Learn why your self-image drives your whole life | Dr. Henry Cloud

It probably sounds like hyperbole, but Dr. Henry Cloud contends that all of personal growth works on this key principle: your self-image drives your whole life. How you see yourself in the world around you is everything. What you are capable of, what you are not capable of, and what is true, is all derived from how you perceive yourself and your abilities within the context of the world around you and the people in it. Dr. Cloud shares ways to expand how you look at yourself, what you’re capable of, and your relationships with what is outside you. Doing this is what opens up the world to you, and allows you to grow.
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[@adriamackenzie1191]

This is what I needed to hear. Thank you Dr.Cloud 12:59am.

[@MrJsysco]

Self knowledge and application is so basic, but not so obvious. In light of how the Bible sees things, your explanation is so good! Thank you for a simple powerful answer.

[@gaynorhartley5721]

Boom!! You're reading my mail 😊 such a blessing to my heart being validated by what you're sharing Dr Cloud. Bless you

[@stephaniepiazzese2602]

It’s just amazing to me, that so many people I know,, do not want change!!! Even when the present situation is harming them!!!! I was there!! But those relationships chip away at the years!! And years, are passing fast, and finally to say ENOUGH!!!! My tiny circle of relationships keeps getting smaller. But I keep being happier,,, I’m Lonely, yes,,, and have so much to give. But now refuse to give my energies and and trust to just anyone. People have drained me all of my working years,,, because? I DID NOT KNOW HOW TO SET A SINGLE BOUNDARY.

[@paulinenjoroge7745]

Very timely. Thank you Dr. Cloud.

[@mistygreer8542]

I'm a work in progress praise Jesus Thank U Lord Jesus 4Not Given Up On Me

[@skrame01]

This is absolutely perfect thank you for explaining these important concepts so easily and with practical helpful intentions.

[@lynnmcintosh]

0:13 all growth works using ethics over making money first, over using people, Dr Cloud.

[@diannalynn907]

Thank you so much , I have been Gaslit

[@diannalynn907]

I'm so glad I found you I am exiting a bad relationship

[@user-gc1lh2qi4k]

Great video read your book, ‘Boundries! Many years ago. I was excited when I found your channel!😊

[@shelleyannwalters2375]

This is really helpful, thank you.

[@Sal-yd6th]

I enjoyed that and it all makes sense now

[@123usok]

Thank you. 🙌🙌🙌

[@jane77722]

So right on!

[@user-dv9xt2fi2r]

Thank you so much!!!

[@DF-ju4cw]

Very good/interesting

[@martineblanchet-art3377]

(my question is hard to formulate since I'm french speaking) Is it possible that a baby feels rejected by his father through the emotions of her mother holding her. I mean, recently I had a « vision » like a remembrance (it would be a spiritual remembrance or kind of a revelation of what really happened), when I was a baby, my mom was holding me tenderly in a rocking chair and my father, coming back from work, just passed through the kitchen without looking at us. My mother had tears rolling down her cheeks as my father ignored us. In that vision, as I saw my mother's emotions I knew I experienced rejection. Important information : it took 2 weeks after I was born, before my father look at me. So that's why I'm asking if a baby can experience rejection through the empathy of her mother for her, if I can say it that way

[@annak29]

I am so sorry this was how your father regarded you. This question is so very insightful, and exactly how I felt when my kids were babies and toddlers. He wasn't interested because "they can't DO anything" -- yes, that's what he said often 😞😓😭😱🤯

[@martineblanchet-art3377]

@@annak29 Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts. That's why I think a baby can feel the same emotions that her mother experiences.

[@diannalynn907]

I think I really need help to be ok,

[@2rhythms]

Dr. cloud, why you look different. Have you had general check up?

[@fgbowen]

5:50 - Mine was a effing liar. 6:13 - this entire video, you are speaking Martian. I don't Recognize those words, and they Really hold no locality in my life. ONE HUNdred % clueless. 6:36 - me = clueless. Don't understand a Word You're SAYin.