10 Tips for Wearing Shorts Over 50

[@darlenebergantzel1534]

You are so right about tip 10. I started gaining weight and losing muscle tone after I turned 60 and was embarrassed to wear shorts and short sleeve/sleeveless tops. Two years ago I moved to Arizona and saw women of every size and age wearing these, so I started to. At first, I was anxious about it, but now, shorts and short sleeved tops are basically my uniform. I also wear sleeveless on really hot days (so most of the year). My confidence went up in other areas of my life, as well, because I broke through this ceiling.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

That’s exactly how it is. Breaking through. Thanks so much for sharing this encouragement.

[@nelly2127]

I have the opposite problème Darlen, but it is the same thing. I have lost weight and my arms and thighs are wrinkled.I have complexes. I.m 61… congratulations to you to overcome your problem.

[@BluePatriotWinner]

I am in your exact position! 61 and finally gave in to the fact that I won't get back to a size 8. This past week I found denim shorts at a thrift shop, and been wearing it. I don't look as bad as I imagined and am starting to feel comfortable in shorts Actually wore it to breakfast today. Feeling confident now and not looking back.!

[@user-jv1bm8mz7e]

​@@nelly2127 Same here! I'm still okay showing my shoulders and arms, but my legs are awful! And my knees? OMG HELP!!

[@cynthiaproffitt8326]

Great tips! I especially love your encouragement to not focus on our flaws. Wearing a smile says it all! I now will be rocking my bermudas with a smile! 😊

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Perfect! Thanks so much for watching and taking the time to comment, Cynthia.

[@pipmc7927]

Your videos always give me a little lift Kay. I really enjoy the fact that you don't use filters that make you look unrealistic or as if you are flawless. Very relatable.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Glad you like them!

[@sharonpovroznik9600]

Very good video! I am 60 years old, I wear what is comfortable ,and what I like!! Classy look is my favorite go to!

[@mariaziarnik6909]

I love Bermuda shorts. I am 52 and a few other KZbinrs will say that it’s a fashion don’t. But you are right you have to know you body and have fun with how you style yourself. Love your tips!! You dress so beautifully and effortlessly! ❤

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you, Maria. I'm so glad you enjoyed the video.

[@emiliaescobar7652]

I am 61 & have been wearing Bermuda shorts for the last 10 yrs, they just look better on me, but if you wear them with the right tops, you'll look fine, a lot of you tubers say it's a no no, but again, it's all about your shape/balance.

[@bev3279]

Oh Kay, thank you! I just bought new Bermuda shorts and I thought hmmm….should I be wearing these? I just turned 70. Your tips helped so much! Your top is gorgeous on you!

[@littlelady7843]

Kay, great tips. These tips apply to everyone. I can really relate to your first tip. The length of the shorts makes or breaks a look. I am 5"4, but like to dress modestly so I always buy mid length shorts. But they always make me look stumpy even when the waist and hip fits me well. One day I put on a pair of shorts with one leg folded up in the dryer and noticed that leg looked longer. I folded up the other leg and OMG, I looked taller and a lot cooler instantly. I shortened that pair permanently and wear it often. Now I either buy the shorter shorts, or when I find a longer pair with really nice fit and fabric, i will still by them , just shorten the legs myself. Great job, Kay!

[@terrilowe3530]

Loved #10. I moved to hot humid summer climate place, and am gradually getting comfortable with the idea of shorts…matched with my less than perfect legs. This was helpful.

[@annemariedale3171]

Great video, Kay. I am 63 with very pale skin and in the past I would never wear shorts. Now, partly thanks to the advice of lovely ladies like you, I feel more confident in doing so. Confidence really is the key to everything and you're right....other people don't notice our flaws as much as we do.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Wonderful! Thanks so much for sharing, Anne Marie.

[@deeecanta]

Kay, those patterned shorts looks phenomenal on you! I love the entire look! Thank you for being a blessing to us.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you so much!

[@Darry4645]

Self tanner is a game changer. I like the Bondi Sands Aero ultra dark. Very natural color.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Wonderful. Thanks so much for sharing that.

[@julainetraxler2641]

I LOVED your tips today! I am 74, and I do wear shorts (bermudas). I always have, but many of my friends do not. You hit all of the most terrifying things about wearing shorts. I live in Northern California where it is hitting 100 degrees this week. Shorts or sundresses are a must. Thank you for your thoughtful way of helping us older ladies.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

You bet! Thanks so much for sharing Julaine. 😊

[@bobbiecalgaro5888]

Kay, you are spot on! Living in NC shorts are a staple for the summer. Period. I’ve had varicose veins since I was in my late20’s. I choose to ignore them and so does everybody else. I’m about 50 lbs overweight and although I would love to be thinner, Covid pounds are hard to lose. I choose to ignore that too and wear shorts that are proportionally correct for my 5’7” frame. Oh and I’m 69 and I’m ignoring that too! Keep up the wonderful work you are doing to make women feel and look great!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you so much for watching and sharing your positive thoughts, Bonnie. 💕

[@jncoltin]

After a 25 lb weight loss I am Heading out to buy shorts tomorrow.

[@sherrynorte9574]

Great tips on wearing shorts. Proportion is important. I still want to wear shorts when it is hot and this gives me more confidence to wear them. Have a blessed day.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Glad it was helpful!

[@clairemackenzie9760]

Just discovered your video, you are an inspiration for older ladies,bought two pairs of shorts,still haven’t worn them,am in my sixties, and going on sun holiday soon,I feel after listening to you I can confidently wear them now,thank you so much

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Wonderful! 😊

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

I like patterned shorts, too, vertical stripes especially are flattering on short me. The hibiscus shorts are really pretty.

[@pamelachappell1089]

I love and appreciate your kind spirit.

[@chrystaltuckness5298]

I love that you used the word “becoming”!

[@nancysnell7428]

Thanks for the encouragement. I am wearing shorts this summer after several year break. It is a hard change to make.

[@patriciasandoval3624]

Loved this video! Specially the last tip: CONFIDENCE!!!

[@sherryhudson9075]

Love the floral hibiscus shorts!

[@boymom3434]

I love this. Yes number 10 is the best. Confidence is the best accessory you can wear. At the end of the day, everyone is going to have an opinion however it’s your body and if it makes you happy, go for it. Be kind, be respectful and be bold.

[@kimberlyberlin4999]

First off let me say I love the new music. I wear shorts in summer and feel comfortable in them. The mid length is perfect for me at 5'2". A third piece is something I've been doing the past year or so and I recently got 2 kimonos I'm looking forward to wearing.

[@bonniebenz8792]

Good video. I am in the 60+ group so I wear Bermuda shorts. I just think you look more polished. I love your front tuck and I am doing that as well. An open shirt on top of a simple T adds to the polished look as well.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks so much for sharing, Bonnie. I’m glad you enjoyed the video. 😊

[@AngelaHoodWritesSavannahRose]

Great tips. I'm 52 (almost 53). I'm 5 foot even. This year, living in the heat of Alabama, I decided to buy shorts and actually wear them. I found a nice pair of 5 inch chinos look perfect on my body and I feel confident in them. Not too short, not too long. Your videos have given me confidence to wear things I wouldn't have worn in the past. I believe as long as I'm comfortable and dressed appropriately, I feel confident. Thank you.

[@susanisham796]

Hi! We have almost the same physical stats 😊 I have found the 5' inseam works well. But living in western WA, we shall see if we have a real summer or not 🤣

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

I love hearing that, Angela. Thank you so much for sharing. Very encouraging.

[@angiefarmer173]

@@susanisham796 I hear you there! I'm in Eastern WA. We've also had the wettest, coolest Spring in a long while. Been here 22 years (raised in Bellevue though) & this is one of the only times I can remember people not starting their gardens by Mother's Day or so. We always have a short growing season anyway, but this year it'll be a flash. We live by a lake & there are almost no boats on the water yet. Our spring/mountain fed water temps will probably still be too cold for swimming by the 4th of July at this rate! My shorts & other summer clothes are hanging in the closet. Waiting. Forlorn. Only used a few times sofar. Haven't topped 75 degrees here yet & we're usually notoriously drier & hotter/sunnier than where you are. Thinking I'll need to use Kay's self tanner trick/link for my son's August 06 wedding!

[@marciascott141]

As a regular traveler to Hawaii this was particularly helpful, especially what tops to wear with what length of shorts.

[@claudettereynolds2388]

i love the top you are wearing

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you. It's actually this dress: bit.ly/3H1l2bN

[@palomahealing5073]

I really like the khaki colored knee length one, with the light blue button up shirt & the orange one!Excellent video👌

[@SoonerFan79]

Thank you Kay for refreshing smile and updates to fashion. Your personality it a breath of fresh air.🌸

[@niveslawer9119]

You’re such a lovely lady - and give such great fun, tips. Thank you 👋🇦🇺

[@cindeed4422]

Confidence is the greatest fashion accessory! Love that Kay! Wonderful. I’m 55 and 4”10. I don’t wear shorts as much as I used to. These tips are so great, I will start wearing more of them again!

[@AJ.943]

I’m with you on that Cindee!! ☺️ I’m 5 ‘ 7” ; 52 years old…and for me, its all about the correct inseam length! 🩳😄

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Absolutely! Thanks for watching, Cindee.

[@lauraberry1636]

It’s time viewer, I really enjoyed your ideas. Also the positivity.

[@debrabalawajder2617]

You bring out such good points that I never heard of! Thanks!!

[@novanorman1091]

This is such good info! Thanks for all the shorts ideas but the SMILE AND CONFIDENCE is CLASSIC! I, too, notice that way before I notice what someone is wearing!

[@susanrogwest6013]

I'm just so grateful I still have my figure from my 30s, so I can wear some younger looking things and not look silly. Still wearing size 4-6. I find myself watching the how-to-dress videos of a 30 something year old because I feel her style most suits me.

[@junelabansky9434]

You are simply gorgeous, you brighten my day! Thank you

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Ahh, that's kind. Thank you, June.

[@user-oq3rc5ef5x]

good tips..yes to wearing what makes us feel good and yes to wrinkles and getting older.. it's not always easy and we are perhaps our own worst critic, but if we can appreciate and even embrace what so many do not get an opportunity to do....

[@MrsH2020]

I feel like your humor and fun personality really came out in this video. You’re such a delight to watch. I’m only 32 but have always very much appreciated your style and tips ever since I discovered your channel. You’ve helped me transition out of clothing for a twenty something and into classy, tasteful apparel. You exude the love of Jesus and are helping spread joy and motivation for we ladies to be the best versions of ourselves. Thank you!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you. That is so kind and encouraging. 💕

[@aquastone5870]

Like the beige linen shorts with the dusty rode shell

[@pammcconnell4004]

Great video! I'm 62 and am very conscious of what gravity has done to my legs but your tips show that if you do it right nobody will even notice your sagging knees. Thanks so much!

[@dorisrapino8694]

Same age, same issue.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

I truly do believe that. Thanks so much for watching. 💕

[@lindajackson8389]

Thank you so much for sharing this video and I’m 68 on your group on Facebook yes summer for me to be in shorts 🩳 not for everyone but I’m okay I like being cool and I dress for me no one else 😉☺️

[@anitamodelewski1621]

Outstanding video, Kay! And you look beautiful in that lovely pink shirt! After a large weight loss I have finally embraced wearing shorts. Your tips are spot on about length, especially if you’re short like me. My spider veins are certainly on display when I’m in shorts and that used to bother me so much - no more. I do my best to look and feel my best. If the worst thing someone can say about me is that I have veiny legs, I’ll take it 😊. God bless you and your family.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Absolutely! We need to celebrate who we are and the long lives we have lived. Thanks for sharing, Anita.

[@valoriehedrick4329]

It’s so tough to watch my skin get crepey, including my thighs. I’m almost 63, and abused my fair skin in the sun when I was younger. I am not at all comfortable in shorts in public, so frustrating because it’s very hot where I live. Same problem with my upper arms. Look forward to the shorts-alternate video!

[@dawnvereeke9683]

I’m 74 and 5’2”. 5” inseam looks the best on me, your video was so helpful and gave me confidence that it’s okay at my age!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Glad I could help!

[@kimcrites6245]

Who knew! I have been wearing my shorts too long! Thank you Ms. Kay!

[@cucar8363]

Kay, you look radiant! And I love shorts (bermudas), specially in FL heat!!

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Absolutely! Thanks so much, Cuca. 🥰

[@katherinerichardson1767]

Loved the video on shorts! I was told many years ago that the perfect length for me would be where my finger tips land by my leg when I put my arms down by my side. Looking in the mirror while wearing that length of short was good for me. I am 5' 2" tall so this advice has helped me a great deal whenever I select a pair of shorts. Thanks for all the good ideas of how to wear shorts.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Great tip! Thanks so much for watching, Katherine.

[@audreyfrick2087]

Awesome attitude and ideas ❤

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you. 🥰

[@loriallen1300]

Love this! I mentioned in a DM on your instagram a few days ago that I recently purchased 2 nice pairs of shorts from Chico's. It's been 8 years. I also purchased some self tanner as well. Appreciate your message here and also your encouragement.

[@joannanangle4876]

Loved shape of shorts and love orange ones

[@JustJan61]

Thank you for your videos. I'm 5 feet tall and live in Texas, so shorts are a must. I've noticed that my spider veins on my legs are more noticeable and have switched to bermuda length shorts. I really don't feel that comfortable in the shorter shorts due to the veins.

[@eileenheinkel2374]

Absolutely SO helpful. Thank you so much.

[@janerothrock7416]

you make a great "shorts" model, you're lucky you can look good in different inseams, but I'm not crazy about folding up the hems. Also sneakers tend to look too heavy with shorts. Sliders the best. Thanks Kay for the "shorts" education I learned something new.

[@robyndeddens6658]

I am 5.1 and 64 yrs young 😊. I am tiny frame so I do ware shorts in 3.5 to 5 inch length shorts. I feel absolutely comfortable in them.

[@pamelamueller1454]

Thank you so much for these wonderful tips & your encouragement! Indeed, we must focus on our positives & live with confidence!

[@silverfox5732]

These Are Definitely Great Tips ,But I Truly have Been Wearing More Shorts Than I Have In A While Thanks To You And Your Advice About Being Confident And Comfortable In Our On Skin. ❤ I Am Loving Me And Your Smile With All The Love You Show .

[@terrianton3564]

Great tips! I just love your videos. You are so encouraging and practical. Some tubers act like everyone has a models body. I really appreciate you for keeping it real.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

You are so welcome!

[@user-pu7rx9jx6c]

Very relatable!!

[@zoraidaiglesias934]

Love your videos. So many great ideas and suggestions. I am 60 yrs old and certainly feel like you address all my concern. I like to dress properly for my age and feel joyful and still somehow young. Comfort and practicality is essential to me while looking classy and simple I feel you bring all that to your videos thanks and blessings

[@home_editor_18chriseldagar12]

Loved this, Kay! You look absolutely stunning, too! Best of luck to your husband on his new website, too! Blessings! 🙏🏻

[@melodygarcia86]

Couldn’t agree more! Great tips!

[@suel5914]

I love the tank top on you! modern and trimming!

[@marvawiebe4364]

Really great tips! Thank you, Kay! :D

[@lorraineoddo2930]

I agree with you ❤️

[@fj6746]

Absolutely gorgeous video, yes, especially tip 10! Thank you Kaye.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Glad it was helpful!

[@tammyseaback2988]

I wear shorts everyday! 9 in or longer of course and I am 5'5 and 62. I wear them to work. The ladies at work always say I have nice legs. I rock my shorts. It is hot 100 this week. I wear my shorts with cute tops and cute matching shoes. Have fun ladies.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

That sounds great, Tammy. Thank you so much for sharing that positivity!

[@debbierasure]

This was great, Kay! Thank you. I had no idea there was an art to wearing shorts, I just knew I didn’t like doing it. Your tips will help me try it again with more confidence.

[@elizabethnelms2564]

Thank you Kay!

[@juliek262]

Very helpful, thank you!

[@eringoldsmith2677]

Great video! I was just thinking this morning that at my age, shorts are for weekend lounge wear. But I do think I will need to get those fabulous tangerine shorts from Talbots. Also- love the denim ruffle and denim linen- might have to splurge there☺️. You do a great job of phrasing recommendations in the positive- thank you. I agree about confidence- I see lots of ladies of all sizes and shapes wearing shorts and they look wonderfully comfortable and beautiful. And here I worry about every little detail of my legs and body- nobody is paying attention but me 😅.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

My mother always told me no one else pays as much attention to me as me! Why? Because they're all just as focused on themselves. It's so true. And it would free us all up so much to keep this in mind. And then we could focus on others - in a positive way - more.

[@celinebowman6309]

Perfect timing. I just ordered a pair of Bermuda shorts yesterday! Thank you

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Wonderful! Thank you for watching.

[@kimcoburn9798]

Thank you, Kay, for these very helpful ideas! Most ladies look best in shorts (any type of clothing really) that fit nicely. It's tricky to get the right fit because women's clothing sizes vary so much! When in doubt, add a little extra length and ease, rather than being "held hostage" trying to fit into an arbitrary "size". Let's enjoy the summer with our family and friends making memories!

[@aquastone5870]

Love the long beige Bermuda with beige sandals and white tee and pale blue shirt cover up. Those and the paisley print shorts outfit are your 2 bests, with the beuge mid length shorts and dusty rose top a close 3rd

[@kimghoss6021]

Hi Kay really really enjoyed this video.I haven’t worn shorts for year’s but after watching and listening to you I have bought a navy Bermuda shorts. Thanks for giving me the confidence to wear them .may I just add you really were very amusing in this video .Sending love for London

[@loriandrews6805]

Great tips for wearing shorts! I think any woman can wear shorts if she follows these helpful tips.

[@juliegeorge8533]

Congrats on your excellent content beautifully presented! x

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thank you so much!

[@petulamurray9388]

❤ tip number ten your sooo right

[@lindamurphy5020]

Going on holiday soon and I intend to wear shorts. I have a knee length pair that I’ve worn in town and I felt OK

[@palomahealing5073]

I'm gonna wear mine with an oversized 3/4 sleeve shirt & a tube top with a low heel sandals..or my solid white trainer sneekers!

[@DP-nv5fy]

You always have a lot to share. Excellent tips to ensure we can enjoy the hot weather in confidence. Thank you.

[@walbiramurray5762]

I love your channel Kay! You make fashion accessible and fun. I am a firm believer in wearing clothes that make me feel happy and comfortable. I enjoy shorts in summer and now I know mid length are the right ones for me. Thanks

[@nilagetter1705]

Kay-you and your videos are amazing! Love all the tips, especially #10!

[@lindaortolano7837]

Hello Kay! I have never been disappointed with one of your videos!! You are always so encouraging and spot on!! So glad I found you....have a beautiful day! Hugs! :)

[@valeriecrown]

Hi Kay! I am 60 and live in sunny HOT Florida and for me shorts are a must. I do get the long length, I’m also a tall lady at 5’10. A while back I watched one of your videos and you were wearing the printed shorts you are wearing in this video. I purchased the shorts because I thought they were so cute and was going to were a white t-shirt with them but am having a hard time finding one that isn’t see though. I like the color tee you have on in this video that match the shorts so well. Can you tell me the color the t-shirt is? I love watching your videos, and seeing what cute outfits you put together!

[@usbspeed6412]

Thank your for tip ten! I was so discouraged until I heard that. 😁❤❤

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

I’m glad that helped. Thanks so much for letting me know. 🥰

[@kellycote2385]

I enjoy this information, it’s very helpful to me.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Wonderful. Thanks for letting me know. 😊

[@janettebolin2991]

Great tips! I love your style and recommendations! ❤️

[@dvorahe9305]

Just as I put on my shorts wondering if I am too old at 65 😂. My bodyshape is good and bermudas are great playing with my grandkids at the park ! Thank you for a wonderful channel. Love from Germany

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Perfect! Enjoy the day, Dvorah!

[@michelepace777]

Oh wow! I loved how you sported that reddish heathered gray tank and tan shorts outfit! It really looked beautiful on you! Thanks so much I needed these tips so bad. Now I can go shopping =)

[@dabeezkneez8716]

You are awesome. Thank you for the encouragement and effort you put into your videos.

[@rodaodari1395]

Brilliant advice!

[@pamb2868]

I wear shorts everyday. I just turned 63. I do wear Bermuda length. Some of them are too long, so I cuff them up a bit. I know I don’t have the best legs. But I’m no going to be hot wearing pants when it’s 90 outside. I like the idea of wearing a shirt over a tank. I usually wear short sleeve t shirts. No sleeveless for me. I don’t really care what people think I look like. I’m going to be comfortable no matter what.

[@saraG100]

Excellent reminders and tips. Thanks for the inspiration.

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Thanks for watching, Sara. :)

[@sydneymartin7638]

Well done! ❤

[@palomahealing5073]

I bought a printed kimono with browns & and beige colors similar to one you styled in one of your other videos? To wear with my light blue denim color bermudas..

[@ladyesther]

This video is very helpful. Thank you!

[@Jeanettepina12]

Thank you for so many wonderful tips. I especially like the leg tanning lotion idea, everyone would rave about my slim legs. I live in a hot climate but I stoped wearing the shorts because of health issues my legs bruise very easily and bruise doesn’t go away I have dark patches. So I will try the leg tanning cream thank you. I will be looking forward to your videos😊

[@AJ.943]

Love this Kay!! I do wear shorts; but usually not out shopping or to events…..but I think I’m ‘bout to change that! 😄 I think in my 50’s; I’ve been so much more apt to think “I’m just not worried about it; I’m going to just OWN my age and my more mature look , gracefully and stylishly.” Thank you for these great tips Kay! I think I might go shorts shopping this weekend! 😉🩳☀️

[@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms]

Love that! I don't always think I"m going to wear them much, but each summer I end up wearing them when it gets hot. Thanks for watching.

[@aquastone5870]

Love the pattern shorts and top!