

[@user-ef3mi1qe3h]

Bro we have the highest single parents led house holds on earth it's getting pathetic

[@Crys0219]

​@user-ef3mi1qe3h it's already pathetic

[@makemoremstakes]

He definitely went off 🔥🔥🔥

[@charloucarter2340]

2:35-2:36:20. Cheating is the ultimate disrespect…..NEVER stay with someone who will blatantly disrespect you. Being a great provider means nothing once disrespect has entered the relationship.

[@CristanioPeweyyy]

Men can't cheat, their hearts will always belong to their wife. Kings had multiple side women and the Queen knew it was nothing personal.

[@Sunwrri]

@@CristanioPeweyyy Thanks you for your input brother. Yes the Queen TRIED not to take it personal but there was UNREST in the kingdom. The Queen and the Kings concubines absolutely did not live in harmony. When you love someone you will never want to share them with anyone. Yes these were the times and culture but we cannot negate that it was whole heartedly harmonious. Envy and jealousy are natural human emotions. And no matter who you are, anyone would want to protect the one we love.

[@CristanioPeweyyy]

@@Sunwrri Human love are different things in different cultures. Thats your version of love.

[@cherryblossoms942]

Yes cheating is. In the bl@ck community cheating is the number one reason their relationships fail versus finances like for other races. It’s 90% BM who do the cheating. Hmmm….

[@amenahking7863]

@@CristanioPeweyyy What other cultural characteristics are men in the west trying to adopt from the ancient kingdoms?

[@melissallab7983]

My heart breaks hearing Dr. Umar tell the truth about what our people are going through. because he's absolutely right.

[@Mrk3lly]

Then why didn't he marry one of his baby mommas or one of the many black women he has been running through all these years.

[@kjs9]

This is so true 😢

[@gingerhopkins7134]

That is not true, that every emotionally traumatized woman is promiscuous. That is as much or more true for males. I think the promiscuous entrapment of women is more about her not knowing her worth and value.

[@truthtella7642]

How do you know he is right?

[@dennismelton2261]

Maybe they didn't want to ​@@Mrk3lly

[@Fit_Fitz]

Dr Umar, utmost respect and gratitude to you and the Hosts. Thanks to guys for being open, honest and venerable to the chore.

[@i.shanicequiller8976]

This was the best thing I’ve watched this year !!! Will be watching again with my notebook!

[@bkhealthfitness3013]

This interview was high powered. A much needed conversation in our community.

[@92MIKEP]

ALL FACTS!

[@Amoneyfrmdaraq]

LEARNED SO MUCH FROM THIS ONE INTERVIEW

[@robinshine3999]

Women not wanting to be in a polygamous relationship is mainly because we don’t want to share period!!!! And that’s something I would never consider for my race!!!! So stop that agenda

[@Simplyhowiseeit]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@avoidhuncho.]

ok now wat abt the rest of wat he said

[@Sniper416-yy8hu]

Well, women are selfish, by nature, and that’s not necessarily a bad thing, as long as the selfishness is not at the expense of others.

[@MeMyself984]

@@avoidhuncho.being a feminist doesn’t mean you sleep with married men. Lol. Feminism has nothing to do with hating men. Why does our people blame the white man for everything. Ok so we had our past history. What’s stopping BM from achieving their goals and succeeding? Umar is ok but some of his rhetoric is offensive to me as a Black Woman.

[@coreejacobs4780]

Also, do you truly want to build with both of these women or both of these men or do you just want to control the mind and body of multiple people. Let’s not forget many black women out earn many black men, these men who earn less can not possibly expect to serve two or more households

[@justdee2666]

You don't have to live with someone in order to see who you're dealing with . You just have to take time to get to know one another. When people live together, there's greater likelihood to stay beyond the relationship's expiration date. However, if you choose to live together, it does not have to involve sexual intercourse. As a Christian, I practiced abstinence before I got married. My husband and I lived together for some months before we got married due to financial reasons, but we did not have sex until after our wedding. We were on the same page, so it worked for us. We were together for 1.5 yrs before we got married & we've been married for over 8 yrs now. We're still getting to know each other & will continue to do so. However, what I learned about him before living together and after living together was no major major difference even in comparison to what I have learned about him over the course of our marriage. That's for somebody! ❤

[@Honeyluvssteph]

Agree and this was for Me! Thank you

[@MsExit_]

Praise God ~ l pray a life long marriage for you. Why didn’t you all just get married in spite of financial issues/difficulties?

[@QYAH322]

Thank you for sharing ! Very interesting testimony and a strong resolve. 💪🏾 and determination mixed with faith...what a test under pressure. Sooo I rejoice with you... both of you are OVERCOMERS in the face of great temptation? May you have many more years of HEALTH and SHALOM!

[@michaelwthompson1]

Agreed

[@studentnurse4374]

Like this !!

[@Derria-i5w]

Thank you Dr.Umar for always showing us black queens some love❤

[@BlackDaddy]

The right way too

[@TAUJH]

You mean ass kissin and pandering

[@Fudge_Fantasy]

You didn't let a caveman enter your honey comb hideout tho did you? Lol Umar crazy

[@truthtella7642]

You're a Black Queen? Queen of where? What country are you the Queen of?

[@Jus4-Us]

He is not the only black man that shows BW love. The deeper question though is when will BW stand up and reciprocate that same energy back to black kings? Most prominent BW use their influence to demean and misrepresent BM, yet, sisters always expecting something different in return from BM. Where is the love for black men?

[@cherwallace6026]

My reasons for not considering polygamy has nothing to do with competition. He keeps saying, without the emotions. I cannot turn off my emotions. That is not only unrealistic, but also impossible.

[@narvelacook8672]

Amen!

[@queenkeesh8660]

Exactly women are emotional

[@ladyofthecentury]

@@queenkeesh8660 all humans are emotional. That is normal. He is an educated fool.

[@3DSuccess]

And in most of the testimonials I have seen of people who have participated in polygamous relationships (even children of those relationships), those people pushed down their emotions, for the sake of, and later learned they had a tremendous amount of healing to do afterward. They did it or experienced it as a woman and as a child with much regret.

[@leodegoddess2558]

Most men don’t care to cater to the emotional needs of one woman, it’s very arrogant of them to think they can handle two.🤦🏽‍♀️

[@jaejae444]

Conditional & unconditional Love, Dr. Umar, YES 🙌🏾 Speaking to my SOUL! LET'S GOOOOOOOO 🖤🔥✊🏾

[@deerobinson5801]

You are absolutely correct in order to share painful experiences with your significant other you have to feel safe!

[@MrsSherron09]

Dr. Johnson is COOKING!!🔥🔥❤

[@racheladams6670]

Loosing me with the polygamy stuff, and I’m not a feminist, and don’t date married men. Time to evolve.

[@bellfaith1065]

People get caught blindly following celebs in their entirety bcuz that's easier than listening to multiple people & ideas & separating truths from untruths...Dr.Umar is wrong about polygamous relationships, but he's been right about a lot else...he's smart but he don't know everything.

[@sarahidu2640]

Good luck with being a les 😅

[@Superd52]

Black women will be just fine. We need to stop settling for less than we deserve.

[@Brown.nbeautiful]

That part and with black men thinking like that and openly speaking about it like its a “fact” they are really pushing black women away from them and it’s not all them ofc but that’s just my opinion

[@keke2296]

U don't have to agree with the poly thing. That's his opinion. I'm proBlack and I don't date outside my race but I also don't do polygamist relationships either🚫. I agree with everything Umar says except the poly stuff, everything else is on point❤

[@zazampongoma7677]

This conversation healed part of me, same time taught me a lot. Thank you

[@joyfullove3493]

This episode is by far the most insightful and thought provoking episode. Its much needed for our black community. Kudos Dr Umar 👏🏾 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@ajag57]

🔥

[@melaniejones8009]

@joyfullove3494: only you think this episode is insightful alone with a few other desperate d**b females.

[@truthtella7642]

Not really. His stuff is mostly for niccas. Black people don't need his help.

[@DeeDaKaang1]

Dr. Umar just preached so well that he should've passed the plate

[@mzmelijenk]

A lot of good was spoken in this video. As a black woman this has helped me to understand what to look for in a relationship. How to love myself and my future black king.

[@cherryblossoms942]

Get you a snow king and you won’t have to deal with any of this. No more pondering over stuff that doesn’t make sense. He already said in this video it’s not enough BM to go around. Get a clue..l

[@Hadda23]

@@cherryblossoms942 they want bw to scrap for the bottom barrel. Nobody tells other races of women to this

[@panthergod]

..treason WILL be treated accordingly. 😎

[@themadman6667]

@@cherryblossoms942 conquered mind.

[@tramainethomas6887]

My mom watched this the other day and contacted me with excitement! She said Tramaine you have to watch the conversation with Dr. Umar. I learned from this conversation, she said. Just tuning in and he's already dropping valuable information for us all to take notes. Can't wait to see Dr. Umar at the Black Wall Street here in Georgia on February 4th.

[@cam_Sr]

Free therapy. I appreciate this brotherly conversation. Thank you.

[@clubeco180]

CLAP CLAP CLAP! STANDING OVATION.... DR UMAR! You are a KING among men! Salute to all of you gentlemen. Thank you! Thank you!

[@menaj2954]

This conversation was thought provoking. What I enjoyed was the ability to talk about the obvious issues in the black community without bashing either gender. I did not agree with all points but enjoyed the guest perspective. Blessings to all!!

[@22karcher]

One of the many concerns I have about this podcast is how BW focused it is on how black women ought to be to get or keep a man. I barely heard anything geared towards men about how to treasure, appreciate and be a good husband and father. It comes across as very blaming of women. What message and guidance for our BM and sons about how to honor their families and carry themselves? Dr Umar was able to name 5 women who he could have married due to their qualities. How many BW can name 5 men who would make good fathers and husbands? Why don’t we talk about the cultural dynamics that contribute to this scarcity and the misogyny?

[@shelivinoutloud]

I was searching for this comment

[@mcbthird]

He talks about bm a lot y’all love playing the blame game

[@AngelaElikya]

Boy bye​@@mcbthird

[@kobe8034]

​@AngelaElikya lol yall hate it when the tables are turned huh? Lol

[@Wolfsins]

This is how I know Western BW specifically American BW are pointless to have a conversation with and disastrous to build a family with. All Umar does is blame men, and on the rare occasions he blames women he coddles y'all , saying with all do respect or it's not her fault etc. Then he'll go on and use false racist stereotypes about BM. In this conversation he kept talking about baby momma this baby momma that, when the majority of BM don't have kids. And out of the BM that do have kids, the majority of them are married. These type of statistics will never ever get the proper acknowledgement, because all y'all do is blame us. You pick the father, you raise the kid, then somehow everything in our community is our fault. What a fking joke of women smfh

[@motivated4yah958]

Dr Umar is truly spitting fire 🔥. The best relationship conversation I have ever heard !!

[@Wallie_World]

This was everything I thought it would be. I can't get with polygamy but I love Dr.Umar!

[@heathercurtin1093]

It's about men having cake & NOT really doing anything. It's disgusting that men think they are THAT to where they can just visit multiple bedrooms, without doing bare minimum SEE Sister wives NOT LOVE Men with EGOS REAL men one female is more than enough with recognition both sexes as humans are perfectly imperfect, yet make it work. Unconditional contract means loving her parts & his driving you nuts but still keep it moving Change evolve in relationships The poly love is for lower men imho..

[@Jus4-Us]

You already dealing with polygamy in a different form. If you have been with more than one man or your man has been with more than one woman, then you have inadvertantly practiced a form of polygamy. What exactly is the definition of polygamy? One form of it is when a spouse is married to more than one spouse simultaneously. However, if a man or woman is dating or sleeping with multiple men or women, although not married, it is the same act being committed without the marriage.

[@intimatememories4867]

​@@Jus4-Us in a different form? Are you trying to create another narrative? Polyamory is a form of ethical, or consensual, non-monogamy that involves having romantic or sexual relationships with multiple partners at the same time.

[@Jus4-Us]

@@intimatememories4867 no, not another narrative. You just provided the understanding of what I was saying in layman's terms. Thanks.

[@intimatememories4867]

@@Jus4-Us 👍🏾

[@blackmessiah5414]

Dr Umar Johnson is too brilliant; and I am half way into the interview. He is the full package. Big commendation to the interviewers. They asked very important questions and intelligent follow-up questions. Now let me continue watching and listening to this great interview.

[@maxpowers111]

Umar cannot see his own daughter without supervision. Stop the cap! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@coreythomas3633]

​@@maxpowers111most of ya black are deadbeat bro WTF IS YOU SAYING

[@amber3202]

The black family needed this thank you

[@maureengolding2980]

Black people are people who are of various cultures. No psychologist can tell all blacks what they think is right or some ancient African tradition that will not work in the western world.

[@jellygurl27]

27 minutes in and loving this already! I am so grateful that Dr. Umar explains the history of how things came to be. It's important.

[@teresasimon8672]

Sisters build up their men then they leave for another woman.

[@QYAH322]

That's so true. A lot of energy and support was poured into believing in the sincerity of the relationship with the hope of longevity . Next . .. the man moves on to the next conquest, while taking all of the benefits with him and leaving the woman who supported him to become stable behind. Number one, we as women must operate in the wisdom of Yahuah Alluah. We must choose to wise up and rise up and don't and compromise the goods. Do not give it away so quickly without appreciation and commitment that is solid and sealed within a marital covenant. Praying men will now know that this behavior of them reaping the benefits and discarding the woman who nurtured, carried, and sacrificed to build his success is no longer an available benefit offered! Only simcere and qualified applicants will be considered with proof of experience, validated with documentation, and referrals, i.e., family, colleagues, etal. Thank you for your interest. Only sincere applicants praying dedicated men of YAHUAH ALLUAH need apply. Thank you!

[@anastaciathomas1215]

I felt the same way around this time stamp too

[@PeaceforLisa]

He said Black men didn’t have job opportunities in the 70s. I grew up in the 70s. There were tons of respectable jobs for men. Plus many Black men chose a military career. He’s making excuses for Black men.

[@orangepie28516]

This has really opened my eyes in terms of how we handle our relationships in the black community. We're trying to follow a 'standard' of relationships thats not built for our community, thats why its failing. Thats why we have generational trauma for both men and women and we don't know how to heal from it. Dr Umar is spitting some facts!

[@123-u1x8m]

Than what supposed be build for our relationship?

[@mrssheilasworldoffuninspir1919]

Although I do not agree with every single point, this is an interesting discussion!! Great wisdom!! Thanks again Ty and Ryan!! ❤❤❤

[@apriljtechnology3560]

So much of what Dr says is so true and useful. I’m puzzled why we don’t support him more. He is a true gem 💎 and unafraid warrior. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@cornersewer]

This man truly understands our narrative and the impact of Willie Lynch on our relationships. Message is prophetic.

[@Queenmother2508]

This comment underrated for sure cause yes

[@cherryblossoms942]

Willie lynch has no impact on your relationships. I guarantee it. Change your environment and mindset and your outcome will change. Willie has nothing to do with it. Oh and stop following men who don’t have long sustained marriages. Just look at someone’s actions and it will tell you all you need to know. Thank you and you’re welcome.

[@JupitersKiss79]

The Willie Lynch letter is false. Stop giving white folk so much power. The Black community often chooses victimhood as a deflection to ownership of our collective BS! Own it and move on.

[@wr606]

Speaking on how some people can potentially cripple other people; however, what about the recent issue with that heavy-set sister and as reported, your (you Dr Umar Ifatunde) purportedly having sex with her as well as the potential harm that likely happened with this Black Queen? Being that I didn't fully research or viewed said video, I wasn't fully aware of the potential damage that could have unrighteously been done to this female victim; nevertheless, as I've often commented: Although he is indeed brilliant (at least very studious); yet, at times, Umar Johnson Ifatunde seemingly acts as if he is part of the same FBI (that he periodically attacks) and/or part of some type of alien Enli/Inke/annunaki-like agenda.???? In a recent blog/vlog (I think 'MIKE TV') about Umar as a Scammer; subsequently, after viewing the commodes (seemingly with feces on them) that Umar was displaying to the public, I then and now realize that he is actually on some form of street drugs and/or suffering from some delusional - schizoid mental type condition. No rational-minded person would have ever shown those type videos to the public at large, especially while trying to convince the public that you have a school that you are actually renovating. All in all, ultimately, Umar Johnson Ifatunde will never be able to fully aid the Black Diaspora. As due to what potentially could have happened to this said victimized woman, perhaps, at this point in time, legal actions should be taken against Dr Umar Johnson Ifatunde????

[@yvetteshokere7818]

I disagree with the shacking. If yall dating for 2 year and shacking together, yall just playing house. You still not going to find out everything you need to know, it's about getting to know each, spending a lot of time together, asking needed questions. When I got married to my husband now we didn't shack. ( But prior to that relationship i did shack for almost 2 years with a guy and it went no where. Why buy the cow when milk was free and giving it away). But we made it work. Love made it work. We worked hard and together, of course it was tough living together. It took about 10 years for me and my husband to get it together. Got married at 45 and now 20 years later, stronger than ever due to hardships and pain, but we was determined. Of course I almost threw in the towel several times. But that was the easy way out. We having the best time working and traveling and enjoying grandkids.

[@laverngreen2205]

Blessings

[@E_Da_SoundGod]

Your story is the exception. I agree we should live with someone before marrying them to determine the compatability

[@truckit38mg]

Why would you want the government involved??? If it's love or os it business

[@truckit38mg]

One thing he didn't say is that these women pick these guys based off of looks

[@E_Da_SoundGod]

@@truckit38mg it's both

[@theshoelady4]

Much needed conversation!! It was calm/ informative/ focused and intelligent! Much respect Dr. Umar!

[@dzdhandzcan816]

🤦🏾‍♂️ ALL I CAN SAY IS WOW❗️As a 37 year old man, I just learned SOOO MUCH about myself & women /previous FAILED relationships from watching this highly intelligent brotha speak! I was NOT expecting all of this information, wisdom, & knowledge! I randomly clicked on this video because of the “TITLE” as I’ve been trying to better myself, grow, prepare, & understand myself & some things about my fellow sista’s, love, & how to have a happy, healthy, successful relationship. As I’m seeking a genuine GOD fearing companion, partner, soulmate, a high quality sista-wife that’s on the same level as myself! No more wasting time, casual s3x, dating without a purpose, or trauma bonding! I never heard of this brotha before today but I will definitely be tuning into all his classes & speeches! I really appreciate Dr. Umar Johnson for his session & life lessons I just learned! Now I can apply all this knowledge to my daily life, & hopefully my next & last relationship when I met my future BEAUTIFUL BLACK SISTA & WIFE 💍👩🏽‍🎓🙏🏾

[@carlettagoodrich-mann1377]

Dr. Umar is a realist. Great advice.

[@whizzdalkeith559]

If you can't handle Dr. Umar's unapologetic and systematic truth don't listen..this interview was fire..one for the books

[@DeeDaKaang1]

Exactly....They need to put this in audio 📚book form

[@MacMurdoc]

🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@kenyadaposey3907]

It was definitely straight facts all throughout!!!

[@sonjaanderson6933]

Which books

[@icandylocs2839]

💯

[@VickiBoyd-i8x]

This episode is extremely thought provoking! 😊 Blessings of prosperity to each of you ! 🙏💞

[@alexatoure3407]

This is so honest. Love that true masculine power setting the record straight! I'm right with you. Thank God for your maturity.

[@six3reggie]

I'm married to a woman who's of a totally different religion. 13 years, 2 kids later, we are still going strong.

[@myfatherhisdaughter2250]

This is actually my first time commenting on this forum😌It’s not even 10 minutes in and OMG Dr. Umar👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾It is so refreshing to hear you say what I always say regarding both men and women jumping in and out of relationships. No one wants to sit in their “trauma” but then how else would one heal? Thank you for your wisdom sir✊🏾

[@QYAH322]

How do we work on our non-verbal behavior in first glance ?

[@QYAH322]

No sharing, nope! Wrong answer HE was sent to me by YAHUAH ALLUAH and me to Him only! We don't have to, and it is against our commandment from YAHUAH ALLUAH!!!

[@QYAH322]

Elders are unacceptable judges ! They are not greater than the Creator RIGHT . ...THATS RIGHT! WE WILL BE MARRIED TO OUR BRIDEGROOM YAHUSHA HAMACHIACH YAHUSHA HAMACHIACH HALLELUYAH !

[@QYAH322]

Dr Ulmar well I'll beeee....you should be shamed of your self! Go ahead tell it!

[@Theritzcarlo]

Great conversation gentlemen I selected my queen based on Dr. Umar’s principles. I took the time to do the work on myself before I married so I wouldn’t burden her with my past trauma.

[@Karyn.ntiamoaa]

Dr Umar is speaking facts again. In many Ghanaian tribes the man goes away to work while the woman is home raising the children, no issue BECAUSE the man has usually provided a business for the woman... however in Western society men leave and the the women are left with nothing

[@TIAOFNEBULA]

"Cause most of us was raised by women" Again with the victimization of blaming the parent that stayed and not the one that wasn't there... address your father and not your mother that spent her better years of her life raising you ALONE.

[@themadmillionaire]

Children are supposed to be raised by woman, that’s why he left his children with their moms

[@shellz831]

@themadmillionaire DUMMY, the Boys are to be raised by the FATHER. 👨🏿👨🏿 are #UNWANTEDsons hence they stay bitter at everyone because little timmy has his daddy 🧑.

[@Pelle477]

I understand what you are saying but I think, not to victimize the mom, but women by nature are emotional beings which is good. We are supposed to be that way but I think he’s trying to point out that the children are exposed to an imbalance of ways to deal with issues. We have very emotional men when a man should be able to hold it together and be a voice of reason. How can a woman trust a man who can’t think and reason things through? These

[@TIAOFNEBULA]

@@themadmillionaire a WOMAN cannot raise a MAN to be a MAN. Only a good father can raise a good man. Boys especially need a positive father if not positive father figure/s in their lives!

[@TIAOFNEBULA]

@@Pelle477 women are not “emotional beings” women are in touch with our humanity more than men. Men are just as emotional as women if not worst to the point of femicide, violence against women and being in and out of jail THE MOST. Emotions are a spectrum and if you are an animal you with constantly fluctuate on that spectrum until you learn how to control your mind.

[@deidresmith1187]

When I say Dr. Umar definitely told the truth about being in solitude. It wasn’t until I did take the time to heal myself n solitude, I became a better woman and partner

[@Kattkiteyez]

good for you good job ; )

[@dcaldwell258]

Preach brother...I always learn something every time I watch HI podcasts...thank you!

[@keykey4593]

Why does the doctor act as if cheating won't kill you! This is crazy to me. It's no way cheating should be accepted on either side unless both parties are cool with that.

[@VRose6750]

Cheating can LITERALLY kill you or rather cause you to get killed! Hasn't he seen cases where the side piece has killed his or her rival,usually the spouse of the one they were cheating with! Oh and don't forget about AIDS! Cheating can very much kill you!

[@lonniecarter5235]

Facts 4 sure

[@aaronconners5570]

True but I think he’s speaking reality, I have these conversations with women all the time. It doesn’t sound good to the ears but it’s honest and most of them agree.

[@aaronconners5570]

Not cheating but I would say dating in general, I do believe with 98% of everything he said especially with the trust. I can speak for myself and I’ve gotten in relationships and learning the vulnerabilities on the back end. This interview def. Opened my eyes up to someone I can see myself with being more open in the front end

[@Bumblebee0819]

Blaming women who unwittingly have to participate in polygamy is a weak excuse to force the acceptance of wrong behavior

[@Bumblebee0819]

@@Mr.Oct___ Yes that’s what he said. Some have morals and don’t know because they wouldn’t settle for that.

[@sarahidu2640]

What do you mean? Polygamy is as old as time, shout out to Christianity ruining shit 😂😅😅😅

[@maureengolding2980]

Dr. Uber, wants that, that why at 50 years old, supposedly qualified and not married with international choices. 😆

[@sanwashington9807]

Why does someone HAVE to participate in polygamy? That begins with a choice that one chooses.

[@jasminealexia]

💯❤❤

[@cdred71]

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. Love begins with patience. No one is perfect, we all have our flaws. Love is kind, it is never meant to be mean, disrespectful, or violent. Love is not about what's in it for me nor bragging about my good thing. Love is definitely not a background check. If you love a person, you would never be happy with something happening to that person. The real problem with relationships today is the fact that they are NOT based in love. They are self centered and lack patience and empathy for anyone but the individual.

[@akuasalaam490]

I'm not doing Polygamy Umar... These men can't even afford themselves. They damn sure cannot afford multiple households. STOP.

[@robinshine3999]

Frfrfr and the nerve of him to push that agenda!!!! I will be single if that’s the case

[@cheriselundy415]

Lol. Yea I'm good on that as well

[@salj.5459]

You all are brainwashed by European culture. Polygyny is common in many parts of Africa

[@jaylynhill6754]

He has always said if a man is going to do polygamy, he needs to 100% be the provider for both families if he cannot then he should not be a polygamist

[@VRose6750]

He lost me on the whole polygamy thing! It doesn't work. God in his infinite wisdom declared one man for one woman for a reason.

[@nicolefelton6324]

I can listen to Dr.UMAR speak all day!

[@Knksquad]

All he does is chat. It sounds good. But he never stand on business

[@spiritualbae1017]

This interview is literally taking my breath away in the most healing way. Gotta love, respect and protect Dr.Umar

[@sallyhemings2295]

😂he’s a master GRIFTER 😅black people are LOST!

[@morefinest]

Beloved don't fall for the emotionalism of this guy.

[@morefinest]

​@@sallyhemings2295well some black people are lost. I reckon that there are a lot of us who feel sorry for him and understand he seems validation.

[@AlaskaSnowQueen]

@@morefinest WHAT? 🤔🤔🤔

[@AlaskaSnowQueen]

@@morefinest Pls explain

[@Christina-rz7zw]

I’m sooo glad I became a member… these are the best conversations that need to be had!!

[@evirgo93]

Very impressed with these brothers. Very articulate with great questions. Great interview.

[@jamiejackson1780]

THIS IS BEAUTIFUL!!!! This is BLESSING ME!!!

[@Olasumbo888]

DR. Umar never disappoints nothing but truth and facts

[@chavandiasewell152]

This interview was EVERYTHING. Thank you Dr. Umar 🙏🏾 Thank you Brothas ❤

[@Jonaiworld2018]

this is literally one of the best interviews i ever heard

[@JOURNEYTZION]

PREACH DOC! 🎯 💯 I gleaned so much from this discussion. Thank you, sir. 😇

[@KA-ef9bw]

Excellent discussion Brothas. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 Much appreciated. Appreciated you Kings. Thank you so much for creating a much need channel. Keep it going. 💪🏿🙏🏿🙌🏿

[@ashleyirish7780]

Great show!!!! Y'all showing out 2024!!!! May God continue to bless you guys with this platform. I'm being feed!!!!!

[@melaniejones8009]

@ashleyIrish7780: only ignorant, desperate women think this is a Great show, f@@!. Pimping one on one is exactly what it is. Try picking up books to learn your greatness as a woman, so y'all can stop fall for the Umar Johnson's and podcaster like the Pedo's who run this podcast.

[@tashamebane1715]

OMG this was powerful thank you this shows where people mindset are. He dropped jewels the whole time

[@HardlyInitiated]

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[@evangeline1983]

Bull. I’ve been single for 8 years (I’m 40 and nowhere near retirement, clearly) and I’m perfectly fine. I’m at peace. I don’t have drama or disease. Life is GOOD. Btw, I’ve been completely celibate for the entirety of these 8 years with no issue. I feel nothing at the thought of never being intimate again.

[@noirefit5954]

This is an interview where you chew the meat and spit out the bones. He had some good points and some others not so great. Overall, good interview. Definitely took some gems

[@teachandinspire437]

Amen!

[@3DSuccess]

Yes chew the meat, spit out the bones

[@krampsbeatz]

@@3DSuccessI love that saying

[@ntitus3025]

Yeahup, even my 17 year old daughter peeped BS! So proud she using Discernment!

[@DnewNancy]

100%

[@Ejolinova]

I really enjoyed this interview and you guys asked all of the right questions . I loved you guys energy . I'm a first timer here.

[@Tbuka]

This was an amazing interview, am impressed how dr umar showed up so prepared 🙏🙏🙏 we need this level of professionalism in the black leadership space