Honeymoon Hangover | FULL EPISODE | Dr. Phil

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[@Gothiclovesick]

She made him quit college. She made him sell his horses. This woman is so insecure. Its quite sad.

[@janet5846]

Can you imagine the uproar if a man did this to woman? Curfew and bed time?! He'd probably be arrested for abuse

[@masellosethusha4947]

@@Gothiclovesick she's just a spoiled selfish brat

[@travisreed4070]

​@janet5846 that's the damn truth

[@jordanbarker3854]

@@janet5846 sexist

[@jordanbarker3854]

@@travisreed4070 sexist

[@Morelove4ever8]

People should have friendships and hobbies outside of their spouse. No person should meet all of your needs. She sounds codependent.

[@cheyennasandlin8840]

I think she is the very definition of codependent

[@standdownrobots_ihaveoldglory]

Honestly, she also sounds extremely abusive. Her giggly demeanor seems to be a tool to keep her “sweety” mask in place. This is why I can’t stand young “traditional” women, in her case, it’s a ploy to have no financial responsibility & maintain complete control. She’s a whole level of selfish above even the “I’m the provider, I’m the boss” spouse, which tells me she is capable of extreme violence, likely psychological.

[@angela3196]

I'd never ever get rid of my pets for anyone! Never!! Period!

[@SarahSherman-di7ku]

Same. My boyfriend had to adapt

[@SuperGigi06]

The same would never get rid of my cat

[@nutellabrot9047]

OMG I Love my dog so much

[@perfectlyimperfect9129]

@@angela3196 Same here!!

[@jacquiclarke8069]

Never marry a person who didn't love animals. Poor guy.

[@nikkid4890]

How can she possibly love him and simultaneously strip him of everything he loves?

[@vivs3189]

exactly!!

[@SarahSherman-di7ku]

Bingo

[@tessmurphy1367]

How can he let her

[@_Laura.Marie_Sierra.Destiny_]

Cuz she loves herself and her needs more. Pathetic.

[@mssophiad03]

@@nikkid4890 exactly that’s not love. You love someone you want them to be happy and you love what makes them, them!

[@nancysteen9111]

Jeremy, RUN, RUN, RUN!! You married a child

[@cheryleaston6820]

She really has no friends and expected him to fill all her needs.

[@reynaolvera7526]

Scary. She kinda scares me. Psychotic behavior.

[@Onxy1976]

She has no friends for a reason...she is so obnoxious and just unlikeable!

[@thefutureisnow7300]

I think she wanted the marriage, expecting him to fulfill every one of her needs. She never learned how to be an independent adult. Probably a spoiled, rotten daddy’s girl they got everything she ever wanted.

[@erikbkugel1]

She is soooooo selfish, egocentric, and he is a 100% pushover. Buddy, cut your losses and runnnnnnn!!!!

[@KC1up]

Why are they giggling? This is weird. She is throwing red flags all over the place. I hope the 1st guy got out of this marriage

[@Chickenbean4]

I agree-she’s more than clingy! She’s controlling!

[@terricunningham6810]

@@Chickenbean4 yes she is both

[@mamatried925]

exactly, if this was a guy being “ clingy” towards a girl, he would be a dictator or controlling. i think either man or woman acting this way would be psychotic

[@jodiealverson7791]

They're laughing because it's uncomfortable 😅😅

[@Lindseyisloony]

@mamatried925 Being clingy and being controlling are MAJORLY DIFFERENT and anybody who doesn't know that is a walking red flag. Men really don't get criticized for being clingy. They DO get criticized when they are being controlling. People who won't refer to things as what they actually are are not interested in truth though.

[@croach2194]

These two have nothing in common. One is active, the other is sedentary. One has hobbies, the other expects to be entertained. One is bossy, one is passive-aggressive. One works hard, I do not know what the other does if anything.

[@mssophiad03]

She doesn’t do anything.

[@jennylynfujioka]

@@mssophiad03😂😂 yesss

[@karenoconnor4180]

I was going to write a comment like this , but I couldn’t put it any better myself.. l totally agree with you 100 %

[@mamatried925]

she needs a J.O.B

[@anastasiamarkova6134]

I found Tamarra and Jeremy online. They’re still married, have 4 kids now, and she recently got a masters in special education. It looks like she has a job after getting her masters. I hope they healed!

[@Marina_in_oz]

Wow, she actually got a life and learned to do things on her own.

[@Doinko-u2z]

4!!! Americans multiply like mice

[@jovanajoestar7173]

@@Doinko-u2zfr we need to chill

[@DanielleFletcher-d8h]

I'm in Australia and I have 6 kids 😬

[@briar8855]

​@@Doinko-u2z that isn't typical, the birth rate is below replacement levels 😅

[@HighSierraDawn]

How could you get rid of your animals for someone? Ughh What a witch!

[@MericaKennedy-p8g]

Strong no!

[@KLF-1057]

This couple should divorce. No biggie. Bad match. Happens all the time. Huge red flag: she told him to get rid of his pets (horses). Never, never, never.

[@jamijenkins3507]

She told him to get rid of his entire lifestyle.

[@grammar4341]

As a woman, I agree. Couples need separate activities to be able to refresh themselves. My husband and I have been married 27 years. We are now retired. I encourage him to go do things outside of the house.

[@Machinu5]

Don't most women love horses?

[@Undomaranel]

​@@Machinu5 Talk about stereotyping. No, most women like the beauty of horses but not the money, land, time, vet and farrier and breeding bills, etc. The "horse girl" is known to be crazy and obsessive, and cowboys ain't no different beyond plumbing and wiring.

[@RabbitAndTheLabBestFriends]

@@Undomaranelstereotyping? Seriously? That is ridiculous most humans i would think love horses so relax stop being so sensitive

[@sharondykes4338]

I think he should have divorced her before he got rid of his horses. She's selfish and insecure. She shouldn't be surprised if he resents her and doesn't want to be around her.

[@DestinyA83]

Absolutely 110 percent!!!!! She's extremely childish

[@DestinyA83]

Selfish

[@emic621]

He already is

[@mssophiad03]

@@sharondykes4338 he should have divorced her before he dropped out of school

[@rhondajones9241]

She's selfish and controlling!!

[@momonie4]

HOW IN THE WORLD DID THESE TO EVEN DATE LET ALONE MARRY EACH OTHER OMG!!!!!! SHE'S BEYOND CLINGY & BEHAVES LIKE A BABY!!!

[@MyCommentCT]

She’s clever enough to make herself the victim without him realizing till it’s too late.

[@sandyr9081]

Classic Manipulation at its finest!!! He is so hesitant to even speak without having to look at her first for approval.

[@mamatried925]

she is a manipulative baby

[@vondahe]

Yup - it’s a mismatch but people hiding their true self is very, very common. They were both guilty of that to some degree. He had endless time while courting her. Two important statements: The only thing he mentioned about falling in love with her was that she was pretty. “It’s hard to be passionate with someone you’re fighting with.” Pay attention to that, ladies. That goes for all men! If you want his passion, give him peace.

[@maxinebulldog7095]

Tamara is a control freak, he even looks at her for approval befor speaking.shes aftr a lapdog for a husband...its quite vomit inducing listning to her. Being jealous of his horses is disgusting. Divorce her.

[@elizauksamad304]

Tamarra needs to get her life, 24/7 want husband, get a pet, hobby too, also a job

[@mssophiad03]

Also, two words: crazy eyes.

[@wonipowa7542]

Yea she doesn't have a life outside of her partner. She needs to get a life of her own, hobbies and a job - and let him have a life. It's not normal to require this much interest from your partner.

[@Waylons2ndMama]

Right, if she had a job, I'm sure a lot of these problems would exist. She's made her whole world and identity based on her relationship

[@MimiMalone]

She could be a flight attendant and travel.

[@mssophiad03]

@@MimiMalone NOOOO cause then she wouldn’t be able to see her hubby and control him 24/7

[@RabbitAndTheLabBestFriends]

I can’t believe she made him get rid of his horses I would never ever do that

[@alanaadams7440]

That's not love

[@jewels964]

Is this chick for real????? She lucky he hasn't already bailed. Like what is she kidding . He needs to put his foot down and they both need to grow up. 😂

[@marceejohnson4113]

Jeremyy doesn't want her. He needs to discover his true self. He is trying to follow societal norms.

[@cherylhaugen1897]

46 years married, and we only met 3 months before our wedding! He is the most wonderful man and a great father. Life is not always the perfect, but without him, it would be much harder!

[@Bartebodil]

That’s so wonderful to hear. I’m a youngster in comparison whos only been married for 15 years, but couples like you hand your husband is very inspiring. God bless you both❤

[@aliciacarstensen7904]

After having been married 25 yrs I will never marry ever again

[@susanmoss9706]

Hiya congrats, I met my husband at the end of November 1979, we got married March 8 1980, 44 years and counting.... there's no staying power now, throw away society.

[@finebetty7446]

Stupid comment. Growing up in the 70s surrounded by miserable couples, traumatised kids, violence, mothers doped up, dads absent even if physically present, it wasnt staying power, it was the law. If you have a happy partnership you dont need staying power.

[@finebetty7446]

*divorce wasnt legal or socially acceptable where I grew up.

[@paulaalbrecht2304]

She needs hobbies, interests and friends.

[@janet5846]

And a job!

[@Lindseyisloony]

I think it's a little effed up of you to wish the company of THAT on anybody

[@tammywright475]

Yep and she needs a Job 😁

[@Kei_sey]

Marriage shouldn’t be a prison sentence

[@kathystorer9514]

This woman must get a few hobbies so they can each have alone time doing what they enjoy even if they don't do it together.

[@alex-dm3sn]

Lots of comments saying Tamarra is essentially a bad person but all I see is someone that has an unhealthy need to depend on someone else. She reminds me of my brother's dog that cried when my brother wasn't home, spent it's whole day waiting for my brother to come home, and got jealous when my brother was spending time with someone else. It's not that she's a bad person. She's just been living a very sheltered life and that has stunted her personal growth.

[@aheartforhealth]

She needs to build her own life.

[@countryboundgirl7424]

She has weird separation anxiety 😬 I couldn’t imagine wanting to spend that much time in my house with someone 😂

[@tiegz9770]

More like anxious attachment

[@Lindseyisloony]

Um no. Separation anxiety usually comes from something valid. She's literally just insufferable and knows that getting someone else to put up with her would be very difficult. That mess probably follows him when he goes out so he can't ever get a head start running away.

[@CC-qy5ux]

She's not clingy. . . . .she's selfish and narcissistic

[@cheetahtfk7274]

And controlling!

[@vlucidity]

And he is to feminine and childish

[@vlucidity]

And he is too feminine and not manly enough for her and extremely boyish and childish and that's why he allowed her to do all those things. She needs an alpha male not a feminine male he is not strong enough for her

[@mssophiad03]

@@vlucidity maybe so. He certainly needs to stand up for himself. Not feminine but definitely childish and cowardly.

[@Onxy1976]

Guy thinks it is funny..he is embarrassment to men. In front of millions of viewers he looks like a joke

[@glemceon1149]

it's sad how he looks over to her before he answers any question... like he is fearful of what will happen later.

[@stephaniecrespo650]

That clingy chick is crazy . He didn’t know she was like this before marrying her

[@femalephobia]

Omg, I couldn’t even be her friend. Sir, run for the hills! I couldn’t tolerate this at all😩

[@rasheenamansel5311]

The fact that this guy was willing to give up everything for, it blows my mind. I don’t understand how you can give up your entire self just because you love someone.

[@sherrimoore9668]

My husband and I are the same way but we both see things the same way. We want to be together all of the time. We go to bed at the same time, we are best friends and we have the same interests. That’s the key, find someone with the same interests and life style. We’ve been together for over 30 years and look forward to the rest of our lives together.

[@noelvandermerwe6456]

In my experience, common interests & integrity is key. The ability to notice a covert narcissist is also important. After 49 years+ finally divorcing & feeling freedom from a parasital relationship. Observing & understanding family dynamics can be a good indicator of your future life.

[@noelvandermerwe6456]

*parasitical

[@kellypolfleit3942]

She’s isolated him. That’s a red flag for abuse. There’s more ways to abuse someone without being physical

[@denisehall4818]

This bride is selfish....Leave the guy alone, Girlie.

[@philomenaquinn1158]

She should get a job

[@_Laura.Marie_Sierra.Destiny_]

Yeah she’s a freak

[@NinjaOutfitInTheWash]

She’s so selfish and immature and unlikable. I don’t know why he even married someone like that. She sucks at being married and isn’t grown up enough to be in any relationship. Toxic

[@EverythingDaltonmonias]

OK, going to work is not your“personal “time because you have to get up at crazy hours and work for usually eight hours. It’s not like he is going out drinking with his friends or riding horses in his case he is working.

[@ss021070]

We met, got engaged in four months, married a year later........33 years later...guess we are lucky. But we communicate very well, I don't mother him, he doesn't father me. We are equal.

[@sallypitts7659]

That 1st lady's giggle really got on my nerves!!! I think she's so totally into herself so her husband should find someone who will truly love him and his horses, and let him be comfortable.

[@kathytaverna9987]

I'm in agreement with you about her giggling!!! Absolutely the worst thing to listen to

[@LynnSchaufelberger-jj3oi]

When I had problems in my marriage I told my family Dr. who was my Dr. since my youth. He said this and I remembered it all 60 yrs of my marriage. Bottom line..learn to cope or get out!! My hubby was bipolar and did get on meds, when the good ones became available. That was a life and marriage saver!

[@themlj1]

My wife works 60 hours a week lol. And I never complain. This lady is so annoying

[@user-cy4vw1qj9m]

I bet you don't she is bringing in the money.

[@themlj1]

@@user-cy4vw1qj9m I own 2 businesses. Lmao. You tried it tho

[@aliciacarstensen7904]

My boyfriend is a lead detective. Talk about long hours away from home. But I have a life. Yes I miss him but I stay busy. I'm retired but my life is full. He's talked about retiring early but he is passionate about his career. Don't do it for me. Do it cuz you are ready to. How is she so babyish at her age? Ick

[@LynASullivan]

Wow how many hours do you work

[@Onxy1976]

​@aliciacarstensen7904 you are a good supportive gf..

[@goremagon00]

I just want to take a moment and put my husband on a pedastool here. We have been together for 14 years. Just had our 14th anniversary on July 4. While our state doesn't acknowledge common law. We do. This means he and I have been married 4 years. We recently hit a huge bump in the road this year. I had a second round of clots in my aorta and common illiac arteries. This caused me to lose the ability to walk. It was extremely painful. Like a bad cramp you can't work out. They were reable to restore blood flow to my legs and I woke up in the ICU. You would think the horror ends there right? Nope we just getting started Hon. A few weeks into recovery I had 2 cardiac events and while the doctor was looking at the latest event my right leg went ice cold out of nowhere. I already had sever reduced sensation in my legs but that icy cold feeling will forever haunt me. I knew exactly what happened and I slowly started to freak out. One CT scan later revealed the horror I already knew was there. A clot, this time in my femoral artery. They tried for 12 hours to restore blood flow and they failed. They presented me with 2 options. 1) I could do nothing and my leg would rot off and I could die from sepsis. Or 2) they take the leg and I live relearning all the basic functions. I chose the second one. I've been in and out of hospitals for about 6 months. I'm finally home and hopefully for good this time. My husband has been my rock through this whole thing. He is the best caregiver a woman could ask for. I am bed bound at the moment but I will walk again if I have anything to say about it. But my husband and I have grown VERY close through this. There isn't much else we could know.

[@hellowendy1029]

Aww what a great husband! I hope you recover and get to walking again soon!

[@misshamilton]

Thanks for sharing ... May God bless you with love healing and laughter

[@aliciacarstensen7904]

Thanks for sharing Hon

[@sarahnaidoo2953]

Thank God for this gift of a husband. 🙏🖐

[@ilikenachosify]

Pedestal

[@gf3011]

The first woman isn't clingy, she's controlling. If she were a man we'd probably call her abusive. She seems to have no job, no friends, and to do nothing except watch tv (maybe she cooks and cleans) and wait for hubby to come home. I'd be a lonely basket case too. But it's time for her to get a life, almost literally. Trying to give her grace, that maybe she's had some trauma that makes her live so abnormally, but she's got to come to terms with it whether they stay married or not

[@SarahSherman-di7ku]

I'd call her abusive

[@AkitaLover1013]

The clingy wife is not all there! She is definitely a narcissist! Poor guy! Married 43 yrs. and if you keep it up you'll be divorced ASAP!

[@miarok3]

People always tell me that everything completely changes after marriage and the person becomes different. I will and have always said if u get married and ur relationship/the person does a 180 u never knew them in the first place.

[@pawpower1023]

My husband would never take my horse away. He knew how important getting a horse was for me and last year for my birthday we found a rescue horse for free. I had a talk with him because she was costing us a ton of money and asked if we should sell her and he said absolutely not, that he would never do that to me.

[@karmaleenash2841]

Together 43 years. We each have our own hobbies and friends, but also love spending time together. We can talk, and joke, and also just be quiet together. He is my rock, and I am his. It takes both people putting the other first. 💥

[@donnacaldwell3267]

This gal is codependent with severe abandonment issues. She reminds me of myself in my twenties, before I found recovery in AlAnon. I hope she gets help too.

[@Inquisitor2024]

Sounds like she don't even know herself 😢

[@deborahklinlger8565]

In hindsight we should of never married. Very sad😢.

[@fluffy_mcflooferson4635]

She made him sell his horses? No, no, no my dude. That is a complete dealbreaker and a flaming red flag. Horses are a commitment you don't just dump if your new wife doesn’t want you to spend time with them.

[@iluvmusic375]

The first lady, if the roles were reversed and it was a husband preventing his wife from leaving the house, socialising, making her give up her horses, going to school etc it would be domestic violence via coercive control.

[@janet5846]

Yes! Can you imagine the uproar had it been the other way round?! And I have to wonder, why does she not a have a job?! Is she busy scrubbing floors and windows? I think not...young, healthy, selfish and spoilt ! I would've like her parents take on this behaviour

[@purgatoriprytania5382]

First dude: Run for the hills.

[@moniqueengleman873]

As fast as he can.

[@Clairski3]

I think there is a huge double standard. If a husband was demanding all his wife’s time, not allowing her to connect with her friends or have any sort of social life, people would see it as a huge red flag. Isolating her, controlling her curfews… he would be made to look like an abuser. But just because she is bubbly blond girl, they just laugh it off. Run, dude!

[@mariebernier3076]

Agree completely

[@Onxy1976]

Great point. But this guy has as big a spine as jellyfish!

[@margys1426]

OMG, so absolutely stifling.

[@christinecatt8039]

I've always said.."it's better to be miserably single, than miserably married"..😢

[@MrShank12u]

She Needs a JOB!!!

[@2bluehorizons4]

Her biggest mistake was making him get rid of his horses. His heart is broken from that.

[@Ebony0420]

Imagine if this was a HUSBAND who made his wife quit things he knows she loves, wanted her secluded and all to himself. All the little laughs and giggles would be non-existent. Ppl would be calling him controlling & abusive. Bcuz that’s exactly what it is. Calling it a cute little name like “clingy”, bcuz she’s a pretty little white girl, with a baby voice, is dangerous. She is controlling & abusive. It’s not even funny. This marriage is not going to work.

[@sheilabishop-cn6ey]

The second couple, it's sad that all she wanted was to stay in the hotel on their honeymoon.

[@vivs3189]

🤩 Lot of Bridegrooms would NOT have a problem with that!

[@glemceon1149]

its the same couple

[@laurafleming7408]

She isn't mean and selfish; she is massively insecure and needs constant reassurance that she is loved.

[@thatlisagirl71]

Not sure if it’s codependency because it’s on her end….but her neediness is off the chain. I know I wouldn’t be able to handle it…that’s too much.

[@troubleinthevalley5884]

She's asking how do they find a compromise where he spends time with her and has everything he wants to? The thing is is she spending time with him? She wants him to stay home and watch movies and be a homebody and he does that for her but does she offer to go horseback riding with him does she go on a hike with him? Sometimes marriage means doing things you don't necessarily want to do or aren't interested in but you do them to be there with your spouse because that's the thing they like to do or are interested in. Then a lot of the time people find that they end up looking forward to that thing because it means quality time with their spouse and they have a good time. As she's going now she's just going to end up getting fat and lazy. Then he'll really be resentful.

[@barbie3139]

She also needs God to fill her emotional needs. A marriage can't fill it alone, nor can a job.

[@cherylhaugen1897]

First has no life, she is a child and doesn’t want to be an adult!! She needs to get a job and learn to grow up!

[@christinapotter8526]

You’ve got that right

[@alanaadams7440]

He married a child

[@shawnschell]

Maybe it's just me, but the way she says the word "clingy" is grounds for divorce 😂

[@sallgr]

Lol....I have a friend that says "hanGer" the same way! 😄

[@shasta1730]

That’s how they say their g’s in parts of Texas. I have a friend who says it the same way

[@alanaadams7440]

Did she ever think he works overtime to get away from her!!

[@IAmStayingAnonymous]

I thinks it's cute

[@purplequeen1727]

I was like this when I was younger. I was very insecure. No one person can meet your needs. Years later my husband (we met in our 40s, both our second marriage) and we both have many different hobbies and we both have friends we spend time with apart. We also spend alone time apart. We did not consider marrying until we had been together for years and knew we were compatible. This is easy to do when you are secure with yourself and with your relationship. She needs to practice being comfortable spending time alone or with family/friends away from hubby. She can work this out. ❤❤❤

[@sheerayb]

Before I got married, I attended a lesson where I learned that 1. It's hard to know while you're dating what questions to ask and what to look for. It's like being a tourist in a town vs. being a homeowner. You see things differently once there's commitment. 2. The first year should be spent together, building the foundation for the marriage. Not to the extreme that Lady A wants, perhaps, but definitely making the effort to spend most of their free time together to begin with. In the case of the first couple, they apparently just went with the fantasy version of romance without asking any of the right questions and with building no healthy balance or boundaries, so now she doesn't know how to ask for affection, and he just wants to get away. No communication. Very sad.

[@masellosethusha4947]

This girl needs to get a job and a hobby. She must have her own life outside his. She's too needy

[@Mynamestartswithk]

I’d bet $1,000,000 that his family told him not to marry her and now it’s too late.

[@rosacontreras6161]

To the wife, pray pray and pray, prayer moves mountains

[@kristinaandthegerman4554]

Together 20 tears and married 18. We have known each other for 30. We encourage each other to have time apart with friends. We accept we don’t agree on all activities. He likes to camp. Me? Nope. So I get a hotel near campsite to visit but usually go back home after a couple of days. I like shopping and museums when we travel. He puts in a bit of effort then finds a pub. He adores the beach, but I don’t. So we mutually love deep sea fishing and do that. We find happy mediums that work for us. It’s called compromise. We discussed it BEFORE we wed. Are there disagreements? Absolutely! Then we agree to disagree and motor on if it is something not life changing. We can vacation together and spend time apart without upsetting the other. We also agree wholeheartedly to not go to bed disgruntled. Works fir us. We are a couple with a complete life both with one another and solo. Makes and keeps us happy and not missing out.

[@melissam2103]

She’s over there giggling but she sounds crazy just divorce the man

[@Bex-rg8pj]

Jeremy I would run!

[@doctorartphd6463]

Wait till your 28 yrs old before getting married, then wait 3 yrs before having children.

[@steveguti6452]

I would appreciate it Deeply if anyone could pray for me I'm very Sick suffering with chronic pain from long time illness please pray for me I'm Suffering praying for Everyone everyday God bless you all

[@patriciagrillo1843]

God Bless you Steve and I pray for relief for your pain..

[@audreym3777]

@@patriciagrillo1843 he’s a known spammer on YT…I’ve lost count how many kids he has in urgent condition, or fake missing kids he begs for help on

[@sheiladiaz7794]

@steveguti6452 Can I help in any way? I’ve also got chronic pain from a spinal cord injury, so I understand. I’ll pray!

[@sharonlinville261]

God. Bless you

[@cheryl5994]

@@Courtney-u7r YOU DON’T HAVE TO BE BORN AGAIN IF YOU’RE A BELIEVER FROM THE START.

[@laurenb6160]

Any update on the couple? Did they stay together?

[@scrapped5494]

I doubt it!!!

[@lisasmith6000]

Would be interesting to know. I wonder if she can even let go, she probably extremely insecure.

[@carolb29]

There is no way I would have gotten rid of my horses! Get her out there and see how great they are, take a ride.

[@cherylhaugen1897]

Living together is not the answer! You will try to impress and not be yourself?

[@williambertone332]

I love spending time with my wife but she is also my best friend !!! She is my ROCK !!

[@Bartebodil]

Marriage is hard. It’s hard job and compromises all the way. Being this clingy will tear him and the marriage down. I see a lot of people say:” “Just get a divorce” like it’s not a big deal. I’m of the opinion you do what you can before you divorce. Marriage should ideally be the one time, of course if it can’t work and they just make each other unhappy, divorce is an option, but I understand they want to try therapy and help first. Bless them both. They probably married too fast and too young. Not everyone is ready for marriage this young.

[@alanaadams7440]

She is smothering him. He'll be gone

[@Bartebodil]

@@alanaadams7440sadly I’m pretty sure you are right.

[@kjl6039]

They do not have to have things in common. They need to support and care about who the other person is. My husband is a country boy and I am a city girl. He loves seeing me thrive and I love seeing him do the things he loves to do. The wife needs to have a different perspective. The husband will love her more if she allows him to thrive with who he is and what he enjoys.

[@hazzaplayz808]

That old couple's ADORABLE 😂😂❤❤

[@deannalumia1707]

32:40 This guy is not an atheist. But he might be, after he has read the bible. Good for him that he's reading that and more books. 31:20 Atheism is NOT a religion. Atheism is just not believing in all those god-fairy tales. Atheism is no more a religion than 'off' is a TV channel. 34:00 You should always let children decide for their selves if they want to believe in god or not. You should never indoctrinate them with your beliefs.

[@barbie3139]

The first lady needs a full time job.

[@jacobmiller6375]

does this woman not understand that 50 hrs of work is not time spent enjoying life it is more like mandatory to survive.

[@MericaKennedy-p8g]

Had a friend that left her hubby on their honeymoon. It was destination wedding, she just bought a ticket and left him behind.

[@pamelapostma8890]

Dr. Phil.. made GREAT observations with this episode! Great job!

[@gypsyrose-qq9nz]

He should take her camoing ,hiking , horse back riding etc...get her out of her comfort zone . Dr phil should tell her she has to do it and find more out of life

[@kathykubina2743]

She is basically smothering him.. she made him give up a job.. 😱

[@vickyoli]

8 years married here! You need to know everything that is important and a deal breaker to you. You always will learn new things. Now, I learned that picking up the underwear on of the floor, is not important and it is more important to focus on other things. Also, communication:) and learn each other love languages, to make them feel loved and important. Finally, give yourself your own space! Tamara, you will saturate him.

[@DIANA-gc4zv]

Don't have children!! Get a divorce!! Narc

[@stacyshoemaker9177]

You know who else is clingy? A baby. I sure hope they figure something out before having children.

[@yvonnesheehan9079]

They are all so young . Shocked 🇮🇪☘️🇮🇪

[@Holly-zp5fu]

My 55th anniversary today. happy as can be..i have always been happy to have alone time. Time to grow up.

[@carinaejag]

I feel so sorry for the guy not allowed to do anything. His wife is ruining his life and he will grow to hate her in the future. All she cares about is herself. She is sitting there laughing at everything which tells that she just doesn't get it and she will never get it. What he want has no relevance, it's all about her. She need to get friends and some hobbies so he get some time to do things he likes to. She is suffocating him.

[@BunnySlippers82]

She's a controlling, abusive narcissist. If the roles were reversed, Dr. Phil would be trying to help her escape.

[@candacebouton5846]

I have been with my husband for 13 years. He is the person I’ve been waiting for my whole life. We met and moved in together after about 3 weeks. The odds were stacked against us but here we are. Dr Phil reading the questions in his book…can those questions be longer and ridiculous?

[@melissacummings8981]

I don't know much about horses, so I'm assuming here. But, wouldn't it feel like getting rid of a family member? I would feel resent as well.

[@Scubidu-ni6ny]

I’ve been married for over thirty years. If my wife acted like that clinging vine it wouldn’t have lasted a year.

[@StefaniClowdis]

Ugh, the giggling

[@pamelalansbury94]

How did they meet and why did they even want to do a 2nd date?

[@linda_dc2379]

She has the wrong idea of what marriage should be. He will leave and that’s what she is trying to avoid.

[@alanaadams7440]

No wonder he wants to leave

[@nadiabrstak5646]

Married for all the wrong reasons...only want a wedding not a marriage..no wonder there is so much divorce😂

[@jenniferhuerta9824]

This is why I told my daughter, do not get married until at least 30. Use your 20s to found out who you are and grow up. Just my personal journey that worked out.

[@MimiMalone]

I think the woman in the first couple should become a flight attendant and broaden her horizons. She should not demand things from her husband, she needs to be way less available and not wait for him to get home.