Thoughts on Becoming a Proper Kind of Man

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[@TheUnheardVoices_]

5 essential tips to be a proper man; 1. Be a good man (care for others) 2. Be dangerous (protect the family) 3. Be educated (read & experience) 4. Be calm (walk away from noise) 5. Be wise (apply what you know)

[@woutermollema]

Very true

[@ronaldomontora2449]

Gospel right here.

[@woutermollema]

@@JackNapierRisus for me it helps to spend time alone and meditate

[@BrettD_SVT]

@@JackNapierRisus Patience takes practice. Take time to yourself to reflect and you will become more self aware of your actions in the present from that reflection

[@TWMack]

@@JackNapierRisus What helped me was to challenge my own perspective. I used to battle with a lot of road rage - constantly snapping on others that didn't drive what I thought was "the right way". Now, I'm terrible at arithmetic. I struggle with remembering numbers - which is kinda key to the whole thing... So I started imagining those folks on the road screaming at me while I try to do math. It became a point on the horizon I could look to for calm. Sounds strange, but this applied to so many different paths in my life.

[@joelb360]

"The absence of evil is not an automatic indicator of the presence of good" Beautiful words sir.

[@Jim-Mc]

I'd just add that's because evil is already just the absence of good, not a thing of itself.

[@onamattapeeya]

And that applies to so many things

[@stevejeffrey11]

learned this the hard way, especially from women

[@realyopikechannel]

the way i look at it most people today aren't good at all. its kinda like all you wouldn't think of an older person as being stupid for not knowing how to use an iPhone. it was never taught to them they didnt grow up with it and it came around when they were past their prime. you don't consider a young person smart for knowing how to use iPhone because they grew up with it its all they know. same with morals, they were taught this ultra moralistic view of the world and they've never known anything else. they assume they are good people because they are just inherently good, the reality is they would be whoever they were raised to be, if they were born in Nazi Germany they most likely woulda been a Nazi. if born in the American south at the right time most of them wouldn't have thought twice about owning slaves. this is true of almost every person, but it seems so many people refuse to accept this reality. this is why stuff like moral philosophy or religion or spiritualism or family values or just anything that grounds you morally is so essential, without it we can stray so far from being anything resembling "good".

[@Kinobambino]

@@Jim-Mc ahhh that's why folks say your silence on a subject IS a stance in itself. Silence is compliance

[@DryCreekWranglerSchool]

For all of the know-it-all’s out there that are so blasted worried about the barn, I moved inside the door of that barn to get out of the rain. It had been raining for hours and the wind has been blowing in, the hay was soaking wet. Give a guy a little bit of credit. I know a thing or two because I’ve seen a thing or two.

[@EricT01]

Adds to the character quite frankly. I like it.

[@TheCheshireProphet]

Silence is complacency.

[@The_Gallowglass]

@ Dry Creek Wrangler School what do you care what they say? You know what's goin on'. Ignore em'. That's what me ma always told me. Actually she said, "Fuck 'em." :D

[@sergeantstadankoakalardass1046]

Still ignorant

[@shaunleevanarsdale7950]

taking the time to educate the ignorant, or hopeless know-it-alls, they listen but they don't hear. Just be calm and silent. Be silent 90% and only ask questions 10% of the time this is the 90-10 rule it would be good of your watchers to practice this and watch there lives change before there very eyes.

[@roi2426]

I’m a young black male from the south. That’s relevant only because I’ve grown up in a very different generation, with very different experiences and exposures, with likely very different politics from Dwayne. Yet I find so much incredible benefit in listening to him teach me about what really matters beneath all those superficial layers & labels we use to divide ourselves in society, and use his advice to work on becoming the man I hope to be. If there’s one thing I’ve learned in my few years, it’s that when a man of sage wisdom is willing to impart it …You shut up. Listen carefully. Say thank you. Then go do it. Thank you, sir.

[@sb859]

The Classics, never go out of style. Enjoy the style lessons.

[@skyadventurer7574]

We come from different places, but respect, self control, patience, open mindedness, these are all things we have to pursue. I consider that man a brother who pursues those things. So come on bro, let’s be men and change the world for the better huh?

[@custerranch]

Very well said!

[@Normal_macdonald]

Nr

[@karenthomas6737]

Amen 🙏 I agree absolutely 💯

[@thurlravenscroft2572]

When I joined the military, I was astounded at the number of guys that didn’t know how to do anything. They couldn’t work with tools, didn’t know anything about cars, couldn’t cook, clean, balance a checkbook the list goes on. I had to ask one of them why they didn’t know how to do anything. The answer I got was: “I didn’t have anyone to teach me.” So, I think a big part of being a good man, is teaching young men how to do stuff and how to live and work in society.

[@haruhana1743]

Very sad. And the school systems are trying to turn them into woman to boot.

[@Kinobambino]

None of that means anything. How can you penalize people for not knowing something? Were they willing to learn? That's all that matters

[@thurlravenscroft2572]

@@Kinobambino I didn’t penalize anyone for anything. I simply made an observation.

[@hounddog2952]

US Military = Soyjers of Israel 😂 😂 😂

[@JDMvids1105]

yes. now a days it can amaze you the amount of men today that cant change their own tires.

[@rogergardner7740]

"If you like to read, you will never be Lonely" I am 72 yr old Senior male and this is great advice heck I am learning a few things myself here Nice work:)

[@pjbyrne6834b]

Good on you Roger! Keep it up. 💪

[@fairy12324]

Keep it up 😊❤ im 31 but alone alot. Feeling lonely until i bought a few books and started to feel less lonely and more knowlage x

[@Jaxxsin_Coke]

ROGER!! Those 2 sentences got mustard, what's a great book of any genre that you've read that stuck with you.... "The Secret" the mind power i learned from that book at the time i learned it may have changed my life more than just an extra book on a shelf. ROGER FOR PREZ!!!!!

[@mohdashhad622]

Read Qur'an . It will take you closer to Allah

[@Riley_04]

May God Bless you Roger Gardner

[@juiceleethewarriorpoet]

I been off social media for about 4 months, saving ALL my money, and been focused on training, WORKING, and taking care of my lady, and my daughter. Thank you for helping us with stay on this traditional path, and keeping us grounded. Continue to live with honor fellas!! ✊🏾

[@opuscat999]

This IS social media, so WTF?

[@GawainSSB]

@Autumn Doe the big social media sites are a threat to society if you ask me. KZbin is a little different in that it's more about watching long form stuff, the "social" aspect ie comments are just a secondary aspect. On twitter the echo chamber and "discussion" aspects are way more emphasized. More harm than good.

[@tankmchavocproductions6907]

@@opuscat999 KZbin is basically 21st century TV

[@DaveShaves44]

been off social media and havent watched the news since 2020. let me tell you, its changed my life completely. COMPLETELY

[@jareddahlseid551]

Welcome back lol.

[@aeoteroa818]

I have a friend named Logan that is like this. and just working with him has made me look to him as an example and I have consciously changed for the better. His kindness threw a wrench in my nihilism and cynicism. He's one of the highest quality people I know

[@tonio47]

That's beautiful man, may you continue to propser for your own greater good and those around you, god bless you and your friend logan! Hope all is well with you :)

[@rodneytyus]

"A wise man speaks because he has something to say, a fool, because he has to say something." - Plato One of my dad's favorite sayings was, "If you tell everything you know, everyone knows what you know and what they know." Enjoy your videos. Keep up the good work.

[@willysnowman]

Bonezpurz never shuts up.

[@messageoflove1969]

That first one is classic. I might have to shut up more.

[@sadhu7191]

Sad thing is this will go viral

[@silverpennypromotions4637]

@@sadhu7191 ​ how is this sad? Yes, the intro sucks, but is the knowledge he’s passing on not beneficial? This is pure tons of Gold for those that are 2 feet from Gold and seeking it? Willing to persevere! “What’s your mission?”

[@Hashslingingslasher-]

I dont mind sharing knowledge and interesting people will share knowledge back. Your dad may've just wanted an excuse for not knowing anything

[@ChiralSpirals]

Every blue moon, the youtube algorithm gifts you something amazing. This resonates so much with me. Im only 32 but Ive been a piece of work from 13 years old onward, but I never did give up on being a better man throughout. However I do look back and wonder if the person who did all the atrocious things I did in the past was even me at times. Its funny how our brains change with age.

[@mtnbums2000]

The good journey has just began for you, enjoy it and never look back you’re not going that way.

[@freshliving4199]

It’s not the brains that need to change but the spirit.

[@threegreencharms]

Word brotha

[@seabhac7147]

@fresh living- very true. Well said.

[@melazmusic]

reality is only but a moment in time, our lives doesn't have to be the mirror reflection of who or what we imagine ourselves to be but rather a construct of happenings that shaped us to be the hammer at the end of it all.

[@Shannara69]

I'm a British guy but everything this guy says is true. Don't watch the news, look after your family and friends and stand up for what's right. I smiled through this whole chat from a man who has learned wisdom.

[@djrudog1158]

And look after others like refugees 👍

[@Suiseisexy]

So...just keep our heads down and out of the government's way, and whatever you think you know, you don't know? lol do remoaners count as british? i'm not sure about that one buddy.

[@CasualPoster]

@@Suiseisexy He's saying it's not worth getting upset about the news, because it's all a stage and they're gonna do their b.s. anyway, not to keep your head down and let the govt do whatever it wants.

[@xaeoxic7328]

This is what Americans stand for. Sadly, which you touched on, the news paints us poorly. All we want is to just do to others as we would want. Be kind, be good.

[@xaeoxic7328]

@@Suiseisexy fight for what's right

[@hhlagen]

Another great chat. Reminds me of my husband. He was quiet ,easy going and hilariously deceptive with a slow southern drawl. He used to say “people just think I’m stupid because I talk funny. That’s fine” He could discuss anything with anybody on their own level. Look out if a person had bad intentions toward our kids or me. They would never see it coming. Miss him everyday.

[@firearmretreat]

Wishing you the best; so sorry for you loss. Sounds like a great man. I'm a kinda young, 31, looking for my wife and can only pray that person would miss me when I leave this earth. What yall have is special, and I hope you know he's looking down on you each and every second of every day.

[@naylik2562]

Without the religious goobledigook, sorry for your loss. Seemed like a good man.

[@linepup4208]

"Knowledge is knowing that a tomato is classified as a fruit. Wisdom is knowing not to put it in a fruit salad." Love that quote.

[@thattimestampguy]

0:00 Mornin 1:16 Anything you’d like to know? 1:42 The Cigar 3:46 Lots of Lost Young Men 4:20 5 Things 4:39 #1 Work on bein a Good Man • + - and neutral Being Good is Proactive Doing something Not extreme, just care about people “How you doin today?” “You alright? Anything I can do to help?” 8:17 #2 Be A Dangerous Man He was with The Sheep 🐶 🐑 🐑 🐑 Doing Good Protecting Those Around Us 11:21 “I am not a danger to those around me.” 12:58 #3 Be Educated Work your muscle Keep learning Better better better Read and improve 14:50 Be Calm “This is not the Me that used to be.” Turn the things off that destroy your calm. 17:08 Quit the jacked up sugar 18:50 Go into your conflict calm 19:37 Wisdom and Knowledge You don’t have to tell other people everything you know 21:37 Pretend to be that man 22:17 Sit down and figure out what kinda man do you want to be? 22:44 We need Good Effective Men. “We have enough neutrals” Would you leave a hole? Leave a big hole when you leave this world.

[@Refiningforge]

You are pretty cool

[@JustAnotherEagleScout]

Thanks man

[@oooodles3]

I love you That Time Stamp Guy !!!

[@fireballfitness170]

Good, dangerous, educated, calm, what was number five? Was it have a destination? Leave a big hole? Be effective? I appreciate the time stamps.👏

[@pantherman8719]

Lol 0:00 mornin.

[@TheRealJohnMadden]

Asking someone "is there anything I can do to help" is really important. People love to ask "What's wrong" if you see someone blue, but the issue is, chances are that person has no clue what's wrong and you just made everything worse. Just asking if there's anything they need help with or anything they'd like to talk about is important. We need to look after each other, especially our young men. Not a lot of them have father figures or people that care, be the person who does care!

[@romancarlisle7577]

Dewayne, This is absolutely my favorite video that you’ve made. I’m a young man that’s looking to separate myself from the rest of my generation by embracing more traditional values, work ethic, and mindset. This, along with so much of your other advice has helped me greatly in doing so. Just wanted to say thank you for that!

[@MsQ275]

get married to a GOOD woman and start having children in your 20s. it will keep you focused on the right things in life. Go to a Christian church and find that woman.

[@garyj2101]

​@@MsQ275 that is really good advice!

[@elfpower8300]

@@jakubatube what is a thoguht? Curious.

[@wvbonbonqueen]

ROMAN CARLISLE: I am a woman, and have been married to the same fellow for 51 years and he always tells anyone who asks, how we made it work. He tells them that you must Communicate to each other. Find you a woman who thinks like you think. Discuss everything always. Hubby and I married after dating for only 6 weeks, and no we didn't know each other before that either, we did live in the same small community but didn't know each other. In that 6 weeks we talked about what our marriage was going to be like, I wasn't going to volunteer each other to do things, for each others parent. That causes a lot of discourse. But the best thing you can do in any relationship, talk about what you expect, and what you want from that relationship. TALK to that person who you are interested in, watch how she acts and reacts to life in general. Good Luck Sir!!!! I pray you find someone who will be a good fit for you, as we, hubby and I did.

[@camd4648]

I am in the same shoes as you brother, take it one step at a time, you'll get there. I'm 24. My biggest conflict currently is my health, I got EoE, can't eat much food and that means I can't maintain my weight very well. Money is tight, and stress is overwhelming to the point my teeth starting to fall apart. But, I know if I take action and work on myself and my mindset, things can and will get better. In December of 2020, I was homeless. Today, I'm on my own, making ends meet with a nice job. One hurdle done, but many more to go. Never give up.

[@bladudemovies]

I’m a woman, but many of these points hit home, especially the importance of calmness. Got my lesson from a SCUBA instructor many years back. “Calm people live” she said. I’ll never forget that

[@tharding621]

Iv never regretted being calm in a storm.

[@SyntagmaStation]

Savannah, not surprised you feel that way because I think these are human virtues he’s talking about. A lot of lads don’t have any of it these days and a few of these things, boys are being taught are bad attributes - IF you’re a boy. They don’t know what they’re supposed to be. It’s easier to just check out.

[@Kinobambino]

Good to know. I've been calm as far back as I remember. Good to know I'm doing something right

[@SeemsLogical]

My karate sensei taught me the importance of being calm, especially in a fight. Do not give into anger and do not give in to fear. I think his exact words that he said to my class were "As long as you can think, you are always armed and you are always dangerous."

[@freshliving4199]

Be still and know. Doesn’t get more calm than that. There a power in the stillness that reveals all you will ever need to know.

[@gustavbrucefors86]

Im 18 years old and came across this video a cuple of weeks ago. My life has made a major turn since watching this video, and applying it to my life. For that I want to say, thank you sir.

[@amanali3192]

As a 22 year old, It’s challenging for me to understand and act as a proper man. I grew up with only my mother and three older sisters. My father was there until the age of 7 and I feel as though I have never really learned how to act like a man with his absence. I figured out a little bit about being a proper kind of person, but not a proper kind of man. You’re videos help me out very much in understanding what it means to be a man and shape an ideal of how I want to be, something that was left out for me while growing up. Thank you.

[@dieseldachshund639]

It's a journey amanali. Keep growing and be the best man you can be. You're going to change over the years for the better.

[@godsoncoke]

I feel you dude

[@-qj6ps]

We need it in this world more than anything right now.

[@Noneofyourbyisness]

If your dad wasn't in your life I doubt it was much you could learn from him anyway. Your mother deserves more credit.

[@Tamed_Erick02]

Exactly the same position but I’m learning through experience

[@jarchibald74]

Some of the most level-headed people I know were hotheads in their younger years. It took me years of hard knocks and heartache to reach calm. I am 47 years old and still seeking self improvement. You inspire me to keep trying. Thanks!

[@EssPhour]

Being a hot head and having a short temper exposes one to the hard knocks of life, hard lessons are very impressionable and humbling on ones psyche....Plus as men we are just running on higher testosterone in our younger years, I reflect on the fights I got into when I was younger, and sometimes it was just ego and me trying to prove myself to myself, now I see it all differently, I have since learned how handle myself in a physical altercation, and now I take more pride and self satisfaction in identifying the situation and avoiding it before it gets physical, or the ability to deescalate the situation so it doesn't get physical.

[@curtisphillips4497]

Generally speaking, as a man about your age, who enjoys his 5 children and 8 grandchildren, an occasional cigar, and the outdoors, I would like to say thank you. Your philosophy is much like mine and I enjoy hearing you talk about things that matter in addition to the interest your viewers have in wrangling. As for showing Momma on the channel, talk about the parenting philosophy that guided you as you raised your children and how you all interact with your adult children. Also, have a conversation about how you make your marriage successful.

[@firearmretreat]

video just came out today, and its amazing

[@connormcgarvey2942]

I love how general your videos are. I'm lgbt, live in a decently big town and am focusing on computer science stuff, but i learn something from almost every video you make.

[@susanhoskins5285]

1. Goodness 2. Dangerousness 3. Education 4. Calmness 5. Wisdom I love how all of these can be developed no matter who you are or where you live. Truth rings true whether you live in downtown New York or a deep Holler in Kentucky! I love everything about this!

[@analyticalhabitrails9857]

Like the BOOK of book said, We can do nothing against the truth, but for the truth.

[@tacoswelding8411]

Not really the definition of dangerous but ok 😂

[@ynpavo]

@Palhaço Triste dont be so bitter. There's a lot a woman can take away from this video as well. Try to appraciate likeminded people, regardless of their gender, and grow alongside them. Instead of looking for enemies everywhere you go

[@paulbainjr]

I deleted all my subscriptions to my political channels, and replaced them with channels like these. I have never been happier not that I’m blind to other things just opening my life to always learning more and more . ☕️ 👍🏻

[@nickgarnero9843]

You got got a good perspective and I appreciate it.

[@Mandalor_the_Lonely]

Pretty much did the same. Unsbbed all the "outrage" channels and whenever a news style video pops i click "Do not recommend". It's basically trying to find wholesome content.. and religions/Christian content. A few Vloggers of Village/Dacha life style in Russia and Ukraine

[@fromoutofnowhere782]

Man I did the same thing. You may already know about him, but check out Donnie Laws channel. He does stories about Appalachian history, trail cams, metal detecting and even ghost stories.

[@paulbainjr]

@@fromoutofnowhere782 Thanks I’ll check his channel out 🙂

[@fromoutofnowhere782]

@@paulbainjr You're welcome man.

[@MerakiPLyhne]

Ha, I was nr. 100.000 like! And I just found this channel. Tells you something about your success and the value you bring. Thank you.

[@slimpickens9103]

One of the most dangerous men I ever met was one of the happiest men I ever met. He was at peace with who he was. He taught me a lot when I was a boy.

[@mysticpresence]

The most dangerous people are the ones with nothing to lose.

[@chettjr1140]

@@mysticpresence very true but people with everything too lose will do anything not too lose what they have built it can make a very dangerous person

[@mysticpresence]

@@chettjr1140 Agreed, makes me think of a Mama Grizzly protecting her cub. Being a chameleon is an underrated skill. Blending in, avoiding conflicts, and making quick decisions. Because if I run into someone with nothing to lose, I'd just humble myself and take a superficial defeat knowing my life is intact.

[@joshlower1]

@@mysticpresence a man with everything to lose is far far far more dangerous and will stop at nothing to protect his own.

[@naylik2562]

my dad wasn't one of those. He was a miserable msnbc type dads who wanted to look like the good guy without really doing anything in the big scale. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. Weak men create bad times. Bad times are what's aheed of us right now I'm affraid.

[@billsoule3851]

Sir, I can’t thank y’all enough for this video. I shared this video with my stepson and soon enough the entire family was listening. I’m blessed to have 3 daughters and a stepson. I’m cursed to raise them in a world infinitely more complicated then it was 40 years ago when I was a kid. Content, and people like yourself, are harder and harder to come by. Thank you very much.

[@sythos_]

“It is better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener in a war.”

[@paulgoogol2652]

"war sucks". Seems more accurate.

[@snowfrosty1]

@@paulgoogol2652 Nah, it doesn't for some & for many it's a baptism by fire. Read Ernst Junger

[@paulgoogol2652]

@@snowfrosty1 i spit on religions bro.

[@jamesaswell6309]

. . . Chinese proverb

[@Marcelo-ju1fr]

@@paulgoogol2652of course. but not being prepared for it is stupid.

[@Kg317-rk7ff]

I recently lost my dad in November and found a lot of comfort in someone very similar as the man he was. Love the wisdom. Please do more videos covering life’s journey as a man! Keep it up

[@nicholasfurnari8691]

I'd love for "Mama" to talk about raising a big family while living this lifestyle, and also traveling so much around the country/world.

[@7VSF-SR72-OA-X33]

I second that, full of insight and wisdom without doubt.

[@LindzHoward]

Yep, this would be great.

[@olafwessel3545]

very good idea, i'd love to hear her and her point of view.

[@kylemadrid5481]

Adding to that I'm curious of what mama thinks a woman's greatest responsibility is when raising a family.

[@johnwoolverton3374]

That would be an interesting discussion.

[@jvv80085]

Even though I’m a girl this video helped me realize the kind of person I want to become, I often return to it when I feel lost with myself.

[@mraarontorres]

Curious if there's women who give valuable life advice on KZbin, over 15 years I been looking & can't find any .. just curious where women get wisdom

[@avalonjustin]

It's good advice for men and women, for everyone!

[@EmSeezStudio]

@@mraarontorres Same place as men I would think. And elders and mentors.

[@maggiepatterson7949]

And, i might add, the kind of man you want!

[@ezekielgdk]

You can apply this wisdom if you’re a woman, just might have to tweak a few things but this is overall great wisdom for humans in general

[@hmmm2183]

The bad man never learns from his mistakes… The good man learns from his mistakes… The wise man learns from other man’s mistakes

[@ryanlipkin6964]

There are so many golden nuggets in this talk. One that I used to agree with that I have since changed my mind about is getting worked up over disrespect. I from now on will only become violent over a possible life threat, just about everything else I must walk away from for my family. I mean too much to my family to lose my life over words. An incredible book to read encompassing this idea that changed my actions in many ways is “When violence is the answer” If you lose your life over disrespectful words, you may not be present for your family one day to protect them from a real life threat.

[@ryanlipkin6964]

I see where you are Coming from but this is Not really the type of situation I was referring too. I’m talking about people using words against me or my family saying things to me or them and not escalating something over words name calling or verbal disrespect.

[@CoreyMartin83]

This is one of those rare times when KZbin recommends a new type of video, that actually resonates with me. I'm 38, but have never felt like I've grown into a full father figure and have instead been toeing the line between being a stupid young man, and Red Foreman (Which is what my wife has started calling me, and it fits). The thoughts in the video have opened my eyes to the fact I'm stuck with with the negative parts of youth, and the negative parts of maturity without that good stuff in the middle. I'm going to do some self evaluation and find a place to implement these "Rules" into my daily life. Thank you for the great insight!

[@danielstrother2494]

I feel this

[@cpauguste]

Grandpa Dwayne please dedicate a series of life videos. I’m 21 grew up without a father and I yearned for a father figure and guidance from a man. You’ve changed the way I think. Also make a video telling your whole life story and relationship advice. Thank you for everything 🙏🏾

[@dragonballzkai9283]

Right here with you man.

[@lizzymeacham3224]

Just the fact that you want to learn speaks volumes about your character already

[@cpauguste]

@@lizzymeacham3224 thank you so much

[@Anonymous-jy5ew]

Same here bud. The quilt of my life is stitched together from all the fabric of stories from men no one would listen to, not even their own kids.

[@lerg12]

26 and never had one either, I also desired the same

[@shawnsmith4692]

12:48 I don't think I've ever heard someone say this, but this is exactly how I feel. I'm not the person I need to be to be worthy of having a good woman who loves me and a family that depends on me. It would be wrong for me to go after things I'm not prepared to support and defend, even if I want them more than my next breath.

[@jasonkhoury4328]

Dude, that's a brutally honest thing to realise and admit - not an easy thing to do. Most blokes I've known in your situation play the victim. Most won't even admit this to themselves.

[@thefaraon6079]

Word for word.That is exactly what i am feeling and thinking

[@skybison_9]

Self honesty is part of the list for sure. I grew up thinking I didn’t want a family because the world sucks. Now I do want a family but I’m honest with myself I’m not ready in many ways and it sucks. We were all scammed in the education system dumbing us down about the reality of life.

[@mohe81]

And now its 1.2 Mio subscribers. Shows how much this is needed nowadays.

[@IvanPerez-cs7me]

Thank you for making these videos. I grew up in a very dysfunctional family. My father was emotionally absent, and when he wasn't, he was explosive and angry. I suffered a lot of trauma growing up and I ended up with life-long mental health issues. I'm 25 now trying to become financially independent from my family, and truthfully, it's damn hard. Some days I feel like there's a void inside of me that will never be filled. I'm not gonna stop trying to build my own path and learning how to be a strong, kind, good man - but recently, I've felt so lost. I'm a pretty sensitive guy and sometime it's hard to stand strong when all my examples of manhood were from angry, broken men. Finding this channel brought tears to my eyes - It's given me hope during a hard time.

[@snowmandashowman]

Hey brother It’s gonna be alright. You’re not alone, we’re out here dealing with the trauma just as you are. Day by day we’re getting better though & that’s the bright side to that shadowy void. It gets better

[@badwolfkorko1153]

i come from a similar family background and i think i can relate with you. personally after all the trauma,misery and just awful memories he scared deeply into me i gave him some chances to understand my point of view,my feelings towards him as a kid and now as an adult and see for myself why he acted as he did.he never understood or didnt want to understand my side,his side was that work was too stressful and too time consuming to bother with anything else. he never understood his mistakes,his excuse was always that this was how he was raised. i made it clear to him that he may be my biological father but he is never allowed to call himself a father or call me his son in my presence. the man is beyond redemption in my eyes for he is too blind to see the damage he has done. the only good thing i got from him is a very clear picture as to what a man should never be or become especially if he wants a family

[@codyburt6536]

@@badwolfkorko1153 Forgive him. Shows him what a real man (or woman, if you are one) looks like by putting the past in the past. Who knows, maybe he will admire you for your strength in doing the hard (but right) thing (taking responsibility for your conditions, not blaming other, forgiving, etc) versus the easy (but wrong) thing (which would be to hold on to those hard feelings and continue blaming him for the way he acts/acted) and decide to change himself. Maybe he won't change, but that doesn't matter. What matters is that you will have done the right thing, built your character, let go of the past, and become a better person because of it. So as hard as it is, just let go and forgive. Oh, and yes, I agree, learn from his mistakes, and do better than he did. You don't have to carry on any generational dysfunctions. Brake the chain.

[@badwolfkorko1153]

@@codyburt6536 (im sorry for the veeery long reply but hopefully you have the time to read it and understand)you seem like a compassionate,good person,im pretty sure you had your own rough times. to help make the picture a bit more clear,i have expressive aphasia,nothing too severe,i can hold a conversation but in a bit slower than normal pace so i can have time to really put down what i want to say and make it understandable,it is much easier for me to write/type my thoughts than talking but it is almost impossible for me to express myself when very stressed or emotionally charged. as a kid whenever my "father" came back from work the rule was not to make a single sound or there was a beating because he needed his "nap after work" time.i couldnt play with toys because of that,i couldnt laugh,i couldnt watch tv.i had to stay in my room and look at the ceiling if i had no homework to do because i was told i was too young to go out and play with other kids without one of my parents to look over me,so i never felt i had made a true connection with any of the kids at my age during school. of course the beatings were not limited to making sounds and waking him up,multiple times he came drunk late at night and started hitting me while i was asleep cause reasons,i really dont know(he always refused that ever happened or he just didnt remember). every friend i had growing up always commented how silent i was and almost never laughed,others considered me just miserable and pushed me away from their friend circles. it was extremely hard for me at a younger age to understand my whole situation and also to open up and explain why i was like i was. by the age of 15-16 i was trying everything i could to stay away from home to avoid him and had attempted to run away a few times but i was too lost and young to figure out the hows and where to go or what to do. i had made attempts to explain my situation to others(adults with families) but it always went very poorly and even was made fun of and belittled. timeskip a few years later i went to a specialist because of severe depression and being suicidal and was diagnosed with cptsd.i had very "hostile ideas" towards him over the years but never acted on them cause freedom is one of the most important things for me and getting locked up would be worse than death. i could sue him,take him to court but i highly doubt its worth the money and time. i just dont care about him enough to make him suffer in any way. im not a religious person but if there is a hell i know for sure that he is going to the bottom of that pit. currently im at a much better place mentally,much more relaxed and looking to do something with my life. i dont know about forgiveness,maybe in a way of not caring i have forgiven him and moved on but i cant say i understand him

[@codyburt6536]

@@badwolfkorko1153 I also express myself much better when I have time to think through my thoughts and write them down. Sorry for your rough childhood. I guess those times with your father taught you what kind of person you don't want to be. Hopefully you can learn from it and be better than he was/is.

[@joannehart9624]

So much wisdom right there!! Life is very much like being on a sailboat. You can either let the wind blow you this way and that, or you can take hold of the tiller and sail to your destination. Don't let the wind dictate where life takes you. Set sail and use that wind to get you to your destination.

[@supDED]

I would much rather let Mother Nature send me adrift, aimlessly on the ocean, cloudhidden, whereabouts unknown.

[@codyway7424]

As a country guy around your age who is often asked by younger men how to be mor successful in life. I give them 2 pieces of advice. 1. Don't be so quick to marry, as love is blind. Listen to older men that you respect that are on the outside looking in. 2. Limit your debt. Period. Then find a frugal woman who is willing to work and wait for the rewards.

[@davidfong1565]

Cody Way: After 48 years of marriage to one woman(by the grace of God), I would say, look for and marry as smart & wise a woman as you can find who will put up with you. To that end, make yourself as tolerable as you possibly can. And overall, get to know God. No matter what you are able to accomplish by your sheer will, it will amount to nothing in the end if you reject Him. Make no mistake, the war on common sense and decency that is going on today is directed at the person of God & His image reflected in His creation, particularly mankind. Most of those involved in the attack against God don't understand that's what they're doing the unseen forces driving them surely do!

[@JamesReborn2023]

@@davidfong1565 utter truth, brother. 100%

[@AdamSmithChill]

you're unfamiliar with the modern problems young men have to deal with. you're telling them to look for a frugal woman meanwhile most of the women their age are busy taking pictures of their ass to post on instagram and sleeping with strangers from tinder. how are they going to limit their debt when it costs 160k to for a 4 year degree that's required by most adult jobs. and you need a 30 year mortgage for an average house. sorry pops it's a different world than the one you grew up in.

[@oneforall2933]

@@davidfong1565 Yes!

[@Rvictorbravo]

My wife of 30 yrs was brilliant and fierce. She died from premature dementia. She was frugal and supportive 100%. I learned so much from her. BTW, she treasured that I was dangerous

[@JockStrapified]

“Become a man that leaves a big hole when he leaves this world.” I understand the point to leave a hole in peoples hearts and be worth missing. But wisdom will tell you not to leave a physical hole in your line of work or leave a hole in your family that they can’t fill. Knowing you are leaving someday, teach the people around you to be able to fill the role you played. Great video.

[@kowbuoy1]

Wonderful, beautiful, & very true..!!!!!!

[@kuhndog-1196]

I have cut out tv. Got a few channels on youtube I watch and that's about it. This is some real good advice. I'm 27 and just feel like I'm going in circles. The path you laid out here is a logical starting point for me. Thanks.

[@bikerbobcat]

If I had a time machine to tell 27yr old me, of a similar mind, I'd say this: The path is the point. Learn everything you can about everything you can, help wherever and however you can. That's it. That's all you need to do. Anyone telling you that you should be doing this or that by this age, or certain material things to acquire "to be successful" is selling something. Explore, discover, create, help along the way. The rest will take care of itself.

[@wesscotchdog9078]

I don't envy you. I'm 2 decades older than you, so I grew up in a different age. One of skepticism and self education. I have, in the last 5 years, lost much of my material wealth due to the oppressive times we live in. I would not trade that for subservience to evil.

[@DisfiguredGaming]

@@bikerbobcat I can't thank you enough. My birthday is due in a few days and I have been terrified. I will be 27, and your comment couldn't help enough. "The path is the point" brought me to tears and I felt sort of realisation, looked up from my phone and just gazed Infront of me while little details I've missed for years rushed towards me. Everything was suddenly fascinating beyond imagination and while I was weeping I really felt that there's no destination to be reached and you gave my whole soul comfort.

[@kevinsalsibury8433]

You have shown wisdom in your words and actions. Life was meant to be enjoyed through experiences not the accumulation of things. Cheers to you mate

[@alittleofthisandthat8003]

Watched my step father get killed in front of me 24 years ago and sometimes it feels like we were just talking yesterday. I tried to model him for my entire teens and young adulthood but I could never really be him. It destroyed me that I could never seem to reach that goal. He was one of those people that left a hole in the local community when he passed, they shut down local business for the funeral and people just couldn't believe he was gone. He was just a average working man but one of those that effected everyone he came in contact with and don't mess with his family. That hole never goes away or gets filled. I understand what this man is saying 100%

[@rcb5697]

What you’re doing brother is very important & needed these days . I’m 28, I have a 2 yr old son. my first child(his momma ain’t around). I was raised by my mother & grandmother around drugs ,violence, negativity etc. Being a father is intimidating of course but even more so when you didn’t have any examples on how to be one . I just moved from where I was born & raised to get a new chance at life,for my boy . Your videos bring me motivation & hope , a lot of it .. I was at a crossroads in my life when I found your YT channel. It certainly helped me make the jump to try an change myself & become someone I’m comfortable with my son looking up to.. Please continue with these as long as possible , what your doing is greatly appreciated & NEEDED . God bless you , your journey & all your loved ones sir. Thankyou ✌🏼

[@Brien92]

I’ve always said, when I die if my family can write on my headstone “here lies a good man” then I lived a proper life. That is all I need.

[@orebbeccap4119]

If you dont mind, I'd like to share the Gospel with you since I love for you to make it to the kingdom of heaven. You seem like a lovely person and I just love to share it with you. God created the universe and earth in his divine image along with that he created man and women. Adam and Eve who we're were the first people to live along side him in harmony. But when man was tempted and ate of the fruit of God and evil we lost everything and sin came into the world through them. God seeing man fall into such despair and destruction through our sins, later on made Jesus christ in order to teach us his ways in order to reach his kingdom. Jesus died the death we all deserved but he was the sacrifice that played a role in order to have all our sins forgiven by God and no longer have the need to sacrifice animal's in that place. Jesus laid dead for 3 days and rose up in the 3rd day by the spirit of God proving that the sacrifice was accepted. If we choose to believe and accept jesus christ as your lord and savior, your sins will be forgiven and you will rejoice in paradise along side him in heaven.

[@S.Sophia999]

I’m a woman, and loved this talk. So real just what my soul needed. Thank you sir!

[@Microgoon]

This video is exactly what I needed, I’ve been going through an extremely rough patch in my life and this video and talk is something that reminded me of my father that I lost 3 years ago. I haven’t heard a talk like this in some time… thank you.

[@jeffjohnson5609]

My father taught me that one of the most important qualities of a good man is to always say and do what is right without thought for the consequences. Whenever you do that everything works out. He was right!

[@shannesackrider6830]

I love what my family has told me ever since I was little. You have two ears and one mouth, which means you should listen twice as much as you should talk. I love the saying and once I got older and had a little life experience behind it made so much sense. Mr. Dewayne thank you for this video keep it and good job.

[@bhagmeister]

I would and could listen and discuss such topics with Dewayne every Sunday if not every day. A simple, clear, voice of reason amongst the chaos of self-indulgence. Kudos to you for developing such a sense of self-awareness.

[@joshuaewalt486]

"Become a man that leaves a big hole when you leave this world.". That is a heavy statement, and absolutely perfect. Just found your channel this was just what I needed today. I'll be back to catch up on what I've missed. 🇺🇸🤘

[@fl1ghtskool]

You want a big hole when you leave? Why would that be good lol

[@rastaphyllis]

16:34 - "Guard your calmness." What a great quote. In my pursuit of becoming a better man, I've found that I make my worst decisions when I lose my calm- which, of courses, causes me to lose my calm further. Keep your calm, keep a level head, and its easier to make the right decisions. Then, the ball is already rolling! All you gotta do is keep it going!

[@Arjunbelliappa]

My dearest friend shared this video and mins into it I was just hooked. Be a good person Be a dangerous person Be a calm person Be educated Be wise All the traits to leading an effective and meaningful life. Here here. This video really gave me the perspective I needed. Whilst we all have read these things in passing it’s good to be reminded. Thank you so much for these wise words. Absolutely loved this. 🙏🏽🙌🏽❤

[@phamilypharms9336]

Hear hear , no ? Im legit asking cause if im wrong i need to know lol . Respect & Blessings

[@landofthefree1804]

Sir, you would definitely leave a big hole in your audience journey. That calmness you speak about is the knowledge we don’t need to tell others to show how much we’ve learned. Your wisdom is very valuable, very helpful and very much appreciated. I always look for gentlemen like yourself to learn from. I don’t know yet if you are religious, God bless you and your journey.

[@benkennelly1871]

Thank you for taking the time to make these videos. I’m 25 and struggle with feeling lost at times. I admire your wisdom and insight and am working on being a better man each day

[@yankeedogg2212]

I can’t imagine being 25 years old in today’s setting and trying to be a good man. The fact that your here, watching this video is an indication you’re on the right road. Stay strong and never give up. God Bless

[@Muircure]

I am also 25 and seeking peace, calm and clarity in life and have been thrown off for years needing help badly thank you for sharing.

[@kylegreen6545]

If you went on stage and did exactly this I would 100% show up. I don't care how far it would be because I'll fly there. This is therapy!

[@average_chickennugget1483]

As someone who lost their great grandfather to cancer in 2016 I’ve always looked for this kind of man. I’ve always felt super helpless, whenever he passed, he was my rock. And funny when you said it as a young lady who works at Walmart it had me in tears instantly, because it’s the same kind of comfort my tata would give. I miss him so much.

[@heatherdunbar9944]

I agree, would love to hear from mama about raising all those babies in general. We had 6 in 9 years, homeschool, and have horses (along with other farm animals). I'm always wanting to listen to women who have gone before, especially from those who share the same faith ❤️

[@AD-lk9re]

From 18:30 on, it reminded me of what the noble Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said. When a man came to him asking for the best advice, the Prophet ﷺ responded “do not become angry” and repeated it three times. Thank you for your talk Dewayne.

[@mitchrosario1529]

Found this guy lastnight on my KZbin feed and I can definitely say I enjoy your content sir

[@charlescollins8385]

Great Message My Brother! I love it. So encouraging. Thank You for taking the time to share with us. God Bless You.

[@krangster4420]

In my perspective, I'd flip #2 around to be "protect your family". Being dangerous is one element of that. Providing for them is another. Teaching your children to navigate the world protects them when you're not there. Keeping your home safe from danger, thinking about the neighborhood you live in protects them. Providing for their future protects them. Overall being a consistent, present father and husband protects them - protects them from hurt, pain and chaos. Be a physical protector but don't stop there. Thank you sir for your wisdom you share with everyone, young people (and old) appreciate hearing how to lead a good life.

[@ThillerKillerX]

It's a deterant

[@robvernachio8290]

This is outstanding as usual Dewayne. I used to be the super high stress guy, lacked patience, was always agitated & elevated. Now that I work with horses daily I’ve definitely “ found my calm” my wonderful wife of 29 years is so shocked at the man I’ve become

[@Tacdrum]

Regarding being calm: A mentor and friend of mine has a saying regarding antagonistic social interactions with others: “Emotions are contagious; don’t catch the disease.” How often, when someone out there shouts insults at us in anger, do we automatically react the same way, and instead of de-escalating the situation, we let the contagion of anger cause it to escalate more? When someone calls you out angrily, try staying calm and respond in an unexpected peaceful way. Maybe you and the other guy will go home to each of your families that night.

[@kdubs3]

This one really made an impression on me --- still thinking about it a few days after seeing it. The point on calmness is one I've never heard before and it is so true. Living in Los Angeles it's easy to ignore that one but it's such an important part of self-development.

[@TheFirstAmendment]

Sir, these videos are tremendous. It's like having the grandfather, uncle, dad I never had in its own special way. Aside from my Pastor (Spiritual leader). I hold your lessons in high regard and with great contemplation.

[@blackrook1]

Listening to you on this topic is like a well-needed Sunday sermon, without the preaching. Thank you so much!

[@danssily]

"Just like somebody run by hate they cannot see" Be calm means to have a clear view to make a better decision

[@danssily]

That's a Snot song btw. Una joyita 💎

[@scottmcd5885]

You remind me of my grandfather on my mother's side. He passed away several years ago but before he did he would sit down and talk to me about different things. He taught me so much about how to be a decent person and how to respect my animals. Now if you could only teach how to platt bullwhips. Favorite thing he used to say was: "Takes a whole lot more to being a man than standing up to pee"

[@davidfong1565]

Sound wisdom, your granddads favorite saying!

[@TheOriginalMrBadaBing]

Thanks for being honest enough and vulnerable enough to share that you weren't always this calm! It's a growth journey, and some days we do better than other days.

[@AngrySlav-mh7ph]

A bunch of people are like “I’m a Canadian but I STILL found this inspiring” lol. The thing is though if someone is speaking pure wisdom, whether it’s a cowboy or whoever, people universally should find some inspiration from it

[@michaelkeith2116]

A few years ago I had a heart attack. A neighbor, whom I met a few times, stopped by after I returned from the hospital a few days later. He offered to cut my lawn, and was willing to do whatever I needed done. He has been doing this for years. He is a man like you described, calm, knowledgeable, and dangerous. He is my friend and will be till the day I pass. We have breakfast on Saturdays. We talk on the phone, and he and I take rides in the country a lot. Best man I’ve ever met. Oh, he is 30 or so years younger than me. I’ve learned so much from him to make my life better. He’s a good man.

[@matthewiverson9789]

I love listening to your channel and before this video I had so much stress and when i started watching over a year ago and I did exactly this I moved away from my busy life and got back on a ranch moved into the Middle of nowhere got rid of the small town talk and life is so much better iver worked on this ranch about six months now and my bad days havent been bad. No stress relaxing and havent worked a day since I started this ridding job so thank you Dwayne!!!!!!

[@DWizzle0007]

New subscriber. Good job sir. Im hooked on your content. Very Intriguing. I lost my dad in 2015 but I see him much of him in you. I guess that's why I gravitated to channel after stumbling upon one of your cigar videos. The part when you said " your children weren't raised by the you that is today" it hit me hard cause I look back and think how my dad was in his younger days and what he taught me then as far as working with my hands, he was a carpenter and dabbled in everything. He could literally build a house from the foundation up, dig the sewage trenches, run the plumbing line, pour the foundation slab, frame it, roof it, dry wall, he could work on cars etc. etc. He was a little aggressive and hot headed in his youth but as he got older I seen him grow spiritually and became more calm and collected and he was still teaching me things in a different way that I use now as a father. I was lucky to have had him as my dad and raise me to a man as I'm sure your children are lucky to have you and still have you. Salute

[@watntarnation8471]

My fiancé has taught me a many of lessons. The one lesson that has stood out is to not mistake kindness for weakness. I used to be a stick in the mud and now I have grown kinder and my heart is much more open. Always find a way to be kind because you may motivate others to be kind as well.

[@BenKoser]

Sitting here in my college dorm watching this feeling like this made me think more than my classes did today… Would love to hear more from you about music and your tastes!

[@hairypossum1086]

I’m in the exact same boat I’m a freshman and trying to decide if I should hang it up and go back to the factory or stay

[@ThoinFrostaxe]

@@hairypossum1086 Every situation is different, but for me, flunking out of college at 18 was the best thing that could have happened. I hit rock bottom and was forced to build myself up. I've been working in aerospace manufacturing for just over a decade now. It's worked out great for me, by the grace of God, but shop life isn't for everyone. Many shops have solid tuition reimbursement, that might be a good path to look into. Best of luck!

[@ColoradoStreaming]

As for music, Chris Ledoux is one of the best county artists of all time. He lived his songs and had a really great attitude on life. Check out his songs, "The Ride" "Western Skies" and "The Real Thing."

[@Gerii]

I absolutely agree with everything you say in every possible way. Dwayne you can make a grown up man start to get wet eyes. I am not a religious man but when you preach I am one step close to jump up my couch and shout "AMEN!" in the middle of the European night waking my whole family. I don't want you to tell what to come next because I feel not everything you have to say is said so say this first before I make a wish. They say "They don't make men like this these days" so let's become these men we want men to be. Brave, wise, calm, intelligent, dangerous and everything else necessary

[@joshuafoubert8474]

I recently found your page and a lot of what you have said resonated with me very much so! You are very wise and I appreciate your words of encouragement. You give off vibes of the father I never had it’s nice. Your words resonated with me so much that as soon as this video ended my buddy called me and I asked for a job and I got right in there and now I got me something to look forward to when it comes to being a man and taking life by the reigns and not letting emotions control you or others emotions, thoughts! Much love and keep up the great work, as well as God Bless

[@geomod6850]

Wise words sir. Every young man should be lucky to have an example of the kind of man you talk about. I'm still on my journey and have the responsibility of being an example to others. This motivates me to improve daily. Thank you.

[@s.k.g.1974]

Thank you , I need what your teaching, been long time since i heard a good man talk.. I used to be a good man, I let life injury, death, steal that from me... keep it coming...

[@Techn1queX]

As someone about to turn 31, been through a lot... I literally just started my life 1-2 years ago. Thank you for making me feel valid. Such a motivation. Such an example of what a man should be.

[@fab_beatz_87]

I turn 30 this year and I feel the same. Just married looking to buy a house and planning children. Life just started and it's beautiful

[@nunyadeelings8292]

I turn 25 soon and I just woke up a few months ago and now I'm picking up the pieces from when I was asleep. I'm just glad I caught myself before my late 20s/30s.

[@seanfray535]

@@nunyadeelings8292 same brother. I know it’s not too late

[@calebsmith3619]

I agree. Also giving my life to the Lord changed the man inside me. Being the spirtual leader in my home has done miracles for my family. Thanks to God not who I used to be! Thanks for the videos be blessed.

[@Dtobar92]

Amen brother 🙏 same here

[@jojorockzzz1211]

Oh lawdy I love you

[@ThillerKillerX]

God loves evil

[@UchihaNevis]

I just want to say, thank you!❤️ You make a great job, your advices are very helpful. You’re speaking very clearly and calm, that shows that you’re a very strong person. You earned my respect 🫡

[@RonTotman]

Dwayne, you’ve done such a great job of creating a safe, comfortable neutral space for discussion on life’s tough topics. You hold yourself accountable and your insight is respectable and eloquently spoken. Found this channel recently and you’ve got yourself a dedicated subscriber. Thanks for your work!

[@cptntwang]

Even at age 63 these words came at right time for me. Thank you sir.

[@hatfieldmccoy0311]

I am glad I was raised the way I was around the men I was raised with. Grew up in our family holler in Southeastern Kentucky, my mamaw and papaw lived in the family cabin that was built in 1830, didn't have running water but the cleanest people you have ever met. We grew and raised most of what we ate, dad worked for the fire department and worked hard. My papaw was in WWII and Korea, my Uncle worked as a mechanic and was a Marine with two tours in Vietnam, and they all were hard working men, and God fearing, and loving, but you knew if someone crossed their family they would not hesitate to handle business if business poked its head up. They didn't talk about it, but you knew it. I went to the Marines served 12 years and multiple combat deployments as an Infantryman, when I got out on a med sep after being injured, I came home and spent a month at home just kinda being home, I had medically separated so I was in my mind I was disabled. My dad walked in and said when I am starting to work. I am thankful he didn't let me slip. I learned in combat to be truly deadly, is to keep level head, that is how you make wise decisions. Don't get me wrong I was scared to death at times, but I would catch myself, tell myself to take a breath and think, I came home and applied that same thought and everyone is amazed when they find out the things I did in the Marines, they would never guess by my demeanor

[@StephenKing-z6w]

Thank you for a meaningful and timely message. I appreciate your resolve and your calling it like it is. In addition to speaking the Truth in love, we also pray for the Truth to find the hearts and minds that are receptive to it. Prayers for you and your continued dedication to things that are noble, true, and right.

[@TheStrangeStudio]

i have a tough times in my life, and this video keeps me to push on and reconsider my self. respect from Budapest.

[@HC-qc5rp]

This was a really uplifting and helpful video as a young man without a father figure. I feel very lost, confused and ineffective and I’ve been trying to learn how to tighten down and be the best man I can be after making poor decisions for a long time. It’ll be a journey, but like you said, the world needs them now more than ever. Thank you, sir

[@mason1066]

Wish you the best, HC. A lot of us are in this together with you.

[@G_Ozare]

Same here brother. Stay on the course! 👊🏼

[@debbiebjorklund3241]

I need too be completely calm w my husband. It's hard for me, but I try. I'll do better. He agitated me badly. "Be wise" tanx, I needed this confirmation today. It's etch on my heart now. Thnx Dwayne.! God bless

[@KsubiSlatt]

Great video. I think another good practice is simply taking care of the things you own. Even the small things, it teaches you discipline, patience and appreciation. Makes you care for the little things that normally you might gloss over and take for granted in this world where everything is instant.

[@JuanLopez-jk9mu]

Calm is a superpower... Wholesomely agree with everything you say... Looking forward to more content.

[@thenextstepp]

Jordan Peterson is easily my favorite discovery over the past decade. Found him some years ago, about the time he got in the argument up in Canada and ever since I've devoured his videos and books. Well worth the time to check him out.

[@Trahzy]

He's a fraud, the guy preaches about staying away from drugs and alcohol and facing anxiety, yet he's addicted to benzos and calls it a "dependencey". Yet others are addicts, somehow it's different.

[@sprezzatura8755]

@@Trahzy He's not a fraud. He's a human being with flaws like all of us. He overcame a highly stressful period in his life. In the midst of great suffering within his family. He has overcome his addiction. His contribution to mankind is incalculable and will reverberate long after his departure.

[@sprezzatura8755]

@@KingPhilipsRideshare Dr Peterson's guidance is not only exceedingly valuable for males but also females. There is a greater focus on males however, as they have been marginalized in the current social climate.

[@Hoop639]

Why do you think this

[@sadhu7191]

Guys 8ve notice some guys 9nly comment to hate on Jordan peterson, Graham hancock and others that went on Joe rogan They think they are better then them like how people hate Harry potter

[@izeawalker]

Thank you for devoting your time and energy to helping others become better. You're great for this

[@hippiechickie5320]

I just recently moved and this man who lives in the apartment next to me is just simply..kind he asks me" You ok" or How you doin' today & looks at me with concern It threw me at first because it's so rare Kindness is not the norm these days.I don't get any type of creepy vibe from this dude & it's not a romantic thing He's just a good man lol I've never known that

[@heidikingcanales6090]

I love that for you!

[@81kikyo]

You just came on my feed and I am loving your content. Always a fan of someone giving thoughts on life.

[@MegaDiamond1984]

After finally getting the courage up to quit my toxic job, in the quiet time before I start my new job, I found your videos. I've never met you in person, but I'm proud to consider you as a virtual mentor. I've been the guy at "0", and I'm working every day to move towards the +1,2,3,'s. Thank you for this!

[@janelleg597]

We need good men. Blessings ❤❤

[@Notsurewhatsgoingon]

Thank you to the KZbin algorithm for showing me this. Can’t wait to dive into the lessons learned and taught by this man.

[@8014rick]

Man I need more of this in my life. Thanks.

[@erinmuetz8771]

Thank you sir! God bless you. As a mother, I really appreciate you. I share your videos with my son.