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@LMCEK2 ай бұрын
The SECOND a fully grown man asked me for one dime he would be BLOCKED and DELETED
@Lauren_226132 ай бұрын
THIS!!!!!!
@ericluriergo82512 ай бұрын
You’re in possession of a brain: this woman wants so bad to subjugate herself to a SCAMMER!!?? She DOESN’T get it.
@lesliekupchanko50012 ай бұрын
So true. It bothers me when a healthy man is on Social Welfare as well. Especially when women don't get equal pay for equal skills and SHE works, any ways.
@nancyholcomb95202 ай бұрын
That’s what I did.
@mereese12 ай бұрын
@LMCEK YOU NAILED IT!!! Thi$ i$ an ab$olute deal breaker!!!😡
@Lauren_226132 ай бұрын
This lady is a perfect example why scammers exist 🙄🙄🤦🏼♀️
@wendyf.60822 ай бұрын
Exactly 😅 you gotta be smarter then that
@user-dy9bm7sk7n2 ай бұрын
Absolutely NO common sense, how she got this far in life is mind boggling.
@The_Whimsical_Stenographer2 ай бұрын
@@user-dy9bm7sk7nshe’s probably had a man to guide her.
@bo27202 ай бұрын
@@user-dy9bm7sk7nShe didnt get anywhere. Her husband dies and she's on a dating site straight away. Then this happened. Sorry but she cant take care of herself
@joseycacce19452 ай бұрын
Yep. She deserves to lose EVERY penny.
@numberonecobfan5 күн бұрын
The courage displayed here is truly remarkable. These individuals faced real danger, yet you chose to confront the fraudsters and reclaim their stolen assets. Your commitment deserves great admiration, *Stalwart-Redeem* If law enforcement matched your dedication and ingenuity (not to mention integrity), our country would undoubtedly be a much safer place. Outstanding job!
@misstoya014 күн бұрын
I've had a string of unfortunate experiences with swindlers in the past, which left me questioning my ability to make smart tradingg decisions. But *Stalwart-redeem* has been a game-changer, a reliable and a special being who can get back your losses and start anew.
@lgillam064 күн бұрын
@@misstoya01 He is truly exceptional, and his tools are so impressive that I occasionally wonder if he’s even human, haha. The bottom line is that *Stalwart-redeem* is the ultimate expert in recvering from scaams.
@516124054 күн бұрын
I need this recvery expert for my romance scaams case also
@misstoya014 күн бұрын
He mostly interacts on Telle grams using the user
@misstoya014 күн бұрын
*@stalwartredeem* THAT IS HIS USER NAME
@kimthompson16182 ай бұрын
Husband of 14 years passed and 3 and 1/2 weeks later she’s in love with a stranger from the internet? WTF ?
@laughingallthetime502 ай бұрын
She was probably lonely.
@AnastasiaRomanov-w9x2 ай бұрын
My brother lost his wife from cancer and other issues. In six months he had remarried. He and I don’t talk but I think he finally found a lady who wasn’t schitzo like my sister in law was. So I don’t blame him. He was miserable for years. I hope he will be very happy since he paid his dues sticking by the mentally ill and sick wife. oh, and they met in their church, not on some stupid dating site.
@lorawhite10172 ай бұрын
So guable
@AnastasiaRomanov-w9x2 ай бұрын
@@lorawhite1017 what does guable mean? English your second language?
@lorawhite10172 ай бұрын
@@AnastasiaRomanov-w9x is English not your first language
@michellemargagliotti80352 ай бұрын
Mom needs a court appointed financial guardian. Without one she’ll continue to bankrupt herself.
@andycayton34332 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂 "Let's save dumb people from being dumb." Because that's everyone else's job😂😂😂😂
@kimberlyheibel87592 ай бұрын
She doesn't need a court appointed financial guardian. 🤦 She's being scammed and needs to be educated on this and shown the ins and outs. She needed to do a Google image search and would find out the image was stolen.
@michellemargagliotti80352 ай бұрын
@@kimberlyheibel8759 she should have, but didn’t. She waisted her money, then lied to her son in law and they committed fraud to get her a loan which she waisted. She obviously needs to be protected from herself!
@kimberlyheibel87592 ай бұрын
@@michellemargagliotti8035 she doesn't need a court appointed guardian. Dr. Phil is providing her counseling services. And other services in order for her to understand how not to go through this again.
@craazyyy_gigi502 ай бұрын
@@michellemargagliotti8035or not. It’s not one else’s responsibility to fix or look out for a self-destructive person 🤷🏻♀️ these people always find new ways to continue hurting themselves
@vanhawk10742 ай бұрын
I am a single woman myself , a widow since 2011 . Very quickly have I learned that if I wont meet him at local grocery store or church , I am not interested in any long distance relationship, specially with structural engineer.
@ellajanebosanquet847Ай бұрын
Love it.
@marymcmaster9189Ай бұрын
I had a coworker meet and marry a man who worked for Lowes and installed appliances for her.
@mightymouse1005Ай бұрын
I'm a widow since 2017....I won't waste a week in someone who won't call, video chat and meet soon.... All these engineers, UN doctor, oil rigs workers, gem dealers etc are all scammers....meet thr mechanic, plumber, roofer etc who doesn't look like a model but will meet you
@glorysmummy21 күн бұрын
Working on London Bridge. LOL
@supremereligion281717 күн бұрын
Never ever give money to a stranger except to your descendent.
@nunyabidness60452 ай бұрын
CLEARLY a Nigerian accent!!!! I can't believe she believes that's a white person with a "German/french" accent! 🤦♀️ I can't believe she believed ANY OF IT!
@patpeifer78712 ай бұрын
And French and German accents are very different.
@The_Whimsical_Stenographer2 ай бұрын
You can justify anything in your mind. She hears what she wants to hear. 😏
@zxyatiywariii82 ай бұрын
Ikr, that's so clearly Nigerian, but even if she's never heard a Nigerian accent, it's certainly not German or French. . . _German or French?_ They sound nothing alike!
@nikitadavis82862 ай бұрын
The Nigerian accent was a dead giveaway
@themalawiandiner180Ай бұрын
She's the dumbest person on earth.
@heatherjohnston54272 ай бұрын
Imagine talking with someone online for 3weeks and in that moment you transfer him $8700. Whatttt?!?
@mariaashley872 ай бұрын
3 weeks? WOW
@firewilson5732 ай бұрын
She is nuts
@AntiscampoliceTV2 ай бұрын
IF I approached such victims in person and asked them for money for a good cause (with proof), they would not give me a dime! But they are willing send $250,000 to a romance scammer using bad photoshop and stolen pictures! And what was she looking for on a dating site only 2 months after her husband's death? Scammers "love" widows! 😮
@JayDubNation832 ай бұрын
Imagine the poor dead husband who probably left all that money for his wife, daughter, grandchildren, and she throws it all at some stranger she’s never met! I think this lady got what she deserves! No respect for her husband of how many years and father of her daughter. I’m sure she was vulnerable at the time but come on, he hadn’t even been deceased very long at all!
@lindalin59982 ай бұрын
She was feeding many people in Africa probably😅
@pattiferrari62132 ай бұрын
I’ve never understood why people give money to people they’ve never met. I done even like giving money to people I DO know!
@marquitaarmstrong3992 ай бұрын
Thank you!!!!!
@kardilee27 күн бұрын
Loneliness is a reason. To feel loved and be apart of something. There are many reasons and it’s unfortunate for these people being taken advantage of.
@galaxiyamoon17 күн бұрын
@@kardilee Scammers prey on that.
@ChicagoWosu16 күн бұрын
This could be a sign of a woman having Alzheimer's who believes anything a scammer will say!
@jeanmitchell583412 күн бұрын
Exactly
@deborah88872 ай бұрын
I have to say Dr. Phil handled this with a lot of compassion
@jo-annahicks33242 ай бұрын
Yes...he was surprisingly gentle
@mightymouse1005Ай бұрын
Guests like this is why Dr Phill hair fell out
@1927su2 ай бұрын
Omg .. for one thing, IF I got bamboozled outta over $200,000 dollars, the LAST PLACE I’d show my face would be national tv!
@973BrickCity2 ай бұрын
She doesn't feel like he "bamboozled" her.. She's Oblivious 😕
@abundantlove24252 ай бұрын
Very niave.
@thecramptons2 ай бұрын
That’s how so many people continue to be taken advantage of bc most are too embarrassed to report
@freyamccauley2 ай бұрын
Stop blaspheming.
@lmb48762 ай бұрын
French accent? How about a Haitian accent?
@SueRosalieАй бұрын
NEVER EVER put "Widow" on your social media profiles
@TheogenerangАй бұрын
Put "future widow" and give them something to think about.
@animaladvocate8938Ай бұрын
I had a handsome man after me on Facebook and no pictures posted. Just a horse rescue site. They are everywhere.
@Jb-mi2rmАй бұрын
The fact they didn’t do a video call first is insane plus the guy talking is black duh…
@AshleyLaDuke-r2cАй бұрын
😂😂@@Theogenerang
@AnnaMelese-g2n28 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@christihalliday53702 ай бұрын
Please let this gal know, her pain in sharing her story has prevented me from being hurt. Thank you for that.❤
@cherylbee98992 ай бұрын
I don’t think I’ve ever been N this stupid and I’m not the smartest person on the planet. But I am not that stupid. She has too much money remember the saying a fool and their money soon departs. Foolish
@yvettebonfond9420Ай бұрын
I was scammed for 60.000 DOLLARS over a period of 18months months and I ain't no fool... you can judge and you can smear, but you have never walked a mile in my shoes... you don't know anything about that women. Her pain is so obvious , to me. These scammers use psychology on people, they are professionals on manipulation. If you haven't been there ,and you haven't done that , YOU DONT KNOW WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT....
@kathygilligan-ut9hn2 ай бұрын
If someone ever asked me for money I would say..."funny but I was just going to ask you about a loan" see what happens!
@cindyballard75852 ай бұрын
I've thought they should do the same thing and see what these scammers say!
@tatianaallen9132 ай бұрын
I did one time and the person stopped contacting me 😆
@zxyatiywariii82 ай бұрын
Exactly, that's a good way to make them run.
@sandras1212Ай бұрын
That happened to me once. The fellow was on an oil rig and there was a terrible accident leaving one man dead. Because it was one of his team he was going to pay for the funeral. He was apparently very ricb but had no access to his funds on the rig. He called me very early in the morning and wanted me to go to Western Union the next day. I told him I was broke and thinking maybe he could help me out. I never heard from him again.😂
@juliery632 ай бұрын
She had a weird, sick feeling but still sent the money. She's ridiculous.
@General_Zod992 ай бұрын
its hard to have any compassion for anyone who has no common sense
@act1sciii2 ай бұрын
Well said
@Graterstuuf2 ай бұрын
Was seriously about to write this just before I saw your response.
@General_Zod992 ай бұрын
@Graterstuuf I feel bad that she is being humiliated on national TV but I get that thr family is at their wits end
@JustMe-TNVR2 ай бұрын
Greedy
@Undomaranel2 ай бұрын
@@General_Zod99 Don't feel bad. Just be glad she's waking up, even though it took freaking Dr. Phil and a live audience to knock it into her.
@JoanDoris12 ай бұрын
2 MONTHS AFTER HER HUSBAND PASSED AWAY she went on Match?!! She didn't allow enough time to grieve.
@terrygiddens93352 ай бұрын
How long should a spouse who lost their partner have to wait, in your opinion?
@paulaalbrecht23042 ай бұрын
@terrygiddens9335 there's 5 stages to grief. If you don't go through them then you make "mistakes" in relationships. There's no timeliness and it's different for everyone, but usually more than 3 months.
@vandeolkon2 ай бұрын
Good grief that’s a short amount of time. Hardly finished writing the funeral thank you notes and already looking for someone else?
@christinecatt80392 ай бұрын
He makes her feel warm inside..?? Stupid woman...that's what your paying him for .😢..
@christinecatt80392 ай бұрын
@@terrygiddens9335 A lot longer than two months.. She should be ashamed. 😢
@robertplata17662 ай бұрын
The pain of having a parent being victimized by Scams like these and refusing to believe it are incredibly tough
@elainedavis665125 күн бұрын
My NaNa with dementia thinks Trace Adkins is trying to message her. We tell her it's fake but she just gets her feelings hurt and argues 😢
@ChicagoWosu16 күн бұрын
If you talk to a Nigerian, ask a Nigerian if there's more robberies in Africa!
@marydunigan150411 күн бұрын
@@elainedavis6651That’s so hard, I’m sorry!
@kpax20662 ай бұрын
I honestly cannot believe someone can be this gullible and foolish. "A fool and his money are easily parted" True words.
@K988762 ай бұрын
Thomas Tusser😊
@yvettebonfond9420Ай бұрын
Well aren't you the one who knows it all.????
@yvettebonfond9420Ай бұрын
Have you been there , and have you done that???
@bronwyn1172 ай бұрын
If someone asked me for $50.00, I’d be suspicious. It’s hard to be sympathetic when people are so delusional!
@JayP-kd5rc2 ай бұрын
All the more reason to sympathize with her.
@iykeharrison91612 ай бұрын
@@JayP-kd5rc Nah, she is quite old enough and experienced to allow herself to be scammed like this. No one is that domb
@TheMoonflwr6712 ай бұрын
@@JayP-kd5rcNo, it is NOT. Anyone that stupid gets exactly what they asked for. NOTHING!!!! Not the man, not her cash, literally nothing. How stupid can one person be? No sympathy here.
@K988762 ай бұрын
😅
@cherylbee98992 ай бұрын
@@TheMoonflwr671 I totally agree No sympathy for me either
@leelee63602 ай бұрын
My friend went through this exact thing with her 76 year old mother. She blew through every dime she and her deceased husband had saved and even mortgaged her home sending some idiot money. Hard to believe it happens but it does. It's disgusting.
@MrRowley513 күн бұрын
@leelee6360 she is the idiot sending money to scammers haha 😄
@susanmark705512 күн бұрын
This happens to many women and men who are at a vulnerable state in their life. My granny told me many years ago before internet dating. If a man asks you for money run. Ladies don’t be taken in by oh your beautiful/gorgeous. When I hear this it just grinds on me and I feel uncomfortable because I think it’s fake. Meet up with the person ready the body language. Get to get a sense of who the person is. Do not hand over any money ever.. Hopefully this lady can build up her life. It will take time..🌷
@annstrahlendorf28792 ай бұрын
She must’ve really loved her husband the way she took all that time to mourn after he passed!!!
@bo27202 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 sorry but I laughed so hard. This bish making a match profile a month after he dead
@zxyatiywariii82 ай бұрын
Yeah that's strange. I'm not even married but if my BF died I'd be too heartbroken to be trolling for men!
@biankalatoma47752 ай бұрын
Maybe it's a part of grief, being lost, emptiness and loneliness
@iphigats12232 ай бұрын
These yahoo boys are good at it and very smart luck men/women. LONDON BRIDGE??😢 A BIG 🚩
@tylerk36162 ай бұрын
Literally was trying to date less than 2 months after he died. Guy was barely even cold yet!
@americansunbeam2 ай бұрын
Frankly, there is something wrong with this woman.
@JayP-kd5rc2 ай бұрын
That's why I feel sorry for her.
@ovingtonful2 ай бұрын
@@JayP-kd5rcI do too
@rosie50652 ай бұрын
This woman is delusional
@roza.D.2 ай бұрын
Me too she naive and lonely.@@JayP-kd5rc
@brandoncamper24202 ай бұрын
She's cute, I'd date her💲💲💲🤫😂🤣
@dearmakeupdiary2 ай бұрын
I feel sorry for her daughter because she had to drag her mother to Dr. Phil’s in order to have her believe that she was being scammed. These sharks are only after widows and vulnerable women to get big bucks from them, not love or company. Same thing happened to my mother’s best friend, divorced in her 60’s and very lonely. She thought the guy was Canadian and he was going to marry her. My husband and I had to tell her straight up that she was being had by an African guy. The minute a man you are talking to on the Internet asks you for money you have to run away as soon as you can and block him, otherwise you might never get rid of him. These fragile hearted ladies out there, open your eyes and be aware of the situation. It’s more common than you think, and it could happen to you. Take care of yourselves. If you’re feeling too lonely in life, try to get a cat or a dog they will make a big difference in your life and they won’t ask for thousands of dollars in order to give you all the attention and company that you deserve.
@pollycebula6052 ай бұрын
This really is pitiful. I can't believe anybody can truly be this gullible.
@dianeferguson10742 ай бұрын
They're dating their sons!!!
@calgal57522 ай бұрын
Nothing she says makes any sense, sadly. This is really sad…..
@ilamitchell76502 ай бұрын
Neither can I!!! Pathetic!!!
@fire127312 ай бұрын
Pathetic right?!
@SeashelleBytheseashore2 ай бұрын
It boggles my mind. I get FB requests from these people and it's so obvious by their profiles. I just think the scam is still working or they wouldn't still be doing it.
@1927su2 ай бұрын
Ladies it’s OK not to have a boyfriend!!! Fools Rush In where Angels fear to tread!!!!
@oneglobeoneloveofficial2 ай бұрын
This happened to my mother and it cost our relationship. I knew she was being scammed by a Nigerian and because I wouldn't help with money and feed the fantasy she hated me for it. I'll never forgive her for how she treated me and what she did.
@DaveDepilot-KFRG2 ай бұрын
sorry but you're better off without her as hard as it is to say
@foxylady888325 күн бұрын
I was taken by same scamreportedto FBI but never got my money back lose my lifetime money
@amandabooysens56822 ай бұрын
That guy is Nigerian you can hear by that voice
@ChrisAndCats2 ай бұрын
Americans seem to really struggle with any accents outside of America. In the UK, we can recognise what other accents sound like, such as French, German, Australian, Nigerian, Jamaican, Spanish, and of course, American, many that are outside our country. But Americans don't seem to have that ability which means Nigerian doesn't stand out to them like a sore thumb as it does to us. I'm not sure why.
@ChallieWallie2 ай бұрын
@@ellimae1548bit britain is not nearly as large as the USA. Plus, you are comparing accents with dialects.
@jennifer11102 ай бұрын
100% it only took listening to him for one sentence.
@LynASullivan2 ай бұрын
and she thinks it's a french accent
@buffyranger63552 ай бұрын
You can tell immediately he is black.
@bronwyn1172 ай бұрын
The sad thing is the daughter will be forced to support her mother for the rest of her life.
@christinewhitrick56692 ай бұрын
She was lucky it didn’t cause a miscarriage. It might cause ongoing heath issues because she young to be starting with this potential lifetime of stress, fear of what her mum will get up to next etc.
@IamPINKIEDaniels2 ай бұрын
O one can force her, mum can take care of herself
@rosie50652 ай бұрын
No she won’t
@vickykulig50802 ай бұрын
She actually had her mom move in with her since she couldn’t pay her mortgage
@user-dy9bm7sk7n2 ай бұрын
And the mother scammed the daughter and son in law for the loan and gave it to the scammer, so she is really messed up in the head.
@xterranissan2000Ай бұрын
I've had one guy saying he's a diamond hunter in Africa, but he asked me to buy him an iphone 🤣🤣
@debbylou5729Ай бұрын
A diamond ‘hunter’. Does he use traps? Spears? Shotgun? 👌👌👌😅😅
@Alexandra_HillАй бұрын
@@debbylou5729 a net perhaps....
@dixiegirl39592 ай бұрын
Imagine paying down a $265,000 debt for stupidity?! The second a man asks me for $2, I’m gone!
@sydjeapalmer2 ай бұрын
Especially in less than a month of knowing him
@daniellejackson8572Ай бұрын
Yaaaaaaasssss!!!! GONE!!!
@arbjfulАй бұрын
How about $1.99?
@dixiegirl3959Ай бұрын
No grown man should ever ask you for a cent. Remember that!
@vanhawk1074Ай бұрын
@@sydjeapalmer Never , ever .
@elimlim29902 ай бұрын
As we speak..I have a scammer messaging me..He stated that He's a General on a US mission in Syria..and that He's the Commanding Officer..we been chatting since Monday ..and it's only Sunday and He already asking me to marry Him and wants my account bank number and he claimed that the military is going to send me a check becaused he said that He has a huge amount of money coming but need a bank account becaused he said He named me as his Fiance..so therefore He needs my account number for the check to be deposit..and that I could have some of the money but need to sent him the rest so that he can devide the left over money to his personel...I BLOCKED THE SOB..
@Rx4Lyfe2 ай бұрын
Lost opportunity right there hun
@buckeyedav12 ай бұрын
Block them immediately soon as they message that they think you are pretty, that you are smart and they have been trying to message you I get them about once a week immediately go to their page always some handsome guy with a military picture and BLOCK. Anna In Ohio
@dearmakeupdiary2 ай бұрын
Well done ❤
@zxyatiywariii82 ай бұрын
😊👍👍👍👍
@loricastellana44522 ай бұрын
He's looking for a money mule. Good job blocking him.
@Lazar3332 ай бұрын
I feel sorry for her children. They have to deal with this delusional and irresponsible grownup woman. Shocking.
@SueRosalieАй бұрын
and she's not even that old!
@yvettebonfond9420Ай бұрын
But she is extremely attractive, and YOU don't like that do you... she has a heart , you don't.... she is a victim to a professional manipulator. ❤
@yvettebonfond9420Ай бұрын
Don't feel sorry for her children, they can manage without YOUR FAKE PITY....
@yvettebonfond9420Ай бұрын
The trolls are out tonight....
@dianeandries13312 ай бұрын
Why don't YOU ask HIM for money explaining that you need to repair your mansion or your child is hospitalized or whatever other reason. See his reaction: you will never hear from him again!
@keciaaskew51662 ай бұрын
Facts 💯 exactly.
@Mizz_Juicy2 ай бұрын
Right!
@4KVideoPlaces2 ай бұрын
NO! NO! NO! She wouldn't do that! Because she's in LUUVE baby, & her head is full with all that happiness stupidity stuff!
@americanclassic5532 ай бұрын
@@dianeandries1331 that would really throw z scammer off. If you have no food. Beg for Tengo money and groceries until you get your huge inheritance! He would lose a good prospect if he doesn't pay the woman alot. Then, she could say bye bye dummy!!!
@karenallen52082 ай бұрын
I have to say here, I've been approached by several potential scammers. I asked one to send me money, and he said sure! That's when I blocked him, as I have the other potential scammers. He probably would've sent me some money and then asked me for even more, is my guess by that response. I used to never encounter scammers, but now I delete several emails and block even more on FB every day. There are more cropping up every day of the week. It pays to educate yourself if you're willing to hand money over to a complete stranger. Please, educate yourself if you're going to have romances with men you've never met.
@caliblue22 ай бұрын
If a guy ever told me he was “cute” and “sweet” I would laugh my way straight out. It’s weird she was that gullible.
@slangoognals2 ай бұрын
Desperation can make people stupid. She lost her husband of over a decade and she's almost a senior. She's grieving one of the worst losses we can experience and she's probably scared that she'll die alone.
@donnabonn18922 ай бұрын
Anybody could tell that is a black guy...from Africa
@kerry19792 ай бұрын
I don't feel sorry for her at all. Also his accent, how could you not know it does not match up.
@yvettebonfond9420Ай бұрын
No you ARE THE Weird one here.!😂
@eh-i1841Ай бұрын
Horribly frustrating for her daughter.Wake up,mom.
@abdullahabunayyan-jv7sj2 ай бұрын
Whenever Nigeria is mentioned my skin crawls with fear 😢and I'm an African
@buzzharbor2 ай бұрын
If a Nigerian tells you the sky is blue, better walk out and look up just to verify
@Robert-p8j2 ай бұрын
😮😮😮 sorry about that!!!
@yvettebonfond9420Ай бұрын
Educate us. We need your help .
@susane2131Ай бұрын
Remind me of the princess of Nigeria Harry’s wife !!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@jadehynson797Ай бұрын
Moosly scammers 😢
@Synfulz2 ай бұрын
Never ceased to be amazed at people who are this easily duped.
@americanclassic5532 ай бұрын
Same with the Trumpy cultists....blind
@kekkic2 ай бұрын
@@americanclassic553 well, same can be said for the moral degenerate biden/harris supporters who want open borders and communism.
@ScottsdaleSushiАй бұрын
@@americanclassic553 damn it - keep politics out of it!
@americanclassic553Ай бұрын
@@ScottsdaleSushi Who says anything a out politics? People are just plain dumb in our country. I dont feel anyone was dumb in in the country and during the 1960s or 50s or up to the 90s.
@Stand-g3iАй бұрын
It's usually people who are very lonely.
@dakotaflower59262 ай бұрын
Wow, taking out a loan using your son-in-law and Daughter is the deal breaker for me. I never thought I would tell someone ABANDON YOUR “MOM”!!!
@holygrail7856Ай бұрын
She is unbelievable but I think she is sick..I can't ..she can't be😢 so naive..
@beryllines3788Ай бұрын
@@holygrail7856 Just going through grief. She was thwarted by her decision to seek companionship and she now has to complete the grief process. It has been discovered that the sweet words, flattery, faux concern, and poetry can trigger the flow of dopamine "feel good hormone". This can become addictive.
@kateruterbories26922 ай бұрын
Why doesn't she just get a dog??
@1927su2 ай бұрын
sadly she probably can’t afford it
@gillmiller37022 ай бұрын
the dog can’t call her beautiful or send copies of emails expressing its love.
@gildamolinar51552 ай бұрын
😂
@lynnwiltshire62202 ай бұрын
No poor dog should have to live with her. She’s useless
@shaebranch2 ай бұрын
@@gillmiller3702Dogs are loyal and don’t ask for money though 😂
@miel10742 ай бұрын
I’m surprised he didn’t say: “My name is James Connor…I am related to John Connor and I am currently being chased by a Cyborg called the Terminator!!” THAT would be more believable that the “stuck in Canada” bs story!
@carolyndavison60952 ай бұрын
😜🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@TattooedLuna2 ай бұрын
I’ll be back …
@jessicaward14382 ай бұрын
Hilarious
@domovancan2 ай бұрын
Stuck in London, England not Canada 😂, a twenty minute drive from Manchester, England 😂😅
@K988762 ай бұрын
Lmao lol
@autumnishotterthansummer2 ай бұрын
This is really sad that there are people rich enough to give a scammer a fortune, yet dont give it to charity.
@MariaRodriguez-oq8hrАй бұрын
She’s selfish ,,, 😢😢 she wants attention from a robot 🤖🤖🤖🤖🤖👹👿it’s not real 😅😊so sad 😢
@kristiderouin3753Ай бұрын
The sad thing is that she’s far from rich. I guarantee that was life insurance from her husband dying and/ or their retirement that he made sure to leave for her to live a nice life after he was gone. Then she turns around and 2 months after he died, she was giving it to this scammer.
@debbylou5729Ай бұрын
Because most charities are run by scammers
@debbylou5729Ай бұрын
That’s because most charities aren’t giving the money to the causes. Admin and CEOs take the majority
@autumnishotterthansummerАй бұрын
@debbylou5729 you're totally right. I'm using the word charity as a generalized term, it's so sad that people choose to throw it away with no cause. Like the women giving to Wade Wilson that's what it's reminiscent of.
@SanJoseNative2 ай бұрын
Always FaceTime, I am surprised she didn't do that. $265,000 without seeing him..Crazy
@americangirl89702 ай бұрын
That is no longer reliable with the availability of AI. Meet in person ONLY and in a safe place and never give anyone money -ever.
@mgal62342 ай бұрын
Nope I know a woman who was FaceTimed by the scammer ring that stole her retirement. Definitely trust no one.
@yvettebonfond9420Ай бұрын
You are the crazy one here. Your lack of empathy Flores me.... how dare you judge.. ARE YOU GOD?
@americangirl8970Ай бұрын
@@yvettebonfond9420 I have empathy for the children who have to deal with this self-centered loony toon. And the taxpayers who will have to provide for her care.
@susane2131Ай бұрын
Tax payers lost I guess 😂😂😂😂
@syedanajam58342 ай бұрын
Spent the deceased husband's hard earned money on a scammer 👏
@user-dy9bm7sk7n2 ай бұрын
No, she spent the money she scammed from her son in law which he lied about being her employer so she could get the loan...that is fraud, she is no better than the scammer, her son in law could be charged with fraud and her too.
@peaceofmindofpeace16502 ай бұрын
Exactly. On a dating site 2 months after her husband deceased.
@Flo4Keeps2 ай бұрын
Very sad
@khadijahmuhammadkebe9062Ай бұрын
That was horrible, they were married 14 yrs and you moved on after 2 months. They say do not judge, but it's a bit unloving to do that.
@pegzoconnor7205Ай бұрын
And didn't even warn him longer than two months before she went on a dating site. No sympathy for her at all.
@Jhohamm2 ай бұрын
Can’t for my life understand how women fall for this! This has been highlighted again and again for the last 20 years.
@Jem3952 ай бұрын
I don't feel sorry for her. She did this to herself. She ruined her own life.
@barbarazupancicstrugar23682 ай бұрын
and to her family, her grandchildren...as a daughter I would never forgive her
@elipotter3692 ай бұрын
@barbarazupancicstrugar2368 yes, she used and abused her own family - cared more about her picture boyfriend fantasy than her own daughter.
@susanmacdonald1072 ай бұрын
This poor woman is deeply damaged and needs to invest in some hard psychological work to sort out why she would make so many really poor decisions.
@anomietoponymie2140Ай бұрын
Therapy does nothing for innocence (ignorance), unworldliness, broken hearts and low IQ.
@Pho909Ай бұрын
Im watching this from the U.K. I can confirm that no work is being done on London Bridge. This lady seriously needs a reality check.!!
@chantalbutcher9422 ай бұрын
The anger I feel! Not only towards the scammer but towards the damn mother who has done this to her daughter 😡😡
@criszadrozny40152 ай бұрын
I agree. This woman is so deeply selfish, and if I was her daughter, I'd be done with her.
@SherryLoveNyc772 ай бұрын
These people are not victims 😏 they are clients , they are paying Nigerians to make them feel better about themselves with cheap compliments.🙄
@nikiryan86482 ай бұрын
this is it EXACTLY! they are paying to have their ego stroked.
@TedGriffiths-d1u2 ай бұрын
There is a lot of truth in what you say....so needy they will do anything
@delretadonaldson2 ай бұрын
Wow...and you have worked it out just like that.
@JanieBgrand2 ай бұрын
Sounds like you approve of their actions
@TedGriffiths-d1u2 ай бұрын
@@SherryLoveNyc77 l think we can agree that many of these women and men are lonely enough that the overlook the obvious signs... close friends and family can't disswade them....they need absolute proof before they will except their folly
@mariasanchez73082 ай бұрын
If I were her daughter, she would be out of my life. The money she conned came from her hardworking, deceased husband.
@ChicagoWosu16 күн бұрын
I could understand! If my parents refuse to give me money as I grew up and their the once telling me to get a job and never once reward good behavior and have me ten dollars every month, yeah I would be upset that one of my parent is giving money to other people they met online
@pachengchang2 ай бұрын
She looks like she still believes the scammer 😂
@lindalin59982 ай бұрын
Beautiful, good and naive women. She could find men near
@Baracuda-xj6zkАй бұрын
She probably sent him another 10k right after the show as an apology for doubting him. The bish is just like any other woman.
@darraghmurray8159Ай бұрын
Some of the victims still contact them anyway after the show (Catfished) They're addicted to the narrative!
@carolyndavison60952 ай бұрын
An engineer working in a foreign country would not have the expenses he claims. Where is this woman’s common sense? Hard for me to understand her believing his BS.
@ellimae15482 ай бұрын
Agree…she is just plain stupid..
@Happymind-happyworld.2 ай бұрын
I was thinking the same thing too. Those expenses aren’t his business even as a private contractor. 😅
@frugalitystartsathome48892 ай бұрын
Not to mention the fact that he was supposedly working on London Bridge…to prevent it from falling down, perhaps?
@paulacrocker90192 ай бұрын
@@frugalitystartsathome4889😂
@dianeoriander82762 ай бұрын
@@frugalitystartsathome4889ha ha ha
@KatieSalib2 ай бұрын
“ James is a civil engineer, working in London , on a bridge , on a London bridge “ 😂😂😂😂😂
@beryllines3788Ай бұрын
😲 That must be because "🎼London bridge is falling down🎶 Falling down 🎵 Falling down" 🤣
@helenelee21192 ай бұрын
It's an addiction to being romanced coupled with greed after seeing all those fake millions in his bank account. The daughter deserves a medal. There's her inheritance blown 😢
@Myplop2 ай бұрын
Good point 👍
@elipotter3692 ай бұрын
It's completely appalling the way she put the scammer first & is so hopeless she's living off them. She should get a job.
@josiecole4432 ай бұрын
I cant understand anyone ever planning to marry someone they have never met or even facetimed, unless it's an arranged marriage, its absolutely stupid, it's so sad that a person falls for the smooth talk and tell themselves their in love.
@chancest.thomas51602 ай бұрын
"Love After Lockup" 🔐
@cherylbee98992 ай бұрын
He didn’t ruin her life she ruined her own life
@Jolene12222 ай бұрын
Mom is lucky she has a wonderful, loving daughter.
@americangirl89702 ай бұрын
I wouldn't be so nice, and Mom would still have her nest egg and not be a burden to me and the taxpayers. Nice isn't always the way to go.
@Jolene12222 ай бұрын
@@americangirl8970 because you took the time to comment, I looked at your playlist. I was a DJ for 8 years. You have The Floaters listed twice. You love ‘cover’ songs. Interesting selections.
@brandyb29312 ай бұрын
I am losing my mind listening to the amount of money she is giving this guy who she has never met. She fell for this because she hasn't finished grieving her husband and this is a distraction to that pain. 2 months and she's shoppong for someone else.
@beryllines3788Ай бұрын
Oh, I just commented that, then scrolled down to see your comment. AGREE!
@luvcakes2069Ай бұрын
2 months after her husband passed? Wow, lady, did you even have a mourning or grieving period??
@malenaqueteimporta57292 ай бұрын
My grandma used to say there’s no bigger fool than the blind man that doesn’t want to see.
@pdig29632 ай бұрын
That man's probably saying this is saying I hate you, Doctor Phil. You ruined my ATM
@shannamiller24762 ай бұрын
I’m sorry I cracked up lol when she said he told her he was working on a London Bridge…. Why because it fell down?🤭 Don’t report me🤣
@Ladyloubug92 ай бұрын
There’s a difference between ignorance and stupidity. When you use logic and present facts and they still want to pretend in a fantasy, there’s no use in arguing or trying to help. I feel so bad for the daughter
@nordikcajun54172 ай бұрын
I think unfortunately she has both
@anaborges6162 ай бұрын
@@nordikcajun5417💯 true
@bojonsson23632 ай бұрын
How can these victims believe that those scammers who have such bad english could have written these poems in perfect english?????
@arrivagabryАй бұрын
proves they are stupid
@rebelruth9582Ай бұрын
Ain’t cut and paste wonderful?
@debrafrakes6479Ай бұрын
Nearly spit out my hot coffee when she said he is working on the London Bridge. I wish she had told her friends that . They would have showed her the stories.
@aussiemouth7472 ай бұрын
What planet do these people come from when they can't distinguish between a French or German accent and West African? Mind boggling.🤷♀️🙄
@TahihaАй бұрын
Many people never leave their state, their hometown or even their neighborhood. They have no concept of geography and accents etc. It’s shocking but true.
@aussiemouth747Ай бұрын
@@TahihaGoogle...🤔🤷♀️
@bafedileabrammasasa3735Ай бұрын
Nigerians might be using some witchcraft to convince this people 😂
@aussiemouth7477 күн бұрын
@@Tahiha They watch TV and have the internet though. No excuse these days.🤔🤷♀️
@mariagill71292 ай бұрын
I felt angry at women who left daughter in a struggling position but to be honest this woman is grieving and didn't take her time for bereavement. She needs help.
@bunjijumper53452 ай бұрын
You are as mentally ill as she is. You are giving her excuses for what she did, just like she gave to the scammer. You dont know a thing about her relationship with her husband.
@AnimaLibera2 ай бұрын
What blows my mind is that none of these victims appears to detect the African accent. Just listen to the way this guy talks.
@Brook-ct3kk2 ай бұрын
No excuse. She can't even say I KNOW this is a scam
@elipotter3692 ай бұрын
She can't wait to get home & call James.
@Proverbs1Christian2 ай бұрын
German 🇩🇪 born French 🇫🇷 man working on the London Bridge. Sounds legit 😂
@zxyatiywariii82 ай бұрын
With a Nigerian accent too 😂
@elipotter3692 ай бұрын
And sending money to China
@ChicagoWosu16 күн бұрын
Ask Nigerian if bridge ever fell down?
@MariaXLouisa2 ай бұрын
Here's what I don't understand. A plane ticket from the US to London is $500, tops. Why didn't she just fly over there to meet him? She could obviously well afford it. $265,000 and she never got on a plane to meet him??
@sophiaa8842 ай бұрын
These women make me sick. Do they not see that with those scammers, the story is always the same? I can't take money out, I need money to get back "home", my dog died and I need 50 thousand to burry him, lmao. How can they be so naive and actually say, "we haven't met yet, but I "trust" him? He promised to pay me back. Dear Lord, they need to grow up and stop embarrassing themselves and their children...
@elipotter3692 ай бұрын
I would know as soon as I saw the photo something was amiss - men who look like that don't go for old women. I had one od these like me when I first did online dating. I'd never heard of romance scamming, but I just deleted him immediately- he had made a mistake or up to no good.
@BigDog3662 ай бұрын
What scares me is this woman is allowed to vote.
@shyg92502 ай бұрын
I was able to keep a straight face until I read this comment.
@kathconserv2 ай бұрын
Kamala Harris needs all the votes she can get.
@zxyatiywariii82 ай бұрын
Scary indeed.
@deerhaven33502 ай бұрын
Watching this is like watching a train wreck unfolding in slow motion.
@ElizabethWarrenYeahYeah2 ай бұрын
Has she ever thought about what her deceased husband would think?
@miel10742 ай бұрын
The only person she gives a damn about is herself!
@ChrisAndCats2 ай бұрын
Well she was quick enough to replace him after only 2 months.
@FaithfulandTrue9492 ай бұрын
He is probably the reason she is psychologically damaged, love starved and believes a crook! Think people! Vulnerable adult.
@amrahfusion2 ай бұрын
For what reason? He's gone.
@shalayne90542 ай бұрын
@@ChrisAndCatsI thought the same thing. After two months.
@NN-cv4gz2 ай бұрын
She is going to mourn the death of her money longer than she mourns her husband 😢
@AndiAndrea2 ай бұрын
Wow! With DOZENS of red flags, she didn’t detect even one!
@christinas.-b.38202 ай бұрын
When he was on the phone with her i could literally picture his face by that Nigerian accent 😂
@ajokrexyraelАй бұрын
it sounded french to her apparently
@debbiekalfas8696Ай бұрын
Didn’t he say that his parents brought him to the us as an infant?
@anomietoponymie2140Ай бұрын
@@debbiekalfas8696 Yes, she said he did say that and if it were true, he would have no accent at all.
@parelpaardje2 ай бұрын
His name is James Conner but he's from Germany and he has a French accent? The first 10 seconds is enough to know it's a scam😅
@kimmichaud77412 ай бұрын
Exactly what I said
@elipotter3692 ай бұрын
I would know the instant I saw the photo that no guy who looked like that is doing to pick someone over 40 - unless he made a mistake or is up to no good. I just don't understand how gullible and wilfully paying for fantasies these people are.
@lindalin59982 ай бұрын
She fed African children I hope 😅
@SueRosalieАй бұрын
exactly, she ignored every red flag thrown at her
@eternalsunnyАй бұрын
Actually, he has a very nice Nigerian accent!
@glorysmummy21 күн бұрын
I had a scammer yesterday on FB who asked me 3 times what my favourite colour was. He asked me if I wanted children, no, did I have children, no, what was my job so that I could feed my children. He was following a script and couldn't cope when I didn't answer the way he wanted. When he asked what my hobby was I said scam baiting - then blocked him.
@voicesbysonia2 ай бұрын
She needs a state appointed guardian. This can't be real.
@brandyb29312 ай бұрын
She's still gonna talk to this guy.
@barbarazupancicstrugar23682 ай бұрын
addiction
@dianeandries13312 ай бұрын
@@brandyb2931 they often do
@DaveDepilot-KFRG2 ай бұрын
i guarantee she will be talking to him by end of that same day and figuring out how to send him more money
@donna2.0designsАй бұрын
A friend of mine has been divorced for many years. She found a guy on one of the sites and started talking to him. Less then 2 weeks into the "talking" he asked her to send some money to a "daughter" because he couldn't get it to her. She told him how it was, that if you can ask a woman you barely know for money, you're disgusting. I am so proud of her.
@mariaashley872 ай бұрын
Wow I heard this same story from hundreds of scammer victims. I don't understand how love can be so blind, especially when its love online.
@hansendesigns2 ай бұрын
It’s a multi-billion dollar business. It’s the biggest crime facing Americans money-wise. She’s not alone. It’s wiping out the retirement security of a generation.
@terrificbabe6021 күн бұрын
I have to say, she is a complete idiot
@danutajelska362915 күн бұрын
This goes well together with our culture which does not recognize aging and death and is in denial about both. Desperate to look “young” we begin to believe we actually are! Yes, you can look good at any age but old is simply that, old!
@Noneofyours33Ай бұрын
The way she told that scumbag that he hurt her, she doesnt realise that he doesnt care anything about her. Wake up lady.
@SB-0002 ай бұрын
I'm sorry, but if a man wants money from me it's not going to happen!
@Shadox662 ай бұрын
Can I have 5 bucks?
@donnajoogarcia12 ай бұрын
😂@@Shadox66
@bo27202 ай бұрын
No fool like an old fool. Difference is women give their money to a young man without meeting him. Men will only give a younger woman money after they sleep with them 😂
@kerynrabe8110Ай бұрын
Huge red flag
@ruqiyaxasan31962 ай бұрын
Wow if he has millions in his account why he asked her money
@Downsouthroots2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@donholmes32672 ай бұрын
DUH !
@sophiaa8842 ай бұрын
My point exactly. She fell asleep at the wheel...
@kerry19792 ай бұрын
I already told a fashion designer who tried to scam me 20 years ago. If she has that much money. You don't need my help, This was back in 2007 Then I researched & found about scams back then.
@lindaWalters-n1iАй бұрын
I think the idea of going to London and telling him that when he calls is something the show must do, it would be fantastic
@leanderrowe28002 ай бұрын
Many older women flatter themselves that good looking men find them attractive. They refuse to accept that these charming men are after their money. 'No fool like an old fool'.
@someone31872 ай бұрын
Same goes for old men and younger women...
@leanderrowe28002 ай бұрын
@@someone3187 Yes, men do too. My daughter said that in the web, many young women make it their career looking for a wealthy old man.
@bo27202 ай бұрын
@@someone3187Yes but women send money without meeting these men. Men send money once they sleep with a woman😂
@elipotter3692 ай бұрын
@@bo2720no, heaps of men get romance scammed - the latest on Catfished was a 76 year old sending money a 27-year-old instant model type- super crazy & creepy!
@brokenangel2224Ай бұрын
@@bo2720 NOPE!!! Have you ever watched the show, "Scamfish"????
@KathleenMansfield-f7r2 ай бұрын
First red flag Nigeria!!!
@jennifer11102 ай бұрын
Not to mention, his accent.
@marciaschutte31582 ай бұрын
Is he a Prince? 😂😂😂
@doreenchen1024Ай бұрын
Dr Phil professional as always❤
@samanthasmiles91122 ай бұрын
She doesn't want to know the truth. You can see it in her eyes. She hasn't flown to him because she doesn't want to know the reality of the situation. She is THAT lonely that she would rather pay for companionship. This is an addiction.
@pegzoconnor7205Ай бұрын
She also has an ego that makes her think she deserves his younger handsome guy.
@beryllines3788Ай бұрын
I deal with scammers daily and what you said is what the scammers say - they believe they deserve to be paid for their "sweet words". It is one of the "justifications they use for their "work". They call their victims "clients" and they "bill" their clients. I have seen social media pages that scammers ask for help in. "I have a reluctant client, how do I convince them to pay their bill?" They also call their clients "whiteheads" (greying hair of the elderly) who are their main targets. Another justification they use is "We are getting money for what they did to us with slavery."
@ChicagoWosu16 күн бұрын
The truth is nudity is forbidden in All African Countries by law so use your common idea sense!
@FreddyPhatnutz-ue8yl15 күн бұрын
@samanthasmiles9112 she is in denial,it's a mental health issue and she needs a good Christian counseling program that the children can make sure they expose thexsituation of getting conned by a heartless thief as that what they do they are predators,preying on naive ,possibly dementia seniors! I PRAY FOR THE INNOCENT WHO NEED PROTECTION FROM THIS 00PPCPLRIME
@mood777852 ай бұрын
That scammer hit the jackpot
@americanclassic5532 ай бұрын
@@mood77785 yeah and money is worth ten times more over there so he's a millionaire now. My scammer drove a Mercedes. I googled the name he wanted in his check. The one I never sent because I was freshly cheated on and never er knew there was a such thing as a scammer.
@centurione64892 ай бұрын
This woman needs a legal guardian. Respectfully so.
@stacyfishback78932 ай бұрын
I'm going through this with my mother right now. She's nearly homeless, and I don't know what to do... She's borrowed from everyone and owes them all, and she lies to us and behaves erratically when we won't give in to her requests for financial help. HOW DO YOU HELP THESE PEOPLE?!
@helenelee21192 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. It's an addiction, like being a hoarder, an alcoholic or a gambler. Your mom is chasing the thrill of hearing those sweet little lies, hoping for her happily ever after with a rich handsome Prince Charming who cares if she's eaten that day. Show her that he's a scammer, get her to block him, then help her manage her finances. If she refuses, walk away. Good luck ❤
@helenestiernstrand65752 ай бұрын
You cant.
@jo-annahicks33242 ай бұрын
Contact Dr Phil
@americanclassic5532 ай бұрын
@@stacyfishback7893 they never video chat. That's a giveaway right there. I googled the name in the check I never wrote. It led to a Mercedes dealer he bought his car from in South Africa. then I realized these guys exist.
@brandyb29312 ай бұрын
She's grieving her husband and this is filling that whole. This is keeping her from having to think about her husband. She sought a relationship 2 months after her husbands death. Not to mention, his voice, that is a black man from somewhere in Africa. He accent reminds me of one of mu coworkers who is from there.
@sandylyle6212 ай бұрын
One good about being poor, you wont let yourself get scammed cause you dont have anything to give them
@susanpage83152 ай бұрын
If a scammer contacted me I’d ask for money first. They’d dump me real fast!
@sandylyle6212 ай бұрын
@susanpage8315 that's good one. But I just tell them to stop asking or they are getting blocked
@VeronicaMoreno-qd8yh2 ай бұрын
@@susanpage8315 *A scammer will ask you for a small amount first.They might even return it to you and then go from there*