My Son Picked the Wrong Fiancée | FULL EPISODE | Dr. Phil

Gayle claims her soon-to-be daughter-in-law, Hannah, is manipulative, immoral and disrespectful -- but she’s never even met her! Don’t miss what happens when Gayle and Hannah meet, and mother and son come face to face for the first time in three years! (From Dr. Phil Season 11)
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[@raziberry8043]

He should have stayed with the mother of his daughter. Dr. Phil is wrong here.

[@karlinsomers5360]

She quotes the commandments about them getting together, but her son having a child out of wedlock isn't sinful? She's spiteful and hateful.

[@TattooedLuna]

Yes and so therefore (if you go by her twisted logic) shouldn’t she have a lot of judgemental bible based things to think about her son and the baby mama?!

[@karlinsomers5360]

@@TattooedLuna exactly what I was thinking

[@cheetahtfk7274]

She's by far the biggest hypocrite I've ever seen.

[@felic86kaufmann57]

SHE spent last christmas with HIS Ex, her grandchild and HER new boyfriend. by her logic his Ex is cheating on him. but you hear not one word about that!

[@ddylitgrlww]

I said the same thing.

[@StevenTanner-oh2ef]

Mom needs to get a life. Stop trying to control her son’s life.

[@happydayz5321]

Mom needs a JOB !

[@daviesdavies538]

​@@happydayz5321 i was thinking this too. She needs a life of her own and even if she thinks Hannah is wrong for him, its not her business. And her husband needs to stand up to her. What is with these weak spouses? Willing to cut off their own child for a crazy woman

[@jeanvliet1742]

How is it a sin to date his friends girlfriend after they broke up, but she doesn't say anything about her son having a daughter out of wedlock?

[@scotties65]

Preach

[@martykirk7488]

It’s not a sin to date any one. And he’s free to marry anyone bc he’s never been married!!!

[@JennyClevers-en9ow]

Thank you!!

[@rcg1111]

​@@martykirk7488 you need to read scripture because what your lies will lead people to sin.

[@upjumpthedevil]

​@@rcg1111 people sin. It's a thing we do. Even you when you judged someone to be leading others to sin just then, you were sinning. We all live in glass houses, sir or madam.

[@thabsmkhize2481]

We seriously need a “where are they now?” Update on this family 😂

[@todds.6028]

I can pretty much guarantee you nothing was resolved. The mother is DUG IN, POT COMMITTED to her fundamentalist, judgmental southern baptist indoctrination. I seriously doubt that the 1000 mile trip (If that ever even happened) did a SHRED of good. Sad.

[@TheHairepotterfan]

I cam to say just that.

[@4SuperPark]

100% need an update now!!!

[@todds.6028]

@@4SuperPark They usually only do "updates" on success stories.

[@michellefrancis348]

I want the road trip footage!!!

[@audreym3777]

Wait, so her son knocked up his ex gf and she’s ok with that, but gets all Bible thumps about the new GF? What a judgy, angry little hypocrite this “lady” is!

[@eathomelive]

You are so spot on.

[@juneannbrusie2042]

just like most religious people

[@leshem4424]

Yes, my mother-in-law also was a Bible thumping. You know person literally told her kids straight out. I’m not leaving you anything all of my inheritance is going to the church who does that to their children and when they did pass away sadly my mother-in-law father-in-law and my father all passed away in one year Pandemic, they left my ex and his brother nothing and because they had moved out of state their sister who lived with her forever because she had her first baby at 16 which happens I understand that and I do not blame her for helping her daughter, but she’s not anymore. She is a grown adult as our her children, I mean her youngest daughter owns her own house her own car everything they are not dependent on her anymore, but she is now entitled to everything. I mean I’m not a huge fan of my ex but I don’t think he deserves that.

[@leshem4424]

Nor do my children who got basically nothing from her, my daughter wanted a two dollar notebook from Walmart to go back to school with because it had that like glitter sequins on the front that you run your hand back-and-forth on and it changes color and she wouldn’t buy it for her because then she would have to buy one for herother granddaughter so you can spend four dollars on them at Walmart when you’re both retired. Have plenty of money have no house or car payments no debt you can’t buy your two granddaughters a notebook that is what pushed me over the edge. That was the point I never spoke to them again.

[@Undomaranel]

​@@juneannbrusie2042 like most *unintelligent religious people. Fixed it for you. There are plenty of people from all religions that still practice faith while respecting other's beliefs and without interpreting things to suit them in the moment.

[@gailball4765]

I hate when people hide behind religion. That mother is a hypocrite. Actually, she is vile.

[@GypsyGirl317]

She is. She's cherry picking scriptures and circumstances to suit her own emotional whims. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@juliemiller2523]

is jealous of hanna-- thats what this is all about

[@amandalidey329]

I can't stand that either. It's definitely a horrible trait to have. She is absolutely hiding behind "religion." she's also judging as well. "Thall shall not judge"???

[@amandalidey329]

​@juliemiller2523 She wants him all to herself. Meaning in a momma boys way. Sick. She literally just said. Hannah has his Ex-Gf leftovers. Are u serious?? She is a nut job.

[@RC-og1dp]

Totally disagree. That smirk on that young woman’s face made me sick!

[@jac3271]

This mother is unwell. Completely twisting scripture to suit her neuroses

[@thomaslukowsky5121]

The mother is a classic narcissist. She has no personality disorder BUT she has a very strong narcissistic personality and finds all the excuses for her behavior and way of thinking. I don’t think she will ever change, unless her pastor tells her that it is god’s will to like her son’s fiancee. 😛 Seriously…she is the best example how religion and a narcissistic character can poison an actually decent person’s mind. Sad.

[@ClaireHarper-ke8dj]

Yes a narcissistic whacko 😂😮

[@kimstacy8203]

​@@thomaslukowsky5121100%

[@WendyP1965]

Beautifully said!​@@thomaslukowsky5121

[@xaratran]

She’s using scripture to re-parent her child.

[@LauraSummers-xp4ob]

Mommy also needs to remember that Grace is for everyone. She does not get to decide who is worth forgiving and who is not.

[@deborahlarsen4384]

Dr. Phil didn't make the mother look bad, she did that all by herself. She needs to be in therapy until she heals her heart and soul.

[@truthfirst2983]

Great points!

[@FabulousCucumber-ip9hu]

No because you can't fix a malignant narcissist

[@jerrystauffer2351]

You can't fix someone who doesn't know they're broken

[@FabulousCucumber-ip9hu]

@@jerrystauffer2351 yep. And malignant narcissists don't think they're broken. They think you are.

[@Somethinglikethat2023]

They are sadly better off without his mother.

[@ShanMarie513]

People who hide behind the Bible to throw their hatred around are the absolute worst kind of human.

[@Bruintjebeer6]

Yes you are right. They constantly rape bible text get it out of context to fit their narrative I had a very nice friend but her husband did it constantly and at the end I ended the friendship because I could not take it anymore It is a wicked way to be right.

[@Iuxlilfehealing]

Absolutely

[@Faeishly9]

And get upset when you call them out. 😒

[@theballisticchick5910]

My boss is like this. She's 85 and so judgemental. I've never thought of being disrespectful to my elders until I met her. I asked her if she ever realized that going to church doesn't make her a Christian anymore than standing in her garage would make her a car.

[@JudeCooper]

The Bible also talks about forgiveness. I don’t see that part of the mother’s repertoire of Christian values.

[@5kiana]

Mom isn't stopping to realize her son it's someone's "leftovers" also. 😂

[@RealStephenSaunders]

Well so is she if she and her husband “dated” other people before they were married..🤷‍♂️😂

[@mysinusesrkillingme3975]

Most of us are somebody else's leftovers 😂😂😂

[@bethweeks5943]

Great points!🎉

[@crazycuttee]

@@RealStephenSaundersFacts!!!!!😂😂😂

[@bronwentillman8385]

​@@RealStephenSaunders hubby is leftover, too!

[@LeadMeEverlasting]

This is all the dads fault. He should’ve put his wife in her place LONG ago. 😂

[@robertfeightner5354]

yup, he needs to put on his big boy pants on and man up

[@hellowendy1029]

You're right. He thinks that honoring his wife means blindly going along with whatever she says.

[@ohiogma]

💯 correct

[@chamboyette853]

What a sexist remark. As if he is responsible for his wife's actions.

[@LeadMeEverlasting]

@@chamboyette853 no but as a “Christian” man he should lead his wife with love and wisdom. I just know my husband would have told me I was wrong long ago. As spouses we need to help each other see when we are blinded.

[@AkitaLover1013]

I would RUN from these parents and never see them again! This mother is absolutely overbearing and ridiculous!

[@socrates123ish]

This poor woman is so obviously troubled.. She needs the right type of support.. Good luck to you Dr Phil, you have a tough job..

[@charlesphilhower1452]

Unfortunately there is a child involved.

[@carolynhummel4791]

I wouldn’t say parents. I think the father would be more than happy to have her in the family…

[@littleme3597]

@@charlesphilhower1452 And there may be more with Hannah and her son. Then what? Mom won't see those grand kids? She isn't thinking straight.

[@shalayne9054]

I so would not marry him. I'd run. Horrible start.

[@andreajones886]

she takes DELUSIONAL to a whole 'nother level,child! just WATCHING this is EXHAUSTING!!!!!😤🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💯

[@lindalitschi2476]

Exhausting!!!¡

[@pandabear7177]

“I’m not that person!!!” Lady, you are this person.

[@jessicam4072]

Absolutely she is that person! She is awful

[@esthergordier9069]

Who are you?​@@jessicam4072

[@ellenmashburn6837]

Mother wants Ryan to be with his ex. Biblically she is off on the scripture she is using. Coveting is not what's going on. She listens to hearsay. Ryan sounds like he has bad feelings with his ex and his daughter reminds him of the ex. Mom is really in denial.

[@eh-i1841]

She’s a poster girl for that person.She’s frightful.

[@lyndseybeaumont7301]

I’m a Christian, but it never fails to surprise me how a lot of Christians can turn Gods word around to suit themselves and get all their own way. His mother has to dictate the rules to the very end. “Can I take my husband?” I’m not sure she is worth bothering about and when she meets her maker, I’m not sure He will want to either, just for her unchristian like behaviour. Isn’t forgiveness what our Lord preaches over everything? Giving others a chance to prove themselves. This woman has no mercy in her heart.

[@louisestevenson5102]

Some people can act so rightious it's upsetting

[@kathymunsee6468]

The mom's a narcissist. She isn't ever wrong.

[@jacquiamerritt4278]

And knows EVERYTHING about EVERYTHING

[@SheConquer]

My thought exactly

[@lynnes5561]

Because she is a narc that's who they are

[@lynnes5561]

The Son chose. Not the mother, leave him alone to his choices, more AS FAR AWAY AS YOU CAN SON

[@glai5752]

@@lynnes5561I don’t believe you meant that my dear. He has to stay close to his daughter. Period.

[@angelawade1445]

They need to get married and keep their boundaries high. That mother is jealous, pure and simple. The mother will never change. Narcissist.

[@BabyLettuce70]

Yes, agreed. She shouldn't be around the child either. She's going to poison the kid and the ex gf will help her do it.

[@MarneeKling]

@@BabyLettuce70

[@danielforrest6413]

Mom is a Karen

[@danielforrest6413]

Mom is a Karen, I would like to know what religion.

[@QBMoroccanT]

She is the poison.☠️

[@gingerpenley949]

This mother is giving me such a headache...Could not be in a room with that viper.

[@stephaniechaffin1154]

If I were Ryan I would be done with the mother and never talk to her again, even if Hannah and he didn't work out. She's a C word.

[@dlv9546]

I am a Christian , have been for forty plus years, I’m 68. I am so so very sick of religious people using the Holy Scriptures to validate their hatred. I have a feeling, if she were there with Jesus and He asked who without sin would throw the first stone, she would have stepped up and thrown the biggest rock she could find.

[@janelcottrell838]

Same thing that maga does

[@dystanysam9896]

I am a Christian , also you can tell that the wife isn't a Christian as she claims to be I can't when people do this using the , Bible as a weapon I do believed their is demon holding her back .

[@NourKLI]

As a Muslim I agree. It’s makes me sick! Whatever scriptures they use , it makes me very unwell. She is deluded.

[@anjab6266]

Amen

[@valorieb5297]

I am a Christian and 69 years old. My feelings exactly.

[@sharrone32]

The mother isn't saying nothing about her son having one night stands, wheres her morality on that, she's a hypercrite

[@beautymellz5600]

She did say that's not how she raised him

[@olga9067]

Something is seriously wrong with this woman.

[@nataliescott2261]

Can no longer control her son so acts out

[@doreenchen1024]

​@@nataliescott2261exactly

[@lillianoldham5789]

This mother is unbelievable!!! She needs to go to a bible class taught by a certified theologian! She is also a judgmental hypocrite! Momma GROW UP AND BE A MATURE PARENT!

[@melanieoakley6160]

She's hurt...hurt people hurt people.

[@chrisadams3871]

Can’t even tolerate this woman’s voice.

[@hellowendy1029]

Imagine living with that 24/7 lol

[@aileenj8180]

​@@hellowendy1029🤣🤣

[@luvvru]

This mother is so embarrassing, my goodness 😂

[@roseotterdavidson]

This mother is absolutely nuts. Talk about judgmental!

[@GypsyGirl317]

Totally agree! 💯

[@theresaterry164]

I think the girlfriend is just like the Mom, if not meaner. How dare she call that little girl fat. That will be a witch of a stepmother

[@uhhggg9335]

@@theresaterry164 no she won’t. You’re just like his mother, though I guarantee you the only reason you like your daughter-in-law is because they stay away from you

[@theresaterry164]

@@uhhggg9335 oh look…. A know it all that knows nothing! You sound pretty damn miserable.

[@nadiabrstak5646]

@@roseotterdavidson Yes! She takes the term "Nutter" up to a whole different level

[@shyguyms]

The lady needs mental help!! and if her husband is okay losing his son by playing along with her... he is just as bad

[@junewalsh8640]

This woman is crazy. I hope Ryan and Hannah have a beautiful life together and make wonderful babies.

[@annieconway8998]

What a horrible, bigot of a mother!

[@pastryshack551]

How is she a bigot, none of these people are black. I have some thoughts about this mothers thoughts. Why? Because he took his friends girlfriend. I this she is not going to stay with him anyway, she is going to leave him down the road. She is a strong will person you can see who she is by the way she yells off.. I agree with his mother, she is a very yelling woman

[@pastryshack551]

I am glad he shut her up she is going to marry him just to get back at the mother. But I see trouble double the road

[@SuperKavin11]

@@pastryshack551bigot doesn’t necessarily have to do with black or white. Just someone who has different beliefs

[@papi4805]

​@pastryshack551 Please look up the actual definition of bigot.

[@pastryshack551]

@@papi4805 people are changing things as they go along, so nothing is new

[@C0ntentC0w]

What a nightmare of a woman. You know she's cried her way out of everything her whole life.

[@Vargas1900]

Just what Karens´ do

[@frosty-v9t]

I hate to say it but I have a terrible mean and vindictive daughter in law.

[@someone3187]

Yes, it's so annoying. When she doesn't get what she wants she plays the victim.

[@vickitrotter3404]

I cannot stand her. I cannot stand that whiny voice of hers.

[@mawmawvee]

@@frosty-v9t Then why did you say it?

[@peggypeggy4137]

Maybe there are many reasons why the father's family didn't like this woman after they got married. She is toxic. The father is losing valuable time placating this vile woman.

[@mawmawvee]

He's either given up, or could it be that he really loves her AND his son?

[@user-hd9vf8iv6z]

That woman is nuts. She truly thinks that people were manipulated to think she’s the bad guy. No honey you did that all on your own.

[@louise2938]

This is like watching Edith Bunkers voice with Archie’s attitude.🤣

[@catherine8638]

If I had to listen to that woman’s voice all day I’d shoot myself. She’s a real hypocrite with her Bible. 😂

[@michelleharper2940]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@danrumble74]

🎶 and we knew what we were then! 🎶

[@susanjohnson6276]

Well said!!

[@nanaberry4120]

😅perfect!

[@soniadasilva2252]

The mum don't want her son's happiness. Is a shame..

[@Lauren_1987]

The mother has never met Hannah but she despises Hannah. WTF is wrong with this psycho, jealous, crazy mother!

[@jellyfishattack]

The mother is a textbook narcissist.

[@raskdog]

religion

[@yourdarkestfears1134]

Jealous

[@candacekesting1786]

why isn't the scripture driven mother against the mother of the grandchild for having her outside of wedlock??

[@lynnloww]

Clearly there’s a reason honey.

[@louiseerlacher5729]

I have a son in law I am not particularly happy about, but he loves my daughter and she loves him and they care for each other. My job is to be her mother and love and support all the choices she makes. We have a super relationship and following that I have a super relationship with my grandchildren.. I don't understand how parents can cut away their own children like this.

[@heebadeeba7279]

Why don’t you like him?

[@FlexAppeal839]

The mother is a Wacko cuckoo bird, and the most selfish person I’ve ever seen

[@nadiabrstak5646]

😅

[@RileyCrisostomo-fs6ew]

A wacko cuckoo bird! Lulz

[@noreennoonan160]

Horrible beyond belief.the son is no better to his Child.

[@IreneDingey]

Nut case!

[@lindakiggins7255]

By this woman's own standard wasn't the relationship with the ex based on sin? They weren't married, slept together and had a child out of wedlock. What a hypercrite.

[@dianaobrien463]

My thoughts exactly

[@catherine7287]

Yep! 💯

[@notyourordinarygran]

Also it was okay for him to have one nighters.

[@sherrygaskins3690]

I was coming here to say the exact same thing.

[@TheSfenn]

@@lindakiggins7255 I think she thought he should marry her. Something many Christians still. believe. I think he thought it would be better for her granddaughter. I agree with her that some of the things these two did for disciple were borderline abusive. She probably knew the friend that helped him pick out his ring for his ex. And the woman was also the ex’s friend. I am sure they were hurt and she got to see that too. It is a very small town. But listening to the woman talk about how the child never did whatever it was they made her clean the toilets for again then shooting him a look when he said they never did was interesting. 🤨

[@JeanetteSullivan1]

She thinks it's ungodly to date a woman who was going with his friend but it's okay for him to live with a woman he's not married to and father a child with a woman he's not married to? Give it up woman! He's a grown man!

[@mawmawvee]

Grown man??? That's debatable.

[@lindalitschi2476]

Even sayan can quoye the whole bible, satan quoted the bbible to Christ but he quoted wrong!!!

[@mawmawvee]

@@lindalitschi2476 True that.

[@VictoriaWalters-g6q]

I’m so glade to see a guy stand up for his wife over his Mom.

[@BrandyWilliams24]

Dr Phil hit the nail on the head! She is absolutely 100% against this lady because she's been hoping him and his baby mama would get that together. That's the only reason she despises her.

[@wonipowa7542]

Yea her reaction is all about ME ME ME ME (SHE likes the ex girlfriend. SHE loves the grand daughter...) she just wants her son to marry the woman who mothered his child and doesn't care how he feels or thinks about it and to heck with any woman he's with.

[@BrandyWilliams24]

@@wonipowa7542 you're exactly right! She is a very very controlling and selfish woman and I love how upset she was getting when everybody was reacting to the fact that she was! I'm not that kind of woman blah blah blah yeah you are lady 😂

[@socorropainter4472]

I just hope this Hanna is not mean with the little girl. What happened to my grandson , his father Never believe what her new wife did to him . He is a grown up fine young man and still Remember it ..

[@pataccardo7242]

😂

[@BrandyWilliams24]

@@socorropainter4472 I'm actually glad you brought that up because the way she said she's just like her mother..... Big... I kind of felt a slight bit of resentment towards the child. Hopefully they treat her better than what they were because pouring water on your child's head and making them run laps in front of everybody at their school is not discipline that's straight up bullying and nasty! I am a complete believer and disciplining your children but there is limits

[@Zero-gh9lp]

Blows my mind that they are willing to stop talking to their son over objecting to a woman they never even met.

[@robinmccoy4671]

The son gave the ultimatum to his parents.

[@PeaceNLove777]

But continued talking to him after he fornicated and created a child in SIN...Literally

[@mawmawvee]

It happens.

[@rasbypowell8529]

That is an example of what turns so many people completely off of religion. When people make up their own interpretations and then judge people they've never met, it doesn't appear to be very "Christian like." That woman needs to get over herself and stop thinking she is god.

[@terricunningham6810]

you are so right about her. my thought is we all need Jesus and that includes her.

[@CanMoose]

Yes..I've seen and known many hypocrites in my time..she is definitely one of them.

[@amandalidey329]

I soo agree with u. People who bring religion into everything most of the time aren't following "gods footsteps." She's very judgemental and has lied many times. I can't when people hide behind religion. She definitely did the entire show.

[@amandalidey329]

​@@CanMoose She is definitely a hypocrite.

[@PrinceOnYT5]

You do know that non-religious people can be judgemental too, right? Please tell me you don't think that's just a "religious" thing.

[@Jerzey4]

His mother is so dramatic. Phil, you're getting off topic. His mother is the problem. I'm on Hannah side.

[@MSANTHR0P3]

So having a child out of wedlock is ok, lol?

[@JS-ps6cb]

😂 exactly

[@mawmawvee]

@@JS-ps6cb It's not fair to the child, ever.

[@nadiabrstak5646]

Yes it is..What's worse is marrying because of pregnancy and then divorcing..so much divorce...

[@MSANTHR0P3]

@@nadiabrstak5646 the comment is because she's harpibg on dating his friend's ex girlfriend is a sin which makes her a bad, but her son having a child out of wedlock is ok? Seems to me the baby momma is more a sinner than his current fiancé

[@mawmawvee]

@@MSANTHR0P3 Children deserve better.

[@marsd6139]

"You're making me look crazy!" LOL babe you did that all on your own

[@candacem6932]

That mom is absolutely toxic.

[@3derevo3]

She’s just stupid to the enth degree. All of her behavior stems from that. No hope for her

[@danielleray394]

She is a horrible selfish woman

[@tikasinaga1284]

No, She's just a mom

[@helendon5625]

@@tikasinaga1284 A toxic mum

[@DollyDimple1971]

She is mentally unstable

[@tracimiller3702]

So... she's projecting her anger for her son not marrying the girl that he knocked up onto the girl that he wants to be with. What the heck is she going to do when they have her second grandchild?!?!

[@sandrinesalameh558]

1- having a child without marriage is consider a sin 2- being mean to other people is a sin 3- not having a good in heart is a sin 4- sleeping with random women is considered a sin. 5- being judgmental is a sin So what religion is she talking about🤦‍♀️

[@sallya.rhodes8592]

It's also that individuals choice. Just because you have a baby doesn't mean you should stay together if you don't love each other.

[@queenb7899]

True but not when it comes to religion and the mother in law is so called "religious" but yet she's mean and super judgemental, which both are sins. I think this whole family has major issues because making a 7 year old run laps and pouring water on a child as punishment is pretty cruel. They are setting her up to have a eating disorder and eating chocolate disorders can go two ways. You either over eat or under eat and neither are good.

[@sweetroxy420]

Exactly. He has a 7 yr old with no marriage. Lmao. She's just being a c word. Sorry not sorry I judged her. Hahahahaaaaaa😂

[@cindyslater7431]

Jehovah witness.

[@ysteinberg6482]

LOL

[@AHKDM]

What a controlling mother. I hate that she´s hiding behind the scriptures. She´s a hypocrite and an awful mom.

[@mawmawvee]

She is very misguided.

[@jezebelrebel250]

She's a narcissist

[@donnalages6114]

I don't believe she's an awful mom because her son seems like a good person and keep in mind that she had a hand in raising him. But I do believe she is an absolute hypocrite

[@EMMMDs]

@@AHKDM 😮 Wow. She just may be a self righteous hypocrite, as we ALL are (@ least much of the time), not that most ppl would ever admit it, but we are, too. The truth is we have little to NO evidence that she's "an awful mom". It's an hour long show focused on a specific topic, which is the parents refusal to accept their son's fiance. We're missing the majority of the pieces. Idt u, & definitely not me, would wanna be accused & convicted of anything based on mere hearsay, feelings, & or assumption(s). We'd want as much evidence as could be collected to defend ourselves. I would, anyway.

[@Mia-yx5gf]

“ This whole situation is being turned around on me to make me look like the bad person.” What I’m hearing is, “ I can no longer manipulate my son through scripture and I’m mad about it.”

[@someone3187]

Or: "The audience isn't on my side and I can't stand it. I'm gonna start crying to try to get them feel sorry for me and make them understand that I'm the victim here"

[@EnemyAce88]

She was so sure that she'd be able to get her way by throwing a fit the way she always does at home. It didn't work on Dr. Phil like it does on her beta husband and she's furious.

[@jessicam4072]

Yessss!!!!

[@bokesnmokes]

That mother in law is so goofy. Ryan and Hannah are better off without that nutcase involved in their life.

[@lom5944]

What amazes me is the mother didn't disown the ex and her son for having a child out of wedlock. That's if she is as religious as she claims.

[@watermelonlover745]

She wants him to be with the ex

[@douglasharris1674]

With that much hate in her heart I doubt. Her salvation. She is living in the old T.she is supposed to be forgiving both of them if they did wrong and let God do the judging and enjoy your grandchildren when they get here 😅 ​

[@dylankrank]

Anger, bitterness, pride are all sins. Pride tops the list of deadly sins.

[@fabiwilliams4644]

So is judgement which is probably worse than all the rest

[@bridgetlyons876]

Well said during Pride month. I agree.

[@gamingscapefamily1290]

The mother is correct but not prepared for this how to handel the situation. She is right about the ten commandments that he should not take his neighbors wife, car or motorcycle. Because that is stealing. If her son took his friends ex then in the future this curse repeat it self. The woman is bad influence to their sons and their grand daughters life. Solution is not by being away from son but near to them and expose the evil rescue your son. You don't leave your son in darkness ,heartless even to his daughter ufff. It is irritating ..

[@karens.strickland9634]

Gossiping is a big one with God.

[@amya9597]

Mom is on the crazy train. A narcissist who only cares about what people think of them and is always the victim.

[@_Laura.Marie_Sierra.Destiny_]

How is he only 27? That’s crazy. Also that mom is jealous and it’s weird, and freaking me out.

[@MoMsie.]

Mind your own business Mother. Your son is an adult and you have no say.

[@JS-ps6cb]

Exactly!!!

[@Elizabeth-dw6lc]

@MoMsie...You clearly are not close to your family.

[@ArranVid]

No that's not how it works. Parents are allowed to interfere in the lives of their kids, even when the kids are adults. I'm not saying that the mum here did the right thing though. For example, if your adult daughter starts stripping and doing drugs and alcohol and starts doing a pornography career that is risky to her health, then the parents have the right to protect her and stop her from going down a dark road...even if the daughter is an adult.

[@SB-000]

This woman is crazy.She wants to contol her grown son.

[@pilarbt2665]

Not really

[@theresahaire9660]

Your son knocked up another girl and didn’t marry her so the relationship with the new fiancée is the least of his sinful choices. But mom needs to read her Bible because she is off her rocker

[@funwithjaxonriggs5730]

I agree. What morals did he have while getting a girl pregnant out of wedlock!?

[@robinmccoy4671]

​@@funwithjaxonriggs5730Fairly certain his ex had a part in that pregnancy! Trust me, he didn't do it all by himself!

[@caitneedham]

The mother is in for a huge awakening. She’s wrong on all counts.

[@heathermarkwell7286]

I find it funny the mom isn't upset about her grandchild being born out of wedlock

[@watermelonlover745]

The Mom is doing this because she's afraid the ex will take her grandkids away

[@bettymermaid8346]

Wedlock ha ha another Bible belt mentality. Get real its 2024, Get out of your bubble. Buy some magazines and read something about the world outside.

[@sasakhawlhring228]

Being upset about a grandchild's existence is not an option for a loving grandparent, actually. She hated the woman, I do too just by watching her now. But she's dramatic about it or did the son drag them to this show. That couple didn't sit right with me. Idk

[@jennyd5364]

I'm betting she didn't even like the ex until after they broke up. It sounds like they didn't have this relationship with her until after he was with someone else.

[@rue2003]

She wanted him to reconcile and marry the mother of his child, but it won't work

[@kathymunsee6468]

Moms a narcissist. She is wrong wrong wrong. Forgive. Hannah hasn't done anything to the mom but make her son happy. The mom wants to DICRATE HOW EVERYONE SHOULD ACT. ACCORDING TO RYAN'S MOM,she's perfect & everyone else needs to tow the line.

[@rcg1111]

She's actually not - she is more focused on her granddaughters welfare than her father.

[@theabaremans]

​@@rcg1111you're funny 😂😂😂

[@mawmawvee]

I think he's going to marry a younger form of his own mother. He isn't very strong as a man.

[@Deenaguerr]

I don't think the mom has NPD at all. Ironically, Hannah or his ex would fit the bill a lot more. Perhaps even the son. Hannah seems to be shallow, and has a terrible mean-streak (take note of the comment about weight). The ex seems to be manipulative and charming. The mom on the other hand, seems to have no critical thinking skills, some sort of mental health issue, and has very poor boundaries.

[@KM77413]

She’s not a narcissist. She’s wrong but she’s not a narcissist. That diagnosis is thrown around way too loosely.

[@georginashaw8768]

That mother is absolutely bonkers. Wishing Ryan and Hannah all the very best.

[@bo2720]

I wish them all the best too! But if it was me? Him or her, they need to cut off all contact with the parents. I would never go on tv with this tarnation either!😂

[@dizzlechazzle154]

Gary didn’t say a word. Scared of the telling off he’ll get from his wife when he gets home

[@aeromedical6776]

@@dizzlechazzle154- she keeps his family jewels in a jar on top of the fridge. He has to ask permission to take them out and that’s only for special occasions.

[@GillianMcGeorge-Cruikshank]

​@@dizzlechazzle154My husbands ex wife has her new husband whipped. When we were dating my husband was still expected to buy his ex birthday and Christmas gifts. His ex dumped him after 24 years of marriage. She met someone else online. Was able to get her marriage annulled so she could get remarried in the Catholic church. His ex also turned the children against their father. Moved 3 hours away and stopped meeting in the middle for pick up and drop off. Some woman are so controlling and manipulating.

[@Lyndsay202]

She really is. I hope he gets his fiancé and future children away from her

[@inventorylady53]

What does the Bible say about it's moral stance on having a child out of wedlock ? Her son and his ex were not married when they had her granddaughter. Does she not see that as a sin. ?

[@granny334]

A Christian would never behave like this mother. Good mothers are peacemakers. They do all they can to help family members get along.

[@chelseaxu2323]

A good mother would do what is the right for their children, for the benefits of their children!

[@karens.denson7902]

Agree...we raise our children and when they are adults they answer for how they raise their children...our responsibility is love unconditionally.

[@maurien655]

Dr Phil knows the Bible, he didn't use because the problem is not she being Christian or not, she is blind and using one phrase to twist as she wants

[@2023GR]

Exactly! She is a hypocrite hiding her insecurities behind religion! Sad

[@bethperrin4649]

Mum has issues

[@veritgo56]

MOM IS A DRAMA QUEEN

[@GC2024_]

That's way to kind 😅

[@BlackStump172]

She is of below average intelligence. Imagine having her on a jury .

[@coraldell3091]

​@@GC2024_😂😂

[@sherrylstratford5115]

Not only a drama queen but somebody to avoid at all costs.

[@pilarbt2665]

New girlfriend is not very nice either

[@lynnette7869]

Son, grab your girl, pack your belongings and move far, far away from that woman, and never look back. Create a life of your own and be happy!!

[@laurieg2436]

Amen!!

[@FavoritesPersonal]

Unfortunately there’s a 7 yo child with the ex. The child’s best interests come first. The child needs her father nearby and involved in her life.

[@ceceliakirchner970]

She's so stuffed up. Leave the Bible out of your mouth. Judging ppl is your problem!!!! Dr Phil you'll never get through to this peanut brain woman

[@ceceliakirchner970]

If she really wants to talk Bible what about leaving the man's parents and take care of his own family

[@suzziezhills]

@@FavoritesPersonal men need to wear raincoats in EVERY kind of weather!

[@Elizabeth-dw6lc]

I have been married for 25 years and my spouse and I abide by a rule we heard on Dr. Phil years ago. If issues arise in our families, then I deal with my family and he deals with his. It actually works out great. The son should be stepping forward and his girlfriend needs to be silent. She also needs to be silent when talking about his daughter. His daughter has a mother.

[@automaticnostatic2148]

Dudes mom is a total KAREN!

[@Vargas1900]

I was looking for this comment

[@carlintaylor3229]

Already seen this one can't stand people that wanna use the bible to hate on people and then wanna call themselves Christians just because you go around throwing bible verses in people's faces doesn't make you any better the mom is beyond annoying let your son move on and mind your own business lady

[@Deltadoll1987]

PREACH😂😂

[@meanlene4823]

Yup! Satan comes in sheep clothing too!

[@rcg1111]

Jesus would have admonished the behaviour of this man and tried to lead him away from sin. Love is trying to lead people to salvation, not telling them what they want to hear because it is more comfortable for you.

[@SueProv]

​@@rcg1111 When Jesus told the woman caught in adultery. Go and sin no more but He gave her free will to make her own decision. Why is this guys mother more important than God.

[@mawmawvee]

@@meanlene4823 Or an angel of light, even.

[@carolemayer6467]

Dr. Phil U got it right!! She wants her son bk with his ex!! Her perfect family!! I have 1 son and he has an ex with a child!! I never trusted her or liked her!! It didn't work out but I gave her respect and treated her nice!! I would NEVER! give up my son!!! I'd crawl n the dirt and do watever it took to get along!! That woman is soooooo silly!!!

[@havingafloat]

The mother's husband is the most patient, lovely man... and Dr Phil threw him into the den at the end. Poor guy, I hope he has good headphones...

[@lynndeschambault1067]

Never commented on here before. I would bite my tongue in half before I said anything derogatory about my son's chosen no matter what I felt. Now he is divorced & I still try to not say bad things because she is the mother of my grandchildren.

[@juliearvizu3276]

Well said and this demonstrates your character which is exemplary and you also demonstrated what a great mom you are

[@Sunnivah13]

Very good. As a mother should. You aren't there to take the decisions for them, but to be there for them and taking their hand as they are making their decisions themselves

[@MartialArtsCat101]

You are a model parent and a good person, more moms should be like you

[@cookla3050]

These parents are out of line Marry the woman you love. Move away stay away. Your Mother is WRONG.

[@barbarafink6823]

Why has Phil not called for the guys with the white jackets. This women is a total whack jobs.

[@magnellah]

This is what children with narcissistic mothers have to go through. Her first and primary worry was being perceived by the audience as a ‘bad person’.. “it matters to me how I come across “, NOT the relationship with her son. Her second worry was that she “raised her son in a godly home” and he doesn’t share the same morals as her. Instead of diverging into his own person deciding his own morals, she wants him to be a replica of her and if he doesn’t carry all her morals then it’s a personal attack. This woman is the definition of victim mentality and needs therapy or risks losing her son forever. Saddest part is the complete lack of awareness of her behaviour.

[@shawnahathaway4762]

You're not wrong.

[@kissyboots59831]

He has a kid and isnt married. Junior ain't so innocent, Mom.

[@aeromedical6776]

Junior is dating way above his pay grade. His parents should be thankful he could land her.

[@mattysheehan9786]

Thought it was weird until I learned that there was a kid involved lol

[@miloruby8259]

This mother is a crazy hidden cult leader!

[@mooliparsnip9264]

Nobody 'makes' this woman look bad, she does that all by herself. She cared more about what an audience full of strangers thought about her than focusing on reconciliation with her son. She doesn't need a road trip, she needs serious therapy.

[@No-sv6mu]

I would NEVER forgive my spouse for acting like this and alienating our children from us. Honestly, I would probably get a divorce so I could still be in my adult children lives

[@mawmawvee]

How would that be helping anything?

[@robertclemons911]

Hypocrites speak like fools...

[@bobrange4773]

What a Grade-A Looney Tune.

[@munaomer8597]

This mother is ruining her relationship with her son and she does not see it. Very sad. If he is happy , why ruin it for him? He is 27 years old . Stop running his life . Wow .

[@NorseSaxon]

The only reason the mother does not like the future daughter I las is because she is the only one who has ever stood up to her and called her out for her BS.

[@gottogoalltheway]

The gf and the mother are a lot alike 🤪

[@SuperOrgandonor]

@@gottogoalltheway , that's not fair.

[@gottogoalltheway]

​@@SuperOrgandonorWhat's not fare?

[@inkdreams4]

This mother is the REASON why so many people think Christians are hypocritical!! Ugh, she has completely distorted Gods Word to try to justify her UNFORGIVING heart, which is a SIN m’am !! When you need forgiveness, the Lord will not forgive you if you harbor unforgiveness for others. It is a stronghold from the Enemy that you are battling with and that is hurting your family. What have you gained? Nothing compared to what you have lost 😢 I hope you wake up and ask Jesus to renew your heart, start by praying a little everyday for Hannah because your son loves her.

[@Lyndsay202]

Amen.

[@girlee0303]

That mom is off her rocker. She doesn’t know what the Bible really means at all and she is judging Hannah when she should be looking in the mirror so shameful, toxic narcissistic behavior for somebody so old and unstable

[@byronwaite2824]

This women is absolutely nuts

[@elizabemagnaye1874]

What a cruel mother to take away all his belongings and renemberances from childhood .

[@Sophie2570]

My mom used to do the same thing to me when I was little. When she was angry at me, she would gather all my drawings or gifts I made her, put them in a bag, and give them back to me. Eventually, she would take them back. As I grew older, I got tired of her emotional hot potato, so the last time she gave them back, I just threw it all out.

[@robinmccoy4671]

If you listened, he came home got his mail, and said if they can't accept Hannah, he's done with them.

[@danakrupicka641]

Poor poor husband, poor poor son!!! POOR girl for getting herself attached to this mess!!!

[@hoopaholicstickum]

Mom is one wicked woman… “do unto others as you would have them do unto you”!!! She can’t even live by the rules she quotes…. OMG…

[@juliaknight6544]

If my mother acted like that and didn’t speak to me, I would be thankful she didn’t talk to me. She’s a horrible, horrible person. I’m a Christian and some people get caught up in this stupid stuff. He has no cast the first stone.

[@Itsgrebel]

Why is no one pointing out that the ex she loves so much had a child out of wedlock, isn’t that a sin? 😂

[@DianneFurey-fh6ju]

Let me point out that the ex didn't have that child out of wedlock all by herself! It takes two to tango. I respect her decision to not abort the child. Always the woman being blamed. What generation are you?

[@trinity2179]

@@DianneFurey-fh6juare you stupid or is this a bit?

[@ptarchives]

​@@DianneFurey-fh6ju yes . Their son is the problem 😂 not the woman in his life . Doesn't he have his own mind 😂

[@someone3187]

The whole point is that she was hoping they would get married and make this right.

[@bettymermaid8346]

How closed minded you are. I bet you go around in frilly little aprons bending backwards for a man. Wedlock was used 100 years ago. Get a life. Go visit Europe or Japan. See how other people live outside of your bubble

[@robyn9513]

That mother is a true narcissist! I can tell her husband feels embarrassed!

[@flp376]

This woman is delusional. I think the new girl and the baby momma needs to get together and create a pack to ensure the child is okay. Let the mother in law do whatever she wants.

[@ChrisAndCats]

The new girl was derogatory to the child!

[@Francine1117]

I have been married for 40 years! My husband’s parents have never accepted me as their daughter in law. I want to encourage Hannah to press on and stand firm. Ryan’s parents minds have been already made up.(case closed) Its time to set boundaries. It’s their loss, not yours!

[@quiltqueentoo8312]

I divorced my in-laws after 26 years. Kept hubs.

[@lisae6725]

Had the same situation with my first marriage. His parents did nothing but put me down and tell lies about me and my husband wouldn’t or couldn’t stand up for me. I had enough of their alcoholic abuse and left. I wish I would’ve been smart enough to realize that before we got married.

[@juleeteodorovic311]

Seeing a mother like this makes me so grateful for my mother!

[@SuperGigi06]

I just think how lucky to have my mom

[@mysticseraph2213]

Oh my goodness, I totally agree! If I had the unfortunate luck to have this woman as my mother, I'd go no contact as well. She's just reprehensible

[@lillyvaughn5398]

Me too! And my future mother in law!

[@YUNGXR1ST]

She believes there is only one right girl for him; and that’s herself. She’s just controlling

[@BelievingRebel]

So it wasn’t immoral that he fathered a child out wedlock, but it is immoral that Hannah who used to date his best friend? Mama is crazy as crowder peas.

[@gamingscapefamily1290]

The mother is correct but not prepared for this how to handel the situation. She is right about the ten commandments that he should not take his neighbors wife, car or motorcycle. Because that is stealing. If her son took his friends ex then in the future this curse repeat it self in their sons life. The woman is bad influence to their sons and their grand daughters life. Solution is not by being away from son but near to them and expose the evil rescue your son. You don't leave your son in darkness ,heartless even to his daughter ufff. It is irritating ..

[@RebeccaEdwards-pt4or]

She's so "religiously moral" then how come she doesn't have a problem with her son having a child out of wedlock? 😂 lady you need to get right with Jesus! I'll be praying for you...

[@normacolon9618]

Because they all figured the baby momma would clear their sin by marrying son, thr6 all thought marriage wouldbhapoenm tget ahoyksce alloqedbhim having different girls at somw point he was goung to impregnate one of them. She shoykdvevatarted her morality aoobwr with her son ans gurlfriends alao. Also girlfriend should off stood away from the frienship especially if she knew her girlfriend was pregnant.

[@bekahdoug5572]

I was WAITING for Dr. Phil to bring this up!!

[@juanitajepson689]

​Damn, that was hard to understand. Need spell check!

[@paulbrown6464]

She only seems to know just the one commandment and nothing else

[@Atonewithnature01]

The mother is a narcissist and I bet that husband is suffering in their household.

[@dianeandries1331]

Why does the husband not interfere or say something?

[@ceceliakirchner970]

@@Atonewithnature01 💯