My Husband, My Boyfriend, My Big Decision | FULL EPISODE | Dr. Phil

[@elanaLlama]

This couple should divorce, period!

[@noelvandermerwe6456]

🇿🇦 😲 Total insanity‼️🙂 These people are "educated" people. Shame on you, what about the children⁉️ Good example for them‼️😤😎

[@youknow6607]

noyb

[@americangirl6654]

I agree. I do not think this can be fixed.

[@StephenGrogg]

i totally agree

[@liv8388]

Whyyyyy on earth are you still together?!?!?

[@lynamor2959]

Do these ppl not get that some people MURDER for love?!?! It’s dangerous!!! They’re insane!!! I can’t stand cheaters!!! They aren’t teaching their children to be good people. 🙌

[@sarahcaitlyn88]

And she claims she didn't hear him threaten her son... Yet she said along the lines of... "he says to me you know I would never actually hurt your son. He tells me that after the fact but he says how he never would" so.... SHE DID KNOW. I can't believe Dr. Phil missed that one. It was obvious she knew though anyways

[@MissTRayne]

WOW scary 😧

[@lynamor2959]

@@sarahcaitlyn88 Exactly!! Someone threatens my kids, all bets are OFF!!! 🙌

[@happycatlady2012]

No, somebody threatening her child should have been the last straw

[@nancyhoward1917]

True

[@Undomaranel]

Y'all acting like parents care about their kids. Newsflash: good parents do, bad parents don't... and there are far more bad parents out there than there are good IME.

[@DeviIInADress]

Modeling this type of relationship for your children should be classified as abuse. JUST DIVORCE!

[@sysisysi5296]

That’s sounds logical.

[@neessanmackay9564]

​@@sysisysi5296something is completely wrong with that woman I mean her boyfriend has been literally threatening her son.

[@Undomaranel]

I agree on the moral principle, but trying to classify/ gatekeep how people live their lives is dangerous. It definitely endangers children and affects their psychology... but so does drinking, or always working and never being there, volunteering them to help the neighbors, etc. It's a fine line between protecting and erasing liberty. The best we can do is train society to recognize and see it, and hope they have the courage to speak truth to power and demand people step up.

[@SilviaCordeiro-nl9oo]

They are wasting the best time of their lifes by being angry and bullying eachother. What a sad way to walk by life.

[@mariadavis3797]

“Lives”

[@SilviaCordeiro-nl9oo]

@@mariadavis3797 sorry for not being american or english

[@SilviaCordeiro-nl9oo]

@@mariadavis3797 but what I ment to say is actually "lifes", not "lives"

[@angeldip5797]

@@SilviaCordeiro-nl9ooit’s still “live’s”, you use the apostrophe to show ownership. It’s ok if you aren’t American or are still learning to master English and it should not be offensive when someone tries to help by letting you know about mistakes, it is how you learn. Of course they (@mariadavis3797) should help you by using the right correction! 😂

[@angeldip5797]

@@mariadavis3797actually it’s “live’s”, “lives” would mean “he or she lives”, as in they are existing, living & breathing and the I is short vs “live’s” signifying each of the individuals life and the I is long. It’s a pretty tricky one!

[@RoseRose-ow5zy]

People don’t respect marriage anymore.

[@laiken_poppy2025]

no cap!💯

[@DeviIInADress]

Infidelity is nothing new.

[@errolllewis9062]

They never did marriage is a way that the government makes money 💰💰💰 tell me why it cost anything to get married and tell me why it cost way more to get divorced

[@ExistentialTourist]

This is nowhere near a normal story in any time period.

[@KingdomChld]

Dr Phil said it. End one before you begin another. Period. Cheating is not ok, especially when you're married. You took that oath.

[@idbugu825]

She is staying with her husband for the money and torturing him....

[@clovis-]

She isn’t even allowed to have her own bank account or car

[@moodybugg-2098]

​@@clovis-so, she should divorce!!! Screwing a bum doesn't help

[@moodybugg-2098]

She should stop giving herself away for free to a bum.

[@clovis-]

@@moodybugg-2098 society is so quick to blame women for things that men get free passes on

[@moodybugg-2098]

@@clovis- yes that's because women are held to certain standards in areas that men are not men are held to standards in other areas that women get a pass on. It's because WE ARE DIFFERENT... biologically, emotionally, physically, mentally, etc. We are supposed to compliment each other. Fill in the gaps, but I don't know what would fill in some of the gaps that women possess these days. It's ridiculous. They've bought into a lie. It's taking its toll as well.

[@swimfast724]

They hate each other just get divorced! My parents didnt cheat but they just grew to hate each other and it was so much better when they separated

[@bangbangboogie8671]

They thrive on that toxic teenage drama. So gross. Grow up and be good humans and better parents.

[@lynamor2959]

@@bangbangboogie8671 I concur!!! What ridiculousness is this??!! They’re emotionally still 16, apparently…

[@katyshepard6402]

54 Here, Never Cheated, HAVE Been Cheated ON , Believe Once A Cheater Always A Cheater! This Marriage Was Doomed Years Ago! They are playing a Tit for Tat Game. She wants Everything and No Consequences! They Are Both Equally Guilty.

[@nat5640]

54??! You look great! ❤

[@katyshepard6402]

@@nat5640 Thank You 🙏🏻 You are very kind❣️ May God Bless You in many ways 🙏🏻❣️💯

[@liamegan4303]

Respect Katy for never Cheating. I'm the same girl. So let's get Married lol 😅😅😅

[@shelm-b8p]

Can someone explain to me why she is getting the heat when they are BOTH cheating? I have really no clue why they are not getting a divorce.

[@swimfast724]

Exactly. This guy is abusive and uses money and physical threats to control her... how can dr phil not see that?

[@mexicanspec]

I want to know why the abuse and controlling behavior was glossed over.

[@TheOneanjel]

​@@swimfast724that's just her word. She's obviously the abuser - TELLING HER HUSB SHE'S WITH ANOTHER MAN AND EXPECTING TO COME HOME EACH NIGHT?! That's a controlling manipulator.

[@briar8855]

​@@TheOneanjelso physically attacking her, him cheating on her, isn't a problem?

[@jenj1221]

He probably won’t let her divorce. Men like this do whatever it takes to keep you there even if they know your needs are not being met and they do all the things wrong. She’s looking for a safe escape, and he probably threatens her life

[@aventurasimbolos1725]

This couple is beyong healing, in my opinion.

[@nancykeener5029]

There is something VERY wrong with her - and HIM.They both seem to like the drama.

[@ShanMarie513]

Should she be cheating? No. But that man is financially abusing her!! He does it to keep her. That’s horrible and Dr. Phil should see that!

[@my3pups]

She could get a job and make her own money.

[@ShanMarie513]

@@my3pupsdoesn’t mean her husband wasn’t financially abusing her.

[@my3pups]

@@ShanMarie513 which is why she should get a job and make her own money

[@nikkid4890]

This is what happens when 3 narcissists collide. Everyone wants what THEY want and is not willing to budge

[@paulinemcfarlane4379]

A very judgemental reply. The word narcissism is bandied about too much now.

[@nikkid4890]

@@paulinemcfarlane4379 of course it’s judgmental. It’s meant to make a judgment about what is happening. Actually, we aren’t all uneducated in making those judgments either. It’s really not all that hard to do after 3 degrees in psychology. Perhaps it’s you that’s being a bit too judgmental? Without any knowledge of me, expect for two sentences you assumed that I got it wrong. Hmmmm.

[@rachelelizabeth2880]

The boyfriend is probably a bum with low income and she doesn't want to lose her lifestyle.

[@joddog]

💯

[@tinastestshow9790]

Thank u for still posting Dr. Phil

[@caliblue2]

This lady is insane. Literally. But then so is he. That’s a sick relationship that needs to end.

[@s.k.m.8756]

well said. Toxic marriage.

[@quintinnunn1392]

16:39 ohh thats why she didn't leave he made good money

[@laiken_poppy2025]

that's a rly poor reason to STAY!💯

[@aliciakrause4977]

She only stays for the money

[@jennypalmer331]

They need to get divorced because if they dont it will screw with the kids brains and future behavour. Same on them. Life is short

[@LynnRdrgz214]

I don’t understand why she is getting the third degree when husband is aggressive, harsh communicator, talks down on her to & in front of their children and compassionless. I don’t agree with the cheating on both sides but sometimes its hard for a married woman when she is on the back burner. But you should NEVER choose a man/woman over your own children period point blank!

[@rhodiahicks4459]

You contradicted yourself you know why she’s getting the third degree

[@swimfast724]

This guy is abusive and uses money and physical threats to control her... how can dr phil not see that?

[@jjinks35]

Why not divorce her husband first, then find a new man. And involving her son. Pathetic parents.

[@cindycarlsonallen72]

She stayed for the children. She couldn’t afford to leave him. He cheated when she was pregnant, total emotional abandonment. She should go now! I hope she gets the courage.

[@nancyhoward1917]

True

[@lasenoritacometa1977]

Always be the better person that way YOUR CHILDREN have nothing bad to say about you.

[@emmashuffle6457]

“My children make fun of my boyfriend!” Who I’m cheating on their father with… She really just dosnt hear herself does she… 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@alexsummerRain]

Our society has become so degraded. People have lost their moral compass.

[@cotton-xb1xp]

She is behaving like a teenager. I am so embarrassed by her behaviour. I would divorce her immediately.

[@hazzaplayz808]

He is no better, they're both to blame

[@clovis-]

I don’t like the way Phil is treating this woman. She’s not a saint, but she’s not allowed to own a car, a bank account, anything. She’s under his lock and key.

[@FCox-cy2zq]

How about how he calls her "woman".

[@magpiethiefsilva3046]

DR PHIL, you’re wrong on this one, that husband is abusing his wife.

[@hazzaplayz808]

Exactly right 👏👏

[@user-cy4vw1qj9m]

The husband should leave her.

[@maisiesummerfield265]

oh my days, will she never take responsibility for anything

[@irene5873]

There is nothing to work on, too late. Get divorced.

[@Yukinoodles]

I was like wow finding out she has a boyfriend then heard he has cheated multiple times 🤦🏼‍♀️ what is wrong with these people..

[@s.k.m.8756]

Rick says he will 'do whatever it takes to keep her from this man'....Oy. Vey. So it is not about the marriage and how much you love your wife. It is about 'winning' over the other man.

[@rinsitkeishing1662]

After seeing this mother, I was really grateful for having a mother like mine ❤❤

[@CMichelleWhite]

She’s ONLY staying for finances….not even her kids

[@mjparadero7046]

They’ve cheated on each other, ugghhh move on, both of you 🙄🙄

[@luvcakes2069]

Self-absorbed adults...who's caring for the children??

[@Vacationseekers-p5r]

The woman who is cheating is GROSS. absolutely GROSS. Her husband is still young.

[@cindykirkby8804]

She said what the problem was. She not been alone since she was 18. She's scared that if she leaves her husband it won't work out with the boyfriend then she's alone. On the other hand her husband's had affairs so therefore in case she looses him...she has a backup.. the boyfriend. She has abandonment issues. I'm not saying ( really not saying g) this is ok but she needs help with this

[@KingdomChld]

You took an oath. You should stand by that. It's not ok to be running around. If he's cheating or abusive, leave and then you can do what you want. Not stay and cheat. Not ok.

[@paulinemcfarlane4379]

Nobody knows what goes on behind closed doors. She's never had a credit card, nocar in her name, house not shared ownership etc., sounds like he's a control freak and she feels trapped. Having been married and treated in a similar way (but I didnt retailiate and have extra marital relationships). I think she should cut and run if she has the chance, this man will never change and she deserves better

[@DianeMyers-is6im]

Dr. Phil needs to stop with the sarcasm. It's very unprofessional. If he wants to be a comedian, he needs to change careers. And telling this phone caller to butt out is rich. He didn't call Dr. Phil.

[@musicfordad]

she could perhaps, apply for a credit card and get a job instead of spending her time sneaking out and having an affair!

[@AotearoaAnge]

They’re as bad as each other 😂😂

[@lisapaxton5206]

My husband would have ended it on the spott! Me too had he done the same.

[@amyann13]

Cry me a river lady! This man needs to grow a pair & divorce her, let the other dude deal with her & take care of her 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@lackerbitandersson6241]

Dr Phil wouldnt ask the same questions to a cheating man. He is biased and a misogynist. This woman needs some happiness

[@hazzaplayz808]

Well said 👏👏

[@shellyhaney4837]

Yes!

[@gwa3925]

If she could have both men she would.

[@JennCampbell]

Why is the accusation of domestic violence not deemed to be the most important issue!?! Any amount of cheating is not as important!!! And Dr. Phil says DV is a drops dead deal beaker!!! Why is he encouraging her to work on this marre!!! WTF!?!?!

[@steveguti6452]

Urgent emergency please join me in prayer for all those affected families children animals massive dire Milton cat 3 hurricane in Florida they desperately need your prayers please pray for them God bless you all

[@marys137]

And what does the hurricane have to do with this show. Already praying.

[@lillianfoulkes4084]

Praying 😊🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@BeverlyStofferahn-i2t]

Thanks for the prayers. We need them.

[@Takecare-sx1oz]

Don't you think we are all praying anyway? God bless you

[@BradMingramm]

God won’t help

[@happycatlady2012]

I take the decision right out of her hands. She'd just be alone. 5 minutes in and I cannot stand the wife. She must not be too scared of him to be cheating on him!

[@mckaydenhoward2602]

When you’re in an abusive relationship, you will do anything to get out and be safe. That can take any form.

[@eveventura7750]

I agree with the above comment, but think Lisa has been immediately criticized and,judged, without considering HIS long term history of bad behavior. She's also the mother of 4 and no doubt doesn't want to disrupt their lives anymore than he has done over the years.

[@mikes.7654]

oh my god what a glorious trashfire

[@chriscullen5500]

Spanish guys are treating her like she is garbage and she is loving it!!

[@actionsammy1]

I'm not excusing the husband's behavior but the wife came off as selfish and even seems to have sociopathic tendencies, playing the victim and trying to run the show. And staying with that boyfriend even after he threatened her son with violence??!! After that piece of news I definitely didn't feel sorry for her!

[@lindaandreula2724]

They should divorce and do child custody

[@Detky]

Dr Phil is so biased in this case. The man started the train and the woman awaited her turn to pay back. Why is Dr Phil not addressing the cause of all these? Women are faithful until you cheat. She actually needs to work on moving out. It's sad that the kids only see their mum's response but never the genesis of it all.

[@EliRowell-ht7xv]

I wonder if Dr Phil knows something that we don't know because I fully agree with you 😔

[@arafogoumaneh3555]

Dr phill cheated on his wife what do you expect?

[@jennmcdonald]

33:02 good lord 😂😂 what a monster

[@allgrapes4352]

She has no intention whatsoever letting the boy friend go.

[@hilberryable]

They deserve each other. No point in even being married to each other.

[@margaretkay8104]

Kids aren’t wrong- she has absolutely no morals at all.

[@superobese]

They just need to DIVORCE

[@Claire-gv7pi]

If Rick was so abusive why not leave its very simple

[@Freeyourmind13]

Because she is broke

[@mimimonster]

There is zero reason why she is still there except she wants the financial stability her husband provides. They resent each other. Why else would they stay together? Weird the husband thinks he can force his wife to stay with him and love him. Very bizarre.

[@shellyhaney4837]

Am I the only one who thinks the husband should have been a decent human and divorce her when he decided to cheat... instead years of abuse until she started having affairs. Maybe his full intention was to make her look bad.

[@cgee6867]

DR Phil is an idiot if he does not know....that most people do NOT turn to another person outside the marriage if all things are going good in that marriage. And most do NOT leave their spouse unless they have someone 'better' to go to. And this woman should have left this controling hubby after he was cheating on her to begin with...

[@Mycorabel]

Cheaters always blame their spouse they are always Innocent

[@mcmacts238]

NO MORAL CODE!!! EVERYONE NEEDS JESUS!!!!!

[@shanaebrown1962]

Amen man amen

[@laiken_poppy2025]

exactly,yes! they rly,rly do!🎯💯

[@carlydubbya7620]

lets see how loving and supportive her boyfriend is when he's financially supporting her.

[@suebrurell5282]

anyone who threaten my child I would be livid! she is excusing him. She says her children should respect her?? when they know she is cheating? she is not respectable

[@kayvee9094]

The husband most likely doesn't want to divorce her because she'll get half of his money, house, pension. Throw her out and get a good attorney.

[@hazzaplayz808]

Lisa is at fault...but fr.. her husband looks unhinged..anyone agree with me??

[@weneedjesus9188]

. You shall not commit adultery.

[@ashleighbrown21]

Dr phil is being so harsh, we is he taking sides? Shouldn’t he be a neutral party?

[@patriciacrane548]

Excuse me?!? They are both screwed up 4 sure but how Dare Dr. Phil say she doesn't need a credit card of her own money cuz she doesn't need one with 2 men taking care of her. Disgusting 😐

[@americangirl6654]

Yeah, that was not a good look.

[@Sedgley9024]

Personally I think he needs to kick her out.. move on to someone who can love him. Life is too short to be with someone who does not love you.

[@sugarshamrock]

Both suck, wife is gladly cheating and justifying her actions playing the 'victim' horribly; husband is controlling and clearly unhappy. The loser bf is happily seeing a married woman and the threats don't bug her.

[@ShawneeHartman]

She's not leaving because he financially supports her!!

[@RocketF1sh]

the guy pays her bills. thsts why she wont go

[@snakeEYESrox]

It sounds like he has tried everything to keep her from leaving except treating her right and not abusing her. That being said- she should walk away not cheat. Faults on both.

[@fikasperformances-mhw5941]

Serve overseas? To gain access to the most vulnerable children? Children of war and poverty? GOOD for the judge to deny that request!

[@eveventura7750]

Shocked that kids were involved. !!!!!) I'm also a mother of 4 and can't imagine doing this to them !!!

[@raytherrien2851]

SO NASTY, She comes home from being jammed for hours then slides into bed next to him sharing all her boyfriends nasties talk about sloppy seconds haha...

[@jackie_byfaith]

He’s an abuser and she has trauma bond. In cases like this it’s very difficult for women to let go of her abuser. Her lover is also controlling, she needs some serious counseling.

[@debrarose1813]

Nasty nasty nasty! Get a divorce! And NOW!

[@EnglishWithJamshaid308]

He is still with her. There is no justification for cheating. Her boyfriend is threatening her son and husband, yet she continues to defend him. She should be kicked out and not allowed to live with them."

[@SKDM90]

A very bad woman who does not deserve a husband and does not deserve children has brought them shame.

[@nancyhoward1917]

If he admitted to 2 you know its more

[@nbbim2012]

I'm sure both of them have been unfaithful- she might not know the other people he's been intimate with but I refuse to believe that he's Mr Wonderful. They're all narcissists who need therapy and to be separated from each other. The fact that he has involved their children is unacceptable and she shouldn't be with anyone who's threatened her child.

[@soaronwingslikeeagles7982]

Dr Phil is not adjudication accurately. It's a mess, he wanted a show can't watch anymore.

[@glorysmummy]

Tell her to stop sniffing. Hasn't she heard of tissues?

[@dottymarnoch2496]

he can't change her, she has to change herself! get a Divorce that would b a better solution for both of them

[@Mia-z4c]

This woman's audacity to cry.... how can she have the guts to parade her boyfriend eating or meeting up with him knowing that her kids know and will get hurt. Shes staying in the marriage because as what the husband said, the boyfriend isnt financially able to provide for her. That's why she don't want to divorce or separate. She needs her husband's money so she can continue seeing the boyfriend at her husband's dime. This woman is pathetic from head to toe. The nerve to face her children despite what she's doing.... and feeling hurt that her kids hate her boyfriend. This woman is sick in the head...

[@tashamorriss8997]

So, let me try to understand this scenario. She is v unhappy with her hubby, so having affairs will help solve her problems? Dont be selfish - think of your kids, not yourself all the time. Grow up

[@jennysmith7156]

He needs to just divorce her!! She just wants him to support her

[@avapineda8813]

You have to earn respect the children will not respect the mother and if the father does zero the children will also not respect him.

[@carolynpatty3711]

Anyone who puts up with this kind of behavior have no self respect. These two selfish people only think of themselves, shame on them.