Relationships, Shadow Love, Healing Trauma, Passport Bros, & Marriage with 19 KEYS & STEPHEN SPEAKS

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S3E3 Ft. Stephan Speaks
Featured Guest Bio: Stephan Labossiere, AKA Stephan Speaks, is a certified relationship coach, speaker, and author. From understanding the opposite sex to navigating the paths and avoiding the pitfalls of relationships and self-growth, Stephan’s relationship advice and insight help countless individuals achieve an amazing and authentic life. Dedicated to helping and devoted to keeping it real, Stephan’s straightforward yet compassionate delivery style attracts a varied clientele, including notable celebrities, civic and social organizations, academic institutions, singles, and couples alike, who can and are ready to handle the truth! Stephan has been seen, heard, and chronicled in national and international media outlets, including the Tom Joyner Morning Show, The Examiner, ABC, and Huffington Post Live, to name a few.
This Episode:
This episode goes high level into the conversation of our understanding of fixing the misconceptions of the dynamics of relationships, recognizing styles of attachment, developing a healthy self-view, identifying the root of past trauma and its correlation to our present lives, the importance of honesty and transparency in relationships, and creating strategies to attract and maintain long term relationships.
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19KEYS:
He is a believer in the unlimited human potential, and he aims to help more and more people realize their full potential. His mantra is “slaveship to ownership.” Growing up in Oakland, California as a Muslim of African-American origins, he had to face a lot of difficulties. Many people around him lost their lives due to poverty which motivated him to work harder and secure a better future.
19KEYS is a global thought leader and one of the pioneers in the space of Web 3, business, mindset, holistic wealth, tech , metaphysics and financial literacy; having millions of followers across the globe. 19KEYS is known for his relentless efforts in matters of wealth creation, especially for the youth. One of his initiatives has funded over 5 million student investment accounts.
19KEYS is also the co-founder of initiatives such as The Block World Order (BWO), Goldewater, and Crownz Society. When people think of 19KEYS, they think of a self-taught 21st-century polymath who believes work is the cure to all of our problems.
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00:00 Intro
04:33 No Nonsense
06:11 The State of Healthy Conversations
11:11 Exploring Our Shadow Self
16:33 Connecting to the Real You
17:55 The Baseline of Happiness
20:48 The Arranged Self
29:11 Anti-Love Culture, Rights of Passage, and the Logic of Love
39:33 The Great Customization of Human Beings
43:33 Making Peace with the Pain of Your Past
45:55 Healing the Hurt: No Longer Triggered By Trauma
50:22 Balancing Acts: Principles of the Divine Masculine and Feminine
01:00:33 Going Against Yourself
01:03:11 The Fall From Grace: Removing Hero Expectations
01:12:00 The Multitudinous Styles of Attachment
01:19:11 Promiscuous or Polygamous?
01:33:11 Cohabitation: Shaking Up the Concept of Shacking Up
01:43:55 The Effects of Microwavable Results
01:48:44 For the Love of Love or Fetish?
01:54:33 Settled Love
02:01:40 Innerstanding the Flow of Energy
02:06:44 Passport Bros and the Quest for Love
02:09:11 The Globalization of Love
02:11:33 Putting in Work
02:19:55 Customization vs. Generalization
02:28:44 Spiritual Compatibility
02:33:22 Soul Ties and Shadow Love
02:36:22 A True Reflection of Self
02:46:11 The Power of the Provider
02:54:00 Mind Sex: Reducing Stress to Enhance the Experience
02:58:44 Feminine Flow: The Art of Seduction
03:02:00 Appreciating the Beauty in the Differences

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to have been able to join 19Keys for this high level conversation. I pray everyone finds this video helpful 🙏🏾

[@goddessmaatlove]

Gratitude for sharing your perspective

[@t7cooley420]

If they don't their just not on your level... yet. ☺I really enjoyed this conversation! ❤‍🔥

[@PranaChi369]

Dope indeed✅

[@roxannewilliams8702]

This is deep!

[@MindYourOwn777]

🙏🏽💚

[@thikknikk2289]

Women instinctively become masculine when we realize we’re not being protected. We can’t help it. I hear you guys saying we NEED to be feminine all the time but different circumstances causes a different response 🤷🏽‍♀️.

[@nolaninger3942]

Yeah I noticed this with my woman. After I came into her life and provided that natural masculine energy she’s been able to step all the way into her femininity

[@rl3069]

I agree 100%. The powers that be (see sources like The Willie Lynch Letter and the Leopold from Belgium's letter to the missionaries.) have intentionally reversed the roles of the Black man& Black woman. They have destabilized the people, given them and idol god& sabotaging the original family structure designed by our Creator. The result has been effeminate Black men who are either homosexual (I say this in truth& not to harm anyone) or effeminate Black men who are heterosexual and/or brainwashed+ hypersexualized-want too many Black women but can't take care of self nor them OR doesn't want a Black woman at all and prefers non melanated women because he was not properly taught how to reproduce a 100% replica of himself. Those type of men are incapable of physically and spiritually protecting/providing for our Black women. This has caused Black women to become what they never were to be- masculine, homosexuals/lesbians/butches/ bad mouthing or rebellious towards the Black men, etc. It takes a wise man (husband) and spiritually conscious/awakened Black man to provide for/protect/cover/teach/shape/mold his woman (wife) so that she can righteously submit to her man and comfortably operate in her natural femininity that the Creator embedded in her DNA. When our people overstand this and stop engaging in gender wars our oppressors taught us to highlight, we can improve and rise as a nation of people world wide.

[@camilleandriette]

Agree!

[@mizzneek518]

Yes Sis,my thoughts exactly.

[@Wingedlion111]

This💯

[@TommyBright825]

Love this, I’m 20 yrs old and I want to be good husband and father one day. I want to use my 20s to build the man I know I need to be when that time comes. It’s get hard and lonely sometimes but it will be worth it. This video made feel better about focusing on myself and trying overcome my problems so I don’t put them all on my partner. Thank you guys keep going!!!!

[@thecarloswilliams]

Good job bro. You have a bright future ahead of you

[@TommyBright825]

@Palm Tr33 Goddess 🌴 thank you so much!

[@Sarabimakeda]

Proud of you. I’m glad you can learn from what doesn’t work and focus on building you, knowing yourself so that you’ll know for sure that is right for you in a wife.

[@greaterishe7197]

That's HONORABLE young man 💪

[@Seznumerouno]

Self awareness and self development is so important now. Preparing yourself for a wife. Understanding what your values are and learn and observe.

[@aworlds1]

“Not everyone is entitled to a relationship “ - POWERFUL.

[@uka1100]

Lol wow I literally read this comment soon as Stephen said it 🔥🔥

[@growden100]

So true

[@jazzmineloreal]

A high-level relationship event would be really great!

[@Bunsinbundles]

Being authentic is best. Let a person love you for who you’re.

[@elizabethbutler8641]

Scary thing. Lol. Learning to show ALL my parts...and OWN them.

[@DominicWimbley]

Facts definitely the best recipe for both parties' long run

[@naimahx3643]

My goofy ass thought you said being autistic smh 😂

[@lenasade]

Thank you Keys for always loving on us Black woman! We appreciate you

[@marclewis102]

As a black man we love you to life. Ase’

[@ItsDaz_duh]

The first half of this conversation really made me sad. The realization that we live in such a loveless, transactional world is heartbreaking. It’s hard for those of us who truly live in our heart chakra and view the world from a love centered perspective.

[@MIZJEEZYBLEEZY]

Manifest baby. -there is a man out there that will appreciate you. Be specific and grateful in your heart while visualizing WHO YOU NEED TO BE to attract that man that you desire.

[@purposedpatience6597]

Well said❤️ I overstand 🙏🏽

[@csimmons8436]

Seriously it’s so upsetting

[@TomikaKelly]

Yeah, I got rid of those rose colored glasses in my early 20s. Life has become much less "lovely", but much more productive.

[@isisinreallife3009]

Honestly you should go and listen to PRINCELLA the queen maker, she will really open your eyes 👀

[@Bunsinbundles]

We all have masculine and feminine in us. Embracing both and knowing how to bring them out at the appropriate times is definitely is necessary but sometimes we bring them out at the wrong time and it can come off offensive to your partner. So knowing your partner and accepting both and expressing them at the right times is definitely important.

[@LedePat]

Simple, it's that simple Idk why there needs to be 1000 podcasts about relationships, go where you're appreciated and equally yolked

[@TamikaSmalls]

You are speaking facts and men are loosing their feminine energy and it's causing toxic relationships.

[@judahlion3330]

I want masculine energy to the max

[@MsDeDe]

I agree 👏🏾

[@thekhronichustla1959]

Been married to my husband since 22….. turned 33 this year and we are still doing our thang! We look at social media , look at our children and am FEARFUL of the current brainwash smh !!!! Great conversation

[@global-novelty]

That’s great and I’m happy for y’all. Also i think it is very nice that you shared that with the world. More people need to hear/see more of this type of love & relationships. And Know that it is realistic and could be the norm. Nowadays we see and hear more about the toxic and bad relationships that go wrong.

[@charlesjackson6485]

Bless up

[@ourtruth216]

When he mentioned the suppressed shadow self as a child. It really hit me and completely changed my entire outlook on everything I do. I was extremely physically abused as a child and I had to always pretend I was okay. Always hiding bruises and scars and pretending my body was okay when I was in severe pain. I remember recently saying to myself I kind of lost track of who I was because I’m still pretending to this day. Working a job I hate being around dishonest hatful ppl at work. It makes me shut down and I keep quiet to myself to avoid it, just as I was a child. I couldn’t fight with my mother so I would try my hardest to stay as quiet as I possibly could to avoid it even though it never worked. I guess now I realize that, I get to get comfortable with finding my voice and using it.

[@soldier_of_love]

Learning assertiveness and setting boundaries have helped me with how I show up authentically. Sending many blessings on your journey to rediscovery. 🎉❤

[@jenniferantigua]

This conversation was extremely helpful for me. I am a woman who has had to live in her masculinity, & within this conversation I have realized why I have always attracted men that I eventually felt like I became the "mother" to. Thank you 19 keys & Stephen for doing God's work and bringing awareness to all of us! I am extremely grateful.

[@MsTxDiamonds]

I can relate.

[@iamcalledirenechaliz-lopez]

I totally AGREE...children need at least one parent when they come home from school. I didn't do many "things" because my mother was home until I became an adult!

[@clarkkent2005]

Can you please provide the time stamps to that part of the convo?

[@ass4and8am]

Also on which part that was?

[@janetlsackey]

19 Keys, with respect, please provide the space for your guest to talk more. We get that you are a Thought Leader but please ask them more questions. You legit go on monologues for 3 minutes - 10 minutes

[@tkeycheskincare]

Yesss he's asking a question, and then he answers for the guest. He talked way more than the guest.

[@tkeycheskincare]

​@michellepusey3613😂😂😂he's definitely interviewing himself

[@1trudiva]

Didn’t even let the professional talk much.

[@lulu07Lulu]

Glad someone said it.

[@aprillee2593]

I agree He did this more with Stephen than any other guest because Stephen is not misogynistic but 19 key is. 19 keys has more work to do with the way he views women/relationships/marriages.

[@Qumi222]

I was waiting for a high level relationship conversation, y’all didn’t disappoint 🔥🤝🏾

[@LedePat]

This not it ma'am

[@Qumi222]

@@LedePat that’s your opinion & that’s okay sir

[@DominicWimbley]

top

[@rachellepierre000]

19 Keys, allow the guest to answer and elaborate when you present the guest with a question. It will truly be High Level before you give your point of view.

[@mzbrown6969]

Right because Stephen is way more informed on this topic and I would have rather heard him speak more.

[@evolvinglove7786]

I thought it was just me. Definitely not a strength. Stephen is a great listener.

[@DnewNancy]

That is how I feel with all of these conversations… it’s always Keys monopolizing the conversation

[@daR2daO2daZ]

I thought it was just me I couldn't get through it cause Keys loves hearing himself talk When your guest is the expert Sir You simply can NOT be the expert on errrr single thing You learn when you listen Try It pppplease 🙏🏿

[@herher8769]

Yes! He talks too damn much. " ya understand me" 😂😂😂 Like dude shutup and let the guest speak.

[@flatout1017]

This is deep. My first date with my lady I took her to see Shahrazad Ali. And we also read her book together. It was powerful.

[@TheBohemianFarmHealingRanch]

I am so PROUD to see how ACCOUNTABLE you have become, how MATURE and I am here for it. Thank you for standing up for HEALING. It is good to see you encouraging our black men to accept that MENTAL HEALTH is necessary AND it will only achieve through intentional healing. Seeing a therapist to talk or vent about your issues is not something to be a shame about. It shows that as man you are taking accountability for your part in the BROKENNESS and the failure of our black communities across the earth.

[@MindYourOwn777]

Yes please do create HLC love and dating events where high vibrational singles can meet. Just please make sure that there is an equal amount of men and women so that it's not just mostly women and that the people there genuinely are looking for love and commitment, marriage, etc.

[@priestgirl]

Indeed!!!😊

[@NakedwithNakeda]

How do you suggest we get men to show up? Women appear to show up effortlessly. My guys I have to get creative for them to show up

[@la-leopard-lady]

THIS! As a woman who knows she is a Goddess and is living in a rural, all-vanilla, small town, I don’t know where I will ever meet a highly intelligent, traditional black man who knows he is a God and is in his empowered divine masculine energy. There aren’t even any black men of any kind where I live. I have started going on all-black dating apps and also ‘millionaire’ dating apps, but I have noticed that there are almost no men who are spiritually high level on these apps, even if they are high level in other ways, and that is absolutely a dealbreaker for me. Please start a Black Gods & Goddesses dating app or something.

[@RenaissanceFM]

Stephan, this is the best conversation you’ve ever had! Everything in this video is absolutely true!

[@cynthiajoy3780]

Facts

[@lavenderknight872]

Stephen truly believes in love Keys is just worried about mating

[@pinkclouds8291]

I love how Stephan was able to stand ground on a lot of views that someone less articulate may have just nodded off. Great build!

[@SheriCheri94]

I peeped that as well

[@diffrentmeanings]

I love the mutual respect between the two of them

[@kila0419]

The talk about the poly relationship is so mundane. When you are speaking on relationships on a spiritual level their is no room for more than the divine feminine and the divine masculine. Y’all letting these earthly pleasures fool y’all. So many unhealed and unawakened people giving advice from a wounded place . Never let any relationship be ruled by fear. Only guided by love

[@FirstnameLastname-vi7hm]

This!! When I hear men speak about it I know he’s just not quite where I need him to be

[@shay8782]

Interesting discussion here…This really goes to show just how messy things can get when there’s no standards in place, no character developed, no morals to observe. When left alone to develop our own rules of engagement, it’s not good.

[@EButta71]

I feel so bad because my 2 nieces and 1 nephew-all siblings aren't being taught ANYTHING by their Dad who is a single father because their Mom left years ago and my mom in law passed two years ago who really was their parent. Me and my husband try to intervene but my brother in law is arrogant so we backed off 😢 So sad, we check in on the kids often but their not being exposed to ANYTHING 😢 He's just creating low self esteem adults who will be thirsty from attention from others. We pray over them daily. Sorry just venting.

[@theagaveway.990]

Yup up o U

[@theagaveway.990]

Yyi

[@WannettaMalcolm-lt5fz]

It is so good to hear a man outrightly say he doesn't celebrate Easter or Christmas. I know that 19 Keys has done his research. Absolutely beautiful. Love the principles you stand on.

[@rl3069]

Say it again! Those are not holidays made for us nor our ancestors...

[@Kingme1love]

Already excited for this one! Happy Mother’s Day to all you mommies doing your absolute best, you all are appreciated beyond measures❤🤲🏾💪🏾

[@richbabe7836]

I love you 19! And I know, appreciate and understand that this is a “conversation”.. but I think Stephen maybe had 30% of the conversation. Ijs I would have liked to hear Stephen, you know, land his plane. ❤- with LOVE!! GREAT EPISODE ❤️ Thank you always for your content! I watch every episode!!

[@christy2504]

19KEYS I can't believe you're in your early 30's! Your mindset definitely isn't on the average level of the young men that's your age today. You're definitely high level! I'm so thrilled of all y'all wisdom and knowledge! Your parents must be very proud of you. 😊 Continue to elevate and help many others. Continue to be the leader that you are 🎉❤

[@geminirising633]

This is where it gets REAL GOOD!!!!! These men just helped me heal decades of trauma and pain. 35:14

[@kweensouthernkween334]

Yes

[@bossladyhustles6637]

What I did hear from this convo was the power of friendship and how it’s vital to building a successful relationship.

[@crystallize369]

Hats off to these two gentlemen 🎩🎩👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I really enjoyed this conversation!! It made me analyze myself deeply 🤔💭 thanks for another high level conversation‼️ 💪🏾🧠👑

[@karenvictor2355]

FACTS!!!

[@aritalkstech]

Realistic conversation about relationships that we needed. I'll be rewatching this one as much as possible.

[@cynthiajoy3780]

Me toooo !!!

[@robbin-wt8kr]

19 Keys has done it again. His guest speakers are always the best at the subject matter; and he provides us with something to which most of us would never have access, due to a lack of affordability; which is why the Blk community is falling apart. This was a most excellent broadcast! It was concise, conducive, and comprehensive, i.e., the best how-to guide to successful relationships. I wish that all Blk men, young and old, would take time out to listen to this content as it would greatly improve their understanding of relationships, women, and culture. Perhaps the awakening is really happening and there really is hope for the future; especially for Blk people, as it outlines the two things that have greatly affected the Blk community: the disfunction and disappearance of the Blk family. They say it takes a village to raise a child, but it is worth mentioning that great nations have risen from villages. More importantly, is the understanding that a village is a collection and extension of families. Family is a nation’s most valuable asset, and unity is its strongest fortress; coupled, they protect a nation of people from extinction.

[@brainzbeauty]

Excellent high level conversation! Love how they stayed on the facts where men and women can show up better. Instead of bashing. More men need to hear this way of thinking, honest, true, differing opinions but a shared commonality of what role men play in the whole dynamic of a family/marriage/relationship. Love it!

[@SpeakforGod]

Yes polygamous relationships came from cultures that needed to have more than one woman assigned to a territory where more children were needed to profit the plan we are not in or on the plantation anymore, nor in the times or dispensation where women had to assign their dowry under the trust of their husbands as overseer and executor. It was a set up of more dowry more collaborative profit more wives more children thus a kingdom created. This is what we must understand about history of our ancestors and how some of our communities/kingdoms were established. Yahweh’s plan for one dispensation is not the same for all. Selah, my loves in the Holy Spirit.

[@stoneyhighhigh3677]

*THIS EPISODE CAME RIGHT ON TIME IT REALLY DID SPEAK TO ME ABOUT MY SITUATION*

[@marcuscarter472]

Truth, and 19 Keys always keeps it real and logical. Peace God!!!

[@obailey973]

Stephan Speaks be on it!!!!

[@dobusinesswithkinard9941]

Every African American needs this interview it’s biblical essential to have in your mental tool kit to navigate relationships of all kind family romance friendship associates etc

[@fredadthedisfordelightful9394]

God's and Goddesses both share the message 👍🏾👍🏾

[@obailey973]

Definitely one of thee best conversations of life and relationships I've ever heard but it's two of the GOATs so didn't expect anything less!!💯❤✊🏽🙌🏾💪🏾🙏🏽

[@savvyroses4352]

People attempt to avoid the pain instead of critical view the purpose in the pain-- the release and forward movement !!! And yess the choice is being made by YOU, I, WE. It’s beautiful

[@phoenix_sol_riseup2556]

It is really great to hear men out here doing shadow work.❤

[@aliviaa7480]

These men really understand love on another level. I’m glad to get a listen on the knowledge

[@kamys6133]

That Shadow self is soooo real. Ive always felt like this but didnt know what to call it. This causes so much anxiety also. Its soooo real whew. Just working and paying bills can be so miserable. I have no idea what I should be doing. But this is definitely not it smh!!

[@MikeThaPhilosopher]

Dr. Umar + 19 Keys.. would be fire

[@chiefsire7231]

You brothers hit the nail dead center with this high level convo. This resonates with me 1000%. Salute for bringing this to the table, it shed light on a lot of things we are dealing with. ON MULTIPLE LEVELS. Multi dimensional high level frfr🫡

[@karenvictor2355]

1000%

[@natashaowens4559]

Working as a team . If he’s working to pay the bills, I’m working on saving and investing for our retirement. We can retire early!! That’s a good dynamic to me.

[@blakerussell]

This was the best understanding conversation based on relationships. Congrats 👏 19 keys and Stephen I'm 28 and I love listening to you both. 🎉

[@user-pw3bl1zv4g]

This is the collaboration we needed. I thoroughly enjoyed these men and their intellect!

[@Shibaby]

Great mature conversation. Reason , understanding , non judgmental and non one sided! 👏🏽

[@Thisisbeautyllc]

I would like to see 19keys and Tony Gaskins have a conversation

[@sexyblackcharlery]

Second this

[@meadowsol11]

That would be a great conversation!

[@UrAngelNDisguise]

Yess that’s so true some family can sabotage your relationship out of jealousy and unhealed traumas. Healthy family input is key 🔑

[@dawnbrooks1309]

Another great interview, lots of light bulbs went off while listening! Thanks my brothers!❤

[@Ki-Yemaya]

As far as the fitness aspect and some women not liking physically fit men........ I've never really been superficial in that aspect, so weight and fitness never was a factor. Now, having said that. I'm more in tune with myself and now and realizing that when a man loves himself and has worked and working on himself, he becomes conscious of what he puts in his mind and body. Naturally, that's going to reflect on his physical appearance. He's going to be active, You can't be your healthiest and not be physically active. Walking, jogging, gym, out in nature, playing a sport, something. And when you aren't healing, that can also show internally and externally on your body. For myself, if he's not actively loving himself, he can't love me in the way that I need to be loved. If he's in the gym that inspires me.

[@infinitebarbie9967]

1000 % in agreement. How you love yourself internally mostly reflect outwardly.

[@TomikaKelly]

So, in a few paragraphs, you DO care about a man's physique...?🙃

[@Ki-Yemaya]

@TomikaKelly you'll have yo read it again.

[@deedeeyeo4072]

This was a much needed high-level conversation. Keep it going 🙏🏾

[@trapoutwoedraggworld4422]

When there are both parents MOTHER AND FATHER; You learn Family organization, relationship skills, Unity, and countless other great things. In America, we miss out on these thing's , the home is non existent, fathers in prison or dead. And the way the our society has been going since late 80s the mother isn't there even if she is physically, mentally she out there or vice versa, she like most now on social media all day degrading herself. We must rebuild the STRUCTURE needed to build these kingdoms...

[@blossombrown5408]

That's not always true. When 2 damaged people have kids their issues are now brought onto their kids. 2 parent homes does not always mean stability and safety, especially if 2 people are dealing with their own separate demons. All it does is bring chaos and adults who have issues. Everything always stems from childhood.

[@qscloset]

I love seeing these two have a conversation about relationships… beautiful two of my favorite people on the internet ❤❤❤

The way Keys describe black women 😍😍😍😍 . The fact that we don’t hear BM speak on BW as he did that much is sad, but I agree only healed BM and BW can truly experience and benefit from each other, and see the true beauty within us

[@brooklynnyc]

this is gem on top of Gems. Social & Relational events & clubs is such a great outlet for the Youth and more after 🧡

[@healinginpeace2859]

I love him, he’s really helped me in my relationship just by watching his KZbin videos.

[@HopePryor]

This was a Great Show! So many jewels being dropped! Thank you!🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾

[@justiceSoon24]

We are not robots, and everything isn't transactional. Build healthy individuals, then we will make better decisions and build healthy families.

[@asmeallah2490]

I'm so pleased to hear this informative information. Healing is the utmost wealth to the overall human anatomy. This was a great (E.F.T.)session and collaboration. Embracement on another level of "HIGH-LEVEL CONVERSATIONS." reaching out to the masses who genuinely believe that therapy is only for others, not us. "Deal To Heal" without "Shame Is Claiming Your Pain." Bro Keys❣, this is real F.O.I. "Soldiering" and tuning into self-worthiness. Thank you, Bro. Stephen Speaks❣ for leading and being led into shared reasoning. And always EYL❣

[@nihstmoon3955]

Fellas I was not expecting this ep, This was a collab i didnt know i need to hear together in conversation, i trully learned and gained alot of value from these two in the ep! TRULY APPRICATE THIS! i always watch stephan i Respect 19 keys

[@DominicWimbley]

This was a life changing conversation!

[@ima1flirt]

Bruh these two just broke down everything in what this generation is experiencing, it’s mind blowing the knowledge I just soaked. Now it’s time for me to get my wifey lol

[@ashleyallen9850]

Imagine the world was full of 19Key(s). The world would be chef's kiss.

[@TheBluefairy93]

I'm so happy they're talking!!!!! I love both of them.

[@motts913]

Some folks want traditional roles without doing traditional duties which causes MISALIGNMENT 💯‼️

[@loveblue2422]

Growing up in a Morris household learn about relationship. I am the second generation born in America😊. My family is from United Kingdom. My mother and father. Taught me the rules and regulations in a marriage. My father told me that my mother is the law maker. And my dad said that he was the enforcer I asked my dad why you don't make the laws of the house He said he doesn't run the house your mother do.

[@godsgirl3175]

Can we just clone these two men goodness...we need this breed of men out here for us good women 🙏🏽...🙄 A gal can dream 😊..great discussion and insight Kings!!! Keep up the Light ✨ work!!!?? Gratitude 💪🏾

[@jojofilippa]

This conversation is everything. Bless

[@kaliahmeadows6164]

Definitely a must watch more than once! So many valuable lesson spoken that it’s so many to catch! I had the opportunity to see 19 Keys high level tour in Philadelphia and I left feeling even more enlightened! Everything we must do to achieve success must be high level especially as it relates to relationships! We need a part 2! Lol 😊

[@priestgirl]

My kiddos and I are thrilled to be here 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 listening. Faith come by hearing and hearing by the Word of God!! We love you😊

[@backtolove]

19 always brings the best people

[@jessicaevoundou5936]

Powerful conversation, exactly what we needed to hear 🔥🔥🔥

[@MerkabaChild]

I needed this conversation so bad. That part of finding one self really hit home because i just ended a 20 year realtionship with a great woman, I did everything to ruin the relationship which on paper makes no sense but the truth was i never accept my true self. i am now in progress of finding my shadow self and embrace it.

[@BodyRibbonz]

With a great woman* not women. Women is plural

[@MerkabaChild]

@@BodyRibbonz typo thx 🙏🏾

[@memp9786]

Seeing Keys interview Stephan is beautiful! While both men are (to my little bit of knowledge) single/ unmarried, they are doing all the right self-work to show up as the best version of themselves when it’s time to chose a wife/ life partner. It is SUPER important to use single seasons to do the SELF work & focus on the things that need improvement, while sharpening the skills that are already good. The self love, self restraint, and self respect (as well as high respect for [black] women) says sooo much about these men… they deserve ALL the great things coming to them in the future, including an ideal partner! Beautiful convo, as always!! Keys is that dude, idc who says what 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@karenvictor2355]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Keeping this in my library to watch again at a later date

[@godlotusnyree_yoga9018]

RELATIONSHIP GUIDANCE IS KEY AS STEPHAN SPEAKS❤

[@makena9308]

This was by far my favorite high level conversation👏🏽👏🏽 this collab was much needed and this video can be so eye opening and beneficial… for both men and women and understanding and accepting the relationship dynamics. Such great insight

[@kila0419]

All respect to Stephen Speaks.

[@rockstartonyx]

The guest was spitting bars!

[@quentellawinborne6360]

Yessssssssss ! I’m so happy to be listening to this

[@obailey973]

I'm sooooooo grateful for this. I'm trying so hard to do better and this has given me so many starting points. Definitely God sent!!

[@adorajoys]

U

[@rosbeyond6970]

My Brother 19keys appreciate having Stephan Speaks on the show. It's like 2 Gods conversating on the betterment of the human race.

[@MrsBrittanyGold]

I so much appreciate the intelligence of Stephan Speaks has and the value he brought to this conversation.

[@kellykelly6692]

I have such a tremendous respect for @MeetStephanSpeaks. He is objective and honest in his thought processes and very intentional in his wording.

[@OfficialMNIB]

- 25:36+ . . . Brother verbalised my life observations as a child of parents who were arranged in marriage - 💯

[@reneehenry1135]

Thank you🎉 I'm sharing this video with my 18 y.o. son❤

[@theawakeningofjascdy]

This is the about THE MOST balanced conversation i ever heard in my life between two Alpha Males in my mofo in life! Salute to you brothers!!

[@kalisha5329]

When you started to discuss the different roles and the importance of understanding them within the family, I almost fell out.😂 I have a deep passion for raising awareness around this topic. It is so important that we understand our roles within the family in order for the family to thrive and maintain. Every role is necessary. Thank you for speaking on this. I feel affirmed 😊

[@deesolutionist1606]

These High Level Conversations are so captivating! If a guy (i.e. my boyfriend or potential boyfriend) gave me a ticket to a 19 Keys event, it would please me to know that he and 19 Keys have things in common, he resonates with 19 Keys, etc. To me, that's a good thing. #POSITIVITY

[@Kemosabe_International]

Wonderful healthy and mature conversation! Thanks Stephan for the conversation on provider and independent women near the end. You really have a strong understanding. I hope others will gain understanding from you. "Kama Sutra" is my one of favorite movie of all time. 🙂

[@atlsongbyrd6084]

😢 The lady that chose the social work over the ARTS reminds me of myself. I tell my daughter not to hide parts of herself from her boyfriend because he’s eventually gonna find out who she is.

[@haroldjohnson4934]

The women who never had men protect them (fathers uncles) are the most masculine.

[@susieblanco2722]

I was 10 sewing clothes , making cds & dvds, and taught myself to braid by 11… at 13 I wanted to be a model … but deep down I always wanted my own busuness… fast forward it took covid & me losing my job for me to get back to my roots.. now 3 years later & 3 millions later .. I have my own business & 100% OWN brand all from flipping my rent money

[@loveistheanswer5275]

19Keys❤ this was your best interview ever. I really loved your push ups with the flames and sound effects. I could feel the power and the energy with each push up. My take away was you have to have a spiritual connection. It is better to bond spiritually first to put your hooks into each other, so that if any conflict presents itself physically between you both you are not easily moved by it. You feel me…❤️🙏🏽👊🏽

[@f.conseillant4407]

Heard this was coming. So excited it's here. Can't wait to watch and listen... I'll be back with my thoughts.