One tough conversation with Dad. How would you do?

[@joanb8489]

Hi Dan, your tone with your dad is quite wonderful. You firmly but kindly reassure him that all is well. He trusts you implicitly. And this trust is extremely important when you are so uncertain of what’s going on etc. Your dad reminds me soooooo much of my dad who has passed on. I’m a little displeased that I am unable to comment on some of your other videos because I like them a whole lot. But I understand that KZbin has a reason for this. When I’m with your dad , it’s like visiting with my dad. Your family has my dads features and mannerisms. All of you are very patient with your dad. And this is the way it should be.

[@dsalnorcal1434]

You can always comment on my videos. The fake posters don’t enable comments because people call them out as fake. If comments are off it’s likely a fake account.

[@cdmc965]

​@dsalnorcal1434 one fake has farm after your name.

[@dsalnorcal1434]

@@cdmc965 I know. Lots and lots of fakes out there.

[@emmajane9403]

@@NewZealandallblacks627isn’t it crazy. I mean make your own content instead of stealing our Grandpa 😂😂😂

[@chizynweze4165]

​@@emmajane9403😂😅

[@danamyers995]

Dan, I can assure you that 99% of us would not handle this as well as you. ❤️ My 89 YO mother does not have the kind of dementia as Dr. Ed, but she does tend to repeat herself lots and tell the same stories to me over and over. I used to get frustrated and say things like, “Yes, I know that because you’ve told me 3 times in the last half hour.” After seeing how beautifully and kindly you reply to your dad, I have turned around my behavior. THANKS for improving my relationship with my aging mom.

[@clarekennedy6270]

Aww bless you. One for realising a better way to communicate with your mum. And two for being there for her. It warms me heart to see families that truly care for one and other. Dan is truly a great role model. Wish u and your mum well.

[@veannegilchrist9925]

🥰

[@nannyi6166]

Dan tell your Dad to have a little talk with Jesus Amen❤😍👍🙏tell him Jesus loves U AndI do to👍❤️

[@wengaydom6436]

Same here with my mama when she was still alive same stories over n over again with the same facial reaction n actuations exact words just like u i will tell her "u did told me that several tyms already,but my hubby always reminds me to just listen n he used to tell my mama this "mama what is it?tell me"my hubby was so patient than me,but i love my mama so much n i missed her that was 5yrs ago since she passed away. My advise to u,never get tired listening to ur mom,enjoy every moment while she's still with u❤Godbless

[@sylvialawrence4431]

Yes. When I was in high school, I had to help my mom take care of my maternal grandmother. She lived to 94. Unfortunately, my mom died 2 years after her at only 55.

[@antoniafroehlich9009]

At least he’s not agitated… still calm.. God bless him

[@heatheral-hammadi3046]

Your dad was exceptionally intelligent! Still is! Even with this later stage Alzheimer’s he carries himself with such class. What a wonderful man!

[@kdouces4564]

Yes he does!! What a sweet man ❤

[@spinwaus]

Even intelligent, gracefull people can change completely as a person because of Alzheimer though.

[@BridgeTROLL777]

@@spinwaus yep it can make them aggressive. Its a s.o.b.

[@swift150_67]

It may be very difficult for Dad, but still he believes Dan❤ many stop talking at this stage, but Dan's persistence to engage him in conversation helping Dad to talk and walk❤❤❤ How I miss my Dad❤ if he was alive I would have tried my best to look after like Dan... Thank you Dan for these videos, they are really helping many kids and their Dads ...❤

[@gazzertrn]

He is a legend , a real true gentleman .

[@victornunoo4519]

Dan's patience is incredible, full respect for that. But dad is an amazing father, absolutely devoted to the welfare of his kids. What a dad!!!!

[@someonesprincess3]

👍🏼👍🏼

[@valeriegeorge7535]

Awesome family.❤️. Lots of Love

[@tompiper1480]

Dan, you are a great dad and always respectful to your Dad.

[@WovenPsalm]

YES! Like father, like son.

[@tammyn12345]

Grandpa Ed is so cute! I wish I still have my dad.

[@Hugginsince79]

Your dad has the best manners, and so considerate throughout his confusion. It’s so sweet.

[@osimanmabhachi5047]

😢

[@jeremydeleon3467]

Very true ,he has a lot respect and great manners

[@DrBongiPhD]

Your dad can be persistent and your tone stays calm. You are a great example of love and compassion. Coco is doing her part. Dogs are incredible. 🫶🏾

[@katie0303]

I would probably lose my mind answering the same questions over and over again. Dan, his family and Mark deserve medals.

[@haliec496]

You wouldnt believe me. Compassion grows when you live with this everyday. Its tiring but its worth it to keep them as calm as possible.

[@HahahahahHahajahhahah-tl6pt]

For real Dan deserves a medal

[@karenvaleri5607]

Coco is so awesome and Grandpa remembered Andrew ❤.

[@tyardovdabulldht2340]

Y'all give it up for CoCo!🐕 She knows Grandpa needs protecting!👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@christineramsey5572]

I'm a retired RN who has worked in many long term care settings. You are to be commended for the way you are taking care of your dad. It is not easy. You have the patience of a saint. God bless you for modeling for others how to respond to someone with memory problems.

[@nancydecosta1211]

'amen ' to that !

[@farahtabibi3515]

Gosh!!!! This shows how nice and respectful, and well mannered your dad is even in his time of confusion and memory challenges he doesn’t forget to be respectful, calm, and considerate!!! He is amazing! So much respect to you and your family!

[@iwantmy_sk844]

Absolutely! I second that!

[@earlenesuggs-lm1ib]

Your dad is so sweet ❤ and you are so kind , do you have any videos of your dad before his memory loss ?

[@amaz-ing3376]

Your Dad has a great sense of humour! He can chuckle at himself and he is so good natured. He is so loving. Always asking about others, asking if they are ok, asking if he can help? Wow, just wow!

[@shanlon3213]

Dan your dad would be so proud of the son he raised. You care about him the same way he cares about his family. Not all super heros wear capes!

[@lottatroublemaker6130]

He IS so proud of the son he raised! He is so proud of all his kids!

[@nidzaperez7258]

Dad loves the doggie ❤

[@ehrarico9698]

More patience....God bless you Dan....

[@Alishah786ze]

Very true

[@scooterscooter8469]

That was a tough one Dan. Your dad seems very respectful and kind, like you.

[@user-fz8jn9bh6z]

I love Dad whenever He says “Pardon Me”…

[@talapeanutbutter4250]

Dan, over family went through this with our dad. He had Alzheimer’s for about 10 years but only the last 5 months was very difficult. He was a nice and gentle person except for the 4 months before he died. Then he was like the good person was gone and a totally mean person took his place. We never let it over take us into anger. We did say a lot of prayers. May you keep the dad with the kind and gentle soul until the end of his days.

[@nancykahler4586]

Just imagine, its frustrating for you. Times that by ten for him! God bless his soul ❤

[@cmmuhammad]

My mother passed away of Dementia and Alzheimer's. See your videos warms my heart. It is so hard to handle their questions over and over. You are so calm...gotta love Dad

[@brianboru8858]

What do you mean she passed away of dementia? It doesn’t kill you like cancer or something. Or do you mean she had an accident as a result of it? 🤔

[@nancyadamson286]

Gotta love Dan also. ❤❤🎉

[@bw3903]

Respect. Wish I was as patient with my mom.

[@dawndavis647]

@@bw3903and me with my dad.

[@jackieraulerson2005]

Agreed, it can be exhausting. But when they’re gone, you wish you could hear one more question.

[@timx9661]

Very difficult but he’s in absolutely the best circumstance available to him. What’s disturbing and frightening are the many people suffering from dementia who don’t have kids or whose kids aren’t willing to do what you do.

[@morganwilson8717]

I always say having kids is like playing the lotto...your dad won the lottery ❤wishing you all continuous blessings

[@cynthiaw.3321]

This is the reality of Alzheimer's. I went through almost 10 years of this with my mom. It can be absolute torture for family members providing round-the-clock care (me!). These videos are heart-warming but I also know the stress these types of non-stop questions cause. I couldn't do it again. Family members who only occasionally see the afflicted person and barely contribute have no idea of the stress they're putting on the one doing the daily caregiving (or maybe they do and that's why they don't help much). Hang in there! You're doing great, Dan.

[@enivej6188]

The ones that bearly care of him will anyways be there first to get their part of inheritance ... the irony of life and proof that laws cannot always comply with justice...

[@HowDidIGet3700Subs]

But did you try 0 carb on her? It’s supposed to cure Alzheimer’s

[@ajrwilde14]

I think that's epilepsy.@@HowDidIGet3700Subs

[@iwantmy_sk844]

(I think that's Diabetes.) @@ajrwilde14

[@christinadasilva3940]

I heard and saw a video of a doctor whose husband was very advanced Alzheimer’s and she cured him with coconut oil in his food.

[@Boogledigs]

Your patience is incredible, Dan. No matter how frustrating his repetition is, you cope magnifiently, understanding that for Ed, each repeated saying or question is a new thought for him. Humbling to see.

[@ginnybost49]

This video kinda got to me. 😢 So much confusion in his head, but yet he's always saying " Thank you " .He is such a jewel. Kind and always accepts your word. You're doing such a great job, I know this must be so hard. I just Bless you all. Hope you all enjoyed dinner dinner 😉 🥰

[@shernettbennett-gayle3942]

You know what I LOVE about Dan's dad... despite his memory challenges, he's still so pleasant and can he humerus at times. He's a breath of fresh air... because some folks in his situation have a lot of anger out burst 🙏🏽💖🦋

[@aileenrivera5747]

Dan he looks so sad when you tell him he doesnt have a car anymore, you are an amazing son taking care of him, God bless you.

[@monicadouglas954]

Leave the man alone and let him believe that he still owns a car and works ,and has money,,for his sake ,and have compassion for your father,😢

[@ChuckSchickx]

I'm struck by what a compassionate, loving, and respectful family your father raised. He is reflected so well in your lives. Much love to you all.

[@j.rob.5943]

Dan, you are earning the keys to heaven’s gate. There’s nothing more honorable than caring for your elderly parents. I hope my children do the same for me when it’s time. ❤

[@Knumr]

That's for Jesus to decide

[@latisaclewis342]

What he's doing is great, but from I remember, good deeds aren't what get you into heaven.

[@GSR902]

Come on, guys. Don't pick at J.Rob.5943 for showing a comment with love. He's shining positivity on their good deeds, don't necessarily needs to be literal, like the Bible. ❤

[@lw3443]

​@@yoraray9998ppl are so gullible these days. I sense his frustration with his dad at moments when filming so I'm sure it's some ugliness going on when he's not filming. Dad seems to prefer Mark over Dan as well I've noticed.

[@Annsunshine30]

I really hope my kids will NOT do that for me! I hope they will put me in a home, and have a happy life for themselves!!! What Dan and his family is doing is too hard, but off course admirable!

[@angelkatlife7772]

I bow to your patience Dan.. your a wonderful son... I hope you know that

[@ktm4042]

Driving is usually the last form of independence seniors/elders relinquish. And its devastating. Think about all the independent things we do now- being taken away from us by the body's failures. Going through this with my mom right now. Appreciate you sharing your personal family life!

[@valerie190makhi]

Dan I love your patience with grandpa. I have taken care of hundreds of seniors with Alzheimer’s, dementia or senility. It’s a tough job but you make it look so easy. I love being a caregiver

[@ilonahesseling4821]

Indeed. I worked with people suffering from Korsakoff's amnesic syndrome. I remember a man, who forgot that his wife had died 7 years ago. Every morning I had to tell him that his wife has passed away. And every morning he was broken by that that news....for minutes.

[@griffincontracting]

He honestly DOES make it look easy! We can all learn a bit from Dan's caregiving skills.

[@bathos22]

Which is why it's insane when those who've never walked this road are critical. The toll it must take on caregivers is unimaginable. More so, when the caregivers are loved ones.

[@steve7015]

The lawyer is an expert in relating the crucial information, and the son does it with tremendous care and sensitivity. Like magic.

[@SoulM8dSunshine]

@@ilonahesseling4821that’s why they say that you shouldn’t remind someone that their spouse, etc. has passed away.

[@mamawfrancy]

Dementia that progresses slower is much more 'frustrating & cruel' than the faster progressing kind. My 98 yr old dad 's dementia went from 0 to 60 in less than two years. It was so quick that he never asked any difficult questions and thankfully we never had to answer any. Family members & close friends have died but we didn't have to address their deaths because he never has missed them. Dan, You have my admiration because your patience is truly a virtue.

[@bethsubira6393]

How is he? My dad started showing signs in 2018, right now he can't even make a sentence, he can't walk nor feed himself. Sadly he doesn't remember anyone. I can't stand it, my old man is suffering 😢

[@MegaMegzTX]

​@bethsubira6393 ❤😭 Prayers for you and your family I know it's hard

[@mamawfrancy]

@@bethsubira6393 He's in the last stage & has been completely bedfast for 18 mos... he doesn't remember his life nor beloved deceased wife nor us & he can't feed himself nor articulate anything only making an occasional word salad. His dementia first started right before Covid (he was driving & going to church twice a week until Mar-Apr 2020 but he couldn't balance his checkbook) and it quickly progressed beyond our or his primary dr's understanding. All his life my dad had OCD so this change was very noticeable. Though he doesn't know what he's doing he will occasionally curse at us doing personal hygiene. You are so right they are suffering & it IS hell on earth for them. My dad's lived a good long life & we've strived to keep him out of a nursing home but its hard as we're now in our mid to late 70's. Please don't take this the wrong way but I have told friends 'the more he loses the more it helps me lose him' and I know that won't be long. Sending prayers to you & objectively to everyone that has a loved one going through this.🙏

[@andreamarriott4301]

its really hard to acknowledge someone you look to for strength and protection was now in need of the very same from you. I broke down when I realized what was happening to my dad. So strong, was like a little child needing my help. I am grateful that I was able to but the reverse of roles really broke me. Many times the tears fell. Patience is a virtue which they need. Blessings to all who are willing to stand with their love ones during these challenging times. Take courage you all. It's a blessings to have them in spite of.

[@monicadouglas954]

Dan does not have to address them either ,he chooses to tell his father ,the cold hard truth over and over ,every day ,it makes me cry ,😢to watch this ,,,the dad is so confused.

[@user-we9jw7hv5o]

"I know dang well I drove to the grocery store yesterday." Such a relentless disesase. Bless you all.

[@andreakaradeniz1350]

Dan has got the patience of a saint. I don't think that I could stay so calm when repeating things over and over again.

[@castro7362]

Imagine what happens behind closed doors

[@IAmSuzyQ]

We recently took in a rescue German Shepherd. Shortly after we brought her home we lost 5 close family members, in as many months, and she hasn't left our sides. We tend to break down a different times, and she's always right there to give us the comfort we need. We may have rescued her, but she saved us. 💞 We hit the jackpot of awesome dogs the day we met our sweet Sadie Mae, and we couldn't possibly be more thankful for having her in our lives!

[@cassandradiaz7651]

I know what u mean, soon after I lost my Dad, we got our Husky. Wasn't really looking for a pet, he just came into our lives and has been exactly what my family needed to begin healing. ❤I am sorry for your loss.

[@bettykellogg8922]

Sorry for your loss. Happy you found each other.

[@WindTurbineSyndrome]

Sorry to hear about your loss of beloved family members. Glad you found your furever fur baby.

[@Patti00]

I love hearing that. I train service dogs for mostly Veterans for ptsd , depression , etc . We rescue from high kill shelters , saving a life on both ends of the leash ❤️ thank you for rescuing ❤️

[@Patti00]

I love hearing that. I train service dogs for mostly Veterans for ptsd , depression , etc . We rescue from high kill shelters , saving a life on both ends of the leash ❤️ thank you for rescuing ❤️

[@BossFinale]

These are the hardest ones to watch. The patience from Dan is admirable. Edit: also amazing that Ed is old enough to see his children retire.

[@angieshabraka7194]

Your Dad has such beautiful manners and respect eventhough he's struggling with his mind ❤

[@josephsantos5491]

Dan, I love your patience with your dad..I love how he trusts you so much . I know it is tough but your doing an amazing job from what i see on these videos.

[@adriennelogan9081]

Dan you have my respect and admiration. Handled beautifully and with a gracious level of patience. The redirect finally stuck😊❤

[@moonbeamskies3346]

It's those attorney skills that serve him very well in this circumstance. He knows how to project his voice in a courtroom and how to persuade people.

[@kannitasimpson4911]

It’s got to break Dan heart to see his Dad go through this. He has so much patience and understanding. Dan and Danielle will be truly blessed for this. ❤

[@Sol-Cutta]

Kind of.

[@iwantmy_sk844]

???????? ("will be".)@@Sol-Cutta

[@grace-fc2kf]

Dan, take a bow and another bow. Your love and dedication to your dad touches me deeply. You are teaching many people great things. Blessings!

[@user-Skincare-solutions]

Grandpa ..you now have a butler.a driver .. a cook and a maid enjoy your lovely retirement you deserve all be blessed Ed..you are special

[@mattvaughn3645]

So hard for grandpa to re live every day. So hard for Dan as a son, Danielle as a wife. I think you all give grandpa the fullest dignity and respect possible. 👍🏻❤️hang in

[@ageisanumber]

The family loves, respect grandpa.

[@imarifolami]

Hi Dan! I lost my Father back in April. He had dementia as well. I feel so blessed to have come across your channel a month ago. Your Dad reminds me so much of mine. It’s uncanny. Maybe it’s the times that they grew up in. Their mannerisms and cadence are similar. God bless you and your beautiful family. Tell Grandpa we love him here in Maryland!!! ❤❤❤

[@Chacha355]

It's the times for sure. My dad had dementia too. Passed away at 86. Was ever so polite too. It was that generation. Most were complete and utter gentlemen. Their generation had good values.

[@griffincontracting]

@@Chacha355 Sorry to hear about your dad. Just a note that many healthcare workers would point out that not all patients from that generation were polite/gentlemen/gentleladies. Some are utterly vile. We have to be careful with singular anecdotes and falling victim to the Golden Age Fallacy.

[@terywetherlow7970]

​@@Chacha355The next generation of grown child care givers will be shouting "Mom can you turn that Classic Rock music down"??

[@Chacha355]

@@griffincontracting Many healthcare workers are overworked, treat their patients terrible so can't blame the patients if they step out of character once in a while too

[@griffincontracting]

@@Chacha355 In those isolated instances, sure. However, I reject any suggestion that the misbehavior of healthcare workers (overstated in my opinion) is the SOLE (or even primary) cause of patients who are out of line, horrid, racist, rude, ignorant, non-compliant (with treatment), demanding, or cynical (such as yourself). There are a TON of ignorant people in the world, who are incapable of understanding the nuances of medicine or the specific healthcare issues they are experiencing, and they express their frustrations in anger. Tiny-minds, very upset that THEIR problems aren't being solved by what they perceive as an uncaring doctor. Never mind that they don't comply with treatment. Never mind that they never contributed to research, or gave two-shits about the disease/condition/disorder themselves, before it became a problem for THEM. The medical establishment should drop everything and focus exclusively on THEM. Enough of this vague, generalized, nebulous healthcare-hate.

[@andreasuhr6488]

In all the confusion he is always polite, always says thank you. Very touching.

[@keziahwanjiku6560]

It's the way you keep calling him 'Dad' for me ❤ Absolutely beautiful to the ear!

[@jenniferhoaglin566]

German Shepards are amazing dogs. Great protectors of their Family. Love that she's always near him.🧡😊

[@lydiaadzaajayi7825]

No matter the situation, Dan’s words always calm Granpa. And the way he looks at you Dan, is a search for reassurance and validation that all is well, and you always satisfy him. The love you both share is evident to us all and I can only wish you more grace of strength and vitality with our Granpa. Well done Dan. Many of us are learning from you! Thanks.

[@Mainnoza_23]

I love the fact that he always says thank you after a conversation ❤

[@BlueJeansandJellyBeans]

You are 💯 million times better than I think I could be. God sees your good deeds.❤

[@kathybarnum3970]

Good job Dan! Congrats on staying calm, repeating the What, When Why’s of the same concerns. Your Dad does feel safe, & trusts you. Whew, not an easy job! We’re here, we’re proud of you! ☮️💟☮️💟

[@carolinestone6675]

Dan i know it must be tough on you guys to deal with on a day to day basis but I am happy that this sweet man is living with his family. His independence meant a lot to him and you can see the kind, thoughtfull man /provider he was. ❤

[@chercharliescrafts736]

So great to see such a great son. He’s so cute. Has to be difficult. I love the dog staying by dad!!!

[@bolivarruiz-williams1578]

You're a good son Dan. God bless you, and your father!!

[@summertime6692]

I think by watching your channel I'm preparing myself to deal with my mother. she just started showing signs of dementia and already I'm pulling my hair out. I can only pray to have the patience you have Dan.

[@mariannejohnson6529]

I’d like to recommend a video series called Dementia Caregiver. She is a board certifies geropsychologist named Dr Natali Edmonds. She helped me though much of my time caring for mother and aunt both of whom had dementia. She is knowledgeable, understanding and kind in her videos. I learned so much from her.

[@mssramsunker4820]

Yes, praying to God to give me patience as well. My Mum has been diagnosed with depression and onset of dementia 😞

[@rachelr.n.3563]

I'm so sorry! 😢

[@ashmac1397]

dementia is majorly caused by heavy metals in the brain..we all have them to some degree ..look into a safe gentle detox ..(from my research I'd suggest PBX zeolite detox spray) also research how the right vitamins can make a difference .. don't just take your doctor's opinion on the matter.. .Research everything..

[@kayhansen9229]

When I watch your dad I'm struck by the reoccurring themes. Which are for his family his kids his x wife his brothers and sisters. And the other things that are important in life your wallet your car keys excetera excetera are all the things that we would all be concern to keep track of especially if we had a lifetime of caring for others and being responsible for others. I'm glad you're there to reassure him that all is well and he has done his job. And he is with family.

[@lilahnewton7940]

Darlin Dan, you handled this as well as anyone could. This one brought me to absolute huge crocodile tears 😭.

[@dawnstrohm6982]

I can't imagine what it would be like to have to learn for the first time every day that I don't have a car, a driver's license or a house anymore. To have to relearn every single day where I live, that my brother is now dead, etc. etc. The emotions of it must be so difficult for him and yet he always stays sweet, respectful and tries to be helpful. What an amazing man he is.

[@coffeekay7016]

Good job staying calm and redirecting him. I know it takes a lot of patience and isn't always easy.

[@margaretslater6077]

This was the most heartbreaking episode I've seen. But Dan you did a great job. I agree with others you have a lot of patience and compassion with your Dad.

[@griffincontracting]

Yeah? This one didn't seem nearly as touching as the ones where he's asking about his ex-wife or his brother that passed away years ago...

[@LuvTadnDixie]

The most heartbreaking scene was when he was looking for his brother Bill who died many years ago. He went outside to look for him and was calling for him outside. It was so sad. You can tell it hurt Dan's heart.

[@MelB868]

He's always asking about his car though how is this any different than the rest of them

[@lynnloehr1566]

Even when he's frustrated, he is so polite. Pardon me, please, thank you, excuse me, just old school polite. Got the give his credit for still being reasonable.

[@wenbeck1414]

Sweet Ed ❤. He tried so hard to understand and he obviously trusts you.

[@ginnysack]

My dad was exactly like this! He felt safe and loved, that's what counts.

[@susanharris1285]

Grandpa is so special, I'm glad he has you

[@lindaerker867]

God bless you, Dan ( and Danielle). Andrew is learning through osmosis how to do this. He is experiencing care, devotion, honoring an elder, respect, responsibility, and love ( and much more). You are helping both your father and your son. We are truly the sandwich generation.

[@sonshinestar5572]

Tough moments Dan, but you manage well. I know it’s tough, challenging and at times can be overwhelming, but you handle these times with love, mercy and grace. God bless you and Danielle and the family. I pray for your continued strength.

[@anjeclbarnes]

Tell Doc I said I love him & he did a great job raising you guys. Now, Thank you 4 sharing. This is helping me through my loss of independence. I don't have dementia however I have been asked to surrender my keys due to a RX i'm on. Im only 50ish, so all I heard when they started talking abt my taking my keys was a monotone note.

[@OscarsMama]

No matter how confused he gets, he's still always so polite. This man is a treasure

[@G.G.8GG]

No matter how tough it gets, he still adapts every time and Dan still holds out patiently through every conversation. All those of us who have been through this know what that takes. Bless you.

[@lollipop65]

Absolutely. It's certainly no easy ride. Not only having to listen to the repetitiveness but also to have to watch your loved one deteriorate in such a way. It happened to my mother so I feel for all of you.

[@OkOk-lp5sv]

dan? You don’t understand how much I love you for taking care of this special man you call your dad. I watch all your videos, it’s just so heartwarming. I was showing my dad these videos and it touched him too, I’m Scottish, my dads Irish. This hits home as my dad’s brother got dementia too. Thank you 🙏 💚

[@ldsttt6]

So much love and respect for your dad and for you and your family!!! You dad reminds me of some of the characteristics of Presindent Ronald Reagan. I remember reading some stories about him later in life after he was diagnosed with Alzheimers disease. Your dad's kindness and class shine through. The mighty human spirit is powerful!!! May heaven bless you all!!! ❤

[@gisellechristian4054]

The walks, the animals n the daily recap adds to his stability also with the touch of family's...love. Much love grandpa❤💯🇹🇹.

[@ecb1979]

He must have worried about Mark at one point when you guys were young, even if he never vocalised it. It must be hard for Mark to hear him worry about him so often as well. It's a cruel disease. You guys are doing great ❤

[@kfresne3011]

Mark was in a bad mudslide when he was 19. It took him one year to recuperate - Ed and Joanne were emotionally impacted by it.

[@marymercado5253]

DAN I kinda think that even though you take care of Dad a lot, he really does not know who you are. He just thinks that you just take care of him like a nurse would A very good nurse. Mary from Virginia.😢

[@kfresne3011]

@@marymercado5253 it's clear that Ed knows him a great deal of the time.

[@debbiedunn4477]

Your dad is wonderful! Thank you for sharing him with us all.

[@lisatankersley-po7nk]

That was stressful to watch… Dan, God bless you. You are soooo kind and patient with your dad.

[@stephaniemichele_truecrime]

You handled it perfectly!! ❤

[@ndorikeenyinkeowo7773]

As a nurse who talks to patients family on the phone on regular basis who have family members with dementia /Alzheimer’s who are going through something like this I always asked them to watch this channel and to share with other family members about this disease. Dan and family you all are doing great with grandpa. May God bless you all.

[@melberry7055]

Beautifully handled! Had the same roundabout conversation with my beautiful dad, many times! I used to put large paper arrows on the floor so he knew the way to his room ❤

[@alixcadette5781]

Dan it’s a good thing you talk to him all the time that keeps his memory fresh I’m sure Mark don’t talk to him as much as you God bless you Dan to be patience and keep on talking lol

[@susymanoosy]

You did great Dan ❤

[@dianex1969]

God has blessed you with a loving father and have now given you the talent of patience to deal with your father in his time of need. Dan, you are blessed to have Ed❤

[@biker38297]

He always wants to help. Well when they work all their life they feel lost when they cant work. It make Elders feel better about themselves when they can Help or work. Dan. You handle things well with your Dad. Great job. You will be remember by a lot of people . Hopefully as other people watch your video's they will learn how to treat Mothers and Dads with respect. And to always remember we all are getting older that could be us one day. I sure hope if i ever get that way i will be treated like Dan. Treats His Dad. Thank you Dan. for the video's. Its a good lesson for everybody.

[@clarisseuwase6953]

Your patience with your Dad is so beautiful and exemplary ❤

[@franbeller5897]

I cannot begin to imagine how Ed feels when he is this confused. It is sad to watch. Dan, you have so much strength to deal with it and then to post so we can learn from your family. It means a lot to those of us who are invested in your videos. Thank you for sharing your experience

[@len2mas]

I truly believe Mark is his favorite🤭🤣🤣🤣

[@joyceeskel3145]

You are so patient and kind. My Dad had dementia also but was still the kind wonderful man he had always been. You Dad is so adorable and so very lucky he has you guys to take care of him.

[@karieanderson6876]

Dan you do well, Ed does what his brain lets him, he tries so hard. Ed is a wonderful man and a kind heart and soul 💖

[@flylady043]

The dog is very smart and sweet and knows to watch over grandpa… Sometimes dogs do the same thing with children ❤

[@rohitsaproo9518]

God bless you grandpa ed ❤

[@paulined65]

Thank you for sharing these moments. The good and not so great. My Dad has been showing signs of memory problems confusion & frustration when he can't figure stuff out as easily as he used (turned 80 2 weeks ago) You & Daniela are helping me & my sister prepare for what's to perhaps come. Grandad had vascular dementia, that was tough for my Mum to deal especially as he had to be in a care home, so leaving him everyday after visiting was hard. She's now watching her husband starting a similar path. Thanks for all you do. ❤

[@elviedelarosa5028]

Respect to you, sir for your amazing patience. I am almost 76 and hoping to have someone talk to me the way you do your dad when the time comes.

[@abcdestuvw4234]

Dan, so proud of you. I know this is difficult. (My dad passed almost 8 years ago) God bless you.

[@lindasansone3345]

I would cry . That's what I probably would do 😢 The patience Dan and Danielle have is INCREDIBLE ❤

[@deniseborchardt4491]

I stumbled upon this channel in the wee hours last night/this morning. Dan, I appreciate the love you have for dad. You have a nice speaking voice btw. I adore your dad and how is always making sure that everyone is okay. Dementia is tough so thanks for sharing this journey with us!

[@rwilson7197]

God bless you Dan! Your love and respect for your Dad shines through these conversations. And your Dad's mental condition is amazingly stable, and attitude secure because you and Mark are there with him. He always has a safe harbor to shelter in when he is troubled. And that shelter is YOU & Danielle & Mark, dear Dan. Dad is so blessed!!❤❤❤

[@nisoshahabibzadeh]

No matter how many tricks his memory plays, Grandpa ALWAYS remains a loving father! It really is ingrained in his DNA. Thank you, Dan, for being so patient and loving with him! He really deserves to have the best care there is! And the way you are is definitely thanks to your Mum and Dad! They've done an amazing job! Really exemplary! ❤❤❤❤❤

[@deborahross2101]

You are amazing with how you deal with your dad. I know it's hard but thank all for sharing this 💜

[@Ellen6407]

I appreciate you helping others understand how to handle and speak to those troubled with this horrible illness.

[@rosehill1228]

Oh Dan, I'm so proud of u, ur love for dad, ur patience, ur reassurance...all touch me , brings tears to my eyes how u have learnt how to deal with this ...dad's illness...Praying for urwhole family. DAN, bless ur heart.

[@ruckinehround6965]

Dan your dad would be proud of the son he raised….. product of your upbringing, your parents influence and the way they raised you helped define the person you are. Keep leaning into it, love your channel and the perspective and awareness you bring to this disease. Stay strong.

[@oliviahasahya5583]

Dan. God will bless you for all this.

[@juliestogner2542]

My father is 90 with dementia. We have the same thing with him. It's sad to watch them struggle this way. All we can do is keep reminding them

[@molliemae5555]

What a wonderful family. Thanks for sharing your lives with us. ❤