15 Brutal Truths About Relationships

[@alux]

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[@mgtow6683]

Relationships are overrated. Focus on yourself instead. Build your health, build your mind, acquire education, build your wealth. You will be way better off in the end. #Mgtow

[@RedAndTheCompany567]

Alux.com I applaud you for this.The fact that *you* *even* *had* to make a video on intra and interpersonal communications shows how society needs a reset button due to social media.

[@CastleNoble]

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[@victorc8804]

IG baddies will break your heart and stomp on it but not every IG baddie is the same,and then third is the hot white girl baristas from Starbucks and coffee bean that are GF material.

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[@Keemstr]

15. You will not always like each other 14. Fights are inevitable 13. Your partner will change, and not always in a good way 12. Compromise is not optional 11. The ones who love you the most can hurt you the most 10. Love does not erase temptation 9. You can never know exactly what is going on in your partner's mind 8. You might stay in a bad relationship far too long because it's comfortable 7. All the red flags you initially ignore only become a bigger problem later on 6. Relationships are hard work 5. You cannot be looking to constantly upgrade 4. You will never find the perfect person for you 3. Love isn't enough 2. You cannot rely on a relationship for happiness 1. You will get your heart broken

[@Sandipan_Naskar]

Love your comment

[@bugeye8749]

In a nutshell, not fkng worth it. Only if you’re weak n desperate.

[@1wun1]

You forgot the most important: marriages eventually become sexless.

[@justpushingkeys]

Thanks for saving 10mins of my life from watching this video

[@Alvaro1ization]

I just click to look for this kind of comments lol

[@osse1n]

The most import relationship you can cultivate in life, is with the person you see in the mirror.

[@karenmickens4854]

Truth!

[@alfordromney2672]

werd

[@Whoeverwhateverwhenever]

TRUE. But people are soooo afraid of being alone, so they tolerate all possible crap just to be in a relationship

[@bugeye8749]

No joke.

[@lakkarajushankar]

Brutal truth, man

[@maryt7959]

In this era sadly it’s NOT about relationships but ALL about CASUAL DATING. Thx for this video.

[@matthewarnoldstern]

The most brutal truth about relationships: If you are successful at building a lifelong one, you have to endure watching your loved one get sick and die (or your loved one will have to go through the same for you).

[@CastleNoble]

16- men and women are hardwired differently, emotional vs practical. Don’t question why, just knowing it is the life lesson. 17- everything and everyone gets old. 18- sex is not a sound reason to start or end a relationship. 19- children learn what we do over what we say. (Fighting: loving: cheaters: family: money oriented) 20- life must be lived whether good or bad, gains or loss, opportunity or not ✨✨✨🏀

[@jcobbs4523]

Right. Men are wired as practical, that's why they get emotional when the female he likes doesn't like him back and he claims he's been friend zoned. Because *that* sounds very practical.

[@CastleNoble]

J Cobbs remember men and women have a measure of testosterone and estrogen... but men acting unusually on their emotional estrogen energy are not attractive to women naturally. Friends are useful... that’s why women “use you” when men act in feminine energy or emotionally... like love often makes us do. Undeserving compliments, over doing fixing everything for a woman, sending her a real needy energy, just to make her like you or sex you. “Friend zone” keeps you at a useful distance for her. But...being in the our true natural masculine energy, dominant, carefree, strong, unbothered, not needy... then she becomes intrigued and even sexually attracted. But I digress.

[@Liliwillomsm]

@@jcobbs4523 maybe that's cause he ain't a man and sometimes they might be territorial or maybe they were lied to and the woman just wanted to reject them and didn't want to be friends.

[@amritanshsinghgautam4001]

@@CastleNoble 🙏🙏

[@melexdy]

Our culture has idealized relationships. More and more people think its like a movie, all fuzzy and comfy but boy let me tell you its not..

[@blackflagsofpakistantheeas9109]

Fact

[@kennydawson265]

Spot-on!

[@kerripendragon4888]

It can even be a Nightmare!!!

[@josiev9906]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/qqaXdKOCrtt-bpY (her dating roster signs)

[@bdflatlander]

Absolutely 100% true. It surprises me how some people expect the fairy tale happily ever after love affair portrayed in movies. I realize I’m stating what should be obvious but real life just plain and simple doesn’t work that way.

[@katerinasimpson1100]

The person you love won’t always love you back.

[@jenniferazor9814]

Let's go alux "the ones who loves you the most can hurt you the most!" 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@bdflatlander]

#1 - You will get your heart broken - is definitely true. It happened to me when I was 19 and my first true love - and the first woman I had sex with - dumped me for a pre-med student she met at her new college. I never saw it coming and it devastated me. But, like the video said, the breakup was also very beneficial. A psychiatrist I went to see after the breakup told me that if I married this woman that he wouldn’t be surprised if in 10 years, when I was 29, I was back in his office telling him that I was seriously contemplating having an affair. The psychiatrist was probably right - he told me that especially men who marry their first sexual partner at a young age are very prone to cheating on their wives. He said it also happens to women who marry young but it is far more prevalent in men. Bottom line for me was that I am glad that this first serious romance didn’t work out. I was too young and didn’t have enough experience at life as an adult to be settling down with with my first serious girlfriend that I started dating when I was just 18. I ended up getting married when I was 29 (my wife was 30) and we have been married for 37 years. As far as the pre-med student my first girlfriend dumped me for - he ended up dumping her 4 months later.

[@laxcyn_]

karma hits

[@bdflatlander]

@@laxcyn_ : it happened to her a second time too and under almost exactly the same circumstances when she ended our relationship. I don’t know what it is about karma, but I have seen it happen repeatedly during my lifetime.

[@laxcyn_]

@@bdflatlander I don't even feel bad for her

[@laxcyn_]

@@bdflatlander karma hits for a lifetime 😂

[@LoralLee]

Sometimes the reason we remain in an unhappy relationship is not necessarily about comfort and familiarity, but about the vows we took that said till death do us part. Promises are serious, not something to be tossed away lightly.

[@lamonthamilton667]

This is So true my Faithless wife Never honoured the Vow before God she made. Then ad I later found out she is a Covet Narcissist. These are joyless evil people but my daughter's needed me present then leaving then alone with her.

[@tamerakraft9199]

This is a bit late but here you go. "Do not fall in love with potential" If the person has potential they never act upon it could waste more time that needed.

[@peteradams6798]

My brutal truth about relationships:along with the good, there's always the bad and ugly.

[@-Edwin.55-]

Brutal truths that i would like to add : 1). Wrong Partner has more chances of Betrayal or cheat if stay for long in a relationship . 2). Wrong Partner is not worthy of your time and energy . 3). Wrong Partner should be left before it's too late. 4). Just because you are alone doesn't mean that you need a partner , Get some good friends.....it's all good to go.

[@lamonthamilton667]

Thank You Edwin😢😢.

[@ebonysabbs6084]

I loved this video!! It’s wonderful to hear the truth about relationships because they do come with there ups and downs!! Love you Alux😍👍🏾

[@mgtow6683]

Stay single and become financially independent so that no one can control you but you. #Mgtow

[@hgarcia15]

Yesss

[@j.i.s.l178]

Not when a pervert narcissic target you.... You never see her but she want you.... 😉

[@mahribeneda6462]

Mgtow .I keep telling that to every one ,no body listens to me , if the word love you turn to Fuck you is time to finished the relationship .And the first love is not the last you end up with . Read that in the book and is through .In case if you won’t listen to your self.

[@j.i.s.l178]

@@mahribeneda6462 They're no relation...!!..../ see the differences You never see her/him They're act on your back And With abuse of power: for take your everything but not my smile ! Actualy i chearch a another country to live...simply !

[@mgtow6683]

Leykis101 Rules ALL men should live by: 1. NEVER, EVER date a single mother. 2. Never do what you don't want to do. You make the money, you decide where you are going and what you are doing. 3. Don't ask a women what she wants to do. 4. Never tell a women how much money you make. 5. Don't EVER date co-workers! 6. Never answer the phone on the weekend. 7. Never spend more than 40 bucks on a date. Spend the least on dating. 8. NEVER approach a woman in a club who has her girlfriends with her. 9. If you are not getting laid by the 3rd date, dump her and move on. 10. No spooning, no cuddling, no staying over. Get in, get out! 11. Never be in a committed relationship UNTIL you are 25 or really ready to settle down. "Leykis 101 - learn it. Live it". #Mgtow #Leykis101 #Redpill

[@christophersingh8123]

Now in a relationship, for the first time, so perfect timing!

[@ashleybaltz4584]

#16 your appearance plays a huge role. Yep even though one of the most famous phrases is “never judge a book by it’s cover.” This world does the exact opposite. People will love you for how kind, confident, & generous you are but your appearance is the only way to make someone want to get to know you more.

[@skylancer825]

I feel like Alux should and very much could, create a subscriber community for like minded busniss and entrepreneururial singles to meet and potentially find a partner based on content like that of this video :)

[@jessbragg1]

Even those who do stay with one person their whole lives will, at one point, get their heart broken, NO ONE gets a FREE pass on pain! Thanks alux, this video was delicate enough that I can show it to my teenage son to prepare him.

[@aaronaustrie]

I encourage everyone in my life who is on the verge of beginning a relationship to watch this video

[@alexstraz]

Being single just takes care of all this.

[@mgtow6683]

A grown man wants a grown woman, not a little girl who is looking for a daddy to provide for her.

[@DreForShort]

Long distance does not work if there are no plans to live together or move closer. once the trust is gone the relationship is history

[@heathrunyon4036]

Just stay single

[@adityakashyap7637]

Love is just your DNA trying to make a new body so it can live without you

[@goat7844]

Wow. That maybe true.

[@Cavewars]

Ty Alux I’m so happy y’all posted this ... relationships are affecting my cashflow and solidified my resolve

[@Cavewars]

To stay on my money mission

[@deannabarnes3771]

A relationship is a relationship, it has to be earned. There's too many people using each other, calling themselves being in love.

[@nurarich4945]

The most important thing in life is to find your peace because all relationships are hard.friends,parents,children ,coworkers all hard.

[@walkingthroughdusk]

15. You will not always like each other 14. Fights are inevitable 13. Your partner will change, not always in a good way 12. Compromise is not optional 11. The ones who love you the most can also hurt you the most 10. Love does not erase temptation 9. You can never know exactly what is going on in your partner's mind 8. You might stay in a bad relationship far too long because it's comfortable 7. All the red flags you initially ignore only become a bigger problem later on 6. Relationships are hard work 5. You cannot be looking to constantly upgrade 4. You will never find the perfect person for you 3. Love isn't enough 2. You cannot rely on a relationship for happiness 1. You will get your heart broken Global divorce rate is rising

[@R0bSSBruler]

People will never understand your language at first. Metaphorically, everyone has a different love language. With that alongside individualism, comes a constant level of needed to be taught understanding Appreciate you guys!

[@vishwasbhat3825]

Wow...Motivational Sunday arrived early this time..✌

[@ashleshachirade7057]

Sometimes relationship ends because your significant other suddenly realise that he doesn't love you but just physically attracted by you ..

[@Manuel-gu9ls]

I made my first rejection, this has taught her how relationships actually operate and functions in the logistical and mature approach not everything the man has to deal in gets to pick a movie what we can do for a summer vacation together and whenever do something that makes me happy she wouldn't dare to scorn and shame my preference like growing a beard, what food I eat how I eat because I know my table manners better than most and a lot more....

[@sandeepumeshbabu6052]

I love you Alux for this kinda content. Keep them Rolling! And one more thing: I never miss your Sunday videos. Thanks guys!

[@ralphmanasse3501]

I'm glad that you mention that we can't read minds. Women should always realize and remember that!!!

[@JullianLue]

Number 4 is wrong. I love all his flaws. I don't want him to change. He's imperfectly perfect for me.

[@Oyzatt]

Jullian Lue 😂😂😂😂 is just the beginning

[@JullianLue]

@@Oyzatt it's been 3 years and we argue and disagree and I love it! Not because your relationships end in misery doesn't mean other people's relationship will also

[@brooklynzoo2810]

@@JullianLue So you LOVE ya partner cheating on you🙄😭

[@seanmasuku5119]

Number 3 hit hard. Love alone can never make you happy so dont chain yourself to someone simply because you love them

[@Blackout_1692]

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for one year, and I say we take this relationship one day at a time cuz one day you can be in a relationship the next day you won't.

[@alexdeleon7829]

15 Brutal Truths About Relationships: Notes * You’re guaranteed a partner who w ill suck at times! * You will get into arguments, but you better fucking behave yourself! * They will be a totally different person before you know it; however, this does not always mean anything positive! * There is no way around the C word; dare I say, compromise; sorry not sorry! * Your beloved partner will turn on you at some point! * You’re still going to deal with thoughts of/infidelity! * Science-wise, you’re not a psychic! * Comfort can be dangerous! * Your partners “uh-ohs” will get uglier and uglier the more you try to keep them hidden! * Relationships aren’t always worth the strenuousness! * Quit that upgrading shit! * When somebody wants you to be “perfect”, most of the time, it means they’re bitching you in a passive aggressive way; moreover, if you’re that person then you need to fuck off! * All you need is love? Yeah, that’s total bullshit! * be prepared to grieve; all living things are only mortal; that’s why when you smash mosquito, it dies!

[@RyseMaxwell]

All that matters is that you treat me right. Give me all the things I need that money can't buy... Even if you were broke, My love don't cost a thing. - Jennifer Lopez

[@victorokwudiriobila2490]

Another brutal truth about r/ships nowadays is: "No money, No honey". Money keeps love and r/ships moving...

[@Deedric_Kee]

The last 3 were heavy, I love this video at actually speaks truth. People definitely need to hear this. Good shit 'Alux good shit 👌🎆💯

[@pocketpixel1]

"Love is trash, bitches need cash!"

[@aaronaustrie]

Very informative

[@aristotle736]

# 13.Does your partner really change or does he resort to who he was before you met ? We alter ourselves to gain approval and or validation. Uy our true selves inevitably come up.

[@nxthgbutgemz]

😂😂😂 you guys are bad for putting that as a thumbnail 🤣🤣🤣

[@anonymous_yo_mama6728]

😂

[@DJ-vz2gv]

👌🏾😂😂😂

[@kevinsjournal]

Lol who is that? I genuinely don't know lol

[@righteousrebellious2330]

What is that?

[@lxKronKxl]

Kevin's Journal it’s laina she was a meme a few years back and she has a KZbin channel but doesn’t post anymore

[@gauravkumarjain1537]

Thanks! Somehow this is what I needed...

[@Zeddex2965]

Never ever try to impress anyone. If any of you ever go on a date with someone, go on dates that shows that other person what you like, and who you are as a person. It will let that person know who you really are. Some people would leave you because of this, but this is good because it doesn't wastes your time with someone who was only interested with the false persona. Be yourself, don't let anyone try to force you to become something your not, or to make you something worst. Don't do my mistake. I'm still learning from it.

[@nadirrabah6756]

Luxembourg 85% of marriages end in divorce 😁 "I'm leaving you and I'm taking the Ferraris"

[@VinyZikss]

pretty much lmao

[@santurodrigues9976]

Yes it's true a broken heart teaches u many things.

[@ChombiChu]

why is this so accurate? 😭💔

[@anonymous_yo_mama6728]

It's life.

[@ChombiChu]

Anonymous_yo_mama672 i know coz i’m going through all of this.

[@kunaltrivedi11]

Divorce rates I India is very low only because of harrowing procedure that needs to be followed to get a divorce, plus it's socially not accepted by Indian people, many of them simply abandon their partner instead of getting divorced, family and community members will force you to stay in relationships even when it's very abusive, read violent, most importantly the woman who got divorced is shamed by everyone around here so it avoid these things they avoid divorce

[@introverse8972]

This is I've been waiting for. Hahaha

[@xxchuangtzu6186]

Brutal Truth: We have agency in love. Love is an attitude and a commitment that we choose. I've been married for decades, and long past the early years of infatuation, the commitment is there, regardless of how we feel on any given day.

[@subhashnisarta8040]

Thanks so much for your opinion on relationship, I am very appreciate about it because of my thinking is always welcome here now but in some cases my opposite side think different I am always positive and support in front of me but they always try to make me examine, sometimes other reason like jealousy, and thinking about personally and fear about the people. So thanks so much for your important opinion about relationships.

[@sebastianalvarez1732]

11 is the reason why I'm cold I relationships can't reveal weaknesses

[@widowgirl1254]

These facts are so true it's painful

[@aaronaustrie]

I love the statistics at the end

[@vaibhavtripathi4951]

In India, you are not allowed to divorce by society even if you die out of the relationship (Literary, suicide and murder rates are higher in couples than divorce.)

[@wissamg1656]

Well said thankyou 🙏🙏🙏

[@dianegiovanniello3948]

Hi, about the 15 positives about being in a relationship.

[@jahimuddin2306]

Someone to talk to, sex, tax benefits.

[@rabiabasri6039]

Every word is sooo true.

[@anyamiranda9452]

Watching this from time to time, so I'd feel better about being forever single.

[@aristotle736]

# 7 ( the red flags) is a person's way of telling who he/ she really is. believe them...the first time !!!!.

[@pulltheskymusicgroup4475]

Yesssss!!! Let's do social Alux

[@xaviergarcia3422]

Who is the girl on the cover of this video before you click,? looks familiar! Good video becuse it tells you the reality and not what we expect...

[@alethiasmith4586]

Well said!!!

[@mshahidur]

Very mature and wise.

[@EarningAppReviews]

*Most probably love will be amazing when you reach your financial freedom*

[@liammorningstar4970]

Godd I love alux...so real n genuine

[@samnjihia]

Number 3 brought it home

[@pankajprasoon9610]

Love is not everything for everyone.There are many thing other than love is closer to heart.Just think for yourself.

[@zimyim9856]

I'm in a relationship. I'm literally going through hell on earth.... I shouldn't have gotten into this relationship, now I'm regretting because she doesn't understand me, she doesn't talk to me, she isn't showing interest in me... Moreover, she doesn't like to move even an inch. Want to know my partner's name? Her name is BED. May your relationship grow strength to strength

[@joshuam.haewardl2326]

So good and helpful

[@susancorgi]

soooo true it hurts 👏👏👏

[@thesecret6019]

These two points are the only brutal truths about relationships I can come up with: 1) Your partner will always choose you on the basis of your capabilities to fulfill his/her demands. 2) Love is selfish! Man loves woman so that she can satisfy his thirst for sex. Woman loves man so that he can look after her.

[@AgarwalAnup95]

In India here Divorce feels like crime in Indian culture that's why it's 1 percent 😂😂😂😂😂

[@alexsimmons4693]

Relationships are overrated. Focus on yourself instead. Build your health, build your mind, acquire education, build your wealth. You will be way better off in the end.

[@Astrologygoat]

Love can be way to intoxicateing

[@ajinkya1220]

India has least divorce rate in the world.. WOW, but we are not proud of it. Because, 80% of couples are living together against their will and Indian couples cant take divorce because of cultural and society pressure, they are together not because of love or honesty. In another way i will say Indians may have highest rate of extra marital affairs and unhappy couples.

[@garryrowland]

Jeez..!! You said it was ‘Brutal’ That video is enough to put anyone off having a relationship. I prefer your channel when it’s motivating rather than demoralising.

[@a1nshuman]

Before i say I'm proud Indian I'm accepting that there is the need to uplift the women in our society. many women Live in toxic relationship because they don't have any choice. Now the situation is improving and women are getting educated and understanding the value of healthy relationship. Its not good to take divorce easily but it's important that you love and live happily.

[@vaithym7072]

Hey Alux friend and have a happy Friday 🤨😐

[@faizaankhan2016]

Yeah bro it's true#believe in yourself

[@juarisepah7628]

the video was very useful to me thanks alux

[@S4h4r4s]

Bad relationship: 🤬 Alux: Ain't nobody got time for dat!

[@stefanmolejo4578]

With this it is WOMEN who *end* relationships 90% of the time!

[@floridaboy.californiaman.649]

Very true.

[@walkingthroughdusk]

I agree 100%

[@Blabla-cu8uq]

I always believed relationships were about giving, until I've realized there are many people only willing to take. I've been used so many times, but never again. If the other side isn't willing to give anything after one month of generosity from me (home-cooked meals, expensive wine to celebrate a career milestone, gifts I buy along the way while shopping), it's over. You'll be surprised to find out..... I'M A WOMAN. If you want anything long-term with a woman surprising you with real champagne, take her out to dinner once in a while. Be a gentleman. As for me: I'm grateful for being independent and that I can afford to be generous and kind. None of these men ever forgotten me. They're all trying to contact me and get back at some point, and usually more than once. Unlike me, they will never have what I've already had a long time ago.

[@punerebel]

Make a video on Red Pill Theory, The ratinal Male, The Evolution Of Desire and The Game. Are these true and goes hanh in hand with relationship...

[@mrboss7731]

Dear Alux could you please please make a video on how to schedule/plan my day

[@lisar915r9]

Another brutal truth is that many marriages end due to meddling in laws or money problems. If it's not those two things then the catalyst could be a major traumatic event such as losing a child.

[@S3r53]

I agree with all the points

[@bulu9214]

I wonder from where Alix brings all of these valuable wishdom which are applicable to real life for most part.

[@omaribrahim1982]

True 👌🏾

[@Manuel-gu9ls]

We can't avoid the lovey-dovey fantasy it's always a battlefield with one another

[@kennydawson265]

Pat Benatar!

[@Manuel-gu9ls]

kenny dawson what?

[@kennydawson265]

@@Manuel-gu9lsThe song Love is a Battlefield by Pat Benetar

[@hamryalasad]

When you're in love, you wonders happen; when you get married, you wonder what happened

[@itsthatsem]

Amen to that.

[@redwhites3651]

Why am I here? I’m only 17

[@karenmickens4854]

You won't stay 17 so this is a heads up.